So... Let's Talk About It Podcast

We unpacked a lot in part one of this episode! We shared about a multitude of topics and taboo truths about momming from pregnancy terminations to maternal fears, infertility, sisterly support. Our first guest feature is our sisters, Alontá and Tunisa, two moms, one a mom of two, and the other a mom of a now 9 month old.In part two, we talk birth stories, sex after baby, work after baby, finding yourself after baby, and so much more!You're going to want to grab your wine for this one, I promise.Follow Alonté -- @alonta.zakia | Follow Tunisia -- @mrs_dani.gadHave questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

So... It's LADIES NIGHT!Our first guest feature is our sisters, Alonté and Tunisa, two moms, one a mom of two, and the other a mom of an 8 month old.In part one, we share about a multitude of topics and taboo truths about momming from pregnancy terminations to maternal fears, infertility, sisterly support, pre and post partum, birth stories and more.You're going to want to grab your wine for this one, I promise.Follow Alonté -- @alonte.zakia | Follow Tunisia -- @mrs_dani.gadHave questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

Let's talk about MONEY AGAIN!!We've already acknowledged that there are three MAJOR things that are destroying relationships: Money, Sex, & Communication.This week we talk about MONEY based on a book that we've been reading and studying called: "8 Money Decisions for Every Couple" by Russ Crosson.In this book, they break down the BREAKDOWN  and reasoning most people have difficulty talking about, communicating about and dealing with MONEY and the different ways we see it.This week we tackle the conversations around Who Pays the Bills, Setting Budgets, Debt Accumulation, Investing, & Giving and how to communicate about it ALL!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

Let's talk about MONEY! We've already acknowledged that there are three MAJOR things that are destroying relationships: Money, Sex, & Communication.This week we talk about MONEY based on a book that we've been reading and studying called: "In this book, they break down the BREAKDOWN  and reasoning most people have difficulty talking about, communicating about and dealing with MONEY and the different ways we see it. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

After being together since 2013, we've had our fair share of changes and adjustments but the biggest one would come when we found out that we'd be expecting our first child after celebrating our 2nd wedding anniversary. Our greatest joy in life has been our son but this week we chat about if we were actually ready for all the things that parenthood came with and how we've adjusted to our new roles and how parenthood had changed all of our current roles too..Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

Let's be honest, we have all had those moments where we feel like "THEY don't support me"... whether in business, an idea, a new venture, college, relationships, etc., they don't support me, but have we ever stopped to think about what our actual support needs are? Like WHAT does "SUPPORT" actually look like for me? Is it a shared post, showing up, or a pat on the back?Is the problem that our expectation is a reflection of how we show up for others? Is it that we have a want but don't actually voice our needs to feel supported? What about the moments where life changes and we are no longer on the same paths, you don't support this version of me...This week we talk about support and how we can learn how to effectively voice what our needs are to the people around us!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

Of all the things to call us, spoiled, entitled, but BROKE? Millennials have been called many things but recent studies have shown that our generation has become the brokest generation living but somehow, at the same time, the richest?  There's a wealth gap to be discussed but it's not just a racial gap, is there a millennial wealth gap? Being "broke" might be the biggest underlying issue facing us if this statement deems true.     In this episode we unpack the narrative surrounding millennial finances and the long term effects of what we are doing and what we know and don't know.Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

Compatible  or Nah? Compatibility has so many different connotations & in this episode we talk about our views on compatibility and the importance of having the right conversations about the things you need from relationships to determine if you're in the right relationships, friendships, business partnerships, etc. In this episode we reference some compatibility topics to discuss and a few quizzes to take in order to dig deeper into your personality type for self clarity and a opportunity to better your communication of your views, to learn from and to grow from. Love Languages Quiz16 Personality Types Quiz Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

So remember we were college sweethearts right?But was the actual college experience really necessary for us?  If you could, would you go back and choose another route?In this episode we break down the good and the bad of our collegiate experience. We discuss the flaws of the system, the things we wish happened for us as well as the benefits and some of our favorite moments during our college years -- of course the best one being, BECOMING, The Garrisons. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

