Podcasts about Avoidance

The biggest mistakes artists make aren't about doing the wrong things—they're about doing nothing at all. Avoidance. Waiting. Hoping something will change on its own. In this solo episode, host Alyson Stanfield revisits and reframes one of her most popular articles, updated with a decade of insight and experience. These are not dramatic failures, but subtle patterns of inaction that can quietly keep your art business stuck. Alyson shares 7 common mistakes, grouped into 3 themes: Mindset. Connection. Structure. Each is paired with a powerful inquiry to help you take honest inventory—and move forward with more awareness. HIGHLIGHTS 03:00 What do you want from your art? 05:00 There's no magical moment when you feel ready. 06:45 Real artists don't have to promote their work? 08:00 There are doors you don't even know exist. 10:55 Templates, contracts, follow-up—none of it is optional. 12:50 Your art might be amazing, but does the presentation match? 15:00 These aren't failures—they're invitations.

Stress is part of the job—but how we respond to it determines everything.In this first episode of a two-part series on stress, host Tracy Bingaman, PA-C, breaks down the maladaptive ways healthcare professionals often try to cope with stress—and why they don't actually work.

Today on the podcast, we're joined by Lexi Stout—a former coaching client who opens up about her journey of recognizing how her avoidant attachment style was impacting her dating life, and what she's been doing to break old patterns and move toward healthy relationships.We dive into:How her avoidant attachment kept her stuck in unfulfilling situationshipsLearning to open her heart and receive loveBreaking the habit of hyper-independence and accepting supportConfronting her avoidance and becoming more assertive in communicationNavigating her first mature, secure relationship with confidenceTune in for a raw, relatable, and inspiring conversation about healing, self-awareness, and growth in love.*Learn about Attachment Coaching with Jessica here.

Ever find yourself getting defensive—at work, at home, or even just scrolling through your texts? You're not alone! In Episode 158 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals why defensiveness is sabotaging your connections, fueling drama, and draining your energy. Ready to put a stop to those knee-jerk reactions that keep you stuck?Discover three powerful steps to break the cycle—shift your mindset, unleash curiosity, and expand your time horizon. Learn the real reasons we get defensive (hint: it's not about you!), and walk away with actionable tools to turn tense interactions into opportunities for growth. Whether you're brave enough to face a tough meeting or craving deeper family ties, this episode is your guide to channeling hope, ditching fear, and defusing defensiveness for good.Tune in to reclaim your calm, connect more deeply, and start living the courageous life you want to be remembered for. Stop walking on eggshells—start soaring above defensiveness with the DYL Podcast! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Clinical data holds that unresolved trauma rewires relational neural circuitry, triggering threat responses in safe contexts (Carnes, Rothschild). Quantum metaphysics and Thomas Campbell's Theory of Everything reveal that every avoidance, deception, or shortcut adds entropy to this relational matrix—an energetic entropic residue that buys you momentary ease and costs you long-term clarity and coherence.

Navigating Emotional Avoidance in DivorceIn this illuminating episode of How to Split a Toaster, family law attorney Seth Nelson and Pete Wright explore emotional avoidance during divorce with expert guest Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, a specialist in mindfulness and emotional resilience.Understanding Values in ConflictDr. Maidenberg explains how our core values shape divorce decisions and reactions. Values aren't just what we claim to prioritize—they reveal themselves through our actions and emotional triggers. When two values conflict, such as financial security versus family time, the resulting tension often drives divorce disputes.Breaking Down Emotional AvoidanceThe conversation delves into how emotional avoidance manifests during divorce proceedings. Dr. Maidenberg describes various avoidance tactics people employ, from repression to distraction, while explaining how these coping mechanisms can ultimately hinder healing and resolution.Practical Tools for Emotional RegulationDr. Maidenberg introduces therapeutic approaches including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) for managing divorce-related trauma and anxiety. She emphasizes the importance of finding the right therapeutic relationship and approach for individual needs.Key Insights:Identify conflicting core values to better understand emotional reactions during divorceSet appropriate boundaries around communication to maintain emotional stabilityWork with qualified professionals to develop personalized coping strategiesThe Role of Professional SupportThe episode highlights how legal counsel and mental health professionals can work together to support clients through divorce. Seth Nelson shares practical strategies for managing difficult communications, while Dr. Maidenberg offers therapeutic perspectives on processing divorce-related emotions.Plus, the conversation explores how different therapeutic modalities—from CBT to mindfulness-based approaches—can help individuals navigate divorce's emotional challenges while staying true to their values.This episode provides valuable insights for anyone seeking to better understand and manage their emotional responses during divorce, while offering practical tools for maintaining stability throughout the legal process.Links & NotesFind Michelle on her website, LinkedIn, X, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTubeCheck out Michelle's book “Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want”Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (00:26) - Meet Dr. Michelle Maidenberg (01:01) - Emotional Avoidance (02:18) - Formative Values (06:36) - When in Distress (07:54) - In the Divorce Process (10:13) - Dealing with Fear (12:10) - Conflict of Values (16:56) - Values Charting (17:59) - Learning to Self-Regulate (23:19) - EMDR (27:20) - Finding the Right Therapist (29:36) - Finding Michelle (31:19) - Wrap Up

Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special live podcast event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Tickets are selling fast at jillherman.com/beyou, and discounted rooms are available at a boutique hotel right next door! Jill offers up a short and sweet but also vulnerable discussion this week on Be YOU – not because she is talking about heartbreak or grief but because she is talking about something that so many of us do but are ironically often dishonest about, even to ourselves: lying. She isn't talking about the “double life” kind of lies but rather the seemingly harmless white lies – telling your hairdresser that you love your 'do even when you actually hate it or telling someone you'll attend something when you don't really want to. Listen in as Jill gets real about some of the little lies that she has told over the decades, especially ones that she told to protect other people's feelings or avoid conflict or unpleasant confrontation. As will likely ring familiar to many listeners, Jill wasn't lying out of a place of manipulation but rather out of a place of fear – afraid of not being liked or of disappointing someone. The purpose of this episode of the show is not to pass judgment on those who frequently find themselves telling similarly motivated white lies but rather to call attention to it and examine why so many of us do it. These lies can eventually stack up to the point at which we are no longer being our authentic selves, which is a tragic betrayal of our own selves. Jill also talks listeners through how to gently and lovingly call someone out when you see the dishonesty on the other end. Again, the purpose is not to pass judgment or shame but rather to open up a conversation in which both parties are invited to be fully transparent and honest, so if you have ever told a white lie to keep the peace (and let's face it – we pretty much all have at one point in time or another) or if someone in your life keeps dodging the truth, then this episode is definitely for you! Show Notes: [01:15] - Jill used to tell small, protective lies because she feared hurting others. [03:01] - Jill has realized that lying for her has stemmed from fear, disconnection, and a lack of trusting herself. [06:32] - Avoidance often masks itself as dishonesty. [09:34] - Hear how you can love someone and still address dishonesty without judgment or shame. [12:15] - Before confronting others about their dishonesty, practice honesty with yourself via reflection or even empty chair work. Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts “I love Be You Podcast!” ← If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps the podcast reach more people just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” I know there was something in this episode that you were meant to hear. Let me know what that is! Also, if you haven't done so already, follow Be You Podcast. There is a new episode every single week, and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out.

