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The podcast that holds space for the best and worst parts of being in your 20s. Hosted by Lauren & Nthabiseng, two friends-turned-sisters in their early 20s who think the internet needs more honesty about how messy and confusing coming-of-age can be. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lauren Hamilton & Nthabiseng Cooper


    • Apr 30, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 42m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Cry About It

    Inner Child Healing for Dummies

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 70:06


    We're unpacking the experiences that shaped our inner child, how we're healing her, and how we're bringing our inner child joy as adults.Further ReadingTEDx Gloria Zhang | How Healing Your Inner Child Can Transform Your RelationshipsTime, Why Is Everyone Working on Their Inner Child? by Angela HauptSelf, How to Reparent Your Inner Child by Carol L. DoddLeave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Do A Career 180 with Onose Ijewere

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 46:08


    We talk with creative entrepreneur and content creator Onose Ijewere (@highvibebyonose) about how to handle a career shift, trusting your intuition through big transitions, and get a sneak peak into the being a content creator. LinksOnose's NewsletterFollow Onose on Instagram and TikTokOnose's WebsiteThe Odyssey PlanWhat Now? with Trevor NoahWeight For ItLeave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Permission To Crash Out: Denied

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 61:58


    We chat about navigating intense emotions, avoiding the "crash out" and the power of positive self-talk.Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Outro music is Little Homies by Vince Staples. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Flights, Fears & Finding Yourself with Stephanie Yeboah

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 58:53


    We talk with Stephanie Yeboah about her solo-travel adventures, how exploring grew her self-confidence, and tricks to solo-travel safely. LinksFollow Stephanie on Instagram and TikTok Stephanie's Website Pre-order Stephanie's Book, “Chaotic Energy” ****Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Dating Dilemma: Situationships, Sex & Soulmates

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 66:31


    We're answering spicy questions from our Crybabies on all things dating, situationships, and sex.Dating Coach Anwar on InstagramDating Intentionally Podcast, "Ask A Sex Educator"Books MentionedBe Not Afraid of Love, Mimi ZhuEverything I Know About Love, Dolly AldertonAll About Love, bells hooksLeave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Adulthood Is In Its Flop Era

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 53:33


    We chat about the tough transition from college to adulthood and how tapping into community can make all the difference.Further ReadingSteven Mintz, “The Tangled Transition to Adulthood”Reddit thread on the transition from college to adulthood The Whitney Museum, Edges of Ailey ExhibitionLeave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    To Drink or Not To Drink?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 43:55


    Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx.Further ReadingTime, “Why Gen Z Is Drinking Less”The Hill, “Why is Gen Z drinking less?”Ianthe Humphries “AT THIS POINT...am I in a toxic relationship?” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Victory Lap: Toasting 2024's Best Moments

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 29:12


    We talk about our Crybabies' proudest moments, reflect on 2024, and set intentions for 2025. Happy New Year! Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Water the Flowers, Pray for a Garden

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 44:36


    Lauren turns 24! We're diving into the lessons 23 brought and what she's manifesting for the year ahead.Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx.Listen to Valley's album Water the Flowers, Pray for a Garden Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    More Than Hair: Self-Image, Style, and Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 48:06


    We talk about our growing relationship with our hair, society's pressures on our self-image, and developing confidence as we've navigated our hair journey.Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    A Year Without Rain

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 43:11


    We talk about our takeaways from our periods of abstinence, navigating loneliness while maintaining high standards, detaching shame from sex, and we hear from you about your journeys with abstinence.Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    P.S. Your Friends Don't Hate You: Overcoming Female Friendship Struggles with Danielle Bayard Jackson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 31:08


    We talk about how to solve common female friendship conflicts, navigating transition periods in friendships, grieving old friends and how to support your friends through tough times.More about Danielle Bayard JacksonWhere to buy Danielle's bookListen to Danielle's podcast, Friend ForwardFollow Danielle on Instagram and TikTokLeave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    You Betta Work, B*tch!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 40:39


    We talk about transitioning from the career ladder to wider career net, our thoughts on freelance and what Nthabiseng is taking away from this season of her career. Leave us a voicemail and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Embracing the Uncertainty of Your 20s with Meg Jay, PhD

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 41:23


    We talk about the uncertainty of your 20s, balancing self-improvement with self-acceptance, and debunking therapy as the best solution. Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Category Is Body

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 32:00


    We discuss navigating misguided body image, what fitness means to us, and how to build a healthy relationship with our bodies.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Crying On Your Birthday

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 23:37


    We talk about the stress leading up to birthdays, managing your expectations and learning to value simplicity with age.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Love Island-ification of Modern Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 73:52


    We're diving into the latest season of Love Island USA (Season 6), exploring how reality TV dating shows have impacted dating for better and worse.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Book Recs, Insecurities, & Posting Your Partner: Ask Us Anything!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 42:59


    We answer your questions and voicemails about our favorite books, finding our own style despite insecurities and the role social media plays in our relationships.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Intimacy Declassified

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 46:39


    Today we chat about the 10 types of intimacy, what makes conflict healthy, and disentangling sex and physical intimacy in romantic relationships.Mentioned Articles"Intimacy: The Art of Relationships" (Psychology Today)"Types of Intimacy" (Choosing Therapy)"What's the Difference Between Intimacy and Romance?" (Balance Wellness Collective) Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrix. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Suffering Solo? You Probably Need a Hobby

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 42:22


    We're talking about creating a community outside of work and school, overcoming the fear of "putting yourself out there," and balancing hobbies and full-time work.ResourcesInstagram @coloredgirlslab@shemvevents@we_bewalkinTikTok @heynewfriendsllc @peacenthewild@_asipoftee_ @onoseijWebsite District Running CollectiveBlack Girls in Art SpacesLeave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Un-Break My Heart: Healing From Breakups

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024 51:01


    We chat about dealing with heartbreak, knowing when it's the right time to let go, and our different ways of healing.“Release” by Grace PotterLeave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What Does "Decentering Men" Even Mean?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 45:35


    We're talking about the meaning/historical roots behind decentering men, interrogating our own internalized misogyny, and why decentering men isn't just for straight women.References:Full TikTok video by @simimoonlightCompulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence (1980) by Adrienne Rich“Decenter Men. They're ruining your friendships.” by Leilani Fu'QuaReddit: What Does Decentering Men Look Like For You?Reddit: What Does Decentering Men Look Like In Your Life?Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Ins and Outs of Adult Friendship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 38:20


    We talk about our friendship cheat codes, dealing with friendship disappointments, and deepening the intimacy among friends.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Side Hustling (Probably) Won't Save You

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 28:32


    We talk about our side hustle endeavors, separating creative pursuits and capitalism, and dealing with uncertainty in creative careers.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Deeper Than Daddy Issues: Relearning Our Parents in Adulthood

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 34:30


    We talk about our relationships with our parents, how we're giving them grace, and what acceptance and parental support looks like in this era.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Getting Off the Dating Merry-Go-Round

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 28:48


    We talk about Nthabiseng's hinge love story, dating's bad reputation, and becoming more intentional in the dating space.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Get to Know the Gworls

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 27:13


    We talk about how our 20s are shaping up, some of our recent highs and lows, and where we hope this decade takes us next.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter at cryaboutit.substack.com, and follow us on Instagram at @cryaboutit_pod.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Introducing: Cry About It

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2024 1:11


    New episodes every other Monday.Leave us a voicemail, subscribe to our newsletter, and follow us on Instagram.For general inquiries and advertising questions, email us at heycryaboutit@gmail.com.Our cover art was designed by Jackie Rivera. Our music is Blem by Joey Hendrixx. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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