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How easy is it for you to take accountability if you've caused a relationship to end? Darkwah returns to the show to talk all things relationships. We discuss everything from the importance of sex in a relationship and the insecurites that come along with having to keep up with a highly sexual partner. To being the cause of someones pain, heartache and how we accept responsibilty. Tickets still available for The One Night Stand: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/just-the-tip-presents-one-night-stand-tickets-60899622410 Get access to Scarlet Ladies sex positive events for FREE by signing up and letting them know #JTTPOD sent you: https://scarletladiesuk.com/join-us-2/ Get involved and have your say using the official #JTTPOD and follow the socials @coco_abroad @justthetppod @hausofdarkwah

Please enjoy again:   Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories:  R   Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.  Today we will be talking about bisexuality and BDSM. Joining me is Rudo Mashongomende.  She is 33 years old, bisexual and she works in fashion. She has always been drawn to the world of BDSM but always felt, or was made to feel that it was a sordid world, so clearly she was perverted. She realises now that even as a teen she didn’t mind that, but finding like minded people, just to discuss it was the problem. She found Scarlet Ladies this year, and she was proudly part of their #italksex campaign. Turning 30 was very positive for her because she finally felt like she was in her prime, so she is allowing herself to do things she’s always been curious about. She went to her first Torture Garden last month, and she will now go to fetish events regularly, say once a every month or two. She has two subs whom she has just acquired, so she’s enjoying building dynamics with each of them. Being dominant feels so wonderfully natural, and is an effective outlet for the stresses of everyday life!   I asked Rudo to tell me about her background and culture.   Rudo is Black British and is proud of this identification.   She was raised Catholic and by choice attended church until she was 18.   I asked about her first sexual awareness and she told me that she first found she had an interest in some of the catalogue models in the men’s underwear section when she was about 11.  She spoke of noticing ‘the bulges’ and having a physical response and even cutting out one picture to keep.  She spoke about losing her virginity at 17 to a boyfriend and that this was a really positive experience.  We spoke about how lucky she was to have a positive first sexual experience and she says that she still remembers it well.    Rudo talked about being heterosexual through university.   She told me she went to school in Brighton and that she went to a few gay bars and was aware of an attraction to women but didn’t want to act on it or even fully acknowledge this.  She spoke about moving back to London and living with a partner for 5 years and during that relationship telling him that she realised she was attracted to women and wanted to have a threesome to explore this attraction.   In the end, this didn’t happen and it wasn’t until after the relationship ended that she began to explore.   Rudo talked about finding a group through Meetup and making friends with bisexual women and that meeting people to experiment with flowed from here.    From there, we spoke about her interest in BDSM.  She spoke about enjoying power exchange and enjoying being dominant.  She spoke about finding partners through the Whiplr app and we talked a bit about the use of apps to find partners.   Finally we talked about Scarlet Ladies and the #italksex campaign and 23 Paul Street.  Rudo spoke of her belief in gender equality especially when it comes to sex and desire.  She spoke of the importance of speaking out in public so that change happens.  We spoke about the joys of Scarlet Ladies and the wonders of 23 Paul Street.   You can find Rudo at: https://www.scarletladiestalk.com/italksex-because-they-cant-we-can-and-we-should/ https://twitter.com/stylist_face https://instagram.com/stylist_face   23 Paul Street is the Gentleman’s Club we discussed. You can find out more about Scarlet Ladies here.   Today we spoke about the transition from heterosexuality to bisexuality, BDSM and in particular dominant women, and the importance of gender equality when it comes to sex and desire.  If you were triggered or if this resonates with you, do email me. In addition to emailing me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com for more information, you can find resources on the podcast pages as part of the podcast notes.   Check out these podcasts and blogs for more information: BDSM and Power Exchange Practicalities BDSM and Power Exchange Practicalities 1 BDSM: Dominant Couples BDSM Part 2 BDSM Part 1 From Ouch to OOO When Pain Turns You On Here’s What Guys Find So Freakin Hot about Rough Sex Thanks for joining me for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Check out my YouTube channel: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. I have a TV channel on the BonBonNetwork Please leave a review on iTunes and stitcher. The next five people who leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher will receive a 10% discount on any of my services. Is non-monogamy for you? What about Kink? BDSM? Role Play? Take my free test and learn how to add that to your sex life.  