If it's too hard, just ignore it! Sara's back from the theatre, Stephanie has a new foster, and we're taking "spiritual avoidance" head on and encountering something called bypassing. You see this all the time, and not just in spiritual communities. Avoidance, platitudes, "thoughts and prayers".... all of this can be substituted for actually identifying triggers or sitting in your actual feelings, which doesn't help you to heal or grow. So today we're confronting the idea of spiritual bypassing so you can catch yourself in the act or know when it's happening around you. Remember, no one wants to be a SPIRITUAL NARCISSIST! (dun dun DUN!)Then, at the end, a little Disney debrief about Hollywood Studios and why we know we're getting old because of motion sickness.Also, we're trying out YouTube, so go check out our channel: https://www.youtube.com/@mdmthepodMore to come there!Today's sources:Emotional Bypassing and Trauma Lock: https://aihcp.net/2024/03/06/emotional-bypassing-and-trauma-lock/Spiritual Bypass: 5 Common Examples, Why It Happens, and What to Do: https://melissanoelrenzi.com/spiritual-bypass/Spiritual Bypassing as  a Defense Mechanism: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-spiritual-bypassing-5081640  We love talking woo with you!Follow along with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mdmthepod/Join our Facebook group, Multidimensional Moms.For ad inquiries or guest/topic ideas, email us at mdmthepod@gmail.comSee you next time!

In this episode we discuss the pervasive issue of avoidance in relationships. We explore how avoidance manifests as a lack of communication and emotional engagement, leading to disconnection and mistrust. We look at the costs of avoidance, the importance of setting real boundaries, and the detrimental effects of cancel culture on personal growth and relationships. Key Takeaways: Avoidance is a habit that keeps us stuck. Hard conversations are essential for growth and intimacy. Real boundaries require clarity and courage. Cancel culture promotes disconnection instead of dialogue. Avoidance can lead to emotional numbness and self-abandonment. We must face our discomfort to heal effectively. Avoidance often masquerades as self-protection. Engaging in difficult conversations fosters trust and connection. Understanding triggers can lead to personal growth. We all have moments of avoidance; it's part of being human. More from me: Sign up for the "Heal on the Go - Audio Membership" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/offers/9tSEsULS Sign up for the $47 class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability. For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles

We all do it - put things off, tell ourselves we'll start tomorrow, and somehow still miss the deadline. But chronic procrastination isn't just a bad habit; it's self-sabotaging behavior that can derail our goals, relationships, and even our health. Psychologist Dr. Joseph Ferrari, a leading expert on procrastination, breaks down the emotional roots of procrastination, debunks the myth that we “work best under pressure,” and offers science-backed strategies for change. Plus - meet one of history's most legendary procrastinators: Leonardo da Vinci. Find out how his epic delays shaped the Mona Lisa, and why some believe he never truly finished it.   For more information, transcripts, and all episodes, please visit https://thisisyourbrain.com   For more about Weill Cornell Medicine Neurological Surgery, please visit https://neurosurgery.weillcornell.org    

Task avoidance is the tendency to delay, resist, or ignore certain tasks. Even when we know they're important. Kinda sounds like procrastination, doesn't it? For adults with ADHD, this isn't about laziness or a lack of willpower. It's often rooted in how the ADHD brain processes motivation, emotions, and executive functions… ah yes, those skills used to plan, start, and complete tasks). Join Dave on this short, ADHD-friendly podcast about task avoidance and some strategies and tactics to minimize it in your daily life. **Do you want to work with Dave one-on-one? Go to www.overcomingdistractions.com and book an introductory Zoom chat. Or go directly to Dave's calendar; https://calendly.com/davidgreenwood1/15min  

In this powerful and transparent episode, Mike and  Sam pull back the curtain on what it really takes to run a high-performance brand and business. They explore the real grind of content creation, leadership without burnout, building a personal brand that converts, and the emotional cost of avoiding hard conversations. Whether you're a business owner, content creator, or leader looking to level up, this episode is packed with raw insight, tangible strategies, and authentic moments that will hit home. Follow us and leave a review:   The Big Stud Podcast - BigStudPod.com WinRate Consulting - Winrateconsulting.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winrateconsulting/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@themikeclaudio   Win Fast, Win Often

Daily Dose of Hope June 26, 2025   Scripture – Matthew 18:1-20   Prayer: Lord Jesus, We rejoice in you.  We praise your name.  You are the Alpha and the Omega, the one who was, and is, and is to come.  We cannot possibly express our gratitude in words.  You have offered us mercy but you have also given us freedom.  Thank you for that.  Help us live like free people.  Help us demonstrate your love and grace to others who cross our path.  Help us see people through your eyes.  We love you, Lord.  Amen.   Welcome back to the Daily Dose of Hope, a Deep Dive into the Gospels and Acts.  Happy Thursday!  I want you to mark your calendars for the New Hope worship night, which is tomorrow at 7:30pm in the sanctuary.  This will be time of amazing praise and worship, as well as prayer and commissioning of the Ireland young adult mission team.  Hope to see you there!   Today, we are diving into Matthew 18, the first twenty verses.  The text starts with the disciples asking who is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.  Jesus totally redirects this!  He gets the focus off the disciples and their own need for honor and puts it on the most vulnerable in their community.  Children at that time had no status, little value, and zero control over their lives.  Something like half of all children died before reaching adulthood.  Knowing all of that, Jesus tells his disciples that the one who becomes humble and “weak” like this child will be the greatest in the Kingdom.  In fact, unless they become like vulnerable little children, they won't even be able to enter the Kingdom. This is the total opposite of the honor and status that the disciples were wanting.   What is Jesus doing here?  He is placing the most powerless members of their society at the center.  Welcoming vulnerable children means welcoming Jesus.  And Jesus says that there are few fates worse than harming them or causing them to sin.   Then, Jesus says that there are many things in this world that can cause others to stumble.  Human beings take advantage of one another.  The powerful abuse the powerless.  But Jesus' warning here is pretty strong. Woe to the person who harms those who are weak and powerless, such as children.  His language then echoes the Sermon on the Mount.  It's better to gouge out an eye or cut off a limb than to allow those things to cause you to sin and harm a powerless one.   As I reread this, I couldn't help but think about all the children that are harmed.  Around the globe, something like three million children are trafficked each year, forced into forced labor, sexual exploitation, or child marriage.  In the United States, for which it is easier to get data, roughly 20,000 children are trafficked each year.  Almost 600,000 children in the U.S. experience abuse and/or neglect every year.  While the situation is certainly complicated, children aren't being protected.  And then there are other groups who are highly vulnerable, such as the elderly, the desperately poor, and the homeless.   This is pretty strong teaching here and it gives us practical examples of how to live in Christian community, solidly grounded in Jesus.  We are to set aside power, protect the vulnerable and those the rest of society neglects, and search for the lost sheep (as we read in the next portion of Scripture).  Jesus is all about protecting those who can't protect themselves and seeking out those who are lost.  The question is – are we?   I worry that we often focus on things that just aren't that important.  We worry about ourselves.  We worry about inward-focused things in the church.  We don't lay aside power.  We aren't humble.  What would it take for us to become like little children?  What would it take for us to really live in the way of Jesus?   The last portion of Scripture we are covering today is what we might call Jesus' conflict mediation model.  If someone sins against you, you go directly to that person and try to resolve it.  You don't immediately pick up your phone and share your frustration with your closest friends.  You don't post something rude on social media.  You don't decide to quit the church.  You actually go to that person and have the hard conversation.  Most of the time that works. But if that doesn't work, Jesus has more wisdom to share.  Go find some other trusted believers and bring them in to help resolve the dispute.  That should certainly take care of things but just in case it doesn't, take it to the church.  Do keep in mind that these were pretty small house churches so taking a dispute to the church would have looked differently than it does today.  Today, it probably would mean bringing it to the pastor or some church leaders, but ONLY after you have done the other steps.  We use this model in our own leadership teams here at New Hope.  While it may not always be someone sinning against us, it could be a miscommunication or a disagreement.  That's why if someone brings me a problem that involves another church member, I always ask, “Have you talked to that person already?”  Conflict is inevitable in the church because we are all humans.  However, we need to be very intentional and respectful about how we handle conflict.  But we do need to handle it.  Avoidance, denial, gossip, and/or projection onto others never turns out well and isn't how Jesus intended his people to behave. More tomorrow, friends. Blessings, Pastor Vicki  