As Millennials, we've been around for the entire social media development, from MySpace and Blackplanet to IG and TikTok.In this episode we discuss both the benefits and the dangers social media offers and how we've personally navigated through them. As individuals who've built a business utilizing connections made through social media, we truly value it, but has it become TOXIC AF? Does social media create pressure to succeed or motivation? Does it make you compare yourself to the people you look up to or evaluate how you can develop yourself?Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

Has something ever happened to you in your adult life and you felt triggered and didn't know why you were so upset, anxious, sad, annoyed, etc.? In this episode, we talk about how significant moments in our lives shape the person we become over time, who we are, how we are, and most importantly, HOW WE LOVE! We talked about the love styles we uncovered in the book, "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich -- take the Love Style Quiz! We want to hear who  you are! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives! FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

In the first episode, we're bringing you up to speed on who we are and how we became -- the Garrisons, how we met in college and became best friends and now married 4 years, business partners and brand new parents and how we've survived a few major life transitions!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives! https://www.patreon.com/soletstalkaboutitpod?fan_landing=trueFOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

It's OFFICIAL OFFICIAL! The Garrisons? A Podcast? Absolutely! Join Malcolm and Brittany Garrison as they unpack their life transitions and the effects they have on millennials, creating open dialogue and challenging perspectives on topics like relationships, entrepreneurship, parenthood, communication, finances, and so much more! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

Because WHO knew your purpose changed?! In this clip of episode 14, we discuss an excerpt from “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida (Chapter 12) where he talks about the fulfillment of multiple purposes. In our season of pivoting, change and understanding that change, this gave us so much perspective and understanding to learn that when desires for certain things change, it could simply be that you've fulfilled that assignment, you've fulfilled that purpose and NOT that you've failed. Plus, you've been equipped with tools and skills for your next purpose. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

This episode will take us through a journey of us unpacking a very necessary discussion about PIVOTing in life... should I start OVER? Can I start OVER? Last year we felt an energy that was in the atmosphere of people wanting to SHIFT and as 2022 has unfolded, turns out, we were definitely right. This is the episode where we have put into words what we feel and what we feel like most people might be going through. So sit tight and join us in a discussion about the reasons one should consider pivoting, the completion of purposes, 8 tips for getting through change and what it looks like good or bad through our own perspectives, and experiences. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

In this clip we unpack the idea of discovering your self worth. Why are we programmed to downplay what we want in order to appease other people or is it something deeper? Sometimes we know what we want in life but we do not know who to become in order to receive it. Either way the conversation has to be had. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

In this clip from episode 13, we chat about how we found a way to start figuring out where we were headed, what we wanted to do and most importantly how to IDENTIFY WHO WE ARE throughout all of our transitioning and self discovery.Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

We're BACK for Season 2 of the Podcast and we're opening up about IDENTITY.When it comes to identity, are we in an identity crisis, is it an identity shift, are we every shifting?In this episode, we break down our thoughts on finding ourselves as individuals after finding our identities within each other, within our titles, and within fulfilling our work and being left with the same question, WHO AM I?Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle@malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodRemember to RATE, REVIEW, COMMENT, LIKE, & SHARE! 

In this episode, we have our great friends De'el and Quiana Woods on the show to talk all things marriage. We deep dive into how they met, the challenges of being married so young, how to make marriage and business work, parenthood, and... a THROUPLE? and a bunch of LESSONS learned along the way in the 12 years they've been married!This is the #MarriageChronicles... the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! This was an entertaining but yet necessary conversation that most would never talk about!Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodFOLLOW our Guests on Instagram -- De'el Quiana

In this clip we talk about what marriage truly means and the importance of the Vows each couple has made under God. Do we really know what all this is about? Are ppl marrying for love or for convenience? Either way we dissect it in this episode clip…

We've all heard about how men do not express themselves, and sometimes that's true. Women always ask questions like, “what is he THINKING”. However, there's never been a true space for men to feel comfortable enough expressing themselves… not until we create the space ourselves.So we did just that, we brought our brothers Alex and Cory on the show to talk about it! Take the ride with us on this conversation where we discuss mental health, marriage, finances, relationships and more. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodFollow Alex | Follow Cory

As we talk about change, identifying new layers of purpose, patience through changes and sometimes grieving the way things were, we thought it was important to give some tips on how to deal with and get through change. In our episode research, we came across these tips and they were so relevant and they've helped us with the navigation through change.Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

