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Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Rewriting Your Relationship Code: Ditching the Defaults for Real Freedom, Ep. 130

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 17:15


Are you stuck running relationship patterns you never consciously chose? In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm breaking down how to identify the default “rules” you inherited about love, sex, and partnership, and how to rewrite them so your relationships actually work for YOU.So many of us grew up believing myths like:“If you're really in love, you won't be attracted to anyone else.”“To be a good partner, you have to want everything your partner wants.”“Jealousy means love.”The problem? These defaults often create shame, confusion, and conflict in non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships.In this episode, you'll learn the 5 steps to rewriting your relationship code so you can experience real freedom:Identify the beliefs you inherited.Question what's actually true for YOU.Create new agreements with intention.Practice new habits until they stick.Celebrate every time you choose yourself.By the end, you'll see how rewriting your defaults allows you to show up with more confidence, clarity, and joy in every connection.What you'll take away from this episode:Why inherited relationship beliefs hold us back in non-monogamy.The surprising truths about love, attraction, and jealousy.Practical tools to create new agreements with your partners.How gratitude and celebration make new patterns stick.Why freedom is a daily practice, not a one-time decision.Send us a textSupport the show

Sex Ed with DB
Ethical Non-Monogamy: How Pleasure Expands in ENM with Claire Perelman

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 52:01


In this episode, DB talks with Claire Perelman all about the pleasure of non-monogamy! ENM, polyamory, swingers, monogam-ish -- there's so many ways to be non-monogamous, and so many reasons living a life outside of monogamy can be a tremendous joy. Non-monogamous listeners, we see you! Monogamous listeners, this is a great moment to learn about what makes ENM so appealing to so many. Guest Details Claire Perelman (she/her) is a Queer, Jewish, Certified Sex Therapist and Educator living and working in the Bay Area. She is passionate about creating accessible sex education and normalizing play, pleasure, and sexuality through her work with clients, workshops, and across social media. Like many therapists, she channeled her greatest source of pleasure and heartbreak into her area of focus, leading her to specialize in relationships, sex, and intimacy for couples, individuals, and polycules. You can find her at @sexclarified (on all platforms) and www.sexclarified.com ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager and Producer: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 60: Holding Boundaries, Meeting Needs | Season 4 finale

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 80:58


What are my boundaries? What are my needs? How do I share them with my partners? Sarah and Alex try to understand the differences between rules and boundaries, needs and desires. Mentioned in the episode:  Glitter & Greed: The Lisa Frank Story mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org Links to bookshop.org are affiliate links.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Relationship Anxiety in Polyamory: It's Not Just You, Ep. 129

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 25:58 Transcription Available


Are you polyamorous and anxious? Does your chest tighten every time your partner mentions a new crush? Are you constantly asking yourself, “Why am I feeling this way if I chose non-monogamy?” You're not broken and you're definitely not alone.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, relationship coach and recovering bathroom-floor-cryer Ellecia Paine (that's me

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
The Polyamory Trap of Finding Different Partners to Fill Different Needs, Ep. 128

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2025 15:55


Have you ever thought, “If my partner can't meet all my needs, maybe another partner will”? In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I break down why that belief is one of the biggest traps in polyamory and open relationships.We hear it all the time in the ENM community: “No one person can meet all your needs.” That's true, but when we take it as a free pass to collect partners to fill every emotional gap, it backfires. Instead of feeling fulfilled, we multiply our insecurities, create pressure on new relationships, and leave our existing partners feeling like they're not enough.

Please Me!
Bonus Episode: Kitchen Table Polyamory: Two Couples, One Household, Infinite Love | Ethical Non-Monogamy

Please Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 46:17


Episode Title: Kitchen Table Polyamory: Two Couples, One Household, Infinite Love Episode Intro:What happens when two married couples not only love openly but also live together under one roof? In this special episode of Please Me!, I sit down at the kitchen counter with Tig & Nadine and Jerry & Eunice to explore the intimate, complex, and surprisingly fun world of kitchen table polyamory. Episode Shownotes:In this in-person conversation, we dive deep into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingers' lifestyles—all under one roof. Our guests share their lived experiences, the joys and challenges of shared living, and how they maintain communication, boundaries, and personal sovereignty. Topics covered in this episode include: Defining your relationship style: polyamory, swinging, and open relationships Navigating jealousy and insecurity with radical honesty Day-to-day life for two couples sharing one home Authenticity in relationships and being your full self The power of communication and trust in alternative relationship structures How friendships and community support enhance their lifestyle Whether you're curious about polyamory, exploring alternative relationship models, or just love hearing stories about love, intimacy, and connection, this episode offers a candid look at life outside traditional monogamy. Resources & Links: Visit our website: Please Me for more episodes and content Check out previous episodes exploring relationships, intimacy, and sexual wellness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

From Mrs. to Ms.
Ep 108: AI Infidelity & Ethical Non Monogamy with Amy Watts

From Mrs. to Ms.

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 53:22


What happens when the affair isn't with a person… but with AI?

