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Hey Party People, Welcome to It's Not Personal. We are two best friends who decided to come together and banter on a podcast. So here we are. We have some amazing things to share about our post college life, the ups and downs of life after 25 while trying not to take it personal. So grab a snack may…

Aris and Bianca


    • Nov 30, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 25m AVG DURATION
    • 72 EPISODES


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    Can You Have Single Friends and Be Married? Let's Talk about Ways that you CAN!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 29:56


    This is a good one! As you all know we lead different lives outside of our friendship and we are here to talk about it all with you today. How you can still have friendship no matter what your relationship status. Make sure you keep up with us on Instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

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    Happy Thanksgiving! 2021 WE ARE THANKFUL FOR ALL YOU LISTENERS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2021 17:34


    Happy Thanksgiving from Aris and Bianca. Today the ladies are sharing some of their favorite past times when it comes to thanksgiving and also their plans for this year! It is a short but sweet podcast this week but the ladies wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving!! Keep up with us on IG @itsnotpersonaloffical

    The Rode to Self Discovery - The Pressures of Being a Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 29:30


    Sometimes being a women can be hard but no-one wants to talk about it. No-one wants to admit the hard times women can face or the fact that they are not respected and protected. Aris and Bianca touch on such big things in this episode and they are so happy to connect with you in that way. Make sure you stay in touch on ig @itsnotpersonaloffical

    What Have We Been Up Too! Aris and Bianca Life Updates

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 30:50


    It's the first official episode back and we are excited. We wanted to share some life updates before we jump right into topics. We think that it is important for us to connect with you all and for you to get to know us so that you can also connect with us! We love you all and if you have anything to let us know please follow us on ig @itsnotpersonalofficial

    It's Not Personal - 2021 The Re-Brand

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 4:21


    Welcome Back! (mase voice) It has been almost a year since our last podcast and their was no real reason why but we are back! We have so much in store and we cant wait to share! We are both so exicted and cant wait to do get into some deep topics and have fun with you all. Make sure you follow along with us on instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    February 2021 Favorites! What ARIS and Bianca are LOVING!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2021 26:19


    Today the ladies are talking about their February 2021 faves. They hope to do this every month so make sure you check us out on IG @itsnotpersonaloffical to send us some of your favorite things!

    The Power of Prayer - Not Everyone is Praying for What You Need!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 22:39


    Today the ladies talk about the power of prayer! We have been open about our faith and when it comes to what we believe and when it comes down to it, STOP HAVING EVERYONE PRAY FOR YOU! This is a hard concept for most people to understand but we hope what we are saying makes sense to you. Make sure you follow us on Instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Staying Humble, Being Humble and Really Being Honest with Yourself!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 31:22


    Today the ladies are talking about being humble or the false sense of humble people tend to put off. We discuss the things that people say and how it may be portrayed to others and how others may feel because of it. Make sure you follow us on instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Winter Ramble 2021 - How we are Feeling about this Winter!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2021 15:05


    Today the ladies are just rambling on about their feelings about winter and how they are feeling this winter. It has been hard to stay motivated for obvious reasons and the winter time is always so much harder. Getting dressed, staying warm and making sure you can stay sane with having to stay in the house even more now that it is cold. This is more of a ramble and the ladies love doing these types of episodes. Let us know what you think on Instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Should Celebs be Able to Clap Back on Social Media??

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 20:59


    Today the ladies are talking about if celebs should be able to clap back on social media. We all know and have heard of internet trolls and since they get to speak their minds should the celebs be able to defend themselves without being called a bully or having to be held to a high standard? Let us know what you think on social media on Instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    More Social Media...People and their Opinion's on Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2020 30:34


    We are back on the topic of Social Media I mean why not talk about it there is always so much to uncover. Todays topic is more about how much and what people share and if it can be stopped if they had a friend to tell. Sometimes not everything needs to go on social media and we are here to uncover it all. Make sure you follow us on IG: @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Happy Thanksgiving 2020!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2020 14:23


    Happy Thanksgiving! We hope that you have a amazing thanksgiving however you are celebrating! We want to know how thankful we are for you all of you listeners and hope that you have enjoyed this year with us, and although we have taken that long break we are so grateful for the love and joy you have brought us this year! Make sure you follow us on IG at @itsnotpersonaloffical

    The Results are in The NEXT PRESIDENT IS.... Our Thoughts on the 2020 Election Results!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2020 43:17


    Today the ladies are talking about the results of this years 2020 presidential election. It is really a victory for the USA in our opinions and we are looking forward to the next 4 years. Not to mention the first women/ women of color vice president! We are so happy! Make sure you follow us on INSTAGRAM @itsnotpersonaloffical

    GO AND VOTE!! Our Thoughts on The Upcoming Presidential Election 2020!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 47:34


