Women Being Loved

Let's talk about expectations in dating and what it means to get what you actually want in a relationship. What 3 attributes help you determine if you should continue with a relationship or cut your losses early? Let's also discuss advice from Dolly Parton and Lady Gaga on love. As promised: here are the links to the two episodes I mentioned on making a love list. The names of those episodes are: Should You Make A Love List and How to Make A Love List.You can find them by name on Apple podcasts, if you prefer to listen there.If you'd like to support this podcast financially, you can do so at womenbeingloved.com/podcastCORRECTION: Dolly Parton was married to Carl Thomas Dean for 58 years, not 60. Apologies for getting that incorrect. Thank you so much!#Relationships #Midlife #loveadvice #findinglove

Whether you're struggling through the world news or personal challenges, it can be tempting to seek out an ex to make it all better. Here's why you shouldn't and what to do instead. To support this podcast financially, go to www.womenbeingloved.com/podcastMy favorite uplifting playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYiKCMFrDKBE-1oFPLYAovJPzizJGa2-r#love #relationships #exes #womenbeingloved

It's easy to get caught up in the moment when dating and forget to look for emotional maturity that will stand the test of time. In this episode, I discuss what to look for when you're seeking a forever partner; how to tell if someone is mature enough to handle the hard spaces in life; and a few stories (as usual) from women I've interviewed for my upcoming book. As promised, here's the link for donating to give the link to donate directly to helping those in need in the California wildfires. https://www.gofundme.com/f/wildfire-relief-fund-2025My friend who does somatic therapy is offering a few workbook to help you navigate stress: https://somaticrenewal4.systeme.io/journal

The holidays can be so hard when you're single, but in this episode I give some perspective on getting through this season AND preparing for love in 2025. I hope you enjoy it.The book I mention in this episode is It's Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You're Single by Sara Eckel . If you enjoy this podcast, consider supporting it financially here.Happy Holidays! See you in a few weeks for Season 3.

In this fun, sound-effects enhanced episode, I introduce you to Pam from New South Wales, Australia who met the love of her life at 52 with a little help from her friends. If you'd like to support this podcast, go to https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/To be alerted when my book is released, sign up at https://womenbeingloved.com/

Here are the untrue things we tell ourselves that keep us from finding love; and what it takes to get past the lies. My email: todra@womenbeingloved.comHow to support this podcast: https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/

Here's what true love looks like in the midst of a meltdown. And a pep talk on what you deserve. If you'd like to support this podcast, you can do so here. https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/

Let's look at where you are right now and where you want to be. Let's look at what it means to TRUST the timing of your life. And let's talk about how you can ignore the pressure to hit certain milestones in a particular timeframe.

You deserve to have the future you desire with someone who's on the same path as you. In this episode, I share three women's stories, Nancy, Briana and Lori. They each chose to make it very clear what they wanted from a relationship without fear of losing the other person. Did that work out for them? Listen to this episode and hear what they did, what they learned and if they ended up with the love they desired.

Online dating gets a lot of bad rap, but I can prove to you that women are finding their forever loves online. Listen to this episode and I'll share parts of their stories with you, along with 5 tips for better online dating experiences. If you enjoy these episodes and would like to give a gift to this podcast, please go to my website. Thank you so much. If you'd like to contact me directly, you can shoot me an email here: https://womenbeingloved.com/contact/

My husband says he knows the precise moment I fell in love with him, and he's spot on. Women from my book of real love stories told me their stories of the moment love hit. I share a few of their stories in this episode. They also shared another phenomena that surprised them when they discovered their soul mate. Listen to these uplifting stories of getting the love they'd wanted when they least expected it. And how your love story could be just around the corner.If you'd like to donate to my podcast, here's the link. https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/?rsi=ep6-pc-sn&t=1723059934If you'd like to donate to my book's crowdfund campaign, here's the link: https://womenbeingloved.com/?rsi=eps6-pc-sn&t=1723060030My husband's website/portfolio is https://embergermedia.com/?rsi=tppc-pc-sn&t=1723141298

Wedding vows express what we love about our mate and what we hope for our future together. In this episode, I share what my husband and I wrote for each other for our wedding day. I also share vows from a couple who have been together for many decades and what they've achieved from the vows they wrote. They also discuss WHAT IS LOVE?If you'd like to watch the videos of the couple I talk about in this episode, here are the links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pbyQhbZJhwI&t=0shttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=td2O06HfhDYIf you enjoy my podcast, please consider supporting it with a one-time or ongoing gift. https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/

