WAITING ROOM

Sometimes the thing we think we want will harm us. Your wanting is valid but remember that even your wants should be evaluated constantly. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesanesingle/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesanesingle/support

On this journey of self discovery we may sometimes feel as though we are going backwards. When in reality we are right where God needs us to be….submitted and still. Even when it feels like we're suffering in a pool of emotions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

Navigating the dating world can take a toll on you sometimes. But it's so important to make sure you're outlook is healthy. It's easy to blame someone else and it's even easier to self sabotage. Let's talk about it --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

I had to recognize my own bias recently but it also brought about an even bigger conversation I think we are all ready to have so let's talk. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

Sometimes there's an overwhelming amount of emotions you just can't explain. They just happen, no trigger no warning just raw emotions. And that's ok. Blog : https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/life/single-just-feels-hard/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

The road to contentment should be completed before you get the thing you're waiting for, not after. If so, you'll always be looking for something to complete you, and that my dear is not healthy. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

There are things you need to remember. 1. You did not create yourself. 2. God loves you so much. 3. It's time to humble yourself and stick to the plan, regardless of how you feel. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

Ever wonder why you keep doing the same things over and over and feeling like you can't get out of the loop called mistakes? Because they're choices now….choices. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

Be careful how much energy you give to something now, you nay now have enough later. Your best is need not what left. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

There are things that we all want but let's not neglect the things that come before our own desires. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twrpodcast/support

Society is telling us now that the older we get the more we should accept the fact that everyone has children. Now we know this isn’t true, but we should dig a little deeper and think about this question. As a single, do you prefer to date someone with children or without and vice versa for singles that already have children. Are you going to let time, your age or frustration dictate your choice? I sure hope not. Join us in the conversation. Follow will on IG : @worldwide_will_ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

The things we do in private will be exposed in public. Master your thinking so you can master your tongue. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

“The stages of dating” - we have redefined what dating is over and over again. This week we’re gonna talk about it and really dig into what it looks like now and if it’s really hurting us as a generation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

We’ve all been there, let’s talk about it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Listen God knows where we are and where he wants us. It’s best to listen now than to listen later and be damaged, heartbroken and carrying weight you were never supposed to hold. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Don’t let the length of the wait be the reason you settle. Stand firm. You’re not asking too much. Wanna join my small group? Email me: allantebook@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Make a demand on your life. Own up to yo ish. Be wise in what you do, what you say and how you react. This episode is about unlearning. For you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

This episode is gonna take a little longer than usual. But it’ll air Wednesday at 6am. I had to show up for myself this year. Really show up. Which led to me facing things I thought I beat already. I hope this episode frees you as much as it freed me. Let my experiences empower you to take those scary steps to show up in every area of you life. Sometimes we get so busy waiting on others to show up for us and show themselves to us we neglect the important part- preparation. Let’s unpack that. Book: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Showing-Up-Yourself-People/dp/1615196617 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

It’s time to change our perspective in singleness. Yes, these negative feelings are valid but they don’t bring us closer to our desires. Follow us on social Messi @_twrpodcast. Article mentioned : https://www.elitedaily.com/p/being-single-when-all-your-friends-are-in-relationships-can-suck-but-heres-how-to-deal-17903572 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Processing some things in this episode take a listen and hear my heart --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Relationships evolve. The right ones test you. They make you look at yourself and confront some things. But how often do you consult God? Do you trust his counsel? Briefly we will talk about personal experiences with a special guest Terrance Shipmon Jr. follow him on social media! @shipmonjr --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Sometimes you just need to stop and reflect. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Walking with Christ not only means being obedient but it means consulting with him in everything you do. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Sometimes circumstances will try to rename us. Let me share with you another spirit I was fighting during the beginning of this pandemic. I hope it helps someone. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Too much of anything can be detrimental. Careful how much time you’re putting into things and neglecting the art of mastery. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Why do we continue to stand in our own way when we already have enough life challenges. Let’s learn how to identify and deal with this before it keeps us from purpose. Take the self sabotage quiz now! http://thefordinstitute.com/selfsabotagequiz --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Any of you dealing with just not feeling motivated lately? Me too...let’s talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

