Hosts Allison and Brian Dalke help married people navigate marital challenges we all face everyday. With Gods word, communication, and a unified vision... they believe anyone can have the marriage of their dreams!
The Dream Marriage podcast, hosted by Brian and Allison, is a wonderful resource for anyone looking to improve their marriage. This podcast stands out from others in its genre due to the genuine passion and dedication of the hosts. Brian and Allison's obedience to their calling shines through in every episode, offering tools and information that can truly transform relationships. It is refreshing to find a podcast that genuinely aims to be a resource rather than simply promote itself.
One of the best aspects of The Dream Marriage podcast is the practical advice it provides. Listeners are not only given actionable steps to improve their marriages but also encouraged to approach their relationship from a spiritual perspective. Brian and Allison emphasize the importance of health and wholeness as individuals, which ultimately contributes to a strong and unified partnership. Their relatable style makes it easy for listeners to connect with them on a personal level and trust in their guidance.
While there are many positive aspects of this podcast, one potential downside is that it may not cater to everyone's specific needs or situations. Each marriage is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Additionally, some listeners may prefer podcasts that delve deeper into certain topics or offer more specialized advice. However, it is important to remember that The Dream Marriage podcast serves as a general resource rather than tailored guidance for specific circumstances.
In conclusion, The Dream Marriage podcast offers invaluable insights and advice for anyone wanting to strengthen their marriage. Brian and Allison's obedient approach to their calling is evident in every episode, bringing a fresh perspective that sets them apart from other self-promoting podcasts. With practical advice and a spiritual focus on health and wholeness, this podcast delivers meaningful content that can inspire positive change in relationships. I highly recommend giving it a listen if you're looking for ways to improve your marriage.
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, the Dalkes talk through ways to stay connected to your spouse in the midst of all the phases of parenting. From babies and toddlers, to kids in activities and sports, to helping teenagers grow into young adults…wherever you find your parenting and your marriage, there are ways to put your marriage 1st in every season. Listen in as Brian and Allison discuss the challenges of each phase of parenting and ways you can intentionally connect with your spouse in the midst of it all. Their FREE weekly meeting guide can be found at www.thedreammarriage.com They also discussing checking in with your spouse throughout the day and week by asking one of the following questions: On a scale of 1-100, how full is your emotional tank right now? How can I help you today or this week? Or What can I take off your plate? What's been bothering you lately? Or what are you excited about right now? The Dalkes also mention praying over your spouse daily. If you don't know what to say or how to start, you can start with the Priestly blessing found in Numbers 6:24-26. As always, you can email the Dalkes anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com or find them on Facebook or Instagram at The Dream Marriage.
Part 2 of this special edition of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke share the highs and lows of the past 20 years of their marriage. Plus, registration for their LIVE course: Building the Foundation of the Dream Marriage is extended until Thursday, August 16th and is limited to a small number of couples. So head over to www.thedreammarriage.com today to get signed up before the doors close!
