Real LIFE with Ray

I need to add this disclaimer really fast because I don't want to send out the wrong message. GOD is amazing and so is church but we have to use discernment with a side of common sense when joining or visiting churches --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

I want to be clear I'm not bashing BLACK people but I'm sharing my experience in BLACK Churches. Not all Black churches are BAD or performative. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

The story of my Cousin Vinny, guilt, and the power of Prayer and encouragement. Hope this helps someone. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

I heard a story on X today and realized how the smallest things can be soooooooooooooo HUGE in relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Sorry my mistake I need 4 more women willing to tell their stories. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Witchcraft in the Workplace is REAL and baby I'm ready to tell my story. Don't yall laugh at my pics either

This episode is about my personal experience with setting boundaries. Chat with me on X/Twitter @msraybay --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

Why do MEN feel like a baby and a ring can take away the pain of ABUSE? Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

I had a wonderful conversation/prayer with my coworkers this morning and wanted to share with you all. What runs in the FAMILY doesn't have to run in YOUR FAMILY. What someone else died from in the FAMILY, doesn't mean you'll die that WAY. Your LIFE is your LIFE, your FATE is your FATE and ONLY YOU can determine how you want to live your LIFE. Listen and SHARE --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Sooo I randomly spoke with a Verizon REP about his marriage *Yes ya'll lol* and it made me think about the actual FACT that every WOMAN has that 1 MAN she wished she had in her life. *(If he's not already there) Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Wait here me out, let's discuss Kevin Samuels? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

You ever feel stagnant or like LIFE is not getting any better? Let's discuss those "FRIENDS" that's around you? Are those Friends assigned to ruin you or to assist you?  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

We grow up thinking we need certain people but sometimes GOD will bring in divine relationships that's bigger & better and that's what you need to focus on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Just like that 1 day I decided to stop trying to save other people and focus on my own destiny. Let's Discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Is RATCHET the new Marriage and Relationship Goal? Is disrespecting our spouses, cursing them out, blasting them on social media the new thing now? Are we making this a trend? Let's Discuss --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

How do you still LOVE when you don't always feel the love back? Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Is LUST ruining dating? Are we doomed if we're not already married? Let's Discuss --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Can single women cross the line as platonic friends? Let's discuss it  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

I lost my Dad this year and I wanted to share the journey I started and what I'm doing to heal and grow through this very shocking situation. Hope I can help someone with my story RIP Ray aka Dad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Is your Stagnation tied to the company you keep? Let's discuss it!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

Why are we victim blaming? Why do victims have to have a time LIMIT on when they expose their TRAUMA and PAIN? I am so bothered by the allegations but I am even more bothered by the people that are disrespecting the victims... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

I saw a series of tweets and I had to make an episode speaking on this.... HOW far should a WOMAN go to keep a MAN and who is truly suffering in the situation? Should a CHILD go through HELL for your HAPPINESS? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

I'm SURE IN THE COOLEST PLACES IN THE WORLD IT'S SOMEONE WHO HATES LIVING THERE, AND WELL THIS IS A LITTLE BIT OF MY STORY AND WHY I LEFT SC AND WHY I'LL NEVER EVER GO BACK. SCRIPTURE REFERENCE USED: LUKE: 16-30 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

THE FRIENDSHIP THAT BROUGHT ON STRANGE ISSUES.... IS YOUR "FRIENDS" AND EVEN BAD "FAMILY MEMBERS" STOPPING YOUR LIFE PROGRESS? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

I realized from my last abusive relationship that I did some abusing myself.  I want a GREAT MAN and an even better husband but I want to be the WOMAN GOD wants me to be for him. TAKE A LISTEN....... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

MY FRIENDS AND I SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS DAD ISSUES AND HOW MUCH OF AN IMPACT IT CAN HAVE ON WOMEN. IT GOT SOOOO REAL IN THE END BUT I'M SURE YOU ALL WILL LOVE IT. PART 2 IS ON THE WAY --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

Why are Children rushed into Adulthood when this world is cold and cruel. It's nothing wrong with allowing a child to be a child and helping them grow into Adulthood. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

I was very jokey in this podcast episode but trust me the pain was all there and I actually cried after recording. I am so thankful that this didn't kill me, that I am forgiven, that I have done some forgiving and healed from this relationship. I think I cried because it felt good to release my story. If you're dating a dangerous man please LEAVE while you can and know that it will get better. Need resources and anybody to talk to then email me elizabethrgunter@gmail.com New Podcast coming soon and I am so excited., --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

I had some people upset with me and my personal preferences so this is for YOU!!! Ladies we don't have to accept what we're not happy with. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

Why are black creatives judged so harshly by our own people? Let's talk about it and LET's DO BETTER!!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

This is a very REAL & RAW conversation about how one of the most abusive relationships I've ever been in brought me to CHRIST. I pray that you gain something from my personal experience and pain. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

How I become the ONLY PARENT and how I’m functioning today.... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

Stop telling women no matter if they’re single, married or taken when they should have babies! Let’s be aware of people feelings and respect their boundaries. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

The introduction to Ray and how I finally learned the art of letting GO!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support