Podcasts about how we love

Have you considered that the recent argument you had with your spouse began long before you ever got married? Walking down the aisle on your wedding day, you see the person that you love and are attracted to, but you may not realize that in that moment, two histories are colliding.  In effect, you are marrying your partner's brain. This means that all of your (and their) previous experiences with love, closeness, connection, hurt, relational expectations and ways of seeking comfort are like pre-programmed software that you will both need to learn about. It also means that your history and everything that's shaped you, is going to be operating in the background of all of your interactions.  The bottom line is that how you learned to love when you were growing up will be the way you love when you are married.  Using the 5 Love Styles from the book “How We Love” by Kay and Milan Yerkovich, Shay and Lynn discuss how each of these love styles developed in your childhood are impacting your relationship today. This enlightening conversation offers insight into the defensive patterns you might see in your marriage, and what to do when your two histories collide.  How We Love Love Style Quiz If you liked this episode, text it to a friend! And please consider rating WYITW on your podcast player and leave the team a review. You can subscribe to our newsletter at withyouintheweeds.com and follow us on Instagram @withyouintheweeds!

The way we are brought up has a significant influence on the way we form attachments with others. There are few relationships in which this is as pronounced or as obvious as marriage. Kay and Milan Yerkovich, authors of the breakthrough book, “How We Love”, want to empower couples to become more aware of the ways in which their early years formed them, and to acquire the skills to develop secure attachments for healthy, long-lasting relationships.     Guests: Kay and Milan Yerkovich   Book: How We Love by Kay and Milan Yerkovich Website: howwelove.com Instagram: @howwelovebook   Get your free resource on marriage conflict resolution! Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Send us a text if you enjoyed this episode!In chapter 4 of their book "How We Love", Milan and Kay Yerkovich describe several lessons that if missed may hinder our ability to parent our children and love our mates well. This episode is a discussion about those life lessons and the importance of learning them, especially if they were missed in childhood.

Marriage is an amazing gift. And yet, it can reveal a lot of our weaknesses, vulnerabilities and our growth edges. Today we talk with Chris Bruno about the most common struggles for marriages today and how we can fulfill our greatest desires for deep connection, to be known, and to truly know one another within our marriages.   Chris Bruno is a licensed professional counselor and the founder and CEO of ReStory Counseling and Restoration Project. He, along with Tracy Johnson, are the marriage experts of Thrive Marriage Lab, ReStory Marriage Intensives, and co-hosts of the Thrive Marriage Podcast. He is a colleague of authors, speakers, and counselors like Dr. Dan Allender of The Allender Center, Dr. Curt Thompson of The Anatomy of the Soul, Sheila Wray Gregoire of The Great Sex Rescue, and Milan and Kay Yerkovitch of How We Love. His goal is to help couples stay married and love being married. His team has helped hundreds of couples explore their story, and come to understand and care for one another more deeply.   To connect with Chris Bruno, go to: Website - https://www.restory.life/ Facebook - www.facebook.com/ReStory.Life Instagram - @storyrestored   To find Thrive Marriage Lab go to: Website - https://www.restory.life/thrive Instagram - @ThriveMarriageLab Youtube - @ThriveMarriageLab   FREE 12 Months of Dates - How date nights can lead to connection.  Subscribe here - www.restory.life/thrive-dates   How healthy is your marriage?  Take our FREE marriage assessment here: https://www.restory.life/marriage-assessment   =======================   We LOVE that you've decided to join us this week for the Living Wholehearted Podcast. We hope you enjoyed the conversation, tips, and resources to help you transform every relationship that matters most to you. If you think this will help someone you know, make sure you send it their way or share on socials. Tag us @living_wholehearted and @terramattson! Don't forget to FOLLOW/SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss an episode and help spread the word by leaving us some stars on a review. Thanks for partnering with us to help more leaders, just like you, who want to live and lead with integrity at home, work and in the community.  Go to livingwholehearted.com and sign up to receive our free leadership tips and updates delivered to you in our monthly newsletter.    Don't forget our unique Wholehearted Leadership Cohort opportunities. Applications are open for the next one-year and two-year cohorts. In fact, the Cohort experience might be the very thing that helps you see long-term shifts in your leadership at work and at home. We'd love to come alongside you! Learn more and apply today at www.livingwholehearted.com/cohort.   And, if you're a girl mom, check out mycourageousgirls.com.     Until next time, be the leader you would follow!   Grateful for you, Jeff & Terra   To connect with Jeff & Terra Mattson and Living Wholehearted, go to:   INSTAGRAM @TerraMattson @Living_Wholehearted @MyCourageousGirls   FACEBOOK @WeAreLivingWholehearted @MyCourageousGirls   WEBSITES LivingWholehearted.com TerraMattson.com  MyCourageousGirls.com   RESOURCES Shrinking the Integrity Gap        https://davidccook.org/shrinking-integrity-gap-book/       https://www.livingwholehearted.com/store/books Shrinking the Integrity Gap e-Course        https://www.livingwholehearted.com/e-courses Courageous: Being Daughters Rooted in Grace       https://www.livingwholehearted.com/store/books Dear Mattsons        https://www.christianparenting.org/dearmattsons/ Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters        http://cpguides.org   =======================   The Living Wholehearted Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org  

