Podcasts about decentering

Inits, ¿Quién eres cuando ningún hombre te está eligiendo?Decentering Men es una tendencia que invita a dejar de colocar a los hombres, la pareja y la aprobación masculina en el centro de la vida de las mujeres.No significa odiarlos, renunciar al amor ni vivir en guerra con ellos. Significa dejar de organizar tu autoestima, tu cuerpo, tus amistades, tus proyectos y tus decisiones alrededor de conseguir, complacer o conservar a uno.En este programa hablamos del mandato de “ser elegida”, la mirada masculina, la soltería femenina, la pérdida de amistades cuando aparece una pareja, la carga mental y la diferencia entre amar profundamente y desaparecer dentro de una relación. Porque una pareja puede ocupar un lugar importante sin ocupar todos los lugares. Descentrar a los hombres no es dejar de amarlos. Es dejar de abandonarte para que uno te ame. Cuéntame: ¿qué parte de ti has dejado de lado por una relación?Búscame en redes sociales:YouTube Íntimamente con RoberthaFacebook @IntimamenteconRoberthaInstagram @intimamenteconroberthaTikTok @intimamenteconroberthaTeléfono del Consultorio: 664 681 19 93Terapia de pareja en online y presencial en Tijuana.Whatsapp: 664 123 69 69#SerElegida #SolteríaFemenina #Autoestima #DependenciaEmocional #ResponsabilidadAfectiva #Parejas #Feminismo #SaludMental

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Decentering Men: The Advice Women Get WrongDecentering men can be useful advice when it really means stop chasing male validation and start building a life you actually like. But when it turns into hating men, shaming women for loving their partners, or pretending relationships should not matter, it becomes a problem.John and Echo break down the difference between centering yourself in a healthy way and using “decenter men” as a loaded, bitter slogan. They talk about dating anxiety, male validation, self-care, femininity, relationships, and why women should not feel embarrassed for loving or prioritizing a good man.In This EpisodeDecentering men often becomes vague advice instead of real guidance“Center yourself” is usually better advice than “decenter men”Chasing male validation can lead to desperation and bad dating choicesLoving and prioritizing a good partner is not something to be ashamed ofHating men while wanting a relationship with one creates the wrong energySelf-care is not selfish when it helps you show up better for othersConfidence and validation-seeking can look similar, but come from different placesSay the actual problem instead of hiding behind trendy relationship languageTimestamps0:00 — Decentering Men And What It Really Means3:32 — Healthy Self-Focus Versus Men-Bashing6:05 — Better Advice Than A Loaded Buzzword10:33 — Supporting Single Women Without Shaming Them14:34 — Why Women Need To Center Themselves Too19:24 — Self-Care, Sacrifice, And Giving From A Full Cup23:05 — Neediness Versus Asking For What You Want25:38 — Why Relationships Should Be Mutually Centered29:03 — How Anti-Men Messaging Pushes Love Away34:22 — Looking For Good Men Instead Of Bad Patterns38:57 — Male Validation, Confidence, And Attraction53:56 — Weekly Check-In And Relationship LessonsConnect

You've been spiraling and you know it — the overanalyzing, the waiting, the feeling like you have zero control over how your own life feels. This episode hands you the framework that changed everything for me and for so many of my clients. We're talking about the Drama Triangle, why you're probably living inside it right now, and the Empowerment Dynamic — the tool that actually gets you out. This is the episode I wish someone had handed me years ago.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Justin and William witness the Texas Rangers not hosting a Pride night, DeSantis's Soviet power grab, and decentering reading and writing in English curriculum. Justin also reviews Obsession and Masters of the Universe.

Y'all, we need to talk about decentering men, what it actually means, why it matters for your nervous system, and how to do it from a place of secure attachment instead of anger or bitterness.Here's the thing: decentering men is NOT devaluing them. I am so tired of the "all men are trash, stay single forever" messaging, that pendulum has swung way too far. Decentering men means taking them off the pedestal, breaking the habit of outsourcing your self-worth to male attention, and finally becoming the main character of your own life, whether you're single, dating, or married.In this episode, I break down:The real definition of decentering men (and the trap of over-correcting into devaluing)How self-abandonment and codependency sneak in before you're even in a relationshipWhy interdependence, not hyper-independence, is the goalThen, because you know I love a good case study, we go deep on the Summer House drama, Amanda, West, Sierra, and Kyle. I share my hypothesis on Amanda's disorganized attachment and repetition compulsion, and why chasing the unavailable man cost her one of her most important friendships. Girl, it is a masterclass in what happens when we don't heal our relational trauma.Buckle up, this one's going to hold up a mirror in the best way.FREE 3-DAY LIVE EVENT: Adored. Chosen. Secure. It's been over a year since I've done one of these, and this is NOT just more information. This is transformational coaching, live with me, where we go below the surface, into your subconscious, and start healing at the nervous system level so you can actually embody secure attachment. We're live June 10, 11 & 12. Spots are limited and they always go fast. CLICK HERE TO REGISTERE.S.L. VIP Coaching Experience If you know you're ready to stop repeating the same painful patterns and finally become securely attached, I want to work with you directly. I have ONE VIP coaching spot left, this is 1:1 with me, fully customized to where you are in your journey (whether you're healing inside a current relationship or getting secure before you call in your person). Apply here and note that you want the VIP one-on-one offer → CLICK HERE TO APPLY

Something Lauren keeps noticing: when women go through a breakup, they find themselves again. They go back to the things they'd stopped doing — the hobby, the book, the version of themselves that got a little buried somewhere in the relationship. This episode is a guide for anyone who's newly out of something, mid-way back to themselves, or reflecting on how they've come back before and wondering if there's a little more work to do. Four steps, in order. What to come back to, what to build, what to protect, and what to remember so you don't lose it the same way twice.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

