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Ps Lee Eden shares the final message in our Relationship Series about God's plan for parenting.

GET FREE HANDOUT to accompany this episode HERE:Resentment from unequal decisions? One person dominating finances, parenting, or chores? In this episode, Sharla and Robert explain how to create a "system of governance" in your marriage—drawing from John Gottman's "accepting influence" and Stan Tatkin's shared leadership—to end power struggles, restore parity, and protect your “couple bubble.”Hear real couple stories, our own early parenting struggles, a list of 10 key principles to start your governance system, and a deep dive on "guardrails"—in-moment reminders that interrupt harmful patterns before they escalate.This is how you lead each other without chaos or hurt.Key TakeawaysGovernance isn't control—it's a shared constitution for decisions, influence, and implementing principles.Accepting influence (Gottman) means blending strengths—couples who do this are far more likely to thrive.Build principles like "We shield each other from harm" that you both defend selfishly.Guardrails: In-moment reminders (e.g., "Remember our agreement?") interrupt harmful autopilot behaviors before fights escalate.No system = power struggles and resentment; good governance + guardrails = allies and a strong bubble.ResourcesThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman – Gold standard for influence and conflict.Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin – Deep dive on shared leadership.In Each Other's Care by Stan Tatkin – Modern habits for governance.Up Next WeekKeeping each other safe through partner soothingIf this helped you spot a power imbalance, follow, comment, and share! Put each other first this week. ❤️Get in TouchWebsite: MasterYourMarriage.usInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/masteryourmarriageFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MasterYourMarriage/

She says, “I don't feel safe.”He hears the words… but doesn't know what they actually mean in her nervous system.In this episode we finally explain what that sentence really means, why it shows up even in good relationships, and exactly how to build the “couple bubble” — the invisible forcefield that makes her (and him) feel safe again, even when life gets hard.We also talk about why principles beat rules every time, and we give you powerful journaling prompts so you can start creating your own guarantees of safety this week.This is the episode that turns understanding into something you can both feel in your body.Key Takeaways“I don't feel safe” is rarely about the relationship being unsafe — it's about the nervous system no longer feeling regulated by your partner.The couple bubble is the practical way you turn safety from a concept into a felt experience.Principles (chosen because they're good and right for you personally) outlast rules (followed only out of fear or consequences).Both partners must be able to defend a principle selfishly for themselves first — otherwise it's just a stick, not a carrot.The bubble is a pact: we agree to do things for each other that no one else would be willing to do.Your Homework – Do This WeekPart 1 – Journal privately (10–15 minutes each)What guarantees would you like to receive from your partner inside the bubble? (Be specific. What would make you feel truly safe, even on your worst day?)What guarantees would you like to give your partner? (What are you willing to promise, for your own reasons, because it aligns with the person you want to be?)What principles do you already live by in your personal life (outside the relationship) that you would love to bring into your couple bubble?Looking back, where has your bubble felt leaky in the past? What principle could have protected it?Part 2 – Talk together (no phones, no distractions)Share what you wrote. Listen with curiosity. No defending or fixing. Ask each other:“Why would this principle be good and right for you personally — even if I weren't in the picture?”That conversation itself starts building the bubble.ResourcesWired for Love by Stan Tatkin – the book that introduced the couple bubble conceptIn Each Other's Care by Stan Tatkin – his newest, most practical guide to turning these ideas into daily habitsFull list of Stan Tatkin's Ten Commandments HERENext WeekHow to predict and plan for the mistakes we all make — and set up guardrails that protect the bubble when life gets messy.Rate and ReviewIf this episode finally helped you understand what “I don't feel safe” really means, please follow, leave us a 5-star rating...

