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Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right in your open or polyamorous relationship—and yet still crumble inside the moment your partner connects with someone else? In this honest and unfiltered episode, I explore what real self-love looks like in non-monogamous relationships—especially when comparison, jealousy, and insecurity hit hard.
Send us a textWhat happens when a long-term couple invites a third person into their relationship—and it doesn't go as planned?In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with six-time Emmy-nominated TV producer Jeff Hudson to talk about his memoir Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. Jeff shares what it was like to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of a throuple, how jealousy blindsided him, and why non-monogamy cracked him wide open—in the best and worst ways.We explore:Why three-person relationships are emotional rocket fuelHow jealousy shows up even when you're experienced in open relationshipsThe difference between love and compatibilityIdentity shifts that come with loving outside the boxWhy breakdowns in love can lead to breakthroughs in self-awarenessWhether you're polyam-curious, actively non-monogamous, or just fascinated by the complexity of modern love—this conversation will challenge and expand how you think about commitment, identity, and connection.
Call it romantically reckless or fiscally responsible, more Aussies are considering ENM (ethical non-monogamy). So, do these relationships work? And how can you stop jealousy taking hold?
Send us a textNavigating non-monogamy can stir up some BIG emotions—especially jealousy. But what if jealousy wasn't something to fight against... but a tool for deeper connection?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Emma Smith, licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, to talk about:✨ How to create emotional safety plans when opening a relationship ✨ The difference between healthy boundaries and rigid rules ✨ Why jealousy isn't the enemy—and how it can guide your growth ✨ Tips for crafting relationship agreements that actually work for you"Boundaries are about care, they're about safety. They are about being grounded in your love and respect for another person." — Dr. Emma SmithIf you're exploring non-monogamy (or just want stronger, healthier connections), this conversation is packed with real talk and practical strategies you'll want to come back to.
In a time when relationships are no longer confined to traditional labels, ethical non-monogamy allows gay individuals to build connections that align with their unique desires and values. By fostering open communication, trust, and mutual consent, non-monogamous relationships can provide fulfilling connections that honor the evolving dynamics of love and partnership.In this episode, Jeff Hudson joins us to share his personal journey with ethical non-monogamy, discussing the challenges and misconceptions surrounding non-traditional relationships and how his experience reshaped his views on love and commitment.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 54. Love in the Third Degree (with Eric Praniewicz)Additional Resources:Read Exploring Polyamory Among Gay Men: Redefining Love, Connection, and AuthenticityFollow Jeff on InstagramRead Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a ThroupleEthical Non-Monogamy: Basics & Rules for ENM RelationshipsRooted ResilienceRooted Resilience: Intersectional Narratives of 2SLGBTQIA+ Creatives in MAListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch
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How do we use Sex to connect with ourselves and our partners? How can we mentally handle ED? How can men improve ED? Is Sex on the first date ok? Ethical Non-Monogamy? Should I talk about sex on the 1st date? Great chat with Sex Therapist Angela Skurtu @OpenBedroomDoors
Send us a textEver wondered if you can learn to feel compersion instead of jealousy? Or if talking about opening up your relationship means you're actually ready to do it? This episode dives deep into these questions and more!I'm joined by Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of Passport to Pleasure. Ally brings her unique blend of humor, compassion, and practical tools to help couples navigate the complexities of non-monogamy.In this episode, we explore:Why "conversation is lubrication" and how to make it work for youReframing jealousy (even the hot kind!) as a tool for growthThe value of understanding consensual non-monogamy, regardless of your relationship styleAlly's step-by-step method for moving through jealousyHow to know if your relationship is truly ready to open upKey Takeaways:Compersion vs. Jealousy: Ally shares her personal journey from experiencing what she thought was jealousy to realizing it was actually compersion.The NERD OUT Method: Learn Ally's unique technique for transforming jealousy into a mindful, growth-oriented experience.Effective Communication: Discover the crucial difference between clear communication and effective communication in relationships.Curiosity Over Conviction: Why approaching non-monogamy with genuine curiosity is more powerful than trying to convince your partner.Whether you're actively practicing non-monogamy, considering it, or simply curious about different relationship styles, this conversation offers valuable insights for everyone. Ally's approach emphasizes personal growth, effective communication, and creating relationships that truly work for you – no matter what form they take.Ready to explore if your relationship is prepared for non-monogamy? Take Ally's free Relationship Ratio quiz at www.passport2pleasure.com/ratio to get started on your journey.And check out Ally's Substack https://allyiseman.substack.com/https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
JKS 58 Celebate Swingers 2, The SequelWelcome back faithful listeners!April is STI awareness month so we wanted to get this episode out there.This episode, we do a little discussion about how things have been going and go back to last october and november before Mrs. Sting's breakup with her boyfriend, to disclose the most recent issue that has forced us to be Celebate again.We talk about STIs (big surprise) and getting tested.Mentioned in the episode...tellyourpartner.orgshamelesscare.comSee below for links to testing & STI information. Please reach out if you have something to say about this.We hope you enjoy the show!Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!You can reach Mr.Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter or @justkeepswinging.bsky.socialemail at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.comIf you like our show and the perspective we provide, PLEASE give us a positive review on iTunes. If you don't like us, say nothing and just move along .WE HIGHLY RESPECT THE FOLLOWING LIST OF CREATORS/ORGS(FYI-we do not generate any form of compensation from our show. We do it for love & caring for ourselves and others. The following are people we believe in.)We encourage you to visit OPEN The Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy https://www.open-love.org/follow @openloveorg Libertine Events Lifestyle vacations,https://libertineevents.com/ follow @PaloozaPodcast on social media or visit https://podcast-a-palooza.comwww.openingus.comhttps://beyondourbedroom.com/https://www.expansiveconnection.com/Average Swingers podcastSapphic Swingers podcastTwo or more to Tango podcastSwinger University podcastCasual Swinger podcast My Favorite app for building sex positive community & education is called Plura. you can find out more here...https://heyplura.com/faqFascinated about swinging and other kinds of open or sex positive relationships? Go listen to our friends at Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast. Join their community. https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/ and Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcastHave you or a loved one contracted Herpes or another STI and are looking for resources on coping with your diagnosis? Search IG for Courtney Brame from the Podcast & Non-Profit "Something Positive for Positive People". A resource for fighting stigma and shame, while finding community & emotional healing for people living with Herpes & other STIs.visit https://www.spfpp.org/Other resources to consider...American Sexual Health association- ASHAsexualhealth.org @infoASHAThe- nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org @NCSH_stdcheck.com @STDcheck Shameless Care STI testing and meds www.shamelesscare.comOther notes: We recommend watching Embarrassing Bodies & Big Mouth on Netflix for relaxing the grip of stigma, fear and poor sexual & relationship education.