Hotwife Podcast
Adventures with New Couples

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2025 25:54 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince share their experiences with a new couple they met, discussing the dynamics of their encounters, preferences in sexual experiences, and the importance of communication in the swinging lifestyle. They also touch on their podcast's ranking and listener engagement, as well as navigating relationships within the swinging community. The conversation is filled with humor, candidness, and insights into their erotic adventures.TakeawaysThe podcast is intended for adults over 18.Meeting new couples can lead to exciting experiences.Communication is key in swinging relationships.Different couples have varying energy levels during encounters.Kinky preferences can enhance sexual experiences.Oral skills are highly valued in sexual partners.The hosts enjoy sharing their experiences with listeners.Podcast rankings can reflect listener engagement.Navigating relationships in the swinging lifestyle can be complex.Future encounters are anticipated with excitement.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Polyamory's Biggest Struggle Isn't Jealousy — It's Scheduling, EP. 127

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2025 52:52 Transcription Available


Most people think the toughest part of polyamory is jealousy. But according to Richie, it's actually… logistics. Yep, the calendar.After a life-changing cancer journey with his partner, Richie realized that the hardest part of opening their relationship wasn't emotions, it was managing schedules, consent, and privacy across multiple partners. With his background in software product management, he decided to do something about it, and created PYE, a scheduling and consent management app designed specifically for the polyamorous community.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Richie and I dig into:Why scheduling is considered an “unsolvable math problem” (and why we need more self-compassion when we feel polyunsaturated).How misunderstandings about dates, boundaries, and consent are quietly breaking relationships.The creative ways poly folks use calendars as safety tools.Why color coding, structure, and intentional planning actually free us up for more intimacy and fun.Richie's vision for cutting down burnout and building more trusting, joyful relationships with better tools.If you've ever juggled multiple Google Calendars, forgotten to communicate a boundary, or lost a relationship to logistics overwhelm — this one's for you.

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 56: Splitsville Instant Reaction

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2025 64:58


Hollywood made a movie about open relationships (sort of). We watched it so you don't have to! Mentioned in the episode:  Splitsville | Together | Together's free couples therapy gimmick |  mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Midlife, Menopause & Non-Monogamy: Reclaiming Pleasure, Power & Desire with Carla Wainwright EP. 126

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 37:23 Transcription Available


What if midlife wasn't the decline everyone warns you about, but a second spring?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I sit down with Carla Wainwright, Holistic Wellness Coach, Sexual Awakening Facilitator, and self-proclaimed Midlife Alchemist. We talk about what really happens to women's desire, relationships, and identity in midlife, and how it all ties into exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, and rewriting the love scripts we didn't ask for.Carla shares why:

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
The Brutal Truth About Open Relationships, Ep. 125

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 32:42


Curious about open relationships but tired of the Instagram highlight reel version?This episode gets real about what it actually takes to make non-monogamy work — the messy feelings, the constant negotiations, and the communication skills you didn't know you needed until it was too late.As a relationship coach, I've seen the glossy fantasy and the gritty reality. Spoiler: opening your relationship isn't a shortcut to freedom — it's a crash course in radical honesty, emotional intelligence, and navigating fears you thought you buried years ago.Whether you're just poly-curious or already in the thick of it, this episode will give you the clarity and tools you need to decide if non-monogamy is really for you.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeThe different types of non-monogamy (open relationships, swinging, polyamory, relationship anarchy) and why defining your terms matters.The 4 brutal truths about open relationships, including constant renegotiation, jealousy, networked heartbreak, and social stigma.Why rejection hits different when you haven't dated in 10+ years (hello, modern dating apps

Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman
Ep. 217 - Victoria Joseph

Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 49:28


ENM. Ethical Non-Monogamy. What is it? Who's doing it? Why is this becoming more and more of "a thing" in dating today? In dating, how to share about it if you prefer ENM, and how to ask about the issue of monogamy when vetting candidates for dating and relationships.

Hotwife Podcast
The Swinger Lifestyle from the Single Guy View

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2025 49:25 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince, along with guest Slim Diggins, explore the world of swinging, relationships, and content creation. They discuss their experiences in the swinging lifestyle, the challenges of ghosting, and the importance of communication and respect. The conversation also delves into the creative aspects of producing adult content and the evolving perceptions of swinging in society. With humor and candidness, they share personal anecdotes and insights, making for an engaging and informative discussion.TakeawaysThe Hot Wife Podcast focuses on relationships and intimacy.Slim Diggins shares his experiences in the swinging lifestyle.Ghosting is a common issue in the swinging community.Respect and boundaries are crucial in swinging encounters.Clubbing experiences can sometimes be uncomfortable.Content creation in the lifestyle can be both fun and professional.Communication is key in swinging relationships.The evolution of swinging is becoming more accepted in society.Creative themes can enhance adult content.The joy of swinging includes exploring new connections.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Patriarchy and Polyamory — Unpacking Power, Gender, and ENM with Cass Banker, Ep. 124

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 57:11


What happens when you leave monogamy… but bring patriarchy with you?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I sit down with Cass Banker (they/them) — a polyamorous, eXvangelical, non-binary human on a mission to deconstruct patriarchal masculinity in themselves and the world. Raised and socialized as a man for most of their life, Cass knows firsthand how entitlement, dominance, and pre-written gender scripts sneak into all kinds of relationships — yes, even ethical non-monogamy.We talk about:How patriarchy shows up in ENM (and why “polyamory” doesn't automatically mean anti-patriarchal)The Chooser vs. Chosen dynamic and how it harms everyoneWhy polyamory can be a playground for men who speak “progressive” but live patriarchalThe ghost of patriarchal programming — and how it can haunt your sex lifeThe emotional labor trap: why your deconstruction work isn't your partner's jobSelf-acceptance vs. self-erasure: why shame won't actually change youBuilding non-monogamy rooted in equity, care, and genuine loveCass also shares their own polyamory journey — the mistakes, the heartbreaks, and the moments of beauty that make it all worth it. And yes, they drop a Just the Tip bonus for better sex that will change how you listen to your partner's body.Whether you're new to polyamory, deep into your ENM life, or just curious how gender and power dynamics shape love, this conversation will give you language, insight, and maybe a few “ouch” moments worth sitting with.Follow Cass:TikTok: @cas_of_the_voidhttps://besafecoaching.com/Send us a texthttps://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show