Welcome to this enlightening episode where Lifeonaire coach Kathy Neubauer unveils a transformative tool that can break the cycle of conflict in couples. Join us as we explore a concept from the book How We Love: the 6 Love Styles. The styles are The Avoider, The Pleaser, The Vacillator, The Controller, The Victim, and The Secure Connector.   Jason and Peter ask Kathy tons of questions about this powerful tool, many of which you might have yourself. By learning you and your partner's styles and what patterns it causes in your own relationship, you'll be amazed at how much deeper understanding of yourself and your partner emerges.   Get ready for an eye-opening exploration of relationship dynamics, paving the way for growth and resolution in your relationship.   Get more life-changing insight on your relationships, your career, EVERYTHING at our Get-A-Life Getaways: Lifeonaire.com/getalife  

Leap Of Faith, Fast And Furious, I Don't Know, Small Talk Haircut, Masterclass, Jesus/Relaxed, Dumping Rich Friends, Psalm 46, When We Were Kids, Forgiveness, How We Love, Anxiety, Good Apologies; Quotes: “Faith is based on knowing things.” “If I know what Jesus knows I'll be relaxed, too.” “I'm a fan of enjoying other people's stuff.” “Forgiveness only takes one person.”

Milan and Kay Yerkovich help you understand how your attachment style impacts they way you relate to stress and how you can use stressful situations as opportunities to grow closer to your spouse.   Receive the book How We Love and the special audio download "Questions to Ask When Stressed" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Have You Lost Hope in Your Marriage? For couples in crisis – you can still put the pieces of your marriage back together with Hope Restored.   Discover the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Greg and Erin Smalley.   Get Milan and Kay's Comfort Circle Guide!   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Milan and Kay Yerkovich help you understand how your attachment style impacts they way you relate to stress and how you can use stressful situations as opportunities to grow closer to your spouse. (Part 2 of 2)   Receive a copy of "How We Love" and audio downloads of "Growing Your Marriage in Times of Stress" and “Questions to Ask When Stressed” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Milan and Kay Yerkovich help you understand how your attachment style impacts they way you relate to stress and how you can use stressful situations as opportunities to grow closer to your spouse. (Part 1 of 2)   Receive a copy of "How We Love" and audio downloads of "Growing Your Marriage in Times of Stress" and “Questions to Ask When Stressed” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Clementine Ford is a podcaster, speaker and feminist activist. She is the bestselling author of the feminist manifestos Fight Like A Girl and Boys Will Be Boys, and her memoir How We Love.  In this wide-ranging conversation, Clem and Chloe talk about their experiences with internalised ableism and receiving their ADHD diagnoses, the quote Clem returns to that motivates her activism, and how she looks after and stays true to herself. LINKS Follow Clem on Instagram and Facebook. Buy Clem's books How We Love, Boys Will Be Boys, and Fight Like A Girl. Follow Chloé on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Facebook, and YouTube. Learn more about Chloé on her website https://www.chloehayden.com.au/. Follow Nova Podcasts on Instagram for videos from the podcast and behind the scenes content – @novapodcastsofficial. CREDITSHost: Chloe HaydenProducer: Amy KimballEditor: Adrian WaltonExecutive Producer: Anna HenvestManaging Producer: Elle Beattie Find more great podcasts like this at novapodcasts.com.au Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we produced this podcast, the Wurundjeri People of the Kulin Nation.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rebecca and Tara welcome Bookstagram friend Trish (@trishtalksbooks) to chat about their next best reads.  Also, check out Trish's blog and subscribe to her newsletter! Trish :  Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer Tell Me Pleasant Things About Immortality by Lindsay Wong The Betrothed by Allessandro Manzoni, translated by Michael F. Moore A Public Space Tara @onabranchreads:  Gathering Moss: A Natural and Cultural History of Mosses by Robin Wall Kimmerer This is How We Love; February by Lisa Moore A Dress Made from Light by Sheri Doyle (Instagram: @the.river.pages) Lostboy: True Story of Captain Hook by Christina Henry Rebecca @canadareadsamericanstyle:  True North Rising: My 50 Year Journey with the Inuit and Dene Leaders Who Transformed Canada's North by Whit Fraser Ted Kennedy: A Life by John A. Farrell Canada Reads American Style is now an affiliate of Bookshop.org, where your purchases support local independent bookstores.  Our curated shop includes books discussed on the podcast.  When you purchase a book through our virtual bookshop, a portion of the sales benefits a local bookstore, as well as the podcast, which helps offset the costs of the show. 

