Bitchless Bride: The Podcast

Today on Bitchless Bride + Beyond, Debbie + Kerri “are flying by the seat of their pants”, with no podcast itinerary other than to make people laugh. They’re keeping it super lite with conversations about switching teams, pooping, the “c” word and much more! Deb might ruin your love of pancakes with a disgustingly detailed anecdote, and Kerri’s obsession with making the bed is worrisome. Don’t miss this hilarious show... it’ll get you to work safely!!

Season 3, Episode 11: Today on Bitchless Bride + Beyond, Debbie + Kerri laugh about the now infamous Peloton ad. Seriously! Poor Grace from Boston! Were you as offended as the rest of the world? What did you think about Ryan Reynolds’ spoof with the gin ad? Dig in with us on your drive to work or two mile run as we take on Peloton! Of course there were plenty of twists, turns and tangents as Deb and Kerri journey down this giant rabbit hole! So listen up brideys + beyonders, and enjoy!

Season 3 Episode 10: Accepting Your Path in Life Even if it Chose You Instead of You Choosing it!Today’s show is all about getting to know Debbie + Kerri as they talk + laugh about how different their perceived paths are compared to what they had envisioned. You’ll definitely feel like a fly on the wall as these two get painfully + comically real about their lives, writing careers, achievements, disappointments and everything (like, everything!) in-between. As the temperature rises in the studio so does the heat of the conversation! So listen up brideys + beyonders!

Happy Thanksgiving! We have such a FAB show for you to listen to as you travel between Thanksgiving celebrations! Today, we’re talking with Certified Life + Health Coach, Melinda Keegan otherwise known as a spiritual gangster. Outside of being a total badass, physically + mentally, Melinda believes everybody is capable of living much bigger, leading their own lives and letting their unique light shine. She coaches people who decide that it is their responsibility to seek more from their relationships, health, career and communities. I mean… everyone needs a little mental push when it comes to next steps, be it planning a wedding, living healthy lifestyle, and achieving professional + personal goals! So listen up brideys + beyonders!!!

Even though we had a few technical difficulties, this show is too fantastic not to share with you! Kerri sounds a little far away, but I swear she’s right next to me (with her hand on my leg). Anyway, it’s the holiday season brideys + beyonders, so obviously, we invited Dr. Jocelyn Charnas back on to Bitchless Bride + Beyond to talk about mental health and strategies to keep your head held high during this potentially difficult time. ’Tis the season of joy, good cheer and happiness, right? Clearly, these words seem to set the exception for us; essentially dictating how we’re supposed feel, but what happens if your feelings don’t match up with the joy, the good cheer and happiness? Listen to Dr. Charnas’ splendid advice as we navigate these topics and dive into the abyss, together. Dr. Charnas is a Ph.D., and is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. She treats adults with anxiety, depression, phase-of-life and adjustment issues, and specializes in interpersonal and relationship issues. She has contributed to articles in The New York Times, Glamour, Huffington Post, etc.

Season 3 Episode 7: Brideys + Beyonders! Don’t miss this funny, and painfully honest podcast as Deb + Nathan chat with Erica Kotin. Erica is an entirely relatable wife, mom and career juggler who is still trying to figure out which one of her hats fits the best. You will giggle as we discuss why we wished we listened to the women trying to warn us about what motherhood was REALLY like, but dismissed them as know-it-all judgmental witches! And, we’re pretty sure you’ll be nodding your heads as we explain why motherhood is a delicate balance of constantly reinventing yourself because what always worked in the past does not and cannot work in the present, especially if you’re career isn’t cooperating. If nothing else, you will absolutely be entertained because only we could make parenting woes funny!

Season 3, Episode 6: Listen as Deb + Nathan chat with with the fabulous Brittany Finkle, founder of Happily Ever Borrowed, about RENTING your wedding day accessories. Just borrow, wear, and return. DONE! It’s awesome + affordable! Yes, bridey, something weddingy that’s completely affordable! Just imagine the possibilities… Also, find out why the very talented designer, Hayley Paige, had her hands in this dreamy virtual boutique! Learn all about it today on Bitchless Bride + Beyond!

