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Curiously exploring our lives • The phenomena of being through an existential lens.

jordanoconnor


    • Apr 1, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 58 EPISODES


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    Denial As Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 29:05


    How do we listen in a fragmented world?

    Dread & Choice

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 29:22


    Choice in times of uncertainty 

    The Conflict Button

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 29:56


    How do we understand our relationship to conflict? 

    Weaponizing Vulnerability

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2024 21:00


    Are labels weapons?   www.jordanoconnor.com

    The Linking of Opposites

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 28:51


    What's between the views we have?

    Broken Mirrors - Self and Fragmentation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2023 28:43


    How might we find hope through the fog of dread? 

    Bias as the Solution

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2023 28:55


    How does anxiety point to a new understanding?

    Anxiety & Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2023 34:23


    How does anxiety shape our reality… or reality shape our anxiety?

    Splitting and Projecting

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2023 29:12


    How to does the tunnel of Self lead to splitting and projecting?

    Exploring relationships beyond time

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2023 29:22


    Exploring relationships beyond time

    Under the Distraction

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 29:11


    Do we need distraction to create certainty?

    Can we be too subjective?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2023 26:12


    Can we be too subjective?

    Toxic Masculinity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2023 29:08


    Toxic Masculinity a defence against vulnerability?

    Mari Ruti

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 42:16


    Mari passed away this past week and I reflect… 

    Politics Without Politics

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 29:09


    What happens when we talk about politics without politics? What do we find? What is hidden?  

    AI and Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 29:18


    Is AI a mirror of our desire? Can we face the ethics of our desire?

    Insight vs. Compliance

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 29:49


    Do we seek compliance to escape the experience of insight? 

    Love - hope and dread

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2023 29:16


    Is dread as important as hope in love?

    Is this even a podcast?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2023 29:16


    “Is this even a podcast?” said the Fool.

    Searching for inauthenticity

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 29:13


    Do we search for inauthenticity and turn away from authenticity? 

    Emotions - when to hold them when to...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2023 28:44


    Is there strength in vulnerability?

    Talking about nothing means something

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 29:22


    Is talking about nothing something? Does interrupting our repetitions bring us back to the something of nothing? 

    Harry & Megan

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 30:03


    In this episode I ask… can we question our own habitual thinking?

    Doubt as reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2023 29:22


    In this episode I turn the tables upside down and ask: what if doubt is reason and reason is doubt?

    Seeking newness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2023 29:19


    Not surprisingly… I'm thinking about new year's resolutions—and the seeking of newness.

    Rationalizing Violence

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 39:59


    How is violence embedded into our ways of relating and what does that say about our capacity to reason?

    Shame and the paradox of choice

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2022 30:20


    What I learned thinking about shopping, sales, and the freedom to not have all my choices

    Turning 50

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 29:31


    What does turning 50 mean and how do the events in our lives create meaning?

    The Problem Is The Solution

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 29:39


    In this episode I talk about how the problem is the solution and how we seek freedom from freedom. 

    Orphans of The Reality

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2022 29:26


    In this episode I talk about how holding to rigid ways of understanding our experience can obscure a more holistic outlook.

    Interrupting Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2022 29:29


    In this episode I talk about interrupting anxiety and how, paradoxically, we can create more anxiety in an attempt to never feel anxious again. 

    Constructing Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2022 29:33


    In this episode I explore how we construct identify and wonder: what's behind the identities we create?

    Going Grey

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 29:22


    In this episode I talk about “going grey” in conjunction with the recent termination of Canadian CTV New anchor, Lisa LaFlame. I ask, how is it that something we all do; i.e., aging and going grey, can be used to divide us, given it's something we share? This leads to questions of oppression and alienation. Drawing from such writers as Simone de Beauviour, Shoshana Zuboff and Byung-Chulhan Han, I explore how lazy conceptual outs (like saying, “It's a business decision”) reflect the underlying structures of entitlement that lead us to condemn rather than understand.  

