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Whew chile, we are getting into it ya'll. We all know and potentially have lived it. We've begun using this word in damn near everything regarding relationships, dating, situationships, etc. Toxic, Toxicity. Relationships and dating in 2021. This is a 4 part series of episodes where we'll be touching on particular subtopics within toxicity in relationships. Dive in hunny, we've got guests, and we're turning it up.

Are you invited? This week we discuss invitations to the moves. whether that be dating or cool friend vibes. Do you like to ask or be asked? Formal, informal Large outings or small? Activity dates or dinner dates? Lets get into it.

In this episode we use the term 'mask off' as a double entendre. Literally a new mandate allowing the covid face masks to come off. Additionally what this pandemic may have revealed you to about yourself and or those around you. Join in the discussion

Hey ya'll hey, on this episode we're talking about sex as a taboo. Would you agree that it is? So many ironies associated around sex, the stigma of sex, and so on. Sex for men, sex for women, and just how sexual you should or shouldn't be. Lets talk about it.

Hey ya'll Hey, did you miss us? We always miss ya'll, but we're back and its a good one. What are you waiting for? We've all encountered this demon at some point in our lives. Whether it be business or personal, we all know procrastination. It haunts some of us more than others, but what can we do about it. Dive into this episode as we discuss the types of procrastinators, the main issue, and some ways to correct them.

Hey y'all Hey, dropping them like hot cakes, we're back with a topic on the "grey area" of relationships. You know, but you don't know. You like someone, and they may like you too, but there's some hesitancy. Why?, you ask. How can you change it? What do certain things mean? Well, tap in to this episode and hear what we've got to say about it.

Hey y'all hey, the weather has been warming up, covid vaccines are on the scene, and people are ready to get outside. Summer time is here again. Are you ready? Mentally, physically, emotionally, how are you preparing yourself for your moves or non moves this summer. Tap in and hear our thoughts.

A little late to the party, but welcome to our wrap up episode of Black History Month, which coincides with my partners BIRTHDAY!!!!!! ooowww oowww!! No guests on this one, just your two favorite ladies discussing some brief black history (black history is everyday for us), and jumping right into our preparations for my girls Bday! Tune on in!

Hey ya'll hey, we keep it going on a more serious note, as we dive into the Complexion Complex known as Colorism. In many cultures we are plagued with the European standard of beauty that "light is right" or better. Unfortunately we have perpetuated these standards of beauty to the detriment of our people. Lets have a conversation.

Hey ya'll hey, we back up off the serious note a little and tap into some good convo with guests. The do's and don't to telling your secrets to friends. We had two of our good homies join us in this discussion. Are you someone who keeps secrets? Are there things you'll go to your grave with? Do the same rules apply to a lover, as they do a friend? Tap in to hear our thoughts.

Hey ya'll hey, we keep it going on a more serious note, as we dive into the Complexion Complex known as Colorism. In many cultures we are plagued with the European standard of beauty that "light is right" or better. Unfortunately we have perpetuated these standards of beauty to the detriment of our people. Lets have a conversation.

Hey ya'll hey, this episode we tap into politics. It's been a hell of a ride these last 4 years, and we've been given another chief of commander. With history being made as not only the first woman VP, but black woman at that. We've got some things to untangle for their first week in office.

On this episode we dive into submission and it's meanings. Do we all submit in one way or another? Should the man or woman be more submissive? Can being vulnerable also be a form of submission? Take a listen to our first episode of 2021, and give us your feedback.

This episode we're finally back in the recording studio and of course we're talking about the pandemic. 2020 has been quite the year, and we've all been trying to stay ten toes down through the whirlwind. Join us, as we chat about our mental, physical, emotional, and financial states, and share some tips with you.

Hey Hey Hey, back at it again with another episode. Doubling back on out Love Lust and Like topic from 2019. We featured a group of ladies to dive into the female prospective of these 3 words. We decided to revisit the topic with some of male friends for the 2020. Press play and hear what these fellas had to say about Love Lust and Like. Make sure you double back to the original episode from last year to hear the difference.

Hey Hey Hey, back with us for another episode, Episode 17. - Relationships vs situtionships featuring the HoodChef, Val Jones. We all feel like situationships have become a thing. This idea where titles don't matter, only a connection, but this also leaves a lot of room for "error" and/or miscommunication. Grab your beverage and a snack, and enjoy our communication about the topic.

Welcome to a New Decade. Welcome to 2020! We're into another year and still dropping for you all. We welcome another male guest as we talk about entering the new year. What blessings we're manifesting and what things we're simply leaving where they are. Enjoy us and our good friend Val in kicking the year off right.