Hotwife Podcast
Anticipation and Excitement in Adult Relationships

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 31:37 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband discuss their upcoming weekend plans with another couple, exploring themes of excitement, anticipation, and the dynamics of adult relationships. They delve into the effects of substances like alcohol and cannabis on intimacy, share past experiences, and plan for future collaborations. The conversation is lively and filled with humor, as they reflect on their sexual adventures and the logistics of outdoor intimacy.TakeawaysThe podcast is intended for adults over 18.Excitement builds around upcoming events with another couple.Expectations can lead to disappointment if not managed.Substance use can affect intimacy and sexual experiences.Different couples have varying dynamics and preferences.Planning for future collaborations is essential for fun.Outdoor sex can be exciting but requires logistics.Reflecting on past experiences can enhance future encounters.Communication is key in adult relationships.The hosts aim to inspire listeners to have fun in their own relationships.

Hotwife Podcast
The Art of Being a Good Lover

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2025 32:00 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband delve into the complexities of relationships and intimacy, focusing on the nature versus nurture debate in sexual experiences. They share personal anecdotes about their encounters, discussing the importance of energy, foreplay, and the impact of upbringing on sexual behavior. The conversation highlights the necessity of communication and understanding in intimate relationships, while also addressing cultural perspectives on sexual hygiene and preferences.TakeawaysThe views expressed are opinions, not professional advice.The hosts discuss their return after a hiatus, indicating ongoing interest in their topics.The conversation centers around whether being a good lover is innate or learned.Personal experiences with partners lacking energy and enthusiasm are shared.The hosts emphasize the importance of foreplay in sexual encounters.They discuss how upbringing can influence sexual behavior and preferences.The hosts reflect on the lack of feedback during intimate moments.Cultural differences in sexual hygiene and expectations are explored.The importance of communication in intimate relationships is highlighted.The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize enjoyable experiences in intimacy.

Mistakes Were Made
Ep 56: Parents Fast for Gaza + Poly-tics (Encore)

Mistakes Were Made

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2025 79:25


Sarah and Jessica are fasting this week, so we're sharing an episode that first aired in the spring of 2024. Is polyamory inherently apolitical? Is it just an excuse for rich people to avoid thinking about climate change? Did Sarah accidentally make out with a Trump supporter at the ferry dock??? Tune in to find out!  Mentioned in the episode:  Parents Fast for Gaza | @parentsfast4gaza on instagram | @stute on instagram | The Atlantic - Polyamory, the Ruling Class's Latest Fad | Time Magazine - Polyamory isn't just for liberals: The Surprising Political Evolution of American Polyamory | More: A Memoir of Open Marriage | Stranger in a Strange Land   mistakescast@gmail.com | https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ Logo design by roy franklin: www.whateverfactory.org Links to bookshop.org are affiliate links.

A Millennial Mind
Non-Monogamy: Is Sexual Monogamy the Downfall of Relationships? Sex & Relationship Expert Dr Tara

A Millennial Mind

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 62:01


This week on A Millennial Mind, I'm joined by Dr. Tara, a leading expert in sex and relationships, to dive deep into the realities and misconceptions surrounding monogamy. We explore whether monogamy actually works, discuss the rise of ethical non-monogamy, and highlight the importance of communication and consent in all relationships. Dr. Tara also shares her personal journey from a conservative background to becoming a sex-positive influencer. What we'll cover: 00:00 Introduction: Does Monogamy Actually Work? 00:51 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 01:46 Exploring Modern Love and Relationships 03:04 Guest Introduction: Dr. Tara's Expertise 05:13 Defining Monogamy in Today's Society 07:21 The Challenges of Sexual Monogamy 09:03 Evolutionary Perspectives on Monogamy 14:24 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Self-Worth 22:03 Understanding Different Types of Non-Monogamy 30:48 Communicating Non-Monogamy in Relationships 32:29 The Goal of Parenting and Emotional Infidelity 35:25 Cultural Misconceptions and Upbringing 37:52 Journey to Sexual Liberation 40:55 Swingers and Sex Parties 45:37 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 53:13 Respect and Value in Relationships 56:53 Concluding Thoughts on Monogamy and Non-Monogamy Whether you're curious, open-minded, or questioning traditional views on love and commitment, this episode promises to challenge your perspectives and encourage meaningful conversations. Join us as we uncover what it really means to build a relationship that reflects your values. **AD** This episode is sponsored by Lovable, an AI tool that lets you create beautiful, functional websites in minutes just by typing a few prompts. So if you're planning a wedding, launching a brand, or just want a sleek site without the tech stress , Lovable makes it so simple. No tech skills needed. Just your ideas. Give it a go and start your free trial at https://lovable.dev #ad #LovablePartner

Hotwife Podcast
Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with Younger Men

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 33:10 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband discuss their recent experiences in the swinging lifestyle, including meeting potential playmates, intimate encounters, and the challenges of recording their adventures. They share candid stories about their sexual escapades, the dynamics of their relationships, and the technical difficulties they face while creating adult content. The conversation is filled with humor, insights, and reflections on their journey in the world of open relationships.TakeawaysThe podcast emphasizes adult themes and personal experiences.Hosts share their excitement about meeting new playmates.They discuss the dynamics of their swinging lifestyle.Candid conversations about sexual encounters are a highlight.Technical challenges in recording adult content are addressed.The hosts reflect on their experiences and future plans.Humor is a key element in their discussions.Listeners are encouraged to share their own experiences.The importance of communication in relationships is emphasized.The podcast aims to create a community around shared interests.

