Podcasts about Feeling Good

Ask David: How to Stop Giving a Crap Motivating a Procrastinator . . . and More The answers to today's questions are brief and were written prior to the show. Listen to the podcast for a more in-depth discussion of each question. Today's questions. 1. Chris has a question about Positive Reframing and the Magic Dial. 2. Joe asks: What method would be best to stop giving a crap? 3. Ollie asks: How do you motivate a procrastinating patient to do the hard work of facing the task they've been putting off? 4. Owen asks: Should I complete a full Daily Mood Log each day? 5. Owen also asks: Is it okay to copy the positive reframing from a previous DML when relevant?   1. Chris asks about Positive Reframing and the Magic Dial. Hi David! I'm currently on my third re-read of "Feeling Great" and want to thank you for the positive changes and progress I have experienced in my life as a result of the techniques and information present in the book. My question is, when you use positive reframing, and identify all the advantages of a negative thought, but still decide, "Hey I would still like to reduce my suffering, in spite of all these good things. But I would love to keep the advantages too." Does this mean my conviction for change is not strong enough? Or is this when I should transition to the magic dial technique and try to keep the best of both worlds ? Thank you in advance, Christian David's reply Thanks, do the Magic Dial and you can have it both ways. However, keep this in mind, or perhaps discover it later on. Once you start to challenge your thoughts successfully, and your belief in your negative thoughts diminishes substantially, you may decide to lower your feelings even further, possibly all the way to zero. And at that point, you're probably ready for Relapse Prevention Training as described in the book. The Feeling Great app is free this summer if you're in the US, so that might help you along the trail if needed. Warmly, David Can I use this as an Ask David question on one of our Ask podcasts? d Christian responds Hello David, Thank you for your in depth response, that's really handy. Part of me is really hoping I'll want to lower my ratings even further, but I think as you have outlined many times, honoring my resistance is important if I want to get to that point. It's weird isn't it, I know at an intellectual level I want these things to happen, but at the gut level part of me is still holding on. I would love to use the app, however I'm based in the UK and it isn't available to me, I saw on the FAQ on the website that it may be getting released in other parts of the world soon ? I also hope there will be more and more TEAM-CBT therapists available in the UK in future too ! Absolutely, I would love for my question to be featured in the podcast ! Warm Regards, Christian   2. Joe asks: What method would be best to stop giving a crap? Hey Dr. Burns, Your two most recent webinars have been very helpful, especially Overcoming Perfectionism, yet I still struggle hard with perfectionism. [To be specific, I put a video out there that people enjoyed (internally) and that I spent a month on, only to get mostly ignored, and I feel defeated.] What method would be best to stop giving a crap? Thanks! Joe David's Reply As I have said so often, I don't recommend “methods” for “problems.” I use TEAM, a process. I sometimes have the same problem with media interviews. I am often asked to give three tips on this or that problem, like gaining self-esteem or whatever. For example, a Chinese interviewer asked for “tips” on overcoming depression, like spending more time in nature or more time with friends and the people you care about. I am not happy about such questions, as my answer is that I'm a no tips please type of guy. I have developed many powerful processes for dealing with a variety of common problems. For example, for individual mood problems I find it extremely useful to start out with a partially completed Daily Mood Log, and for a relationship problem a partially completed Relationship Journal can lead to some fantastic and revealing work. But as far as general “tips” for not “giving a crap” if you're struggling with perfectionism, I can only quote what the Buddha said nearly 2,500 years ago: “General tips suck! Give me something specific and real, please!” Best, david   3. How can you motivate someone who procrastinates? Dear David, I have a question but first I'd like to tell you and the team just how much I'm loving the app. Especially since you gave the AI a voice so now we can speak with it rather than typing out responses. Now it feels so quick and easy. Sometimes, I find it can be hard to motivate myself to do the self-help work but talking to the app makes the process effortless. It really does feel like having a friend who's got your best interest at heart, and they're available to talk to you whenever you need them. My question is about the role of therapists when it comes to patient motivation. I was hoping you could clarify why when patients present with anxiety, we know they will predictably resist doing exposure, but as a therapist it is necessary to press the matter. However, when working with a procrastinating patient, they will almost always show similar process resistance (to doing whatever it is they're procrastinating about), but your recommendation (as far as I understand it) is not to push them to do anything. Not to help motivate them to do the hard work. Is there a reason for this difference, or have I misunderstood entirely? Warmest regards, Ollie David's Reply I can make this an Ask David question, and thanks. Appreciate the kind comments. As a therapist working with anxiety or depression, I work out the Outcome and Process Resistance before trying to “help.” So, the depressed patient must agree to homework, and the anxious patient must agree to exposure, in order for us to work together on those problems. This is called Dangling the Carrot, Gentle Ultimatum, and Sitting with Open Hands and sometimes with Fallback Position at the end. If a patient wants help with procrastination, they must agree to the five-minute rule, to get started at a specific time today, even if they don't feel motivated. I see it as the same thing: making the patient accountable and giving the patient free will to decide what they are willing to do—or not willing to do. I would never try to motivate a procrastinating patient! That's not on the menu. However, I can help them get started if they need help, but I the first five things they have to do into simple things taking 15 seconds each, like sit in my chair might be the first step in organizing you desk. Then reaching for a piece of paper that needs filing. Etc. Five minutes work of little things. You might want to listen to / search the podcasts for this process. We'll mention a bit more on the podcast. Warmly, david If I missed it, try again!    4. Owen asks: Should I complete a full Daily Mood Log each day? Hi Dr. Burns, Thank you again for all the incredible content you've been sharing—both the Feeling Good podcast and your Feeling Great videos. You're so engaging and natural on camera, it's hard to believe you were ever camera-shy! The Ask David segments are always a highlight of my Mondays. I just had two quick questions about the Daily Mood Log. I often find it takes me several hours to complete one fully, including the positive reframing. Should I aim to complete a full log each day for maximum benefit, or is it okay to work through one gradually over several days? I often get unrelated negative thoughts while still working on a previous log, which means I can't get to the new ones right away. David's Reply Hi Owen, Yes, you can spread it out for sure. david   5. Owen asks: To speed things up, is it okay to copy positive reframing from a previous DML when relevant, or is it better to start fresh each time? Thanks so much in advance, Owen (assumed name) David's Reply Hi Owen, Yes, you can use previous PR! Will include your questions at the upcoming Ask David podcast. Can we use your first name? david At our next Ask David, we'll start out with this question: 1. Zainab asks: Is friendship a basic human need? What do you think? Yes? No? Maybe? We did a survey among our group in preparation for the next Ask, and it was two “no's” (Matt and David) and one “yes” (Rhonda). So stay tuned next week for the discussion of this question that comes up often in different disguises. For example, we often hear heated proclamations on whether love is an adult human “need.” What do you think about that question? Thanks for listening today! Matt, Rhonda, and David