It's the final episode of The Climax for this season! Rebecca & Angelica look back at the biggest highlights of the season; from the most-frequently asked sex questions to topics of communication, consent and taboos. For the final episodes, we're joined by special guests Sarah Beilfuss - co-founder of Scarlet Ladies - and councillor Juliusz Wodzianski to unpick some of the bigger questions about sex, sexual identity and the self we've encountered in the show. We're also reviewing new products by Lovehoney - you can visit www.lovehoney.co.uk/theclimax for 15% off - and we'll be back soon with a new season of The Climax, but in the meantime, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review - and follow us on Twitter at @rebeccaCNreid and @jellymalin. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories:  Isabelle Lauren   Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.    Today I have another sex love story for you.  We will be talking about female sexuality, problems with libido and the joy of regaining it.    Joining me is Isabelle Lauren.  She is a 40 year old married mother of two who loves blogging about sex.  She struggled with endometriosis for most of her adult life and has now experienced a sexual reawakening after a hysterectomy 18 months ago and is enjoying her newfound libido.  She is passionate about female sexuality.   Isabelle Lauren is a sex blogger who is passionate about promoting female sexuality.  She is a 40 year old married mother of tw who has experienced a sexual reawakening after having had a hysterectomy a year and a half ago.  She writes openly about sex on her blog, reviews the odd sex toy and writes some erotica.   I asked Isabelle to tell me about her background and culture.   She told me she is Dutch and was brought up in a conservative Christian home.    I asked about her first sexual awareness and she said that she had no real sexual awareness before her first boyfriend at 19 years old as her family did not talk about sex.  She said that she was brought up that sex is for procreation only and that she was given the biological facts with very little else and no knowledge about pleasure at all.    She described her first sexual experience as very pleasurable though looking back she was dismayed that the man had to teach her about her own body because she had no idea what orgasm was or what the feelings she was having were.  She said that after this relationship ended she met her husband who had a lot of sexual experience.  She described this as good for her at the time but again that she felt dismayed that she did not know about her own body.  She said they had an active sex life and high libidos.   Isabelle said that her endometriosis began when she was 12 and that she had considerable pain around her period.  She said that she had problems on and off and after the birth of her first child, she had treatment.  This helped but the growths came back following the birth of her second child and that becoming aroused would cause pain.  She later found out that this is because she also had growths in the uterine wall so anytime her uterus contracted (like with arousal) she experienced pain.  This led to a complete loss of libido and so her marriage became sexless for a number of years until she had a hysterectomy 18 months ago.  She spoke about how hard this was on their relationship and that she would give him oral sex yet she could not enter into it and allow herself to get turned on or she would experience pain.   Isabelle said that her libido returned as soon as she had the hysterectomy and she has been enjoying her renewed sex life with her husband.  She says that her libido is now higher than her husband’s libido and that she has discovered sex toys that are amazing.  She said she began to blog about sex and found a community of people who had similar experiences and how important it was to be able to talk with people about all aspects of sex and sexuality.  She talked about joining Scarlet Ladies and how much she enjoys the community.    She said that she and her husband are much closer now that they have been able to resume their sex life and spoke of being grateful that he stuck with her throughout this long ordeal.   You can find Isabelle at: https://isabellelauren.com https://twitter.com/romanticisa   Today we spoke about lack of libido, reawakening libido, endometriosis, and the importance of understanding your body and being able to communicate about what turns you on.  If you were triggered or if this resonates with you, do email me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com.  In addition to emailing me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com for more information, you can find resources on the podcast pages as part of the podcast notes.   Check out these podcasts and blogs for more information: L is for Libido S is for Sexless Marriage Sexless Relationships part 1 Sexless Relationships part 2   Thanks for joining me for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Check out my YouTube channel: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. I have a TV channel on the BonBonNetwork Please leave a review on iTunes and stitcher. The next five people who leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher will receive a 10% discount on any of my services. Is non-monogamy for you? What about Kink? BDSM? Role Play? Take my free test and learn how to add that to your sex life.    

Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories:  R   Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.  Today we will be talking about bisexuality and BDSM. Joining me is Rudo Mashongomende.  She is 33 years old, bisexual and she works in fashion. She has always been drawn to the world of BDSM but always felt, or was made to feel that it was a sordid world, so clearly she was perverted. She realises now that even as a teen she didn’t mind that, but finding like minded people, just to discuss it was the problem. She found Scarlet Ladies this year, and she was proudly part of their #italksex campaign. Turning 30 was very positive for her because she finally felt like she was in her prime, so she is allowing herself to do things she’s always been curious about. She went to her first Torture Garden last month, and she will now go to fetish events regularly, say once a every month or two. She has two subs whom she has just acquired, so she’s enjoying building dynamics with each of them. Being dominant feels so wonderfully natural, and is an effective outlet for the stresses of everyday life!   I asked Rudo to tell me about her background and culture.   Rudo is Black British and is proud of this identification.   She was raised Catholic and by choice attended church until she was 18.   I asked about her first sexual awareness and she told me that she first found she had an interest in some of the catalogue models in the men’s underwear section when she was about 11.  She spoke of noticing ‘the bulges’ and having a physical response and even cutting out one picture to keep.  She spoke about losing her virginity at 17 to a boyfriend and that this was a really positive experience.  We spoke about how lucky she was to have a positive first sexual experience and she says that she still remembers it well.    Rudo talked about being heterosexual through university.   She told me she went to school in Brighton and that she went to a few gay bars and was aware of an attraction to women but didn’t want to act on it or even fully acknowledge this.  She spoke about moving back to London and living with a partner for 5 years and during that relationship telling him that she realised she was attracted to women and wanted to have a threesome to explore this attraction.   In the end, this didn’t happen and it wasn’t until after the relationship ended that she began to explore.   Rudo talked about finding a group through Meetup and making friends with bisexual women and that meeting people to experiment with flowed from here.    From there, we spoke about her interest in BDSM.  She spoke about enjoying power exchange and enjoying being dominant.  She spoke about finding partners through the Whiplr app and we talked a bit about the use of apps to find partners.   Finally we talked about Scarlet Ladies and the #italksex campaign and 23 Paul Street.  Rudo spoke of her belief in gender equality especially when it comes to sex and desire.  She spoke of the importance of speaking out in public so that change happens.  We spoke about the joys of Scarlet Ladies and the wonders of 23 Paul Street.   You can find Rudo at: https://www.scarletladiestalk.com/italksex-because-they-cant-we-can-and-we-should/ https://twitter.com/stylist_face https://instagram.com/stylist_face   23 Paul Street is the Gentleman’s Club we discussed. You can find out more about Scarlet Ladies here.   Today we spoke about the transition from heterosexuality to bisexuality, BDSM and in particular dominant women, and the importance of gender equality when it comes to sex and desire.  If you were triggered or if this resonates with you, do email me. In addition to emailing me at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com for more information, you can find resources on the podcast pages as part of the podcast notes.   Check out these podcasts and blogs for more information: BDSM and Power Exchange Practicalities BDSM and Power Exchange Practicalities 1 BDSM: Dominant Couples BDSM Part 2 BDSM Part 1 From Ouch to OOO When Pain Turns You On Here’s What Guys Find So Freakin Hot about Rough Sex Thanks for joining me for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Check out my YouTube channel: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. I have a TV channel on the BonBonNetwork Please leave a review on iTunes and stitcher. The next five people who leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher will receive a 10% discount on any of my services. Is non-monogamy for you? What about Kink? BDSM? Role Play? Take my free test and learn how to add that to your sex life.  

