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Grab a cup of coffee and listen to a new voice on the topic of divorce. I hope you can relate to my experiences, meet my village of support and be empowered to live your life to the fullest!

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    • Sep 20, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    Preparing for the sequel

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 36:23


    It is bittersweet to publish my last episode for this podcast. My hope is that the episodes and guests resonated with you, especially if you are divorced or going through the process. In this episode I discuss setting boundaries, coparenting, the power of manifestation and taking time to focus on yourself.  Of course I have a few dating stories and some advice if you are on the dating apps.My love for coffee and conversations led me to start recording. It was a risk in sharing my story, but sometimes life we have to step out on faith.  And if our plans do not work out, we try again.  May we all live by the Confucius quote: Our greatest joy is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.  Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow me on Instagram: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts#summerofme #divorcemom #divorceparent #coffeeandivorcechat #singleandcontent #divorcepodcast #divorceblackwomen #lifeafterdivorce #datingafterdivorce #enjoythe journey #divorceover40 #divorce #divorcetips #coparenting

    Summer of Me 2022: Balance

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 25:13


    ️In this episode, I share the following:Tips on creating your own 'summer of me'Trust the process Why balance is my new 'b' word and not boundariesPurchase the book Summer of Me #summerofme #divorcemom #divorceparent #coffeeandivorcechat #singleandcontent #divorcepodcast #divorceblackwomen #lifeafterdivorce 

    Managing Expectations (Part Two) with Eric Payne

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 40:10


    There are no losses...just lessonsThe conversation continues with Eric sharing details about his podcast and the concept of the zero date rule. We share how we coped doing things alone, a little bit about the show Insecure and how we try to avoid spending too much time on social media. For more of Eric's story and the male perspective on divorce and dating, listen to his podcast available on all platforms.

    Managing Expectations (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 39:21


    One of the things I have learned about dating after divorce is how to manage my expectations.  It has been a process of communicating unspoken expectations and releasing people who cannot meet my expectations.Fellow podcaster Eric Payne of Dating After Divorce Survival joins me for a cup of coffee and chat about this topic.  Eric starts off by asking this intriguing question:  What do you want and why do you want it? This is part one of our discussion about being grown, enjoying life and having a tribe that offers wisdom along with accountability.  Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Eric on IG: Dating After Divorce SurvivalLeave a review on Apple Podcasts#datingafterdivorce  #coffeeandivorcechat #lifeafterdivorce #managingexpectations   #trusttheprocess #beauthenticallyyou #datingover40 

    Timing Is Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 17:59


    Timing is everything as you go through the divorce process and navigate life afterward. What do you do while you wait? Focus on you and join me for the #alonenotlonely challenge of dating yourself. In this episode I share the following tips about moving on:As a parent, I make space for my child to share her feelings. If you are not a parent, make space for yourself to unpack your emotions and self-reflectWho is on your front row of support? Who do you need to move to the back?Be the curator of your life with the right mindset. Maybe the journey isn't so much about becoming anything…maybe it is unbecoming every  thing that isn't really you so you can be who you were meant to be….authentically you.Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow me on Instagram: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Unapologetically Writing Your Story with B.F. Glenn

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 45:51


    Everyone has a story and there is power in using words to share it with others. Did you know that journaling and writing can be therapeutic and serve as an outlet for your thoughts going through a divorce. Kay sits down with B.F. Glenn, CEO of Sixth Sense Publishing who provides a community for writers and reminds us that our stories will heal and uplift the right people. You will be blessed by this conversation and encouraged to pick up a pen and start writing! Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow B.F. on IG:  BFGlenn_writerWatch the episode on YouTube:  Kay and B.F. Glenn Video RecordingLeave a review on Apple Podcasts#writeyourstory #divorceandwriting #coffeeandivorcechat #lifeafterdivorce #journaling #d #trusttheprocess #beauthenticallyyou

    Preparing for Something New

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 30:18


    How do you get ready for the next chapter in your life after divorce? It's a new season so grab a cup of coffee and join the conversation. I am sharing my tips on preparing for a new chapter related to co-parenting, dating and redeveloping healthier habits. Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow me on Instagram: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Dating After Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 38:11


    As the summer ends, I have already started to hear these words “cuffing season”. This means that it is time to find your ‘boo', someone to date, cuddle with, a companion for the fall season. I laughed when I first heard these words thinking “it's definitely going to be difficult finding a date now.”Seriously, dating post-divorce is difficult for men and women. I've talked about it several times in past seasons on the podcast about dating for potential, dating for fun and dealing with loneliness. Now that I am dating with intention, I sat down with Vance from @vancetogrow about healing after your divorce to be ready to date. This conversation will leave you encouraged about finding that special person as Vance shares tips, why you should consider working with a dating coach and his own experience with dating as a divorcee. And I forgive him for not being a coffee lover! Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Vance on IG: advancetogrowBecome a Client: adVancetogrow CoachingLeave a review on Apple Podcasts#datingafterdivorce #datingcoach #coffeeandivorcechat #lifeafterdivorce #divorcediaries #divorceanddating #trustthejourneyenjoytheprocess #beauthenticallyyou