Sweet Caroline! Baconsale is Knockin' on Heaven's Door and finally doing a sequel to our diva episode. However, this time we're giving you the Satisfaction of hearing us debate All Night Long about some of the greatest male singers of all time. We know you have a Burning Love for many of the men in this tournament, and we're Sorry you may Feel like we're being Heartless, but as The Thunder Rolls, we must Sacrifice some of these Heroes. Our logic isn't Perfect. You may even think a few of our decisions are Bad. And you may lose Faith in some artists as we talk about their divo behavior. However, there's no use in Cryin', and we hope you end up Feeling Good after it's over.   Let's Go Crazy! Press play to Lose Yourself in this chaotic podcast.   Oh, Yeah! Visit Baconsale.com to find our official Divo bracket, and Every Breath You Take can be accompanied by our sampler playlist of songs you'll find there, as well.

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The Netherlands are building something amazing for cats that need rescuing. 

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Siblings were reunited after 80 years!

A man became friends with a family of raccoons. 

A man was saved after falling onto railroad tracks. 

A woman is picking up trash to raise money for an animal shelter.

You've probably seen it mentioned on TikTok, in therapy circles, and across mental health spaces. But what does it actually mean? Is it a real psychological concept — or just another buzzword?@04:19.25 What the mother wound really is@06:58.76 Where it comes from@11:49.40 How it shows up in your adult life@14:31.52 And most importantly, how to start healing

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Send us a textIn this episode, we explore the power of emotions - how they show up, how they influence what we do, and why managing them matters so much, especially when you don't feel good enough. You'll hear insights on how emotions can hijack your thoughts and actions, and simple ways to work with them instead of against them. If you're ready to get curious about your feelings and stop letting them run the show, this one's for you.✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-courseSupport the showOther useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

What if the way you feel in one area of your life is the secret to success in every other part?Hey beautiful soul, in today's episode of Empowering Her, I'm diving into a truth that I've experienced again and again: how we do one thing is how we do everything. When we align our energy and move through life from a place of joy, freedom, and full-body alignment, we don't just feel better—we attract better.I'm sharing the story of how a spontaneous one-month stay in the tiniest Manhattan apartment became a catalyst for one of my most expansive seasons yet—enrollments flowed in, dream clients appeared out of nowhere, and even a podcast episode with Rebecca Minkoff came to life through one aligned decision and a whole lot of joy.You'll hear:The ripple effect of choosing pleasure and inspiration—even in tiny waysWhy energy is the most underrated (and most powerful) business strategyHow living from joy sparked major wins in my business, creativity, and relationshipsA peek into the origin story behind one book I almost finished… and the one I did finish and will be publishing soonA loving challenge to reconnect with your personal joy and follow what lights you upWhether you're building a business, calling in your next season of life, or just craving more magic—this episode is your reminder that alignment is the portal. It's never just about where you are, but how you feel while you're there.Your Empowered Action Step:After listening, take one tiny step today that lights you up. Something that feels good. Something just for you. Because that's where the magic begins.P.S. If you're loving this podcast, I'd love to gift you a cappuccino. ☕Leave a review on Apple or Spotify, screenshot it, and tag me on Instagram @girlifeempowerment. I'll send you a cappuccino on me as a thank-you for supporting this work.Subscribe & Review:If this episode moved you, please hit that follow button and leave a quick review. Every rating helps us reach more women who are ready to remember their power.Listen now and let yourself be reminded: it's not about the place—it's about how you feel while you're thereLet's Stay Connected!As an empowerment coach, author, twin girl mom, and the creator of the GiRLiFE Academy, my mission is to help every woman and girl discover her voice and live a life that lights her up from the inside out.I'd love to connect with you and continue this beautiful journey together!

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It’s no secret that our lifespans – especially women’s – have drastically increased over the last several decades, but what about healthspans? How can we make those additional years healthier and happier? Speaking live at City Winery in NYC, join Katie and Dr. Krys Araujo-Torres, Head of U.S. Medical Affairs for Nature's Bounty, as they dig into the simple, effective steps we can take to live our best lives. #adSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I can't wait to share this episode with you, where I got to interview an absolute icon of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Dr David Burns.Dr. David Burns is an Adjunct Clinical Professor Emeritus of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine. He's an award-winning researcher, teacher, and best-selling author of self help books including Feeling Good, with more than 10 million copies sold worldwide, and he's the host of Feeling Good podcast, which has received over 9 million downloads. Dr. Burns was a pioneer in the development of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and is the creator of TEAM CBT, which makes rapid recovery from depression and anxiety possible. His Feeling Great app triggers 60 to 70% reductions in feelings of depression and anxiety in less than one day, which is what we're all looking for!Join me, Dr Julie, and my special guest, Dr David Burns, as we break down the fascinating TEAM approach to CBT, and how you can use that new understanding to help you understand & challenge your hot thoughts.Click to listen now!To download Dr Burns' amazing FREE CBT app, visit: https://www.instagram.com/feelinggreatapp/@FeelingGreatApp Visit us on Instagram at MyCBTPodcast Or on Facebook at Dr Julie Osborn Subscribe to the podcast at Apple Podcasts Email us at mycbtpodcast@gmail.com Find some fun CBT tools at https://www.mycbt.store/ Thanks for listening to My CBT Podcast!

