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We are diving in The Four Tendencies with Gretchen Rubin, and why knowing yourself is the way to a happy, healthy life. Gretchen Rubin is one of the most influential writers on the linked subjects of habits, happiness, and human nature. She’s the author of many books, including the blockbuster New York Times bestsellers Better Than Before and The Happiness Project. A member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, Rubin has an enormous following, in print and online; her books have sold almost three million copies worldwide, and she has a highly ranked, award-winning podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin. Website: gretchenrubin.com Twitter: @gretchenrubin All show notes & resources available at realfoodwholelife.com KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE How she left a successful law career for writing. Why it took Gretchen 10 years to become an overnight success. The origin story of the Happiness Project, and why she focused on the practical daily life activities for health and happiness. What “Be Gretchen” means, and why the only way to build a happy, healthy, creative, efficient life is to base it on the foundation of our own nature, our own values, our own interests, our own temperament. There is no magic one-size fits all solution. We are mostly alike but the differences are so important. Sometimes things work, sometimes they don’t and it’s not your fault. Why it’s so hard to know yourself. There’s the way we wish we were, the way other people wish we were, and our assumptions about what people are like. Using the laws of distinction to describe our differences. What did you love to do when you were 10 years old, what do you lie about (which means there’s a disconnect between you life and your values), who do you envy? Shining a spotlight on hidden patterns and lending a vocabulary. What to do when you’re telling yourself “I should.” The Four Tendencies and how you respond to outer and inner expectations. The difference between Upholder, Questioners, Obligers, Rebels. Diving into the challenges and positives of each tendency. Why it doesn’t work to try to change your tendency. Why “should” is a trigger. It’s only what I can do, what I will do, and what works for me. Why September is the new January RESOURCES The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin The Four Tendency by Gretchen Rubin Happier podcast Happier in Hollywood podcast The Four Tendencies Quiz Samuel Johnson, the Major Works HELP THE SHOW 1 | Share the show via Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, or Twitter 2 | Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews really help more people find the show and I personally read each one. Here's how to do it: Launch Apple's Podcast app, then tap the Search tab. Enter The Feel Good Effect, then tap the Search key at the bottom right. Tap the album art for the podcast, then the Reviews tab. Tap Write a Review at the bottom, then tap the Stars to leave a rating. Enter title text and content to leave a review. Enter your nickname, then tap Send. The review won't show up right away, but it should be there within a day or so. Thank you so much for reviewing and helping the show! 3 | Subscribe on iTunes.
Subscribe to Earn Your Happy on iTunes. Gretchen Rubin is the author of several books, including the blockbuster New York Times bestsellers, Better Than Before, The Happiness Project and Happier at Home. She has an enormous readership, both in print and online, and her books have sold more than two million copies worldwide, in more than thirty languages. On her popular weekly podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin, she discusses good habits and happiness with her sister Elizabeth Craft; they’ve been called the “Click and Clack of podcasters.” The podcast was named in iTunes’s lists of “Best Podcasts of 2015.” Gretchen Rubin started her career in law and was clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Connor when she realized she wanted to be a writer. She lives in New York City with her husband and two daughters. Starting out in the filed of law, Gretchen started to realize the difference between a position and a passion. She held a renowned position clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Conner, but knew her passion was really in writing, which led her to become a New York Time’s Best Selling Author. Lucky for us, this brought me one of my favorite reads ever, The Happiness Project. “A happiness problem, is a habits problem” Gretchen not only shares with us her beginnings, but also her on-going journey to a happy, healthy and more productive life. These are all the things she portrays in her podcast and books and helps others just like us, achieve. Becoming aware of our thoughts and mindset is one sure way of also becoming happier. Placing gratitude around all things instead of worry and fear will bring on more blessings than you could imagine. “It’s not about the things you have to do, its about the things you get to do.” We then start to realize it has nothing to do with having the glass half empty, or half full, its more about having the glass in general. She gives us the reminder to treasure each moment, and that even if something is unpleasant, it will be over soon. “The days can seem long, but the years are short.” Gretchen points out, that there is no one thing, that makes someone “happy.” Each habit must be personal, it has to coincide with what is true to you. With that being said, creating habits around the things that make you happy, whether small or large can change a mediocre life, to a rockstar world! We’re riding that happiness train, climb aboard! In This Episode You Will Learn About: Following your passions Happiness at home Creating habits Living happier, healthier and more productive lives Being aware of your thoughts Gratitude Perspective Resources: Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin Happier with Gretchen Rubin Podcast Get your daily dose of happy at GretchenRubin.com and follow her on Twitter @gretcehnrubin. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com
Episode 003 - Speaking of Used Knickers in the Post Relly and Pauly have been spending most of their free time on conference calls and reading. Pauly has been thinking about culture and eating more Sheffield Eggs; meanwhile Relly has been listening to new podcasts and re-discovering terrible video game cartoons. Warning: contains Zelda dubstep. Theme music: Helix Nebula by Anamanaguchi, from the album Power Supply. As always, you can let us know what you think via email, Twitter or the web. This week we chatted about: [02:03] Dilbert, web comic [04:20] Logitech H800, wireless headset [06:02] Sheffield Festival of the Mind [10:45] Access Space, digital arts lab [10:48] Gist Lab, innovation space [13:30] Computer Love, digital art gallery [14:58] Brighton Digital Festival [16:42] GameChops - The Triforce of Bass, remix album of Zelda music [17:45] dj-Jo - Hyrule Field [21:55] Amy Krouse Rosenthal - Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life, book [24:00] Gretchen Rubin - The Happiness Project, book [24:55] Gretchen Rubin - Happier at Home, book [28:25] Instapaper, app / website [28:50] A Song of Ice and Fire, series of books [31:35] Game of Thrones, TV series [33:00] Terry Pratchett & Neil Gaiman - Good Omens, book [35:56] Missie Cindz EPIC Tea Party [36:20] Missie Cindz notebooks [37:55] Cossack Cuisine, caterers [38:01] The Broadfield Ale House, pub [38:14] Endcliffe Park Cafe [38:58] Missie Cindz Pud Inn Club [39:22] The Fat Duck, restaurant [39:54] Jonathan Coulton, singer-songwriter [40:21] Jonathan Coulton - Glasses [43:55] Twitch TV, internet TV channel [45:30] Super Smash Brothers, Wii game [45:40] Mario Kart, Wii game [45:45] Let’s Play, video game commentary site [46:23] Netflix, TV & movie rental / streaming service [46:36] Super Mario World, cartoon [46:36] Sonic the Hedgehog cartoon [47:10] The Legend of Zelda cartoon [48:26] Gamesmaster, TV show [49:28] Starcraft 2, video game [51:42] Riff Trax, commentary site [51:56] Loading Ready Run, comedy site [52:40] Critical Hit, podcast [53:12] Idle Hands, podcast [53:50] Good Job Brain, podcast [57:02] Geekest Link, pub quiz [59:16] Gloom, card game [59:20] Fiasco, role-playing game [59:22] Seven Wonders, board game [59:25] Elder Sign, card game [61:24] Adam and Joe Go Tokyo, TV series This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 2.0 UK: England & Wales License