This week we dive into the six Love Styles from the book How We Love. This is a really fascinating topic and we encourage you to take the quiz to determine your love style. In this episode, we discuss the Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, and Controller love styles.Drink of the week:Best Day BrewingBooks we discuss: (Amazon) No More Perfect MarriagesHow we LoveGet Our 5 o'clock somewhere: Alcohol Free EditionGet $5 off your first Go Brewing order!Watch the podcast on YouTube here: Alcohol Free Marriage Podcast VideoOur Website: AFMPodcast.comSchedule your free discovery coaching call with Amy

On this episode of the Melanated Movement Podcast, Tess & Anne are rejoined by a very special guest: Mel! She makes her second appearance on the show since our "How We Love" series - "Conditional Love". This time, we tackle toxicity in relationships; accountability and the many forms intimate relationships take.  Join us as we take a bit of a dive. We laugh; we sigh; inspire thought, and  celebrate the growth within with each other!  * * If you enjoyed this episode, please follow our socials:  IG: @Melanatedmovementpodcast Twitter: @Melanatedmpod * * Give us a quick review and/or rating on your preferred platform. We'd love to hear from you!  As always, please take care of yourselves and each other.  XoXo Tess & Anne 

#8: On today's episode, Han's counselor, Virginia Dixon, founder of R.E.S.T, comes on the podcast to tell her personal story. They talk all things mental health, identifying trauma & your attachment style, the wiring of our central nervous system, and finding rest through self improvement.Virginia is a counselor, thought leader, & the founder of R.E.S.T. It's mission is to help people reason significance, and find significance in reason; displacing confusion, chaos, and dis-ease.She was previously consulted as the Director of of Inner Healing at the Center for New Medicine and Cancer Center for healing in Irvine, California. She also hosts a podcast, R.E.S.T with Virginia Dixon, which is pretty much free therapy.RESOURCES FROM THE INTERVIEW:Take the soul hunger test hereTake the How We Love (attachment style) test hereCONNECT BELOW:follow R.E.S.T herecheck out Virginia's site herecheck out Virginia's podcast hereCONNECT WITH HAN:follow Han herefollow HOW I SEE IT pod herefollow Han on TIK TOK herecheck out Han's blog here

This week on The Gospel Jubilee Chip and Denny will be once again sharing their top 10 picks of the most popular requested Southern Gospel songs for the month of February. Here are all of the ways you can listen to the Gospel Jubilee On your Echo device say, Alexa, play the Gospel Jubilee on Apple podcast. For a direct download go to: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/52828519/download.mp3 Ocean Waves Radio ... every Wednesday at 12 noon Eastern time., www.OceanWavesRadio.com Thursday afternoons at 4:00 PM and Sunday mornings at 9:30 AM EST on Southern Branch Bluegrass Radio, www.sbbradio.org Saturday evenings at 7:00 and Wednesday afternoons at 4:00 CST on Radio For Life, www.RadioForLife.org Legend Oldies Radio. Our broadcast will be aired every Sunday morning at 9:00 AM CDT. https://www.legendoldies.com Playlist: Artists |Song Title | Album 01. The Isbell Family - A great day to live in - "Change The World" 02. The Mylon Hayes Family - Carry the glorious Gospel - "Steady & Sure" 03. The Whisnants - He won't stay gone - "Been Blessed" 04. Brian Free & Assurance - Liar, liar - "Meet Me At The cross EP" 05. Jeff & Sheri Easter - Here comes Jesus - "Treasure" 06. The Williamsons - Message to the world - "Above Everything" 07. The Kramers - Sing me there - "Sing Me There" 08. The Booth Brothers - Room full of stories - "Speak Jesus" 09. Scotty Inman - Love one another - "Anywhere Jesus Is" 10. Triumphant Quartet - Mercy - "Hymns & Worship" 11. The Perrys - Tell the grave - "John 3:16" 12. The Old Paths - Music to your ears - "Music To Your Ears" 13. Ashley Franks - The truth is - "Heart & Song EP" 14. Mark Lowry and Jimmy Yeary and Sonya Isaacs Yeary - Old people - "How We Love" 15. Greater Vision - Older people - "Think About Their" 16. The Nelons - Scars in heaven - "Scars In Heaven - Single" 17. Joseph Habedank - Judas - "Change Is Coming" 18. Tim Lovelace - Bridge day - "Moments That Motivate" 19. Karen peck & New River - The keepers - "2_22" 20. 11th Hour - He proved me wrong again - "He Proved Me Wrong Again - Single" 21. The Hyssongs - Hope wins - "Hope Wins" 22. The Guardians - Not for long - "Come On In" Outro – Carrol and Donna Roberson – Happy Trails

