Podcast appearances and mentions of heather boorman

Could it be that the most extreme behaviors of narcissists are so outlandish, they become almost undetectable to those closest to them? This intriguing question forms the core of a recent episode of "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman discussed the complexities of relationships involving narcissists, particularly focusing on the case involving the man accused of being the Long Island serial killer and his wife, Asa Ellerup. Boorman, an expert in trauma therapy, suggested that psychological coercive control might play a significant role in such relationships. She emphasized that the real abuse in these dynamics is not physical but psychological, stating, "The real abuse is the psychological manipulation and the psychological trauma." She pointed out that victims often feel responsible for the abuser's actions, leading them to excuse and cover up their behaviors. Discussing the possibility of Asa Ellerup's awareness of her husband's alleged crimes, Boorman acknowledged the complexity of the situation. She explained how victims of narcissistic abuse might not see the full extent of the narcissist's actions due to a combination of self-doubt, the abuser's skillful manipulation, and the victim's own psychological conditioning. Boorman also touched upon the concept of 'incels' or involuntary celibates, suggesting that individuals in this group often harbor resentment and anger towards those they perceive as rejecting them. This discussion broadened the scope of the conversation to include various facets of extreme narcissistic behaviors and their impact on interpersonal relationships and society at large. The episode also delved into the case of Brian Koberger, highlighting the difficulty in diagnosing such complex characters. Boorman speculated about potential neurodiversity or mental health issues that might contribute to such behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding the nuances of these cases. This insightful episode of "Hidden Killers" not only sheds light on the hidden dynamics of narcissistic relationships but also leaves the audience pondering a critical question: How can we begin to unravel the complex web of manipulation and control woven by narcissists, and what does it take to see the truth behind their façade?    Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj  Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

Could it be that the most extreme behaviors of narcissists are so outlandish, they become almost undetectable to those closest to them? This intriguing question forms the core of a recent episode of "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman discussed the complexities of relationships involving narcissists, particularly focusing on the case involving the man accused of being the Long Island serial killer and his wife, Asa Ellerup. Boorman, an expert in trauma therapy, suggested that psychological coercive control might play a significant role in such relationships. She emphasized that the real abuse in these dynamics is not physical but psychological, stating, "The real abuse is the psychological manipulation and the psychological trauma." She pointed out that victims often feel responsible for the abuser's actions, leading them to excuse and cover up their behaviors. Discussing the possibility of Asa Ellerup's awareness of her husband's alleged crimes, Boorman acknowledged the complexity of the situation. She explained how victims of narcissistic abuse might not see the full extent of the narcissist's actions due to a combination of self-doubt, the abuser's skillful manipulation, and the victim's own psychological conditioning. Boorman also touched upon the concept of 'incels' or involuntary celibates, suggesting that individuals in this group often harbor resentment and anger towards those they perceive as rejecting them. This discussion broadened the scope of the conversation to include various facets of extreme narcissistic behaviors and their impact on interpersonal relationships and society at large. The episode also delved into the case of Brian Koberger, highlighting the difficulty in diagnosing such complex characters. Boorman speculated about potential neurodiversity or mental health issues that might contribute to such behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding the nuances of these cases. This insightful episode of "Hidden Killers" not only sheds light on the hidden dynamics of narcissistic relationships but also leaves the audience pondering a critical question: How can we begin to unravel the complex web of manipulation and control woven by narcissists, and what does it take to see the truth behind their façade?    Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj  Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