A mailman brought a very special package to someone on his route. 

A passenger on a plane stopped a woman from storming the cockpit. 

This week, Christine and Shannon will be joined by Marla Mervis-Hartmann, creator of Love Your Body, Love Yourself, and author of the upcoming book Be-Friend Yourself. After years of struggle with body image and food obsession, Marla reclaimed her power through the radical act of self-compassion. She will share how to shift from body shame to body appreciation, the role of Reiki and holistic healing in recovery, and how women can rewrite the story they tell themselves in the mirror. Whether you're in recovery, navigating motherhood, or simply ready to stop warring with your reflection — this conversation will leave you uplifted, grounded, and empowered. #LoveYourBody #BodyConfidence #SelfCompassion #MarlaMervisHartmann #BefriendYourself #WomenHealingWomen #ReikiHealing #HolisticRecovery #BodyImageCoach #WomenEmpowerment #SelfLoveJourney #MindBodyHealing #PodcastForWomen#WomenConnectedinWisdom #WomeConnectedinWisdomodcast #Stillpoint Join us in community:  Women Connected in Wisdom Community Listen to past episodes: https://womenconnectedinwisdompodcast.com/ Glo from head to toe by joining the shealo glo glo club at www.shealoglo.com ! Stillpoint: A Self-Care Playbook for Caregivers Join Christine at an event! Book a free coaching consult with Christine here: https://christinegautreaux.com Like & Subscribe to get notifications of when we are live: Women Connected in Wisdom Instagram Women Connected in Wisdom on Facebook Free Gift from Marla - https://goloveyourbodyloveyourself.com/emotionaleating https://www.loveyourbodyloveyourself.com/ https://www.instagram.com/loveyourbodyloveyourselfalways https://www.facebook.com/loveyourbodyloveyourself 
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 https://www.loveyourbodyloveyourself.com/bookT TEDx Talk- The Secret Ingredient to Feeling Good in your Body | Marla Mervis-Hartmann | TEDxSalinas Quote by Marianne Williamson: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate....” BE-Friend Yourself: Finding Freedom with Food and Peace with Your Body

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EPISODE 412. Ever packed your suitcase like you're going to war with your wellness routine? This episode of Fit Friends Happy Hour is your summer survival guide for staying healthy without obsessing. Host Katie shares top tools and mindset shifts to keep you feeling good - whether you're road tripping, lounging by the pool, or hopping on a plane - so you can actually enjoy summer without guilt or rigidity.What We Cover:Game-changing physical and digital tools that support healthy habits without triggering obsessionEmpowering mindset strategies for staying flexible and freeing yourself from the “all or nothing” trapReal-life ways to add comfort and joy (and snacks you actually want) to your summer routine - no food guilt requiredConnect with Katie:Use code 'KHAKE15' for 15% off | Omorpho Weighted Vest Meal Prep Like a Pro Without Obsessing Over Every Bite | www.katiehake.com/prepJoin our FREE 5-Day Walking Challenge | Walk with Me!Text me your AHA moment from today's episode!

A man is giving a town access to a payphone for free!

A teen is doing something great for veterans. 

Michigan pizza delivery driver saves a life!