In this clip we talk about how to effectively build businesses with your partner and even some of the challenges that we've had to work through as couples in business. Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodFOLLOW our Guests on Instagram -- De'el Quiana

If you want her to initiate sex, Take Her on Vacation if you want the freak to show up

Episode 21 comes from a wild and raunchy IG live we did where we deep dive into intimacy of a relationship, how men and women differ when it comes to communicating... what's real and what's fake.But according to a post from Dana Chanel that every man sent to their woman about the WEAPONIZING of sex... do women really do that, is it really "weaponizing", does it make relationships more complicated? Men and women have very different perspectives, but it's important to hear both sides because the truth lies somewhere in between and it wasnt just us and our opinions but those of the individuals in the comments so you will def hear us reading some of them for context.Sit back, relax and get a bottle of wine while we unpack the very controversial topic that everybody seems to miss lol Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

Tonight is GameNight for us where we play We're Not Really Strangers (COUPLES EDITION) and discuss any topic that comes from our game cards. Most of which is to help us understand each other better and connect on a deeper level. Some questions took us down memory lane lol and some almost started something else lol. Either way we deep dive in everything relationship, communication, sex & more.Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

I don't think any man plans the day he has children but rather would like it to be on his terms. Fatherhood not only changes a man but it teaches him invaluable lessons that he can't get anywhere else.Are men ever ready? Do they want their son to be just like them? Or would they rather raise a girl instead ? We unpack it all in this weeks episode clip.

Now this episode is definitely more raunchy, raw and entertaining but INFORMATIVE to ppl who want to learn how men think and how they are feeling within relationships. More conversation around family dynamics, intimacy, sex and marital peaks and valleys are all apart of the dialogue. So take the journey while 3 millennial men express what really happens in barbershop conversation ! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

We had an eye opening conversation around discovering our money personalities within the relationship. A topic most people have never had with their family, friends or spouse. Sometimes it's important to compare differences in order to learn why people operate they way they do. Whether you are single, in a relationship or just hanging with friends, this topic is an important discussion to have, especially if we want to communicate more effectively. Take a ride with us as we unpack the FIVE Money Personalities based on the book by Scott and Bethany Palmer and if you hear one that relates to you don't forget to work on the others, because nobody has the perfect trait. Take the Money Personality Quiz here!Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

SO... What happens after the guys have guy talk and reconvene with their wives? THIS! The men were already on a roll after filming their episode, so the women had to give their perspective too!This episode is literally the AFTERMATH of what happens when we all get together and talk about relationship and the differences of men vs women. We talk sex, what is intimacy, and how women and men differ in those areas.I hope y'all ready cause this is an #AfterDark episode, a conversation most ppl won't have in public but we're here for it! Here's a true inside listen into what it's like in our friend group every time we link up! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

As three millennial married men who grew up with our fathers, we talk about how what we saw and how we saw our fathers support our families shaped what we "thought" being a husband and a father was and what we learned or had to un-learn to support our own.Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!FOLLOW US on Instagram - - @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpodFollow Alex on Instagram -- Follow Cory on Instagram

It's never easy dealing with issues that your loved ones experience, especially Mental Health and Mental Illnesses. There are moments in our lives where we become triggered by events, conversation or moments in your life and not sure why or where the root of it comes from.In this episode, Malcolm opens up for the first time about how his brothers struggle with mental illness changed him and how he'd never dealt with any of the feelings or thoughts in regards to it and became numb to it. This episode really peels back some of the layers of the hurt we've never even talked about when you cant control the things that happen to the people that you love.Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

We never thought one of our greatest life moments would also include a bit of fear and anxiety because we'd have to go through life and raise a black man. In this episode we talk about what both excited and worries us about raising a black son in todays world but also the things we want to teach him based on what we've learned and the things we experienced growing up.Join the Better Finance Academy WAITLIST to be FIRST to know when we launch!Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode!Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives!Watch the podcast on YouTube‼️FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

In this clip we discuss how intimacy and vulnerability can provide clarity in understanding if she's the one for you!

Women always want to know THIS: WHY has he NOT committed... why hasn't he proposed and given me a RING?In this clip, Malcolm drops 3 reasons he thinks a man that hasn't committed to his woman, hasn't.Britt challenges the perspective heavily.Do you agree? Who's side are you leaning on?