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In this very special episode, we sat down with Bob and Dani Collins, the parents of Jon Collins from the Bible Project, to talk about their extremely vulnerable story. Bob and Dani were married for 35 years before a crisis broke up their marriage. By the grace of God and through the power of forgiveness and reconciliation, the two were able to repair their marriage. Tune in to hear how the two find healing as they learn how to love each other again. One of the major tools the Collins' used to save their marriage was the book, How We Love, which our church will be talking about at our relationship seminar in February 2023. To learn more about this event, visit our church website, or click here. Native Exiles, a podcast from Alderwood Community Church, where we talk about following Jesus in the tension of being in the world but not of it. We want to help you think through how to walk with Jesus in a world that is seemingly walking the opposite direction. We want to equip you to engage the world without disengaging from Jesus.For more questions and inquiries, reach us at reachus@amcc.org or visit us on our website at nativeexiles.com.

Now in the middle of Cancer Awareness month, Kiki Athanas rejoins the R.E.S.T. podcast to divulge on the "Anatomy of Descent" in disordered eating and the physical manifestations of the unreconciled conflict the food related habits were created to cover. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/restevents (R.E.S.T.™ Events) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/As-man-Thinketh-Original-Wisdom/dp/B08W7DWHSS/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1AUKOW10ZI65V&keywords=as+a+man+thinketh&qid=1650606341&sprefix=as+a+man+thinketh%2Caps%2C138&sr=8-1 (As A Man Thinketh by James Allen) Where to Find Kiki https://www.kikiathanas.com/about (Website) https://www.instagram.com/kiki_athanas/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/groups/dietswingingsolutions (Facebook) https://my.captivate.fm/kiki@mebykiki.com (Email) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Contributing to our Addiction series, Kiki Athanas, a personal coach helping women overcome 'disordered eating', discusses those roots and why R.E.S.T. is key to healing. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/restevents (R.E.S.T.™ Events) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/As-man-Thinketh-Original-Wisdom/dp/B08W7DWHSS/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1AUKOW10ZI65V&keywords=as+a+man+thinketh&qid=1650606341&sprefix=as+a+man+thinketh%2Caps%2C138&sr=8-1 (As A Man Thinketh by James Allen) Where to Find Kiki https://www.kikiathanas.com/about (Website) https://www.instagram.com/kiki_athanas/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/groups/dietswingingsolutions (Facebook) Email Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Casey Crimmins and Jonathan Boyce rejoin Virginia to expound on the historic cycle of reformation and transformation in"The Church" and in kind, the world. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/restevents (R.E.S.T.™ Events) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Draw-Circle-Day-Prayer-Challenge/dp/0310327121/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Y1CZKCYV2V7F&keywords=draw+the+circle&qid=1662689727&sprefix=draw%2520the%2520circle%2Caps%2C127&sr=8-1 (Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Jonathan Boyce and Casey Crimmins shed light on the current state of "The Church", and despite some technical difficulties, offer hope and perspective of the coming shifts in religious communities. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/restevents (R.E.S.T.™ Events) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Draw-Circle-Day-Prayer-Challenge/dp/0310327121/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Y1CZKCYV2V7F&keywords=draw+the+circle&qid=1662689727&sprefix=draw%2520the%2520circle%2Caps%2C127&sr=8-1 (Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

In the final part of the How We Love series, Linda and Merrill discuss what the ultimate love looks like in the marriage.  This love has only been perfect through Jesus Christ. Being perfect as Christ was perfect is not something we can attain here on earth, but it doesn't mean we shouldn't be striving for it.  #Rocksolidfamilies #familytherapy  #marriagecounseling  #parenting  #faithbasedcounseling #counseling #Strongdads #coaching #lifecoach #lifecoaching #marriagecoaching #marriageandfamily #love #perfectlovehttp://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

Riley Chustz brings practical examples to further illustrate acts of commission/omission and how she discerns what is driving her everyday decisions. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Draw-Circle-Day-Prayer-Challenge/dp/0310327121/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Y1CZKCYV2V7F&keywords=draw+the+circle&qid=1662689727&sprefix=draw%2520the%2520circle%2Caps%2C127&sr=8-1 (Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

In part one of How We Love, we discussed the various love styles that often put us in a negative loving pattern.  In this show, part 2, we discuss how to love, well!  In this show we discuss the various aspects of what love looks like in the marriage when it is done well.   The many different points discussed must start with the awareness of wanting to love in a healthy manner. http://rocksolidfamilies.org#Rocksolidfamilies #familytherapy  #marriagecounseling  #parenting  #faithbasedcounseling #counseling #Strongdads #coaching #lifecoach #lifecoaching #marriagecoaching #marriageandfamily #loveSupport the show

