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Healthy Dating & Relationship Advice with Relationship Coach Eli Schostak. For more information go to elischostak.com or findtheright1.com

Eli Schostak


    • Jan 15, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 13m AVG DURATION
    • 35 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Find The Right 1 with Eli Schostak

    How To Deal With Insecurities In A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 15:32


    In this episode, Eli discusses how to deal with insecurities in a relationship. Whether you struggle with jealousy, trust issues, or low self-esteem, do not worry... we all have some of these challenges! These tips will help you overcome your insecurities and have a healthier, happier relationship.

    How To Decide Between Attraction vs Connection?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 19:51


    Are you torn between the butterflies in your stomach and the spark in your brain? Then this episode is for you. Eli tackles the age-old question: how do you decide between attraction and connection?

    How to Date in the New Year: The Complete Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 10:29


    In this episode, Eli shares everything you need to know about healthy dating in 2024.

    What Is The No Contact Rule After A Break Up?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 9:49


    In this episode, Eli talks about the "no contact" rule after a break up. He discusses whether or not it's beneficial to stick to this rule, and whether or not it works in all cases.

    Can Rebound Relationships Be Healthy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 6:28


    In this episode, Eli explores the question of whether rebound relationships can be healthy. He looks at the various reasons why people might want to rebound and whether or not that's a healthy decision. 

    3 Steps To Overcome Relationship Self-Sabotage

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 17:23


    In this episode , Eli shows you 3 steps to overcome relationship self-sabotage.

    Why typical dating advice fails: Unveiling the truth

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 8:25


    In this episode, Eli reveals the truth behind typical dating advice. 

    What Is Love Bombing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 10:27


    In this episode, Eli  discusses what love bombing is, how to handle it and why we fall for it.

    3 Steps To Get Into A Genuine Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2022 6:38


    In this episode, Eli discusses the 3 steps it takes to date and get into a genuine relationship.

    How To Stop Self Sabotaging Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 5:34


    In this episode, Eli discusses how to stop self sabotage when it comes to dating and relationships.

    Maybe You Should Grow A Pear!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 7:39


    In this episode, Eli discusses how "shoulds" create suffering in dating and relationships.

    My Ex Is A Narcissist - Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2022 12:24


    In this episode, Eli discusses how the words we use to describe our Exes may prevent us from getting into healthy relationships. 

    Why Are You Still Single?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 9:30


    In this episode, Eli discusses how this obnoxious question can actually empower you to get into and keep a healthy love relationship. 

    How To Let Go Of The Ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 10:23


    In this episode, Eli  discusses how to view "LOVE" differently so it is easier to let go of an ex in your mind.

    Are You A Kittenfisher?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 7:51


    In this episode, Eli discusses what kittenfishing is in regards to dating and what it really says about you if you are one.

    Can Celebrity Trials Teach Us About Healthy Dating?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2022 12:06


    In this episode, Eli discusses how we can learn about healthy and unhealthy dating from the defamation trial of the century. 

    How You Treat Someone Is How You Treat Everyone

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 8:20


    In this episode  Eli discusses how to tell if you are dating in authentic way. 

    How To Dream Correctly About A Healthy Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 9:34


    In this episode, Eli discusses how we often dream incorrectly about getting things to solve our relationship challenges. This way of thinking actually prevents us from getting what we truly want.

    How To Deal With Pocketing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2022 8:26


    In this episode, Eli discusses how people are getting "Pocketed" in dating and relationships and what to do about it.

    Are Healthy Relationships Hard Work?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2022 7:33


    In this episode, Eli discusses how our mind's vocabulary impacts our dating and relationships. 

    How To Enjoy Online Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2022 12:48


    In this episode, Eli discusses how  to enjoy online dating even though you may think it sucks.

    Are Your Dating Beliefs Helping Or Hurting You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2022 16:29


    In this episode, Eli discusses how  to be aware of your dating beliefs and how shift can help people get into a healthy relationship.

    How To Stop Being Negative About Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 9:01


    In this episode Eli discusses how negative thinking contributes to unsuccessful dates and relationships and what you can do to turn that around. 

    Singles & The Holiday "Have To's"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 16:18


    In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how singles get judged often during the holiday season and what empowering things one can do about it. 

    How To Detect An Online Dating Fake

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 30:52


    In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how to detect a scammer and what to do when you have. 

    Celebrity Thoughts On Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 19:16


    In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how celebrities can help us learn different views on relationships. Some may help, while  others may hurt. 