Season 3, Episode 5: Today is the last day of Breast Cancer Awareness month, so I thought we’d chat with Drew Edwards, Executive Director of Brides Against Breast Cancer (BABC). BABC supports Early Detection Education Programs, Research, and Legislative efforts by selling recycled, high end wedding dresses to brides-to-be looking for an upscale wedding dress, but at a fraction of the cost. Two key takeaways? If you’re recently married, PLEASE donate your wedding dress right after your wedding! Go Marie Kondo, and get rid of it! Don’t wait, do good now or else it might be too late! BABC only accepts wedding dresses within four years of wear. Your dress is out of style if you wait ten years to donate! Second, if you’re looking to buy a wedding dress, please buy a recycled dress from BABC! It doesn’t need to be brand new to be new to you. Buying your dress from BABC could save a life!And, in the later part of the podcast, the topic is a bit difficult, but necessary. Nathan and I discuss how to plan a wedding when a close family member is seriously ill. Yes, this feels uncomfortable. Yes, this sucks and it’s hard. However, we hope that by listening, we can help you deal with the enormity of the situation with grace, while at the same time, considering your needs/desires around your wedding.

Season 3 Episode 4: Stories About In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) + Life After the Plunge with Kim MilesToday we are talking with the super FABULOUS, super sought-after, Kim Miles! Through her company, Miles in Heels Productions, Kim is an incredibly popular emcee, panel moderator, and creative collaborator. But... That’s not what our conversation is about.l mentioned last week that we were going to continue our conversation around in vitro fertilization (IVF), and the stories that come along with the journey. I brought Kim into the studio to share her IVF quest with the Bitchless Bride + Beyond audience as a point of reference, reality, grief, empowerment and ever after. I’m hoping that the take away from today’s pod will be one that inspires you to let go of what you think you need or want and thrive with whatever outcome you are given.Some hot topics we cover: Kim’s quest to be a champion for women whether it’s child-free by choice or child-free not by choice. How to have + navigate a conversation with child-free women without sounding like an asshole! Why you should NEVER lead with, “How old are your children?”!!! The IVF comedy tour??

Season 3 Episode 3: All of your questions will be answered today on Bitchless Bride + Beyond! Dr. David Ryley, a reproductive endocrinologist at Boston IVF specializing in all aspects of fertility care is in the studio. I brought Dr. Ryley in to discuss not only fertility in general, but egg retrieval/freezing (and what that means exactly), getting pregnant as part of the LGBTQ community, and fertility as it relates to transgender patients and cancer patients. My goal is to help educate our audience and the new demographic on all of these fronts. Because it’s more than just about fertility, it’s about PRESERVING fertility due to physical, professional, medical and emotional circumstances. We are now given the opportunity to defer pregnancy/childbearing + family building for a time when it’s right for us, versus the evolutionary right time.Some hot topics we cover: Not meeting the right significant other, ticking biological clock, freezing eggs for when we’re damn well ready to have babies (if ever), single mother by choice, society downplaying miscarriages, why abortion would be a “rite of passage” if men got pregnant, updated porn + 70s bush, etc….Dr. Ryley: “I live in the world of unbelievably intended pregnancies. Family is defined as an environment that provides a source of love that any child will thrive.”Deb: “I’m very aware of the fact that I am bleeding and there is a wand up my pussy...” See the pic of Dr. Ryley’s face when I blurted out this line…

This show!! OMG! DON’T MISS THIS SHOW! Nicole DeNeane is a Catholic wedding planner + founder of howtoplanacatholicwedding.com. She’s as absolutely sensational as she is educational and FUNNY! Listen as we talk (and laugh a lot) about getting married in a Catholic church. Try not to bust into hysterics at her funny anecdotes… Like when the nice, but rather bombastic priest said at a rehearsal that, “Sex is a gift from God” and told the B+G to kiss like they will at their wedding or when a priest stopped a wedding because the photographer was a little too aggressive with her photographing.Nicole takes all the complicated do's and don'ts plus the rules of the church, and makes it all clear. She says that, “none of her weddings have ended up on Youtube!”, but Nicole’s stories and incredible knowledge about planning a catholic wedding are fantastic, and should be shared with the world! Even if you’re not Catholic!Find out why she told me this… “I’m confident that I’ve never used the word “vagina” in front of my father.” Enjoy!