    Today the ladies are talking about the upcoming presidential election and how they are feeling. This will be the ladies third time being able to vote and things are weighing heavy on them this time around. There is so much at stake and everyone is on their toes about this next election. We hope that you go out and VOTE and make your voice heard. It is hard times out here and we hope that things will get better. Make sure you weigh in on INSTAGRAM @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Social Media for SINGLE and PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS....What and When to POST!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2020 31:58


    Today the ladies give their thoughts about how they feel about men and women posting on social media about their relationships or lack there of them. When it is right to post or even if you post too much. The ladies have been thinking about this topic for a while and if they are haters in that sense! Let us know your thoughts on IG and Follow us @itsnotpersonaloffical

    American Murder: The Family Next Door!! Our THOUGHTS and OPINIONS

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 33:18


    Today the ladies talk about American Murder: The Family Next Door!! They talk about the Netflix Documentary and give their thoughts and opinions about the murder and how the whole thing went down. If you haven't seen the Documentary I would watch it first before listening to the podcast!! Follow Us on IG: @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Protect Black Culture!! AT ALL COSTS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2020 25:02


    Today the ladies talk about black culture and what Aris calls "Culture Vultures" and that is when another group or culture takes something from another. This happens a lot in the black community a lot and we are doing this podcast to protect black culture at all cost! Follow Us on IG: @itsnotpersonaloffical

    All The YOUTUBE DRAMA!! Lets Talk About It! Jeffree Star, Shane Dawson, James Charles and More

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2020 22:19


    Today the ladies talk all about how Youtube is falling apart for lack of better terms. All the drama that is happening and we are here to talk about it all. Jeffree Star, Shane Dawson, James Charles and MoreLet us know what your thoughts are on INSTAGRAM @itsnotpersonaloffical

    People Saying The ''N' Word on Tik Tok! Our Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2020 19:43


    Today the ladies talk all about how people are saying the n word all over Tik Tok and how that makes them feel. How different dances and trends have that word in it and how people just think it is alright to say. Let us know what your thoughts are on INSTAGRAM @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Happy 26th Birthday Aris!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2020 5:46


    Today Aris talks about how she celebrated her 26th birthday this year. She did not have much to say but she did want to do her yearly birthday episode. Let us know what you think on INSTAGRAM @itsnotpersonaloffical

    The injustice in The Black Community! #blacklivesmatter #georgefloyd

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 26:01


    The ladies talk more about #blacklivesmatter and #georgefloyd let us know what you think on instagram @itsnotpersonaloffical

    Youtuber Myka Stauffer RETURNS Adoptive Son! What are our THOUGHTS?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2020 24:51


    Today the ladies are talking about Youtube Myka Stauffer and how she decided to return her adoptive son. Here are their thoughts and how what they think about the whole thing. Let us know your thoughts as well on INSTAGRAM @ITSNOTPERSONALOFFICAL

    Happy 25th Birthday Bianca...(AGAIN) LOCKDOWN BIRTHDAY!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2020 13:01


    Since we were on a break for April. We are now doing Bianca's Birthday recap and since we were in lockdown she celebrated a differently this year. Also since we aren't doing anything she made the decision to stay 25 this year and she is going to make it a good one. Her birthday recap this year she is telling you how she spent her time at home for her birthday and she seemed to be happy with it.

    What is to COME with YOUTUBE!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2020 26:24


    As you all know Aris and Bianca had a Youtube Channel together and things got hard. Aris wanted to walk away and that was ok with Bianca, then Bianca decided that the channel was not going to be ok without her and also made a choice to walk away and start another channel doing the same things because, Bianca still loved doing the reaction videos, so she started a new reaction channel and they are telling you all about it in this weeks podcast.

    Welcome Back: It's Not Personal Season 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 5:13


    Welcome back to its not personal. It has been a lot of changes and things are different but things are for the best. We really hope you enjot the new changes and hope that you stick with us for season 2! Let's Do It!

    Thats A Wrap! See You in Season 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 4:07


    We are wrapping up season 1 and are looking forward to season 2. We have worked so hard at this podcast this past year. Hope you enjoyed this as much as we did and we cant wait for the bright future ahead!

    The Pandemic 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 21:08


    It has been crazy this month and we hope that things clear up. So today the ladies are sharing their thoughts about what has been going on and what they are thinking at this moment. We hope that you are staying safe and washing your hands! Prayers!

    Happy Women's History Month 2020!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2020 25:41


    Today Aris and Bianca talk about how they are going to celebrate women's history month and what being a women means to them. For Aris and Bianca its more than just a month but who they are and what they were taught. We really hope you enjoy this episode cause it means so much to us.

    February: Monthly Reflection 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 21:55


    Every Month at the end of the month Aris and Bianca will be doing monthly reelections to help them with their lives and too reflect on the month that they had. This month the ladies both set goals for themselves and their business and at the End of March let's see how they did.

    Happy Black History Month!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2020 28:12


    Today Aris and Bianca talk about how they have celebrated black history month and what being black means to them. For Aris and Bianca its more than just a month but who they are and what they were taught. We really hope you enjoy this episode cause it means so much to us. 