Reimagining Your Self-Image: The Importance of Taking a Step Back In our fast-paced world, the concept of taking a pause is often misconstrued as a sign of weakness or procrastination. However, pressing pause can be a powerful tool for realignment and rejuvenation. Taking a break can lead to introspection and new inspiration, rather than signaling defeat. Tonya Leigh explores the importance of taking a pause to realign and reinvigorate oneself. Tonya shares her personal journey from a state of misalignment to feeling inspired and expansive about the future. She emphasizes the significance of staying committed to oneself during tough times and being curious about one's emotions. By making necessary adjustments and reflecting on experiences, listeners can break through to new levels of self-image. Tonya also offers signs that indicate it might be time for a pause in your own life. Join her for insights on navigating periods of stagnation and moving toward a more vibrant self. Talking Points: 01:03 - Recognizing Misalignment and Emotional Abandonment 03:10 - The Need for a Break and Reinvigoration 05:08 - Introduction of the Summer Series 08:53 - Going Live on Instagram 11:10 - Avoidance vs. Reflection 13:54 - Feeling Worse During a Pause 15:50 - Busy but Not Fulfilled 18:50 - Evolution and Life Catching Up 22:40 - Staying Connected During the Summer 23:01 - Downloading the Free Podcast Guide Quotes: I need to take a step back, get re-inspired, get out into the world, live more, connect more, read more, enjoy more." "When you begin to look at your life through this win-win filter and ask yourself better questions, you start to come up with so many creative ideas." "What if the real risk is ignoring the voice inside of you that's asking for some stillness?" "If you build your life on decisions to avoid guilt, guess what's gonna happen? You're gonna create a life you do not like." "I do want to take a step back and ask myself, what's next?" Click HERE to Download the Free Podcast Guide  Click HERE to join the Membership  Click HERE for a FREE download  Click HERE to sign up for our newsletter, The Edit   Connect with Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh: Click HERE to follow our Instagram Click HERE to visit our website Click HERE to visit our Facebook group Click HERE to follow our TikTok Click HERE to subscribe to our YouTube channel

What if stress isn’t the enemy… but the training ground? In this sneak peek of our powerful conversation with former SAS soldier and leadership expert Tim Curtis, we unpack the real role of stress in our lives—and how it can actually help our kids grow. Tim reveals the four essential layers of resilience every child (and adult) needs to thrive—and the surprisingly simple shifts that build strength from the inside out. This episode will change the way you see stress—and empower you to raise kids who can do hard things. KEY POINTS: Stress is not always bad – the right amount (as explained by the Yerkes-Dodson Law) boosts performance and growth. Avoidance reinforces anxiety – but action activates growth. Emotions are signals, not enemies – they give us guidance if we listen. The 4 Layers of Resilience: Mind – mindset, mindfulness, meditation Body – sleep, diet, exercise Social – support systems and connection Professional – competence, confidence, contribution (including parenting as a profession) Building resilience is less about shielding kids and more about supporting them as they stretch and grow. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE: "There’s no triumph without trial."– Dr Justin Coulson RESOURCES MENTIONED: Tim Curtis’s upcoming book: Building Resilient Kids Yerkes-Dodson Law (on stress and performance) Happy Families resources: happyfamilies.com.au ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Normalise stress – Talk to your kids about stress as something useful, not something to avoid. Teach emotion awareness – Help your child understand emotions as helpful signals. Strengthen all four layers – Encourage routines that support body, mind, relationships, and purpose. Model resilience – Let your kids see you navigating difficulty with action, not avoidance. Lean into the hard stuff – Gently support your child through challenges instead of rescuing them from discomfort. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does it really mean to live a holy life? Is it more about avoiding sin—or about actively doing good? In this message from Titus 2 and 3, we explore how grace doesn't just save us from something, but calls us toward something greater. Holiness is not about withdrawal or judgment, but about love in action. When grace reshapes our desires, we don't just say “no” to sin—we say “yes” to generosity, hospitality, and Spirit-led living. Discover how holiness becomes visible, compelling, and credible when we live engaged, purposeful lives that reflect God's heart.

What if your best years are still ahead of you and your decades of experience are the very foundation for your next big move?In this episode of The Scalable Expert Podcast, Tara sits down with Tabatha Jones, also known as The Corporate Escape Sherpa, to talk about the journey from loyal corporate leader to liberated entrepreneur.Tabatha shares how she left a 30-year career at the age of 50, built a thriving coaching business, and now helps other high-achieving women do the same - before burnout or forced retirement hits. We talk about building your escape plan while still in corporate, carving out an hour a day, and designing a business around freedom, purpose, and clarity.If you're over 40 and wondering “what's next?”, this episode is your permission slip to go for it.⏱️ Chapters / Timestamps:00:00 – Meet Tabatha Jones, The Corporate Escape Sherpa 01:06 – Leaving corporate at 50: Tabatha's story 02:28 – Coaching career pivots: From promotions to freedom 04:33 – One client's bold escape plan success story 06:19 – The identity shift and mindset work after corporate 08:00 – How Tabatha supports her clients (programs + offers) 10:00 – What scaling looks like for Tabatha's business 11:31 – Certification, licensing, and future growth plans 13:01 – The “one hour a day” rule and escaping the “I'm too busy” trap 15:49 – The Candy Crush confession: Avoidance vs action 17:15 – Favorite resources: Gen X Remix podcast + 10X Is Easier Than 2X 18:39 – Final takeaway: It's never too lateAbout TabathaTabatha Jones, CEO of Empowered Leadership Coaching, is The Corporate Escape Sherpa guiding midlife women to career freedom. After leaving corporate at 50, she helped Gen-X women advance but saw a growing need to support those ready to exit. Now, she helps ambitious women build profitable, purpose-driven businesses—without risking financial security. Known for her relatable style and transformational results, Tabatha empowers women to take bold steps toward their next act.About Me:Hey, it's your host, Tara Bryan. And I am on a mission to help more business owners learn to infinitely scale their businesses by leveraging the power of online without sacrificing the customer experience or results. I like to geek out on all things business strategy, marketing, interactive digital and user experience. This podcast is all about what is working, lessons learned and actionable tips to create and grow a thriving online business. Join us each week as we dive into different strategies, tactics and tips you can apply immediately to your business. To learn more:Find us at https://www.taralbryan.comHere are two ways we can help you create, grow and scale your business:1. Want to package your expertise or become a Scalable Expert? Take our free quick assessment to see how close you are to creating a scalable business.The Scalable Expert Assessment2. ALREADY HAVE AN ONLINE BUSINESS & READY TO INFINITELY SCALE?Download our free 50 Ways to Engage Your Customers guide or Schedule a 30 minute call with Tara to talk about our offers that will help you master the game. Thanks for listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and...

Welcome to the Less Stress in Life Podcast – Empowered Wellness Series Hosted by Deb Timmerman, RN, board-certified reflexologist and natural health practitioner, alongside co-hosts Susie Marsh, LBSW and professional organizer, and Lindsay Vertalka, master's-level physical therapist.Episode Summary:In this episode, we're diving into fear avoidance—what it is, how it shows up in the body and mind, and why it can hold you back from healing. Whether it's from an injury, a fall, or a painful experience, fear can quietly set the stage for a feedback loop that limits movement, confidence, and recovery.Together, Deb, Lindsay, and Susie unpack the brain's protective mechanisms, the role of the nervous system, and the importance of small, supportive steps in rewiring fear-based patterns. You'll hear real-life stories, science-backed strategies, and practical tools to help you or someone you love move through pain—physically and emotionally—with more trust and less stress.Follow Us: Website: LessStressinLife.com/podcast/ Stay tuned for more conversations with Deb, Susie, and Lindsay as they empower you to live well, manage stress, and build a thriving, healthy life!

