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It's the end of the year. In a rare moment, Mistress Alisa decides to become a bit more personal about her own journey, in an attempt to help listeners embrace life, as opposed to being stuck in the past. One of the biggest struggles for sex addicts is running from the things that haunt them. Mistress Alisa talks about making choices that present more opportunities to live life to the fullest and that increases one's chances of finding true fulfillment.
Mistress Alisa talks to sex addicts about the difference between wanting change in their lives and wanting to actually do the work to affect change in their lives. This is more real talk for those who are on the journey to sex addiction recovery. If you feel stuck on your journey, then this might be just the message that you need to hear.
Mistress Alisa challenges a deceptive mindset that prevents many men from embracing a healthy way of life that could ultimately lead to better relationships and significantly better sex lives. Listen up, guys!If you find yourself constantly in trouble, constantly behaving in an inappropriate manner (and trying to cover those things up), constantly doing things that have an immediate payoff, but that do not offer much fulfillment in the long-run, this episode is for you.
NOTE: This episode is not for the faint of heart. Mistress Alisa digs deep and issues a heart-felt warning to those who make light of sex addiction. After years of having clients and potential clients play games with their lives, Mistress Alisa has decided to shine a light on the issue, in hopes that this important message will help someone who needs to hear it. Again, the overall tone of this episode is considerably heavier than what most listeners may be accustomed to.
In part two of this 2-part series, Mistress Alisa builds on part one and moves forward with teaching men how to take the next step in achieving a more gratifying sex life with their partners. This segment contains graphic adult content and is not appropriate for those under the age of 21.
In part one of this 2-part series, Mistress Alisa teaches men how to understand the needs of their female partners. The overall goal is to help men have better sex lives with their partners. However, the way to that goal is through connecting on a deeper level with one's female partner, first.
Mistress Alisa gives an overview of what it looks like for a submissive man to follow a Dominant Female, in a healthy, loving, and productive relationship.
Mistress Alisa revisits a familiar topic and helps listeners to push ahead with clarity and focus. She speaks directly into the life of the listener on sensitive topics and helps them to identify areas in their lives that may be holding them back. If you are tired of being stuck, and you are ready for change, this podcast is for you!
Mistress Alisa addresses the ramifications of men embracing "the victim card" in order to avoid accepting responsibility for their own actions. She talks about what playing the victim card looks like and how doing so can negatively impact one's life and relationships.
Men cheat for many reasons. Actually, both men and women cheat for many reasons. However, Mistress Alisa's speciality is in working with men. And, in this program, she takes a direct approacch to addressing many of the issues that men face while trying to heal broken relationships, due to infidelity.The steps provided in this segment are sure to yield results for those who follow the advice. Though the work will not be easy, it will absolutely be worth the effort for most men who chose to follow these steps. Let the work begin!For more information: www.AlisaCoaches.com
What goes on in the mind of a submissive male? Mistress Alisa is the "submissive whisperer" and She can crack the code. In this podcast, She points out 5 struggles that submissive men face in the lifestyle and in life, in general. She gives tips for working through these challenges and for coming out on the other side of them. This podcast is also great for women who may see that their male partners are struggling, but they do not seem to be able to put their finger on what the problem could be. This is a must-listen for submissive men in the lifestyle, as well as for women with less alpha partners.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Young men are being attracted to the lure of addiction at younger and younger ages these days. The impact that can have on a 20-year-old is massive. By the time the young man understands that he is addicted, every aspect of his life has been impacted by his obsession with p--o--r--nography. Mistress Alisa weighs-in on the issue.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
On a daily basis, sex addicts face extremely negative feelings like: judgment, guilt, shame, embarrassment, self-doubt, and even self-hatred. They wonder how to break free from addiction in order to be the people they have always wanted to be, and in order to live the lives that they have always wanted to live. When faced with all the unhealthy behaviors that they seem absolutely obsessed with, it can be overwhelming to even think about how it could be possible to live a full and rewarding life. It can also be quite challenging for the addict to even feel deserving of such a life.Mistress Alisa to the rescue!Not only is the sex addict worthy of living a beautiful life, but he is also capable of doing so. If you struggle with addiction, or have ever done so, this segment is for you.Be warned, though. This segment is straight-forward and hard-hitting. It is NOT for the weak of heart. This segment is for the individual who is ready to do the hard work that it takes to break free from addictive cycles.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Mistress Alisa receives several messages of inquiry from men who identify as Dominant. In this segment, she explains why she has, thus far, refused to work with such individuals. This is the story of Mistress Alisa and the "dominant" male who inspired this segment. It is also an invitation for any truly Dominant males in the lifestyle to reach out to Mistress Alisa. She would love to hear from you!For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