On this special edition of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke share the highs and lows of the past 20 years of their marriage. Plus, registration for their LIVE course: Building the Foundation of the Dream Marriage is only open until Friday, August 9th and is limited to a small number of couples. So head over to www.thedreammarriage.com today to get signed up before the doors close! The Messy Table podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0Al8PTzVQLng4oAe9V6fEZ?si=ec388c9c9a9148b9
Start: In this episode of The Dream Marriage Podcast, the Dalkes briefly share what they've been up to lately (hint: it's mostly about being farmers!). They also share about a recent marriage intensive they hosted in Mexico with one other couple. 10:30: Brian and Allison discuss how they have discovered a foundation of basic needs that all marriages need to thrive. After working with hundreds of couples over the past seven years, they have identified a hierarchy of needs within marriage similar to Maslow's hierarchy of needs. 29:00: Big News!! For the first time ever, the Dalkes are offering a live online course to help all marriages go from either bad to good or good to great by teaching couples to understand their foundational needs and giving them the tools they need to start rebuilding the foundation of their marriage today. Couples will also have lifetime access to the course, should they ever want a refresher. Spots are very limited, so don't wait. If you are interested in learning more about the live course, go to https://www.thedreammarriage.com/foundation Email the Dalkes anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out their free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of The Dream Marriage Podcast the Dalkes discuss role play and whether or not it's okay in a Christian marriage. They discuss their personal story of role play and how it's evolved over the years. They explain why role play usually crosses the biblical boundary of adultery. Pretending your spouse is someone else is adultery, and thus, not within the boundary of what the Bible says is okay. Can you role play with your spouse in a way that is within the bounds? Hear about a fun (and Biblical way) to role play with your spouse, and how the movie Mr. and Mrs. Smith inspired it. Plus, the Dalkes mention their upcoming dream marriage retreat in November of 2024 in Cancun, Mexico. Head to their website to get on the wait list for all the details if you think you and your spouse might be interested. Rest, intimacy, amazing food, plus dreaming with your spouse and creating a vision and plan for your future while there. Email them anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out their free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of The Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss the use of sex toys within marriage. They talk about the cultural stigma around sex toys, and how using sex toys is a personal preference that each couple has to come to an agreement on. Allison shares her personal story of experimenting with sex toys early in their marriage and then why she suddenly didn't want to use them in sex anymore and why. They also talk about how they have both grown both spiritually and emotionally which has shaped their intimacy and exploration in the bedroom. They talk about multiple orgasms, safe places to buy sex toys, why good communication is key to this process, and how ultimately the goal is always and only to increase your intimacy with your spouse. www.covenantspice.com For more resources and their free YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy Checklist, head to their website at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of The Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss how their appreciation journal turned super sexy, and how that journal has continued to grow their appreciation of each other and their intimacy in the bedroom. How a journal (no matter how you use it) can increase your intimacy and appreciation for each other. Plus, they discuss how writing physically changes the way we think and process. Unlined leather journal: https://a.co/d/5XCR89t Lined leather journal: https://a.co/d/4ZnEI23 For more resources and their free YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy Checklist, head to their website at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss how (homemade) videos and photos can enhance your sex life. Allison talks about her experience having boudoir photos taken for Brian and how it made her feel about herself and her body. Brian shares how he keeps photos and videos secured on his phone. https://between.us/?lang=en Remember that your yes/no/maybes can change through different seasons of your life and as your intimacy grows. Download their free YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy checklist at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke talk about how to plan for and better anticipate sex. They talk about how scheduling sex can actually be a huge turn-on as you anticipate sex throughout the day. We plan and prepare for things that are important to us. We make space on our calendars for things that have value in our lives. Scheduling sex can help prevent dry spells in your sex life depending on your season of life. They also talk about how lingerie can help you think about sex throughout the day. They challenge listeners to ask each other, "what can I do to better help you anticipate sex?" Texting throughout the day, leaving notes