Welcome to Season 3 of Bitchless Bride + Beyond! On the Season 2 finale, I mentioned that I while I still want to talk about wedding planning, I’m opening Season 3 up to all of the other shit that happens after you tie the know. In a nutshell? Marriage and beyond! We’re definitely still going to talk about weddings, but we’re also going to prepare you for marriage with an amazing lineup of guests, anecdotes and experience!In the Season 3 opener, Kerri + I invited Lindsey (of Lindsey + Tyler, Bitchless Bride the Podcast: Season 2 Episode 7, Wedding Planning 101) back to the show to share her story about calling off her wedding + ending the relationship after only being engaged for about three weeks! We brought her on Bitchless Bride + Beyond to tell her story, so if any of you are feeling the way she did, you would know that you are not alone. Don’t miss this very juicy, very brave tale of trusting your gut and smashing red flags…

Today on Bitchless Bride the Podcast, it’s the Season 2 Finale! Deborah + Nathan brought back David DiCicco of Marc Hall Design, Danielle Duane of Boston Magazine and Michelle DeVoe of Demiche Beaute’ to discuss wedding season mishaps, industry trends and (as Danielle put it), Deb’s daily debauchery! This FAB crew? Well, we cover a lot of ground today! Listen as we discuss everything from hand crafted tables for the bride and groom to dance on (obviously), to FOUR couples who called it quits before the big day, to what to expect on Season 3! It’s an amazing show today, bridey! Don’t miss a second of it!!

Today on Bitchless Bride the Podcast Deborah and Nathan are talking about setting wedding expectations, and the ‘who does what’ if you’re getting married at a hotel. Bridey, we understand that you don’t know where the line ends (and sometimes begins), and we are anxious to teach you! At the same time, it’s just as important for the manager to explain their role as well as their do’s and don’ts. Learn the proper etiquette for early check in and lat check out. YES, there’s etiquette for that! Find out why the HELL we are talking about farting, and The Farting Preacher. Planning on “doing ‘it’” on your wedding night? You’d be surprised how many couples wait until the next morning! What are the 6 Ps, and why are they important as you plan your wedding? Hear why Deb and Nathan are already obsessed with Encore, the newest casino in Boston, and why Deb thinks it’s a FAB place to have a wedding.

The biggest question is how is a relationship coach different from a therapist? Why see a relationship coach (especially during one of the most exciting and intense times of your life!)? What kind of relationships are we talking about when a bride and/or groom, sig other seeks out a relationship coach during wedding planning? Perhaps it has to do with future in laws? Conflicts with parents over wedding plans? Unrealistic expectations based on what society says we should feel about our wedding and planning? What is love (feeling vs. behavior)? Some GIANT questions today, brideys. It’s an A MAZ ING show today, one that will definitely stay with you as you plan your wedding and beyond!!! Guest Naomi Raisell - http://www.generationscinemastories.com/

Today we are talking to the fabulous Marissa Rae Roberts! Marissa is a girl with many talents. She is a preforming artist and creative entrepreneur. She co-founded ToUch Events, a company that focuses on creating customized event entertainment. Bridey, people love to be entertained, and surprised. So give the people what they want! Put on a show at your wedding! Listen and learn!! This podcast could change EVERYTHING!

Today we break down the ‘who does what’ and, ‘whose job is it anyway’ with wedding specialists, Vanessa Michael + Tasha Bracken. Vanessa has been a director of events at a property level (or hotel or venue) for several years, and Tasha is an independent wedding planner working with high end clientele. And while these jobs SOUND similar, there is a stark contrast between the two; one that’s important to understand! Find out why we are calling Tasha the “maestro”, and Vanessa the “architect”. Learn about the differences between these two incredibly important jobs, and why Nathan is lassoing his d*ck in this episode of Bitchless Bride the Podcast!

Boudoir, weddings and family photos! Oh my!! Today we’re talking with Lara Woolfson, owner of Studio Nouveau. Lara is the creative mind behind the camera, and the founder of the company. Studio Nouveau prides themselves on their ability to take their business + artistry seriously, but not themselves. As artists, they want to showcase you, bridey, and will not pose you like puppets or barbie dolls. Their goal is to capture you + your sig other and your family and friends enjoying the day and each other. Lara and her team are also known for making clients feel extremely at ease and comfortable in front of the camera; something SUPER important if you’re considering a boudoir photo shoot, a wedding, family photos, etc. Being comfortable in front of the camera equates to stunning photographs. Yaaaassss!!!

