Modern Mediocrity: A Millennial’s View

Lonte gives a glimpse into what could happen when the worng person provides info that was not meant for you.

Host and Founder Lonte speaks about purpose, and what he has learned about what we desire. It's got to be about something deeper than money and your desires.

Sometimes the prayers that we don't "feel" are because they are aimed at your demons and not for your heart. You won't always notice it, but clear indication is when you are numb to what is said. Lonte gives his insight on his experiences regarding those moments he has experienced this.

Lonte discusses the challenges and joys of fatherhood, from parenting styles to work-life integration.

In this episode, Lonte focuses on growth, maturing, and knowing who God is. Even when things don't seem like it is panning out, everything will be alright. Right?

Today's podcast is about being thankful. Lonte shares things that he has been through and why he is thankful that they happened. Will you choose to be thankful, even when things are not going the way you envisioned them?

Lonte breaks down what it feels like to have comfort in God when chaos and danger is present. Have you ever felt calm when you should be breaking down?

Let's go back to how love was been depicted back in time and how it is depicted today. Lonte talks about how that has changed and evolved.

Our host Lonte provides his wisdom and knowledge regarding how to treat others once they have wrong you.

Lonte gives his heartfelt account on how fear has hindered him in business and life. Fear is not uncommon, but it can be uncommon to you and your future.

Sometimes we have to go back to origin of where we started from, so that we can fully grasp how we got off track. Lonte expresses how to get back to the basics or go back to the drawing board.

Does your expectations align with God's direction is illustrated perfectly by Lonte. He gives his account on how he misconstrued what he saw with what God said. 

In this episode, Lonte gives his insight on parenting and partnership. Great details and amazing perspective.

In this episode, Lonte give his take on the things that happen and we don't credit it to God. We just think it happens. News Flash... It doesn't.

Lonte breaks down in his own thoughts why parenting is hard and what it so difficult.

In this episode, Lonte gives his personal opinion on celibacy as it pertains to men. Why isn't it a norm?

Host Lonte shares his thoughts on how it feels to watch his boy grow into man. The beauty of what is going to be versus the beauty of what is.

In this episode, Lonte speaks on specifics that has helped him unlock his potential. He gives specific details that has helped him, in hopes that it helps others.

In this episode, Lonte gives his take on what a good man is. What does one have to be to be considered a good man. Is it about characteristics or much more?

Sometimes GO is all the information you need. In this episode, Lonte shares his thoughts on how the letters GO shaped his mindset. What GO means to him at this moment.

Lonte gives the tips on how to win from the start. How his experiences shaped his thoughts and how he plans to move forward to win.

Lonte breaks down how he has experienced this as well as how he has navigated through this with his oldest son. Marriage may not be for everyone, but making good decisions are.

If we could reverse time and be better, what would you have done differently? In this episode, Lonte opens up about how this would different in certain areas of life. Maybe life would be different, or maybe not, but he would have no regrets.

Be where you desire. Be where you are accepted and loved. Don't with a person or in a place that doesn't serve you.

Sometimes problems arise and when they do, you have to know that you are strong enough to face and get through whatever is ahead of you.

Often times, when we are elevating to a different level; we feel about about our growth. It's perfectly okay to outgrow people, places, or even things(not your clothes, but you get the gist of what I am saying). You are allowed to grow, it's not a bad thing. We just have to take our feelings out of it and use logic and mature reasoning.

How well do you know you? Can you differentiate your wants from your needs? Let's get into what do we actually want? From Life? From God? From yourself? What is it that you really want?

Why do we expect God to come through and save us after we have already made the conscious decision to do things? Like God is some magical responder on our time? In this episode, Lonte breaks down how we treat God like a genie.

Ever feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders? As men, it is a daily struggle to juggle the world on your shoulders; with problems in your hands and hurt in your heart. So what do you do?