Hotwife Podcast
"It's the safety first thing"

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 23:56 Transcription Available


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband discuss their experiences and perspectives on open relationships, particularly focusing on the hot wife dynamic. They explore themes of trust, communication, and the evolution of their relationship, as well as the excitement of meeting new playmates and the thrill of voyeurism and exhibitionism. The conversation also touches on sensory exploration through blindfolds and the unique experiences of male dancers in the industry. The episode concludes with a preview of upcoming guests and experiences.TakeawaysThe podcast emphasizes that the views expressed are personal opinions.Life can often interrupt personal plans, but connections remain important.Hot wifing is a unique dynamic that requires trust and communication.It's possible to be a swinger without being a hot wife.Safety and trust are paramount when engaging with new partners.Voyeurism and exhibitionism add excitement to open relationships.Blindfolds can enhance sensory experiences during intimacy.Meeting new playmates can be thrilling and requires careful consideration.The male dancer perspective offers unique insights into the industry.Future guests on the podcast promise to bring new experiences and stories.

Hotwife Podcast
The Mystery Man Who Ghosted Us

Hotwife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 23:01


In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince discuss their recent experiences in the swinging lifestyle, including a disappointing encounter with a 'mystery man' who ghosted them, a fulfilling date with a regular partner, and the exploration of new sexual experiences. They also touch on the importance of communication in relationships, the impact of health on sexuality, and the excitement of planning future encounters. The conversation is filled with humor, candidness, and insights into the dynamics of open relationships.takeawaysThe importance of communication in dating and relationships.Ghosting can ruin plans and affect multiple people.Having fun and enjoying experiences is key in the swinging lifestyle.Health issues can impact sexual experiences and activities.Planning ahead for encounters can enhance the experience.Candid discussions about intimacy can lead to better understanding.Exploring new experiences can be exciting and fulfilling.Maintaining a sense of humor is essential in relationships.Being open about desires can lead to more satisfying encounters.The podcast aims to provide a light-hearted take on adult relationships.

Scheduling Sin with SnoMilf
Kink, Confidence & Humiliation Play: Why Mental Turns Us On

Scheduling Sin with SnoMilf

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 47:04 Transcription Available


In this raw and revealing episode of Scheduling Sin with Snomilf, Mr. and Mrs. Sno dive deep into humiliation play, verbal degradation, and mental kink dynamics—from SPH (small penis humiliation) to confidence-building through exploring taboo desires. They unpack how pushing personal boundaries, exploring vulnerability, and embracing body-positive play (like belly worship!) can ignite intense connection and confidence. Hear how these longtime swingers have evolved their dynamic beyond physical sex, leaning into mental stimulation, power exchange, and emotional intimacy—plus their new approach to single males, a toy review of the Extreme Restraints Wand Saddle, and a candid discussion about what turns them on mentally and why. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, exploring kink, or curious how confidence and control play intersect, this episode will challenge, inspire, and turn you on.   [00:01:00] — Discord is buzzing: how our community helps newbies and shares lifestyle insights [00:02:30] — Why good single males are so hard to find—and our new approach [00:03:45] — Sex toy review teaser: the Extreme Restraints Wand Saddle gets a test ride [00:05:37] — SnoBall 2025 reminder: tickets, Discord, and guest list strategies [00:07:08] — A new request: exploring SPH and humiliation play with a single male [00:11:00] — The mental side of kink: vulnerability, power, and exhibitionism [00:20:00] — Why foreplay, power dynamics, and mental games hit harder than physical sex [00:28:00] — Degradation as a turn-on: slut talk, control, and confidence [00:30:00] — Belly worship and body positivity: how embracing insecurities leads to freedom [00:35:00] — The unexpected joy of degrading play and kink's emotional upside [00:38:30] — Using dirty talk in swinger play: boundaries, consent, and etiquette [00:43:00] — Being the “verbal ones” at group events—and reading the room [00:45:00] — Teaser for upcoming episodes: female panel on performance anxiety + risky play safety PLEASE share your feedback and stories with us! Email Us: SnoMilf@yahoo.com Twitter (X): @SchedulingSin Join us on Discord: https://discord.gg/F4Wk558TaT https://schedulingsin.com IMPORTANT - Please read and respect our chat server rules before joining our Discord Chat Server. This service is completely free, there are many rooms to enjoy with fellow members of the swinging community. You MUST BE OVER 18 YEARS OLD TO JOIN THIS DISCORD SERVER. Our Discord chat is for social chat. it is not a pick up site or dating site.  

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Why Finding Your People Changes Everything in Non-Monogamy, Ep. 121

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 26:09 Transcription Available


In non-monogamy, being misunderstood often feels like the default—and being truly seen? That's the exception. But finding your people truly changes everything.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, non-monogamous love, sex, and relationship coach Ellecia Paine cracks open the emotional exhaustion of constantly explaining your relationships—especially to therapists, friends, or family who just don't get it. She shares what real support actually looks like, how it feels in your body, and why tolerating your truth isn't the same as honoring it.You'll learn:The nervous system relief of being seen without explanationThe emotional toll of defending your relationshipsA 3-part framework to stop performing and start protecting your peace:✦ The Triage Method – who gets access to your truth✦ The Information Diet – how much to share (and with whom)✦ The Boundary Script – what to say when someone crosses the lineWhy the right support isn't just validating—it's healingHow to find (or create) a space where your love doesn't need a disclaimerWhether you're solo poly, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode is your reminder that you don't have to keep explaining yourself to feel worthy of support. You just need the right people who meet you with curiosity, not correction.