Episode TitleThe Attachment Style Quiz Your Therapist Would Give You (Part 2 of the Secure-Relationship Series)Episode DescriptionMost of what we do in relationships is on autopilot—shaped by how we were cared for (or not) as kids. In this episode, Sharla and Robert unpack the three main attachment styles (Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant), share eye-opening childhood reflection questions, real-life couple stories, and checklists to help you identify yourself. You'll finally understand why you chase, why they pull away, and how to stop using labels as weapons—so you can actually build the safety and closeness you both crave.Key TakeawaysYour attachment style isn't a flaw—it's an adaptation from childhood.Never weaponize labels (“You're so avoidant!”). Use them for compassion only.Secure relationships require: safety first, equal power, and the relationship that come first.The path to more security = Acceptance of who you both are + owning your impact.You can't force change in your partner. You create it through consistent safety.Quick Attachment Style Checklists (from the episode)Secure I enjoy closeness but am also comfortable alone. Disagreements don't shake me. I trust easily.Avoidant I recharge best alone. Closeness can feel smothering. I downplay emotions.Anxious I worry my partner will leave. I need frequent reassurance. Small things feel like big threats.Resources for Deeper LearningMust-Read BooksAttached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller → The book that brought attachment theory into everyday relationships. Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin → Deep dive into how your partner's brain works and how to create real security together.The Power of Attachment by Diane Poole Heller → Excellent for understanding how early wounds show up now and how to heal them.Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson → Seven conversations that can transform your relationship (Emotionally Focused Therapy classic).Next WeekWe start building that “invisible forcefield” around your relationship—specific tools to create safety and security even when your attachment styles clash.Call to Action!If this episode gave you an “aha!” moment, please leave us a 5-star rating and quick review—it really helps other couples find the show. Share this episode with your partner or a friend who's stuck in the chase-pullaway cycle. And subscribe so you don't miss Part 3!Thanks for listening — and remember: put each other first this week. The small things, done often, really do change everything. ❤️

Join the Louhs as they continue their relationship series on 1 Corinthian 13 through both biblical insight, psychological understanding & patristic guidance. This show on Envy will cover why love refuses to compete.

Helping others is a virtue that seems to be disappearing in modern society. Our fast-paced lifestyle often leads us to put ourselves before everyone else so that we can get it all done. But a rising tide lifts all boats, and helping others makes our entire world better off.  In this episode, I discuss one of the greatest helpers in history and how his good deeds continue to positively affect our society more than 100 years later.  Show Highlights Include: The desirable characteristic that makes you irresistible and invaluable to everyone around you (1:53) Invaluable life lessons from the little-known American who was one of history's greatest helpers (3:45) How George Washington Carver is still helping Midwestern farmers to this day and what you can learn from this (even if you've never seen a farm) (9:06) 8 "Cardinal Virtues" that can make you a more effective and well-liked person (12:06) Do you want to stop existing and start living your best life right now? Click here to get the first chapter of Dr. Rick's best-selling book, Lessons From a Third Grade Dropout, for free.

You can describe society in a dozen different ways, but 'respectful' might not come to mind. A time when you could have an argument with someone and shake hands at the end is long gone. Many people don't respect those they disagree with, but they couldn't be more wrong. In this episode, Dr. Rick discusses how respect restores an American culture and why you should remain a figure of honor and dignity (even with those you disagree with). Show Highlights Include: How sitting on the front porch with your neighbors builds a foundation of respect and civility (that will inspire everyone in your family). (0:30) What the Boston Tea Party taught us about dealing with conflict and how you can grow with dignity in your next heated argument. (3:51) Why the U.S Military takes respect to the next level - and why you should treat others with the same honor. (6:58) The 'Nordstrom Way' and how it makes you a more dignified and less judgmental person. (10:41) Do you want to stop existing and start living your best life right now? Click here to get the first chapter of Dr. Rick's best-selling book, Lessons From a Third Grade Dropout, for free.

Priscilla continues Part 2 of the Relationship Series. Through Ruth 2, we discover how God's kindness moves through ordinary people in ordinary places. From hospitality to generosity to mercy, we learn how to love the neighbours right in front of us. Ruth 2

It's our last week in the Relationship Series! Join us as we tie it all together with talking about forgiveness and why that's a vital piece in the relationship conversation!

