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Let's be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every “please just talk to me” moment? It's not helping. It's eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn't chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2498: Eddie Corbano breaks down the psychological effects of No Contact on both the Dumper and the Dumpee, revealing why exes often attempt to reconnect and how to resist falling into old patterns. Understanding these dynamics empowers you to stay firm in your healing journey and avoid the emotional traps that can prolong heartbreak. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/about-the-necessity-of-no-contact/ Quotes to ponder: "The real purpose of the No Contact Rule is to get YOURSELF back - not your Ex." "The Dumper will test your determination." "See the decision of going No Contact with your Ex as a milestone on your way to independence and happiness." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Breakups are hard enough on their own, but they can become even more painful when your ex responds with anger, cruelty, or mean-spirited behavior. It's natural to feel confused and hurt, wondering why someone who once cared about you is now acting this way. Understanding their behavior can provide clarity, help you process your emotions, and guide you in making the best decisions moving forward. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com to get your ex back - even if it seems hopeless! Why Is Your Ex Mean After a Breakup? The answer often lies in a combination of emotional immaturity, guilt, and unresolved feelings. When someone ends a relationship, they may feel a mix of relief and discomfort. If their decision hurt you, they're likely aware of it on some level, even if they don't openly admit it. Facing that guilt can be difficult, so instead, they deflect it through anger or cruelty. 1. Immature Defense Mechanism One common reason your ex is mean after a breakup is that they're using cruelty as a defense mechanism. They might see your pain and feel guilty about being the cause of it. Instead of acknowledging this guilt, they react defensively, getting angry at you for showing emotion. It's their way of avoiding the discomfort of facing what they've done. In today's society, we often struggle with how to handle someone else's pain. Rather than sitting with it and providing support, some people try to ignore or dismiss it because it's uncomfortable. Your ex's anger or harshness might not be about you at all but rather about their inability to cope with your emotions. This behavior becomes even more likely if their reasons for breaking up with you were weak or selfish. For example, if they claimed they needed to “find themselves” or “work on themselves,” they might feel a lingering sense of guilt for ending the relationship. Seeing you hurt reminds them of that guilt, and they'd rather lash out than take responsibility. 2. Persistence Can Backfire Another factor that might contribute to your ex's anger is persistent communication. After a breakup, it's natural to want to keep the lines of communication open, especially if you're hoping for reconciliation. However, persistence can be misinterpreted as pressure. When your ex feels pressured, they might respond with frustration or cruelty to create distance. This is particularly true if they've already started justifying the breakup in their mind. Your attempts to reach out may challenge their narrative, which can cause them to react negatively. In extreme cases, they might escalate their meanness as a way to push you away completely. Rather than trying to explain yourself or win them back through persistence, it's often more effective to step back and respect their space. Giving them time and distance can help de-escalate the situation and prevent further harm to your connection. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com to get your ex back - even if it seems hopeless! 3. Emotions Over Logic Breakups are emotional, and emotions can cloud judgment. Your ex's harsh behavior may stem from their inability to process their own feelings rationally. When someone says their “feelings faded,” it often means they're experiencing the natural decline of limerence—the intense infatuation that characterizes the early stages of a relationship. Limerence isn't designed to last forever. It fades as the relationship matures, making way for deeper forms of love, like commitment and companionship. Unfortunately, many people misinterpret the end of limerence as the end of love. When their emotions take over, they might act impulsively, choosing to leave the relationship rather than working through this phase. If you've tried to reason with your ex or convince them to stay, their emotions may override their ability to hear you. Instead of responding logically, they react defensively or with anger because they don't want to confront the complexities of their feelings. 4. Cruelty Is Often Temporary The good news is that your ex's meanness is often temporary. Once the initial emotions of the breakup settle, they may start to reflect on their actions. They might realize that their behavior was unfair and even feel regretful. In many cases, an ex will reach out to apologize once they've had time to process everything. When this happens, it's important to manage your expectations. An apology doesn't necessarily mean they want to get back together. More often, it's an attempt to alleviate their own guilt. Accept their apology graciously, but don't read too much into it. 5. The No Contact Rule The No Contact Rule is one of the most effective strategies for addressing an ex's anger and protecting your own emotional well-being. By cutting off communication, you give both yourself and your ex the space to process the breakup. No contact disrupts their defensive patterns. When you're not actively engaging with them, they have no reason to maintain their anger. Over time, this silence can spark curiosity and reflection. Your ex might start wondering why you've stopped reaching out, which can lead to moments of clarity about the relationship. This period of no contact isn't just for them—it's for you too. It allows you to focus on your healing and gain perspective on what you truly want. Whether or not reconciliation is possible, the No Contact Rule helps you regain your emotional footing. Moving Forward Understanding why your ex is mean after a breakup can help you navigate the situation with clarity and strength. Their behavior is often more about their own emotions and struggles than about you. By stepping back, respecting their space, and focusing on your own growth, you create the best opportunity for healing—whether that means moving on or eventually reconnecting. Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com to get your ex back - even if it seems hopeless!  