We're back at the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival. Part 1 of our conversations with friends new and old. We've got to try the pancakes in Florida! One day the 2 of you are going to the prom, 20 years later you're swapping in a hotel. The latest Hallmark Channel movie? We talk erotic make-up with a pro. Shout out to our friends at Clone-A-Willy for hooking us up with the goods once again! Support us at www.StuartBedasso.com.
Send us a textIf you've ever struggled with mismatched desires, defining commitment with a partner, or navigating the messier side of non-monogamy — this episode is for you.In this candid conversation, I talk with Dr. Tammy Nelson, sexologist, therapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Open Monogamy. With 35+ years of experience working with couples in both monogamous and open relationships, Tammy brings a nuanced lens to everything from sexual boredom and emotional disconnection to jealousy, relationship fatigue, and the evolving nature of commitment.We explore:Why mismatched desires and “monogamy gaps” show up even in non-monogamyHow open relationships can become more intimate — not less — when built on clarityTools for navigating jealousy, initiating hard conversations, and honoring shifting needsThe danger of jumping to a solution before naming the real problemWhy fantasy, communication, and appreciation matter more than frequency or rules
In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ice, and how to make the most of your experience inside of a lifestyle club! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)
Season 5: Episode 11Dr. Michael Simmons is the founder of Inner Work Community LLC, an online collective of psycho-spiritual healers. He is a Shadow Work Coach with over a decade of experience initiating people into their inner landscape, and liberating them to embrace their authentic life. Everything Numa
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship. Do you throw in the towel and call it quits? Or figure out a game plan on what you can do in the future if it happens again and how to move forward from here. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about "Coming Out" to your kids. They discuss the intense feelings, navigating having an intimate conversation with you children, and knowing when it is the right time to tell them. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)
For this episode, we dive deep into the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) with Co-Host Nikki Shaw. ENM is a relationship style where individuals engage in multiple romantic or sexual relationships with the full consent and awareness of everyone involved. It's based on honesty, communication, and mutual respect, standing in stark contrast to cheating, which involves deception. We'll explore what makes ENM distinct, including its various forms such as open relationships and polyamory, and discuss why it's becoming increasingly mainstream. In this episode, we'll tackle tough questions: Is monogamy outdated, or is ENM just another fleeting dating trend? How does social media and celebrity influence—like that of Kofi Siriboe—shape the conversation around non-monogamy? Can ENM work for everyone, or are there inherent challenges that prevent it from being a universal solution? From jealousy and time management to emotional connections, we'll examine the real obstacles people face in ENM relationships. We'll also break down the stigma surrounding ENM, especially the misconception that it's just an excuse for cheating. How can we change this perception, and what role do cultural and community perspectives play in how non-monogamous relationships are viewed? Join us for an insightful discussion about the evolving nature of relationships and how more people are exploring the boundaries of love and commitment in a way that's authentic, consensual, and based on mutual respect.
In this week's episode of the Queer LBC Podcast, your hosts Nino, Christophe, and Dr. Mikey dive into some of the pressing issues the LGBTQ+ community is facing today. They shed light on the ongoing struggle against erasure and discrimination, especially under recent administrative orders impacting federal websites and health data. Shifting gears, the conversation turns personal as the hosts candidly discuss open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. They share personal experiences and insights into navigating trust, jealousy, and the importance of communication in non-traditional relationships, offering a fresh perspective on what it means to maintain a healthy, open bond.