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP HERE , take a video of you showing your space and talking about your space, then send it to me through facebook messenger.  If selected, I will help you declutter your space for free!  Hi Guys! If you've ever looked around your home and thought, “Why can't I just clean this up?”—this episode is for you. In this honest and deeply validating episode, we explore the surprising connection between clutter, low self-worth, and shame. You'll learn how chronic messiness isn't a sign of laziness, but often a reflection of how you see yourself—and how that perception can keep you stuck in a loop of avoidance, overwhelm, and guilt. We also dive into the research behind the shame-avoidance cycle, the nervous system's response to clutter, and why traditional organizing tips don't work when your self-worth is under attack. You'll walk away with practical, science-backed tools to break free from the mental and emotional clutter—and start creating a space that reflects the version of you that's healing and growing. XO, Amber Please join us in the free facebook group: Join the free Declutter Your Chaos Community here

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP HERE , take a video of you showing your space and talking about your space, then send it to me through facebook messenger.  If selected, I will help you declutter your space for free!  Hi Guys! If you've ever looked around your home and thought, “Why can't I just clean this up?”—this episode is for you. In this honest and deeply validating episode, we explore the surprising connection between clutter, low self-worth, and shame. You'll learn how chronic messiness isn't a sign of laziness, but often a reflection of how you see yourself—and how that perception can keep you stuck in a loop of avoidance, overwhelm, and guilt. We also dive into the research behind the shame-avoidance cycle, the nervous system's response to clutter, and why traditional organizing tips don't work when your self-worth is under attack. You'll walk away with practical, science-backed tools to break free from the mental and emotional clutter—and start creating a space that reflects the version of you that's healing and growing. XO, Amber Please join us in the free facebook group: Join the free Declutter Your Chaos Community here

UX consultants Dan Szuc and Jo Wong observe peer-to-peer connection sorely missing in workplace culture and discuss how a lack of empathy and poor conduct in business settings contribute to high disengagement rates. From a UX consultancy perspective, they point out the importance of collective responsibility, empathy, and human soft skills that are harder to master. Drawing parallels between workplace dynamics and their experiences in theater and education, their view offers a different way of seeing workplace culture and the need for a cultural shift toward intentional, meaningful interactions. Their books, 'Make Meaningful Work' and 'Make Meaningful Culture,' offer practical insights for fostering a healthier work environment.The summary below was AI-generated using Descript.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:21 Discussing Workplace Culture and Disengagement01:18 Dan and Joe's Journey in UX02:42 The Importance of Empathy in the Workplace05:15 Dan's Story: From Drama to Business Culture06:54 Fundamentals of Successful Culture12:13 Challenges in Modern Workplaces19:39 The Role of Education in Shaping Culture22:25 AI and the Future of Work27:05 The Problem with Short-Termism and Attention Spans28:01 Practical Approaches to Education28:35 The Importance of Curiosity in Learning30:08 Engagement and Responsibility in Schools32:57 Avoidance and Responsibility in Workplaces33:49 The Role of Process in Work Culture35:16 Introducing the SPARKLE Framework44:17 The Impact of Early Life Experiences49:10 Promoting Meaningful Work and Culture50:21 Final Thoughts and ResourcesFind them here:Subscribe to their newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/make-meaningful-work-7327884648296972288Find them here: https://www.makemeaningfulwork.com/https://www.apogeehk.com/https://www.makemeaningfulwork.com/bookshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/173792823X?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520https://www.makemeaningfulwork.com/aboutHost Dawna Jones has been podcasting since 2008. She specializes in providing insights that make sense of everyday life and provides skills, and practices for visionary resilience and adaptive thinking. www.DawnaJones.comPlease like and subscribe if this discussion inspires you to shift your perspective on a complex topic.Substack and YouTube subscribers get advanced publication.Subcribe to Substack here: https://dawnajones.substack.com/And the podcast YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/live/8kU4Sd4b21c?si=uSPnyIMJJhRL07dy (links to this episode on live stream).Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/insight-to-action-inspirational-insights-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome back to Truth, Lies & Work, the award-winning psychology podcast from the HubSpot Podcast Network — hosted by Chartered Occupational Psychologist Leanne Elliott and business owner Al Elliott. This week, we're taking on a big leadership myth: that kindness is weakness. Alongside guest Jeff LeBlanc — lecturer, Forbes-featured strategist, and creator of the Engaged Empathy Leadership Model — we unpack what kindness really means in a leadership context. Not just whether it works, but whether we're defining it all wrong. From setting boundaries to building trust, Jeff shares real-world examples and practical strategies to make kindness a powerful leadership tool — not just a feel-good slogan.

Lately, I've been struggling with something I didn't have a name for until recently - demand avoidance. Tasks that used to feel manageable, like switching laundry or clearing the counter, suddenly feel heavy, frustrating, or impossible. Even the things I want to do are met with resistance, and it's been hard to understand why.After doing some research, I realized this is something a lot of people with ADHD deal with, and I'm not alone. In this episode, I'm sharing what I've learned about demand avoidance, why it's been showing up so strongly in my life, and how it often gets worse as we get older and take on more responsibilities.I'll also walk you through the strategies I've started trying, what's helped, what hasn't, and how I'm learning to work with my brain instead of fighting against it.If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or frustrated with yourself, this episode is for you. You are not lazy or broken. Let's talk about what's really going on and how to move forward with more self-compassion and less pressure.Follow along & connect:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejaimemclaughlin/Website: https://www.jaimemclaughlin.com

Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.Have you ever found yourself avoiding that one nagging task on your to-do list, no matter how much it weighs on your mind? In this special, interactive episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li takes you step-by-step through a powerful exercise to tackle the thing you keep putting off. You'll learn how to identify your resistance, boost your sense of personal power, and finally take action—all with grace and self-compassion. Get ready to laugh, gain new energy, and celebrate your progress as Dr. Li guides you out of avoidance and into accomplishment. Don't miss this transformative episode—your most dreaded task won't know what hit it!Timestamps:[00:01:42] – Dr. Li introduces the interactive format and invites listeners to engage with the exercise.[00:02:47] – Step 1: Identify the one big task you keep avoiding. She stresses the importance of saying it out loud or sharing it with someone.[00:03:38] – The power of verbalizing the task and how it helps release its negative energy.[00:05:03] – Making the process light and enjoyable, not painful. Encouragement to approach self-development with kindness.[00:06:22] – Step 2: Identify the resistance—what makes this task so difficult for you.[00:08:15] – Tips on observing your resistance without criticism, and taking note of your thoughts and feelings.[00:08:40] – Step 3: Elevate your power—reminding yourself you are more powerful than the task or your resistance.[00:11:40] – Recap—don't get distracted by your whole to-do list; focus on one thing at a time.[00:12:35] – Step 4: Take action—identify the next reasonable step and move forward with gratitude.[00:13:58] – Dr. Li encourages sharing progress and explains where to get a free resource on conquering avoidance.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/victoryTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab                        Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP

Send us a textIn this episode of the IBS Nutrition Podcast, I'm joined by Dr. Ali Navidi — a licensed clinical psychologist and co-founder of GI Psychology — to explore how the gut-brain connection drives IBS symptoms, and how targeted psychological treatment can lead to lasting relief.We dive into what the gut-brain axis really is (without the medical jargon), when to seek support from a GI psychologist, and how tools like gut-directed CBT and clinical hypnosis can break the vicious cycle of symptom-anxiety-symptom. Whether you've been told “it's all in your head” or you're feeling stuck after trying diet changes alone, this episode will show you that IBS relief is possible with the right care team.In This Episode, You'll Learn:✔ What the gut-brain axis is and how it fuels IBS symptoms✔ Why IBS isn't “just in your head” (and how to break the shame cycle)✔ When to seek support from a GI psychologist — and why sooner is better✔ How treatment works: CBT, hypnotherapy, and tailored assessment✔ The role of food fear, avoidance, and nervous system dysregulation✔ Dr. Navidi's top 3 actionable tips to calm your gut and mind right nowTimestamps:[00:00] Welcome & intro to Dr. Ali Navidi[01:32] What is the gut-brain connection?[04:18] Why IBS isn't "just in your head"[07:37] Hypervigilance and the anxiety feedback loop[09:39] When to seek GI psych support[13:01] How assessments & treatment work[15:39] Gut-directed CBT vs. clinical hypnosis[17:53] Avoidance behaviours in IBS[20:55] Key takeaways for managing IBS[21:07] Dr. Navidi's 3 actionable steps for symptom relief[26:05] Final message to IBS sufferers[27:36] How to access more supportResources Mentioned:

We've all had moments where we watch ourselves make the exact wrong choice: procrastinating on an important task, picking a fight in a good relationship, or pulling back just when things are starting to go well. This is self-sabotage, and in this episode Dr. Rick and Forrest explore why we do it and how to stop. They talk about how self-sabotage often serves as a form of psychological self-protection, and why doing well can feel like a threat to our identity, before discussing avoidance coping, the conflict between aspects of who we are, and why we stay safe rather than stepping forward. Along the way, they offer practical strategies for updating outdated internal models, working with different parts of ourselves, and building the inner resources that make real change possible. Change Your Mind with Rick: Learn how to break old patterns and change the thoughts that keep you stuck with Rick's six-week online course on the science of changing your mind. Learn more at RickHanson.com/changing and use coupon code BeingWell25 to receive a 25% discount. Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 2:05: What is self-sabotage, really? 6:10: Why self-sabotage is often a form of protection 10:20: Avoidance coping and the logic of “safe failure” 14:40: The identity cost of doing well 18:55: Internal conflict and the parts model 26:15: Challenge vs. threat: how the brain evaluates risk 32:05: Real-life examples of self-sabotage 37:30: How to begin working with self-sabotaging parts 45:45: Working with self-destructive parts 51:10: Creating safer conditions for growth 57:25: Building a feedback loop that reinforces trust 1:02:40: Recap and additional take-aways Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Head to acornsearly.com/beingwell or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today.  Get Notion Mail for free right now at notion.com/beingwell, and try the inbox that thinks like you For a limited time, get Headspace FREE for 60 days. Go to Headspace.com/BEINGWELL60. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Go to ZOE.com and find out what ZOE Membership could do for you. Use code WELL10 to get 10% off membership. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Join host Joel Brice as he sits down with Dr. Brad Cohen to explore groundbreaking GPS research on mallard migration. Discover how mallards are changing their travel patterns, avoiding hunters, and what it means for the future of waterfowl hunting and conservation.Website and Social Media Links:Delta Waterfowl: https://deltawaterfowl.orgFacebook: /DeltaFans/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deltawaterfowl/Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeltaWaterfowl/Delta Waterfowl: https://deltawaterfowl.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DeltaFans/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deltawaterfowl/Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeltaWaterfowl/

Have we finally found the source of ultra-high energy cosmic rays? Our first look at the Sun's south pole, New Glenn slips again, what kind of damage would rockets do to the ozone layer? And in Space Bites+, a pair of quasars that dominated Cosmic Noon.

Book a Free Coaching Session https://joeryan.com. Empowering Individuals To Break Free From Childhood Programming, Emotional Paralysis, and Family System Roles. This is not traditional talk therapy. Inner Work Coaching is a raw, real, personalized experience.--Understanding and Healing Trauma: A Guide to Emotional FreedomIn this episode of "It's Not You, It's Your Trauma," Joe Ryan explores the profound connection between trauma, fear, and connection. He emphasizes that many of us avoid uncomfortable feelings—whether through busyness, substances, or distraction—because we're afraid of our body's reactions and the pain they bring.Joe highlights that our deep desire for connection often clashes with our fear of intimacy, especially if we've experienced childhood neglect or abuse. This disconnect from ourselves manifests as anxiety, panic, shame, and emotional numbness. To heal, he advocates for getting comfortable with discomfort by intentionally sitting with our feelings, particularly in quiet, safe environments. This exposure helps tame the "beast" of unresolved trauma.He stresses that addiction is often a misguided attempt to numb these feelings, but ultimately, every addiction fails and worsens emotional suffering. Instead, Ryan encourages reconnecting with the "inner child"—the vulnerable part of ourselves that was silenced or abandoned in childhood—and integrating these suppressed emotions into our adult consciousness.The process involves recognizing that feelings are energy in motion that need to be felt and released. Avoidance only deepens the pain and shrinks our world. Through mindful presence, breathing into discomfort, and allowing ourselves to feel, we can begin to heal and reclaim emotional freedom. Ryan assures that while this work can be challenging, it is essential for long-term well-being and authenticity.---Would you like a shorter or more detailed version?- Website: https://joeryan.com- Instagram: https://instagram.com/joeryan- Subscribe: https://joeryan.com/subscribe/- Coaching: https://joeryan.com/coaching/

In this episode, my client gets real about what it's like to look successful on the outside while quietly struggling behind the scenes. She opens up about the pressure to hold it all together, the wake-up call that came through her relationship, and the emotional work it took to finally stop avoiding her finances.We talk about:What it feels like to always make money but never see itHow avoidance, overspending, and guilt became her normalThe moment she let her partner see her full financial picture for the first timeWhat changed when she stopped pretending and started planningThis episode is for anyone who feels like they should “have it together by now” but secretly knows the numbers don't add up. You're not alone.To learn more about 1:1 money coaching with Aqura ⁠⁠⁠⁠click ⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You will find all the details about money coaching, who it's for, what you will achieve and how to book a sales call to start working together.Subscribe to Surplus & Safety to keep more of what you earn, feel in control, and always know you're safe, no matter what's coming in. You won't just make more money, but. you'll finally feel safe with the surplus.Follow Aqura on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@aquranicholson⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 