This week we have a guest! Join us as Pastor Brian Key talks with us about relationships among church members! It's beautiful!

In this episode Joseph and Paula complete their exploration the difference between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships. From communication styles and trust to red flags and boundaries, we break down what helps love thrive and what can slowly erode it. Whether you're currently in a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation will give you practical insights to better understand what healthy love looks like—and how to spot when things may be turning unhealthy.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesEpisode 20: The 5 Love LanguagesResources used to create this episode: Harvard-trained couples therapists married nearly 50 years: 5 things people in happy, successful relationships don't doHow to Prepare Yourself for a Healthy Relationship: 12 Key StepsMarriage.com

Join us as we first interview Kayla's two boys and then talk through parenting in changing seasons with unchanging values.

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In this episode of the Yellow Chair Collective Podcast, co-directors Soo Jin Lee and Linda engage in a heartfelt discussion with facilitators Helen Garcia and Esther Lee about the unique experiences of eldest daughters in immigrant families.

Join us as we talk about what it looks like to pursue relationships with neighbors, who is our neighbor, and what God calls us to!

If you placed your faith in Jesus, we are celebrating with you!Click below to fill in your information so we can connect with you!New to Church: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631827I've Decided to Follow Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631829Subscribe to Our Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEHNDPb5XMkf1LyqoTU30vg Help Support and Grow our Ministry to reach people around our community and spread the love of Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/giving Stay connected with us through our:Church Alive Website: https://churchalive.tvInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/churchalivenj/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChurchAliveNJ/Plan your next in-person visit. We are located at:Rutherford Location- The Williams Center9AM, 11AM, 1PM 15 Sylvan St, Rutherford NJLyndhurst Location- 10AM, 12PM525 Riverside Ave, Lyndhurst NJ

If you placed your faith in Jesus, we are celebrating with you!Click below to fill in your information so we can connect with you!New to Church: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631827I've Decided to Follow Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631829Subscribe to Our Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEHNDPb5XMkf1LyqoTU30vg Help Support and Grow our Ministry to reach people around our community and spread the love of Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/giving Stay connected with us through our:Church Alive Website: https://churchalive.tvInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/churchalivenj/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChurchAliveNJ/Plan your next in-person visit. We are located at:Rutherford Location- The Williams Center9AM, 11AM, 1PM 15 Sylvan St, Rutherford NJLyndhurst Location- 10AM, 12PM525 Riverside Ave, Lyndhurst NJ

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore the difference between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships. From communication styles and trust to red flags and boundaries, we break down what helps love thrive and what can slowly erode it. Whether you're currently in a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation will give you practical insights to better understand what healthy love looks like—and how to spot when things may be turning unhealthy.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesEpisode 20: The 5 Love LanguagesResources used to create this episode: Harvard-trained couples therapists married nearly 50 years: 5 things people in happy, successful relationships don't doHow to Prepare Yourself for a Healthy Relationship: 12 Key StepsMarriage.com

Join us for a conversation about marriage with our special guests - our husbands!

Join us as we begin our Relationship Series and talk about friendship! Friendship is a gift from God, and yet can feel difficult often, but is always rewarding! We talk about what we bring to friendship, what we look for, and healing that makes us better friends.

If you placed your faith in Jesus, we are celebrating with you!Click below to fill in your information so we can connect with you!New to Church: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631827I've Decided to Follow Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/people/forms/631829Subscribe to Our Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEHNDPb5XMkf1LyqoTU30vg Help Support and Grow our Ministry to reach people around our community and spread the love of Jesus: https://churchalivenj.churchcenter.com/giving Stay connected with us through our:Church Alive Website: https://churchalive.tvInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/churchalivenj/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChurchAliveNJ/Plan your next in-person visit. We are located at:Rutherford Location- The Williams Center9AM, 11AM, 1PM 15 Sylvan St, Rutherford NJLyndhurst Location- 10AM, 12PM525 Riverside Ave, Lyndhurst NJ