Send us a textAre you trying to navigate ethical non-monogamy through trial and error? In this episode I reveal why the DIY approach to non-monogamy often leads to unexpected emotional and relationship costs.Episode Highlights: • Understanding the hidden costs of unsupported non-monogamy • Real stories from couples navigating ethical non-monogamy • Practical solutions for common non-monogamous relationship challenges • Expert strategies for building successful non-monogamous relationshipsThe Real Price of DIY Non-MonogamyI break down five often-overlooked costs that can derail your non-monogamous journey:Trust Bankruptcy: How small mistakes create lasting damageEmotional Debt Spiral: The compound interest of unprocessed feelingsCommunity Isolation: Why going it alone increases riskTime Lost to Recovery: The true cost of preventable mistakesRelationship Wear and Tear: Understanding cumulative damageEach of these can silently erode the foundation of your relationships, often before you even realize what's happening.From Struggle to Success: Practical SolutionsBut don't worry – I'm not just here to paint a gloomy picture. I offer three powerful steps you can take right now to protect your relationships and set yourself up for success in non-monogamy:Assess and build your support systemIdentify your knowledge gapsCreate a relationship safety netPlus, I share a bonus tip on establishing success metrics that most people overlook."Working with Ellecia gave me more clarity in eight weeks than I found in two years of trying to figure it out alone."If you're tired of stumbling through the dark and ready to illuminate your path in non-monogamy, this episode is your beacon. Learn how to avoid costly mistakes, build a strong foundation, and create the fulfilling, authentic connections you've been seeking.Ready to stop paying the hidden costs of DIY non-monogamy? Visit elleciapaine.com/call to book your clarity chat and discover how we can work together to transform your non-monogamous journey.https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
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We're seeing more and more people open up about swinging, open relationships, and polyamory. But how do people make these relationships work? What skills are needed? How do you know if it's an option for you? In this episode, I explain the most common relationship styles, basic lingo, necessary skills, and tips for exploring. Plus, as always, I bust some myths with hard-hitting facts and answer some listener questions!Recommended BooksOpening Up: A Guide to Creating & Sustaining Open RelationshipsPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma & Consensual Non-monogamyThe Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Freedoms in Sex & LovePoly Content CreatorsDana and the WolfPolyamfamShop for toys & kinky stuff on my Amazon PageIf you want me to answer one of your questions, email me at handymandy919@gmail.com with the subject line "HANDY HELP ME."
In this episode of Pleasure Pathways, I sit down with Jennifer, a seasoned relationship and dating coach who specializes in helping individuals and couples navigate the world of open relationships. Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, considering opening up your relationship, or simply want to learn more about what it takes to thrive in an open dynamic, this episode is packed with honest insights and actionable advice. Jennifer shares her personal journey from monogamy to non-monogamy, the challenges and joys she's experienced along the way, and practical tips for building trust, managing jealousy, and setting healthy boundaries. We dive deep into how to communicate with your partner, avoid common pitfalls, and explore whether an open relationship might be the right fit for you. Tune in for a candid conversation about love, freedom, and reimagining what relationships can look like when you step outside of traditional norms.Listen now to learn:How to start the conversation about opening up your relationshipKey boundaries and agreements for healthy non-monogamyWhat to do when jealousy or insecurity arisesHow to explore non-monogamy safely and ethicallyThis episode is perfect for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of open relationships or seeking fresh perspectives on love and connection.Connect with Jennifer on Instagram HereDownload Free Opening up Guide Here
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships (A Different POV)! They discuss the early stages of the relationship, how you are taught to feel, when to go ahead, and when to pump the breaks! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)
Happy Sunday, my lovely congregation, and welcome back to Pussy Church! This week, we're diving into polyamory, open relationships, and whether being "open" is really the enlightened choice—or just another relationship trend.I break down: my almost-open relationship, the history & science of monogamy and the rise of non-monogamy. Plus, how growing up in a Buddhist commune shaped my views on love and loyalty.If you've ever wondered, non-monogamy is the future—or just a phase?—this one's for you.Amen.
Part two of Belonging + Ethical Non-Monogamy picks back up with game designer and ENM practitioner Ian Riutta. Dr. Mona and Ian expand on their initial conversation to cover topics such as misconceptions about ethical non-monogamy, family dynamics in ENM relationships, and resources like books for those wanting to discover more. Tune in now and explore: - Misconceptions about ENM, including that ENM is all about sex - Acknowledging and meeting needs in ENM relationships - The potential for toxicity in relationships that incorporate concepts like veto powers, couples privilege, and unicorn hunters - Family dynamics in ethically non-monogamous relationships, including coparenting and teaching kids about ENM - The difference between ENM practitioners and ‘swingers' - Books like “The Ethical Slut” that lay out ENM structures for those seeking more information Learn more about the Belonging Reimagined Podcast: www.drmonanour.com/podcast Connect with Dr. Mona Nour: www.drmonanour.com
Join host Jason on an exhilarating journey into the world of ethical non-monogamy in this adults-only podcast episode. Jason sits down with Pharaoh, a professional in the realm of adult fantasies, to uncover the intricacies of black dominance and the unique realm of BBC-induced fantasies. Dive deep into the art of orchestrating safe and consensual adult experiences, where inclusivity meets erotic exploration. Understand the dynamics of lifestyle parties, the etiquette of communication, and the nuances of diverse sexual expressions. Learn about the detailed process of selecting suitable participants, the importance of communication, and the focus on creating a positive and respectful environment for everyone involved. Designed for curious minds and adventurous spirits, this episode breaks taboos and sheds light on a facet of the lifestyle many are eager to explore but unsure of where to begin. Whether you're intrigued by the individuality of fantasies or searching for a space to safely indulge in them, Jason and Pharaoh ensure an engaging and enlightening conversation. https://thesensualcircus.com/ My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle National Lifestyle Weekend Tickets Naughty in New Orleans 2025 Tickets Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course https://beacons.ai/thatotherlifestyle Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com STDHero.com Hellowisp.com
JKS 57 Liar Liar Pants on FireWelcome back faithful listeners!Breaking up is hard to do....SOMETIMES!Why do people lie in the lifestyle?We dish on our latest experience of relationship development on our non-monogamous journey.Have you ever been lied to in the lifestyle? Have you ever lied to get something you wanted?Please reach out if you have something to say about this.We hope you enjoy the show!Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!You can reach Mr.Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter or @justkeepswinging.bsky.socialemail at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.comIf you like our show and the perspective we provide, PLEASE give us a positive review on iTunes. If you don't like us, say nothing and just move along .WE HIGHLY RESPECT THE FOLLOWING LIST OF CREATORS/ORGS(FYI-we do not generate any form of compensation from our show. We do it for love & caring for ourselves and others. The following are people we believe in.)We encourage you to visit OPEN The Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy https://www.open-love.org/follow @openloveorg Libertine Events Lifestyle vacations,https://libertineevents.com/ follow @PaloozaPodcast on social media or visit https://podcast-a-palooza.comwww.openingus.comhttps://beyondourbedroom.com/https://www.expansiveconnection.com/Average Swingers podcastSapphic Swingers podcastTwo or more to Tango podcastSwinger University podcastCasual Swinger podcast /https://www.casualtoys.com/My Favorite app for building sex positive community & education is called Plura. you can find out more here...https://heyplura.com/faqFascinated about swinging and other kinds of open or sex positive relationships? Go listen to our friends at Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast. Join their community. https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/ and Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcastHave you or a loved one contracted Herpes or another STI and are looking for resources on coping with your diagnosis? Search IG for Courtney Brame from the Podcast & Non-Profit "Something Positive for Positive People". A resource for fighting stigma and shame, while finding community & emotional healing for people living with Herpes & other STIs.visit https://www.spfpp.org/Other resources to consider...American Sexual Health association- ASHAsexualhealth.org @infoASHAThe- nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org @NCSH_stdcheck.com @STDcheck Shameless Care STI testing and meds www.shamelesscare.comOther notes: We recommend watching Embarrassing Bodies & Big Mouth on Netflix for relaxing the grip of stigma, fear and poor sexual & relationship education.