Dating & Self Improvement Advice
Ethical Non-Monogamy , Polyamory & Jealousy Discussed by Vincent Bos & Paige from 'Sweet Love Counseling'

Dating & Self Improvement Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2025 42:47


Vincent Bos & Paige from 'Sweet Love Counseling' discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy , Polyamory, Jealousy and more!Vincent's Website - https://www.dateme.tips/Paige's Website - https://www.sweetlovecounseling.com/

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
You're Not Wrong for Wanting More: Let's End That Lie, Ep. 120

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 14:04 Transcription Available


Do you worry that your desires make you “too much”?Like wanting more connection, more honesty, or more love means something is wrong with you?You're not broken—you're just becoming.In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm getting all the way real about the internalized guilt so many of us carry when we crave “more” in our relationships. More connection. More truth. More you. And especially inside non-monogamy, where wanting more can trigger every insecurity we've ever inherited from monogamy culture.

Broke Girl Therapy
The Art of Ethical Non‑Monogamy (Layla & Brian)

Broke Girl Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2025 61:01


In this episode, I sit down with Layla and Brian, the hosts of The Unmasked Project Podcast, where they openly share their journeys in the world of non monogamy. Here's the twist, they're both married but not to each other. I first met Layla through the twins Cami and Niki, and now we're diving into how Layla and Brian were introduced to non monogamy and how they navigate this lifestyle with their wives and husband. Send us your questions and stories to be featured on da pod https://www.brokegirltherapy.com/contact-page Support our sponsors and BGT by using the codes below: BetterHelp: As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at BetterHelp.com/brokegirl Mood: Mood.com PROMO CODE: BROKEGIRL for 20% off your first order Dipsea: DIPSEAstories.com/brokegirl Stefanie Maegan https://www.instagram.com/brokegirltherapy/ https://www.instagram.com/stefaniemaegan/ Layla & Brian: The Unmasked Project Podcast https://www.instagram.com/theunmasked_project/ https://www.unmaskedpod.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Babe Philosophy
Is non-monogamy more evolved?

Babe Philosophy

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2025 54:58


DOWNLOAD "THE POWER OF TOO MUCH," our FREE modern-day grimoire that helps you reclaim your intensity, your magic, and your voice: https://babephilosophy.com

The Conscious Consultant Hour
The Power of Love

The Conscious Consultant Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2025 62:39


This week, on The Conscious Consultant Hour, Sam welcomes former Professional Baseball Player, Nonprofit Leader, Attorney, and Nationally Recognized Advocate for Ethical Non-Monogamy, Leon Feingold.Leon has gained widespread attention for his TEDxBushwick talk on polyamory, where he shared his personal journey and challenged societal norms around love, intimacy, and relationship structures. His talk has inspired thousands to explore polyamory with greater compassion, honesty, and emotional intelligence.Leon is the co-founder of polyamory support group Open Love NY and House of Good Deeds, a nonprofit dedicated to Altruism through mutual aid, sustainability, and community empowerment. His work recently earned him the title of New Yorker of the Week by NY1 for using love and generosity to build a kinder world.Currently, Leon is writing a book that blends philosophy, personal narrative, and practical guidance on polyamory, compersion, and inclusive relationship ethics. The book is slated for release in Valentine's Day 2026 and will offer a fresh perspective on how love can be both expansive and deeply intentional.Whether he's rescuing food for shelters in his brightly painted Good Deeds Bus or speaking on nationalplatforms about emotional transparency, Leon brings heart, intellect, and humor to every conversation. Tune in and share all of your questions and comments about power of love on our YouTube livestream or on our Facebook page.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-conscious-consultant-hour8505/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Hook Up
How To Do Non-Monogamy ‘Ethically'

The Hook Up

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 50:53


If you're keen to explore consensual non-monogamy or open up your relationship - this ep is for you! Psychologist and Author Dr Chris Cheers chats to Dee about his own poly identity, how he navigates having a husband and a partner, and shares his advice on how to do non-monogamy ‘ethically.' SHOW NOTES:ABC iview Compass Episode - Beyond MonogamyDr Chris Cheers Instagram DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

The Hook Up
Is Everyone ENM Now?

The Hook Up

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 33:32


Seeing the term ‘ENM' in dating app bios? Noticing your friends are opening up their relationships? Ethical Non-Monogamy is on the rise in young people, so in this ep we find out from you how it's going - the good, the bad and the horny. SHOW NOTES:ENM explained: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-04-27/inside-lives-polyamory-ethical-non-monogamy-enm-ethics/105216136https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-sunday-hook-up/ethical-non-monogamy-open-relationship-polyamory-enm-dating-apps/13624808ENM on the rise: https://today.yougov.com/society/articles/27639-millennials-monogamy-poly-poll-survey-dataDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
You Don't Have to Be the ‘Chill Poly Partner' to Deserve Love, Ep. 117

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2025 27:34 Transcription Available


Feeling like the “easy one” in your polycule?Always chill, never the squeaky wheel?This episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking for connection.We're breaking down what it means to disappear inside non-monogamy, why boundaries aren't selfish, and how to recognize when your emotional self-silencing isn't maturity—it's survival.