Virginia asks Riley Chustz, a guest featured in our Addictions series, about her stages of healing and the realizations necessary to embark on this particular journey. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Draw-Circle-Day-Prayer-Challenge/dp/0310327121/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Y1CZKCYV2V7F&keywords=draw+the+circle&qid=1662689727&sprefix=draw%2520the%2520circle%2Caps%2C127&sr=8-1 (Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

After reading through "Draw the Circle", a 40-day prayer challenge, Virginia and Natalie reflect upon Natalie's pilgrimage to R.E.S.T. and how she learned to speak to the mountains in her life. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Today's No More Perfect Podcast episode is one I have been excited to share for quite some time. That's because the couple Mark and I are talking with have made a huge difference in our lives.Have you ever heard of Love Styles? This isn't Love Languages. It's something very different.Our Love Styles are formed in primary attachment, like our childhood home and family, and they become more evident in later connections, such as in marriage or parenting. When we understand our Love Style, we can heal from our past wounds, repair painful relating patterns, and rebuild our relationships in healthy ways.In this episode we talk about love styles in general and in the marriage relationship, but even if you're not married I want to encourage you to listen in because you have a love style you need to be aware of!Milan and Kay Yerkovich, experts on attachment and best-selling authors, are our guests today. Our marriage was transformed in large part through their book, How We Love. The book uncovers unhelpful relating patterns formed in childhood that we carry over into our relationships in adulthood.In today's episode, you'll hear:How Love Styles workWhat the 5 Love Styles areHow we can move towards a Secure attachment styleWhy many of the biggest challenges in marriage start in childhoodAnd so much more!This topic is so important, and is a huge part of the marriage coaching and marriage intensives Mark and I do. Listen in!Show Notes: https://jillsavage.org/milan-kay-yerkovich-108/

Loving people can be complicated.  Trying to bring in our personality and past experiences and mixing them with another's personality and experiences is no easy task.  In this show we talk from the book, How We Love, about the love styles that often are imprinted on us from early on in our life.  Sometimes the love styles are positive, but sometimes they can work against us.  Learn more by listening to this week's show. http://rocksolidfamilies. orgSupport the show

Dr. Lee Cowden returns to continue the conversation regarding the physical consequences of grief we currently see in society through illnesses such as ALS and other neurodegenerative diseases. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

International author, educator, Cardiologist and Integrative Physician, Dr. Lee Cowden, expounds on last week's episode by connecting the physical symptoms of diseased states to their spiritual roots. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Board certified in functional medicine, Dr. Heidi Arens, a family nurse practitioner and prior coworker of Virginia's expounds on the physiological manifestations of grief and the power in addressing the root of the symptoms. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Continuing our conversation from last week with Katherine Vance, we enter a new series exploring the realm of grief through a horrific event nearly half of the women in America have experienced. *Disclaimer: The content in this podcast is meant for mature audiences only (18+) as some of it may be difficult to hear. Continuing to listen to this content releases R.E.S.T.™, Virginia Dixon from all liability. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

Katherine Vance closes out our Liberty series by discussing her education in reasoning, the edge it provided her in life and its detrimental absence in our current education system. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Federalist-Papers-Dover-Thrift-Editions/dp/0486496368/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=P4L5Q8GYAYPW&keywords=the+federalist+papers&qid=1656646047&sprefix=the+federalist+paper%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZV1NVOFNGMTRBSEEmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA5NDQwMTgxUk1IVFRDSTk2MlAmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDk1Nzk0MU9EQ1NKQkozNTVPUyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= (The Federalist Papers) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

With a Masters in Education & Epidemiology, Steve Cogan shares his thoughts on the application of the principles learned from our recent Day of R.E.S.T.™. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Federalist-Papers-Dover-Thrift-Editions/dp/0486496368/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=P4L5Q8GYAYPW&keywords=the+federalist+papers&qid=1656646047&sprefix=the+federalist+paper%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZV1NVOFNGMTRBSEEmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA5NDQwMTgxUk1IVFRDSTk2MlAmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDk1Nzk0MU9EQ1NKQkozNTVPUyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= (The Federalist Papers) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate) Where to Find Steve & Angela https://ndnaturalpath.com/ (Website)

Virginia and Natalie revisit the recent episodes of the Liberty series, sharing illustrative stories that provide direct application for your life. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Federalist-Papers-Dover-Thrift-Editions/dp/0486496368/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=P4L5Q8GYAYPW&keywords=the+federalist+papers&qid=1656646047&sprefix=the+federalist+paper%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZV1NVOFNGMTRBSEEmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA5NDQwMTgxUk1IVFRDSTk2MlAmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDk1Nzk0MU9EQ1NKQkozNTVPUyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= (The Federalist Papers) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) https://www.virginiadixon.com/collaborate (Donate)