Send us a textAre you navigating the emotional landscape of non-monogamy? In this episode, I chat with Lola Phoenix, author of "The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy", "The Non-monogamy Journal", and host of the "Non-Monogamy Help" podcast. We chat about the complexities of open relationships and how to build a toolkit for managing the intense emotions that often arise.Key Insights:The importance of having a personal "anchor" in non-monogamous relationshipsCreating a self-care emergency protocol for challenging emotional momentsWhy traditional advice like "just go on a date night" might not always workHow to approach STI discussions and boundaries in open relationshipsThe value of community support in navigating non-monogamous lifestylesWe explore the concept of an "anchor" - a personal reason for choosing non-monogamy that goes beyond just keeping your current relationship intact. Lola explains why this is crucial for weathering the inevitable emotional storms that come with opening up a relationship.A Peek Into the Episode:"I think that anxiety is actually a pretty normal reaction for most people to their relationship opening. And I don't think that you necessarily have to be an anxious person to be super anxious when that's happening." ~Lola PhoenixLola challenges the notion that you can simply "research your way out of feelings" and offers practical advice for creating a self-care plan. We discuss the importance of writing down your strategies for managing difficult emotions, as your brain might not be in a learning state when you're feeling activated.We also touch on the sometimes heartbreaking situations Lola encounters in their advice column, where non-monogamy isn't the real issue, but rather a symptom of deeper relationship problems.Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned explorer, this conversation offers valuable perspectives on building healthier, more authentic relationships. Join us as we unpack the emotional complexities of open relationships and discover tools for creating more fulfilling connections.Check out Lola's books and resources at Poly Healing Retreat in Crete – March 31st to April 3rd, 2025Looking for a transformative getaway to deepen your connections and heal relationship challenges? Join Dedeker Winston of the Multiamory podcast and award-winning dance/movement therapist Orit Krug on the mythical island of Crete for a somatic therapy retreat designed specifically for polyamorous folks.Visit multiamory.com/retreat to learn more https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
Part one of Belonging + Ethical Non-Monogamy features Ian Riutta, a game designer and single dad who has been practicing ethical non-monogamy (ENM) for seven years. Dr. Mona and Ian demystify the relationship dynamic and dive into the unique set of challenges, expectations, and boundaries in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Tune in now and explore: - What type of person thrives in an ethically non-monogamous relationship - Discourse around feeling pressured to make your partner happy, and the freedom of removing those expectations from a relationship - Abundance vs. scarcity mindsets in relationships - Making the leap from jealousy to “compersion” in ethically non-monogamous relationships - The importance of informed enthusiastic consent in ENM relationships - The difference between ethical non-monogamy and polyamory Learn more about the Belonging Reimagined Podcast: www.drmonanour.com/podcast Connect with Dr. Mona Nour: www.drmonanour.com
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break. They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)
Send us a text! (add your email to get a response)Is ethical non-monogamy simply a radical departure from tradition, or a return to our more natural relational roots? In this episode, we respond to one of our fans' questions about how to have an open relationship (thank you, fan from Columbia, Missouri!). We share stories and observations from diverse E&M communities, underscoring the vital role of consent and intentionality in successfully navigating these relationships. If any of you want to submit a question or request, tap the "send us a text" link at the top!We take a historical and cultural lens to monogamy, questioning its origins and examining its societal implications. Our discussion draws on comparisons with our primate relatives, the horny bonobos, and challenges the notion of ethical non-monogamy as a radical concept, especially in the face of traditional marriage failure rates. We reflect on the intense expectations placed on partners and the emotional risks involved in opening up a relationship.We redefine commitment beyond the confines of sexual exclusivity, highlighting the potential for deeper, diverse connections. From navigating the potential pitfalls of open relationships to the community support essential for their success, we offer a candid dialogue on the joys and challenges of E&M. Ask yourself- what does commitment means for you?Resources:Fern, J. (2020). Polysecure: Attachment, trauma and consensual nonmonogamy. Thorntree Press LLC.Support the showIf you have a loved one with mental or emotional problems, join KulaMind, our community and support platform. KulaMind teaches you how to cope with difficult relationships through one-on-one expert coaching, exclusive group support, and personalized digital resources. *We only take a select few clients at a time, so apply here if you're interested. Listeners of the podcast get a special discount! Follow @kulamind on Instagram for science-backed tips and resources for mental health and relationships. For more info about this podcast, check out: www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com Follow us on Instagram: @ALittleHelpForOurFriends
Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you're feeling unsatisfied or incomplete in your love life, there's more than one way to engage in sex, love, and relationships. But what does that look like? And how do we navigate alternative relationship styles that honour our desire and respect our partner's boundaries? We're throwing it back to this insightful and vulnerable advice from Hayley Folk, a sex writer on a mission to create safe spaces to talk about sex and pleasure.Hayley's work has appeared in magazines like Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Elite Daily, and more. She's the founder of Naked Folk, a publication and podcast that covers the uncomfortable conversations we should be having about sex and relationships. Listen to our full episode with Hayley here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Hayley:https://www.instagram.com/hayley.folk/?hl=enhttps://www.nakedfolk.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nakedfolk/?hl=en Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube
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Welcome to the latest episode of That Other Lifestyle Podcast, where host Jason is joined by a special guest, Lauren Hayes, an author and coach renowned for her insights into ethical non-monogamy. This episode delves into the nuances of open relationships, offering a thoughtful look at Lauren's book, "For Better or Even Better: Seven Lessons on Love and Life from a Non-Monogamist." Explore the importance of communication, emotional sovereignty, and the subtle boundaries couples navigate in open relationships. Lauren shares her journey, offering practical advice and powerful lessons learned from non-monogamy that apply to everyone, whether monogamous or curious about alternative relationship dynamics. If you've ever considered exploring the lifestyle, this episode provides valuable perspectives on approaching conversations about non-monogamy, the impact of media representations, and much more. Whether you're in a "lifestyle" or vanilla relationship, join us as we uncover how open communication and self-awareness can transform any partnership. https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com/ My links: www.thatotherlifestyle.com https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle National Lifestyle Weekend Tickets Naughty in New Orleans 2025 Tickets Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course https://beacons.ai/thatotherlifestyle Risque Lifestyle Parties SDC.com
Send us a textHave you ever found yourself caught in the grip of jealousy, promising that next time will be different, only to find those familiar feelings resurface? If you've been trying to tackle jealousy on your own without success, you're not alone. In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on why DIY approaches to managing jealousy often fall short, and why deeper work is crucial for lasting change.I'll explore the hidden complexities of jealousy, moving beyond surface-level solutions to uncover the root causes that keep us stuck. I'll share insights on why willpower alone isn't enough and how attempting to suppress or avoid jealousy can actually intensify its grip on our relationships and self-esteem.Key Insights:Why jealousy isn't just an emotion, but a signal pointing to deeper issuesThe common pitfalls of DIY jealousy management and how to avoid themThe importance of structured guidance and professional support in overcoming jealousyHow to recognize when you're ready for real change in your approach to jealousyJoin me as we challenge the notion that we should handle jealousy alone and explore a path towards more peaceful, confident, and connected relationships. It's time to move beyond DIY solutions and embrace a more effective approach to managing jealousy in non-monogamous contexts.Ready to take the next step? Visit elleciapaine.com/jealousy to learn more about the Beyond Jealousy program, an 8-week group coaching experience designed to help you find freedom from jealousy and create more fulfilling relationships.https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
Have you ever wondered if there's more to love and relationships than what society traditionally tells us? Join us as we explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with relationship coach Lauren Hayes, who reveals how embracing our true selves can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. Lauren shares her insights on how ENM can be a path to personal growth and spiritual enlightenment, challenging conventional norms around love and relationships. We dive into the intersection of our sexual selves and our divinity, discussing how non-monogamy can help create the relationships of our dreams. Additionally, get a look sneak peek into her upcoming book, "For Better or Worse: 7 Essential Life & Love Lessons from a Non-Monogamist," which promises to offer valuable lessons for everyone, regardless of their relationship structure.**Disclaimer:** Please be advised that this podcast contains explicit language, mature themes, and discussions that may not be suitable for all listeners. This content is intended for adults onlyShownotesExploring the evolving landscape of love and relationships, this episode delves into the often uncharted territory of ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with renowned relationship coach, Lauren Hayes. Michael Herst and Lauren engage in a candid conversation about the misconceptions surrounding traditional relationship models and the potential for deeper connections that ENM offers. Lauren shares her personal journey of embracing non-monogamy after 14 years of marriage, highlighting how this lifestyle can lead to profound personal growth and spiritual enlightenment. The dialogue uncovers how societal norms often dictate our understanding of love, pushing aside the notion that multiple relationships can flourish alongside one another. By examining the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, Lauren argues that recognizing and embracing our sexual selves can enhance our overall well-being and authenticity in relationships.The conversation takes a closer look at the two primary branches of ENM: polyamory and swinging. Lauren articulates the differences between these practices, emphasizing the importance of open communication and consent in all forms of non-monogamous relationships. She discusses how couples can embark on this journey together, navigating fears and expectations, and how fostering curiosity about each other's desires can be a transformative experience. Throughout the discussion, Lauren offers practical insights and tools for listeners interested in exploring their own relationship dynamics, encouraging them to communicate openly and fearlessly about their needs and boundaries.As the episode unfolds, listeners are treated to a sneak peek of Lauren's upcoming book, "For Better or Worse: 7 Essential Life & Love Lessons from a Non-Monogamist," which promises to provide readers with valuable lessons applicable to all relationship styles. This enlightening episode ultimately encourages a reevaluation of what love and connection can look like, challenging listeners to embrace their true selves and consider how non-monogamy might offer them a path to richer, more fulfilling relationships.Takeaways: Ethical non-monogamy offers a path to personal growth and spiritual enlightenment. Communication is crucial in any relationship, especially when exploring ethical non-monogamy. Understanding your own sexual and emotional needs is key to relationship fulfillment. Embracing curiosity about non-monogamy can lead to deeper connections with partners. Everyone has the freedom to create their own relationship dynamics, tailored to personal desires. Emotional sovereignty empowers individuals to own their feelings and enhance relationship communication. Listen on Apple podcast, Spotify, or your favorite listening platform, visit us on YouTube, find those links...