In this episode Joseph and Paula continue their Relationship series by diving into the important topic of healthy versus unhealthy family relationships. Families can be a source of love, support, and belonging—but they can also create stress, conflict, or even harm when dynamics become unhealthy. We'll explore the signs of a supportive, nurturing family system, as well as red flags that may point to toxic patterns. Together, we'll discuss practical strategies for setting boundaries, fostering open communication, and building healthier connections with loved ones. Whether you're reflecting on your childhood, navigating current family dynamics, or looking to create a positive home environment, this episode offers insights and tools to help you understand and strengthen your family relationships.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used to create this episode: 11 Things Parents Should Never Say To Adult Children If They Want A Real Relationship With Them

Women’s Ministry Director, Laura Dougherty sits down with Pastor, Chris Peters to talk about Our Foundation: God's Design for Relationships.

Women’s Ministry Director, Laura Dougherty sits down with Pastor, Chris Peters to talk about Our Foundation: God's Design for Relationships.

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore what it means to have a healthy relationship with yourself—and why it matters. The co-hosts break down the key elements of self-respect and emotional well-being. Our hosts share personal reflections, expert insights, and practical tips to help build a more supportive and nurturing inner dialogue. Whether you're working on healing, growing, or simply learning to show up for yourself, this episode is a reminder: the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with you.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Past Episode mentioned Life Lived Better Podcast Episode 96: Inner Dialogue Resources used to create this episode: Greater Good Science Center (UC Berkeley)Kristin Neff's Self-CompassionPsychology TodayBooks of Interest on this TopicThe Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff

In this episode of Inside The Wolf's Den Podcast, Shawn and Joni dive into what it means to communicate on a higher level within a romantic partnership. They unpack vulnerability, transparency, trust, and the power of shared experiences as engines for personal growth and deeper intimacy. You'll hear practical tools you can put to use this week to strengthen connection, sustain individuality, and keep love thriving. So what is higher-level communication? It's intentional listening, honest sharing, and collaborative problem-solving that honors both partners' needs and boundaries. The hosts outline three levels of conversation: Level 1 is the basics: facts and logistics. Level 2 moves into feelings and needs, cultivating emotional literacy. Level 3 centers on values, boundaries, and long-term mutual purpose. Learn actionable bridges between levels: using “I” statements, naming the feeling and the need, and pausing to check for understanding. Explore listener prompts designed to spark clarity and connection in everyday talks. Vulnerability and transparency take center stage. The episode lays out a vulnerability ladder, safe-speaking spaces, and weekly transparency rituals, plus ground rules to keep conversations constructive: listen without fixing, validate first, and name overwhelm if it surfaces. Practical exercises include a 10-minute vulnerability conversation and techniques for reflective listening and mirroring in broader social contexts; strengthening not just your relationship, but your friendships and family bonds as well. The conversation extends to shared experiences, non-sexual adventures, travel, hobbies, and how to plan them with clear roles and post-event debriefs. It also covers trust-building practices, repair rituals after missteps, maintaining individuality, conflict-resolution frameworks, and pause-reflect-respond. The ripple effects: stronger social bonds, better teamwork, and a more fulfilling partnership. Takeaway: small, consistent shifts compound into lasting love. Tune in for sidebars on jealousy, consent in daily decisions, and cultivating emotional safety.