The gender divide is tearing through every corner of our lives right now, and honestly? It's fucking confusing out there. While ambitious women are crushing it in boardrooms and lecture halls, we're watching a crisis of masculinity unfold in real time—and the dating challenges that follow are enough to make you want to swipe left on humanity altogether.How did we get to a place where traditional gender roles feel both completely outdated and weirdly appealing again, where toxic masculinity battles with something called "tonic masculinity," and where the trad wife movement is somehow trending on the same timeline as record-breaking female college enrollment? If you're watching this cultural battlefield from the middle like I am, wondering what the hell happened to just... connecting with people, then buckle up because we're about to unpack why everyone feels so damn lost.In today's episode, we're talking about everything from the rise of incels to why Gen Z is rushing back to church, plus the real tea on why building meaningful friendships in adulthood feels harder than landing your dream job. This isn't about picking sides—it's about understanding how gender and mental health, modern family dynamics, and our collective fear of rejection are shaping the way we love, work, and show up in the world.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the gender divide is creating an 80/20 dating crisis that's leaving high-achieving women struggling to find equal partnersThe shocking data behind the crisis of masculinity—including why suicide rates among young men are skyrocketing and what it means for all of usHow toxic masculinity versus tonic masculinity is reshaping what it means to be a man in 2025 (and why Tim Walz is the perfect example)The real political agenda behind the trad wife movement and why "prairie core" isn't as innocent as those sourdough starters make it seemWhy 60% of college students are now women and how this educational flip is changing modern family gender roles foreverThe connection between avoidance of pain, dating challenges, and why everyone's rushing back to traditional gender normsHow ambitious women are burning out trying to prove their worth while simultaneously being told to "lean back" into feminine energyThe surprising strategy for building deep friendships in adulthood that actually works (hint: it involves getting comfortable with rejection)If this episode hit a nerve, GOOD! It means you're awake and ready to stop avoiding the hard conversations that actually change things. The state of gender roles is playing out in every boardroom, bedroom, and dating app, and understanding why we've ended up here gives you serious power to navigate it all differently.So tell me: which part of this cultural shift resonates most with your own experience? Are you feeling the dating struggles, the friendship challenges, or maybe you're questioning everything you thought you knew about modern gender norms?If you're ready to build something meaningful in your business, relationships, or leadership while working through any of this cultural chaos, book a free strategy call with me at allisonhare.com/freecall to find your voice in this shifting landscape.Links & Mentioned Resources"The Mask You Live In" - Documentary by Jennifer Newsome (Gavin Newsom's wife) about how boys are socialized to suppress emotionsThe Lost Boys Study - Research from The Center for Social Justice (UK-based organization) examining educational and economic disparities affecting young menEmily in Your Phone - Substack newsletter by Emily Amick discussing the political undertones of the tradwife movementLaunch your podcast - Book a free clarity call with AllisonNotable Time Stamps00:01 - Episode introduction: The elephant in the gender studies room and why everything feels confusing right now02:30 - Growing up in the 90s: How women were socialized to be small, pleasant, and pick-me girls06:45 - The makeup bag story: Personal reflection on teenage socialization and the need to "present perfectly"09:15 - The Lost Boys Study: Data on how men are struggling educationally, economically, and mentally12:20 - Male suicide crisis: Why suicide is now the leading cause of death for men under 5014:10 - "The Mask You Live In" documentary discussion: How boys are limited to only two emotions17:35 - Toxic vs. tonic masculinity explained (Tim Walz as an example)19:45 - The incel movement and Andrew Tate's influence on frustrated young men25:30 - The tradwife movement: Political undertones behind the "prairie core" aesthetic31:20 - Personal story: Leaving corporate job and unlearning "never rely on a man" messaging36:15 - Modern dating crisis: The 80/20 problem and educational gender flip40:25 - Friendship struggles: The shame of not having a best friend as a high-performing woman43:50 - Coach Dara's friendship strategy: Being upfront about wanting deep connections48:30 - Avoidance of pain as the root of cultural problems52:15 - Final thoughts on connection, rejection, and getting out of comfort zones Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

Today on the show, we welcome Scott Kiloby and Toshi Matsunaga, authors of Awake But Sick, to explore the hidden emotional pain that can persist even after profound spiritual awakening. Their work challenges the common myths of nonduality and mindfulness, offering a deeper path through emotional repression, physical illness, and the illusion of immediate freedom. In this conversation, we explore the gap between awakening and true healing, the dangers of spiritual bypassing, and how to reconnect with the body's wisdom to find lasting peace. Links Kiloby.com Nondualship with Toshi Matsunaga Nonduality & KI Monthly Meeting with Toshi Awake But Sick Emotional Repression Test Inquiry Topics 00:00 Introduction to Guests and Their Work 01:34 Scott and Toshi's Journey to Collaboration 02:31 Understanding Kiloby Inquiries (KI) 03:12 The Dimensions of Spiritual Practice 04:54 Addressing Spiritual Bypassing 08:48 The Connection Between Awakening and Suffering 12:26 The Role of Repressed Emotions 15:28 Integrating Non-Dual Teachings with Modern Psychosis 25:49 The Iceberg Metaphor and Emotional Repression 29:13 The Role of Spiritual Practices in Repression 31:35 Identifying Patterns of Avoidance and Spiritual Bypassing 32:49 Signs of Repression in Meditation and Spiritual Practices 36:31 Understanding and Addressing Anger Repression 46:54 The Importance of Community in Spiritual Work 52:20 Connecting with the Speakers and Their Work Support the mission of SAND and the production of this podcast by becoming a SAND Member

In this episode, we explore the leadership skill most of us avoid: difficult conversations. You'll learn the mindset shifts that help you move from avoidance to courage, practical techniques to navigate tough talks with clarity and care, and the ripple effect these conversations can have on trust, team culture, and your own confidence. This episode also kicks off a 4-part series leading into the Leadership Build Series—a hands-on group learning experience using LEGO® Serious Play®. Full details coming July 2! Looking for a community of leaders where you can tackle real challenges, share wins, and grow together—without office politics getting in the way? Join Leadership Thought Partners, a coach-led, group-directed space launching in July. Registration closes on June 22, 2025 at strongleadersserve.com/ltp! Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/teri-m-schmidt/Get 1-on-1 leadership support from Teri here: https://www.strongleadersserve.com/coachingSet up an intro call with Teri: https://calendly.com/terischmidt/discoverycall

00:00:08 We welcome you today to Social Skills Coaching00:10:38 The Procrastination Cycle.00:11:54 1. Unhelpful assumptions or made-up rules.00:12:07 2. Increasing discomfort.00:12:19 3. Excuses for procrastination to decrease psychological discomfort.00:12:36 4. Avoidance activities to decrease psychological discomfort.00:12:50 5. Negative and positive consequences.00:14:06 TakeawaysThe Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity, and Stop Self-Sabotage By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/4biaP9Jhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S4GSHZYAre you tired of letting procrastination hold you back from achieving your goals? It's time to become a productivity powerhouse! In this episode, we dive into the groundbreaking book "The Science of Getting Started" by Patrick King. Discover why procrastination is an opportunity assassin and learn how to break free from its grip on your life. Chapter 1 reveals the shocking truth about why you might be a 'couch potato' and how it's linked to your tendency to delay tasks. We explore the vicious cycle of procrastination and provide insights into understanding and overcoming psychological barriers. King delves deep into the biological and evolutionary reasons behind our procrastination habits, offering a scientific approach to beating these instinctual drives. Get ready to transform your life by applying these powerful strategies! With studies analyzed and practical tips provided, you'll be equipped to slay your personal procrastination monster once and for all. --Don't miss out on this opportunity to boost your productivity and achieve success faster. Click the link in the description to purchase the book and get started on your journey towards a more disciplined and fulfilling life. Hear it Here: https://adbl.co/4biaP9J

This week I'm joined by Tanya Gallagher, MD and founder of Limitless Leadership, an award-winning leadership development consultancy. Tanya brings a wealth of wisdom to the space of leadership development, and what stood out to me most in our conversation is just how practical and human her definition of extra-Ordinary leadership is.We dig into the difference between good, bad, and terrible leadership, and what it really means to take ownership. It's a conversation that will shift how you see your role as a leader. We discuss psychological safety, promotion dynamics, and the underrated power of what Tanya calls “contracting conversations”—those small yet powerful exchanges that can transform working relationships.If you've ever avoided a conversation because it felt awkward, if you've ever felt resentment building under the surface, or if you're leading people without ever asking what they need from you, this episode is for you.