This Episode we take a walk into some of the things that disrupt communication within the black relationship. Titled "Are You Her?", coming from a perspective of black women being combative an often time embodying the myth of the "angry black women" when communicating with our men. We tackle ways to understand each other on an intimate level, and moving forward.

This Episode we dive in to living a healthy lifestyle during the holiday season. We know it can be tough around the end of the year. Multiple holidays back to back, which means a lot of love, laughter, and good times with good people, but also a lot of good eating. So listen in as we discuss some tips and tricks to keep you on track with your bawdy goals while still enjoying some of your favorites.

This episode we get into the relationship realm with how to get over getting out of one. From eating ice cream on the couch, to getting out and pursuing you wildest dreams. There are multiple ways to get over a break up and keep your dignity an integrity. Press play and enjoy the different options explored.

After a 6 mo hiatus, WE ARE BACK!!! Dropping a spicy episode for yall like we never left. We get right into it with "does size matter?". We all know this is one of those topics that can go on and on. Nevertheless we had specific points we needed and wanted to clue yall in on. Sit Back, relax, and enjoy hearing the voices of your favorite ladies and lingerie again!

In preparation for the change of weather and the want to be in the mix, we step into the conversation of traveling. Domestic or International? By train, plane, bus or car? What are some of the things you consider before, during, and after taking a trip? These are just a few of the topics discussed during this episode. We invited the lovely Jasmine, CEO/Owner of a travel blog called "Traveling through a Wine Glass Half Full". Grab a pen and take notes on the gems she'll be dropping regarding your travel itineraries. We do not own the rights to the intro music used.

Dating can be quick and easy for some, or slow and hard for others. Nevertheless many of us can say we have our dating 'do's' and 'don'ts'. Enjoy jokes on jokes on this episode titled Dating Etiquette, featuring Philadelphia comedian Chris Cotton and his homegirl Erin, whom we refer to as 'Cashew'.

Money, money, money...we spend MONEYYY! Listen closely on how to save for wealth versus excessive spending like the "rich". Featuring guest Account Cecily Johnson. She fills us in on ways we can accomplish these things. Both individually, and as a community. Get into this financial literacy with us. We're dropping some knowledge.

Hey Hey Good People, back with another episode, but this one is a little special. Your girls had some things in the works so unfortunately we weren't able to record a fresh episode for you all. HOWEVER, don't ever count us out. We got a Bloopers episode here for you all, with some of our funny outtakes in the past. Listen to the shenanigans that gets recorded but never heard by the people. ENJOY!

Back at it again, an we're talking about Shooting Shots. Have you ever had to curve/block a shot? Have you shot your shot to an individual an it was a Slam Dunk? In this episode we cover all bases on how to shoot, curve, and slam dunk that bih in our own wild ways! Featuring some dope male guests. These are situations that anybody single, dating, and/or in a relationship can relate too. Enjoy!

Your favorite LadiesNLingerie are back with another one. We usually drop every other Sunday, but wanted to give you all some good vibes to close out this year. We discuss where we were in life immediately after college, and how we got to where we are now. Journeys that did not go the way we planned them, but happy where they took us. Have a beverage and reflect with us and we prepare to enter a new year with a better us.

Piggybacking off of last weeks episode, we decided to continue in the relationship aspect of things by discussing Love, Like, and Lust. When you hear these words, how do you relate to them? How do you interact with them within your experiences with yourself and/or someone else? With some featured guest to give a winder perspective of things, lets dive in with the girls. Enjoy!

Back at it again with the 5 senses for that ass. Often times we believe people neglect to really tap into all of their senses with intention. we explore the 5 senses one-by-one, and expand on how they are incorporated into the 5 love languages. PRESS PLAY!

This is a topic we just knew people have experienced including ourselves. However most don't want to talk about, but it's no worry, we got ya'll. Listen as Miss Blanco shares her personal experience with wishing she had met the friend first. While Lil Clappas hasn't been that particular scenario, she has some friends stories of her own to share. Tune IN!

Episode 2 for that ass! Starting slow, but picking up the pace a little bit. We came back to discuss 'Types' with you all. We wanted to explore having a 'type' in terms of dating, and how having a type can effect your dating life and/or relationships in both positive and negative ways. Depending on how you look at it. Enjoy!

This episode is our first episode. We wanted to keep it simple and give you all a little information about who we are as women, why we decided to create this podcast, and the type of platform it will be. Stay tuned for the visuals coming in episode 3. Things are going to get spicy.