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GATEWAY CINEMA is a multi-part series of conversations centered on key ideas in film studies. In these conversations, we interpret and celebrate a set of eclectic feature films from across generations and from around the world, including “La Haine”, “Drum”, “Alien 3 (Assembly Cut)”, “Come and See”, “Perfect Days”, “Sweet Smell of Success”, “The Swimmer”, “Amadeus (Director's Cut)”, “Bring Me the Head of Alfredo Garcia”, “Friday”, “Marie Antoinette”, “The Night of the Hunter”, “Crank” and “Crank 2: High Voltage”, “Portrait of a Lady Fire”, “The Fabulous Baron Munchausen”, “Joker: Folie a Deux”, “Welcome to the Dollhouse”, “Heathers”, and “The Death of Stalin”.***Referenced media in GATEWAY CINEMA, Episode 5:“Babel” (Alejandro González Iñárritu, 2006)“13 Assassins” (Takashi Miike, 2010)“Seven Samurai” (Akira Kurosawa, 1954)“The Long Good Friday” (John Mackenzie, 1980)“F1” (Joseph Kosinski, 2025)Audio quotation in GATEWAY CINEMA, Episode 5:“Toilet Flush Sound Effect - High Quality Flushing” by Sound Effect Doggo, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhsVpvM2ZrM“The Twilight Zone Theme” (1959) by Marius Constant, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhsVpvM2ZrM“Perfect Days” (Wim Wenders, 2023), including “Perfect Day (Piano Komorebi Version)” (2024) by Patrick Watson, “Pale Blue Eyes” (1969) by The Velvet Underground, “Feeling Good” (1965) by Nina Simone, “House of the Rising Sun (Japanese Version)” (2023) by Sayuri Ishikawa, and “Perfect Day” (1972) by Lou Reed, https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhC3YPiBwS9Vc9nbBG1Dl6y4AfZPD23lm“Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure” (Stephen Herek, 1989)

A raccoon stuck in a soup can was rescued.

A dog was reunited with his family in Alaska!

Welcome to this week's episode of the Mastin Kipp Podcast!In this episode, you'll learn about:Why positive emotions are among the top seven things we avoid most emotionally.How to use simple grounding techniques like snapping and saying "I'm back" to stay present during difficult conversations.What it means to be resilient rather than fragile when you've survived trauma.And much more!Click here to get free samples of all six Lypo-Spheric LivOn supplements (a $30 value) with your first purchase at LivOnLabs.com/mastin.Click here to get my brand new book Reclaim Your Nervous System: A Guide to Positive Change, Mental Wellness, and Post-Traumatic Growth.

Some people saved a pregnant goat!

Hey friends—welcome back to the final episode of the Feel Good Summer Series! I'm so glad you've been here with me.In Episode 1, we talked about feeling good in your body right now—not 10 pounds from now, not when the scale hits a certain number, not when life feels more “on track.” Just now. We learned that you don't have to change your body to feel good in it—you just have to start reconnecting with it, showing it some compassion, and meeting your needs where you are.In Episode 2, we focused on adding feel-good foods. Not restricting, not obsessing—just gently adding more nourishment to help you feel more energized, steady, and satisfied. Because food should help you feel better—not guilty, stressed, or overwhelmed.And today, in our final episode, I want to talk about something that comes up a lot when the seasons change or when life starts to feel busy again.How to keep feeling good without starting over every Monday. This episode is for you if you've ever felt like:“I was doing so well… then I lost momentum.”“I need to restart on Monday.”Or even “I fell off track and now I feel like I blew it.”Connect with us on social media and check out our website:INSTAGRAMDAILY DIETITIAN