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore the dynamics of social relationships—the good, the bad, and everything in between. What makes a friendship truly supportive? And how can you tell when a relationship is starting to become emotionally draining or toxic? From red flags like manipulation, competition, and one-sided effort to green flags like mutual respect, trust, and accountability, the co-hosts break down the key differences between healthy and unhealthy social bonds. They also share practical tips on setting boundaries, recognizing when to walk away, and how to prioritize your well-being in your social life.Whether you're questioning a long-time friendship or learning how to build better connections, this episode offers insight and guidance you won't want to miss.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used to create this episode: Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life's Fundamental Bond by Lydia Denworth Greater Good Science Center – UC Berkeley https://greatergood.berkeley.edu Mental Health America (MHA) www.mhanational.orgThe Gottman Institute www.gottman.comApps You Might Want to Check Out: Peanut (for women seeking community and friendship)Meetup (find local interest groups and events)Hey! VINA or Friender (apps to make platonic connections)Circles (group support for people going through similar life experiences)

In this episode, Joseph and Paula continue their series on relationships by taking a look at the essential elements of healthy professional relationships—what they look like, why they matter, and how to build them. From setting boundaries and fostering mutual respect to communicating effectively and navigating workplace dynamics. The co-hosts explore how strong professional connections can lead to personal growth and career success. Whether you're new to the workforce or looking to strengthen your current work relationships, this conversation offers practical insights and information to help you thrive professionally while staying true to yourself.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 78: Emotional Intelligence Resources Used in the Creation of this Episode: Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and SwitzlerDare to Lead by Brené BrownHarvard Business Review (HBR) www.hbr.orgMindTools www.mindtools.comThe Center for Creative Leadership (CCL)  www.ccl.org

Welcome to the kickoff of our new series on Relationships. Join Joseph and Paula as they wade into discussions on what it really means to build and maintain meaningful, supportive connections in every area of life. In this series introduction, the co-hosts lay the foundation for upcoming conversations about professional relationships, friendships, family dynamics, parent-child connections, romantic partnerships, and even the relationship we have with ourselves. Join us as the key ingredients of healthy relationships are explored —like trust, boundaries, communication, and accountability—and why they matter now more than ever. Whether you're looking to strengthen a bond or heal from past patterns, this series is for you.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate & review our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned in this one: Link to Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesResources used to create this episode: 10 Psychological Signs You're in a Healthy and Balanced RelationshipThe Foundation of Healthy Relationships | Psychology TodayHeller Garland, P. (2024, April). Basic Communication Skills. Addiction Studies Program. Denton; University of North Texas. #Relationships #Podcast #Wellness #SelfHelp #Improvement #SelfImprovement #Healthy #Communication #Counselors

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In today's powerful episode of our Relationship Series, we're joined by marriage coach Dana Che Williams for a real and eye-opening conversation about the role of clear expectations in a thriving marriage. If you've ever felt disappointed, unheard, or misunderstood in your relationship—this episode is for you. Dana shares how asking the right questions first—of yourself and your spouse—can lead to healthier communication, deeper emotional connection, and fewer unmet expectations. You'll learn: Why unspoken expectations create tension and resentment How to identify the root of your frustrations Simple yet powerful questions to ask that open the door to understanding The keys to creating a marriage where both people feel seen, heard, and supported ✨ Whether you're newly married or 20 years in, this episode will help you build stronger, more intentional connection through biblical wisdom and practical tools.

Do you ever avoid tough conversations because you don't want to rock the boat? Or maybe you try to talk but end up feeling misunderstood or defensive? Possibly you're like me, you over talk, over explain, and sometimes get overly defensive?

Do you ever avoid tough conversations because you don't want to rock the boat? Or maybe you try to talk but end up feeling misunderstood or defensive? Possibly you're like me, you over talk, over explain, and sometimes get overly defensive?

The loss of trust in relationships is a painful experience that can leave you feeling vulnerable and unsure of yourself. But what if I told you that the key to rebuilding trust lies not just in your partner's actions, but primarily in your own self-trust? In our latest episode, Brig explores the complexities of trust and the crucial role self-trust plays in rebuilding connections. Throughout the episode, Brig breaks down the steps necessary for rebuilding trust, both with your partner and, more importantly, with yourself.  Don't miss out on this enlightening episode—tune in now!  