Remember when Jesus commanded the disciples to come to Him when He was walking on the water to them? The only one that came to Him was Peter. Fast forward to the part where Peter starting going under the water and Jesus stretched forth His hand. That is where we are going. I feel like God is stretching forth His hand for me(a lot of other people as well) and we are either willing to drown or afraid to trust he will save us

When we receive a vision, more often than not; it is not for right now. The vision is a glimpse is a glimpse of what could be. So in essence, you are taking a glimpse into a future thing right now. The mistake that I made in my lifetime is, seeing the vision from afar and treating it the same. Listen in as Lonte gives his accounts of how he approaches visions.

If the enemy cannot get to you, best believe you me; that the ones you love are immediately after. The biggest question to ask now is, what do you do with that info. How do you proceed forward?

Often times what we learned as a child is the total opposite of what we know as an adult. We have a totally different understanding of hard work, life, love, and relationships. Most of all, what do you actually know about you?

In this episode, Lonte give pointers on how to heal the kid in order to save the adult. Often times, we tend to overlook the things that we have gone through in our childhood and write it off. In those very moments, how we respond and act are deeply rooted in what happened to us as children. Compelling episode, very thought provoking.

I always thought growing up that once we go through something, once it was over, it was over. It never dawned on me that I would continue to go through that same thing until I defeated it. Until I learned learned how to master my temper, my responses, my attitude, my fleshly desires, and keep me to me. It was in those lessons that I learned that it would continue to be in my life until I defeated(passed) those tests.

As a man, I have heard and used this phrase. It is not gender specific and I am sure women use it as well. The fact of the matter is, it is not true. It what we make up in our minds as a cop out. An unthinkable Balme if you will. Listen as our host, Lonte give his take on I lie because I love you.

Season 6 starts off with a bang as Lonte welcomes Nanja Hill to the podcasting world. The topic nor did the conversation disappoint. They discuss losing yourself, how you return back to you if you so choose, and how to never lose you again.

We often take risks, but how often do we go back and review the worthiness of our risk? Think back on the risks you've taken, was it worth it?

What happens after you get what you prayed for? You got your heart's desire. What's next?

In this episode, Lonte expounds on why preferences are personal and why it should not be help against a man for having a preference.

Men are safe spaces, listening ears, a shoulder to lean on, protector and so much more. Yet, often times, it seems like so much more is expected of him and he is not accepted for the things he does. Society has a strange way of saying who and what a man should be and what he should do. In this segment, Lonte covers what a man does and what society states he cannot do.

Dealing with the many sides of life, sometimes it's easier to suffer in silence than to release the pain verbally. Learned a valuable lesson when I finally got my son to open to me.

We have all heard the expression what's done in dark… You can fill in whatever the ending is yourself as to the language that was used. I want to expound on what it's like to be in darkness and how that spills over in every other area of your life.

As a society, we want everything right now. In this segment, Lonte discusses why instant gratification and instant success may not be the way to go.

In this episode Lonte gives his take on unhealed and broken. Great perspective and great insight.

What is dialogue to you? In this episode, Lonte gives his insight on what healthy dialogue looks like. He covers 5 different points that he feels is a base to identifying healthy habits to dialogue.

In this episode, I debunk the notion that black women are aggressive. Black women are a lot of things, I would not call them aggressive. Strong, courageous, and driven maybe; but definitely not aggressive.

This week, I want to peel back the layers of your feelings as well as mine. Let's talk about consideration. One of the most important things to me, in any relationship; is being considered. I want to be considered in every way. Consider my feelings, my thoughts, my mind. Are you being considered? Are you considering others? Let's talk about it.

What does the dynamic of family look like to you? How do you define family? In this episode, Lonte gives his take on what family looks like and what they mean to him.

In relationships, men typically want what they do not have within themselves. I think that most women they exemplifies a lot of manly characteristics, is simply because their prominent relationships are with men. There is grave difference in a friendship and a relationship. This is my take manly characteristics within a relationship.

I started this phrase with my children as a means to bond. To share experiences, have heart to hearts, and to make them more comfortable expressing their emotions. It has since evolved into so much more. Tune in to see what has come of the HEARTCHECK.