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Hi. I’m Anneshirley. A black feminist, first generation Americana. I hope you learn something here, cause we’ll be discussing all things.

Unfriendly Black Hottie


    • Oct 15, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 52 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Unfriendly Black Hottie

    S7:E1 CODEPENDENCY IS NARCISSISTIC

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 10:57


    i want to be clear that being a codependent person does not out you to be bad, but we have to be honest

    SEASON FINALE: RIDE OR DIE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 18:15


    do men really prefer ride or die chicks

    S6 E6: STOP SETTLING

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2021 4:31


    Anneshirley discusses why the genders settle.

    S6:E5 WALK AWAY

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2021 6:51


    When is it time to leave a situetionship? There's a universal way of knowing

    AGEISM IN DATING WHILE BEING A SINGLE PARENT

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2021 7:47


    This week let’s talk about the myths of being worthy because you’re single

    S6 E3: it’s the coochie they miss. not you sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 8:11


    how to tell when they’re faking intimacy?

    S6: E2 IF YOUR ANXIOUSNESS IS DRIVING DATING YOU ARE LOSING

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 13:26


    How do we manage our anxiousness and need for control?

    S6:E1 CAN I TRUST MYSELF TO CHOOSE BETTER?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 8:47


    Let’s explore how we have allowed trauma to dictate our dating experiences

    WHY ARE WE SNACKING ON INTIMACY?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2021 9:44


    Season 5 close. Let’s unpack our fear of intimacy.

    WHATS THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP IF ITS GOING TO BE IMBALANCED?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2021 7:36


    All relationships that lack balance, fail.

    SHOULD YOU DATE OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2021 20:58


    Let’s talk about the impact of being obligation and autonomy

    BLACK WOMEN ARE TIRED OF BEING STRONG

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 9:00


    Let’s talk about why being strong is outdated

    WHY DO I LOVE AND HATE THE PUSH AND PULL?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2020 10:08


    Let’s talk about how the push and pull dynamic is a form of self sabotage

    HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM BUILDING THEM UP FOR SOMEONE ELSE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2020 9:36


    In this weeks episode, we’re discussing how to tell if you’re just wasting your time in the honeymoon stage

    WHATS COMMITMENT PHOBIA

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2020 17:08


    Hey y’all! In this weeks episode we discuss why folks are commitment phobic and how to identify them so you don’t waste your time --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    WHO SAID BEING EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE WAS COOL?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 11:05


    It’s the season 5 opener !!! Let’s talk. Why do we have trust issues?

    WHEN IS IT TIME TO CALL IT QUITS ON A SITUATIONSHIP?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2020 15:57


    Hey! In this weeks episode we call out millennial dating and how situationhips are just exploitation

    HOW DO I MOVE ON FROM SOMEONE I WANT?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 12:36


    This weeks' episode is looking at the ways you can center yourself when youre going through a breakup

    WHY DO I FEEL SO CONFUSED, AM I WASTING MY TIME?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2020 8:01


    Have you ever dealt with someone not giving you the same energy you’re giving them? Here’s the tea

    WHY DOES HE CREATE DISTANCE WHEN I WANT TO GET CLOSER?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2020 10:34


    In this episode we talk about attachment styles and how they influence love

    WHY DONT MEN LIKE WOMEN LIKE THEM BACK?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2020 12:29


    Let’s talk about why men don’t like women who want them

    WHY WOULD I DATE A MAN WHO IS NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2020 10:25


    Should you be patient with men who don’t have it together?

    HOW CAN YOU SUPPORT WOMEN AND SUPPORT SIDE CHICKS?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2020 20:20


    Let’s talk about how monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone.

    ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH POTENTIAL?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2020 10:31


    Did you miss the signs that this was just potential?

    JUST BECAUSE HE DOESN’T WEAR A CONDOM, DOES NOT MEAN HE IS CLEAN

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2020 9:09


    Let’s talk about STI MYTHS

    WHY DO THEY CHASE IF THEY JUST GONNA GHOST?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2020 15:56


    Let’s talk about love bombing. Can you identify when they’re interested?

    CODEPENDENT AND IN LOVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 7:09


    HAPPY NEW YEAR let’s talk about how we destroy our boundaries in order to avoid being abandoned

    POLYAMORY IS THE FUTURE

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2019 8:08


    Can dating multiple people at once save you from cheating?

    BIG DICK ENERGY

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2019 10:41


    YOU MUST BELIEVE IN YOU --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    CHEATING IS NEGGING

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2019 11:07


    In this episode we talk about how this manipulative tactic is the core of a lot of issues

    POSSESION IS NOT LOVE: Unfriendly Black Hottie X Mark St.Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2019 16:40


    This is our first guest speaker on our first episode of season 3, and we talk about how possession and love do not co-exist

    NEGGING IS NOT FLIRTING

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2019 7:27


    Being hypercritical is a power move. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    LOVE ADDICTION: they’re going to harm us in familiar ways

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2019 10:16


    Let’s explore why we can’t help but be drawn to certain people! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    YOUR VOICE MATTERS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2019 15:57


    Let’s talk about how communication works with narcissistic folks.

    Self Sabatoge and the Boiled Frog

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2019 9:31


    This episode discusses how cognitive dissonance forces you to acclimate to poor thinking patterns.

    It doesn’t count if you didn’t come!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2019 6:36


    Sex is the stimulation of your genitalia for orgasm.

    How you cope with pain effects everything in your life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2019 13:13


    The way we think can create self sabotaging patterns.

    POWER & ATTRACTION

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2019 11:55


    In fact, even when you do everything to be there for them, it doesn’t matter.

    YOU ARE A THREAT TO TOXIC PEOPLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2019 9:05


    Don't give up

    MENTALLY ILL AND DATING

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2019 15:36


    Let’s have a frank talk about how mental illness can effect our relationships.

    Don’t let people shame you for your standards!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2019 10:36


    Standards

    RKELLY, the Grinch and oppression

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2019 14:32


    Power dynamics are cyclical.

    Why are hoes winning?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2018 9:23


    We’re taught it we close our legs, wait until marriage and don’t post on Instagram we’re getting married. But that’s not always the case? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    You’re being desperate sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2018 10:55


    Only you are responsible for your self esteem.

    99% of men just want to sleep with you

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2018 15:04


    We need to break down the truth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    What do you need to feel empowered in your relationship?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2018 8:14


    Quickly quipping about how unions evolve over time --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    CHILDHOOD INFLUNCES YOUR DATING

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2018 8:09


    Your childhood is your biggest influence

    Strong Independent Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2018 8:26


    Is there such thing as being “too independent”? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Side Chick vs Main Chick

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2018 6:32


    Is it better to be honest with a cheating dude, or be the one in the dark about the cheating?

    ARE YOU A GODDESS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2018 8:42


    Stay single for as long as you can. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    ONGOING CONSENT

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2018 4:46


    What is emotional cheating?

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