    Just Breathe – Rediscovering Yourself Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2021 54:17


    My friend Manny shares co-parenting tips if you have multiple kids, challenges in dating when you have kids and how spending time outdoors contributed to his self-discovery. Listen to the end to hear his mantra about ‘just breathe' and how it is connected to taking care of yourself. You don't want to miss this last episode in my summer of me series featuring divorced men. Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    The Way He Sees It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 21:09


    When you use lessons learned from a divorce, your perspective on life may change. Business consultant, author, and self-proclaimed lover of life, Robert Hazzard, Jr. shares how he sees the failure of giving love a second chance to create future success in his life. He joins me with a "special cup of coffee" with an inspiring message of hope, learning how to  pause and communicate in a relationship. Podcast Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Robert:  IamRobertHazzard,Jr.Watch Robert on Live from the Cave: Inde.TvLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Manifesting What You Want - Part One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2021 16:34


    How do you manifest life after a divorce? Film Producer and host of @divorcetf6m ,Peter Maestrey, joins me with a cup of coffee and shares his experience with manifestation. Divorce sucks but Peter's perspective reminds us that it gives us a blank canvas to paint using any color for another opportunity.  This part one of our conversation. Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatListen and Follow Peter:  Divorce after the first 6 monthsLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Intellectually Curious with Antonio Evans

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 40:26


    How do you turn a degree in radio broadcasting into an opportunity to help others? This week's guest, Antonio Evans used his degree and college experience in radio to create a podcast to help others, especially men, going through a divorce. His podcast “Single Father Point of View” attracts listeners who become family as he shares resources to help men going through divorce but revisits his college years to help youth interested in college sports. He is intellectually curious with a Chi-town vibe bringing you a #NetflixandChill mode to the podcast world. Sit back and enjoy this episode.Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Antonio on Instagram: @tonyeveans1748Listen to the Single Father Point of ViewLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Summer of Me 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 19:48


    ️In this episode, I share the following:Tips on creating your own 'summer of me'Healing from your divorceWhat I have learned from being single  Showing men some love with a preview of my guests for June#summerofme #divorcemom #divorceparent #coffeeandivorcechat #singleandcontent #divorcepodcast #divorceblackwomen #lifeafterdivorce #mexico2021Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Part 2: Determination, Distractions and Discussions

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 14:12


    You can never stop a determined person!  In Part 2 I share the goals I am determined to accomplish this year with a focus on myself to be the best version for my family, friends and future relationship. When you sow the seeds, you can and will reap the rewards so what are you determined to accomplish this month, this summer or this year? Don't let a divorce or the process stop you from writing your goals, establishing a plan and then executing it! We are not entering the summer with words on paper without any action!Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Distractions, Discussions and Determination - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 17:57


    How do you manage distractions to focus on healing and working towards acceptance as your redesign your post divorce life? Ariana Grande's song Thank You Next suggest we need to have "better discussions with ourselves". I would agree! Listen to this episode as I share tips on managing distractions, the type of discussions I am having this summer that lead to my 'Summer of Me.'Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Living Her Best Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 56:43


    What does it mean to live your best life after a divorce?  Board Certified psychiatrist Dr. Delvena Thomas shares her divorce story, from medical school to building her own practice, embracing her free spirited personality and why she decided not to settle for less than what she deserves. Listen to how she helps her clients with dating and relationships and explains her goal of spreading information about mental health on her podcast Brain Love. She's family so we share some laughs and a few stories including my family nickname.Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Dr. Delvena Thomas on Instagram: @drdelvenaListen to the Brain Love Podcast: Brain LoveLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Her Story: Divorce Does Not End Your Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 31:58


    Happy – Fulfilled – Empowered  These is how my next guest Jill Gullato describes her post-divorce life. How do you get there when you feel lost? What leads a person to what to help others going through a divorce? Jill's story is inspiring and in this episode she discusses being authentic through her IG posts and using her divorce experience to help women heal and reclaim their lives. Website: Coffee and Divorce ChatFollow Jill on Instagram: @jill.gullatoLeave a review on Apple Podcasts

    Monday Moment - Sharing My Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 26:02


    For Women's history month, my guests have been women telling their story about the divorce process, and how a divorce does not define you. Since I have some new listeners –– I wanted to share my story. Now this is an abbreviated version because the full version is in Season 1.  In this episode I talk budgeting, dating and continued healing after your divorce:Resources mentioned@southernsavers@cleavergirlfinance@relationalintelligence Enjoyed listening to the podcast and want to support?Follow me on InstagramSubscribe on my PodpageLeave a review on Itunes Use the hashtag #coffeeandivorcechat

    Finding Your Tribe with the group Divorce Over 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 39:30


    The divorce process is hard. Moving forward in your life after a divorce is hard. It doesn't matter if you have kids or not - it is a difficult process emotionally, physically and mentally. But finding a friend, a tribe or connection with someone who understands can help in so many ways.  In this episode with the co-founders of DivorceOver40, you will hear how the group started with just a few folks and how you can start your own. This group that Julie, Daniel and Amy created remind us that extended an olive branch or a simple hello is another way to show kindness in our world. Where to find DivorceOver40: Instagram| WebsiteEnjoyed listening to the podcast and want to support?Follow me on InstagramSubscribe on my PodpageLeave a review on Itunes Use the hashtag #coffeeandivorcechat