This podcast was inspired by yet another real-life situation. Mistress Alisa talks about the patterns that a specific client has found himself in for over 2 decades. She uses this case study to help shine a light on the decisions and behaviors that keep people going in cycles that they claim they want to break out of. If you find yourself in the midst of tumultuous relationship cycles, there is going to be a common denominator: you. Mistress Alisa helps talks about breaking dysfunctional cycles so that you can live the life that you want for yourself.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
In this segment, Mistress Alisa helps addicts to understand what to expect from counselors, as well as what addicts need to be able to expect from themselves. Addicts are required to work for their own freedom. The truth is that no one can "fix" you. This is your journey and others can support you, at best. But there is no one who can "fix" you or take all of your problems away. Consider the amount of time that you invested in getting yourself into a precarious situation. Now, expect to have to work even harder to get yourself out of that same situation. No one can fix or heal an addict. That responsibility is his own. The best anyone else can do is support the addict; hold him accountable; hold up the mirror; require honest interactions. But the fixing - or the healing - of the addict is up to the addict, himself.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
There are so many definitions of what a Dominatrix is and is not. Mistress Alisa challenges the status quo and introduces personal insights into what a healthy version of a Domme looks like. Mistress Alisa has made a name for herself in BDSM as a Dominatrix who helps Her clients to peace in the lifestyle. Her clients embrace and live their personal truths. Being a Dominatrix does not give one a license to be an immoral person. Being a Dominatrix is an honor and it requires a great deal of responsibility.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
The importance of "letting go" cannot be underestimated - both in life and in BDSM. Mistress Alisa explains what it means to let go, and for the first time She publicly recounts a precautionary tale of what happened when She was in a relationship with a wolf in sub's clothing. She explains how in letting go, She was able to find Her truth and move deeper into Her own destiny - which just happened to include creating her own brand of BDSM. Mistress Alisa warns that if you are so preoccupied with running and/or holding onto things from the past that you are not able to live your truth, and you are absolutely creating problems and not solutions for yourself. This will be an important message for those who find themselves stuck. If you would like to move forward, once and for all, then learning to let go is paramount.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Sex addicts as well as those who love them are oftentimes overwhelmed by the challenges that face addicts on the journey to recovery. It can be difficult to know what is going on in the mind of a sex addict, especially when he has become so accustomed to checking out mentally and emotionally that he, himself, is not fully aware of where he is on his journey. Understanding what to expect as an addict can go a long way to helping you to be better prepared for the journey ahead. What are the challenges that face you? How can you face these challenges and work through them more effectively? Mistress Alisa is here to help answer these questions.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
If you struggle with , sex, or masturbation addictions, you may have considered getting counseling. This podcast will help you to know if you are, in fact, ready for that counseling. What does it take to receive support for addictions of a sexual nature? What frame of mind should one be in to receive said support? Though an unlicensed professional, Mistress Alisa is a leading expert in the field of BDSM Counseling. For those who are interested in seeking support for addictions of a sexual nature, this is what she has to say on the subject.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Have you ever thought about what constitutes a submissive male? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online submissive males. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected individual is or is not a true submissive male (sub). Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what they may be doing incorrectly in their profiles and what may be preventing them from successfully connecting with true Dommes. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
This podcast is inspired by an instagram post that acknowledges the power of receiving a good orgasm, but that also places value in such things as receiving emotional support, and on receiving support for one's personal growth and development. Mistress Alisa talks about having a holistic approach to BDSM, when there is such an overwhelming focus on the act of "getting off." This podcast is for those who understand that there is so much more to the lifestyle.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Do you know how to choose a good Dominatrix to serve? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online Dominatrices. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected Domme is or is not a true Dominatrix. Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what to look for when they are looking for a true Domme to serve. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
During this brief podcast, Mistress Alisa issues a much-needed public service announcement to the BDSM community, and to those who may be interested in becoming involved. Drawing from a recent encounter with a potential submissive, Mistress Alisa briefly touches on the toxi situation that the client created and what her take on the situation was. The topic is: Professional Help.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Mistress Alisa and I are back for Part 2 of the "Help! I'm Kinky!" episode. We'll be discussing labels, being a switch, respect in BDSM, and Christian Grey.
