Talking Messy is a podcast devoted to everything “messy”. All of the conversations you wish you could have in polite company. We delve into relationships, sexuality, gender and gender identity, kinky behaviors, and more!
What do you do when your partner's partner (your metamour) creates stress and drama for your partner or the relationship with your partner?
Romance is subjective, but we feel that it exists for almost everyone. What do we consider romantic and why?
George & Sara are back... with the boys! Covering more Talking Messy topics.
The guys have taken over this week and touch on the dude perspective in CNM.
What does it mean to be high maintenance? What impact do high maintenance people play on the rest of us? Talking Messy tackles high/low maintenance behaviors.
After a hiatus, Talking Messy is back with an informative episode on belts, the kink multi-tool. We cover all the fun things you can do with belts. We also discuss safety and aftercare when using belts in play.
Boobs... What's the deal? This boob-isode we talk all things boobs.
We've talked about unicorn hunters, but what about building an ethical triad? We're discussing the difference and challenges with this dynamic.
How do you locate a therapist? Particularly for those who are part of the "fringe" populations.
Is muff diving the new avocado toast?! Why do men brag about their prowess? The secrets of chubby bunny and more.
While this episode may be controversial, we welcome any (constructive) emails and comments. TalkingMessy@gmail.com
Are you poly? Are you a swinger? Are you some other form of CNM? Representation matters! How to be more intentional in the way you represent how you practice CNM.
Talking Messy about coming out as nontraditional. We talk about considerations for who and when to tell, and much more!
A discussion about toxic masculinity with our special guest, Chris. What does it mean? Can there be masculinity without toxicity? What does toxic masculinity look like?
As we are of a “certain age”, how could we skip over the topic of being a cougar?!
We often talk about some heavy issues and things that may not be the “nicest”. This week’s episode focuses on the good stuff!
We tackle don’t ask, don’t tell relationships in this week’s episode. Email us with your thoughts!
Bad dates, we’ve all had them. Some are just worse than others. Join George & Sara and special guest, comedian/artist/hairdresser supreme Jyl Johnson as we share our cringe worthy experiences in this very supersized episode.
Not what you may be thinking! We’re tackling the toilet seat debate along with other bathroom specific habits.
What does it mean to be a private person? How is being private different than being secretive? George & Sara define and discuss these concepts.
Join George & Sara and their special guest, comedian Sondra Slade, as they discuss fighting fair at It’s Complicated OK (ICOK). ICOK is Tulsa’s first conference solely devoted to consensual nonmonogamy and kink.
We’re talking messy about the ins and outs of sex toys this week. PLUS, big announcement regarding registration for ICOK.
What does it take to be alone? Tips and techniques for self-growth.
Running the gamut of clothing, beginning with the disparity of pockets in feminine clothing.
It’s Complicated OK is a Tulsa, OK based conference that focuses solely on nontraditonal relationships. You don’t want to miss it! www.ItsComplicatedOK.com
Body image concerns abound in pretty much all humans. Join us, and our special guest Roderick, while we attempt to tackle this issue.
How do you set healthy boundaries? Where do boundaries come from? Are boundaries the same as rules? Let’s find out together!
What do you do when you’re crushing on someone you don’t think you “should” be crushing on? We talk candidly about the ups & downs of crushes.
George explains her thought-provoking game to our listeners.
A great discussion about navigating consent in relationships, as well as respecting personal bubbles.
Communication! We all do it, but here are some tips and tricks on how to make your communication more effective.
More discussion about dating behaviors such as getting stuck in the endless text loop, “dater-viewing”, and what questions work well in the getting to know you phase.
We’re Talking Messy about all the bad dating habits and terminology this week!
This week we're tackling basic terminology. The words and things we'll be using along the way.
Intro to George & Sara and why we settled on Talking Messy for our title.
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