    What about hypnotherapy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 44:29


    In this episode I talk with Lesley Mitchell-Clarke about her work as a hypnotherapist. My understanding of hypnotherapy was limited to TV and movies, which is in no way connected to what hypnotherapy is and how helpful it is in people's lives. Lesley talks about how the control is always with the client and how hypnotherapy can interrupt behaviours the client wants to change.   You can reach out to Lesley at: https://lightworkhypnosis.com

    Violence and Shadows

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 29:19


    In this episode I explore the way we may think about violence in relationships, and how avoiding the experiences of others sustains our way of understanding ourselves in the world. Do the shadows we cast create and perpetuate violence?    www.jordanoconnor.com

    Silence and Angst

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2022 30:13


    In this episode I explore how we are culturally (and personally) influenced as to what silence is and how we should (or should not) act. Is there more to silence?

    Overwhelmed (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2022 29:07


    In part two, I continue to explore the experience of being overwhelmed. Drawing upon the book “Psychoanalytic Zero: A Decolonizing Study of Therapeutic Dialogues” by Koichi Togashi, I explore the way our perspectives both create our understanding of the world and interrupt our understanding of each other. Is there more to being overwhelmed? 

    Overwhelmed (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 29:26


    That we are overwhelmed is obvious. That there is too much in our lives to process is also obvious. Given feeling overwhelmed is something that is so ubiquitous in our lives, can we look, not for solutions or reasons, but at the feeling of being overwhelmed itself?

    Embodied Choice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 36:35


    Drawing from the Rumi line about the pot and how it is the space within the pot we use, I explore how choice emerges from our felt—embodied—experience.   

    Bullying and Voting

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 29:34


    In this episode I explore two seemingly unrelated topics and how they are, in fact, very much related. 

    Complexity and holism - looking at Feminism

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2022 29:32


    In this episode I talk about complexity as holism and how some define feminism in reductionistic terms asking: how does reductionism condition our understanding?

    Sound Baths

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2022 33:30


     In this episode I talk with psychotherapist Laura Notton about Sound Baths and the way healing can be realizing in the formless form of sound.

    Talking about war

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 30:43


    In this episode I reflect on war. How war is the absence to reason; yet, can our reasons lead us further into the abyss?  

    Boundaries… looking beyond the thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 34:22


    In this episode I reflect on different ways boundaries can obscure our attachments.

    Cancer, curiosity and the strength of fragility—one man's experience living with cancer

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 40:38


    In this episode I talk with Michel DeQuevedo about his experience with neuroendocrine cancer. He discusses facing the unknown of cancer in the midst of misdiagnosis and limited information. And how his curiosity and humour led the way to choice. Find out more (or reach out to Michel)  http://www.micheldqmusic.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/netsmexico 

    The lost critique of freedom - a ballad for the unfree

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 29:38


    Freedom in a frame… how do we understand freedom? What defines our understanding? 

    Small victories - healing and process

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 30:14


    In this episode I talk with artist and Pilates coach, Samantha Clayton about the process healing in our bodies.   To find out more about Samantha visit: https://www.pilateswithsamantha.com  

    The experience of change

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2022 31:55


    What is our relationship to change? How do we experience change and what might we discover about our experience of change?

    Thinking of bell hooks

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2022 27:19


    In this episode I reflect on the passing of bell hooks and how love is authentically expressed through criticism.  www.jordanoconnor.com

    Thoughts • Feelings & Avoidance - can we not know?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2021 28:58


    In this episode I explore how our thoughts and feelings intersect. I then explore how we turn away, to avoid feelings of uncertainty. Can we explore our feelings curiously, unknowingly, lovingly?

    Expanding into silence

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 30:22


    If we mediate, get distracted, and think, "I'm doing it wrong" or "I guess meditation is not for me" is there more to the story? What happens when we expand into the silence?

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