These are the no contact rule milestones you need to try and achieve if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup. Subscribe To My Free Newsletter

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No Contact Diary is from one of my audio coaching clients who is starting to use my version of the no contact rule. He has kindly suggested documenting his journey and allowing me to read it out to share his story. If you want to try to get your ex back after a breakup, I suggest implementing my version of the no contact rule as giving you the best chance of success. This is week 1 of his journey. Subscribe To My Free Newsletter

I believe the no contact rule should be established after every and any breakup, but it's specifically important for toxic seperations with toxic people. I understand that shared homes, children and marriages often mean you can't go no contact, in which case I'd say aim for reduced contact where possible.  I hope this helps you all. With love, Nixalina. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;) Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

ชมวิดีโอ EP นี้ใน YouTube เพื่อประสบการณ์การรับชมที่ดีที่สุด https://youtu.be/Uigwc6x1bG8 ไม่ว่าจะเลิกกันไม่นานหรือผ่านไปนานเป็นปี การออกจากความสัมพันธ์ล้วนสร้างความเจ็บปวดและเสียใจไม่มากก็น้อยเสมอ เพื่อตัดใจให้ได้ Open Relationship ขอเสนอวิธี No Contact Rule คือกฎเหล็กของการตัดขาด ทั้งโซเชียลมีเดีย สถานที่ สิ่งของ และกิจกรรมที่เคยทำด้วยกัน เพื่อให้มีเวลาตั้งหลักกับตัวเอง มองความสัมพันธ์ที่ผ่านไปให้ชัดเจนขึ้น แน่นอนว่ามันเป็นเรื่องยาก และหลายคนอาจมีข้อจำกัดที่ไม่สามารถจะ ‘No Contact' กันได้ แต่การเริ่มต้นสร้างระยะห่างทางใจและการเตือนตัวเองให้ชัดเจนว่า “เราเลิกกันแล้ว” อาจเป็นสเต็ปแรกที่ทำให้ชีวิตก้าวไปข้างหน้า

ชมวิดีโอ EP นี้ใน YouTube เพื่อประสบการณ์การรับชมที่ดีที่สุด https://youtu.be/Uigwc6x1bG8 ไม่ว่าจะเลิกกันไม่นานหรือผ่านไปนานเป็นปี การออกจากความสัมพันธ์ล้วนสร้างความเจ็บปวดและเสียใจไม่มากก็น้อยเสมอ เพื่อตัดใจให้ได้ Open Relationship ขอเสนอวิธี No Contact Rule คือกฎเหล็กของการตัดขาด ทั้งโซเชียลมีเดีย สถานที่ สิ่งของ และกิจกรรมที่เคยทำด้วยกัน เพื่อให้มีเวลาตั้งหลักกับตัวเอง มองความสัมพันธ์ที่ผ่านไปให้ชัดเจนขึ้น แน่นอนว่ามันเป็นเรื่องยาก และหลายคนอาจมีข้อจำกัดที่ไม่สามารถจะ ‘No Contact' กันได้ แต่การเริ่มต้นสร้างระยะห่างทางใจและการเตือนตัวเองให้ชัดเจนว่า “เราเลิกกันแล้ว” อาจเป็นสเต็ปแรกที่ทำให้ชีวิตก้าวไปข้างหน้า