Could it be that the most extreme behaviors of narcissists are so outlandish, they become almost undetectable to those closest to them? This intriguing question forms the core of a recent episode of "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman discussed the complexities of relationships involving narcissists, particularly focusing on the case involving the man accused of being the Long Island serial killer and his wife, Asa Ellerup. Boorman, an expert in trauma therapy, suggested that psychological coercive control might play a significant role in such relationships. She emphasized that the real abuse in these dynamics is not physical but psychological, stating, "The real abuse is the psychological manipulation and the psychological trauma." She pointed out that victims often feel responsible for the abuser's actions, leading them to excuse and cover up their behaviors. Discussing the possibility of Asa Ellerup's awareness of her husband's alleged crimes, Boorman acknowledged the complexity of the situation. She explained how victims of narcissistic abuse might not see the full extent of the narcissist's actions due to a combination of self-doubt, the abuser's skillful manipulation, and the victim's own psychological conditioning. Boorman also touched upon the concept of 'incels' or involuntary celibates, suggesting that individuals in this group often harbor resentment and anger towards those they perceive as rejecting them. This discussion broadened the scope of the conversation to include various facets of extreme narcissistic behaviors and their impact on interpersonal relationships and society at large. The episode also delved into the case of Brian Koberger, highlighting the difficulty in diagnosing such complex characters. Boorman speculated about potential neurodiversity or mental health issues that might contribute to such behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding the nuances of these cases. This insightful episode of "Hidden Killers" not only sheds light on the hidden dynamics of narcissistic relationships but also leaves the audience pondering a critical question: How can we begin to unravel the complex web of manipulation and control woven by narcissists, and what does it take to see the truth behind their façade?    Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj  Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

How do we understand and identify covert narcissism, especially when it's subtly woven into the fabric of our society and our relationships? This is the provocative question explored on the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with trauma therapist Heather Boorman. The focus was on covert narcissism and its prevalence in various characters discussed on the show, as well as its broader implications. Boorman, who specializes in this field, shared her insights on the nature of covert narcissism and its treatability. She expressed skepticism about the possibility of genuine change in narcissists, stating, "The general consensus is no, it can't [be fixed]... Most narcissists don't think they're the problem, so they don't seek change." This presents a chilling reality: those affected by narcissists may find the best course of action is to sever contact, as true change is rare. The conversation also delved into the origins of narcissistic traits. Is it a result of environmental factors, or is there an inherent predisposition? Boorman discussed the possibility of a combination of both, suggesting that certain upbringing conditions might 'unlock' inherent narcissistic traits. This duality of nature and nurture raises further questions about the development of such personality disorders. Discussing the perpetuation of narcissism across generations, Boorman noted the tendency for children of narcissists to either mirror their parents' traits or become overly compassionate, becoming prime targets for other narcissists. She pointed out the roles narcissistic parents assign their children – the golden child, the neglected one, or the scapegoat – and how these roles can influence the children's future behavior and personality development. The case of Alec Murdoch was highlighted as an example of malignant narcissism, where both inherited and learned behaviors seemed to contribute to his personality. Boorman carefully navigated the complexity of diagnosing such cases without personal interaction, emphasizing the importance of considering both genetic and environmental factors. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

How do we understand and identify covert narcissism, especially when it's subtly woven into the fabric of our society and our relationships? This is the provocative question explored on the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with trauma therapist Heather Boorman. The focus was on covert narcissism and its prevalence in various characters discussed on the show, as well as its broader implications. Boorman, who specializes in this field, shared her insights on the nature of covert narcissism and its treatability. She expressed skepticism about the possibility of genuine change in narcissists, stating, "The general consensus is no, it can't [be fixed]... Most narcissists don't think they're the problem, so they don't seek change." This presents a chilling reality: those affected by narcissists may find the best course of action is to sever contact, as true change is rare. The conversation also delved into the origins of narcissistic traits. Is it a result of environmental factors, or is there an inherent predisposition? Boorman discussed the possibility of a combination of both, suggesting that certain upbringing conditions might 'unlock' inherent narcissistic traits. This duality of nature and nurture raises further questions about the development of such personality disorders. Discussing the perpetuation of narcissism across generations, Boorman noted the tendency for children of narcissists to either mirror their parents' traits or become overly compassionate, becoming prime targets for other narcissists. She pointed out the roles narcissistic parents assign their children – the golden child, the neglected one, or the scapegoat – and how these roles can influence the children's future behavior and personality development. The case of Alec Murdoch was highlighted as an example of malignant narcissism, where both inherited and learned behaviors seemed to contribute to his personality. Boorman carefully navigated the complexity of diagnosing such cases without personal interaction, emphasizing the importance of considering both genetic and environmental factors. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

