Hi. I’m Anneshirley. A black feminist, first generation Americana. I hope you learn something here, cause we’ll be discussing all things.

i want to be clear that being a codependent person does not out you to be bad, but we have to be honest

When is it time to leave a situetionship? There's a universal way of knowing

This week let’s talk about the myths of being worthy because you’re single

how to tell when they’re faking intimacy?

How do we manage our anxiousness and need for control?

Let’s explore how we have allowed trauma to dictate our dating experiences

Season 5 close. Let’s unpack our fear of intimacy.

All relationships that lack balance, fail.

Let’s talk about the impact of being obligation and autonomy

Let’s talk about why being strong is outdated

Let’s talk about how the push and pull dynamic is a form of self sabotage

In this weeks episode, we’re discussing how to tell if you’re just wasting your time in the honeymoon stage

Hey y’all! In this weeks episode we discuss why folks are commitment phobic and how to identify them so you don’t waste your time --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

It’s the season 5 opener !!! Let’s talk. Why do we have trust issues?

Hey! In this weeks episode we call out millennial dating and how situationhips are just exploitation

This weeks' episode is looking at the ways you can center yourself when youre going through a breakup

Have you ever dealt with someone not giving you the same energy you’re giving them? Here’s the tea

In this episode we talk about attachment styles and how they influence love

Let’s talk about why men don’t like women who want them

Should you be patient with men who don’t have it together?

Let’s talk about how monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone.

Did you miss the signs that this was just potential?

Let’s talk about STI MYTHS

Let’s talk about love bombing. Can you identify when they’re interested?

HAPPY NEW YEAR let’s talk about how we destroy our boundaries in order to avoid being abandoned

Can dating multiple people at once save you from cheating?

YOU MUST BELIEVE IN YOU --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode we talk about how this manipulative tactic is the core of a lot of issues

This is our first guest speaker on our first episode of season 3, and we talk about how possession and love do not co-exist

Being hypercritical is a power move. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Let’s explore why we can’t help but be drawn to certain people! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Let’s talk about how communication works with narcissistic folks.

This episode discusses how cognitive dissonance forces you to acclimate to poor thinking patterns.

Sex is the stimulation of your genitalia for orgasm.

The way we think can create self sabotaging patterns.

In fact, even when you do everything to be there for them, it doesn’t matter.

Let’s have a frank talk about how mental illness can effect our relationships.

We’re taught it we close our legs, wait until marriage and don’t post on Instagram we’re getting married. But that’s not always the case? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We need to break down the truth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Quickly quipping about how unions evolve over time --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Is there such thing as being “too independent”? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Is it better to be honest with a cheating dude, or be the one in the dark about the cheating?

Stay single for as long as you can. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app