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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ruby Ryder of PeggingParadise.com and TheArtofPegging.com. Ruby is a podcaster, blogger, sex worker, sex educator and a published writer of erotic fiction. She has been educating people about pegging for the last 13 years. She moderated panels at CatalystCon East and West, and presented at DomCon LA. Ruby's erotica is in Violet Blue's ‘Best Women's Erotica 2014.' She also appeared in an episode of Comedy Central's ‘Not Safe with Nikki Glaser'. Ruby's mission is to help interested people add one more thing to their sexual treasure chest of choices by teaching them all about pegging, and to do everything she can to encourage more sex-positivity with less sexual shame. She resides in Southern California near the beach, and loves watching the surfers change out of their wetsuits. Key points: Ruby introduces herself The misconceptions around pegging The importance of communication, consent, and comfort Role reversal, deepening intimacy, and understanding partners Emotional responses during pegging Equipment for pegging Erections, performance, and pleasure Relevant Links: Ruby's websites: https://peggingparadise.com/ and https://www.theartofpegging.com/ Ruby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@peggingparadise --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message
Yes it is the long awaited episode on pegging! And who better to dive into it than pegging expert Ruby Ryder from peggingparadise.com!About Ruby:Ruby Ryder of PeggingParadise.com and Pegging101.com, is a podcaster, blogger, sex worker, sex educator and a published writer of erotic fiction. She has been educating people about pegging for the last 12 years. Ruby moderated panels at CatalystCon East and West, was a speaker on the main stage at the BIL conference, and presented at DomCon LA. Her erotica is in Violet Blue's ‘Best Women's Erotica 2014.' Ruby also appeared in an episode of Comedy Central's ‘Not Safe with Nikki Glaser'.Ruby's two missions are to help interested people add one more thing to their sexual treasure chest of choices by teaching them all about pegging, and to do everything she can to encourage more sex-positivity with less sexual shame.She resides in Southern California near the beach, and loves watching the surfers change out of their wet suits.Her websites:PeggingParadise.comPegging101.com TheArtofPegging.comVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships. Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress
Boy, do we have a lot to talk about this month....... Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner and a "hot" hot tub date; a night out in Miami; the dreaded vanilla cruise; an awesome house party.. Discussion Topic- Our thoughts on CatalystCon- a conference described as a "melting pot of sexuality" Snapshots- Mrs Jones finds a good use for both hands and Mr Jones gets an eyeful.... Listeners Q&A- Do we think we could just "pull the plug" on the lifestyle and be happy? Mentioned in this episode: Catalyst Con East 2015 The Curious Couple for the Curious Ear Dr Zhana Vrangalova The Private Gym Life on the Swingset- Live at CatalystCon East Ending the Sexual Dark Age- Live at CatalystCon East Music licensed through BMI: Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul I'm in Miami Bitch- LMFAO Picture- Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow Mr Jones- Counting Crows This month's question: Could you and your partner pull the plug on the lifestyle and be happy? Let us know at wegottathing@gmail.com
Dawn has a few firsts and shares a few details. A few weeks ago, Dawn attended CatalystCon East. While the conference was amazing and deserves it's own episode, that same weekend she also attended a pink puja (or a sensuality workshop) and went to her first play party. Dylan wants all the details about all the sex. Will she be disappointed? Also, Dawn and Dylan are interviewing Cooper Beckett from Life on the Swingset next week. If you have questions about swinging or poly or Swingset-y, let us know ASAP. Near Philly? SEXx Interactive is May 7-10 and Dawn will be there. Head to sexxinteractive.com for details. You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply) Email: info@sexgetsreal.com Contact form: Click here
So many people don’t know what they want or need sexually. Discovering those wants and needs can be a difficult process without some sexual sherpa to guide them. Then they need to be able to turn those wants into requests, so they can get all the hedonistic delight they deserve as members of the human race. Cooper Beckett, Ginger Bentham, Dylan Thomas, & Miko Technogeisha, hosts of Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, bring you a live interactive discussion about figuring out what you want, and how to ask for it. We cover self-exploration, defining and exploring boundaries, communicating desire and being attentive, as well as open the floor up to audience questions and stories.
We all had unique experiences at CatalystCon East, we met different people, attended different sessions, sucked different cocks, cuddled with different people, met with various porn stars, and created our own breakthrough moments. We also passed up an opportunity to use the latest Njoy prototype. We truly are horrible people. Also, the hotel couldn't wait to rid themselves of our presence. We made so many friends over the weekend, why couldn't the hotel staff be some of them? Oh Cooper, my mistake, you DID make a friend over a discussion about anal play. Well done. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out these Black Dragon ZERO Nitrile Gloves for latex-FREE goodness! Follow @CatalystCon on Twitter and check out #ccon Follow @thedylanryan on Twitter Follow @Wylddelirium on Twitter and check out #ccontrans Follow @Hernando_Chaves on Twitter and check out #cconmale When bad science kills, or how to spread AIDS (References to the flawed Male Circumcision studies)
We all had unique experiences at CatalystCon East, we met different people, attended different sessions, kissed different boys, assembled different blanket forts, and... occasionally we all got in the hot tub together, sat in the lounge together, and you know... gave our presentation. We spend the time chatting about all that stuff with a little touch of lament at the end for what could have been if for not being limited to sixty minutes. Boy, it sure is a good thing we don't have to worry about that here, right? ... right? Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out this Hemp Bondage Rope by Lover's Knot! Follow @CatalystCon on Twitter
Cooper, Ginger, Shira, Dylan, Miko, Ophilia, and The Professor (tm) all get in one hotel room before their CatalystCon East session, hop on a couple beds, drink some wine, and have a casual conversation of how much they love each other in this episode of Life on the Swingset, The Podcast! We discuss how consistently impressive Ginger's panty selection is, and we touch... just barely touch on some of the mail that we've received and responded to, while Dylan falls completely off his rocker and rants about religion and politics the likes of which you've never heard on this podcast. If it helps, it's surrounded by heaping amounts of sexiness, flogging, under the shirt play, plenty of flirting, and a very, -very- unhappy Cooper Beckett. Are you not entertained!? Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Follow @CatalystCon on Twitter A New Inquisition: The Vatican targets US nuns
We attended CatalystCon East last week. CatalystCon, as described by Dee Dennis the founder and creator, is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is about reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk and treat sexuality. It is about stimulating the activist that is within all of us and sparking transformation in the way our friends, neighbors, children and even politicians discuss one of the most important aspects of humanity. In our session titled; Sex With Benefits: Progressive Swinging, we define progressive swinging, explain why we describe ourselves and our style of swinging as progressive swinging, and state its overarching goal: To unite the various non-monogamous communities under one larger community. We may not all speak as one, but we can be there for each other and work towards the kind of acceptance the LGBT community fought so long and hard for. Also Ginger gets flustered and loses her thoughts easily. Dylan "explainabrags" more. Cooper talks about being an accidental activist. Shira plays the role of "token poly snarky girl". Enjoy the live recording of our session! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Follow @CatalystCon on Twitter
Dee Dennis decided to join us for a discussion on building sex positive communities (and the perils within doing so), and how to translate that into a great conference experience! It's apropos as she's also the founder of CatalystCon so... we chat about that just a little bit. :)Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount! Check out the Aneros Helix Prostate Massager!Come see us at Catalyst East! RSVP via Facebook and let us know you're coming! Use Discount Code: swingset for 10& off your ticket!