In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and trauma expert, to tackle one of the most common relationship challenges: when sex starts feeling like just another item on your to-do list. From exploring why intimacy can lose its spark to practical strategies for reigniting desire, this conversation gets to the heart of what happens when pleasure becomes obligation. We dive deep into the psychology behind sexual disconnection, examining how stress, routine, and unspoken resentments can transform what should be joyful into something that feels burdensome. Dr. Scott shares insights on nervous system regulation and how our bodies respond when we're overwhelmed, while Dr. Emily offers practical advice on communication, scheduling intimacy, and the importance of prioritizing pleasure throughout the week—not just in the bedroom. This episode addresses the reality that many couples face: mismatched libidos, the pressure to perform, and the challenge of maintaining sexual connection amid life's demands. We explore how to shift from duty-based sex to desire-driven intimacy, the role of variety and spontaneity in long-term relationships, and why "priming for pleasure" throughout the week is essential for a fulfilling sex life. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - When Sex Becomes a Chore 03:00:00 - The Psychology of Sexual Obligation06:41:00 - Mismatched Libidos and Relationship Dynamics 08:26:00 - Breaking the Routine: Adding Variety and Play 11:07:00 - Communication vs. Avoidance in Sexual Relationships 15:38:00 - Priming for Pleasure Throughout the Week 18:06:00 - Scheduling Sex: Intentional vs. Spontaneous Intimacy 23:10:00 - From Duty to Desire: Practical Strategies 28:14:00 - Building Anticipation and Connection 30:04:00 - Redefining Sexual Success and Satisfaction Whether you're feeling disconnected from your partner or just want to prevent sex from becoming routine, this episode offers compassionate guidance and actionable strategies for reclaiming the joy and connection that intimate relationships can provide. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx  Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily  Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily  TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

For a long time the central part of our galaxy was mostly hidden from us because of all the dust. It was even called the Zone of Avoidance. But with better telescopes and modern techniques we can peer inside and reveal what's hiding. Even build 3D-maps of the region.

In this heartfelt episode of the Next Level Podcast, Brianna McIntyre steps in for Michael to explore a deeply personal and relatable topic: avoidance. Speaking candidly from her own experience, Brianna shares how seasons of hiding or silence—sometimes spiritual, sometimes fear-based—can lead to a subtle kind of stuckness. She unpacks how comfort zones can masquerade as wisdom, and how true growth often begins with recognizing where we've avoided action, emotion, or even God's prompting. Through gentle insight and spiritual encouragement, Brianna invites listeners to examine their own hearts, pray for clarity, and take just one brave step forward. The episode closes with a powerful prayer over listeners, releasing them into supernatural clarity, compassion, and actionable peace.

This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are confronting conflict avoidance! They discuss how they each handle conflict personally, the two ends of the spectrum: from avoidance to reactionary, the benefits and downfalls of conflict avoidance, the temporary discomfort for long-term relief, why practice makes progress, getting comfortable with your tears, and so much more! Em and Jen also share a script to use if you find yourself avoiding a conflict, and answer the question: are we all stuck in our conflict styles? Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 5:10 to skip the intro and get straight to today's content. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Matched With One of Our Therapists⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ at The Therapy Group! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ShrinkChicks on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Know Yourself Grow Yourself Journal⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!! Check out ShrinkChicks on YouTube by subscribing here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/channel/UCrxuhDqoL4ML3UE8b2J2BBg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ A special thank you to this week's sponsors for supporting ShrinkChicks! We have these exclusive offers for our listeners: Leesa: Go to ⁠Leesa.com⁠ for 25% off a mattress PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code shrinkchicks, exclusive for our listeners Green Chef: Head to ⁠Greenchef.com/50SHRINKCHICKS⁠ and use code 50SHRINKCHICKS to get 50% off your first month, then 20% off for two months with free shipping Wildgrain: Get $30 off your first box - PLUS free croissants in every box - when you go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Wildgrain.com/SHRINKCHICKS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to start your subscription or use code SHRINKCHICKS at checkout Pretty Litter: Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠prettylitter.com/SHRINKCHICKS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 20% on your first order and get a free cat toy Quince: Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠quince.com/shrinkchicks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order Spot & Tango: Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠spotandtango.com/shrinkchicks⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code SHRINKCHICKS to get 50% off your first order

In this episode we'll discuss the concept of relational bypassing, a pattern where individuals avoid emotional pain in relationships, particularly after infidelity. This behavior can hinder intimacy and healing, so there is a real importance of emotional presence and truth in rebuilding the trust. Key Takeaways: Relational bypassing can kill intimacy in relationships. Fixing without hearing leads to disconnection. Emotional shortcutting delays healing. What we resist stays stuck; what we feel can move. Both partners in infidelity need to process their emotions. Avoidance strategies prevent real connection. Emotional presence is crucial for rebuilding trust. Truth must come from a real place for healing. Controlling the narrative can be a form of bypassing. Choosing connection over comfort fosters intimacy. More from me: Sign up for the "Heal on the Go - Audio Membership" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/offers/9tSEsULS Sign up for the $47 class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability. For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles

How much of your life is cluttered with things that distract from your true priorities?Today Art speaks with professional organizer Angie Hyche. Angie reveals her five-year struggle with fear before finally pursuing her calling as a certified pro organizer. Her story begins in a theater prop room where she discovered her obsession with bringing order to chaos. Yet fear kept her in a safe school job until a bike trail conversation with her husband changed everything. "There are thousands of people less intelligent than you starting businesses," he said. That moment of courage launched not just a business, but a complete transformation of character.Angie's wisdom goes far beyond physical organizing. She courageously admits to avoiding God through busyness and mental clutter. "I can have a full schedule and be promoting my business, yet I'm not taking time to spend with God," she confesses. Her definition of clutter as "anything that distracts from priorities" revolutionizes how we view our stuff, schedules, and spiritual lives. What would change if you stopped avoiding the "horrible alone" and pushed past fear to discover what's calling you?Angie Hyche is an author, speaker, podcaster, and retired certified professional organizer (CPO®) who helps people overwhelmed with clutter in their homes, schedules, or minds. She spent 7+ years working in client homes, believing only by eliminating what doesn't matter can we prioritize what does. Her books include "Unholy Mess: What the Bible Says about Clutter" and "Uncluttered: Shaping Your Heart & Home for What Matters Most" with co-author Liana George. Living in East Tennessee with husband Eric, Angie's goal is helping people declutter their lives to focus on what's most important.About The Show: The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we're given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.In This Episode: (00:00) Discovering Your True Calling in Unexpected Places(09:12) The Five Years of Fear and Avoidance(21:12) Midlife Transition Mastery Ad(28:08) From Comparison to Contentment(35:24) How Busyness Becomes Spiritual Avoidance(41:39) The Addiction to Constant Entertainment(47:42) Transition Mastery Coaching Ad(50:46) The Donation Box Method for Decluttering Life(57:05) Creating Space Instead of Adding SpeedLike, subscribe, and send us your comments and feedback.Resources:Angie Hyche WebsiteUncluttered: Shaping Your Heart & Home for What Matters Most on AmazonUnholy Mess: What the Bible Says about Clutter on AmazonAngie Hyche Social Media:FacebookInstagramLinkedInEmail Art BlanchfordLife in Transition WebsiteLife in Transition on IGLife in Transition on FBJoin Our Community: https://www.lifeintransition.online/My new book PURPOSEFUL LIVING is out now. Order it now: https://www.amazon.com/PURPOSEFUL-LIVING-Wisdom-Coming-Complex/dp/1963913922Explore our website https://lifeintransitionpodcast.com/ for more in-depth information and resources, and to download the 8-step guide to mastering mid-life transitions.The views and opinions expressed on the Life In Transition podcast are solely those of the author and guests and should not be attributed to any other individual or entity. This podcast is an independent production of Life In Transition Podcast, and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained—copyright 2025.