I just wanted to come on and encourage your guys this week. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

I just had a few words on my mind that I needed to get off my chest just to help charge you up to look up in this season. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Join me on this episode as I pray for you, for me, our friends and family, those on the front line and everyone in the world as we deal with this virus. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Shoulda , Coulda , Woulda terms we should really eliminate in our vocabulary and the events hat are happening now are giving us a chance to do just that. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

God slowed us all the way down didn’t he? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Why do we insist on living life as if we have a choice? When we surrendered our lives to Christ and asked him to use us we also decided to enter into a relationship with him. What type of relationship lasts without communication? Also check it this video I talked about in today’s episode : https://youtu.be/NCiSpxF1GeA --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Ever found yourself in a situation that had you completely floored? Smh. The things we do when we arent paying attention can cost us so much time and energy. Lets talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

The fear of missing out. But we only feel like we missing out when we aren’t doing anything productive with our lives. Who you spying on? Who you comparing yourself to? How is this helping you get to where you wanna be? The only thing you missing out on is your future because you’re looking in the wrong direction. Bible Study Help: -VXV (verse by verse). -The bible project --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

We all have vices, the question is how long are you gonna let them distract you from the real problems you are facing? Join my good friend Lola and I as we dive into this topic. Follow her on IG : @apnetcolumbus and @fufuforthought to connect with her and the amazing projects she is doing here in the city! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

We all have vices, the question is how long are you gonna let them distract you from the real problems you are facing? Join my good friend Lola and I as we dive into this topic. Follow her on IG : @apnetcolumbus and @fufuforthought to connect with her and the amazing projects she is doing here in the city! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

A new year showed up. But did you? It’s so easy to say you have a new vision in this year but did you bring something else with you unknowingly? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

This is the last episode of 2019 season 2. Just wanted to come and talk to you guys about the past couple of weeks and encourage you all to be strong in this wait. I’m still with you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

How does God communicate to you? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Sometimes we gotta tell it like it is. Be real, in some form or another we have a issue with sticking to our own business and involving ourselves in the lives of others.....I mean what else would you do while you wait? Observe others right? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Sometimes God has to tell us “you’re going the wrong way” and I’m okay with that. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Season 2 Episode 5: It’s that time of the year...our friend SAD is slowly creeping up on us...let’s talk about getting ahead of the game this year and conquering this beast we call depression. Read more about SAD here: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9293-seasonal-depression --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

The church is always teaching and preparing the woman to be a wife......no one talks about the real meaning behind Proverbs 31, and let me tell you,baby I'm done. Just want to share some of my studies

Your posture is a manifestation of your maturity. It’s time for a little self check! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Let’s be real. No one likes to be ghosted..... But what if it’s you doing the ghosting? I promise man you can get so caught up showing up for others you forget about you. How do you come back from that? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

The wait will have you in a million different places mentally. Today I’m gonna talk about some issues I’ve faced in this short break. Ya girl wanted to say FORGET THIS PROMISE! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

6 months left until 2020 is here. Where did the time go!? what did I get or didn’t get accomplished? Crazy how we can spend all day online talking about what we want to do yet we haven’t moved....or have we --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

Accountability & Relationships. Let’s talk about the unsung heroes...our friends/family. Those that keep us sane while we’re waiting.....and if you don’t have it count me in as someone in your corner! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

 This will be a solo episode. God has been dealing with me on identifying camouflaged distractions. Remember when we were kids and we would find little things to entertain us wile we wait? Mom or dad used to tell us to pay attention when we got to distracted...who's telling you to pay attention now? This one is going to be rough for me but I'm happy to share it with you all.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support

We will be finishing our discussion this week talking about if the things we were waiting for when we were younger worth it now as we are nearing out 30’s. Did our desires change? Why? Should they change? Follow her @welcometorhiality_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/allantenicole/support