for each other, etc. Plus their recent story of scheduling sex and how it didn't go as it planned. For more resources and their free YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy Checklist, head to their website at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke talk about the importance of self-care when it comes to sex. Why does taking care of our bodies physically increases our desire for sex and our confidence when we have sex? Plus, how fueling our bodies with the right food and taking care of our bodies can also increase our libido. How can you better prepare yourself for sex both mentally and physically? Small shifts in your thinking about sex can make a huge difference in the bedroom. For more information and to find their free YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy Checklist go to www.thedreammarriage.com
Let's talk about sex! In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, the Dalkes discuss the importance of communicating with your spouse during and after sex and how doing so can create more intimacy and pleasure for both of you. Sex is a huge gift from God that is meant to be enjoyed in the marital bed! But learning about your spouse and their body is a life-long journey, and that's why communication during and after sex can be so beneficial. Brian and Allison talk about why and how the sexual exploration of our bodies can lead to more intimacy and pleasure in the bedroom. Links from this episode: Joyce and Clifford Penner Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women The yes/no/maybe list Email the Dalkes anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out their other free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage Podcast, the Dalkes talk about about what the Bible says is okay and not okay when it comes to sex. They outline the Biblical boundaries around sex based onHebrews 13:4 There should be: No adultery, no fornication, and no lust or coveting, but aside from that?....it's all game! Within the marital bed of a covenant relationship there is so much freedom and fun in sex. But remember, we don't want to play the comparison game. What is okay for one couple is not necessarily okay for another couple. Biblical reference from this episode: Proverbs 5:18-19 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 Check out their YES/NO/MAYBE Intimacy Checklist on their website at www.thedreammarriage.com For Men and Women Only book link: https://a.co/d/aYwbeYZ Coming up next week: communication during and after sex Email the Dalkes anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out their free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, the Dalkes discuss the sexual baggage we bring into our marriages. We all bring sexual baggage into our marriage whether we've had sexual experiences before marriage or not. The Dalkes talk through 4 areas of sexual baggage: the things we've seen, the things we've done, the things that have been done to us, and the things we believe about sex. They bring up important questions such as: Is the pleasure of sex just for men? Or for men and women both? How does sexual baggage affect your sex life in marriage? What are our personal expectations of sex? And where do they derive from? How do you begin to heal from or get free from that baggage so you can experience the freedom that God has for us within the marriage bed? They discuss why communication about sex is vital to a healthy and thriving sex life, and how exploring each other's bodies can be a form of healing from sexual baggage. Important Links mentioned in today's episode: Online Christian Couple's Counseling: https://www.heyritual.com/ Breaking soul ties link/prayer https://wildatheart.org/prayer/breaking-soul-ties-wah-podcast His Needs Her Needs book https://a.co/d/dw8riX6 Healing from sexual baggage resource links: Joyce and Clifford Penner's books: The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment: https://a.co/d/2IZdBlV Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure: https://a.co/d/7PBmUkb The Married Guide Guy's to Great Sex: https://a.co/d/bb7A60P As always, you can email the Dalkes anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out their free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
On this episode of the Dream Marriage Podcast, Allison and Brian talk begin the conversation about sex and your marriage. The secular world owns the conversation about sex, but sex was created to be a gift from god to a married couple in covenant. The secular world glorifies sex outside marriage, while the church rarely talks about the gift that sex is inside of marriage. This episode is an honest conversation about the preconceived notions and expectations we bring into marriage about sex, and how those beliefs effect our sex life long term. Links and other resources mentioned in this episode: Full set of God's Design for Sex Books (all 4 books for all age groups included) (does not include the parent's guide) https://a.co/d/0zqVC9U How and When to Tell Your Kids about Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child's Sexual Character (God's Design for Sex) (Parent's Guide) https://a.co/d/5uuVBFt The Story of Me: Babies, Bodies, and a Very Good God (God's Design for Sex) (ages 3-5 years) https://a.co/d/fsqStTg Before I Was Born: God Knew My Name (God's Design for Sex) (ages 5-8 years) https://a.co/d/2vf0OEz What's the Big Deal? Why God Cares About Sex (ages 8-12) https://a.co/d/g3svOo3 Finding the Facts: The Truth About Sex and You (ages 