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A fun, sexy, new outlook to sexuality! Modern trends of polyamory, BDSM, and swinging lifestyle discussions and interviews! Listen to find a way to explore a new sexual you! Be ready for vulgar language, juicy stories, and the real deal about sex and it’s taboos!

Why choose one


    • Nov 8, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 23m AVG DURATION
    • 71 EPISODES


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    S4E6: The Updated Jealously Highway

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 17:08


    I may have been on the highway while recording this episode, I just couldn't help myself. Jealousy on this podcast has been an ongoing learning experience and once again I'm coming at you with an updated version of how to manage jealousy. A different way of thinking for processing emotions.Can't wait to hear what you guys think about this one

    S4E5: EPIC Takeover

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 32:56


    Well, it happened again, I went and did more debauchery. This is my story time about my experience at this amazing hotel lifestyle takeover event. I talk about what it's like transitioning to LS, how to process jealousy, and some of my fetishes.Let's have some fun !

    S4E4: Part 3 of the Wild Relationship Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 14:17


    This is an episode that contains storytime over my past weekend. How I have been transitioning from polyamory to ethical non-monogamy/lifestyle and the shenanigans that are coming with it.

    S4E3: Part 2 New Relarionship- Jealousy and Demi Sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 13:49


    Ever try to have a deeper meaning to understand your jealousy and you finally find a key? How does Demi sexuality actually affect ENM relationships? Let's chat real life experience.

    S4 E2: 24/7 Power Exchange and relationship update

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 33:25


    Listen… This episode has a massive update about what's been going on in my life. I met a new human and this episode is entirely about the things that I've learned since meeting them. There's discussions about power exchange, switching, communication styles, 24/7 dynamics, ethical non monogamy, hot wifing. All the above. This is definitely a series type of conversation.

    S4 E1: Being Single and Dating in 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 26:13


    Well we're starting off season 4 with a trash panda conversation of dating. Listen to this update and see if you can relate to the new world of dating rules and trashy ways.

    S3 E4: The END of the heartbreak series

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 21:05


    Okay yall it's time to heal- here my update and fun facts

    S3 E2- The Heart Break Series 2/3: When Your Partner Is Heartbroken.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2023 22:21


    Sometimes in life things don't go as we planned. Our hearts get broken over and over and over again in polyamory. Have you ever wondered how you can support your partner during heartbreak? Have you ever wanted your partner to understand how they can support you during your heartbreak? This episode gives some awareness and thoughtfulness to how we can show up for each other in ethical non-monogamy.

    S3 E1: The heartbreak series- Self Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 28:13


    Have you ever wondered to yourself why you need so much external validation? Do you ever get told that you need more independence? This episode is a discussion about the power of Self Love and how inviting this to ethical non monogamy is critical when managing multiple partners, being alone, and the search for other humans.

    S2 E9: Finding balance in polysaturation and ethical non monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 18:00


    It's not easy attempting to balance when you have so many things going on in your life. Here's a conversation starter about how we can be a better partner and how we can explore balance in polyamory.

    S2E8: Triggers, trauma, and sex work

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2023 20:55


    *trigger warning* this episode is not for the faint of heart- it's a part of my healing process and self exploration in sex work. How did we get here? Where will we go from here?

    S2 E7: Mindset surrounding Stigmas and Judgement

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2023 14:25


    Ever judge someone for doing something you don't like? Ever thought or said “ew that's gross”. Take a listen if you've ever been judged, judge or have held back information about yourself in fear? Take a listen so we can spread more compassion and love into this world.

    S2E6: You asked for it, Cuckholding with special guest slave

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2022 45:46


    In celebration of my most listened to episode this year, I decided to ask a friend to record about cuckholding- a passion of his. slave and I talk about the dos, the donts and so much fun stories about it- you'll be laughing and possibly turned on after you tune in.

    S2 E5: The Purpose Behind Non Monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2022 33:59


    Have you ever actually sat back and tried to process why you're doing this? What are you seeking? How can you find more joy and pleasure in what you're doing? Husband joins me for a quick chat about my new found answers to these questions.

    S2 E4: Part 2 bisexuality series with the return of Zoe!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2022 36:27


    Zoe and I bring you the view point of being bisexual and ENM/polyamorous. We explore freedom, choices, lesbians and more.

    S2 E3: Collars in BDSM

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 15:22


    All it took was one random message on fetlife to inspire the conversation. Ever wonder what types of collars are out there? What do collars mean? What's the expected behaviour of those who are collared? Check it out!

    S2 E2: Guilt in Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2022 21:39


    Ever wondered why you feel bad for doing the things you had permission for? What about enjoying yourself too much on a date? Or during pleasure? Why is guilt ingrained in us and what types of guilt is there? Find out some fun facts during this episodes inspired content.

    S2 E1: Envy in Non Monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 15:00


    Have you ever considered “how are we”? As a collective mindset question vs “how are you/self”? Non monogamy gives us the opportunity for growth in Compersion and being able to feel happiness for our partners successes.

    51- Can You Define That?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 9:00


    This is a short and sweet episode about a moment I had while researching. All it takes is a few seconds of learning about myself and suddenly I’m dripping in ideas. Mad love.

    50- Part 1: Bisexual series with Zoe and Aliens

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 18:55


    Whether you’re walking in the dark or in a hot tub with aliens- you know something about yourself. Let’s talk about what the heck is bisexuality!

    49- Am I Bisexual?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 7:34


    Listen up ladies!! There is a huge question here of what the actual fuck defines bisexuality. I’m looking for people who want to tune in with me and discuss what makes you bisexual?