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How to Set Up the Situation for Your Ex to Reach Out First Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit to get your ex back! Breakups can be tough, but many people find themselves searching for ways to get their ex to reach out first. While it's not about “making” your ex contact you in a manipulative sense, there are ways to set the stage that encourage them to reconnect. Let's dive into a few strategies to make this more likely. 1. Use the Zeigarnik Effect: Leave Them Wanting More One psychological principle that can help in this situation is the Zeigarnik Effect. This concept refers to the mental preoccupation that occurs when something feels unfinished. The idea is simple: leave your ex with a sense of "unfinished business." When interacting with your ex—whether they reach out first or you meet up after the breakup—the goal is to create a positive experience and then leave at the high point. For example, if you meet for coffee, focus on being playful, having a great conversation, and creating a fun environment. But instead of letting the meeting drag on for hours, you need to end it while it's still enjoyable. After about 45 minutes to an hour, say, “It's been great seeing you, but I have to get going.” This leaves your ex wanting more and leaves the door open for them to initiate contact later. It's tough to do because in the moment, you'll feel like you're making progress and will want to stay longer. But leaving them with that feeling of wanting more keeps you in their mind, creating the "unfinished business" that can lead to them reaching out first. 2. Create Mystery Another way to encourage your ex to reach out is by creating a sense of mystery. If your ex can see your social media or hears about you through mutual friends, keep details vague. Share a bit about what you're up to, but don't give away everything. If you went somewhere fun or had a great experience, mention it, but don't go into full detail. Leave loose ends in your stories, making your ex curious about what you're doing and what's going on in your life. This mystery builds up in their mind and leads to them thinking about you more often. When they can't piece everything together, it becomes an itch they feel the need to scratch—sometimes leading to a text or call. 3. Focus on a New Passion One of the most effective things you can do post-breakup is to choose a new focal point in your life. This could be a hobby, career goal, fitness journey, or any other passion that captures your attention. Not only is it healthy for you to focus on something positive, but it also signals to your ex that your life doesn't revolve around them anymore. When you focus on something other than your ex, it sends a powerful message. It shows that you have your own interests, that you're moving forward with or without them, and that your life is still exciting. This can be surprisingly attractive. Your ex might feel intrigued by the change, curious about your new passion, and wonder why they're no longer the center of your world. 4. Cut Them Off This step can be difficult, but sometimes it's necessary to cut your ex off—especially if you've been offering financial support or access to things like shared services or GPS tracking apps. Once they've broken up with you, they no longer have the privilege of being in your life in the same way. By cutting them off, you communicate that you respect yourself and won't be taken advantage of. Not only does this create space between you and your ex, but it can also make them realize what they've lost. When you cut off certain privileges or financial support, your ex may come to appreciate the stability you once offered. It forces them to confront the reality of being without you. 5. Commit to No Contact You've probably heard of the No Contact Rule, but its power lies in true commitment. This means no reaching out for any reason—not for apologies, not for their stuff, and not to check in on them. If they need something, let them reach out to you. Often, people want to apologize for how they acted during the breakup, especially if they begged or pleaded. But continually apologizing can make you seem weak, and your ex might even become frustrated with it. Instead, stick to the no contact rule and let your ex feel the consequences of their decision. The absence will speak louder than words, and it will give them space to miss you. 6. Project Strength, Not Pain One of the most challenging yet crucial steps is to appear pain-free to your ex. Whether through social media or mutual friends, your ex will likely hear how you're doing. If they see or hear that you're struggling, it could push them further away. Pain can feel like a burden, and they may start to feel relief at the breakup, believing they've avoided being dragged into your emotional turmoil. Instead, project strength and happiness. This isn't about denying your feelings but about controlling the image you project. When your ex sees or hears that you're doing well, they may feel surprised and even question their decision. Your strength and positivity can reignite their interest in you, leading to them reaching out. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit to get your ex back! Conclusion By applying these strategies—leaving your ex wanting more, creating mystery, focusing on a passion, cutting them off, committing to no contact, and projecting strength—you set up a scenario where your ex is more likely to reach out to you first. Remember, it's not about manipulation. These steps help you regain your confidence, live a fulfilling life, and, in many cases, prompt your ex to realize what they've lost.