I is for #Italksex Hi everyone!  Welcome to the A to Z of Sex.  I'm Dr Lori Beth and I am your host.  We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time.  Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don't have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones.  Today the letter is I and I is for #ITalkSex   #ITalkSex is a campaign started by the ladies who brought us Scarlet Ladies, Sarah and Jannette.    Both women came from very different backgrounds and discovered the same thing, that women don't have safe spaces to talk about sex and intimacy and that they need these spaces.  They have created a space that encompasses FIERCE values: Freedom, Inspiration, Esteem, Courage and Enjoyment and have focused on connecting all women through these values.   Joining me today to talk about FIERCE values and the #ITalkSex Campaign is Sarah Beilfuss.    Sarah talked with me about the #ItalkSex campaign and that it came from the reason that Scarlet Ladies began in the first place. She said that she and Janette met at a networking event and that this led to a conversation about blow jobs and other conversations about sex.  She described the relief at being able to talk about sex without fear of judgement and that they decided to maybe do a workshop together.  This was how Scarlet Ladies was born.     Sarah talked about all the reasons that the campaign is important – to bring awareness to women's sexuality and the issues that are important to women from sexual violence to sexual pleasure.  She talked about how important it was to have a diverse group of women talking about these topics and how the photo campaign that goes along with the twitter campaign illustrates a diverse group of women.   Sarah talked about the topics that are covered at Scarlet Ladies from the most recent panel on LGBTQ+ to the panel for Black History month in the UK (October) where black women talked about what it is like to live in a colourist society.    We talked about how women at these meetings often remarked that just knowing they are not alone was so important.  We spoke about the need for men and women to communicate about sex and Sarah mentioned that she had heard about a woman who died of cancer of the vulva because shame kept her from knowing what was normal for her body.  She spoke of doctors who don't take women's pain during sex seriously and tell women to either relax or try another method (like anal sex) to satisfy their partners and how they ignore women's pleasure as being a reason that a woman might seek help.   She spoke about the fact that women who are self-conscious and unsure are easier prey for predators.   We spoke about the importance of being able to speak your truth and not feel shame and having a safe space to talk about sex and intimacy – the positives and the negatives and everything in between.   To find out more about Scarlet Ladies: https://scarletladiestalk.com   Twitter: @scarletladies Facebook: ScarletladiesUK     Thanks for joining me for the A to Z of Sex this week. Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drloribeth@atozofsex.com , follow me on twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Check out my YouTube channel: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. For a free 30-minute strategy session with me, go to https://atozofsex.com/ and click the button that says Schedule Now! Is BDSM or Power Exchange for You? Are you already involved but want to improve things? Take the test to find out about your kinky quotient https://the-intimacy-coach.com/kinkyquotient . If you enjoy the show please leave me a review on iTunes and Stitcher. Join me next week for the letter J.

The Second Circle is taking part in Scarlet Ladies' #ITalkSex campaign this week as I'm joined by three of the campaign's ambassadors, Elly, Rudo, and Kit, to delve into why silence around sex can lead to abuse and what we can do to help each other be more open. We also chat about why women are more content than men to be single and whether there's such a thing as “boring” sex.LINKSWomen prefer being single according to this piece in the Telegraph and one of of the reasons is that relationships involve more work for women than they do for men. The subject of emotional labour is also discussed in this Psychologies article as well is this excellent piece in Harper's Bazaar.“Female sexuality is not a dirty secret. It's a part of who we are.” – That's the slogan for the #ITalkSex campaign and you can read the full manifesto here.Becoming by Laura Jane Williams is available from Amazon.To find out more about Scarlet Ladies upcoming events visit www.scarletladiestalk.comWith special thanks to 23 Paul Street, a boutique strip club in Shoreditch, London, who host Scarlet Ladies events and our recording location for this episode. See www.23paulstreet.comThe Second Circle is a sex and gender politics podcast hosted by Franki Cookney. Get in touch @The2ndCircle or via our contact page. If you enjoyed the show today, why not buy me a coffee?Support the show (https://ko-fi.com/frankicookney)

The Second Circle has been transformed into a women-only space this week as I've banished Rob in favour of two fabulous guests: Jannette Davies and Sarah Beilfuss of London-based sex-positive members club Scarlet Ladies. We'll be tackling Jannette's favourite subject, masturbation, and sharing our porn and sex toy habits. We also touch on what it means to identify as a woman, discussing changing sex drives and whether it's ever OK to leave immediately after a hook up. If you enjoyed the show today, why not buy me a coffee?LINKSIs it ever OK to leave immediately after sex? This GQ article lists the times when it is although personally I'm a fan of sleeping over, as I wrote in this piece for The Debrief last year.Journalist and broadcaster Jenni Murray wrote in The Sunday Times that trans women cannot truly know what it's like to be a woman.Jannette has tried a LOT of sex toys but nothing can replace her favourite: The Metal One from Ann Summers.Find out more about Scarlet Ladies events, workshops and membership at Scarletladiestalk.comThe Second Circle is the podcast that takes sex seriously. Created and hosted by freelance journalist Franki Cookney (with help from her husband Rob) it seeks to make sex a subject we engage with as fully, openly and enthusiastically as we do with politics, art, fitness, food and fashion. To get in touch tweet @secondcirclepod or email secondcirclepodcast@gmail.com. Support the show (https://ko-fi.com/frankicookney)

A no-holds barred open discussion on breast cancer, the pill and menopause. Check out this online radio http://www.redshiftradio.co.uk, the Scarlet Ladies slot – a bit like Loose Women only it’s audio! It’s already happened, so click on the link for the recording. It’s […]