In this episode, Virginia expounds on last week's episode with Katherine Dang and how the ideas of our forefathers resulted in the principle foundations of America. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/ondemand (On Demand) https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Federalist-Papers-Dover-Thrift-Editions/dp/0486496368/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=P4L5Q8GYAYPW&keywords=the+federalist+papers&qid=1656646047&sprefix=the+federalist+paper%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZV1NVOFNGMTRBSEEmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA5NDQwMTgxUk1IVFRDSTk2MlAmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDk1Nzk0MU9EQ1NKQkozNTVPUyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= (The Federalist Papers) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn)

Advice for marrying in your 30s, plus part two of a dating Q&A with Jonathan Pokluda, and maximizing your engagement season. Featured musical artist: Nathan Tasker ( http://www.nathantasker.com/ ) Roundtable: Marriage Challenges For 30-Somethings Marrying in your 30s gives you the benefits of a little more life experience, stability and (hopefully) maturity. But it also comes with unique challenges. You've become more settled in your ways, you've accumulated some baggage, and you're maybe a bit more cynical. Nate and Melinda recently married in their 30s and did the hard work of addressing some of their individual issues before tying the knot. Dr. Trent Langhofer counseled them individually as well as together to help give their marriage the healthiest start possible. All three join us this week to share their journey. Culture: Dating Q&A With Jonathan Pokluda (Part 2) After years of working with young adults, Pastor Jonathan (JP) Pokluda has fielded just about every dating question you could imagine. He joins us to answer even more, and this time they're your questions — asked by live audience members and submitted on social media. In part two this week, JP answers questions about reaching the commitment stage of a relationship, how to know if a guy is truly interested in you, and the worst dating advice he's ever heard. Get the book: "Outdated" for your donation of any amount:: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-boundless-2022-06-30?refcd=1436602 Inbox: Making the Most of Engagement She's recently engaged and is wondering how to maximize this season. What are the best ways to prepare for marriage? What should she and her fiance keep in mind? Besides doing premarital counseling, should they read a book, set some goals, focus on certain conversations — or all of the above? Counselor Glenn Lutjens weighs in. Get the book: "How We Love": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-we-love/?refcd=1436602

In honor of the United States of America's Independence Day, Katherine Dang, a scholar, historian of primary sources and founder of the Philomath Foundation discusses the principles of individual liberty and self governance which laid the foundation for the nation. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Federalist-Papers-Dover-Thrift-Editions/dp/0486496368/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=P4L5Q8GYAYPW&keywords=the+federalist+papers&qid=1656646047&sprefix=the+federalist+paper%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFZV1NVOFNGMTRBSEEmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA5NDQwMTgxUk1IVFRDSTk2MlAmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDk1Nzk0MU9EQ1NKQkozNTVPUyZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= (The Federalist Papers) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) Where to Find Katherine Dang http://philomathfoundation.com/ (Website)

Renowned evangelical scholar, author & apologist, Nancy Pearcey, discusses her upcoming book surrounding masculinity and how society's secular views have tainted our natural ability to reason. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Men-Only-Revised-Updated-Straightforward/dp/1601424450/ref=sr_1_2?crid=146M94UEOVVI4&keywords=for+men+only&qid=1655411246&sprefix=for+men+onl%2Caps%2C146&sr=8-2 (For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) Where to Find Nancy http://www.nancypearcey.com/ (Website) https://www.facebook.com/NancyRPearceyAuthor (Facebook) https://www.amazon.com/Total-Truth-Study-Guide-Christianity/dp/1433502208/ref=sr_1_1?crid=9O9HEHRAQ81F&keywords=total+truth+nancy+pearcey&qid=1656028158&sprefix=total+truth+%2Caps%2C218&sr=8-1 (Total Truth) https://www.amazon.com/Love-Thy-Body-Answering-Questions/dp/0801075971/ref=sr_1_1?crid=FPUXGVFZ08ME&keywords=love+thy+body+nancy+pearcey&qid=1656028189&sprefix=love+thy+body+nancy+pearcey%2Caps%2C122&sr=8-1 (Love Thy Body) https://www.amazon.com/Saving-Leonardo-Nancy-Pearcey/dp/146278772X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2Q48PKKOTYM4U&keywords=finding+leonardo+nancy+pearcey&qid=1656028210&sprefix=finding+leonardo+nancy+pearcey%2Caps%2C118&sr=8-1 (Saving Leonardo)

With Father's Day around the corner, Virginia welcomes over zoom mentor, leader and entrepreneur, Kelly Ewing, to expound on the roles of men as the Priest, Provider & Protector of their home. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Men-Only-Revised-Updated-Straightforward/dp/1601424450/ref=sr_1_2?crid=146M94UEOVVI4&keywords=for+men+only&qid=1655411246&sprefix=for+men+onl%2Caps%2C146&sr=8-2 (For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn)