Send us a textAre you ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about relationships? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Annie Undone, a writer, artist, and relationship anarchist who's been through it all - from monogamy to swinging, polyamory, and now relationship anarchy. Together, we unpack the raw truth about opening up relationships and why it might just lead to the end of your current partnership... but that's not necessarily a bad thing.The Uncomfortable Truth About Opening UpWhy most people are terrified of opening their relationships (and why they might be right)The challenges of taking it slow when you're excited about new possibilitiesHow to embrace relationship transitions without letting fear hold you backBeyond the Binary: Redefining Love and ConnectionThe beauty of tailoring relationships to fit the people in them, not societal expectationsWhy relationship anarchy isn't just for the polyamorous crowdHow exploring different relationship styles can accelerate personal growth and self-discoveryA Peek into Annie's Upcoming WorkAnnie teases her new ebook, "On Polyamory," coming out in February. It's a collection of 11 essays chronicling the emotional peaks and valleys of her journey through polyamory and the end of her marriage. Find her work on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annie_undone website - https://ko-fi.com/annieundone/shoppatreon - https://www.patreon.com/annieundonePoly Healing Retreat in Crete – March 31st to April 3rd, 2025Looking for a transformative getaway to deepen your connections and heal relationship challenges? Join Dedeker Winston of the Multiamory podcast and award-winning dance/movement therapist Orit Krug on the mythical island of Crete for a somatic therapy retreat designed specifically for polyamorous folks.Visit multiamory.com/retreat to learn more and apply
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Send us a textHave you ever felt that knot in your stomach when your partner laughs a little too hard with someone new? Or that tightness in your chest when they're excited about a fresh connection? Jealousy can be an unwelcome guest in our emotional landscape, especially in non-monogamous relationships. But what if I told you that this intense feeling isn't your enemy, but potentially one of your most powerful allies?In this episode, I'm sharing a perspective that completely changed my approach to jealousy. We're looking deep into why jealousy feels so primal, what it's really trying to tell us, and how we can transform it from a source of pain into a tool for growth and deeper connection.Key Insights:Understanding the evolutionary roots of jealousy and why it feels so intenseDecoding the three core messages jealousy typically carriesPractical strategies for working with jealousy instead of against itHow to communicate about jealousy without creating conflictTransforming jealousy into an opportunity for personal growth and stronger relationshipsLearn how to recognize jealousy as a signal from your nervous system, and discover a three-step process to turn that gut-wrenching feeling into a powerful tool for growth. We'll discuss the importance of curiosity, self-reflection, and open communication in navigating these intense emotions."Jealousy isn't about being irrational or dramatic. It shows up because it touches on things that matter to us really, really deeply. Our sense of love, connection, belonging, trust, and safety." Do you feel like you could use some help with your relationships? Get on a free call with Ellecia to see how she can help you move through the challenges of jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens your trust, and communication, and leaves you feeling confident. https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show
Send us a text In this episode, join Friends with Pineapples as we explore the essential elements of creating and maintaining a strong foundation for ethical non-monogamy. From fostering open communication and establishing boundaries to navigating emotions and building trust, we share practical tips and real-life experiences. Whether you're new to non-monogamy or looking to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers insights to help you thrive in this dynamic and rewarding lifestyle. Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)Friendswithpineapples@gmail.comFriends With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comJoin us for National Lifestyle Weekend. See the ticket link below!!!https://nlw.ticketspice.com/nlw?r=FWPINEAPPLES5212NLW
Send us a textAre you tired of jealousy hijacking your relationships? Imagine stepping into 2025 with the power to transform those uncomfortable feelings into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. In this episode, I'm sharing three powerful tools to help you navigate jealousy in non-monogamous relationships with confidence and grace.What You'll Discover:How to identify jealousy in your body before it spirals in your mindThe art of uncovering hidden triggers that fuel jealous thoughtsA game-changing approach to reframing jealousy as a helpful signalKey Insights:Why suppressing jealousy only makes it strongerThe surprising connection between curiosity and relationship growthReal-life examples of transforming jealousy into deeper intimacyWhether you're new to non-monogamy or an old pro, this episode offers practical strategies to help you create lighter, more loving relationships. Learn how to turn jealousy from your enemy into your ally on the path to personal growth.As a relationship coach with over a decade of experience in non-monogamy, I bring both personal insights and professional expertise to help you navigate the complexities of open relationships. My approach combines practical tools with deep emotional work to foster genuine connection and personal growth.Ready to make 2025 the year you finally break free from jealousy's grip? Tune in now and take the first step towards more fulfilling, confident non-monogamous relationships.Get on the waitlist for Beyond Jealousy today. www.elleciapaine.com/jealousySupport the show
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we're unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smarter. Here's what you'll hear: Scarcity in Action: We explore real-life examples of scarcity driving decisions, like late-night hookups or compromises in smaller communities. Is it really scarcity, or just circumstance? Reddit's Take: Hear insightful comments from the swinger community, from taking one for the team to how the internet changed the game. Cate & Darrell's Journey: Personal stories about early scarcity-driven decisions and how they've embraced abundance over the years. Playing Smart: Practical tips for shifting your mindset, setting boundaries, and finding joy in the journey—whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger. Plus, life updates! Cate's got new boobs, travel plans to the USA for Christmas, and some cheeky listener messages that'll make you smile. Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Ready to overcome FOMO and embrace abundance in your lifestyle journey? Join us for another sexy, fun, and insightful episode! Tags: Scarcity Mindset, Swinger Couples, FOMO in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Tips, Swinger Podcast, Open Relationships, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger Events, Non-Monogamous Adventures.