Today we are talking with Jason Drake, the very funny author of “You Stay Classy, Wedding People”. Jason has been a wedding videographer since 2005, and wrote this hilarious book in an attempt to educate future newlyweds in “what not to do”. Through detailed anecdotes, pop culture references and his offbeat sense of humor, you will have no choice but to learn and enjoy the ride, bridey!

You absolutely don’t want to miss this podcast! We are talking with the insanely funny author Eric Spitznagel. Eric is a frequent contributor to publications like Playboy, The New York Times Magazine, Esquire, Rolling Stone, Maxium, Vanity Fair, Men's Health, The Believer, Bloomberg Businessweek and several others. Eric wrote an article that I am OB SES SED with called, Marriage Secrets from Prostitutes. And while Eric written several articles about relationships, this one in particular grabbed my attention because it’s an incredibly cool perspective. The very first line of the article?: “There's an old saying: “If you treated your wife like your hooker, you’d have the world's strongest marriage.”

Deb, Nathan and Kerri chat with Lindsay and Tyler - a real couple in the throes of planning their dream wedding.

The most epic Bitchless Bride podcast ever! Recorded live at Boston Magazine's Bubbly Brunch, Deb, Nathan and Kerri talk with a fun and sometimes weird cast of professionals and brides-to-be. Stay Bitchless!

Today we are talking with divorce attorney Matt Barach. Matt specializes in helping couples break up and divide their shit. You’re probably wondering why the hell we’re talking to a divorce attorney on a wedding podcast, and I don’t blame you. But, sadly, the statistics are against you, bridey, and I am desperate to understand why, and help YOU understand why. So, I am going to ask an expert his opinions on why couples divorce, and what leads them to his office. •Divorce attorneys help couples settle their disputes, their grievances, and help them end the marriage… •“We talk to millennials, they might not know When Harry Met Sally, you’re just older!” Dave: “How did this turn into an insult?” Deb: “I don’t know, it just did!” It’s cheaper to keep her!!!??? •The flip side of marriage is divorce.

Today we are talking with the executive editor of Offbeat Bride, Catherine Clark. If you’re in the mood to be inspired in a way that rocks a totally different feel than your conventional wedding planning inspiration, then be prepared to be blown away Offbeat Bride. Offbeat Bride is so much more than kickass bridal candy. It’s about reality; real life. Real couples, real weddings and real different than what you’re used to seeing. Plus Offbeat offers a tremendous about of wedding planning advice strewn throughout the site. •We’re seeing so many different possibilities. It really runs the gamut… if you want a large wedding, a small wedding, gay, straight, whatever you are whoever you are and whoever you’re marrying, there’s a celebration for you. Looking at OBB we can help you get there, and it doesn’t mean that you have to wear white and fit in this particular box… We have to be inclusive, we’re all in it together, people! •People are blending in (to their weddings) what works for them. But, with the blend comes a lot of choice, and sometimes having too many choices is really difficult. •If you’re going cookie-cutter, it’s a waste of time now. There are so many options and you can do whatever you want, so why would you go cookie-cutter? •Trying to be different in a way that is not authentic to you can be really trying and can take a lot of time. •Listen as we answer a juicy + difficult “Dear Bitchless."

Don’t just get THROUGH your wedding planning, bridey. Rock it! Talk about your feelings! Today we are talking with Dr. Jocelyn Charnas. Dr. Charnas is a Ph.D., and is a licensed clinical psychologist. She treats adults with anxiety, depression, phase-of-life and adjustment issues, and specializes in interpersonal and relationship issues. While Deborah is known as the “Wedding Whisperer”, Dr. Charnas is known as the “Wedding Doctor”. She’s contributed to articles featured in The New York Times, Glamour, Huffington Post, etc. Dr. Charnas has said that, “Weddings and marriage are among the most transformative decisions of our lives, when we're changing and growing it can come along with some hurt.” ‘Trust me, bridey, you definitely don’t want to miss this one! Listen and learn!

In Season 2 Episode 2 of Bitchless Bride the Podcast, Deb, Nathan and Kerri talk to Steven and Bruce about their fabulous gay marriage + wedding, “theme” songs, what’s legal in 11 states, a new euphemism for sex, and how the “permission would come from Bruce and the pass would come from Tom Brady” (pun absolutely intended!), and SO SO SO much more! This one is steamy and honest, don’t miss it!