    Should You Turn Your Passion into A Career?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2020 22:04


    Today the ladies are talking about should you try your passion into a career? Aris and Bianca weigh in on you their thoughts in options on the topic and their person thoughts on wether you should turn your passion into a career. 

    It's Not Personal Turns 1 Year Old!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2020 14:23


    What a fun year it has been. THANK YOU so much for your support and listening to us talk every Tuesday at 1 PM it means so much to us and we couldn't be more happy and blessed for this past year!

    January: Monthly Reflection 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2020 27:09


    Every Month at the end of the month Aris and Bianca will be doing monthly reelections to help them with their lives and too reflect on the month that they had. This month the ladies both set goals for themselves and their business and at the End of February lets see how they did. 

    20,000 Subbies. THANK YOU!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 22:41


    On Friday January 17, 2020 we hit 20,000 subscribes on Youtube and we are here to talk about it today. Thank You all so much for you love and support. We would be no where without you guys and we are so grateful. THANK YOU!

    New Year! New Year Resolutions!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2020 31:06


    Today the ladies are talking about their New Years Resolutions. They talk about how they are moving forward in their personal life and what is to come for the podcast and the YouTube channel. Happy New Year!

    Happy New Year! 2020 Here We Come!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 29:28


    Happy New Year! Lets Bring in 2020 STRONG!

    Merry Christmas!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2019 21:51


    Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

    Life After College! Our First Year Out!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 25:45


    Today the ladies talk about their first year out of college and how it has been for them. they touch on their majors and what they are doing now, if they are using their majors in their jobs and if they would do it again. Life after college can be hard but Aris and Bianca are here to tell you their experience to help you get through it. 

    The Mindset of A Millennial

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 23:31


    Today the ladies talk about what it is like to live in todays world as a millennial. Things that they have to go through and what ups and downs they go they face and if it something that will hurt them or help them in everyday life.  

    What We Think about Instagram Likes Going Away.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 25:45


    Today the ladies talk about what they think about the Instagram likes going away. They weigh in on the business about it and how bloggers may feel it can hurt their brand and business. Aris and Bianca also talk about how it will affect them with there on brands and business that they have on social media. 

    Happy Thanksgiving! Thanksgiving Special.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2019 20:55


    HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Hope you have a wonderful and safe Holiday Season. 

    These are A Few of Our Favorite Things!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2019 25:00


    Today the ladies talk about their favorite things. They talk about music, lifestyle and overall the things that they are loving the ladies have never done a podcast like this so they really hope that you enjoy and find some new things that you want to try. 

    Aris and Bianca's Top 10 Favorite Songs Right NOW!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2019 20:55


    Today the ladies talk about all the songs that they are loving right now.  Hope you enjoy and find some new songs to listen too!

    Making YouTube Changes. What To Expect From Us!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2019 24:15


    Today the ladies talk about growth and things that they are improving on in their Youtube Growth. They have been working hard to make sure that they have great content without losing themselves. Having Youtube is fun for them so improving on there Youtube is important to them, Make sure you check the channel out. Aris and Bianca 

    What Is Your Motivation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 26:45


    Today the ladies talk about motivation and how they work toward their goals. They wanted to touch base on how other people might work toward their goals and things that motivate other people as well. The conversation takes a twist when Bianca talks about how people or even your own children can or can not be motivators.

    Been On Youtube For One Year! Our Biggest Lessons Learned.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2019 28:51


    Today the ladies talk about the year they have had on Youtube. Although they have had a channel for about three years this last year has been their best yet. They have learned a lot and have a lot to show for it. So today they reflect on the year and what they want to continue to do on youtube.

    Becoming Our Own BOSS. What Are We Doing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2019 26:06


    Today the ladies talk about some of the other things that they are doing within life to create the life they want. Aris talks her blog and her future plans and Bianca weighs in on her starting her first one store. So other than Youtube and This podcast which they love the ladies are starting to branch off and live up to their fullest potential  

    Can You Really Be Friends w/ An Ex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2019 28:50


    Today the ladies talk about being friends with an Ex and rebuilding a relationship with a ex friend. Is it really worth it? Is it something that can be done. Aris and Bianca weigh in on this topic and give you their personal opinion on being friends with an ex.

    Young Love. Is it Really LOVE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2019 26:37


    Today the ladies talk about "Young Love" and if it is really love. The ladies dive deep into this topic and talk about there past relationships and what they think young love really is. They also talk about more personal experience and if they are really worth all the heartache.

    Celebrating One Year! Bianca Reflects on One Year of Marriage.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2019 29:27


    Today Bianca talks about one year of being married. She talks about the ups and downs. The ladies also reflect on the wedding day and Aris ask Bianca a lot of questions on what she has learned this past year.

    Money Money Money! It's Ok To Be Broke.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2019 21:34


    Today the ladies talk about Money and how they are dealing with being a adult and having so much more responsibility with money. Aris and Bianca talk about how to budget and what they are doing to budget. Hope the topic gives you some insight and help along the way as you earn and save more money.

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