Mid-Life Mike

We are entering the time of year where people become depressed and despondent about life. Lives have been changed and altered in huge ways.  We have been surrounded by death on a frequent basis.  In short, these last two year have been hard, but there is hope. Let's talk about it

Get up and do what you are supposed to be doing in life. You have a clear mind and a solid plan from God. Get up and let's talk about it. 

Some people think that it is ok to demand sex if certain amenities are taken care of; if the bills are paid. I do not think that is the correct approach to marriage or being in a relationship. We absolutely need to talk about this. 

People are struggling in their marriages, and are consequently finding new relationships. However, before they are completely divorced they are beginning new relationships with other people. Is this okay or nah? I don't see it, but let's talk about it. 

Some people are in relationships where the sex came first, and they find themselves in a tough situation because children are now involved. They are not happy, but they understand the needs of their children. Divorce has crossed their mind a lot. What should they do? Let's talk about it. 

If you could go back in time and talk to the younger you, what would you say? There is a lot to cover. There are so many lessons that we have learned over the years. However, I would only talk about four things. Let's talk about it. 

It is time to get up and go after your dreams. Yes you can. You can do it, but you have to step out on faith and go get it. There will be challenges, but you have what you need to make it happen. Let's talk about it. 

Well, it is that time of the year for parents to send children back to school. If that is a reality for you, then you may want to listen to this discussion. Let's talk about it. 

Black people and people of color are lamenting over whether or not to get the vaccine. It is a tough decision, or is it? This is where we trust God the most whether we take the vaccine or not, but it is a lot to think about. Let's talk about it. 

Failure is going to happen in our lives at some point. It may be parenting, being married, starting a business, or whatever. The key is to not give up and to realize that God's timing will not be outdone. Keep going in Jesus' name. Let's talk about it. 

Taking care of ourselves internally, as well as externally is not an indulgence, it is a necessity. We must do this. We must learn to self-care before we burn ourselves out. Let's talk about it. 

The things the younger generation has to go through is no joke. Their experiences and perspectives are down to earth and as real as they come. I gave them some scenarios and they gave some answers. Tune in. Let's talk about it. 

A no-holds barred conversation about blended family discipline from some people who have experienced blended families first hand. Tune in and let it bless ya' real good. You know we have to talk about it. 

This is a real one. Blended family discipline is challenging and difficult. God has to be in the center of the relationship between husband and wife. Let's talk about it. 

Situations happen before every wedding, and some things will test you as a person and child of God. It will test your love for that person. It will test your mental capacity. It will test your emotional strength. We absolutely have to talk about it. 

Paying bills is no joke. The question is though should both the man and the woman contribute equally to all household bills? The answer is yes, but with an explanation. It has to be discussed, so let's talk about it. 

It's Mother's Day. If you had a no nonsense momma, that didn't play, that made sure you had what you needed, that took care of you and that made sure you knew the Lord, then you are blessed. In fact, you may be a little spoiled. Moms are not perfect, but they are warriors in their own right. Let's talk about it. 

During this pandemic so many things have become unimportant. Life is different, and we have the opportunity to deal with ourselves as people. Are you satisfied with you are as a person? If you are not then this is the chance to get with God and do something about it. Let's talk about it. 

Trial of Derrick Chauvin is now over, but with this victory what does the Black community do? Are we long overdue for a mindset change? Where does the Black community go from here? Let's talk about it. 

This is too much. It is like a bad dream that keeps happening over and over and over and over again, with no relief in sight. We have to keep pushing forward. We cannot be denied our rights as citizens in America. The Daunte Wright shooting is just another example that we have to going forward. Let's talk about it. 

Have you ever just wondered or thought about your life, your choices, your family, or anything connected to you? You are not alone. All of us have those thoughts, but the key is not to get stuck in those thoughts. Let's talk about it. 

Are we losing the ability to effectively communicate with each other? This past year would question whether or not we possess the ability to talk to each other with dignity. We need this art form so desperately in Jesus' name. Let's talk about it. 

We have listened to his music for years, but just like any man he has had his struggles. Some people are throwing stones they should not be throwing. Everyone needs compassion, including Kirk Franklin. Let's talk about it. 