One year from Jane Marczewski's (Nightbirde) poignant audition for America's Got Talent, Virginia sits down with her brother, Mitch Marczewski, to discuss how the principles of R.E.S.T. impacted not only Jane, but also his roles as a father and husband. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Women-Only-Revised-Updated-About/dp/1601424442/ref=sr_1_1?crid=220B7MKVWOY27&keywords=shaunti+feldhahn+for+women+only+for+men+only&qid=1651185563&sprefix=shaunti+feldhahn+for+wome%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1 (For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) Where to Find Nightbirde https://www.instagram.com/_nightbirde/ (Instagram) https://linktr.ee/Nightbirde (Linktree) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rq4RB6v51E4 (AGT Audition) https://www.gofundme.com/f/nightbirde-memorial-fund (Foundation Donation)

Moving from the celebration of Mother's Day to Father's Day, Katherine Dang, founder of the Philomath Foundation, returns to elaborate on her observations on masculinity and fatherhood. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Women-Only-Revised-Updated-About/dp/1601424442/ref=sr_1_1?crid=220B7MKVWOY27&keywords=shaunti+feldhahn+for+women+only+for+men+only&qid=1651185563&sprefix=shaunti+feldhahn+for+wome%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1 (For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn) Where to Find Katherine Dang http://philomathfoundation.com/ (Website)

Join Callie and David for the 2nd part of this short series on attachment theory, exploring how attachment explains our unique patterns for seeking and avoiding connection.  David and Callie have been reading through "How We Love" by Milan & Kay Yerkovich, a highly recommended resource to learn about your attachment (love) style and how to improve the quality of your relationships. In this episode, they reflect on their individual styles and how it has impacted their relationship. We hope this discussion inspires you to grab a copy - if you haven't already - and explore your attachment style on a deeper level!Check out these helpful resources  on attachment theory:How We Love by Milan & Kay YerkovichWired for Dating by Stan TatkinCreated for Connection by Sue Johnson

Publisher, wife and mom of 5 Chris Blue, shares her journey to motherhood and what it means to be a woman. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Women-Only-Revised-Updated-About/dp/1601424442/ref=sr_1_1?crid=220B7MKVWOY27&keywords=shaunti+feldhahn+for+women+only+for+men+only&qid=1651185563&sprefix=shaunti+feldhahn+for+wome%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1 (For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) https://www.amazon.com/Captivating-Unveiling-Mystery-Womans-Soul/dp/1400225280/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1G3RP3Y397CWH&keywords=captivating+john+eldredge&qid=1651794850&sprefix=captivating+john+eldredge%2Caps%2C123&sr=8-1 (Captivating by John & Stasi Eldredge) https://www.amazon.com/Priceless-Praised-Billie-Kaye-Tsika/dp/0768450624/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3HF7YZ13NEHF1&keywords=priceless+billie+tsika&qid=1651794894&sprefix=priceless+by+billie+%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1 (Priceless by Billie Kaye Tsika) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn)

in this episode, we're joined by Dr. Torben Bergland as he introduces us to the wonder that is attachment theory and why it's so important to understand in all our important relationships. We talk about why attachment theory differs from other common personality type tests, what it's so crucial to understanding both our own and loved ones' attachment styles for the health of our relationships, what each of the 4 attachment styles is, and how attachment theory impacts our spirituality.Check out these helpful books/resources Dr. Torben recommends on attachment theory:How We Love by Milan & Kay YerkovichWired for Dating by Stan TatkinCreated for Connection by Sue JohnsonDr. Torben Bergland is based in Silver Spring, Maryland and is originally from Norway.  As a psychiatrist and psychotherapist, he has taken a special interest in working with patients with depression, anxiety, and personality disorders, as well as integrating relational, religious and existential perspectives in psychotherapy.  He serves as the Associate Directors of the Health Ministries Department of the General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists, the global headquarter of the Seventh-day Adventist Church. with a special focus on mental health, and health and wellbeing of church workers.