There is a different between nurturing your partner and babying him! The difference will cost you your energy, health and likelihood to reach your full potential. This is something new to me and i am still trying to learn how to navigate while unlearning what my culture taught me. كاين فرق كبير بين أنك ترعاي شريكك وبين أنك تدلليه بحال شي طفل، وهاد الفرق يقدر يكلفك طاقتك، صحتك، وحتى الفرص ديالك باش توصلي لأقصى إمكانياتك. هاد الشي جديد عليا حتى أنا، ومازال كنحاول نتعلم كيفاش نتعامل معاه ونفكك داك الشي اللي تربيت عليه فالثقافة ديال

When infidelity turns your world upside down, it's easy to make your healing dependent on what your partner is doing, feeling, or deciding. I know how tempting it is to monitor their progress, wait for reassurance, and hope that if they finally change, you'll feel safe again. In this episode, I share why true healing begins when you stop revolving around your partner and start returning to yourself. Decentering your partner doesn't mean you stop loving them or close your heart. It means your peace, clarity, and sense of worth are no longer controlled by someone else's choices. I talk about how childhood conditioning and codependent patterns can lead us to lose touch with our own needs, and I offer practical journal prompts to help you reconnect with your truth and rebuild self-trust. In this episode, we cover: What it means to decenter your partner after infidelity How codependent patterns keep you emotionally stuck How to rebuild self-trust and strengthen boundaries Journal prompts to help you return to yourself How to keep a soft heart and a strong spine If you're ready to stop waiting for someone else to hand you your life back, this episode will help you begin creating it for yourself. More from me: Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

In this episode Lauren gets real about what the work actually looks like — not the highlight reel version, not the "I healed and now everything is great" version, but the real thing. She walks you through the specific areas she works on with her clients every single day: breaking the fantasy of who you want someone to be, building self worth through values work, inner child work and what it actually means to reparent yourself, pleasure as a form of self knowledge, and releasing the shame that lives in your sxuality and your body. She also shares something that happened recently that stopped her in her tracks — a reminder that nobody gets to the other side alone. Not her clients. Not her. Not you. If you have ever felt like you understand yourself but still can't seem to feel different, this episode is for you.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

You are good enough. You've always been good enough. You'll always be good enough. There's always more to do, but that does NOT mean you haven't done enough. If we started truly believing that, the economy as we know it, would crumble. And I dunno, maybe that's a good thing. Decentering your "beauty" makes you more beautiful. Do you know how much time, energy, and money can be freed up when you say "this is good enough"? You are perfect, right here, right now. You have to know this. Don''t ever forget it. Reclaim your attention and focus on the shit that actually matters. Get Jenny Odell's Books Here.Buy Jenny Odell's book here.Listen to a different podcast episode about Jenny Odell's book.Read Julie's Medium Blog.Support JULIE (and the show!)Support + get some bonus stuff over on PATREON.Get an occasional personal email from me: www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.comTune in on INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE or TIKTOK.Info on War Tax Resistance.Donate to the Palestinian Children's Relief Fund and the Sudan Relief FundThe opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You've been asking Lauren questions about decentering men — how to talk about it, what actually changed first, whether your relationships survive it — and today she's answering them. If you're on the fence about decentering men or you're already doing the work and want to go deeper, this is a must-listen. These are the questions women are actually sitting with, and Lauren's not holding back on the answers.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Hi y'all! Welcome back to the podcast.In today's episode, we chat about what it actually means to decenter men. How to recognize the ways you might be centering them without realizing it. And how to do the work of reorienting your life around yourself—your own desires, your own values, your own sense of self—without turning it into a war against men.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.Where You're Planted Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: @debbseditPersonal Instagram: @__debbajayiYoutube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/

You've been doing the work. Decentering men, healing, growing, showing up for yourself. But when's the last time your life actually felt magical? In this episode we're talking about whimsy — what it actually is, why your space matters more than you think, and how to stop living inside your Pinterest board and start building the life that's already on it. Lauren gets into why being away from her own space cracked something open, why choosing delight right now is not frivolous, and how romancing yourself is what decentering men actually looks like in practice. Plus how to whimsy out your life without spending a ton of money — because Facebook Marketplace and thrift stores exist and we are using them. If you have been waiting for the right apartment, the right moment, the right version of your life to start making it feel like yours — this is your permission slip.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Unfortunately, fairy tales with the knight with shining armour are just another tool for raising obedient women, but fortunately, a large portion of us - women, are waking up from the delusion and looking for the true path to happiness. Well, darling, this is just the beginning, but I'm sure it will be useful to you. If you have any questions, I'm here for you - find me on my social media - @krasivomie .Have a lovely day!I love you and I believe in you!----------Nataliya

Van and Rachel react to Mary J. Blige's comments on her 2012 Burger King commercial before discussing Roland Martin's response to Justin Fairfax killing his wife, Cerina, and then himself. Then writer Jamilah Lemieux joins to talk about her new book, ‘Black. Single. Mother.: Real Life Tales of Longing and Belonging.' (0:00) Intro (4:49) Mary J. Blige's Burger King commercial (16:04) Roland Martin's response to the Fairfax murder-suicide (46:06) Jamilah Lemieux joins the show (48:16) Shame in being a single mom? (1:02:29) A conversation about Black women and men (1:33:08) Decentering men (1:55:59) Should a man check his friends? Hosts: Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay Guest: Jamilah Lemieux Producers: Donnie Beacham Jr. and Jade Whaley Social Producer: Bernard Moore Video Supervision: Chris Thomas and Jacob Cornett Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week's episode is Single (not spiraling), I'm answering a question a listener wrote in with — she'd seen a lot of manosphere content come across her feed, found it useful at first, and then realized she was just scared of men and didn't know how to navigate dating anymore. We get into why that fear is valid and not something to fix or push past, what's shifting in the world right now, and how to actually build discernment when you're dating.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