12-16) https://a.co/d/7Kt3QWN Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the dream marriage podcast, the Dalkes have an important and honest conversation about porn and your marriage. Here are a few links to the MANY videos/articles we watched while researching the effects of porn for this episode. There are MANY more out there. Just go look and do your research. This should get you started, though. (Video) A doctor's take on the negative effects of porn on men https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTVyjLPLkfk (Article) 5 Ex-Porn Performers Who are Now Anti-Porn: https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-popular-ex-porn-stars-who-are-now-anti-porn/ Education about the effects of porn: (so many incredible articles here!) https://fightthenewdrug.org/blog/ Life Changing Resources for those Addicted to Porn: https://bravehearts.org/ www.thefreedomfight.org www.covenanteyes.com Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or check out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage, the Dalkes discuss the importance of not only praying for your spouse but also praying over your spouse. They talk about their personal experience with this practice and share practical ways to get started. Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage, Brian and Allison Dalke update listeners on the dreams they're chasing as a couple and a family. They believe that it's essential for all couples to dream together, and they practice what they preach. Hear their story of selling their dream home, moving to 50 acres in the country, and their decision to become flower farmers. They discuss how dream chasing is hard, and how dreams usually change over time. In this episode, they encourage listeners to not limit God. To hear why dreaming is essential for couples and how you can start to dream with your spouse, check out this previous episode of the podcast https://thedreammarriagepodcast.podbean.com/e/dreaming-with-your-spouse/ Soul Shepherding Institute link https://www.soulshepherding.org/institute/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA_5WvBhBAEiwAZtCU7-5YlxnKjdlVEY7zEkpp997YU2ui5jOdXZMlha9rEtVdsiRU9JG-9RoCX00QAvD_BwE Download our Couples' Guide to Dream Chasing at www.thedreammarriage.com Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss how their family settles into a rhythm of Sabbath rest. It's not about religion; it's about how we were made for work and rest. This one practice has drastically changed the Dalkes' marriage, work, life, and family time. Links: Annie Downs: That sounds fun podcast with John Mark Comer https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/january-2018-rhythms-sabbath-john-mark-comer/id944925529?i=1000399594293 John Mark Comer's book Garden City https://a.co/d/5tIvg85 Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss the benefit of having clear boundaries around the way you spend your time. What would your family say is most important to you based on how you spend your time? Are you spending your time on things that are the best things for you and your future? Brian and Allison discuss the things that take up our mental and physical time as well as emotional margin. They talk about everything from fantasy football to social media and even work and why boundaries around how we spend our time can ultimately give us more freedom. How we spend our time cultivates who we become. Everything you spend your time on is a deposit towards who you're ultimately becoming. If you're lacking margin and extra time, why? What is it that you're spending your time doing? Are you intentionally or unintentionally spending your time being busy doing things so you don't have to think/process? Anything that we can do too much can be bad for us. As you assess the way you're spending your time, ask yourself these questions: Is it healthy? Does it honor God? Is it necessary? Sometimes we need boundaries around a certain area of our lives for just a season. One of the ways you can gauge where you might need some boundaries is where there is a tension spot in your day, in your soul, or with your partner. Remember, as you honestly assess how you're spending your time, give yourself grace. What do you want to be known for? How we spend our time is how we build our legacy. Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss the power of your words. Your words have the power of life and death in your marriage. Is it okay to “vent” about your spouse to others? Can you trust that your spouse only speaks positively about you when you're not around? They outline the things they never say about each other to other people and the only exceptions to this rule. What habits do you have around the words you speak about your spouse? One person in the relationship can make a change that positively impacts your relationship just by awakening to the words being spoken. Plus, how do make a shift if you are in the habit of speaking about your spouse without honor? It's simpler than you might think. And the results are marriage changing. Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