Midlife isn't a time for fading out. It's a time for reawakening.  That's why in this episode, I'm joined by the wonderful Emily Fletcher–  founder of Ziva Meditation and the visionary behind Ziva Magic– as she shares how we can move beyond simply managing stress to actually alchemizing it into healing, pleasure, and personal power.  We're diving into her deeply practical approach to reconnecting with your desires and feminine energy that will truly transform you. Emily explains how emotional alchemy and sacred pleasure can reignite your joy, helping you step out of survival mode and back into a life that feels alive.  If you've recently felt numb, disconnected, or stuck in midlife, this conversation is your permission slip to say yes to your desires and reclaim the magic that has been within you all along! Emily Fletcher Emily Fletcher is an international speaker, author, and founder of Ziva Technique– a fusion of mindfulness, meditation, and manifestation that has helped over 50,000 people remove stress at the root and unlock their full potential. She has taught at Harvard Business School, Google, and The Omega Institute. Her best-selling book, Stress Less, Accomplish More, debuted at #7 on ALL of Amazon and has been translated into 12 languages. Emily has been featured in The New York Times, Good Morning America, and Vogue.  IN THIS EPISODE Navigating emotions and feelings during perimenopause What is alchemizing, and how can it impact your life?  How Emily's company Ziva can help you get clear on your dreams What stress and fear can physically do to your body and brain  Ideas for adding more simple pleasures to your life  How to use your feelings to manifest the life you want About Emily's Free Webinar and Masterclass to uplevel your life QUOTES“It's when we get to amplify the feel-good chemistry in the body that we become an energetic match for whatever it is that we desire.”  “You get to decide if you want to clear the stress, alchemize the emotions, and let go of the beliefs that are hindering you from living your truest potential. And then you get to be open to that superpower, that energy of manifesting what you really want in the second half of your life.”  “Your suffering is not helping anyone. But your bliss, your pleasure, has the potential to change the world.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Sign up to join the FREE live training with Emily Fletcher on July 22 Access your FREE Ziva Masterclass on Stress Free Living HERE Ziva Website Ziva on Instagram Get Emily's Book Stress Less, Accomplish More HERE Preorder The Perimenopause Revolution HERE RELATED EPISODES #645: What Is Holding You Back from Abundance, Freedom & Joy And How to Start Receiving It Today with Cathy Heller #629: Unlocking Emotional Resilience with Awareness, Lifestyle and Tools to Regulate Your Stress Triggers with Dr. Drew Ramsey #625: Effective Tools to Calm Stress Deregulation and Create Peace in the Chaos with Katie Wells #447: Master Your Mindset to Manifest Your BEST Life with Dr. Cheryl Wood #121: Manifesting & Re-Defining Your Version of Wealth and Wellness with Emma Mumford

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Ask David: Chasing, Commitment Problems Sadness as Celebration Is Autism Increasing?  The answers to today's questions are brief and were written prior to the show. Listen to the live discussion for a more in-depth discussion of each question. Today's live podcast discussion with Rhonda, Matt, and David was very energetic and hopefully inspiring for all of you! Today's questions. Aurora asks about a dating problem—the guy I'm dating doesn't want to “commit.” What should I do? Ana asks: I'm 48 now, and about 25 years ago, I was diagnosed with infertility—a devastating moment for someone who had dreamed of becoming a mother since childhood. Through therapy, prayer, and especially your book Feeling Good, I've done deep healing. I truly feel at peace most of the time. My life is full and joyful. But I've noticed that certain dates—especially Mother's Day and Christmas—still bring sadness. Not overwhelming or constant, but a familiar ache that surprises me even now. I use my CBT tools and move through