    48- When the cat is poly and the dog is poly ish!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 43:37


    Meow! Kitty comes for a discussion about trust, poly, and all things inspiring! Come for the dirt but stay for the vagina teeth.

    47- 2 girls, 1 pole

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 37:48


    Time to talk to a feature guest Island Breeze! Welcoming all the awesome, sexy vibes that radiate from this woman! Got what it takes to try out the pole? Check this out!

    46- Cuckholding

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2020 22:43


    When you tell me what you want, I’ll give it to ya! ;) this is the story/education time for those who like to live on the edge!

    46- Real Life Jealousy in Non Monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2020 48:31


    Not only do I give you some great resources and ideas but my husband and I talk about a real life jealousy situation that happened between us! Learn and grow! Stay sexy!

    45- Do you have guilt after playing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 19:23


    Guys, there is always growth in nonmonogamy but lately I’ve been really feeling some random guilt vibes after playing! Anyone else?

    44- Playing in the Darkness

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2020 19:12


    TRIGGER WARNING! If the “r” word isn’t your thing- skip this episode. If you’re not ready to think about playing with your triggers- run far far away. Shit gets real. Mad love fuckers.

    43- Cuckkk what?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2020 13:02


    Have you ever wondered.... What is a cuckhold? What kinds are there? Maybe I’ll be into it? Check this short and sweet penis in caged episode.

    42- Talking Leather with Scott Bryen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2020 32:10


    Ever wondered what leather actually means? What the difference between straight and gay leather? New guard/old guard? Our journey is our own... kick out of that box!

    41-Craving submission

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2020 17:09


    Whether you are a dominant or a submissive- you should absolutely give this episode a listen. Tune in to the little details submissives pay attention to. How can you be the most intriguing dominant? What separates you from a robot administering lashes?

    40- Indiana Jones guide to my vagina and his cock

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 17:19


    Have you thought to yourself... I really want to fuck JENN? Well here are the clues to find your way to my vagina...

    39- Interview with sex uninterrupted!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 33:47


    Hey guys! This episode is all about the swingy side of things, exploring the conversation of travel, what they offer, and some fun facts about them!

    sex uninterrupted
    38- Interview with Marla Stewart!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2020 46:55


    She is the Co author of “the ultimate guide to seduction and foreplay”, the Co founder of sex down south, sexologist for 20 years. This human is straight FIRE.

    fire marla stewart
    37- Shame is your prespective

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2020 13:02


    What if you could live a true selfed life without shame? We are always encouraged to be “ourselves”, but judgement throwers always shift our mindset as to who that really is. Be proud of who you are.

    36- Sex with Dr. Jess interview

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2020 30:37


    Want to learn more about seduction from the top sex and relationship expert in North America? Here she is! Be ready for some excellent resources to enhance your seduction skills.

    35- Telling your monogamous partner you want to be non monogamous

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2020 22:22


    These conversations are never easy. Take a listen and see if these situations can help you. Send your monogamous partners here and let them see for themselves. It’s all safe and love here

    34- I MISS YOU ALL

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2020 9:07


    Podcasting should be something I’m doing mass amounts of with this pandemic shit. But real life has taken over and I’m just checking in with y’all! MISS YOU!

    33- It’s time to talk relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2020 12:34


    This is a time of stress, anxiety, and fear. But let’s take a moment to just love those around us instead of focusing on all the bad shit. Let love grow. Be the little plant growing after a wildfire ❤️

    32- Coronovirus and update of podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2020 13:52


    How is the coronovirus really affecting the LS and poly communities? Also, I update y’all on my path of this podcast direction

    31- The Art of Seduction

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 20:51


    There is a wild game within us all, and how we choose to play will determine your results.

    30- The Dark Side of What We Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 16:57


    Here is a chapter of my very own. Spoken with the truest of hearts. Here is part of my story. Let’s raise our hands to consent.

    29- Love is Blind (on Netflix)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2020 19:42


    In this episode we do a review of the hottest reality TV show on Netflix...it’s naughty!!!

    28- Solo Polyamory in a nut

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2020 17:42


    Not nut as in jizz! Nut as in a shell you dirty perverts. Wanna learn about solo polyamory? Here it is!

    27- Interview with senior Dustin about polyamory

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2020 28:23


    Guys- check this shit out. If your poly, thinking about poly, or just non monogamous... LISTEN THE FUCK UP! This is how we learn. This is how we grow!

    26- BDSM interview with Sir Wesley

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2020 44:48


    Empowering those who want to learn about bdsm, or who’ve been at it for years and want some good laughs and vagina soaks.

    25- Are you struggling in non monogamy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2020 22:59


    It isn’t always easy being a non monogamous person. It’s hard AF sometimes. Take a listen, keep an open heart and mind. You never know what you might learn.

    24- Lets talk about the big O’s

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020 26:37


    Orgasms! Join the conversation and tel me what gets you off. This conversation about orgasm equality and how to’s will have your juices flowing in no time ;)

    23- What limitations do you set for yourself sexually?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2020 14:10


    How do we get past those nasty little limitations we put on our lives?! Ask yourself honestly, why are they there and do we really need them?

    22- Overall health and sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2020 11:23


    Take a second, listen. What if we try and grow such a significant part of our life like another other part? What if sex drives us to where we want to be?

    21- NYE Hotel Takeover!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2020 49:59


    The fiancé has joined me again in talking about the unspeakables. Fair warning humans- were disgusting raunchy horny humans. Muahaha.

    20- Thing 1 and thing 2 came to talk about Swinging

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 42:53


    Let’s talk about sexxxxx! Swinging and the hardships, the fun times. And some banter about important subjects. All here for you.

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