How do we understand and identify covert narcissism, especially when it's subtly woven into the fabric of our society and our relationships? This is the provocative question explored on the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with trauma therapist Heather Boorman. The focus was on covert narcissism and its prevalence in various characters discussed on the show, as well as its broader implications. Boorman, who specializes in this field, shared her insights on the nature of covert narcissism and its treatability. She expressed skepticism about the possibility of genuine change in narcissists, stating, "The general consensus is no, it can't [be fixed]... Most narcissists don't think they're the problem, so they don't seek change." This presents a chilling reality: those affected by narcissists may find the best course of action is to sever contact, as true change is rare. The conversation also delved into the origins of narcissistic traits. Is it a result of environmental factors, or is there an inherent predisposition? Boorman discussed the possibility of a combination of both, suggesting that certain upbringing conditions might 'unlock' inherent narcissistic traits. This duality of nature and nurture raises further questions about the development of such personality disorders. Discussing the perpetuation of narcissism across generations, Boorman noted the tendency for children of narcissists to either mirror their parents' traits or become overly compassionate, becoming prime targets for other narcissists. She pointed out the roles narcissistic parents assign their children – the golden child, the neglected one, or the scapegoat – and how these roles can influence the children's future behavior and personality development. The case of Alec Murdoch was highlighted as an example of malignant narcissism, where both inherited and learned behaviors seemed to contribute to his personality. Boorman carefully navigated the complexity of diagnosing such cases without personal interaction, emphasizing the importance of considering both genetic and environmental factors. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

Are we all just pawns in the elaborate game of narcissists, or can we learn to see through their facade? This is the question that emerged from a recent episode of the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman delved into the complex world of narcissism. Narcissism, often tossed around in casual conversation, may be more pervasive than we think. Boorman, author of 'A Thousand Paper Cuts,' explained, "Just because there are narcissistic tendencies does not necessarily qualify for an official NPD [Narcissistic Personality Disorder] diagnosis." She emphasized the spectrum of narcissism, from overt to covert, and the challenge of diagnosing based on the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Boorman described overt narcissists as those who exhibit grandiosity and a palpable need for admiration. They stand out at social gatherings with their self-centered behavior. In contrast, covert narcissists, while equally self-absorbed, are more insidious, often maintaining a positive public profile and employing psychological manipulations. "The overt narcissist is like a big meteor that hits, and a covert narcissist is like the Colorado River that chips away gradually," Boorman analogized. She explained that victims often don't realize the gradual erosion of their well-being in such relationships. The discussion also covered the motivations behind narcissistic behavior. Boorman outlined three primary goals: seeking supply (to feel their existence through others' reactions), avoiding introspection and underlying shame, and obtaining maximum benefit with minimal effort. Boorman and Brueski also discussed the pattern of narcissistic abuse, which typically follows a cycle of love bombing, devaluation, and discard. Victims often stay for decades, entangled in this cycle, unable to pinpoint the cause of their unhappiness. This enlightening conversation sheds light on a topic often misunderstood and oversimplified. As we navigate our relationships, it's crucial to ask: Are we equipped to recognize and protect ourselves from the subtle manipulations of narcissists? Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

Are we all just pawns in the elaborate game of narcissists, or can we learn to see through their facade? This is the question that emerged from a recent episode of the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman delved into the complex world of narcissism. Narcissism, often tossed around in casual conversation, may be more pervasive than we think. Boorman, author of 'A Thousand Paper Cuts,' explained, "Just because there are narcissistic tendencies does not necessarily qualify for an official NPD [Narcissistic Personality Disorder] diagnosis." She emphasized the spectrum of narcissism, from overt to covert, and the challenge of diagnosing based on the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Boorman described overt narcissists as those who exhibit grandiosity and a palpable need for admiration. They stand out at social gatherings with their self-centered behavior. In contrast, covert narcissists, while equally self-absorbed, are more insidious, often maintaining a positive public profile and employing psychological manipulations. "The overt narcissist is like a big meteor that hits, and a covert narcissist is like the Colorado River that chips away gradually," Boorman analogized. She explained that victims often don't realize the gradual erosion of their well-being in such relationships. The discussion also covered the motivations behind narcissistic behavior. Boorman outlined three primary goals: seeking supply (to feel their existence through others' reactions), avoiding introspection and underlying shame, and obtaining maximum benefit with minimal effort. Boorman and Brueski also discussed the pattern of narcissistic abuse, which typically follows a cycle of love bombing, devaluation, and discard. Victims often stay for decades, entangled in this cycle, unable to pinpoint the cause of their unhappiness. This enlightening conversation sheds light on a topic often misunderstood and oversimplified. As we navigate our relationships, it's crucial to ask: Are we equipped to recognize and protect ourselves from the subtle manipulations of narcissists? Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

Are we all just pawns in the elaborate game of narcissists, or can we learn to see through their facade? This is the question that emerged from a recent episode of the podcast "Hidden Killers," where host Tony Brueski and trauma therapist Heather Boorman delved into the complex world of narcissism. Narcissism, often tossed around in casual conversation, may be more pervasive than we think. Boorman, author of 'A Thousand Paper Cuts,' explained, "Just because there are narcissistic tendencies does not necessarily qualify for an official NPD [Narcissistic Personality Disorder] diagnosis." She emphasized the spectrum of narcissism, from overt to covert, and the challenge of diagnosing based on the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). Boorman described overt narcissists as those who exhibit grandiosity and a palpable need for admiration. They stand out at social gatherings with their self-centered behavior. In contrast, covert narcissists, while equally self-absorbed, are more insidious, often maintaining a positive public profile and employing psychological manipulations. "The overt narcissist is like a big meteor that hits, and a covert narcissist is like the Colorado River that chips away gradually," Boorman analogized. She explained that victims often don't realize the gradual erosion of their well-being in such relationships. The discussion also covered the motivations behind narcissistic behavior. Boorman outlined three primary goals: seeking supply (to feel their existence through others' reactions), avoiding introspection and underlying shame, and obtaining maximum benefit with minimal effort. Boorman and Brueski also discussed the pattern of narcissistic abuse, which typically follows a cycle of love bombing, devaluation, and discard. Victims often stay for decades, entangled in this cycle, unable to pinpoint the cause of their unhappiness. This enlightening conversation sheds light on a topic often misunderstood and oversimplified. As we navigate our relationships, it's crucial to ask: Are we equipped to recognize and protect ourselves from the subtle manipulations of narcissists? Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

We recently had the opportunity to speak with Heather Boorman, the founding director of Boorman Counseling in Western Wisconsin. Heather is the author of The Gifted Kids Workbook and a blogger/podcaster at The Fringy Bit, where she shares her journey of homeschooling her three kids with twice exceptionality, or 2e. In this conversation, we'll learn more about what 2e means, why Heather has dedicated her life to this work, and what it means to her family and perhaps even yours.Support the show (https://whoiscarter.z2systems.com/np/clients/whoiscarter/donation.jsp)

Writer, public speaker and LCSW Heather Boorman (The Fringy Bit) talks about how parents can support their gifted and 2e children's social, emotional, and intellectual needs through the pandemic.For more info, visit: www.tiltparenting.com/session240Support the show

Raising kids "on the fringes," or gifted, 2e, etc can be isolating and confusing. Therapist and author Heather Boorman joins Colleen on today's episode to talk about how helping kids see their differences can help them be the amazing people they're meant to be. Her 13yo son joins the conversation too, giving some great advice to help teens who feel isolated find friends with similar interests.

We are super excited to have Heather Boorman, of the Fringy Bit Podcast, share her talk on Self-Compassion from the SENG (Supporting the Emotional Needs of the Gifted) conference last summer! Self-Compassion has been proven to be an effective mindset and intervention toward more sustainable mental health and self-concept. This presentation will apply the work of Dr. Kristin Neff in the field of self-compassion to the gifted population and typical struggles faced by many gifted individuals. In particular, we will consider how Dabrowski’s super-stimulabilities and other typical psychosocial traits can lead to perfectionism, imposter syndrome, self-judgment, low frustration tolerance, depression, and anxiety. We will consider the ways in which society’s responses to giftedness and emphasis on self-esteem can also contribute to un-wellness in gifted children, youth, and adults. Self-compassion will then be defined and defended as an effective intervention toward increased wellness. Attendees will be introduced to, and participate in, exercises to increase self-compassion. The session will be a blend of lecture and interactive. Learning Objectives: Participants will be able to identify at least 5 psychosocial traits typical within the gifted population Participants will be able to explain how typical psychosocial experiences of gifted individuals may contribute to un-wellness in the forms of perfectionism, imposter syndrome, low frustration tolerance, self-judgment, and mental health issues. Participants will be able to define self-compassion and identify the 3 components that contribute to self-compassion Participants will be able to identify and implement at least 3 interventions to increase self-compassion. About the Author: Heather Boorman lives an intensely joy-filled and full life as a homeschooling mom to 3 fringy kids and the executive director and therapist with Boorman Counseling. She passionately advocates for differently wired kids and adults through her work as a national speaker, writer & podcaster at The Fringy Bit. Heather’s also the author of The Gifted Kids Workbook, which provides mindfulness-based activities to help kids reduce stress, balance emotions, and build confidence. About Embracing Intensity Group Calls: Each month on the second Saturday, we will have a guest speaker dive into a topic they love followed by a discussion with the group. The talk will be shared on the podcast, but the discussion will only be shared with Embracing Intensity community members and patrons. The calls will be on the Zoom platform, which allows you to interact at whatever level you'd like (video, audio or use photo and chat box). There will be an opportunity for further discussion in the Embracing Intensity Community. Links: Fringy Bit Podcast Embracing Intensity Community

Heather Boorman lives an intensely joy-filled and full life as a homeschooling mom to 3 fringy kids and the executive director and therapist with Boorman Counseling.  She passionately advocates for differently wired kids and adults through her work as a national speaker, writer & podcaster at The Fringy Bit.  Heather’s also the author of The Gifted Kids Workbook, which provides mindfulness-based activities to help kids reduce stress, balance emotions, and build confidence. Listen in to hear Heather share: How she meets the unique needs of her three fringy kids through a mix of homeschooling and traditional schooling Her definition of fringy kids Common misconceptions of gifted kids and parenting gifted kids The importance of self-compassion when parenting fringy kids Why it’s ok to go AWOL sometimes – and what to do if you suspect another mom might have gone AWOL Links and Resources Mentioned: Get on the Wait List for MOMENTUM Mamas Wait List Connect with Heather online: The Fringy Bit Connect with Heather locally: Boorman Counseling Connect with Heather on Facebook Workbook: The Gifted Kids Workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Songfinch: To save $20 off your Personalized Song From Scratch, go to Songfinch and use the code SHAMELESS at checkout. Homesick Candles: Save 10% off any order over $50 and get free shipping at Homesick Candles when you use the code SHAMELESS at checkout. Hint Water: To get 36 bottles of Hint Water for just $36 visit Hint Drink Water and use the promo code SHAMELESS at checkout.

Do you know kids living on the fringes? Kids living on the fringes are the passion of today’s guest, Heather Boorman. Heather is a writer, public speaker, podcaster and  Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Heather is the founding member and therapist at Boorman Counseling, LLC in Western Wisconsin. Additionally, Heather serves on the Board of Directors for the Wisconsin Association for the Gifted and Talented. Heather will be speaking with Aurora at the San Diego Emotional Needs of the Gifted  (SENG) Conference in July. Heather is the co-host of the Fringy Bit Podcast and has a book, The Gifted Needs Workbook, coming out August 1. I hope to have some copies available for pre-release at the SENG Conference. Heather is a homeschool mom to three fringy kids which further fuels her advocacy for kids living on the fringes. More in this episode:  • Being real is freeing! • Chances are that you contributed to the giftedness of your children. • Claim your own giftedness. • Until we can model our giftedness, misperceptions by others will continue to exist. • Confidence comes from really knowing yourself; faults and positive traits. • Intensity for adults may mean going “full in”.  • Gifted children may process themselves inwardly. • Internal intensity may make deep connections with others difficult. • Children need the security to be/express themselves. • Culture may inhibit one’s ability to express himself.  • Mindfulness helps me have peace and calm. • Introverts need personal time to be able to focus on themselves. • The Fringy Bit Podcast helps you to you understand your own/ kids’ fire. • Everyone struggles with doubts and fears.   Resources: How to donate to help keep the podcast going via Patreon:  The Fringy Bit Podcast  The Fringy Bit Episode with Aurora SENG Conference  Boorman Counseling  Wherever You Go, There You Are, by Jon Kabat-Zinn Living With Intensity, by Susan Daniels and Michael M. Piechowski Self Reg, by Dr. Stuart Shanker Connect with Heather: Facebook