What are the chances your avoidant ex will come back?  If they did "this", the chances aren't good.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what "this" is, and exactly what percentage of avoidant exes are likely to come back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Is it possible to get an avoidant ex back, or is it a lost cause, since they value independence?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you have to do to get an avoidant ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

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If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's a very good chance your ex will try to get your attention through social media.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the games your ex will play to trick you into breaking no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're constantly wondering if you'll ever hear from your ex.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the chances are that your ex will reach out to you after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Before your ex can decide they want you back, they need to fully feel the consequences of their decision to break up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what your ex will go through before they decide they want you back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

If you've been in no contact for months & months and haven't heard from your ex, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia offers hope if you think you'll never hear from your ex again.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

The best way to lose a woman is to ignore her lol. Masculine presence is what women desire the most and if you wont give her enough then she will seek it elsewhere. Just how it is.

In this video, Coach Lee delves deeply into the effectiveness of the No Contact Rule after a breakup.  Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit! If you're wondering whether No Contact truly works, you'll find the comprehensive answers here as Coach Lee covers five crucial points of the No Contact Rule in extensive detail: Understanding Your Ex's State of Mind: Coach Lee explains why No Contact is the best approach based on your ex's mindset.  After a breakup, your ex may feel overwhelmed by emotions such as confusion, sadness, or even relief.  This period is crucial for them to gain clarity on their feelings and the relationship as a whole.  By constantly contacting them, you risk adding more stress and confusion to their emotional state.  What's worse is that they associate this stress and anxiety with you and that can cause them to want to get away from you even more than they did on the day they broke up with you! They can feel suffocated and can increase in desire to distance themselves from you.  No Contact allows your ex the time and freedom to reflect on the relationship without feeling pressured.  This breathing room can significantly shorten their emotional journey back to you, as they have the opportunity to miss the positive aspects of the relationship and reconsider their decision.  Giving them this space shows that you respect their need for time alone and can lead them to appreciate you more in the long run. Reducing the Perceived Risk: No Contact shows your ex that getting back together with you involves less risk.  How? Think about it this way: If you react emotionally after the breakup—pleading, arguing, or constantly reaching out—your ex may fear experiencing those reactions again if they give you another chance but decide they still want to be apart.  These emotional outbursts can make them feel that the relationship was unstable and fraught with drama.  By staying calm and distant, you demonstrate emotional stability and maturity, making the idea of reconciliation seem less daunting or risky.  Your ex is more likely to consider giving the relationship another try if they believe you can handle disagreements and challenges with composure. When they see that you can maintain your composure and handle the breakup maturely, it reassures them that you can also handle potential future conflicts in a healthier manner. This reassurance is vital for them to feel safe and secure in considering rekindling the relationship. Preserving Respect and Dignity: Learn how No Contact helps you maintain your self-respect and dignity. It's natural to feel hurt and desperate after a breakup, but succumbing to these emotions can lead to actions that you might regret later, such as begging for another chance, making grand gestures, or constantly seeking their attention. These behaviors can make you appear needy and diminish your self-worth in the eyes of your ex and others. By stepping back and adhering to the No Contact Rule, you avoid behaviors that might undermine your integrity and self-worth. This not only helps you heal but also makes you more attractive in the eyes of your ex and others. Maintaining your dignity shows that you value yourself and are capable of standing strong even in difficult times, which can inspire respect and admiration. People are naturally drawn to those who exhibit strength and self-respect, and by following No Contact, you project these qualities. Allowing Your Ex to Miss You: Coach Lee emphasizes that an ex can't miss you if you don't give them space. Constant contact only serves to remind your ex of the reasons for the breakup, keeping negative emotions at the forefront of their mind. No Contact creates the necessary distance for your ex to start missing you and appreciating what they had. Absence truly makes the heart grow fonder, and this time apart allows both of you to gain a clearer perspective on the relationship. During this time, your ex may start to reminisce about the good times you shared and realize the value you brought to their life, which can open the door to reconciliation. This absence allows them to process their feelings and see things from a different angle, often leading to a renewed appreciation for you. It's during this period of No Contact that they can experience the void left by your absence, which can make them rethink their decision to end the relationship. Preventing Ego Inflation: Understand how No Contact helps prevent further inflating your ex's ego. Breaking up puts your ex in a seemingly more attractive position as the one who left. If you continuously chase after them, it can boost their ego and reinforce their decision to leave. Your ex might feel validated in their choice, thinking that they are in control and more desirable. No Contact ensures you don't contribute to this dynamic, helping to balance the power dynamic and potentially leading your ex to question their decision. By not feeding their ego, you also give yourself the chance to regain emotional equilibrium and rebuild your self-esteem. When you stop chasing and start focusing on yourself, you not only prevent their ego from inflating further but also shift the dynamic back to a more balanced state. This can lead your ex to respect you more and even reconsider their decision, as they see you as someone who values themselves and doesn't rely on their validation. Join Coach Lee as he provides insightful advice on why No Contact is a powerful tool in the journey to potentially rekindle a relationship. Watch the full video to gain a deeper understanding and to learn how to apply the No Contact Rule effectively. Coach Lee offers practical tips and real-life examples to help you navigate this challenging period and increase your chances of getting back together with your ex. Don't miss out on this valuable guidance—tune in now to empower yourself and take control of your post-breakup journey. By following Coach Lee's advice, you can approach your breakup with a clear strategy that not only respects your ex's space but also promotes your own healing and growth Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit!

