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My podcast is all about Real situations in my life and just things that I experience as a young black woman!!! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

Elizabeth Rayy


    • Jan 2, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 26m AVG DURATION
    • 34 EPISODES


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    THE DARK SIDE OF THE BLACK CHURCH PT 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 29:17


    I need to add this disclaimer really fast because I don't want to send out the wrong message. GOD is amazing and so is church but we have to use discernment with a side of common sense when joining or visiting churches --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    The Dark Side of the Black Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 33:28


    I want to be clear I'm not bashing BLACK people but I'm sharing my experience in BLACK Churches. Not all Black churches are BAD or performative. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    My Cousin Vinny

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 26:44


    The story of my Cousin Vinny, guilt, and the power of Prayer and encouragement. Hope this helps someone. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    The EX and the Cockroach

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2023 13:15


    I heard a story on X today and realized how the smallest things can be soooooooooooooo HUGE in relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    MEN AND THEIR AUDACITY SERIES DISCLAIMER

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2023 4:41


    Sorry my mistake I need 4 more women willing to tell their stories. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    Witchy Poo Boo in the Workplace

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 40:45


    Witchcraft in the Workplace is REAL and baby I'm ready to tell my story. Don't yall laugh at my pics either

    Creating healthy Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2023 26:02


    This episode is about my personal experience with setting boundaries. Chat with me on X/Twitter @msraybay --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reallifewithray/support

    A ring, Abuse, and a BABY

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2022 25:34


    Why do MEN feel like a baby and a ring can take away the pain of ABUSE? Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Your STORY is not their story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 25:19


    I had a wonderful conversation/prayer with my coworkers this morning and wanted to share with you all. What runs in the FAMILY doesn't have to run in YOUR FAMILY. What someone else died from in the FAMILY, doesn't mean you'll die that WAY. Your LIFE is your LIFE, your FATE is your FATE and ONLY YOU can determine how you want to live your LIFE. Listen and SHARE --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Every woman has that ONE

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 21:30


    Sooo I randomly spoke with a Verizon REP about his marriage *Yes ya'll lol* and it made me think about the actual FACT that every WOMAN has that 1 MAN she wished she had in her life. *(If he's not already there) Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    How I feel about Kevin Samuels

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 20:45


    Wait here me out, let's discuss Kevin Samuels? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    DEMONIC FRIENDS

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 23:31


    You ever feel stagnant or like LIFE is not getting any better? Let's discuss those "FRIENDS" that's around you? Are those Friends assigned to ruin you or to assist you?  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Stop talking to people who don't care

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 15:30


    We grow up thinking we need certain people but sometimes GOD will bring in divine relationships that's bigger & better and that's what you need to focus on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    What's for you is not for everybody else

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2021 22:28


    Just like that 1 day I decided to stop trying to save other people and focus on my own destiny. Let's Discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Leave the TOXIC Relationships alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 34:00


    Is RATCHET the new Marriage and Relationship Goal? Is disrespecting our spouses, cursing them out, blasting them on social media the new thing now? Are we making this a trend? Let's Discuss --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Rejection is a beast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2021 29:55


    How do you still LOVE when you don't always feel the love back? Let's discuss it --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    More NOTEBOOK and less PLAYAS CLUB

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2021 18:28


    Is LUST ruining dating? Are we doomed if we're not already married? Let's Discuss --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    The Brown Sugar Effect

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2021 25:02


    Can single women cross the line as platonic friends? Let's discuss it  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    Losing My DAD

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2021 34:40


    I lost my Dad this year and I wanted to share the journey I started and what I'm doing to heal and grow through this very shocking situation. Hope I can help someone with my story RIP Ray aka Dad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

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    That BAD COMPANY Tho

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2021 24:34


    Is your Stagnation tied to the company you keep? Let's discuss it!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/reallifewithray/support

    How I feel about TIP and TINY Allegations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 16:11


    Why are we victim blaming? Why do victims have to have a time LIMIT on when they expose their TRAUMA and PAIN? I am so bothered by the allegations but I am even more bothered by the people that are disrespecting the victims... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Should it take being SCANDALOUS to keep a MAN? *DO BETTER*

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 25:56


    I saw a series of tweets and I had to make an episode speaking on this.... HOW far should a WOMAN go to keep a MAN and who is truly suffering in the situation? Should a CHILD go through HELL for your HAPPINESS? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    LEAVING FLORENCE, LIVING IN TEXAS, AND WHY I'LL NEVER GO BACK......

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2020 28:37


    I'm SURE IN THE COOLEST PLACES IN THE WORLD IT'S SOMEONE WHO HATES LIVING THERE, AND WELL THIS IS A LITTLE BIT OF MY STORY AND WHY I LEFT SC AND WHY I'LL NEVER EVER GO BACK. SCRIPTURE REFERENCE USED: LUKE: 16-30 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    SEIZURES, BAD FRIENDSHIPS, AND BAD VIBES

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 30:08


    THE FRIENDSHIP THAT BROUGHT ON STRANGE ISSUES.... IS YOUR "FRIENDS" AND EVEN BAD "FAMILY MEMBERS" STOPPING YOUR LIFE PROGRESS? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    WHY I’m comfortable being SINGLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 18:11


    I realized from my last abusive relationship that I did some abusing myself.  I want a GREAT MAN and an even better husband but I want to be the WOMAN GOD wants me to be for him. TAKE A LISTEN....... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    QUEEN TALK *WOMEN WITH DADDY ISSUES*

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 55:47


    MY FRIENDS AND I SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS DAD ISSUES AND HOW MUCH OF AN IMPACT IT CAN HAVE ON WOMEN. IT GOT SOOOO REAL IN THE END BUT I'M SURE YOU ALL WILL LOVE IT. PART 2 IS ON THE WAY --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Stop rushing your babies into ADULTHOOD!!!!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 18:25


    Why are Children rushed into Adulthood when this world is cold and cruel. It's nothing wrong with allowing a child to be a child and helping them grow into Adulthood. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Dating a Toxic Drug Dealer *My Story*

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2020 51:44


    I was very jokey in this podcast episode but trust me the pain was all there and I actually cried after recording. I am so thankful that this didn't kill me, that I am forgiven, that I have done some forgiving and healed from this relationship. I think I cried because it felt good to release my story. If you're dating a dangerous man please LEAVE while you can and know that it will get better. Need resources and anybody to talk to then email me elizabethrgunter@gmail.com New Podcast coming soon and I am so excited., --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    DO Better *Sir, I don't want to date you and alllll of your kids*

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2020 20:24


    I had some people upset with me and my personal preferences so this is for YOU!!! Ladies we don't have to accept what we're not happy with. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Do Better *I am not HOOD, "ACTING WHITE", or HIGH....I'm a CREATIVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 18:41


    Why are black creatives judged so harshly by our own people? Let's talk about it and LET's DO BETTER!!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Abuse LED me to my Salvation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 48:51


    This is a very REAL & RAW conversation about how one of the most abusive relationships I've ever been in brought me to CHRIST. I pray that you gain something from my personal experience and pain. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Losing TRON *Part 1*

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 28:02


    How I become the ONLY PARENT and how I’m functioning today.... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    Do Better *It’s Our Choice*

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 24:14


    Stop telling women no matter if they’re single, married or taken when they should have babies! Let’s be aware of people feelings and respect their boundaries. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

    They have to GO so you can Grow!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 19:45


    The introduction to Ray and how I finally learned the art of letting GO!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/RealLifewithRay/support

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