Send us a textAre you grappling with jealousy in your non-monogamous relationships? Curious about the differences between solo polyamory and relationship anarchy? In this eye-opening episode, I'm joined by the legendary Kathy Labriola, a counselor, nurse, and author with decades of experience guiding polyamorous and non-monogamous folks.Mastering JealousyUnderstanding why jealousy arises and how it differs from envy or covetingPractical strategies for addressing the root causes of jealousySolo Polyamory vs. Relationship AnarchyExploring the nuances between these relationship stylesHow different approaches impact emotional dynamicsBuilding Trust and CommunicationTechniques for creating more honest, deep communication in your relationshipsStrategies for emotional growth and embracing opennessComing Out as PolyamorousKathy's unique "platform release strategy" for navigating this processBalancing personal authenticity with potential consequencesAbout Kathy Labriola:Kathy Labriola is a counselor, nurse, and author with extensive experience in guiding polyamorous and non-monogamous individuals. Her recently updated book, Love and Abundance: A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships, offers a wealth of wisdom gained from decades in the field.www.kathylabriola.comWhether you're dealing with feelings of insecurity, navigating new relationship dynamics, or simply curious about the intricacies of non-monogamous relationships, this episode provides valuable perspectives to enhance your understanding and practice of ethical non-monogamy.Join us for this thought-provoking discussion that challenges conventional notions of love and relationships, encouraging listeners to explore what authenticity and connection truly mean to them in the context of non-monogamy.Don't forget to leave a review if you enjoy this episode – it's the best way to help the podcast grow and reach more people interested in exploring non-monogamous relationships! Support the show
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he's sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle. Here's what you'll hear: The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives into his surprise project, managing Cate's profile on Feeld and filtering through over 1,300 likes. Learn how he whittled down the matches and what got some users instantly unmatched. Top Tips for Men: Darrell shares the do's and don'ts of crafting a Feeld profile that stands out, from avoiding boring bios to ditching the gym flex shots. The Hotwife Dynamic: With two dinner dates lined up for Cate, the couple reviews the remaining suitors to decide who's worth chatting with, dating, or more. Did Darrell nail Cate's taste? Tune in to find out! Links: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers Wanderlust Swingers: www.wanderlustswingers.com Miami Libertine Event: libertineevents.com/miami Want more sexy stories and lifestyle tips? Check out our events and podcast for your next non-monogamous adventure! Tags: Hotwife Lifestyle, Feeld Dating Tips, Swinger Couples, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Adventures, Feeld Secrets, Open Relationship Stories, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Lifestyle Dating Apps, Non-Monogamy Profiles.
Join the conversation by letting us know what you think about the episode!What is ethical non-monogamy? Is it the same as polyamory? Are we talking about swinging? We're talking about all that and more with Lauren Hayes, a relationship coach specializing in supporting ethically non-monogamous (ENM) couples, including swingers and the ENM-curious. You might be surprised about what you learn in this episode.Lauren Hayes, trained in both life and relationship coaching, helps couples navigate and engage the swinging and non-monogamous community in the healthiest of ways. Her approach aims to help couples build their ideal relationship, regardless of whether or how many others it includes. She also brings personal experience to her coaching having been married for nearly 20 years and ENM (swingers) for the last 6 years. She offers coaching and practical advice grounded in her own life as well as professional training - she goes by Swinging Lifestyle Coach.Where to find Lauren Hayes:Website: https://www.swinginglifestylecoach.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swinginglifestylecoachFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingingLifestyleCoachYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVZR-9HggJ51NaJnXCnq0EwThe Examined Lives of the Secret Wives Podcast: https://pod.link/1767688018Support the showBe part of the conversation by sharing your thoughts about this episode, what you may have learned, how the conversation affected you. You can reach Raquel and Jennifer on IG @madnesscafepodcast or by email at madnesscafepodcast@gmail.com.Share the episode with a friend and have your own conversation. And don't forget to rate and review the show wherever you listen!Thanks!
