What do you want in life? Not what your parents, friends, society, or even a less authentic version of yourself thinks you want -- what do YOU truly want, and why do you want it? This is the burning question that we, Stephanie Tonneson and Rachel Cyr, want to ask everyone we meet. And each time we do, we usually find that -- if we dig deep enough -- most of us all want the same things.
"Love is not about understanding someone. Love is about showing up, even—and especially—when you do not understand."
John Tonneson (my Dad) knew he was about to die. Still, he felt at peace.
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What is it like for people twenty years apart to be grappling with the same life questions? When we sat on the floor of Karim's airbnb in Joshua Tree, CA, he and his friend, Jonah, told us.
What is it like to immigrate from Mexico, raise ten kids, and become an 82 year-old shopkeeper? When we sat on the floor of his roadside antique store in Santa Anna, TX, Francisco told us.
What is it like to have other people's lives in your hands every day--literally? When we sat on the floor of our airbnb in New Orleans, LA, Singh told us.
What is it like to open your home up to everyone you meet? When we sat on the floor of her house, The Bywater Wonderland, in New Orleans, LA, Stacy Hoover told us.
What is it like to give up on a goal and achieve it eight years later? When we sat on the floor of his girlfriend's house in Atlanta, GA, Dylan Schutte told us.
What is it like to be celebrated for your appearance and still wish you looked different? When we sat on the floor of her house in Atlanta, GA, Claire Di Meglio told us.
What is it like to turn strangers into chosen family? When we sat on the floor of Steady Eddy's Pumphouse in Matthews, NC, Travis, Stick, and Sarah told us.
What's it like to hate your prestigious, high-paying job? When we sat on the floor of the office space in his apartment complex on Wall Street, [Anonymous] told us.
What's it like to question a belief you were raised on? When we sat on the floor of her apartment in New York City, Jenny, former member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, told us.
What's it like to give everything to your dream? When we sat on the floor of her restaurant, Moonshine 152, in Boston, MA, Asia Mei told us.
What's it like to realize what's most important to you after losing your life's work? When we sat on the floor of her restaurant, La Bodega, in Watertown, MA, Analia Verolo told us.
What is it like to walk across America, write a book about it, and then discover the deeper, more psychological reasons why you did it? When we sat on the floor of his friend's barn in Freeport, ME, Andrew Forsthoefel, author of "Walking to Listen," told us.
On Season 2, Stephanie Tonneson and Rachel Cyr take a month-long cross-country roadtrip, where they sit on the floor with people they meet (and people they know) and ask them about some of the most transformative moments of their lives.
Steph quit her job. Now she's moving across the country.
Adriana Borra grew up in three European countries. Then she came to America.
Princess Nostalgia used to share her innermost thoughts on social media. Then she deleted it.
Margit Burgess had her whole life planned out. Then she graduated.
Rachel Greene was working a job she hated. Then she quit.
Devin Mauch was “married to the band.” Then he left.
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