Just Keep Swinging
JKS 59 BARNACLES!

Just Keep Swinging

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2025 30:24


JKS 59  BARNACLES! Welcome back faithful listeners!It's still June which is our PODCASTIVERARY month! 8 YEARS!We share the results of our testing experience with Shameless Care at home STI testing and dig deeper into my bout with Molluscum contagiosum.I also make Mrs.Sting laugh more than I have ever heard in our 38 year marriage!We talk more about STIs (big surprise) and getting tested.Mentioned in the episode...https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/molluscum-contagiosum/tellyourpartner.orgshamelesscare.comSee below for links to testing & STI information. Please reach out if you have something to say about this.We hope you enjoy the show!Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!You can reach Mr.Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter or @justkeepswinging.bsky.socialemail at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.comIf you like our show and the perspective we provide, PLEASE give us a positive review on iTunes.  If you don't like us, say nothing and just move along .WE HIGHLY RESPECT THE FOLLOWING LIST OF CREATORS/ORGS(FYI-we do not generate any form of compensation from our show. We do it for love & caring for ourselves and others. The following are people we believe in.)We encourage you to visit OPEN The Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy https://www.open-love.org/follow @openloveorg Libertine Events Lifestyle vacations,https://libertineevents.com/  follow @PaloozaPodcast on social media or visit https://podcast-a-palooza.comwww.openingus.comhttps://beyondourbedroom.com/https://www.expansiveconnection.com/Average Swingers podcastSapphic Swingers podcastTwo or more to Tango podcastSwinger University podcastCasual Swinger podcast Shameless Care podcastMy Favorite app for building sex positive community & education is called Plura. you can find out more here...https://heyplura.com/faqFascinated about swinging, polyamory and other kinds of open or sex positive relationships? Go listen to our friends at Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast. Join their community.  https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/  and Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcastHave you or a loved one contracted Herpes or another STI and are looking for resources on coping with your diagnosis? Search IG for Courtney Brame from the Podcast & Non-Profit "Something Positive for Positive People". A resource for fighting stigma and shame, while finding community & emotional healing for people living with Herpes & other STIs.visit https://www.spfpp.org/Other resources to consider...American Sexual Health association- ASHAsexualhealth.org @infoASHAThe- nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org @NCSH_stdcheck.com @STDcheck Shameless Care STI testing and meds www.shamelesscare.com

City Cast Boise
Swingers, Sex Parties, and Ethical Non-Monogamy in Boise

City Cast Boise

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2025 24:29


We've all heard the rumors that Hidden Springs is allegedly a hotspot for swingers, so we're separating fact from fantasy. Candice Cook and Erik Zink with the ⁠Impulsive Duo⁠ join host Lindsay Van Allen to pull back the curtain on everything you've wondered about non-monogamy in the Treasure Valley. She asks the couple how they navigate jealousy, misconceptions, and what the upside-down pineapple truly means.Want some more Boise news? Head over to our ⁠Hey Boise newsletter⁠ where you'll get a cheatsheet to the city every weekday morning. Learn more about the sponsor of this June 26th episode: ⁠Visit Walla Walla⁠ Interested in advertising with City Cast Boise? Find more info ⁠HERE⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Bed With Nikky
New Year's Surprise, Comfort in Friendship, Holiday Hookup

In Bed With Nikky

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 43:54


On Today's show, Devin recounts a night when his friend Cara, seeking comfort after a breakup, initiates a sexual encounter that turns into a mutual and pleasurable experience, deepening their friendship in an unexpected way. A young man with a feminine side and a desire for BBC shares his first experience fulfilling his fantasy with a well-hung Jamaican man, describing the pleasure and empowerment he felt during their encounter. A young woman has a sexual encounter with her best friend's dad, who teaches her about her own desires and pleasures, leaving her eager for more. Claire recounts a wild holiday in Majorca with her friend Kim, where they share a memorable threesome with a stranger, exploring their sexuality and pushing their boundaries.ASN Magazine Awards: Purchase Show Tickets and Hotel TicketsASN Magazine Awards Voting Link. You can vote once every 24hrs.I want to hear from you too! If you have a secret story or experience you've been dying to share, now's your chance. You can write to me directly at Nikky@dearnikky.com or submit your confession anonymously at DearNikky.com/confessions.Perhaps you have an erotic fantasy that's been burning inside you, or maybe you just want to say hello - whatever it is, I want to hear from you!By submitting a confession and/or question you certify the following stipulations to be true:You are the sole creator of the submission;You are 18 years of age or older and legally able to write, submit erotic or pornographic materialStories including Bestiality, Incest and Incest Fantasies, Underage Role-Play, Rape Sex, Rape Fantasies or other non-consensual content or Racial slurs will not be aired.We reserve the right to change names or other identifiable information.You are releasing all rights to this creationIf you've enjoyed tuning in to my show each week (and getting an inside look at some very private lives), please take a moment leave review wherever listen: whether that Apple Podcasts Spotify Google other platform helps new listeners discover helps spread word keeps conversation going Thank loving support⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is out now!You can email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Nikky@dearnikky.com. You can find me also a ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dear-nikky-hidden-desires--6316414/support.