it, but part of me wonders: should I be “over this” by now? Brittany asks: Is autism really on the increase? The following questions will be included in the next Ask David podcast. We did not have time to include them today. Ollie asks: How do you motivate a procrastinating patient to do the hard work of facing the task they've been putting off? Owen asks: Should I complete a full Daily Mood Log each day? Owen asks: Is it okay to copy the positive reframing from a previous DML when relevant? Zainab asks: Is friendship a basic human need?   1. Aurora asks about a dating problem—the guy I'm dating doesn't want to “commit.” What should I do. Hi Doctor Burns, I have been dating a guy exclusively (both only seeing each other) but he doesn't bring up wanting commitment to being in a relationship. He wants to see me in all his free time but tends to plan dates last minute if he does and assumes we will hang out at his place when we get together. He knows I'd like a relationship but said we are working towards that and that it's putting unnecessary pressure when I mentioned it. I'm not sure how long to wait and asking directly for what I'd like (him planning dates in advance) doesn't really help as he quickly got defensive and I then went to using the five secrets. Any advice? Thank you for everything you do, I love your books and podcast so much. They have truly changed my life. You and Rhonda make me smile every day that I listen. If you do by chance use my question would you not include my name? Aurora David's response Yes we can address this during an Ask David. It's great timing since we just had several podcasts on dating questions, Quick answer, and we'll go deeper in the podcast, but it sounds like you're being a bit too available and letting him use you and take you for granted. Remember the Burns Rule: “People ONLY want what they CAN'T get, and NEVER want what they CAN get!” So being more unavailable, letting him know you have other plans (which may simply be not to see him at the last minute), all the while being sweet. When he says he is not interested in a commitment just now, you can use the Five Secrets of Effective Communication, and play the role of “shrink,” not “available lady.” Ask him about that, express curiosity, encourage him to talk. These methods (5 secrets) are an art form, spelled out pretty clearly in Feeling Good Together. Pressing him for a commitment is guaranteed to drive him away. You want HIM to be the chaser, and YOU to be the chased. Also, a Daily Mood Log on thoughts that make you anxious about him, and working toward letting go of “needing” him. Warmly, David Aurora responds to David This is amazing Dr. Burns, thank you so very much! I am so humbled you took the time to read my email, use my questions, and give such a helpful reply. And yes how about the name Aurora! Thank you and Rhonda. Your work has truly changed my life and I am so deeply grateful for all you do. Aurora   2. Ana asks about living with infertility. Hi Dr. Burns, I hope you're well. I had the honor of corresponding with you and Dr. Rhonda last year about my relationship with my mother, and I'm still so grateful for your generosity and the space you gave me on the podcast. Today I write about a different part of my story. I'm 48 now, and about 25 years ago, I was diagnosed with infertility—a devastating moment for someone who had dreamed of becoming a mother since childhood. Through therapy, prayer, and especially your book Feeling Good, I've done deep healing. I truly feel at peace most of the time. My life is full and joyful. But I've noticed that certain dates—especially Mother's Day and Christmas—still bring sadness. Not overwhelming or constant, but a familiar ache that surprises me even now. I use my CBT tools and move through it, but part of me wonders: should I be “over this” by now? Or is it normal that something so deep still stirs, even after years of healing? I sometimes question whether I'm simply very good at coping (I'm an Enneagram 3—always performing strength) or if there's still more I need to process, like the moment both of my sisters-in-law announced their pregnancies during the darkest part of my grief