Have you been told that romance isn't a thing with modern men? Or romance doesn't exist in relationships that aren't brand new? I debunk all the hearsay around romance and share some solid proof from my own marriage and other women's relationships that romance is alive and well. I also talk about why romance novels and romance-themed book STORES are doing so well right now. Join me!If you'd like to read a few sample stories from my upcoming book and join my newsletter, go here: womenbeingloved.com

If you want a lasting love relationship, there are certain traits that can help you and your future partner get to that goal. Here are three traits that will definitely help your relationship dynamics. To help support this podcast or the upcoming book of true love stories, visit my website at womenbeingloved.com#love #relationships #womenover40 #womenover50 #midlife

This is the true love story of a woman named Jess who is autistic. She never expected to fall in love, so she built a beautiful, fulfilling life with friends, activities and a Golden Retriever. She bought a house. But at 40, a surprise encounter with a younger man changed everything.Hers is one of the stories from my upcoming book, Love Will Find You. Real Life and Love Stories for Women 35 And Beyond. If you enjoy this podcast and would like to help me get the book out into the world, please consider pledging to my crowdfunding campaign. There are some fun perks to choose as "Thank you" gifts. Go to WomenBeingLoved.com and choose a sponsorship level.#midlife #mildlifelove #relationships #beyond40 #lovestories

This week, I talk about what to do if you're fed up with dating; how one of my friends met her husband in Whole Foods when she was 48; and life lessons I've learned from old school rom coms.Wanna get fun perks and support my upcoming book? Check out my crowdfund page at womenbeingloved.comYou can also vote there on which cover design I should use for my upcoming book of real love stories. Wanna show some love for this podcast episode? go to Womenbeingloved.com/podcastIf you'd like to connect on Facebook, I'm at https://www.facebook.com/todrapayne#midlifewomen #love #relationships #women #40plus #50plus

This week my husband joined me to discuss what he had on his Love List and if I matched everything he wanted. We also talk about what we value in each other; What we learned from past relationships before we found each other; How trust and fidelity works for us; And some bits about our nomadic lifestyle. I hope you are encouraged by what we share.This is the season finale for Season 1. The new season will begin in 4 weeks. I'll be getting the last writing on my book done and off to a proofreader and looking for a cover designer during these weeks away from the podcast.Want to know more about our travel lifestyle and luxury house sitting? https://travellivebreathe.com/If you're enjoying this podcast and would like to offer support, please go to https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/Thanks so much!#love #relationship #midlife #lovelist #nomadlife #couple

Rom-coms would have us thinking love is about running into the guy from high school that was too into himself to ever notice us; but then one day (usually over the Christmas holidays in the small town we left 20 years ago), we cross paths. And BAM! The fireworks are undeniable. We leave our corporate jobs in the city and move to the farm with him and we live happily ever after. Um, no...When you do find someone you think could be "the one", it's important to make sure they're able to face the hard parts of life with maturity and hope. In this episode, I share the questions to ask to open a conversation about important things, things that could make or break a relationship. I also share how my husband and I have hard discussions and come out better for them. I hope you give this episode a listen. If you'd like to support this podcast, please click here. https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/If you'd like to get an early peek at some of the stories from my upcoming book, go here. https://womenbeingloved.com/sample-stories/

Sometimes we have ideas about who's in our league and who isn't for dating; or we put up barriers that make it nearly impossible to attract the love we desire. In this episode, I talk about Anne Hathaway's new rom-com for midlife women; how my friend (who's 58) recently got engaged in Paris; and why you should expand your expectations in dating.Want me to speak on love at your live or online event? Contact me at Todra@womenbeingloved.comWant to read a few love stories that will be in the book? https://womenbeingloved.com/sample-stories/ Here's how to support this podcast with a one-time or ongoing gift: https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/ Here's the podcast I was a guest on last week. I talked about how WBL was birthed and what I dream of it accomplishing. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/70-todra-payne-passion-project-women-being-loved/id1647880274?i=1000651737341

It seems everyone on the Internet has an opinion on how feminine, submissive, young, traditional, etc. women have to be to find real love. I've got a different perspective based on the experiences of women who've already found the love of their lives - at 35 or later. You don't want to miss this. Did you meet the love of your life at 35 or later and you'd like to share your story for this podcast and my upcoming book of real life love stories? Click here and tell me a little about yourself, or put this link in your browser: https://womenbeingloved.com/share-your-story/Want to support this podcast with a one-time gift? Go here https://womenbeingloved.com/podcast/Want to reach me (Todra) about speaking romantic relationship topics at your next event? Reach me at todra@womenbeingloved.com