Dear Nelly
Adam Richard: age is just a number ... until it's not

Dear Nelly

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 71:14


Adam Richard: age is just a number, until it's notThe Fabulous Adam Richard is back to talk about something very special - his thesis on DEAR NELLY! Nelly and Adam also talk about aging, we get an update on Adam's new adventures in Ethical Non-Monogamy, life admin and some other stuff. Nelly and Adam take a raw and real listener call about se*ual boundaries and how they are NOT NEGOTIABLE. A wonderful episode with an old friend and Dear Nelly favourite.DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HEREFahey's website HERE Love yas,Nelly xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Scheduling Sin with SnoMilf
Fluffers, Fear, and Fuck Buddies: Deep Thoughts from the Dirty Side

Scheduling Sin with SnoMilf

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 47:44 Transcription Available


Mr. and Mrs. Sno get hilariously sidetracked by fluffer fantasies before diving deep into how their swinger journey has changed over nearly a decade. From nervous first meets to running their own socials, they reflect on how far they've come—and how to support newbies stepping into the lifestyle for the first time. Whether you're a throat goat or just tiptoeing in, this episode has laughs, insight, and that classic SnoMilf realness. Timestamps: 0:00 – Blue balls & blowjob challenges: the ultimate podcaster multitask 6:45 – “Would you be a fluffer?”: job title debates & LinkedIn lies 13:10 – The many layers of swinger life: hosting, personas, podcasts 20:15 – Supporting newbie nerves at socials 30:40 – Socials vs. private meets: why the SnoMilf crew loves low-pressure fun 42:20 – Confidence, connection & sexual growth through the lifestyle 51:00 – Join the Snow Patrol: upcoming events, socials & SnowBall 2025 PLEASE share your feedback and stories with us! Email Us: SnoMilf@yahoo.com Twitter (X): @SchedulingSin Join us on Discord: https://discord.gg/F4Wk558TaT https://schedulingsin.com IMPORTANT - Please read and respect our chat server rules before joining our Discord Chat Server. This service is completely free, there are many rooms to enjoy with fellow members of the swinging community. You MUST BE OVER 18 YEARS OLD TO JOIN THIS DISCORD SERVER. Our Discord chat is for social chat. it is not a pick up site or dating site.    

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
How to Say the Hard Thing Without Burning Everything Down, Ep. 115

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 18:08 Transcription Available


You're not broken. You just never learned how to say the hard thing without burning everything down.In this episode, I'm sharing how to actually talk about the uncomfortable stuff in non-monogamy—without losing your shit or starting a relationship wildfire.Whether you're afraid of hurting someone, scared to be misunderstood, or just tired of swallowing your truth, this is your starting point for braver, clearer communication.What you'll learn:→ How to understand your silence survival pattern→ The exact steps to prep for hard conversations→ Why blurting is not the same as honesty→ The “truth sandwich” that isn't manipulative→ How to handle defensiveness and emotional shutdowns→ What to say when it all goes sideways (and why repair = magic)You deserve relationships where the truth can live—and still be loved.

Grown and Growing Podcast
84. Alternative Relationships: Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy

Grown and Growing Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 58:15


This week, Sonia and Roberta welcome Deb Dennis, an attorney and moderator the DMV chapter of Black and Poly. That's right—we're diving into the world of polyamory, also known as ethical non-monogamy. From the misconceptions (spoiler: it's not all about sex!) to the relationship dynamics and emotional maturity it requires, we're unpacking it all. Deb shares her personal journey, how she navigates her relationships, and the supportive community she found while educating herself about this lifestyle. It's a grown conversation that just might expand how you think about love, connection, and commitment.Like. Follow. Share. Website: grownandgrowingpodcast.comFacebook: @GrownandgrowingpodcastInstagram: @GrownandgrowingpodcastYouTube: Grown and Growing PodcastEmail: grown.growingpodcast@gmail.com

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Why Self-Love Looks Different in Non-Monogamy (And Why You Can't “Positive Vibes” Your Way Through Comparison)

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 20:28 Transcription Available


Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right in your open or polyamorous relationship—and yet still crumble inside the moment your partner connects with someone else? In this honest and unfiltered episode, I explore what real self-love looks like in non-monogamous relationships—especially when comparison, jealousy, and insecurity hit hard. 

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Love Beyond Boundaries: Jeff Hudson on Throuples, Jealousy & Non-Monogamy

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 54:44 Transcription Available


Send us a textWhat happens when a long-term couple invites a third person into their relationship—and it doesn't go as planned?In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with six-time Emmy-nominated TV producer Jeff Hudson to talk about his memoir Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. Jeff shares what it was like to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of a throuple, how jealousy blindsided him, and why non-monogamy cracked him wide open—in the best and worst ways.We explore:Why three-person relationships are emotional rocket fuelHow jealousy shows up even when you're experienced in open relationshipsThe difference between love and compatibilityIdentity shifts that come with loving outside the boxWhy breakdowns in love can lead to breakthroughs in self-awarenessWhether you're polyam-curious, actively non-monogamous, or just fascinated by the complexity of modern love—this conversation will challenge and expand how you think about commitment, identity, and connection.

Quick Smart
Polyamory is becoming more popular. What can it teach us about our love lives?

Quick Smart

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 10:22


Call it romantically reckless or fiscally responsible, more Aussies are considering ENM (ethical non-monogamy). So, do these relationships work? And how can you stop jealousy taking hold?