An 80-year-old did the world's toughest foot race!

If you're an indie podcaster who's ever felt completely drained, discouraged, or on the verge of giving up... you're not alone. In this brutally honest episode, I open up about the real-life challenges I've been facing—personally and creatively—and how podcasting has both helped and hurt along the way. From going through divorce, to ending The Kris and Kristine Show, to watching the numbers on this very podcast unexpectedly grow—this episode is raw, vulnerable, and 100% real. I'm not here to sugarcoat the podcasting journey. I'm here to talk about the parts no one tells you when you're first setting up your mic and dreaming big: What happens when your co-host leaves... and it's also your spouse. What it's like to podcast while selling your house and dealing with life-altering burnout. How to keep creating even when it feels pointless. And why authenticity, not algorithms, is still your biggest advantage.

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7-9 Dirty Work Hour 1: Giants lose 13-0 but still feeling good after taking 2 out of 3 vs Phillies: how do fans feel about the team ahead of LAD series?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A lifeguard saves a deer in the ocean.

As a nod to the guys from Dude Perfect, we'll give you 60 seconds to answer as many of these pop-culture questions as possible!

Two kids saved a woman's life!

Are you stressed?! Listen to a cat purr...

Bodycam footage shows how a dog protected it's owner.

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This week on Literally, Not Okay, I'm joined by the GLOW QUEEN herself, Katherine Garbarino (@katherinegarbarino) – founder of Girls Living Well and the Glow Shop! We talk everything wellness, beauty routines, lymphatic drainage, and yes... our boobs (and our health anxiety, which might be more unwell than we thought).Don't forget to like, comment why YOU'RE literally not okay, and subscribe for more chaotic wellness girl chat.Listen on Apple, Spotify & all the things!Follow us on Instagram:@alexiswaters_@literallynotokaypod@katherinegarbarino@girlslivingwellSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a world flooded with information about women’s health - from TikTok trends to wellness influencers - separating fact from fiction has never been more challenging. This candid conversation between Katie Couric and gynecologist Dr. Karen Tang tackles the most persistent myths and misinformation surrounding women's health, with special focus on menstruation and incontinence.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.