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions domestic violence and an accidental suicide. Today, I share one woman's story of how she attracted the love of her life after leaving a marriage filled with domestic violence, and overcoming a toxic family of origin. Her second husband, along with therapy, were important components of her healing process. You don't want to miss this beautiful story.If you'd like to support this podcast with a kind gift, go to https://womenbeingloved.com/Contact email for Todra todra@womenbeingloved.com

In this episode...I share the story of how Carol, a twice-divorced woman of 43, met a stranger in Starbucks who became the husband she'd always desired.This is the story of a woman who had decided she wasn't actively dating or pursuing men in any way. And she wasn't going to settle on what she desired just to have someone in her life.The man she married provides the lifestyle of her dreams and she gives tips on what not to do if you want to attract a man who respects you and treats you with love.To support this podcast, go to www.womenbeingloved.comContact info: Todra@womenbeingloved.com

In this episode I talk about...How women really feel about approaching men romantically instead of waiting on the sidelines hoping for an ask; What a few men had to say about women who make the first move; A woman who reached out (online) to a guy she found intriguing and where it went from there; How to know if he's truly interested once you've put the ball in his courtIf you'd like to read more of the couple's story that I share in this episode, you can find it (and two other love stories) on my website at https://womenbeingloved.com/sample-stories/ (You can sign up for the newsletter at the same link)If you'd like to support this podcast with a kind gift, go to https://womenbeingloved.com/

In this episode, I dig deeper into the conversation of healthy relationships and give examples from several couples. Grab some tea and relax for the next 15 minutes as I share...5 ways we should feel in a healthy love relationship How understanding the 5 love languages help us enjoy a healthy relationshipWhat practical acts of love look and feel likeWhen to call off a weddingIf you'd like to get a sneak peak at some of the love stories that will be in my upcoming book, here's the link. https://womenbeingloved.com/sample-stories/To support this podcast with a donation, click www.womenbeingloved.com/podcastI also mentioned a short comedy film I wrote, directed and edited. My husband did the cinematography, sound design and sound editing. If you'd like to check it out just for fun, here's the link. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzxtI5pt_2o

Healthy relationships are built on certain truths. But when we've not had healthy relationship modeled to us, it's hard to know what those truths are.In this episode, I'm discussing...The 4 pillars of healthy relationshipsWarning signs and characteristics of unhealthy relationshipsWhy relationships are like birthday cakes and cornbreadAnd two women from my Wise Collective talk about what they've learned about maintaining healthy relationships and how that plays out in their marriages.If you'd like to give a one-time or recurring gift to this podcast, visit www.womenbeingloved.com/podcastFor free samples stories from my upcoming book, visit my website at www.womenbeingloved.com

Divorce is one of the hardest things we can go through in life. And often, we're not sure what to do after a divorce to heal and move on.In this episode, I speak on...The stages of grief during and after divorceHow long should you wait after a divorce to dateWhat does self care after divorce look likeHow our places of worship can hinder us from choosing our own freedom and healingHow I dealt with my own divorceIf you'd like to give a one-time or recurring gift to this podcast, visit www.womenbeingloved.com/podcastFor free samples stories from my upcoming book, visit my website at www.womenbeingloved.com

Making a list of qualities we want in a potential life partner can help us get clarity on what's most important to us. In this episode, I discuss...The difference between a wish list and a real listHow to get to the core of what we really want in a love partnerHow I made my list that brought me my husbandHow to stick to your non-negotiablesHow my friend, Veronica, used a manifesting tool to attract her husband who is 90% of her list.I briefly mention trauma bonding in this episode. If you're not familiar with the term, here's some solid information on the topic. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/trauma-bondingFor free sample stories from my upcoming book, visit my website at www.womenbeingloved.com

At some point in the dating arena, we've all made a list of qualities we want from a future partner. But most of us have had a hard time finding someone with those traits already in place. Or we find some semblance of our list, but we don't click with the other person the way we'd hoped.Today's episode is going to tackle this age old question with (hopefully) encouraging new insight. I'll discuss...Why your love list isn't workingWhat steps to take before making a love listWhat writing a love list taught me about the relationship I was inFor free sample stories from my upcoming book, visit my website at www.womenbeingloved.com

Welcome to Women Being Loved, an encouraging podcast for women 35+ who are ready for real, authentic, sustainable, love relationships.