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Reframing Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Open Relationships with Dr. Emma Smith

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 53:24 Transcription Available


Send us a textNavigating non-monogamy can stir up some BIG emotions—especially jealousy. But what if jealousy wasn't something to fight against... but a tool for deeper connection?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Emma Smith, licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, to talk about:✨ How to create emotional safety plans when opening a relationship ✨ The difference between healthy boundaries and rigid rules ✨ Why jealousy isn't the enemy—and how it can guide your growth ✨ Tips for crafting relationship agreements that actually work for you"Boundaries are about care, they're about safety. They are about being grounded in your love and respect for another person." — Dr. Emma SmithIf you're exploring non-monogamy (or just want stronger, healthier connections), this conversation is packed with real talk and practical strategies you'll want to come back to.

A Jaded Gay
148. Ethical Non-Monogamy: Redefining Relationships (with Jeff Hudson)

A Jaded Gay

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 40:19 Transcription Available


In a time when relationships are no longer confined to traditional labels, ethical non-monogamy allows gay individuals to build connections that align with their unique desires and values. By fostering open communication, trust, and mutual consent, non-monogamous relationships can provide fulfilling connections that honor the evolving dynamics of love and partnership.In this episode, Jeff Hudson joins us to share his personal journey with ethical non-monogamy, discussing the challenges and misconceptions surrounding non-traditional relationships and how his experience reshaped his views on love and commitment.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 54. Love in the Third Degree (with Eric Praniewicz)Additional Resources:Read Exploring Polyamory Among Gay Men: Redefining Love, Connection, and AuthenticityFollow Jeff on InstagramRead Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a ThroupleEthical Non-Monogamy: Basics & Rules for ENM RelationshipsRooted ResilienceRooted Resilience: Intersectional Narratives of 2SLGBTQIA+ Creatives in MAListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

Vee Mindful
84. Connecting THRU SEX: Guest Marriage and Sex Therapist Angela Skurtu

Vee Mindful

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 53:41


How do we use Sex to connect with ourselves and our partners? How can we mentally handle ED? How can men improve ED? Is Sex on the first date ok? Ethical Non-Monogamy? Should I talk about sex on the 1st date? Great chat with Sex Therapist Angela Skurtu @OpenBedroomDoors

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Jealousy to Compersion: Communicating Through Emotions in Open Relationships with Ally Iseman

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 42:38 Transcription Available


Send us a textEver wondered if you can learn to feel compersion instead of jealousy? Or if talking about opening up your relationship means you're actually ready to do it? This episode dives deep into these questions and more!I'm joined by Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of Passport to Pleasure. Ally brings her unique blend of humor, compassion, and practical tools to help couples navigate the complexities of non-monogamy.In this episode, we explore:Why "conversation is lubrication" and how to make it work for youReframing jealousy (even the hot kind!) as a tool for growthThe value of understanding consensual non-monogamy, regardless of your relationship styleAlly's step-by-step method for moving through jealousyHow to know if your relationship is truly ready to open upKey Takeaways:Compersion vs. Jealousy: Ally shares her personal journey from experiencing what she thought was jealousy to realizing it was actually compersion.The NERD OUT Method: Learn Ally's unique technique for transforming jealousy into a mindful, growth-oriented experience.Effective Communication: Discover the crucial difference between clear communication and effective communication in relationships.Curiosity Over Conviction: Why approaching non-monogamy with genuine curiosity is more powerful than trying to convince your partner.Whether you're actively practicing non-monogamy, considering it, or simply curious about different relationship styles, this conversation offers valuable insights for everyone. Ally's approach emphasizes personal growth, effective communication, and creating relationships that truly work for you – no matter what form they take.Ready to explore if your relationship is prepared for non-monogamy? Take Ally's free Relationship Ratio quiz at  www.passport2pleasure.com/ratio to get started on your journey.And check out Ally's Substack https://allyiseman.substack.com/https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
Open Monogamy, Jealousy & Mismatched Desires | Dr. Tammy Nelson on Rethinking Relationship Agreements

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 50:53 Transcription Available


Send us a textIf you've ever struggled with mismatched desires, defining commitment with a partner, or navigating the messier side of non-monogamy — this episode is for you.In this candid conversation, I talk with Dr. Tammy Nelson, sexologist, therapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Open Monogamy. With 35+ years of experience working with couples in both monogamous and open relationships, Tammy brings a nuanced lens to everything from sexual boredom and emotional disconnection to jealousy, relationship fatigue, and the evolving nature of commitment.We explore:Why mismatched desires and “monogamy gaps” show up even in non-monogamyHow open relationships can become more intimate — not less — when built on clarityTools for navigating jealousy, initiating hard conversations, and honoring shifting needsThe danger of jumping to a solution before naming the real problemWhy fantasy, communication, and appreciation matter more than frequency or rules

The Openlove101 Show
Visiting Swingers Club as a Single Woman

The Openlove101 Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 8:37


In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ice, and how to make the most of your experience inside of a lifestyle club! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let's explore it together :)

Confessions of A Reformer
Divorce, Asexuality & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Michael Simmons

Confessions of A Reformer

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 60:24


Season 5: Episode 11Dr. Michael Simmons is the founder of Inner Work Community LLC, an online collective of psycho-spiritual healers. He is a Shadow Work Coach with over a decade of experience initiating people into their inner landscape, and liberating them to embrace their authentic life. Everything Numa

Life Points with Ronda
Redefining Love: Embrace Ethical Non-Monogamy for Authentic Connections and Personal Growth

Life Points with Ronda

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 15:36 Transcription Available


Send us a textSupport the showhttps://chat.openai.com/g/g-8E47AuJfB-life-points-assistanthttps://FaceBook.com/Lifepointswithronda1https://youtube.com/@lifepointswithronda2968https://TikTok.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Instagram.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Patreon.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Lifepointswithronda.com