Shannon Clark is a brain injury recovery coach, a mother of three, and a passionate advocate for relationships and parenting. After experiencing Post-Concussion Syndrome (PCS) herself in 2019, Shannon went through years of recovery and now helps others navigate the emotional and relational challenges that come with brain injuries. In this episode, she shares invaluable insights on managing mom guilt, setting boundaries, and maintaining meaningful connections with your children while recovering from a concussion.Resources mentioned in this Episode:Dr. Becky Kennedy (Dr. Becky)Shannon references Dr. Becky's work on parenting, mom guilt, and emotional resilience. Dr. Becky's podcast episode with Dr. Huberman on the Huberman Lab is particularly recommended for parents dealing with guilt and emotional challenges.Link to Dr. Becky's work: Dr. Becky KennedyHuberman Lab Episode with Dr. Becky: Huberman Lab PodcastCognitive FXShannon mentions Cognitive FX as a resource for brain injury recoveryWebsite: Cognitive FXByron Katie's "The Work"Book: "Loving What Is" by Byron KatieWebsite: The Work of Byron KatieJody Moore (Life Coach)Website: Jody Moore CoachingBrene Brown's Work on Stories in Your HeadShannon references Brene Brown's concept of the stories we tell ourselves and how they shape our emotions and behaviors.Book: "The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brene BrownWebsite: Brene BrownPrevious Episodes Mentioned:Shannon's personal experience with PCS: Episode 84Navigating partner/spouse relationships when one partner has a concussion: Episode 91A Mother's Experience with Concussion: Episode 21If you'd like to learn more about Shannon's work as a brain injury recovery coach or connect with her on Instagram: @revivebrains or on Facebook at Revive CoachingThank you for tuning in! If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and leave a review to help others find the Concussion Coach Podcast.If you would like to sign up for a free concussion coaching consultation with me to learn how you can understand and manage your symptoms, speed up your recovery, and get your life back following a concussion, go to my website: www.theconcussioncoach.com, or click on this link: https://theconcussioncoach.com/contact

Our relationships with others all reflect the relationship we have with ourselves. Kristine sits down with bestselling self-love teacher, Shannon Kaiser to discuss how we can cultivate our inner world so we receive better treatment from others. Learn how to stop being an enabler, how to set healthy boundaries, and how to foster the fulfilling connections you deserve.   

Is a victim mentality destroying your relationship? World-renowned expert thyroid expert and bestselling author of The Paleo Thyroid Solution and Confident As Fu*k, Elle Russ joins Kristine on the show. She shares how we can use ancestral health wisdom to help us move on from a victim mindset in our most important connections.

Peace begins within. Kristine sits down with mindfulness mentor Hunter Clarke-Fields to uncover how we can manage our own stress and anxiety so we bring our best to the world. Learn the proven practices that will help you foster harmony in your most important relationships.  Hunter Clarke-Fields is the host of the Mindful Mama Podcast (Top 0.5% podcast ), global speaker, # 1 bestselling author of Raising Good Humans and Raising Good Humans Every Day, mindfulness meditation teacher and creator of the Mindful Parenting Course and Teacher Training.  

So you've decided to leave your toxic relationship. What now? Kristine shares 3 self-love practices to help you rebuild and renew your spirit after walking away from an unhealthy connection. These exercises will help you along your path from heartbreak to wholeness, as you shift from victimhood to being the hero in your own story.

Join high school sweethearts Shawn and Joni Wolfswinkel in this heartfelt episode of Inside The Wolf's Den as they celebrate Valentine's Day! Dive into the theme of love, relationships, and the unique dynamics of being partners in both business and life. In this engaging episode, Shawn and Joni kick things off with fun Valentine's Day trivia that will surprise you—did you know that in Japan, it's women who traditionally buy chocolates for men? After a round of trivia, they share their personal love story, recounting how they first met and the pivotal moments that shaped their relationship. The conversation shifts to the complexities of working together as a couple. They discuss the challenges and rewards of blending love and business, offering invaluable tips for couples contemplating the same path. Communication, boundaries, and mutual respect are key themes they explore. Looking for inspiration for next Valentine's Day? The duo shares creative date ideas and thoughtful gift recommendations that go beyond the usual flowers and chocolates, perfect for couples and families alike. In the Q&A segment, Shawn and Joni respond to questions about relationships, offering their insights and advice. They encourage listeners to share their own Valentine's stories on social media. As the episode wraps up, Shawn and Joni reflect on the importance of love and connection in all aspects of life, urging listeners to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. Tune in for an uplifting celebration of love that will inspire you this Valentine's Day!