When we lose a loved one, it can be devastating. You are coming to grips with the reality that the death of a loved one actually happened. Depression is this part of the process of grief. The key is not to remain in a depressed state. Yes, family is concerned about you, but this struggle is between you and God. You will get through this. Let's talk about it. 

After denial, shock, pain and guilt comes anger. That is is tough place to be, but with the Lord you will overcome. Let's talk about it.

After the shock and denial of death comes the pain and guilt. You are not alone. There are several people who are experiencing this. You can and will get through this. Let's talk about it.

There is a better than average chance that you have experienced the death of someone close to you, or that you know very well. How we process the loss of a loved one is a process in and of itself. Let's talk about it.

Should parents get in the middle of their married children's relationships? Do parents have the right to speak before asked, or give their "two-cents" without being asked? It is a lot to consider. Let's talk about.

We have a new president. We have a new, history making, vice president. Despite change at the top, we cannot afford to slow down, or take our proverbial foot off the pedal. Anytime change is pressing forth, it is important that we keep our hand on the plow. Pastor James Thomas is with us today, an outspoken radical man of God. Let's talk about it.

This academic year has been a challenge. Parents and children have to coexist during hours that children would normally be in school and parents are doing adult things, but that has changed and it is an uphill climb for everyone. Let's talk about it.

Accountability is real and its important. 45 has to be held accountable. Let's talk about it.

The leadership in the United States has gone haywire. This is unacceptable and must be dealt with now. Let's talk about it.

Being a father is not easy. They experience a range of emotions. Everything from joy and elation to having their judgment questioned by the very children they raised. It is tough, and not for the faint of heart. Here are a few nuggets of wisdom to listen to. Let's talk about it.

During this time of being apart from each other, we need to realize and understand how to be there when we can't be there physically for some one. It's tough and we need each other. Let's talk about it.

It's that time for gifts and celebration, but let's remember that Jesus is the reason for the season. Let's not go broke trying to please our children and others. Let's talk about it.

We have a lot to be thankful for. Despite what is taking place around us, do not forget or forfeit the opportunity to acknowledge how blessed you are. Happy Thanksgiving. Let's talk about it.

There are times when life will run you down. If you are not careful it will immobilize your will to continue doing what is right. All of us go through this. Let's talk about it.

So much turmoil. So much despair, and this is the land of the free, home of the brave. We gotta make some changes or else. Let's talk about it.

This is a tough subject to handle, but we need to talk about it because the world we live in is such a stressful place, and it is causing people to not be able to forgive and love on one another. It's hard, but it is something we have to do. Let's talk about it.

To celebrate the conclusion of the NBA basketball season, I thought it would be cool to discuss my top 5 all time. I got next. Let's talk about it.

Adultery is one of those things that eats up marriages and relationships, destroys families, causes heartache, and much more. Why does it happen? How do we stop it? How do we deal with it?

If we are not careful, life will swallow us up and spit us out. We cannot allow a chaotic lifestyle to become our normal. We need God like never before. Let's talk about it.

Dealing with conflict in a relationship is not easy, nor is it for the faint of heart. However, conflict can dealt with in a positive manner. With God all things are possible. Let's talk about it.

People are at their boiling point. Some ready to give up, some are losing their grip on reality, some are despondent and cannot see a way out. All is not lost though. Let's talk about it.

Men go through a lot, carry a lot, and often don't say anything about it. This is my take on this subject. Please encourage men to keep going forward. Let's talk about it.

The second half of discussing foundations of a great marriage. Contains some moving pieces you do not want to miss. Let's talk about it.

What are the things that keep people together? Well, it is more than sex and money. If you want to hear more tune in. We are talking about those things that great marriages are built on. Let's talk about it.

Pro athletes have a voice, and they are willing to use it, but there are those who have them to simply be quiet and play their respective sport. I believe they should protest. Let's talk about it.

This is my story of how I forgave my (biological) father. It starts with God being in the center of my life. This does not happen without God because I could not do it by myself. Let's talk about it.

A discussion about pointing our children in a different direction other than sports, entertainment, video games, and social media. Our value system has to change to help our children see and realize different opportunities in life

Parenting grown children is taking the country, and the world by storm. Parents find themselves having to house, take care of, and continue to train grown children as they look to find their place in this world. This discussion centers on some of the strategies and challenges that parents encounter as they live with grown children.