In this episode, I share what changes when we decenter men and re-center Allah is real psychological and spiritual reordering that brings back dignity and peace in your lifeWe explore why organizing your self-worth around male reactions  are a form of shirk, and how tawakkul in Allah restores a single, steady inner axis. From there, the conversation gets concrete: how service stops being transactional, why appreciation can be welcomed but not required, and how relationships improve when you remove the pressure of validation. I also break down what decentering looks like in career decisions, marriage dynamics and what this looks like for single and divorced women. We talk about the patterns that keep men at the center: auditioning for approval in courtship, romanticizing inconsistency, replaying the past through resentment, or centering men through fear. You'll learn simple ways to measure progress through the decision test, attention test, and emotional stability test, plus how boundaries become calmer when your identity is coherent. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs steadiness, and leave a review. What's one area of your life where you want Allah back at the center?I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum.Inside, you learn how to support your child's development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process.Apply for a Commitment Rate todayhttps://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

We've all heard the call to step into our feminine power. The Women's Rights Movement in the 19th century leading to women's suffrage. The Feminism Movement of the mid 20th century.  And it seems we are still fighting the patriarchy. But what exactly is the “Divine Feminine”?  And how do you step into that power?  It seems surviving is all about “doing”.  Therefore, the divine masculine in action.  When is it we are able to “be” and receive as the Divine Feminine desires? A social media creator we follow, @uppity_negress_, probably said it best when she discusses “decentering men”.  Specifically the idea of “the man”.  Decentering the need to be in control.  Decentering the ideal of the power structure.  Regardless of gender we all need to allow more.  Spend more time in the flow.  And give ourselves permission to receive the goodness the Universe so desperately wants to bestow.   We get into all of that in this first part of our Divine Feminine Series.  It is now possible to book 1:1 mediumship, energy healing, QHHT, or numerology sessions with your favorite Ohm-g Podcast Host.Check out everyone's offers here: https://ohm-gpodcast.com/products Check out our memberships!!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ohmgpodcastllc/membership  Check us out on Facebook @ohmgpodcast and Instagram @ohmg_podcast.  Send us an email at support@ohm-gpodcast.com to get on our mailing list for monthly virtual and live events. We look forward to connecting with you. If you enjoy our content and want to support us please go to your favorite podcast platform and leave us a 5-star review. We will catch you on the next episode! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Over the last decade, I have very intentionally upgraded different areas of my life - from where I live, to how I spend my time, to the small daily habits that shape my routine. In this episode, I'm walking through the upgrades that have genuinely made a difference, without falling into the trap of lifestyle creep. he goal is to understand what actually improves your life and making intentional decisions from that place. If you are trying to refine your lifestyle without losing control of your finances, this episode will give you a clear framework for doing that.We cover:

Your mind was not meant to orbit another human being, yet so many of us live like our peace depends on a man's approval, attention, or mood. We get stuck in longing, anxiety, resentment, and constant analysis and we call it “closeness,” even when it's actually psychological dependency. Here, we move from diagnosing male centrism to treating it, with a clear map for rebuilding emotional stability and spiritual clarity without turning this work into rebellion against men. We walk through a three-stage model: noticing the male-centered identity, stabilizing a healthy sense of self, and then returning to Allah as the true center. I explain why “centering yourself” can sound selfish but is often the missing step for Muslim women who were trained to shrink, accommodate, and erase their needs. A healthy ego means you can name your preferences, hold your limits, and make decisions from values instead of fear. That internal coherence changes everything: less rumination, less overfunctioning, and more calm, grounded boundaries. We also talk about spirituality and why a fragmented self often relates to Allah through shame and fear, especially when faith has been filtered through male authority. I unpack the Jalali attributes of Allah's power alongside the Jamali attributes of mercy, love, gentleness, and generosity and show how an imbalance can suffocate a feminine psyche already struggling to take up space. The paradox is real: when men stop being responsible for your emotional regulation, relationships often become lighter, more peaceful, and more loving. If you've ever confused a man's disappointment with Allah's disappointment, this will land. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs steadiness, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum.Inside, you learn how to support your child's development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process.Apply for a Commitment Rate todayhttps://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

If you want to date men AND you want to decenter men... This week's episode of The Feminist Dating Show (episode 268) is a giant permission slip. Because most dating advice is telling you to go on more dates, give more people a chance, stop being so picky. And all of that is designed to exhaust you into settling. (and you deserve more) Decentering men doesn't mean never dating a man again. It means stopping the habit of using the wrong men as evidence against your desires. It means re-centering yourself, your desires, and your preferences. And it is the fastest path to finding the right person. Inside episode 268, you'll learn: ✨ Why most men are going to be wrong for you (and why that's actually good news) ✨ How to stop using past emotionally unavailable men as a weapon against what you want ✨ The three tactical steps to decenter men and filter fast toward the right ones ✨ Why being self-centered in dating will help you find love faster Your desire is evidence that what you want exists. This episode will help you believe that and live it. Work with Lily:

If a man's mood can flip your whole day, that's not love or loyalty, that's your nervous system getting outsourced. We go deep on “decentering men” as a practical mindset shift that helps Muslim women reclaim self-worth, emotional stability, and spiritual clarity without hating men or pushing them away. I explain why orbiting a husband, father, colleague, or even an ex can feel like intimacy while quietly creating anxious, performative connection and constant self-editing.We break down the core idea of centering as the reference point your mind returns to, then map how male centrism forms through lifelong socialization and patriarchal messaging. From there, we explore a painful but common pattern: what looks like a faith crisis can actually be a fracture of trust in men who were placed at the center of your spiritual imagination. When a man's leadership becomes confused with divine guidance, his hypocrisy can shake your structure. Decentering restores a direct relationship with Allah, separating Creator from creation so your iman is no longer mediated by someone else's ego or behavior.We also name the hidden drain: cognitive bandwidth. Tracking his reactions, replaying arguments, and “inverted fixation” through resentment keep you tethered even when you say you're done. The goal isn't removing men from your life. It's removing them from the throne of your subconscious so you can love with sincerity and relate with calm strength. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who needs steadiness, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum.Inside, you learn how to support your child's development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process.Apply for a Commitment Rate todayhttps://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

You have started decentering men but something feels off. Weird. Like you are going against everything you were taught and even your own body is like — what are we doing. In this episode Lauren Samantha gets into exactly why decentering men feels so unnatural — and it has nothing to do with you being broken. We are talking patriarchy, misogyny, shame, capitalism, and what it actually looks like to start building a life that does not center men. If you are a single woman in your 30s and doing this work and wondering why it feels so hard — this one is for you.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

You understood everything we talked about in part one. And then you opened the apps and lost yourself in whether he texted back. That is exactly what this episode is about.We are getting into what decentering romance actually looks like when you are actively dating. The patterns you keep repeating even when you know better. The difference between wanting love from wholeness and wanting love to feel whole. And the question nobody told you to ask — not does he like me, but do you actually like him.Part two of a two part series. Go back and listen to part one first if you haven't.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

If you've been doing the work of decentering men but feel like something isn't clicking, this is the episode you need. Because the first step to decentering men is decentering romance — and most of us have never even questioned the story we were sold about what our lives are supposed to look like.In this episode we're getting into where the conditioning actually started, how fairy tales, rom-coms, and even our mothers shaped us into women who were taught to wait to be found instead of building a life. We're talking about the male gaze we internalized without knowing it, what we've been outsourcing to the idea of a relationship, and what it actually looks like to stop waiting and start living.This is not about giving up on love. This is about reclaiming your life.Single (Not Spiraling) is the podcast for women who are decentering men — one honest conversation at a time.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Join the conversation by letting us know what you think about the episode!Although this week's guest, Melissa Tiers, focuses professionally on coaching the unconscious mind via hypnosis, she speaks passionately and often on social media about issues near and dear to our hearts here at Madness Cafe; specifically, patriarchy, decentering men, and how we've all been primed to act (and, yes, believe) in certain ways by the world we live in. And that world is shaped in very large part by patriarchy. In this discussion, we wrestle with the following questions: How much are we effected by our environment? Are we even aware of the ways in which we're influenced by the world around us? How does that show up in our day-to-day interactions? What can we do about it? Heady stuff but, we're here for it. Melissa Tiers is a multi-award-winning author, speaker, and hypnosis trainer. She is also the founder of The Center for Integrative Hypnosis and The Ethical Coaching Collective with an international private practice.Where to find Melissa Tiers:Instagram: @melissatiersFacebook: @melissa.tiersWebsite: Melissa Tiers | Coaching the Unconscious MindSupport the showBe part of the conversation by sharing your thoughts about this episode, what you may have learned, how the conversation affected you. You can reach Raquel and Jennifer on IG @madnesscafepodcast or by email at madnesscafepodcast@gmail.com.Share the episode with a friend and have your own conversation. And don't forget to rate and review the show wherever you listen!Thanks!

Have you ever felt so burnt out on dating you wanted to give up? This may sound counterintuitive but we're talking about how decentering men and dating could be the key to removing this dating exhaustion – and ultimately finding your person. We're talking with comedian Allison Goldberg about how she shifted her dating strategy to staying open to meeting someone but not making her whole life centered around it. We're discussing the difference of decentering vs not trying at all, how to avoid slipping into the line of heterofatalism, and tangible ways you can build an incredible life that someone is only so lucky to join. Enjoy!To learn more about Alli and to go to a Love Isn't Blind show near you, go to https://loveisntblind.com/Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: https://howtobedateable.com/Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks: https://studio.com/dateableFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcasts The Psychology of Relationships and Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLEOur Sponsors:* Armoire: Get up to 60% off your first month, up to $150 OFF by visiting https://armoire.style/DATEABLE* Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and bedding sale at https://AvocadoGreenMattress.com/DATEABLE * Care.com: Get 20% off your initial Care.com subscription or a Senior Care Advisor Plan at https://care.com with the code DATEABLE * Kensington Books: Dawn of Chaos and Fury by Melissa K. Roehrich is on sale now: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* Talkiatry: Get matched with an in‑network psychiatrist in just a few minutes at https://talkiatry.com/DATEABLESupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Introduction“A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.” — Irina Dunn, 1970I heard about the movement of decentering men on TikTok. With zero expectations, I decided to try it out for a month. It was October 2025. I was sick of dating apps and about to publish my second book. I'd been single for three years, but this was something different. I'm here to tell you everything about it and share all the reasons why I'm never going back.I wrote this article to give us, women, a blueprint for how to be the main character in our own lives. Our mothers and grandmothers couldn't teach us this; they depended on men (financially) to survive, and had to center them accordingly. This article is not about hating men; it's about unlearning the ways that the patriarchy has trained us to prioritize making men happy. This pressure comes just as much from the women in our lives (aunties, influencers, our mother), as from men. After all, it was my mother who let my brother get away with never doing the dishes after dinner.Starting this process for the first time scared me. I was worried that if I stopped trying to date men, I was giving up on my dream of becoming a mother. Yet as I began to decenter men, I realized that my idea of motherhood was purely a fantasy. Facing the reality of motherhood, those statistics scared me much more. In this article, I will cover everything I've learned from the internet, economists, and my own experience, so that you can decide whether decentering men and trying it for a month to start is right for you. Let's begin!