In order to get your ex back, they need to miss having you in their life.  How can you make someone who dumped you, miss you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you can do to make your ex miss you like crazy.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

If you've been dumped or had to dump someone because they cheated or took you for granted, no contact is your best option if you want them back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no contact is so powerful when it comes to getting an ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  IPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If your ex is an avoidant and you're in no contact, when will they reach out?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals  when you can expect your avoidant ex to contact you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If you're dating someone with an avoidant attachment style or you're trying to get your avoidant ex back, this video is for you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to love your avoidant partner so they don't feel the need to run away.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

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Why are people who have an anxious attachment style so attracted to people with an avoidant attachment style?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the shocking reason why you desperately want your avoidant ex back.Get coaching!Download SILENZIO App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

If you're in no contact, will your ex reach out?  Will they change their mind and want you back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what the chances are that you'll get your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

What happens when you keep in touch with an ex and respond to every breadcrumb they send you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you're playing yourself when you stay in touch with an ex who isn't trying to come back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably worried that your ex will move on.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how leaving your ex alone will make them miss you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Being dumped is painful.  Somehow, knowing that your ex is also in pain, helps to make the breakup easier.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the key sign your ex is hurting.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

There are two key things avoidants needs from you in order to not pull away or to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get your avoidant ex back by giving them what they need.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

Why does going silent after a breakup make your ex come back?  Why is the strategy behind no contact so powerful?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why going silent will make your ex lose their mind.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

There are 3 factors which determine whether an avoidant ex will come back or not.  You're in control of one of those factors.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what makes an avoidant ex come back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Question: 1. “When should you go no contact after a relationship has ended?” 2. How do I effectively enforce the "No-Contact Rule" with my ex? 3. True or false: No Contact forces your ex to feel the full repercussions of breaking up? 4. Can I still be friends after the "No Contact" period ends? 5. How can I manage the loneliness and sadness during the "No Contact" period? 6. Does No Contact work on men and women in terms of missing their partners? 7. How does the No Contact rule affect a woman?

