Find The Right 1 with Eli Schostak

In this episode, Eli discusses how to deal with insecurities in a relationship. Whether you struggle with jealousy, trust issues, or low self-esteem, do not worry... we all have some of these challenges! These tips will help you overcome your insecurities and have a healthier, happier relationship.

Are you torn between the butterflies in your stomach and the spark in your brain? Then this episode is for you. Eli tackles the age-old question: how do you decide between attraction and connection?

In this episode, Eli shares everything you need to know about healthy dating in 2024.

In this episode, Eli talks about the "no contact" rule after a break up. He discusses whether or not it's beneficial to stick to this rule, and whether or not it works in all cases.

In this episode, Eli explores the question of whether rebound relationships can be healthy. He looks at the various reasons why people might want to rebound and whether or not that's a healthy decision. 

In this episode , Eli shows you 3 steps to overcome relationship self-sabotage.

In this episode, Eli reveals the truth behind typical dating advice. 

In this episode, Eli  discusses what love bombing is, how to handle it and why we fall for it.

In this episode, Eli discusses the 3 steps it takes to date and get into a genuine relationship.

In this episode, Eli discusses how to stop self sabotage when it comes to dating and relationships.

In this episode, Eli discusses how "shoulds" create suffering in dating and relationships.

In this episode, Eli discusses how the words we use to describe our Exes may prevent us from getting into healthy relationships. 

In this episode, Eli discusses how this obnoxious question can actually empower you to get into and keep a healthy love relationship. 

In this episode, Eli  discusses how to view "LOVE" differently so it is easier to let go of an ex in your mind.

In this episode, Eli discusses what kittenfishing is in regards to dating and what it really says about you if you are one.

In this episode, Eli discusses how we can learn about healthy and unhealthy dating from the defamation trial of the century. 

In this episode  Eli discusses how to tell if you are dating in authentic way. 

In this episode, Eli discusses how we often dream incorrectly about getting things to solve our relationship challenges. This way of thinking actually prevents us from getting what we truly want.

In this episode, Eli discusses how people are getting "Pocketed" in dating and relationships and what to do about it.

In this episode, Eli discusses how our mind's vocabulary impacts our dating and relationships. 

In this episode, Eli discusses how  to enjoy online dating even though you may think it sucks.

In this episode, Eli discusses how  to be aware of your dating beliefs and how shift can help people get into a healthy relationship.

In this episode Eli discusses how negative thinking contributes to unsuccessful dates and relationships and what you can do to turn that around. 

In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how singles get judged often during the holiday season and what empowering things one can do about it. 

In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how to detect a scammer and what to do when you have. 

In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how celebrities can help us learn different views on relationships. Some may help, while  others may hurt. 

In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss dating someone who is widowed. Getting clear on communication and how one tiny mistake can mess up your online dating profile.

In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss the fears of being rejected and how to empower yourself through communication in the world of dating.  You will also learn how a toupee gets put on with glue and braids.

In this episode meet Eli Schostak Founder of Find The Right 1 coaching program for singles looking to get into and keep a healthy relationship and Tamara Elizabeth, online dating specialist discuss how to enjoy dating online.  

Ever wonder why you stay in a bad relationship even when you know it isn't good for you? You're not alone. In this episode Eli dives into the psychology behind loss aversion, a powerful force that keeps us clinging to what we have, even when it's unhealthy.You'll learn:How loss aversion influences our relationship choicesThe surprising connection between sunk cost fallacy and unhealthy relationshipsWhy the fear of loss can be stronger than the desire for happinessPractical tips on overcoming loss aversion and building healthier relationshipsBonus:Get a FREE strategy session with Eli to see if the Find the Right 1 Coaching Program is right for you: https://www.elischostak.com/Remember, you deserve a happy and fulfilling relationship. Don't let loss aversion hold you back!Thanks for listening!Subscribe for more podcasts on relationships, psychology, and personal development.P.S. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling in a bad relationship. You might just help them find their way out!

Ever wondered if you can love someone new while still having feelings for your ex? In this episode Eli dives deep into this complex question, exploring why we get stuck in patterns of thinking that hold us back from finding new happiness. Eli shares insights on how to:Understand the difference between loving someone and being in a healthy relationshipRecognize the ego's role in influencing our feelings after a breakupBreak free from limiting beliefs about love and relationshipsOpen your heart to new possibilities without feeling guilty or disloyalThis episode is for you if you're:Struggling to move on from a past relationshipFeeling confused about your feelings after a breakupReady to attract healthy, fulfilling love into your lifeLearn how to navigate the complexities of love and relationships with clarity and confidence.Click here to learn more about the Find the Right 1 - https://www.elischostak.com/workshopBonus: Hear a real-life success story from a client who found love just six weeks after joining the program

In the New Year, Eli Schostak sits down with his wife Brooke for a special Q&A session! They answer questions about relationships, dating, and overcoming challenges, all while offering their unique perspectives and insights.In this episode, you'll learn about:The difference between resolutions and mindsets: Why setting goals can backfire, and how to shift your mindset for lasting change.Maintaining a healthy relationship: Tips for communication, commitment, and keeping the spark alive, even after 18 years!Dealing with judgment in relationships: How to let go of "shoulds" and embrace your partner for who they are.Coping with negativity and envy: Strategies for staying positive and avoiding comparison traps, especially during the holidays.Finding happiness in all stages of life: Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, Brooke and Eli share their wisdom on living a fulfilling life.This episode is perfect for:Anyone looking for guidance on their relationships, whether romantic or platonic.Singles seeking advice on dating and finding the right partner.Couples wanting to strengthen their bond and overcome challenges.Individuals facing negativity or judgment in their personal lives.Bonus: Get to know Eli and Brooke on a deeper level as they share personal stories and anecdotes from their own relationship journey.Learn more at elischostak.com or findtheright1.com

Do you want to change your partner? Are you hoping they'll become someone else if you just love them enough? Is it ever healthy to want your partner to change? In this episode Eli explores why that approach sets you up for heartache and how radical acceptance can lead to healthier, happier relationships. Learn more at elischostak.com or findtheright1.com

Are the holidays stressing you out being single? You're not alone! In this episode Eli discusses how to break free from the holiday"have-to's" and reclaim your power to choose.

Chasing after love is not only futile, but it also leads to a lot of pain and disappointment. In this episode Eli discusses how to find love and contentment without getting it from someone else.