I'm really glad you're here for this episode, because it's a topic I've been wanting to unpack for a long time, not from a place of blame, but from a place of realism and agency. It's about how to center yourself and win in a world that's stacked against women. +SIGN UP TO THE WORKING HARD NEWSLETTER: https://graceb.myflodesk.com/k0sfhlac34+FOLLOW THE PODCASTInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/workinghard...TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@workinghardpo...+DILEMMA SUBMISSIONIf you'd like to submit any dilemmas to the podcast to be answered in the bonus episodes, please send them to podcast@grace-beverley.com with the subject beginning DILEMMAS or DM us @workinghardpod on instagram!+MY LINKS: https://gracebeverley.komi.io/+RETROGRADE, SHREDDY, TALA and THE PRODUCTIVITY METHOD are my own businesses, therefore any mention of them - whilst not being a sponsorship - is monetarily endorsed. As usual, sponsorships do not change my opinions nor my honesty, but I will always disclaim to make sure motives are clear

In this episode of Single, Not Spiraling, we're talking about self-trust, standards, and what it actually means to stop settling for mediocre love. Decentering men isn't about rejecting partnership — it's about building enough internal safety that you're no longer making decisions from anxiety, desperation, or fear of being alone. Self-trust is confidence, intuition, and believing your own thoughts, needs, and wants without immediately outsourcing them. It's the steady feeling that even if a decision changes your life, you'll be okay. We unpack how self-trust sharpens discernment in dating, how anxiety gets confused with intuition, and why raising your standards has less to do with attracting a man and more to do with not abandoning yourself. If you're learning how to trust yourself, hold your standards, and choose partnership from alignment instead of panic, this episode will meet you exactly where you are.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Why does work feel so empty right now?  Like…we followed the rules and did the hustle.  We even swallowed parts of ourselves to survive professionally, and yet, here we are grieving something we can't quite name. I often say that the most interesting things about me have nothing to do with my career, and it's nice when those things have time to shine, y'know? I sat down with Ayanna Kelly to dig into the hard stuff: why we're all grieving the workplace we thought we'd have, why monetizing our passions sometimes kills the joy, and what it actually means to decenter work from our identity when we've spent our whole lives tying our worth to our job titles. If you're looking for new definitions of success that don't require you to sacrifice your entire nervous system, this is for you! Quantum Workplace helps leaders build thriving teams that fuel business success. We give leaders at every level a clear path forward—by unlocking critical talent insights across engagement, performance, and development. With clarity and confidence, people leaders can act decisively, scale leadership quality, and strengthen connection and performance.  Trusted by thousands of people-focused companies, Quantum Workplace makes it easier to keep teams aligned, empowered, growing, and valued on the path to business success. Visit ⁠⁠quantumworkplace.com⁠⁠ to learn more. It's vulnerable, but somehow still hopeful 00:01:55 - The First Time Hebba Met Ayanna 00:08:40 - Something New Ayanna Wants to Learn This Year 00:11:15 - Why Does Fulfillment at Work Feel so Hard Right Now? 00:17:06 - What We're Grieving About Work That We Haven't Talked About Out Loud 00:24:51 - Why Are We Expected to Monetize Our Passions? 00:38:40 - Being Your True Self at Work After Years of Emotional Suppression 00:46:55 - Why Meaningful Work Doesn't Have to Be Central to Your Identity 00:52:49 - Ayanna's Advice for Rethinking About Fulfillment And if you love I Hate It Here, sign up to Hebba's newsletter! It's for jaded, overworked, and emotionally burnt-out HR/People Operations professionals needing a little inspiration. https://workweek.com/discover-newsletters/i-hate-it-here-newsletter/   And if you love the podcast, be sure to check out  https://www.youtube.com/@ihateit-here for even more exclusive insider content!   Follow Ayanna: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ayannaskelly/   Follow Hebba:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ihateit-here/videos LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/hebba-youssef Twitter: https://twitter.com/hebbamyoussef

In this deeply thought provoking episode, Amb. Elisha hosts philosopher, theologian, and author Kawuki Mukasa for a powerful conversation on humanity's place in the universe