Join us this week for our last teaching in the Relationship Series.

Can a toxic relationship be healed into a healthy one? Yes, but only under certain conditions! Kristine shares 3 factors to help you determine whether transformation is possible in your relationship. Listen in and explore your next steps forward to living your most fulfilled life.

When it comes to relationships, it can be all too easy to ignore red flags – but at what cost? Over time, unhealthy relationships take a significant toll on our mental, physical, and even spiritual health. Kris reveals the warning signs of a toxic relationship that you shouldn't ignore, and how to identify if you're in one. She shares her best wisdom to help you protect your self-worth, so you focus on nurturing positive connections with yourself and others.    If you or someone you love is experiencing abuse of any kind, contact the National Domestic Abuse hotline here: https://www.thehotline.org/  Everyone deserves healthy relationships.

Send us a Text Message.How do you pastor people who tour every weekend and are A level artists/production people? Henry & Andy join us from The Belonging Co Church to discuss pastoring creatives, handling expectations and managing salaries for folks who could earn more at the drop of a hat on the road. In this episode you'll hear: 1:00 Trading places5:30 Andy Rushing and Henry Seeley join us from Beloning Co Church! 9:45 How did the Belonging Co Church come to be? 13:30 How do you determine your church's production style?19:45 Is it tough having a pastor that knows production so much?23:00 You ran Waves through a Behringer X32? 26:00 How have you handled conflict amongst yourselves? 35:00 What is it like pastoring creatives? 40:40 Bridging the gap between worship, vision and production 44:15 Is it tough to pay a competitive salary when your tech people could leave church and go on the road?49:15 Educating fellow pastors on how to recruit production people. 53:30 What would you have all church techs know about their pastors?56:15 As a church tech, what would you like all pastors to know? Resources for your Church Tech MinistryDoes your church have used gear that you need to convert into new ministry dollars? We can make you an offer here. Do you need some production gear but lack the budget to buy new gear? You can get Certified Church Owned gear here.  Connect with us: Follow us on FacebookHang out with us on InstagramSee all the ways we can serve your church on our WebsiteGet our best gear sent to your inbox each Monday before it goes public via the Early Service

Send us a Text Message.How do you communicate priorities with your pastor?  Jack Graham & Bryan Bailey join us for our "Pastor & Production Director Relationship" series to discuss their dynamic, handling production decisions and how to prioritize production.  In this episode you'll hear: 1:00 Being the black sheep of the family 3:45 Five Truths and a lie with your Pastor8:00 Relocating the church 18:30 How involved is Pastor Graham in the church production? 25:45 Why is a big Christmas service still a priority? 31:30 What do you wish all tech people could know about their pastor? 33:15 As a church tech, what would you like a room of pastors to know? 35:45 Plug: Bible in a year project Resources for your Church Tech MinistryDoes your church have used gear that you need to convert into new ministry dollars? We can make you an offer here. Do you need some production gear but lack the budget to buy new gear? You can get Certified Church Owned gear here.  Connect with us: Follow us on FacebookHang out with us on InstagramSee all the ways we can serve your church on our WebsiteGet our best gear sent to your inbox each Monday before it goes public via the Early Service

Why do we have friends — and more importantly how do we become good ones? As we kick off "The Relationship Series," Kylen Perry points to 1 Samuel 18 to show us the theology of friendship and how we can deepen the relationships that God gave us for our enjoyment.