Should you respond or not when your ex calls you, if you want them back? The answer to this will determine how long it will take to get your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what to do when your ex calls you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Breaking up is never easy, and the aftermath can be a rollercoaster of emotions. However, there's one strategy that stands out as a mature and effective way to navigate the aftermath: the no contact rule. In this article, we'll delve into why no contact is not a game but rather a powerful tool for personal growth and potentially even reconciliation. The Value of Space: After a breakup, emotions are raw, and the desire to reach out to an ex can be overwhelming. However, constantly bombarding them with messages or trying to persuade them to come back only reinforces the idea that you're not respecting their decision. Giving them space allows both parties to process their emotions and gain clarity about the relationship's dynamics. Creating Perspective: No contact forces both parties to confront the reality of the situation. It challenges the assumption that one person always wants to be with the other and allows for a reassessment of the relationship's dynamics. By stepping back, individuals can see whether their exes truly miss them or if they were simply accustomed to their presence. Maturity in Action: Contrary to popular belief, implementing the no contact rule is not a game but rather a sign of emotional maturity. It demonstrates respect for the other person's decision and acknowledges that a relationship requires mutual consent. Begging, pleading, or constant communication only diminishes one's value in the eyes of the ex-partner. Fostering Self-Confidence: Moreover, embracing no contact is an act of self-confidence. It shows that you're capable of moving forward with grace and dignity, even in the face of heartache. By prioritizing your well-being and respecting boundaries, you become more attractive to your ex and yourself. Remembering the Absence: One of the most powerful aspects of no contact is the presence of absence. While it's natural to fear being forgotten by an ex, the reality is that the absence of constant communication can make them acutely aware of your absence. It challenges their expectations and prompts them to reconsider their decision. Do They Think You Don't Care? The fear of appearing indifferent to an ex's feelings is common, but it's important to remember that immediate reactions post-breakup are often skewed. Over time, as the initial relief subsides, exes may begin to wonder about your level of care. This curiosity can lead to introspection and even regret on their part. The Potential for Reconciliation: Ultimately, no contact lays the groundwork for potential reconciliation. By giving both parties the space to heal and reflect, it opens the door for genuine conversations and a reassessment of the relationship. When approached with maturity and respect, no contact can lead to a stronger, healthier bond.   On YouTube at The No Contact Rule https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTlE0B_Z9Ik Also see: The No Contact Rule After A Breakup Accompanying article at: The No Contact Rule at https://myexbackcoach.com/no-contact-rule/

Avoidants are the hardest of all attachment styles to get back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 things you must do to get your avoidant ex back.  Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

Once you're back in contact with your ex, if you don't handle it correctly, you'll find yourself back in no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to behave with your ex in order to get them back and keep them.Get coaching!Download iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets book

People with an avoidant attachment style are the hardest of all attachment styles to get back.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly how to get your avoidant ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

Were you dumped by an avoidant and are wondering why they haven't reached out or tried to get you back? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 9 reasons why someone with an avoidant attachment style will not chase you after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

How do avoidants process a breakup?  What happens when it finally hits them that they've really lost you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what your avoidant ex is going through and what you absolutely must do if you want them back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets book

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Even though someone with an avoidant attachment style may keep you at arm's length, they still want to love and be loved.   Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 7 signs an avoidant loves you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If you're in no contact and your ex unblocks you but doesn't reach out, what should you do?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do when your ex finally unblocks you, if you want them back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets book

When you think or talk about your ex, you're sending them energy, which they can feel. This is a way that you're unknowingly breaking no contact.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia guides you through a meditation to take your energy and power back from your ex, which may result in them contacting you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

The first step to your ex changing their mind about you is regretting the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals signs your ex regrets the breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book

If you've broken no contact, or you got back together but then broke up again, you may be wondering if no contact will work again. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether no contact will work more than once.Get coaching!Download Silenzio:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets Book

If you got your heart crushed – or even if the breakup was amicable – does it make sense to stay in touch with your ex? In this week's brunch talk, we're discussing the No Contact Rule and how it can help you move forward. We discuss how no contact doesn't have to be forever, ways to set boundaries so you're putting yourself first, and what to do instead when you inevitably want to reach out to them.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsOur Sponsors:* Check out Factor 75 and use my code dateable50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Most people find no contact difficult.  However for some people, no contact is very easy.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to make no contact easy if you're having a hard time not reaching out to your ex.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidBuy No Contact Secrets Book