Why is religion today so often associated with giving and taking offense? To answer this question, Slandering the Sacred: Blasphemy Law and Religious Affect in Colonial India (U Chicago Press, 2023) invites us to consider how colonial infrastructures shaped our globalized world. Through the origin and afterlives of a 1927 British imperial law (Section 295A of the Indian Penal Code), J. Barton Scott weaves a globe-trotting narrative about secularism, empire, insult, and outrage. Decentering white martyrs to free thought, his story calls for new histories of blasphemy that return these thinkers to their imperial context, dismantle the cultural boundaries of the West, and transgress the borders between the secular and the sacred as well as the public and the private. Raj Balkaran is a scholar of Sanskrit narrative texts. He teaches at the Oxford Centre for Hindu Studies and at his own virtual School of Indian Wisdom. For information see rajbalkaran.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Why is religion today so often associated with giving and taking offense? To answer this question, Slandering the Sacred: Blasphemy Law and Religious Affect in Colonial India (U Chicago Press, 2023) invites us to consider how colonial infrastructures shaped our globalized world. Through the origin and afterlives of a 1927 British imperial law (Section 295A of the Indian Penal Code), J. Barton Scott weaves a globe-trotting narrative about secularism, empire, insult, and outrage. Decentering white martyrs to free thought, his story calls for new histories of blasphemy that return these thinkers to their imperial context, dismantle the cultural boundaries of the West, and transgress the borders between the secular and the sacred as well as the public and the private. Raj Balkaran is a scholar of Sanskrit narrative texts. He teaches at the Oxford Centre for Hindu Studies and at his own virtual School of Indian Wisdom. For information see rajbalkaran.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/south-asian-studies

Why is religion today so often associated with giving and taking offense? To answer this question, Slandering the Sacred: Blasphemy Law and Religious Affect in Colonial India (U Chicago Press, 2023) invites us to consider how colonial infrastructures shaped our globalized world. Through the origin and afterlives of a 1927 British imperial law (Section 295A of the Indian Penal Code), J. Barton Scott weaves a globe-trotting narrative about secularism, empire, insult, and outrage. Decentering white martyrs to free thought, his story calls for new histories of blasphemy that return these thinkers to their imperial context, dismantle the cultural boundaries of the West, and transgress the borders between the secular and the sacred as well as the public and the private. Raj Balkaran is a scholar of Sanskrit narrative texts. He teaches at the Oxford Centre for Hindu Studies and at his own virtual School of Indian Wisdom. For information see rajbalkaran.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/religion

Why is religion today so often associated with giving and taking offense? To answer this question, Slandering the Sacred: Blasphemy Law and Religious Affect in Colonial India (U Chicago Press, 2023) invites us to consider how colonial infrastructures shaped our globalized world. Through the origin and afterlives of a 1927 British imperial law (Section 295A of the Indian Penal Code), J. Barton Scott weaves a globe-trotting narrative about secularism, empire, insult, and outrage. Decentering white martyrs to free thought, his story calls for new histories of blasphemy that return these thinkers to their imperial context, dismantle the cultural boundaries of the West, and transgress the borders between the secular and the sacred as well as the public and the private. Raj Balkaran is a scholar of Sanskrit narrative texts. He teaches at the Oxford Centre for Hindu Studies and at his own virtual School of Indian Wisdom. For information see rajbalkaran.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/law

Raffael Fasel is University Assistant Professor in Public Law at the Cambridge Law Faculty and Fellow of Jesus College. He specialises in public law, with a particular interest in constitutional theory, human rights law, and animal rights law. Raffael is co-founder and co-director of the Cambridge Centre for Animal Rights Law. John Adenitire is a Senior Lecturer in the School of Law at Queen Mary University London and a Co-Director of the Forum on Decentering the Human. He is also a trustee of Humanists UK . John's research is primarily focused on Public Law, Legal Theory, and Comparative Constitutional Law, with distinct specialisations in conscientious exemptions and including non-human animals in constitutional law.Together, they are the co-authors of "Animals and the Constitution: Towards Sentience-Based Constitutionalism"In Sentientist Conversations we talk about the most important questions: “what's real?”, “who matters?” and "how can we make a better world?"Sentientism answers those questions with "evidence, reason & compassion for all sentient beings." The video of our conversation is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.00:00 Clips00:57 Welcome- John's appearance on Sentientism #703:30 John and Raffael Intros06:33 What Are Constitutions and Why Are They Important?Maneesha Deckha, Jane Kotzman, Josh Milburn, Michael Dorf Sentientism episodes and our Sentientist Law playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcXzG-dxoZHBBwA0Ek2k29sh2MqLjdLBz RF: “…Constitutions are the most fundamental legal documents… the apex documents that a legal system has… that contain its most fundamental principles…”“…very difficult to amend those principles and indeed some constitutions don't even allow the amendment of certain very fundamental things like democracy or human rights.”“…the most important legal tools that exist if we're interested in in doing anything, including improving the lives of animals.”06:33 What Are Constitutions and Why Are They Important?21:03 Why Include Sentient Beings and Who Is Sentient?30:15 What Protections Do Constitutions Provide?38:52 What Rights Should Constitutions Provide?58:52 Trade-offs and Proportionality01:06:18 Rule of Law01:13:25 Democracy01:21:41 How Would the World Change Under Sentientist Constitutions?01:26:45 How Would a Sentientist Constitution Affect Human Sentients?01:29:35 How Do We Make This Happen?01:33:00 Follow Raffael and John:- https://www.qmul.ac.uk/law/people/academic-staff/items/adenitire.html- https://twitter.com/JohnAdenitire- https://www.law.cam.ac.uk/people/academic/rn-fasel/77852- https://bsky.app/profile/raffaelfasel.bsky.social- https://academic.oup.com/book/59826 And more... full show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sentientism.info⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Sentientism is “Evidence, reason & compassion for all sentient beings.” More at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sentientism.info⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Join our⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠"I'm a Sentientist" wall⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ via⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ this simple form⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Everyone, Sentientist or not, is welcome in our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠groups⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. The biggest so far is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here on FaceBook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Come join us there!