    Telling Her Story: No Shame - A Love of Gardening

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2021 37:32


    Who knew that a love of gardening while going through a divorce would result in claiming energy currency?  Colah Tawkin from Black in the Garden is a rising star in the podcast network, recently featured as part of the Apple podcast Black History month lineup. She is a storyteller curating mindful conversations surrounding Black culture and horticulture. She shows no judgement if you are newbie to plants or in a previous life known to be a killer of them, like me. And overall, she is just a cool person to be around, you know the type of girlfriend you need in your tribe? Listen as she tells her story and reminds us why we should have no shame going through a divorce. 

    Put the Child First: Creating a Co-Parenting Plan

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 41:36


    One of the biggest challenges in the divorce process is creating a co-parenting plan. Denise Banks-Wilson, CEO of A Family Journey Mediation joins me to discuss what to have in your plan, provides advice I can use to revise my current plan and shares what you should look for in a mediator. In this episode: 2:54: What is Mediation?3:45: What is a Parenting Plan10:09: Be Informed - Create an Audit16:39: What to look for in a mediator?

    Taking Care of Your Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2021 31:29


    Board certified psychotherapist Dr. Thommi Lawson joins me to discuss finding your joy, what to look for in a therapist and why it matters who sits on your front row.  She drops some helpful tips to help me make it through the "month of love."

    Preparing for Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 26:20


    Once you say the words, I want a divorce, what's next? Listen to my 5 tips to prepare and moving on with your life once it has been finalized.

    Reclaiming Your Narrative

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 22:33


    Rebuilding your life after divorce is not easy - who are you and how do you share this with someone new? Listen to my story and how I reclaimed my narrative

    CoParenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 30:05


    An update on how co-parenting is going with my ex...still issues but we are making it!

    A reset

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 23:53


    Season 3 opens with an update and what it means to do a “reset” on dating and establishing boundaries.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Last episode...for now

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2020 21:32


    In this episode I answer questions from listeners as I share why this is the last regularly scheduled recording. Check out my IG page: coffee_chat_podcats for pictures. Thank you for listening!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Preparing for Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 26:20


    Once you say the words, I want a divorce, what's next? Listen to my 5 tips to prepare and moving on with your life once it has been finalized.  

    Co-Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 30:46


    An update on how co-parenting is going with my ex...still issues but we are making it!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Reclaiming Your Narrative

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 22:33


    Rebuilding your life after divorce is not easy - who are you and how do you share this with someone new? Listen to my story and how I reclaimed my narrative.

    Don't Block Your Blessing

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 19:44


    Embrace change, find what you lost and don't settle!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Summer of Me Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2020 22:17


    Celebrating my birthday this week with an update on dating post divorce and having patience!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Interested Men Show Interest

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2020 24:58


    I am halfway through my Summer of Me! Sharing the latest in my dating life, handling heartbreak and expectations. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Lessons Learned in Quarantine 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2020 22:41


    America reopens, folks having parties but for me, sharing lessons learned like practice leads to something better and going for what I want. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    The Other Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 22:00


    Keeping your feelings in check when you meet the new woman in your ex's life. And dealing with your feelings as you date and using the experiences to get what you want. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Loneliness

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2020 20:23


    Divorced and Lonely - how can our experiences help us deal with this feeling? Don't let the feeling rush you to choosing someone or doing something...let's talk about it . --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    That's My Type

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2020 15:32


    What I think is my type may not be what shows up. Let's talk about the list and being patient for who may show up for you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    The Play Date...not what you think!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2020 19:57


    When is the best time to introduce someone you are dating to your kids(s)? How do you do it? Listen as I share about my “play date” experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Dating for Fun

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020 29:21


    How do you date for fun when you are separated or recently divorced? I'll share some tips and offer advice on navigate this new world of online dating. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Taking Care of You

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2020 23:27


    Mental health matters. I knew I needed to find a therapist for support during my separation. I will share how my procrastination affected my health.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Co-Parenting Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2020 33:44


    How do you tell your child about a divorce? I will share what I did and could have done better when I told my daughter and tips on books and other ways of contact.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Co-Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 42:01


    Co-Parenting is hard especially if you cannot forgive the person for what they have done to you. Listen to understand why we must forgive in order to move on in our life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2020 34:22


    Divorce is not easy. So how do we accept this situation, our feelings and learn to move forward? I share my challenges with accepting my single divorcee status.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Dating for Potential

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 27:30


    In this new era of online dating, facebook groups and matching services, how do you date if you are separated or divorced? It's scary, it can be exciting and it can be heartbreaking. Let's talk about it over coffee.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

    Coffee and Conversations: The “D” Word

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2020 17:23


    Grab a cup of coffee and let's talk about divorce. I will share my story and look forward to hearing yours too!--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/coffeeanddivorcechat/message

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