My guest is Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor, PhD, Professor of Clinical Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Arizona and a world expert on the science of grief and loss. We discuss what happens in the brain and body when we grieve, the role of dopamine and yearning in the grieving process, the health risks of getting stuck at particular stages of grief and how to move through loss while also deeply honoring the person, animal or thing that is no longer with us. Dr. O'Connor explains that grief involves cycling back and forth between protest and despair (often guilt and anger too) and explains science-supported ways to move through that process in the healthiest possible way. Everyone experiences grief and loss at some point. Dr. O'Connor provides valuable knowledge and tools to help you navigate grief under any circumstance. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Wealthfront**: https://wealthfront.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman Helix Sleep: https://helixsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman **This experience may not be representative of the experience of other clients of Wealthfront, and there is no guarantee that all clients will have similar experiences. Cash Account is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, Member FINRA/SIPC. The Annual Percentage Yield (“APY”) on cash deposits as of December 27,‬ 2024, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to partner banks where they earn the variable‭ APY. Promo terms and FDIC coverage conditions apply. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Timestamps 00:00:00 Mary-Frances O'Connor 00:02:22 Grief vs Grieving; Love & Bonding, Gone Yet Everlasting 00:07:42 Sponsors: Wealthfront & BetterHelp 00:10:29 Sudden vs Slow Death, Attachment, Reframing Relationship 00:14:52 Religion, Integrating the New Relationship 00:20:46 Yearning, Dopamine, Brain, Addiction 00:27:58 Culture & Grief Literacy; Protest, Despair & Hope, New Relationships 00:40:09 Sponsors: AG1 & Helix Sleep 00:43:21 Protest, Despair & Transmutation; Changing Attachment Hierarchy 00:52:04 Bereavement Support, Medical Risk 01:05:27 Culture, Alcohol & Death; Dying of a Broken Heart, Medical Risk 01:13:40 Sponsor: Function 01:15:28 Navigating Grief, Emotions & Body, Tool: Progressive Muscle Relaxation 01:23:57 Grief Stages; Permission & Coping, Judgment & Guilt; Lessons from Grief 01:35:44 Grieving Suicide, Rumination, Tool: Shifting Environment 01:47:24 Belief Systems, Religion & Grief 01:54:17 Afterlife, Contemplating Death 01:58:35 Tools: Contemplating Death; Life Celebration, Terror Management, Empathy 02:07:46 Mental Oscillation, Dual Model of Bereavement 02:14:00 Avoidance; Remembering a Loved One, Resilience; Getting Worse & Seeking Professional Help 02:22:15 Time Perception & End of Life, Motivation & Energy 02:30:01 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow & Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fill out our listener survey here: https://adamyounggolf.com/survey In this episode, we discuss the importance of embracing your driver and how this translates to other parts of your game where it's easy to "avoid" your weaknesses. Additionally, we discuss benchmarks in impact location and their influence on ball flight. Thank you to our show sponsors Shot Pattern, Rhoback, Hammer Made and LMNT Experience the unmatched comfort and versatility of Rhoback (pronounced ROW-back) Activewear, perfect for the golf course to everyday life. From polos with the best collars in the game to incredibly soft Q-zips for early morning rounds and hoodies so comfortable you'll never want to take them off, Rhoback delivers performance without sacrificing style. Use code SWEET20 for 20% off your first purchase at ⁠⁠rhoback.com • Hammer Made offers unique, stylish, and small-batch-produced menswear. Manufactured in the same facilities as some of the top luxury brands, but without the crazy price tag. Look good and feel good with their perfectly tailored polos, button-downs, sport coats, and more. Use code SWEETSPOT at https://www.hammermade.com/sweetspot to get $50 off your first purchase. • Shot Pattern is the golf GPS and stats app that puts strategy at the forefront. The app is built to help you learn, see, and understand your shot dispersion to pick smarter targets based on your data and shoot lower scores. New users get 20% off by visiting ⁠⁠https://shotpattern.app/sweetspot⁠ • If you want to take your hydration to the next level without sugar and all of the other dodgy ingredients in sports drinks, then you need to try LMNT. They just released a limited edition lemonade blend for the summer months. Visit https://drinklmnt.com/sweetspot to claim your free gift. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this moving and relatable episode, I sit down with Lauren, a recent graduate of my Panic to Peace program, as she shares her powerful journey through anxiety, panic disorder, and agoraphobia. Lauren opens up about the life events that triggered her struggle—loss, burnout, and avoidance—and how it all came to a head during one hot summer day in Brooklyn.We talk about:The early signs of anxiety Lauren experienced as a childThe moment her panic and avoidance really took holdThe terrifying experience that led her to avoid heat, travel, and even grocery shoppingHer resistance to medication, perfectionist tendencies, and the shame she carriedHow exposure work, therapy, community, and self-compassion helped her reclaim her lifeLauren's story is not just inspiring—it's packed with insights, validation, and reminders that you're not alone. She shares what helped her shift from fear and avoidance to confidence and freedom, and what it really took to heal (hint: it wasn't just pushing through or trying harder!).Whether you're in the thick of anxiety or well into your recovery, this episode is a must-listen!GET ON THE PANIC TO PEACE WAITING LIST HERE: https://www.ahealthypush.com/live-panic-to-peaceSIGN UP FOR MY FREE 60 MINUTE MASTERCLASS - 5 SHIFTS YOU NEED MAKE TO OVERCOME ANXIETY, PANIC DISORDER, & AGORAPHOBIA: https://ahealthypush.myflodesk.com/g2glrk93qlCHECK OUT MY MASTERCLASSES HERE AND START EXPERIENCING LOTS MORE PEACE, JOY, & FREEDOM: https://www.ahealthypush.com/anxiety-classesA HEALTHY PUSH INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ahealthypush/GET THIS EPISODE'S SHOW NOTES:

Prepare for a hearty mix of culinary tips, avoidance of hypothetical scenarios, and the usual guru grievances. Will Jordan Peterson ever admit he's a Christian? Is it ever truly possible to understand Sam Harris AND still disagree with him? And where does Joe Rogan's primal hate for owls come in? Tune in for at least some of the answers to these pressing questions in this bubbling broth of an episode.Supplementary Material 3000:00 Introduction and Culinary Corner12:29 The Buddhism Book cometh14:09 Joe Rogan on Astrology25:22 Rogan's Christian Conversion?32:18 Rogan on Owls...43:09 Jordan Peterson vs 20 Atheists48:55 Is JBP a Christian?54:34 It depends what you mean by believe...01:00:22 Jordan Peterson vs. hypotheticals01:13:54 Hancock Orbiters continue to be terrible01:19:58 Sam Harris' Business Manager is kinda bad01:26:22 Sam is being misinterpreted again01:35:11 The Fundamentalist Impulse01:38:09 Post-Debate Weinstein Activity01:40:32 Sam Harris is still mad with Ezra Klein01:48:39 OutroThe full episode is available for Patreon subscribers (1hr 49 mins).Join us at: https://www.patreon.com/DecodingTheGurusSources- A good Irish Stew recipe- The Buddhism Book!- Joe Rogan Experience #2323 - Guy Fieri- Jubilee: Jordan Peterson vs 20 Atheists | Surrounded- Dan Richards' charming tweet to Flint- Professor Dave: Dan Richards is a Pointless Troll- "More From Sam": Religion, Deportations, Douglas Murray vs. Rogan, & Bill Maher's Dinner with Trump- “More From Sam”: Trump & Israel, Corruption, Free Speech Violations, the Democrats, & Ezra Klein- Sam Harris' Substack: What Whataboutery?- Sam and Ezra's email exchange- Vox: Charles Murray is once again peddling junk science about race and IQ. Podcaster and author Sam Harris is the latest to fall for it.