Part 1 of 2-part episode on kink, relationships, navigating being a kinky/vanilla couple, some blabbering and crazy experiences from Sara (of course,) and just an all around pleasant time. I love having these chats with Mistress Alisa from The Heart & Soul Podcast. It's an incredible experience and an honor to get to pick her brain about some of my favorite kink-related topics. This week we talk about what to do when your partner is vanilla, but you're not.
FrankS joins Mistress Alisa in an open talk about the implications of depression on sexual addiction. Tune in to hear this true submissive speak about finding himself obsessed with kink, and the methods that he is using to walk into a healthier space. Mentally, emotionally, physically, and sexually, he is healing and he has some insights to share that will absolutely help others on their journey. If you are struggling with sex, , or masturbation addiction, this is an interview that you need to hear.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
MarkX has been a BDSM Counseling client of Mistress Alisa's for close to a year and a half. Mistress Alisa and Mark begin this interview in the middle of a "heated" discussion in which Mark's ability to trust and to truly submit are called into question. Moving forward in the interview, Mark discusses the issues that he experienced with addiction and depression which lead him to contact Mistress Alisa, initially. This is a candid dialogue about the issues that commonly face sex, , and masturbation addicts. Listen to this interviewee tell his story of doing the emotional work necessary to regain control of his life. You will be inspired.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
BrianR has been in submissive training with Mistress Alisa for just a little bit under a month. However, his progress has been impressive. So impressive, in fact, that Mistress Alisa decided to have him on the show to share intimate details about his journey, thus far. During this interview, Brian has been teased and denied, on and off, over the course of the past seven days. Mid-way through the interview, Brian was also subjected to another tease and denial session (off the air), before being required to complete the interview. Listen and be amused with this little submissive. You will see evidence of how well he has been trained in just a matter of weeks. (Note: Brian's voice has been altered in order to maintain his anonymity.)For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
In her very first "story time segment," Mistress Alisa shares details of how one of her clients threw away months of hard work, all because he assigned too high of a value to a blowjob. Learning to create a safe place in which you and your partner are able to flourish together is tricky enough as it is. But when one's sexual mindset has been conditioned by years and years of extreme kink, desensitization to the needs of one's partner is bound to become a real issue. Here is "Steve's" story.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
SamS has been on a year-long BDSM journey with Mistress Alisa - a journey in which She is the Dominant female who directs his path and one in which he is the submissive male who learns to submit. He opens up about the ups and downs of his relationship with Her during that time. Sam speaks frankly about his feelings and the lessons that he has learned. He also shares some of the mistakes that he has made along the way. This is a very open conversation about matters of a sexual nature and will not be appropriate for those who are opposed to such topics. (Note: Sam's voice has been distorted in order to maintain his anonymity.)For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
The BDSM lifestyle can be quite compelling, and yet it can also be pretty intimidating. It can be harmful and yet it can be fulfilling. It can stunt one's emotional and sexual self, and yet it can free those very same parts of a person.Mistress Alisa gives an overview of 5 things to do before becoming involved in the lifestyle. Whether you are interested in becoming involved in the lifestyle or are already an active member, this list will empower you to be pro-active in making choices that will lead to a more fulfilling experience. So, do yourself a favor - before your first session, or before your next session, take a few minutes and listen to this podcast.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Mistress Alisa explores the differences between submission and co-dependency. It is not uncommon in the BDSM lifestyle to run across individuals who try to sell co-dependency as submission. It is a problematic practice, at least. And, in most extreme cases, it can actually be dangerous. In this episode of Heart and Soul, she offers sound advice to, both, submissives and Dominants about the perils of co-dependency within the context of BDSM.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
Mistress Alisa, a professional Dominatrix and BDSM Counselor comes to the rescue. This is an introduction to the radio show that will answer your burning questions about BDSM, and revolutionize the way that people see BDSM, addiction, and relationships.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com
This week on the show, Sara chats to Mistress Alisa from the Heart & Soul podcast about the importance of self-awareness and how BDSM counseling can help those with financial domination, masturbation, and sex addiction.
The pitfalls of are almost too numerous to count, but Mistress Alisa lays out some of the most detrimental of them all. She also includes some helpful advice for finding your light at the end of the tunnel.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com