Will's back from filming his viral Hollywood movie. Liam is stuck in Stranger Things. Emily is decentering men (or at least trying to) and the boys stomp on her like demogorgons. SUPPORT BLANDINO'S PIZZA: https://fridaybeers.shop/collections/af-pod FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS: https://www.flowcode.com/page/almostfridaypod SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: Exclusive $35 off Carver Mat at https://on.auraframes.com/ALMOSTFRIDAY. Promo Code ALMOSTFRIDAY So next time you're craving something cold, frothy, and packed with unapologetic flavor — crack open a MUG Root Beer. Find MUG Root Beer at your local store or head to https://www.mugrootbeer.com/find-mug to find out how you can get your paws on some MUG and be sure to throw them a follow online, @MUGRootBeer. Upgrade your wardrobe and save on @trueclassic at https://trueclassic.com/FRIDAY! #trueclassicpod Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/ba1zl21n #CashAppPartner Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Direct deposit, Round ups, Overdraft coverage and Discounts provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. (00:10) - Something New? (03:26) - Back on the Sauce? (05:09) - Reuniting (08:06) - “Worms” (15:57) - Will's Hairline is Messed Up (21:32) - Show Premiere? (25:30) - Lane Kiffen (32:06) - Missed Field Goal Kick (34:17) - Christian Ellis (45:45) - First First Class Experience (01:01:16) - Tarantino's Top 20 Films of the 20th Century (01:15:42) - Cracker of the Week (01:25:24) - Characters Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After Chante Joseph's Vogue Article titled 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?' took the internet by storm, many people around the globe took to social media to share their thoughts; in this episode, you're favourite online sisters share their answer to the thought-provoking question.

If you keep losing yourself the moment you like someone… this video will change your dating life.Today we're talking about how to decenter men while dating and in a relationship — so you can stop worrying about whether he likes you and start focusing on whether he's aligned with you.In this video, we cover:✨ What it really means to “center a man”✨ Why women lose themselves when they catch feelings✨ How conditioning, trauma, and scarcity mindsets impact dating✨ How to stay grounded, confident, and self-led✨ How to maintain your routines, boundaries, and identity✨ How to date without anxiety, overthinking, or performing✨ How to keep decentering men inside a relationship✨ The mindset shifts that help you stop chasing male validation✨ What healthy attraction feels like vs. anxious attachment✨ How to evaluate men instead of auditioning for themThis isn't about being cold or detached — it's about being whole.Decentering men is not anti-men. It's pro-you.If you want to build a meaningful life and healthy relationships, this video is your guide.—————✨ Let's connect:

In this episode, Capri and Ashley talk about why family gatherings are so AWKWARDDDD, how to decenter men, and MORE. We'll be back with another episode in two Thursdays so until then, send us your questions (or stories) on IG!Polyamory book rec: POLYSECURE by Jessica FernIf you liked this episode please leave us a review!If you didn't...mind your business...Follow LittleQueerPod On instagram https://www.instagram.com/littlequeerpod/?hl=enFollow Ashley On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyelizabeth_11/?hl=enFollow Capri On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capricampeau/

You've probably heard the phrase “decenter men” — but what does that really mean?In this video, I break down what decentering men actually looks like in real life — and why it's not about hating men or avoiding relationships. It's about re-centering yourself.We'll talk about:✨ The real definition of “decentering men” and who coined the phrase (Charlie Taylor)✨ Why it's a lifestyle, not a temporary phase✨ The challenges women face when learning to live this way — and how to work through them✨ The common misconceptions (like “you can't want love and decenter men”)✨ Why women were conditioned to center men in the first place✨ And how to date while decentering menThis isn't about becoming “anti-men.”It's about becoming pro-you.You can want love and still decenter men.You can be soft and still have boundaries.You can date and still live from your center.Because once you make peace your priority — everything changes.———

Decentering men doesn't mean you need to be anti-men...it means you being pro-yourself. In this episode, I talk about the implications of making a man the center of your world, the ways you might be centering men without even knowing it, and how to reclaim your power and refocus on yourself. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/tntc Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at Nutrafol.com, promo code TNTC to get $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/TNTC and use code TNTC for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner SHOP MY REVOLVE FAVORITES HERE!! WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: 2025 google form JOIN THE TRYING NOT TO CARE GROUPCHAT HERE ✨https://links.geneva.com/invite/3b386511-50ef-42fb-8363-16807ef87c21 KEEP UP WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX Podcast Business Inquiries - ashleychristinecorbo@gmail.com Social Media Inquiries - ashley@abouttalentagency.com

Have you ever felt like your family's voice is so loud, you can't hear your own? In this episode, we're diving into one of the most challenging but necessary journeys of adulthood: learning to prioritize your own voice over family expectations. This isn't about abandoning the people who raised you—it's about creating the space you need to discover who you actually are beneath the layers of inherited beliefs, expectations, and advice that may not align with the life you truly want to live. Whether your family is warm and supportive or domineering and rigid, this episode offers practical tools for anyone who's ever struggled to separate their own desires from what they were taught to want. You'll discover: Why distance (physical, mental, or spiritual) is a tool for growth, not a punishment Five practical strategies for stepping back and protecting your energy How to finally hear your own voice after years of listening to everyone else The role your body plays in recognizing what's truly aligned for you Why "clearing the field" is essential before you can grow into who you're meant to be This episode is for the woman who's ready to stop living by someone else's blueprint and start honoring her own truth—without guilt, without apology, and with full permission to be beautifully selfish. If you've ever needed validation that it's okay to choose yourself, this is it. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? - **The Shop:** Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power.     - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop - **Substack Newsletter:** Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems.     - https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ - **Website:** Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place.     - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ - **The Podcast:** Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits.     - https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ - **Take the Free Assessment:** Learn where you are on your decentering men journey.     - https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. --- **Follow for Daily Inspiration:** - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox **Take Action Now:** Hit **subscribe** if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

