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How to Know If My Parent Is a Narcissist: Signs You Were Raised by Narcissistic Caregivers If you've ever found yourself asking, "Was this normal?" or "Why do I still struggle even though I'm an adult?"—this episode is for you. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano explores the subtle and often misunderstood signs of narcissistic parenting, and how being raised by a narcissistic, emotionally neglectful, or emotionally immature parent can shape your nervous system, self-concept, and relationships well into adulthood. Rather than focusing on labels or blame, this conversation helps adult children understand what they adapted to in order to survive—and why so many struggle with self-doubt, people-pleasing, emotional suppression, and codependency later in life. You'll learn: Common traits of narcissistic parents that often go unrecognized Why children internalize blame and self-abandonment How narcissistic parenting impacts emotional regulation and self-trust Why healing is about awareness and nervous system safety—not fixing yourself ✨ It's not you. ✨ It's your programming. ✨ And programming can be changed. Healing Resources & Support
"I know who they are... but I'm staying."Not everyone is ready to leave. Whether it's for the kids, financial stability, or a hope that things will change, many people choose to remain in a relationship with a narcissist. As a self-aware narcissist, I want to have a real, judgment-free conversation about what that actually looks like.If you choose to stay, you have to know the price you are going to pay. Today, we are talking about the "Trade-Offs"—the isolation, the loss of self, and the reality of radical acceptance. This isn't about shaming you for staying; it's about preparing you for the life you are choosing.IN THIS LIVE, WE DISCUSS:Radical Acceptance: How to stop waiting for the "Old Version" of them to come back.The Isolation Factor: Why your world gets smaller the longer you stay.The Death of Expectation: How to survive when you know your emotional needs will never be met.Building a "Life Within a Life": How to find pockets of peace while living in the storm.If you've decided to stay, you need to know how to protect your spirit while you're there.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Hear biblical answers and clear spiritual guidance as Rick Burgess applies Scripture to help believers navigate the spiritual war happening around us in this episode of "Strange Encounters". Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are they "scared" of intimacy, or are they "managing" you?It's the question that keeps thousands of people stuck in toxic cycles. You see them pulling away, shutting down, and becoming cold—but is it because they have an Avoidant Attachment Style or is it Narcissistic Devaluation?All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessAs a self-aware narcissist, I'm breaking down the nuances that therapists often miss. I'm explaining the difference between the "Avoidant's Fear" and the "Narcissist's Control." If you treat a narcissist like an avoidant, you will end up destroyed. If you treat an avoidant like a narcissist, you'll miss the chance for a healthy boundary.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
In this powerful breakdown, Rebecca Zung reveals the hard truth about high conflict disputes: you are not fighting for justice, you are fighting for leverage. If you are dealing with a narcissist in litigation, custody battles, business disputes, or mediation, this video shows you exactly how to stop reacting emotionally and start building structured leverage that wins cases.
Are you swiping right on a predator? Online dating is a narcissist's dream. It allows them to curate a "Perfect Mask" before you ever meet them. As a self-aware narcissist, I'm pulling back the curtain on how we use dating profiles to target empathetic, successful, and high-value people. From the "Nice Guy" bio to the weaponized religious photos, I'm showing you exactly what the "bait" looks like.IN THIS LIVE, WE DISCUSS:The Visual Bait: Why they use gym selfies, "flex" photos, or photos with kids that aren't theirs.The "Nice Guy" Paradox: Why labeling themselves as "God-fearing" or "wholesome" is a major red flag.The Intent Trap: What "Short-term open to long-term" actually means in narcissist-speak.Keywords to Avoid: Why phrases like "drama-free," "soulmate," and "can handle me" are immediate "Swipe Left" warnings.Don't fall for the mask. Learn to read between the lines.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
If you are dealing with a narcissist in divorce, custody battles, business, or a toxic relationship, this episode reveals a proven 4-step strategy to take your power back. Learn the psychology behind narcissistic manipulation, love bombing, trauma bonding, smear campaigns, and how to negotiate effectively using the SLAY method. This is a masterclass in narcissism recovery, high-conflict negotiation, and emotional self-defense.
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"Just go No Contact!" feels like a slap in the face when you have shared custody, a business, or legal ties to a narcissist.For many survivors, complete severance isn't an option. But that doesn't mean you have to remain their emotional punching bag. As a self-aware narcissist, I know exactly how we use children, finances, and property as leverage to keep getting "supply" long after the relationship ends.In this video, I'm introducing the "O.N. Contact" (Only Necessary Contact) method. This is the strategic evolution of "Gray Rock," designed specifically for those who are forced to communicate with their abuser.All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessIN THIS VIDEO, WE DISCUSS:The Narcissist's Leverage: Why they use the kids or money to bait you into emotional arguments.Defining "Necessary": How to strip every ounce of personality and emotion out of your communication.The "Hostile Coworker" Mindset: Shifting from "ex-partner" to "business associate that I hate."Communication Protocols: Why you must move everything to email or parenting apps (and never phone calls).The Extinction Burst: How they will react when you stop feeding them supply through co-parenting chaos.You can't always leave the situation, but you can leave the dynamic.RESOURCES & SUPPORT:
When you're married to a narcissist, the emotional abuse can become so relentless that you begin to lose hope. Many wives of narcissistic husbands experience suicidal thoughts, depression, panic attacks, and deep hopelessness, not because they are weak, but because they are living in ongoing trauma. In this video, I explain: Why narcissistic abuse creates suicidal ideation How covert narcissists slowly destroy your self-esteem The physical and emotional toll of long-term narcissistic marriage Why staying in an abusive relationship feels like "slow suicide" How to fight back and begin reclaiming your life If you are married to a narcissist — or recently divorced one — and you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm, you are not crazy, and you are not alone. Narcissistic abuse causes deep trauma bonds, emotional exhaustion, and spiritual confusion. But there is a path forward. God does not want you to stay trapped in narcissistic abuse. There is hope. There is freedom. And there is a way to rebuild your strength, your voice, and your life.
When God Exposes the Covert Narcissist, Expect This ReactionLiving with a covert narcissist can feel confusing, exhausting, and disorienting - but when God exposes what's hidden, the fallout that follows isn't random. It's predictable.In this episode, we unpack the biblical pattern that unfolds when God brings truth into the light. Using a storm-system analogy, you'll learn why the narcissist's reaction escalates in clear phases, why things often feel worse before they get better, and how what looks like chaos is actually confirmation that God is moving.We walk through the three key phases God allows:Truth coming into the openControl being disruptedSeparation and fruit being revealedYou'll also understand why covert narcissists panic when illusion breaks, how victimhood and blame intensify, and why separation - emotional, relational, or practical—is often unavoidable when truth replaces manipulation.This episode isn't about attacking or exposing - it's about discernment, protection, and peace. When you recognize the pattern, you can stop questioning yourself and start trusting what God is showing you.
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In this episode, I sit down with Dana Skaggs, licensed psychological examiner and known as the Queen of Boundaries, to unpack why boundary dysfunction is often at the root of anxiety, burnout, and emotional exhaustion. We talk about: Why saying “no” can trigger panic How narcissistic dynamics train you to over-function and keep the peace The connection between trauma and weak or collapsing boundaries Practical ways to set and defend boundaries during divorce Dana also shares her personal experience navigating a toxic parent relationship and how learning to hold boundaries changed her life. If you're tired of being pulled in every direction and ready to reclaim your peace, this conversation will show you where to start. Dana Skaggs Website Phoenix & Flame Podcast **DISCLAIMER:** THE INFORMATION PROVIDED IN THIS PODCAST IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED LEGAL ADVICE OR A SUBSTITUTE FOR THE GUIDANCE OF A LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL. EACH INDIVIDUAL'S CIRCUMSTANCES ARE UNIQUE, AND ANYONE SEEKING LEGAL ADVICE SHOULD CONSULT A QUALIFIED ATTORNEY. IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT, PLEASE REACH OUT TO A LICENSED THERAPIST OR COUNSELOR.
My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this? In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there's physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can't move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or submit it through this link: https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mailFollow on AppleFollow on SpotifySubmit your question to be answered on air here!Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support Follow Dr. Kerry! Youtube Instagram TikTok Facebook Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases. This podcast/video is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute therapy, counseling, or professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis, please call 911 or your local emergency number.
Emotional vampires! We can all relate, right? I am chatting with someone who has been through it and helped people all over the country to navigate relationships (and ending them!) with people who drain our energy, suck us dry, take too much, and even ruin our lives. (Forgive me for being dramatic but it's true!) Coach Daniel Ratner and I discuss: -Our experiences with emotional vampires-Five different types -Taking a friend audit-Tips for protecting ourselves from emotional vampiresProtect yourself! Buy Coach Daniel Ratner's book, Emotional Vampires here: https://amzn.to/40umvlg And learn more about his powerful work here: https://coachratner.com/ Are you going through a breakup and feel out of whack? Learn the science behind what you're going through and how to navigate it with my free eBook: “Breakup Brain."Want to buy me a glass of wine? Join my Patreon here.1:00-Welcome Coach Daniel Ratner! 1:45-Where to buy “Emotional Vampires” by Coach Daniel Ratner3:00-Daniel's recent experience with an emotional vampire5:00-Get away from draining people with the “K.E.E.P.E.R” strategy6:30-Narcissists as emotional vampires8:00-What if your relative is an emotional vampire? 10:00-The “socially awkward” as emotional vampires12:50-Clues that people are socially awkward16:30-Drama queens! 20:00-A man's height doesn't matter! 22:00-The over-talkers as emotional vampires 25:00-Breakups with emotional vampires25:30-Running can help you heal! 26:00-Keep fences around your happiness! 27:00-Tips for keeping yourself safe from people who drain you27:10-Taking a “friend audit”28:00-Family distancing 32:00-Hurt people hurt people40:00-Taking control of conversations 40:45-The power of being picky Thank you for listening! Plz, plz make sure to throw me some support by subscribing! Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: JaniceFormichella.com and my IG: @janiceformichellaDownload The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ____________________________________________________________________________Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.
Genna James is a super popular cam star, creator, and chaos technician — and this one gets nasty in the best way. We go deep into the cam world from someone who actually lives there: marathon live sessions, thousands of people watching in real time, chat going bonkers, and what it feels like to be on camera while the whole room is watching you cum.She tells the Black Friday fuck-machine story, gets into collabs with other women and her neighbor, and breaks down the requests she gets nonstop — from the regular stuff to the truly unhinged. We also hit cam-room etiquette, audience control, where she likes the cumshot, and whether she's thinking about making the jump into mainstream.Welcome to the Season 5 Premiere, welcome to EP 214: "The Tit Factor" with Genna James.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Genna JamesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypnkgf (@mypnkgf)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Leaving a relationship with someone who has untreated borderline personality traits can feel less like a breakup and more like trying to escape a locked room while being told you're the one causing the fire.In this episode, I speak directly to the people who are rarely centered in these conversations: the partners who have been living inside someone else's emotional emergency. The ones who learned to scan tone, timing, silence, and mood shifts just to survive. The ones whose nervous systems became collateral damage.This is not an episode about diagnosing or vilifying people with BPD. It is about naming the relational impact of untreated emotional dysregulation, identity collapse, abandonment panic, and rage–care oscillation on the person who loves them.I talk about:Why leaving can feel impossible without intense guilt and fearHow reality erosion, false accusations, and emotional role reversal take holdThe cycle I see over and over again: rage → collapse → panic → pleading → accusationWhy reassurance makes things worse instead of betterHow partners slowly disappear while trying to keep someone else regulatedWhy intent does not cancel impact, even when suffering is realIf you've ever felt like you were the safest person in the world one moment and the villain the next—with no transition, no shared reality, and no way to win—this episode is for you.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast* Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
00:00 Truly End the Cycle 05:48 Shame Ruined my life 07:20 Frequency and Vibration of Shame 12:27 Shame In Energetic Field 21:27 Dissolve Shame Practice 23:50 It Ends With ME Invitation Many cycle-breakers try everything: Avoiding relationships. Endless solo healing. Over-functioning. Manifesting love or money but not being able to hold it. And the reason the cycle doesn't fully end? Shame. Shame is absorbed in narcissistic family systems, passed down through generations, and stored in the energetic field. When shame is your dominant frequency, you can't hold love, safety, expansion, or healthy relationships — no matter how much “work” you've done. In this podcast, I share the one thing that actually breaks the cycle — dissolving shame at the root. you'll learn: 1. Why shame is the lowest frequency in the energetic field 2. Why shame is not who you are — and never was 3. How narcissistic family systems unconsciously keep shame alive through gaslighting and invalidation 4. A simple but powerful practice you can use today to stop absorbing shame and start dissolving it This is Part 1 of a two-part series. Today we explore why dissolving shame is essential. In the next podcast I'll show you how to fully end the cycle of shame — practically and energetically. Ready to stop repeating the pattern? This is the work we do inside my community IT ENDS WITH ME — a space for cycle-breakers healing shame in real relationship, not isolation. Inside the community we focus on: Healing the nervous system after emotional abuse Inner child healing and re-parenting Rewiring survival-based beliefs Creating love, safety, success, and family from the heart — not trauma patterns Join here :
In this third episode of The Narcissism Trap series, we shift from personal validation to legal strategy, exploring why the very word that brought you clarity could be the thing that sinks your court case. We'll look at how judges actually view labels like "narcissist" and why focusing on clinical diagnoses can unintentionally dilute accountability and hand a "gift" to your ex's legal team.
Narcissists rely on manipulation, gaslighting, and psychological control to protect their false self, but once you understand their patterns, their power collapses. In this episode, you'll learn the hidden truths narcissists don't want you to know, the exact phrases they use to control you, what happens when they realize you've figured them out, and the strategic steps that actually protect you and restore your power.
When someone says, “I think my partner is a narcissist,” they're usually not chasing a diagnosis—they're trying to make sense of a relationship that feels controlling, confusing, and painful. This episode slows it way down and compares narcissism with insecure attachment patterns (pursuer/withdrawer) and neurodivergence, since the impact can look similar even when the why is totally different. The big differentiator they keep coming back to is flexibility: is there willingness to reflect, learn, repair, and change—even if slowly? Main talking points Impact over labels Spectrum, not binary Rigidity vs flexibility Withdrawer mislabels Neurodivergent overlap Curiosity “experiments” Give Me Discounts! Check out Relationship Academy! Cozy Earth - Black Friday has come early! Right now, you can stack my code “IDO” on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings. These deals won't last, so start your holiday shopping today! Beducate - Use code relationship69 for 65% off the annual pass. AG1 - AG1 has become my go to every morning. Simple Practice - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! Skylight - Use code “IDO” for $30 off your 15 inch calendar. If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you've ever wondered, "Does God hate narcissists?" — especially in the context of a toxic or emotionally abusive Christian marriage — this video is for you. In today's podcast episode, we explore what the Bible actually says about narcissism, pride, oppression, and spiritual manipulation. Many Christian women trapped in marriages with a covert narcissistic husband struggle with confusion, guilt, and shame — especially when Scripture is used against them. But what does God truly say about narcissistic abuse? Does God defend the abuser? Does He expect you to endure emotional or spiritual harm in silence? In this episode, we unpack: What the Bible says about pride, oppression, and abusive behavior How narcissists twist Scripture to control their wives The difference between biblical submission and spiritual abuse Whether God supports staying in a toxic marriage How to discern truth from manipulation If you are a Christian woman dealing with a covert narcissist, emotional abuse, or spiritual manipulation in your marriage, this message will bring clarity and biblical truth. You are not crazy. You are not overreacting. And God is not blind to injustice.
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This video examines how Machiavellian traits are not separate from narcissism, but actively operate within Narcissistic Personality Disorder as precise, repeatable behavioral patterns. Rather than theory or labels, this breakdown focuses on exact behavior matches: calculated manipulation, strategic deception, emotional exploitation, and the intentional use of others as instruments. By analyzing real-world narcissistic behaviors through a Machiavellian lens, this content reveals how control, power, and self-preservation override empathy, accountability, and conscience. These traits manifest consistently across relationships, families, leadership roles, and spiritual environments.Beyond psychology, this video also explores the spiritual dimension of narcissism. Narcissistic personalities often display spiritual mimicry, moral posturing, and false enlightenment as tools for dominance, validation, and control. What appears as confidence, wisdom, or higher purpose frequently masks a hollow inner structure driven by ego, fear, and entitlement.https://youtu.be/4lam-bZR0Q0This video breaks down: • How Machiavellian traits directly align with Narcissistic Personality Disorder behaviors • Exact behavioral patterns used to manipulate, test, and dominate others • Why narcissists weaponize charm, intelligence, and silence • The absence of empathy versus the presence of strategic awareness • Spiritual bypassing, false humility, and pseudo-awakening in narcissistic personalities • How narcissists distort truth, morality, and spirituality for self-gainThis channel is dedicated to exposing narcissistic behavior with clarity, precision, and depth. The goal is not fear, but awareness. Understanding the behavioral structure behind narcissism is the first step toward protection, detachment, and recovery. If you are seeking truth beyond surface explanations and want to recognize narcissistic patterns both psychologically and spiritually, this video is for you.#Greenland #Narcissism #machiavellian narcissist #darksouls• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/ r3aEwvK• Shop Designs & Technology: https:// www.tracyspence.co.uk• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/@narccon/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Have you ever discovered a betrayal—infidelity, a lie, or a discard—and suddenly felt a surge of intense desire to be close to the person who hurt you? That isn't love—it's Hysterical Bonding.Hysterical bonding is a biological survival response. When a narcissist pulls away or betrays you, your brain treats the loss of the relationship as a life-or-death threat. This triggers a frantic need to reclaim the bond, often through intense physical intimacy or emotional desperation, just to feel "safe" again.In this video, I'm breaking down this phenomenon from the perspective of a self-aware narcissist. I'm explaining why this response is exactly what a narcissist wants, because it resets the cycle and gives them ultimate control over your panic.IN THIS VIDEO:The Panic Response: Why betrayal leads to an obsession with reconnection.Biological Warfare: How your own hormones (Oxytocin/Dopamine) keep you trapped.The Narcissist's Reset: Why we use your "bonding" to avoid accountability for what we did.Breaking the Cycle: How to recognize the difference between love and trauma-induced panic.Your body is reacting to a threat. Don't let the narcissist convince you that your panic is "passion."Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
ou finally figured out your partner was a narcissist—and then you looked at your parents. Then your friends. Then your boss.It's called the "Awakening," and it is one of the most overwhelming parts of the healing journey. Once you learn the patterns of narcissistic behavior, you can't "un-see" them. Today, I'm explaining why this happens and why you aren't "crazy" for suddenly seeing these traits in the people you've known your whole life.As a self-aware narcissist, I'm breaking down why we often seek out people who were already "trained" by narcissistic parents or friends to accept our behavior.IN THIS LIVE SESSION:The Blueprint: How growing up with a narcissistic parent prepared you for a narcissistic partner.The Friend Group Cleanup: Why you're suddenly realizing your "closest" friends are actually energy vampires.Frequency Illusion vs. Reality: Is everyone really a narcissist, or did you just finally learn the language?Q&A: Ask me anything about navigating these new realizations without losing your mind.The fog is lifting. It's painful, but it's the only way to get free.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Narcissism is a term that gets used constantly - but what does it actually mean in psychological terms, and how is it shaping our society? In this episode, Dr. Phil Stieg speaks with leading expert Dr. Keith Campbell to separate myth from science. Drawing from his book The New Science of Narcissism, Dr. Campbell explains the difference between everyday self-focused traits and the far rarer personality disorder, unpacks the two distinct expressions of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism, and explores how these patterns influence our relationships, leadership, parenting, and culture. Plus, let's spend some time with the "O.G." narcissist. For more information, transcripts, and all episodes, please visit https://thisisyourbrain.com For more about Weill Cornell Medicine Neurological Surgery, please visit https://neurosurgery.weillcornell.org
HOW TO DEAL WITH A NARCISSIST This week's short Montyman's Meditorial Monty shares a few simple ideas that may help you deal with those who suck the energy right out of you with their self-absorbed ways #recovery #alcoholic #twelvesteps #wedorecover #addiction
If you were targeted by a narcissist, it wasn't because you were weak. Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains why self-aware narcissists look for high-value, resilient targets to consume.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
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The fallout of a boundary is usually a war. Here is how to survive it.You watched yesterday's video on the 3 Ways to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist, but now you're living through the reaction. Why do they get more aggressive when you say "no"? Why does a simple boundary lead to a smear campaign or a week of silence?As a self-aware narcissist, I'm breaking down the "punishment phase" from the inside out. In today's LIVE, we are discussing:The Smear Campaign: Why they tell everyone you're the "abuser" the moment you set a limit.Guilt Tripping: How they use your empathy to make you feel bad for having needs.The Escalation: Why things get worse before they get better (The Extinction Burst).Live Q&A: I'll be translating your specific situations in real-time.Don't let their reaction bait you back into the cycle. Let's talk about how to hold the line.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we explore why some abusive partners don't let go after the relationship ends — and instead escalate their behavior in an attempt to regain control.Many survivors expect leaving to bring peace. But for those dealing with a vindictive narcissist, separation can trigger retaliation, punishment, and prolonged psychological warfare.Drawing from survivor patterns we've heard in stories like Rose's, and Wednesday's, we break down what vindictive behavior really means, what causes it, and why it often emerges after a narcissistic injury — when the abuser experiences your independence as a threat to their identity and control.In this episode, we discuss:• Why narcissists escalate after you leave• What a narcissistic injury is and why it triggers retaliation• How vindictive narcissists weaponize courts, finances, and social systems• Why their behavior feels calculated rather than emotional• Why reasoning, appeasement, or fairness rarely stops the pattern• And the turning point survivors reach when they stop trying to fix the abuser and begin reclaiming themselvesIf you've ever felt punished for leaving, this episode will help you understand the psychology behind vindictiveness — and why their behavior was never a reflection of your worth, but of their need for control. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Season 4 ends the only way it should: unhinged, ambitious, and way too honest. Coco Bae pulls up with her 2026 vision board—a literal wall of “targets,” cutouts, and a mission to hook up with 70 guys in one calendar year. Yes, it's insane. Yes, she's serious. And yes… one of the guys is already in motion—he pops in to explain what it's like getting summoned to Australia to be her content boyfriend.We get into what that goal actually takes (logistics, appetite, and chaos), what she's training for next, whether she's finally ready to level up to her "anal era", and if gangbang adventures are on the table. Plus: the wildest flex in the episode—her golden pussy Fleshlight is out now, and her golden asshole is already on the way. Season 4 goes out loud. Turn it up, pour an extra one for me, and enjoy EP 213: "Vision Board" with Coco Bae (SEASON 4 FINALE).Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Coco BaeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cocobae.tv (@cocobae.tv)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
Why does a narcissist "forget" their promises? Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains the truth behind "Narcissistic Amnesia." It's not a memory problem—it's a lack of accountability.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
In this second episode of The Narcissism Trap series, we open up the DSM-5 and walk through the actual clinical criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder but with a crucial twist.
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If you are codependent, you struggle to hold onto your own voice. You have most likely been raised by those who emotionally neglected you as a child. Many adult children come from homes where they were seen and not heard. Often we are those who struggle with anxious attachment and tend to attract narcissistic partners and friends. When the going gets rough, codependents rarely end relationships. We tend to commit ourselves to fixing the relationship, even at the cost of ourselves. As we heal from codependency, we learn to appreciate the power of emotional detachment and discernment. To achieve such objectivity, we learn to observe rather than absorb others, and especially those who are narcissistic. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach, codependency recovery and narcissistic abuse recovery expert, explains why asking a narcissist specific questions is key to detaching from enmeshed toxic relationship dynamics. The questions to ask a narcissist, are meant to help you become clearer about the way a narcissist thinks. This type of clarity enables you to develop emotional distance. In this new space of clarity, you begin to find the power to detach from the aching of the inner child. No longer are anxious attachment wounds governing how you react. Healing from codependency is one of the fastest and loving ways to break free of a narcissistic relationship dynamic. If you are ready to heal at the level of your inner child's subconscious, Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Roadmap is the gentlest place to start. Ready to breakthrough codependency? Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Program is a roadmap for adult children living with the consequences of emotional neglect, and who wish to heal codependency so to live an authentic life and experience emotional freedom.
Divorcing a narcissist is already emotionally exhausting, but when your kids begin turning against you, the pain can feel unbearable. In this episode, we break down what's really happening when children side with a narcissistic parent and how to respond in a healthy, strategic way. If you're dealing with parental alienation, manipulation, or emotional abuse during a narcissistic divorce, this conversation will give you clarity and practical next steps. Register for my upcoming 2-Day trainign on March 9-10, 2026: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/webinar We cover: Why kids sometimes align with a narcissistic parent The psychology behind parental alienation How narcissists manipulate children during divorce What NOT to do when your child turns against you How to protect your relationship with your children long-term Emotional regulation strategies during high-conflict co-parenting Healing from narcissistic abuse while parenting Whether you are co-parenting with a narcissist, navigating custody battles, or struggling with the emotional impact of narcissistic abuse on your family, this episode will help you understand what's happening, and how to move forward with strength. You are not alone.
Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong? This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid "I Love You My Narcissist" portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW
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When you stop giving a narcissist "supply," they don't just walk away quietly. They enter an "Extinction Burst." As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains why the behavior gets 10x more aggressive when you start setting boundaries. Learn the signs of the burst and why your reaction is exactly what they are looking for.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
In this video, we discuss:The Spotlight Struggle: Why your joy feels like a threat to my ego.The Obligation Trap: Why being "forced" to be romantic makes a narcissist want to rebel.Devaluation as a Tool: How ruining a special day gives the narcissist back the control.The "Gift" of Chaos: Why a fight is easier for us to handle than genuine intimacy.If you are feeling the "holiday dread" right now, this video is for you. Stop blaming yourself for their behavior.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
What happens when a narcissist can no longer rely on their looks, their money, or their status to control people? As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains the shift from "Grandiosity" to "Bitterness.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Narcissism is a term that gets thrown around often. But what does it really mean in psychological terms and how is it shaping our society? Next week, we're joined by Dr. Keith Campbell, a leading expert on narcissism and a professor of psychology at the University of Georgia. Through decades of research, Dr. Campbell has explored the roots, risks, and realities of narcissistic behavior, helping us understand when self-love becomes self-delusion. He joins us to break down how these traits impact our relationships, our mental health, and our culture increasingly obsessed with the self. For more information, transcripts, and all episodes, please visit https://thisisyourbrain.com For more about Weill Cornell Medicine Neurological Surgery, please visit https://neurosurgery.weillcornell.org
In this re-release episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon and his old pal Melissa listen to unsent 'Letters To My Narcissist' that they received from a handful of courageous narcissistic abuse survivors. It's an emotional roller coaster of an episode that will make you laugh and cry, with some goosebumps in between. Prepare to be impacted. CONTENT WARNING - Some letters discuss sexual assault and child abuse Click if you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@pm.meClick on the title to read about Self Gaslighting & Why You Doubt Your RealitySign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
7 Lies the Church Taught You About How Jesus Handled NarcissistsIf you've ever felt guilty for setting boundaries, saying no, or protecting your peace, it may not be conviction - it may be mis-teaching. In this episode, we expose seven common lies many Christians were taught about how Jesus handled narcissistic, controlling, or deceitful people - and why those teachings quietly keep believers stuck in guilt, exhaustion, and self-abandonment.Using Scripture and cultural context, we unpack what Jesus actually modeled: truth without appeasement, love with boundaries, forgiveness without forced reconciliation, and discernment over religious pressure. From “turn the other cheek” to “submit no matter what,” you'll learn how these verses are often misused - and how Jesus Himself confronted manipulation, walked away from danger, and protected His mission without sinning.This episode will help you release false guilt, reclaim biblical clarity, and follow Christ without sacrificing your God-given boundaries.
Why do narcissists ignore your boundaries? Because they don't respect feelings—they respect consequences. In this video, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) provides a raw, self-aware look at what actually goes on inside a narcissist's head when someone sets a boundary.Most people make the mistake of explaining their "why," which only gives the narcissist more leverage. Learn the 3 specific shifts you need to make to stop being an "easy target" and start being "high cost."Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Why a Narcissist's Treatment of You is Actually a Confession
In this kickoff to a powerful new series, The Narcissism Trap, Natalie Hoffman challenges a popular narrative in abuse recovery: labeling an emotionally abusive partner as a “narcissist.” While that term may feel validating at first, Natalie explains how it can actually work against your healing by keeping you locked in the wrong story. If you've been Googling “narcissist” at 2 a.m. to make sense of your painful marriage, this episode is for you.