    3 Questions For Dating Someone Widowed

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2021 26:02


    In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss dating someone who is widowed. Getting clear on communication and how one tiny mistake can mess up your online dating profile.

    How To Overcome The Fear of Rejection

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 23:59


    In this episode Eli and Tamara discuss the fears of being rejected and how to empower yourself through communication in the world of dating.  You will also learn how a toupee gets put on with glue and braids.

    How To Enjoy Online Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 32:17


    In this episode meet Eli Schostak Founder of Find The Right 1 coaching program for singles looking to get into and keep a healthy relationship and Tamara Elizabeth, online dating specialist discuss how to enjoy dating online.  

    Why You Stay in Bad Relationships (And How to Break Free)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2020 8:13


    Ever wonder why you stay in a bad relationship even when you know it isn't good for you? You're not alone. In this episode Eli dives into the psychology behind loss aversion, a powerful force that keeps us clinging to what we have, even when it's unhealthy.You'll learn:How loss aversion influences our relationship choicesThe surprising connection between sunk cost fallacy and unhealthy relationshipsWhy the fear of loss can be stronger than the desire for happinessPractical tips on overcoming loss aversion and building healthier relationshipsBonus:Get a FREE strategy session with Eli to see if the Find the Right 1 Coaching Program is right for you: https://www.elischostak.com/Remember, you deserve a happy and fulfilling relationship. Don't let loss aversion hold you back!Thanks for listening!Subscribe for more podcasts on relationships, psychology, and personal development.P.S. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling in a bad relationship. You might just help them find their way out!

    Can You Love Someone New And Still Love Your Ex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2020 12:44


    Ever wondered if you can love someone new while still having feelings for your ex? In this episode Eli dives deep into this complex question, exploring why we get stuck in patterns of thinking that hold us back from finding new happiness. Eli shares insights on how to:Understand the difference between loving someone and being in a healthy relationshipRecognize the ego's role in influencing our feelings after a breakupBreak free from limiting beliefs about love and relationshipsOpen your heart to new possibilities without feeling guilty or disloyalThis episode is for you if you're:Struggling to move on from a past relationshipFeeling confused about your feelings after a breakupReady to attract healthy, fulfilling love into your lifeLearn how to navigate the complexities of love and relationships with clarity and confidence.Click here to learn more about the Find the Right 1 - https://www.elischostak.com/workshopBonus: Hear a real-life success story from a client who found love just six weeks after joining the program

    Conquer Your New Year Relationship Goals with Eli and Brooke

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2020 21:07


    In the New Year, Eli Schostak sits down with his wife Brooke for a special Q&A session! They answer questions about relationships, dating, and overcoming challenges, all while offering their unique perspectives and insights.In this episode, you'll learn about:The difference between resolutions and mindsets: Why setting goals can backfire, and how to shift your mindset for lasting change.Maintaining a healthy relationship: Tips for communication, commitment, and keeping the spark alive, even after 18 years!Dealing with judgment in relationships: How to let go of "shoulds" and embrace your partner for who they are.Coping with negativity and envy: Strategies for staying positive and avoiding comparison traps, especially during the holidays.Finding happiness in all stages of life: Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, Brooke and Eli share their wisdom on living a fulfilling life.This episode is perfect for:Anyone looking for guidance on their relationships, whether romantic or platonic.Singles seeking advice on dating and finding the right partner.Couples wanting to strengthen their bond and overcome challenges.Individuals facing negativity or judgment in their personal lives.Bonus: Get to know Eli and Brooke on a deeper level as they share personal stories and anecdotes from their own relationship journey.Learn more at elischostak.com or findtheright1.com

    Is It Healthy To Want Your Partner To Change?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2019 14:21


    Do you want to change your partner? Are you hoping they'll become someone else if you just love them enough? Is it ever healthy to want your partner to change? In this episode Eli explores why that approach sets you up for heartache and how radical acceptance can lead to healthier, happier relationships. Learn more at elischostak.com or findtheright1.com

    How To Get Through The Holidays Single

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 18:35


    Are the holidays stressing you out being single? You're not alone! In this episode Eli discusses how to break free from the holiday"have-to's" and reclaim your power to choose.

    Stop Chasing After Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 22:45


    Chasing after love is not only futile, but it also leads to a lot of pain and disappointment. In this episode Eli discusses how to find love and contentment without getting it from someone else.

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