Today we're breaking down one of the most powerful mindset shifts a woman can make after divorce, decentering men. You'll learn what it really means to stop revolving around your ex's choices, your kids' needs, or anyone else's chaos, and finally put yourself back at the center of your life. Because peace doesn't come from controlling what happens at his house, it comes from reclaiming your energy, your attention, and your sense of self.Through real stories, tough love, and raw truth, you'll discover how letting go of control doesn't make you weak, it makes you free. This is your permission slip to stop fixing, stop chasing, and start thriving. You'll walk away with a new kind of clarity... the kind that reminds you that when you choose yourself first, everyone in your world benefits, especially your kids.Curious if the Collective is for you? Go to GetOverDivorce.com, you can book a short call with me and we will uncover your blocks and blindspots and find out if my program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"The Get Over Divorce Collective" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠s a fit for you. Inside this program I will work with you personally to help you reach your healing and thriving goals.#MidlifeAwakening, #DivorcedAndThriving, #WomenWhoRise, #GetOverDivorce, #ReclaimYourPower, #HealingAfterDivorce

Welcome back to my 2-part podcast episode, where I'm talking about how to “de-center” men (or really anything or anyone we've made the “sun” in our lives). We named the pattern: what it looks like to center men and the emotional, relational, and cultural costs when we orbit someone else's needs at the expense of our own. Today we move from insight to action (Yay!). This episode is about how to stop self-abandoning without burning your life down, and what decentering looks like in real, everyday practice. I'll walk you through a clear framework you can try this week—tiny choices, boundary language, nervous-system support, and specific drills for dating, work, and long-term partnership. You'll also hear a couple of personal moments that show how these tools play out when things get clear, messy, and very human. This is what you'll hear in this episode: A short recap of Part 1: a plain-language definition of “centering men” and why the costs keep adding up over time. How to spot the pattern in real time using quick questions (“Am I doing this for their comfort? For avoiding conflict? To not inconvenience someone else?”) and a pause before reacting. Relational autonomy in action: the “Two-Yes Rule”, and speaking your “why” without over-explaining. Exiting self-silence with nervous-system help: a scheduled anger/venting that doesn't bleed into your relationships. Reframing “being disliked for having needs” as data—not disaster. Decentering drills for real life: speaking first and reclaiming your voice at work, and self-regulation + clear timing in partnerships. Shifting the ecosystem: auditing your media, re-centering women in your inputs, etc. Decentering isn't about rejecting or hating men; it's about reclaiming yourself in a culture that has taught us that centering men will keep us safe and it's the only option. My hope is that this episode gives you a practical path: notice the old bargain as it's happening, choose one small values-aligned action, and let your nervous system catch up as you practice new boundaries. And please try the homework! Pick one domain where you tend to self-abandon, run a tiny experiment this week, and reflect on what your body and inner voice tell you. If this landed, share the episode and let me know what shifted for you!  Resources from this episode: Episode 697: De-Centering Men Part 1: What it means and what it costs us Download a Free Digital Version of my upcoming book, Live Like You Give a Damn Hop on my email list for updates on my books, programs, and more: andreaowen.com/free My Ketamine Therapy Journey secret podcast series Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I've compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading!   MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ https://andreaowen.com/podcast/699 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if the real work of healing wasn't about fixing yourself, but about breaking free from the systems that taught you to feel small?In this episode, Sarah explores what it means to release toxic patriarchal conditioning from our thoughts, relationships, and sense of worth. Through honesty, humor, and spiritual insight, she unpacks how this system lives inside us and how we can begin to unravel it with compassion and courage.You'll hear:Why patriarchal programming quietly shapes our self-image, ambition, and emotionsHow burnout and codependency are connected to internalized hierarchySarah's personal story of reclaiming her sovereignty and rewriting her relationship patternsWhy collaboration rather than competition creates true liberationThe importance of honoring all your genders, energies, and expressionsPractical ways to dismantle scarcity, binary thinking, and overgiving in everyday lifeJoin Our Community:Join the Moon Studio Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/themoonstudioBuy the 2025 Many Moons Lunar Planner: https://moon-studio.co/collections/all-products-excluding-route/products/many-moons-2025Subscribe to our newsletter: https://moon-studio.co/pages/newsletterFind Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottesss/

Decentering men is the greatest act of self care ♡ This is about remembering that you are the center of your own universe. If you've ever caught yourself spiraling over a text, putting your goals on pause for a relationship, or tying your worth to whether someone chooses you, this one's for you.FOLLOW TRIN:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG @trinitytondeleir⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok @trinitytondeleir⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: trinity tondeleir⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Trin's Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠JOIN OUR HGW GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SUBMIT TO THE WELLNESS CAFE:- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠write in for the HGW hangout summer episodes!!!!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ASK TRIN!! advice session form⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Rachel and Van start the show by talking about the passing of the infamous Hulk Hogan and the complexity of his legacy. Then, the host of Two Personal, Joy Taylor, joins us to talk about processing the surprise cancellation of her show, how she was treated in comparison to her male counterparts, and her opinion of men. 00:00 - Welcome! 00:37 - Hulk Hogan's passing 03:56 - Joy Taylor joins us 38:57 - Feelings toward Fox 48:58 - Will the dam break? 57:48 - Vulnerably in certain spaces 1:02:18 - Opinion on men 1:56:41 - What does Joy want to build? 2:18:39 - Thanks for watching! Hosts: Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay Guests: Joy Taylor Producers: Donnie Beacham and Ashleigh Smith Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices