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Excellent Communication Skills with Pete Gerlach and Antony Sammeroff by Antony Sammeroff
What would you give for a great marriage and a happy home? How much is it worth to avoid divorce? In this podcast, I'm replaying a conversation I had with Pete Gerlach back in the spring of 2013. In his therapy practice, Pete uncovered five hazards that will ruin your marriage and destroy your happy home. Some of the key points from today's show: the prevalence of psychologically wounded people who are in denial how to begin the healing process for these wounds how we're not taught to properly grieve how to find the right partner the lack of informed support how these hazards impare your ability to be an effective parent, despite your best intentions We go over all of this and more. Click the purple play button above and listen to our discussion. Get Pete's book here: http://amzn.to/2zUbw9T For more books I recommend, get my new free ebook, My Eight Most Influential Books: books.choiceconversations.com
Pete Gerlach discusses the six wounds that most of us have inherited and what we can do about them.
Antony Sammeroff and Pete Gerlach talk about how to choose the right partner, at the right time for the right reasons. "A Lifetime of Takeaways."
While the Reboot Your Kids website lives on, it no longer hosts the podcasts I recorded with Kevin Geary last year. For posterity's sake, I'm putting those shows into the Choice Conversations feed. In this episode, Kevin and I have a discussion with Pete Gerlach about how to raise psychologically healthy children. This episode was never previously released, so this is the first time the world will get to hear this enlightening interview. In addition, since the time of its recording in 2014, Pete Gerlach has passed away, making this a posthumous release. Find more from Pete here:http://sfhelp.org/http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/in-honor-of-pete-gerlach-with-antony-sammeroff Find more from Kevin here:http://rebootyourkids.com/http://rebootedbody.com/ Please subscribe, rate and review on itunes:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/choice-conversations/id315666764?mt=2 Like me on facebook and share with your friends:https://www.facebook.com/ChoiceConversationsPodcast Follow me on twitter and please retweet: https://twitter.com/ChoiceConvo Subscribe to my youtube channel and like my videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3po4LKObROu3EoieVGdaFQ Bumper music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LpzW4rVKrfw&index=1&list=PLoe-H2xJOW56v_XOx1oJnZXOfCIr4YfSy
Anotony Sammeroff joins me as we pay tribute to Pete Gerlach. Pete Gerlach was taken from us on on October 22 2015, after a long bout with a degenerative disease (inclusion body myocitis). Pete was a therapist, author, and founder of the Break the Cycle Website. Pete was passionate about helping others and bringing healing to the world. He was especially concerned about the little ones, that they be provided a nurting, holistically healthy environment to grow up in. Pete was a guest on both my show, Choice Conversations, and Antony's youtube channel, Enrich Your Life. Antony and I share some of our personal experiences with Pete and do our best to honor his memory. We close out the podcast by inserting Antony's last interview with Pete -> "How to choose the Right Partner for the Right Reasons at the Right Time!" Gone but not forgotten, the gifts you gave the world continue to bring healing. Rest In Peace Pete. Find more from Pete here: http://sfhelp.org/http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/five-personal-marital-and-family-hazards-with-pete-gerlachhttp://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/communication-with-pete-gerlachhttp://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/breaking-the-cycle-with-peter-gerlach Contact Antony here: enrichyourlife@outlook.com Please subscribe, rate and review on itunes:https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/choice-conversations/id315666764?mt=2 Like me on facebook and share with your friends:https://www.facebook.com/ChoiceConversationsPodcast Follow me on twitter and please retweet: https://twitter.com/ChoiceConvo Subscribe to my youtube channel and like my videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3po4LKObROu3EoieVGdaFQ Bumper music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIh_AxO2m4M&list=PLoe-H2xJOW57M60JJT0mMl8gwp1MazHdP
Darrell Becker from Tragedy and Hope joined Steve Patterson and me to discuss merging the Trivium with Non-Violent Communication. This was a fun and fascinating journey into melding two seemingly very different things, a strategy for learning and a strategy for connecting with yourself and others, and finding that the sum of the parts creates something greater. Darrell is the first person I’ve interviewed where he was the one to initiate contact. He’s been a long time listener, and it was a new and pleasurable experience to have a fan of the show on as a guest. Find more from Darrell below: Darrell’s blog: http://voluntaryvisions.blogspot.com/ Darrell on Tragedy and Hope, Merging the Trivium with NVC: https://www.tragedyandhope.com/history-merging-the-trivium-method-with-nvc/ Darrell on Unplugged Mom: http://www.unpluggedmom.com/umradio-podcast/8654/ Below you’ll find more information on the topics we discussed: Previous podcasts on the Trivium: http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/episode-115-the-trivium-education-with-jan-irvin http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/episode-116-gene-odening-on-the-trivium http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/rhetoric-with-gene-odening Non-Violent Communication: http://www.cnvc.org/ Parent Effectiveness Training: http://www.gordontraining.com/parent-programs/parent-effectiveness-training-p-e-t/ Previous podcasts on Parent Effectiveness Training: http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/the-basics-of-p-e-t Pete Gerlach’s site on Inner Family Systems Therapy: http://sfhelp.org/gwc/guide1.htm Previous podcasts with Pete Gerlach: http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/breaking-the-cycle-with-peter-gerlach http://choiceconversations.libsyn.com/five-personal-marital-and-family-hazards-with-pete-gerlach 42 Fallacies: http://aphilosopher.files.wordpress.com/2010/09/42-fallacies.pdf Rhetorical Triangle: http://www.mrgunnar.net/ap.cfm?subpage=347030 The Continuum Concept: In Search Of Happiness Lost by Jean Liedloff: http://www.amazon.com/Continuum-Concept-Happiness-Classics-Development/dp/0201050714/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1377811154&sr=1-1&keywords=jean+liedloff Choice Conversations is now on Facebook. Stop in, say hi, discuss the shows, and more! If you like Choice Conversations then "like" me on facebook and share the page with your friends: https://www.facebook.com/ChoiceConversationsPodcast Bumper music: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8ECalN6oXI
I welcome back Pete Gerlach to discuss psychology and self-help. We cover his great article “Five Epidemic Personal, Marital, and Family Hazards”: http://sfhelp.org/hazards.htm Here is the link to his free 7 lesson self-improvement course mentioned during the show: http://sfhelp.org/pop/course.htm Pete’s youtube channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/gercacn/videos?view=1&flow=grid Pete provides phone consultations: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xznYTHZGjps&feature=player_embedded Or find a local therapist who specializes in IFS therapy (Inner Family systems): http://www.selfleadership.org/find-an-ifs-therapist.html An interview with Dr. Faye Snyder about RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MrVq-3UviY Bumper music: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHjpOzsQ9YI
Pete Gerlach joined us once again, this time to talk about the skill of communication. We discuss reasons people communicate, skills needed to communicate effectively, and a few of the more than 30 communication blocks that he details on his website. Here is a link to his "Lesson 2" study guide on effective communication: http://sfhelp.org/cx/guide2.htm Here are links to his youtube playlists on communication: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLB607BA268DCAFD5D http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7BC5FBF046A1CFCE