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Ever wondered what happens when you completely revolutionize your sex life? Meet Layla London, who woke up one day and declared "enough!" after 3.5 years of celibacy. As the anonymous creator of Curious Girl Diaries podcast, she transformed from corporate warrior to sexual explorer by creating an audacious bucket list - and decided to document every step of the journey. What started as a one-year project of sexual discovery evolved into an eight-year adventure that's still unfolding, inspiring countless others to explore their own path to pleasure and personal transformation.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSThe Birth of the Sex Bucket List: How frustration with celibacy sparked a sexual revolutionBDSM & Beyond: Discovering submission led to deeper self-understandingThreesome Tales: Real talk about group dynamics and unexpected learningsThe Power of Trust: Building profound connections while maintaining boundariesFeminine Rising: Balancing corporate success with sexual surrenderEPISODE LINKS Layla's Website Layla's Podcast | The Curious Girl DiariesListen to the Curious Girl Podcast Episode featuring Leah & Willow KING & QUEEN OF HEARTS. Leah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Buy Now. 10% off Coupon: KINGANDQUEEN10. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. THE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female Gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST 20 LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. Support the showSxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website
Send us a textHow do you turn someone down romantically without creating awkwardness or burning bridges? In this episode, my partner, Danny, and I tackle one of the trickiest aspects of non-monogamous relationships: rejection. Inspired by a question from one of our Patreon supporters, we explore how to say "no" in a way that's respectful, kind, and true to your own boundaries.Key Topics We Cover:Why Over-Explaining Hurts More Than It Helps: Learn how to set boundaries without feeling the need to justify yourself.Handling Social Dynamics After a Rejection: Discover strategies for maintaining positive connections in your community.Balancing Honesty with Kindness: Find out how to express your needs without hurting others unnecessarily.Practical Tips and Personal StoriesWe both open up about our own experiences with rejection, sharing valuable advice on how to:Stand firm in your boundaries and desires.Communicate with clarity and confidence.Handle rejection with grace when it happens to you.A Conversation Rooted in Self-WorthWe also discuss how to deal with the sting of being turned down. From navigating feelings of hopelessness to rebuilding self-worth, this episode provides actionable insights for building resilience and honoring your authentic self in all interactions."What I want matters more than what others want for me."Bonus Segment for Patreon Supporters:Want an extra does of insight? For our dedicated Patreon friends, we've included an exclusive "Just the Tip" segment with additional insights and a spicy tidbit you won't want to miss. Head over to patreon.com/notmonogamous to to unlock ad-free episodes, Q&A calls, and more perks.Whether you're new to non-monogamy or been on this ride for years, this episode offers tools for navigating rejection with confidence and compassion. Tune in for a conversation that will transform the way you approach saying—and hearing—"no."
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Ever wondered what's possible when you stop faking orgasms and start speaking truth? Susan Bratton did exactly that. As a vivacious woman in her 60's she is having the best sex of her life and teaching others how to do the same. After overcoming childhood sexual trauma and a struggling marriage, Susan transformed her relationship with pleasure and now helps others unlock their full sexual potential. With 44 books published and over two decades of expertise, she's on a mission to help you discover your full orgasmic potential
Send us a textAre You Ready to Rethink How You Date?Tired of endlessly swiping on dating apps and feeling like you're spinning your wheels? In this episode, I sit down with Rozie Erlewine, a compassionate matchmaker and polyamorous community organizer who's been helping people connect in the Seattle polyamory scene since 2017. Rozie, the founder of Seattle Inclusive Matchmaking and host of polyamorous speed dating events, brings fresh ideas to creating real, intentional connections outside the apps. Here's What We Talk About:✨ How Seattle's polyamory scene has evolved over the years ✨ Why polyamorous speed dating is changing the game for non-monogamous folks ✨ The power of slowing down and dating with purpose ✨ Honest tips for navigating jealousy and insecurity in non-monogamous relationships ✨ How to build a solid support network within the polyamorous community Why Rozie's Approach Stands Out:
Send us a textIn this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with therapist Derek Wittman for an insightful discussion on ethical non-monogamy. They explore the distinctions between polyamory and polygamy, emphasizing how open communication and mutual consent are foundational to healthy non-monogamous relationships. Derek shares his journey from engineering and project management into a career in therapy, first working in substance abuse programs and later founding his own practice, Sage, which he has built into a solo operation as of March 2024. With nearly 27 years of marriage, two adult children, and his own rich therapy journey, Derek brings a compassionate and grounded perspective to his work with couples and families.They also delve into the challenges of parenting teens, especially for divorced or separated parents. Derek's experience working with teens and their parents—whether single, co-parenting, or in blended family dynamics—provides valuable insights into how different approaches to co-parenting can impact young people. He speaks to the importance of maintaining healthy, supportive communication to shield teens from the emotional fallout of parental conflict. Derek's work in grief therapy, including the healing of betrayal trauma from infidelity underscores his dedication to helping families and individuals navigate complex emotional landscapes.An ally to the Queer community and someone with a deep respect for diverse relationship structures, Derek's perspective is both open-minded and empathetic. His curiosity and readiness to learn help him foster meaningful connections with his clients, making this episode a compelling listen for anyone interested in the intersections of ethical non-monogamy, family dynamics, and modern parenting.Connect with Derek on his facebook page, @SageintimeSage In Time The PodcastYouTube page: @sageintimeMHC Email: derek@sageintime.comWebsite: sageintime.com
This is The Briefing, a daily analysis of news and events from a Christian worldview.Part I (00:13 - 14:00)Mormons Take on the Transgender Issue: LDS Church Clarifies Participation of Transgender Persons in Church Services and ActivitiesLGBTQ advocates say Mormon church's new transgender policies marginalize trans members by The Associated Press (Deepa Bharath)Part II (14:00 - 17:40)Transgenderism Collides with Mormonism's Doctrine of God: The Clash of the LGBTQ Revolution with Mormonism Goes Far Deeper Than the LDS Handbook PolicyPart III (17:40 - 25:34)‘Ethical Non-Monogamy,' ‘Kitchen-Table Polyamory,' ‘Metamour' — USA Today Brazenly Seeks to Educate on the Alphabet Soup of the Sexual RevolutionWhat does ENM mean? Your polyamory questions, answered. by USA Today (David Oliver)Sign up to receive The Briefing in your inbox every weekday morning.Follow Dr. Mohler:X | Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeFor more information on The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, go to sbts.edu.For more information on Boyce College, just go to BoyceCollege.com.To write Dr. Mohler or submit a question for The Mailbox, go here.