In the season 2 opener of Bitchless Bride the Podcast, Deb, Nathan and Kerri dive into Deborah’s marriage with her husband and guest, Chris. They talk about their wedding in Vegas, how Deb is not afraid to go to bed angry, why it’s called a “job” for a reason and how something was missing in their relationship. Feel free to crawl into their marriage, and enjoy an over the top “What Went Wrong” segment and a juicy “Dear Bitchless” about Mother in Law Mayhem in the fantastic season opener!

Listen to Deb & Kerri talk with award-winning photographer Jill Person of Person & Killian Photography -- and award-winning videographer George Horemotis of SH Videography.

Deb, Nathan and Kerri are joined by friends-of-the-show Lexi, Anthony and Brett as the gang wraps up a marathon podcast session playing the hysterical game "That's What She Said" and delving into whether romance blooms at the gym.

Forget about what society expects you to do! Deb, Nathan and Kerri are joined by sweethearts Tony and Lexi, who committed to raising a child and buying a house BEFORE planning a wedding. Also a rather shocking installment of What Went Wrong.

Want a kick-ass wedding? Build it one rental item at a time! Stephanie Solomon of Peak Event Services joins Deb, Kerri and Nathan recorded LIVE at Deb's home. Listen to all the tips and enjoy a rapid fire game of wedding movie trivia!

Happy New Year! Deb, Nathan and Kerri tie up some loose knots from 2018 and discuss the ultimate marriage proposals.

Bridey, forget a Perfect Body on Your Wedding Day! Instead, focus on getting HEALTHY for your wedding, and beyond. Deb, Nathan and Kerri are joined by personal trainers Brett Franciosi + Anthony Passamonte, serving tips on getting healthy + staying inspired. They’re live from Deb’s house (which was serving too many glasses of prosecco and tequila).

Deb, Nathan and Kerri chat with Michelle DeVoe of Demiche Beaute to talk about creating the best version of YOU bridey for your big day. Also, a fart-tastic installment of What Went Wrong?!

Nom nom nom! Deb and the gang chat with Jenny Williamson of Jenny's Wedding Cakes, creator of "extraordinary confectionary delights, delivered with extraordinary customer service." Also, the tale of the one bride who is everything that is wrong in the world.

Deb is joined by Lillian Hung of Lyra Vega Bridal to discuss a modern method for finding the ideal wedding dress without busting your budget or losing your sh*t! Also, a quizzically cool installment of Popping Questions.

Deb and fill-in sidekick Kerri are joined by Mara Weiner of Allure Invitations to discuss everything you need to know about how and when to send your invitations out. Also, the gang plays a raucous new game, Popping Questions!

Deb and Nathan are joined by ... DEB'S MOM? Yes, real-estate broker extraordinaire Lynn Cohen of Keller Williams joins the show to talk about how to handle the chaos that can come from planning a wedding AND buying a house at the same time.

Deb and Nathan are joined by planner-to-the-stars Amy KImball who shares keys to a wedding budget; reveals her celebrity crushes and tells the tale of one wedding that averted disaster with barely a second to spare. Also, what happens when your wedding guests get violently ill? A gut-wrenching edition of What Went Wrong?

Wedding planner David DiCicco Of Marc Hall Design shares the love with Deb and Nathan as he reveals tales of both bridal horror and glory. Also, the gang hears from a frantic bride in an installment of What Went Wrong?!

Deb and Nathan get bitchless with Paula Marrero, a planner who earned her stripes working with Todd English. On her own since 2005, Paula chats about the best ways to work with a wedding consultant. Also, a hilarious installment of What Went Wrong!?

Deb and Nathan score an interview with the Grande Dame of wedding bloggers, Kat Williams of Rock n Roll Bride. Kat shares her story of success; trends in 2018 weddings and reveals a shocker: did a couple really have sex during a wedding shoot?

In their inaugural pod, Deb and Nathan are joined by Danielle Duane, the Director of Wedding Sales at Boston Magazine. The gang shares wedding war stories, reveals trends in wedding planning and talks about nightmares in an edition of What Went Wrong.