Growing up as one of 8 children, Rachel Johnson, now a mother of three, shares a beautiful testimony of her journey to find R.E.S.T.™ and its impact on both the present and future generations of her family. Interview Links https://www.virginiadixon.com/copy-of-events (R.E.S.T.™ Events ) https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz (How We Love Online Quiz ) https://www.hungertest.com/ (Soul Hunger Quiz ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk ) https://www.virginiadixon.com/resources (How We Love by Milan & Kay Yerkovich) https://www.amazon.com/Women-Only-Revised-Updated-About/dp/1601424442/ref=sr_1_1?crid=220B7MKVWOY27&keywords=shaunti+feldhahn+for+women+only+for+men+only&qid=1651185563&sprefix=shaunti+feldhahn+for+wome%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1 (For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn) https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Expanded-Ed-Discovering/dp/1400225264/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3F9UTTN7SQFW0&keywords=wild+at+heart+john+eldredge&qid=1651794830&sprefix=wild+at+heart%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1 (Wild at Heart by John Eldredge) https://www.amazon.com/Captivating-Unveiling-Mystery-Womans-Soul/dp/1400225280/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1G3RP3Y397CWH&keywords=captivating+john+eldredge&qid=1651794850&sprefix=captivating+john+eldredge%2Caps%2C123&sr=8-1 (Captivating by John & Stasi Eldredge) https://www.amazon.com/Priceless-Praised-Billie-Kaye-Tsika/dp/0768450624/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3HF7YZ13NEHF1&keywords=priceless+billie+tsika&qid=1651794894&sprefix=priceless+by+billie+%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1 (Priceless by Billie Kaye Tsika) Where to Find Virginia https://www.virginiadixon.com/ (Website ) https://www.instagram.com/theplaceofrest/ (Instagram) https://www.facebook.com/virginiadixon.rest (Facebook) https://www.linkedin.com/in/virginia-dixon-9497a0206/ (LinkedIn)

This weekend, we revisit our recent Daily Broadcast “Discovering Your Love Style." Milan and Kay Yerkovich offer helpful insights on learning how you show love to others, particularly your spouse, and explain what steps you can take toward loving like God does and breaking negative patterns to create a deeper, richer marriage. Receive Milan and Kay Yerkovich's book "How We Love" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-05-03?refcd=1336102 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/discovering-your-love-style-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Has something ever happened to you in your adult life and you felt triggered and didn't know why you were so upset, anxious, sad, annoyed, etc.? In this episode, we talk about how significant moments in our lives shape the person we become over time, who we are, how we are, and most importantly, HOW WE LOVE! We talked about the love styles we uncovered in the book, "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich -- take the Love Style Quiz! We want to hear who  you are! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusives! FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @brittanydnelle @malcolm__garrison @soletstalkaboutitpod

Are you tired of falling into frustrating relational patterns in your marriage? Hosts Jason Weiland and Linda Tokar interview Jennifer Norheim while discussing the book, How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. Why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. They talk about attachment theory, and explore how your childhood created an “intimacy imprint” that affects your marriage today. For complete show notes, click HERE

Many explanations for our present realities harken back to our past. After all, who of us has not been shaped by the layers of life upon life? The marriage relationship is a crucible whereby these past experiences have a very present voice. In this episode of Breaking Bread, Kaleb Beyer explains the impact past trauma plays in present marriages. Understanding this unwelcome visitor in our today marriage relationship provides a great deal of explanation for the interactions we experience between spouses. It also, unlocks a hopeful path for an increasingly healthy marriage. What is trauma? Sometimes our present experiences trigger danger, even when we are objectively safe. This may be a sign of trauma. In our past, traumatic experiences threatened our safety. Today, experiences may trigger that past offense and send negative reactions surging through our thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Trauma can affect all areas of our life including the marriage relationship. Thoughts are triggered by trauma: Trauma strikes at the perceived safety of an individual. The offense against a spouse's safety in the past leaves them vulnerable to this perceived lack of safety in the present. Triggers prompt thoughts that say “I'm not safe in this moment!” Feelings are triggered by trauma: Past painful memories hold intense negative emotions. Thoughts of jeopardized safety cause feelings of fear, unwanted exposure, a sense of helplessness and feelings of loneliness. Behaviors are triggered by trauma: Perceived “over-reactions” can occur by those wounded by past trauma. Present situations trigger a reaction conditioned by the past. Individuals might fight, take flight, or freeze. They might pull away to avoid vulnerability. This can be disorienting to the individual and their spouse. Relational connection is broken and reception of love in these moments are difficult. Understanding is helpful: Understanding when past trauma is speaking in the present can be helpful. It can provide explanation for the unwanted reactions that happen in present situations. This can lead to compassion and empathy. Moving toward healing: Establishing safety within self and with spouse is the first step in moving forward. Couples will need to work on establishing trust and allowing vulnerability to happen. Being curious is key and seeking not to personalize present triggers to past trauma. Some question prompts can be helpful: Help me understand when you feel this way? What is it like for you to experience _________? How do my actions contribute to your distress? Couples who want to make healthy gains in this area can make use of resources: “The Body Keeps the Score” Bessel Van der Kolk M.D. https://accounseling.org/overcomingtraumainmarriagewebinar/ - webinar https://www.amazon.com/s?k=how+we+love+by+milan+and+kay+yerkovich&sprefix=how+we+lo%2Caps%2C120&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_2_9 - How We Love book In some situations, uncovering the trauma and finding healing may require a counselor.