Boundaries 1: Opposite Sex Relationships Could you cheat on your spouse? In this episode of the Dream Marriage Podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss appropriate boundaries between the opposite sex for married couples. This conversation starts with the question, “Could you cheat on your spouse?” When they ask each other, Allison and Brian both answer, “YES!” And the reality is ANYONE could cheat on their spouse. Unfortunately, the lack of boundaries with the opposite sex is often how affairs start. It's unavoidable these days for men and women to co-mingle. They work together, go to their kids school events together, and so many other things. However, because men and women often see the precursor to sexual intimacy very differently, the lines get blurry on what is/isn't appropriate between them. While this is tricky, it is possible to navigate it well. They discuss what it looks like to have boundaries around relationships with the opposite sex and why those clear boundaries are necessary. “As a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: What you create and what you allow.”- Dr. Henry Cloud Psalm 16:6 The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; Yes, I have a good inheritance. The Dalkes share the boundaries they have within their marriage and how those boundaries have created so much freedom, trust and peace. Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke share the one concept that changed everything in their marriage. They discuss why “giving to get” doesn't work, and how there's a better way to love. Hear the story of how they took their marriage from average to great with one simple idea, and how you can use the same idea today to have the marriage of your dreams. Get off the crazy cycle and discover what a marriage full of adoration and appreciation can truly look like. Love and Respect by Dr. Eggerichs https://a.co/d/h0FSRAi Ephesians 5:22-33 https://www.bible.com/bible/114/EPH.5.NKJV Genesis 2:24-25 https://www.bible.com/bible/114/GEN.2.NKJV Email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com Or checkout out our free resources for helping you create the marriage of your dreams at www.thedreammarriage.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage Podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke walk listeners through Gary Chapman's 5 love languages and discuss how knowing and understanding your spouse's love languages can help you love your spouse better. Love languages are about how we each individually express and experience love and typically, couples have different ways of expressing love to each other. Listen and discover the power of knowing your spouse's love language. Gary Chapman's The 5 Love Languages book https://a.co/d/21nSqJv Take the 5 Love Languages Test Here https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language Checkout our free resources to help you create your dream marriage at www.thedreammarriage.com or email us anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com
In this episode of the Dream Marriage podcast, Brian and Allison Dalke discuss the vital differences between a covenant and a contract. Listen to find out how you view your marriage. Is it a contract based on what one person does? Or is it a covenant based on unconditional love? And why does it even matter? Genesis 2:21-24 https://www.bible.com/bible/1/GEN.2.21-24.KJV Matthew 19:3-9 https://www.bible.com/bible/1/MAT.19.KJV Ephesians 5:22-32 https://www.bible.com/bible/114/EPH.5.NKJV Why it's essential for couples to dream together Check out our free resources for creating your dream marriage at www.thedreammarriage.com or reach out via email anytime at thedreammarriagepodcast@gmail.com
Communication is so important in marriage. Obviously that is something we all know... Right? Well then why do so many couples still struggle with it (or lack of it)? Allison and Brian explain the different types of communication, and why most marriages don't get it right. To have a Dream Marriage, you have to have great communication... and its easier than you might think. *** FREE Download available to help you get started in better communication. Visit us at https://www.thedreammarriage.com for the free download!
Dreaming together as a couple is hard. Most couples are just trying to keep their heads above water, and/or not kill each other (kidding... kinda), much less dream. However, it's so important to have a marriage that thrives (we call that a Dream Marriage). Allison and Brian walk you through how it all started for them. How when they started dreaming together, it was kind of an accident (and a huge blessing), and how it changed everything for them. Dreaming is vital to your marriage. Start dreaming with your spouse today with our 30+ page FREE Couples Guide to Dream Chasing. Visit https://www.thedreammarriage.com/ for your free download.
We are Brian and Allison Dalke. We have been married for nearly 20 years, and have had many ups and downs (just like many of you probably have). In this podcast we talk about who we are, how we got here, and how it almost didn't happen. Through struggle, prayer, healing, confusion, and ultimately affirmation... there is no doubt that God placed us here for a reason. Whoever you are, and wherever you are listing from, we are praying that the podcast blesses you and helps you start to have the Dream Marriage that you have always wanted! Thank you for listening! Brian and Allison Check out our website- https://www.thedreammarriage.com/ Special thanks to Jenni Zabel for helping us get started! Check out her amazing podcast: Breakthrough- Truth that sets you free. https://www.podbean.com/pu/pbblog-vxm4h-f486e4 This podcast was recorded at Vault 405 in Edmond Oklahoma. It is a co-working space, and so much more. They have conference rooms, offices, and this amazing podcast room. If you live in the area, check it out! https://vault405.com/
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