Lena Speaks

spend your time wisely with your parents, don't keep putting off not being with them to keep chasing your life, they're also a part of your journey they're not invincible....

communication and reciprocating communication in the same tone of emotion and words and feelings typically makes someone appreciate you more. it means you're paying attention, it means you understand and respect the person enough to give them your undivided attention.

we all go through out life stages at certain times and differently from each other. but it's not ok to feel like an outcast because your friend feels like you don't belong in the same setting anymore. or how our parents often teach us that once a girl gets married, her friendship with her friend ends.

we always assume when we communicate that we know what the other person has said. stop doing that. ask people directly what they meant with what they said

whenever you feel low, whenever you feel unmotivated and defeated listen to this

sometimes people come into our lives as blessings and they don't come often and we take them for granted thinking they're going to last despite our indifference towards their efforts and dismissing them often when we shouldn't....at a certain point .... they leave and don't come back

we miss so many verses in the Quran when we want to rehabilitate our soul and induce positivity into our system...we forget the little words and whispers that Allah has in the Quran for us.

when you want to be done with toxic people, be done with them.

do not ever criticize someone for making a mistake, having committed a sin and is repenting for it

do not be so quick to judge people by their exterior appearance and think their lives are not burden free. some people are going through battles darker than what you can imagine. be gentle

people are 2 types in life, the ones who appreciate you and the ones who make you feel insignificant

it started out as a fight and as disagreement, but we ended up loving each other and trusting each other and having each other's back.

we keep being driven in our decision making by what people say. we'd rather stay silent than speak our truths because our truths makes people uncomfortable or insecure. we keep getting influenced by what people think of us that we dilute so much of who we are in the process.

there are no challenges or difficulties that come easy or end well, we always get dealt with exactly with how much we can handle. Allah will help you through it

do not worry about too much, when you trust in Allah (SWT) your entire life changes

there are people who come into your life just to soak up all your positive energy and they want nothing to do with you after. they just use you and pretend to be interested in your life. but the minute the need for you to them expires....you will be disposed of. choose your company wisely.

Grief is where love once was, it's the moments we we will not be able to create but how do we deal with that Trauma ? how do we still love them as they're no longer here ? Loving Allah (SWT) and understanding his decree is automatic healing into your soul

be proud of how far you have come and how much you had to deal with, fall in love with all your hardships and pain and lean into all the emotions you're experiencing, it's not shameful to have them and go through it. you are human

charity lives in your name forever, the goodness you do here will precede you in the Hereafter.

we get so wrapped up in saving everyone that we forget ourselves in the process

Recovering from trauma is tough, being in it is harder. we all go through it though, it's a door we all must walk through

Allah (SWT) had advanced his love for me before I for him. but what makes Allah in all his glory, he who doesn't need me, loves me first ?

sometimes your loved ones are going through things and we itch to help them but right now they're going through something they themselves cannot understand and they need Allah right and not you.

they asked me how does healing look like and it's everything that makes you better and those around you. we don't do it until it is too late or things are unbearable or unimaginable. healing is love, self care, forgiving, getting close to Allah (SWT), healing is a kind word, nice gesture a an act of goodness.

goodbyes are ok .... sometimes you have to make room for what deserve

تأخير صلاتك يعني تأخير حياتك delaying your salah is delaying your life. do not procrastinate. Allah has invited to come to him and pray 5 times briefly to unload all your problems and be grateful

don't spend too much being harsh with yourself when you can move on. you have doubted your own abilities and how good you can have it before anyone else judged you. the past is not a couch for you sit on it is a space for you to move on from.

some people aren't meant to be in your life, they were never good for you even if they appeared like they were of the most important parts of your life.

stop being so cruel and awful in your speech with others

اللهم ابعد عنا أصدقاء السوء Oh lord distance us away from bad company

stay away from people who make their problems your fault

smile and take it easy, you are an important part of someone's life, you mean something to someone.

All losses can be compensated, except for losing years of your life seeking people's approval.

whoever lives in deception, dies in poverty

when you're anxious about the unknown, put your trust in Allah and allow him to be the best of planners that he is.

From the good choices a person can make are keeping with virtuous people and keeping distance from wicked ones

Do not give up , no matter how far the road drags you. It gets better, it always does.

Allah will never abandon you in any calamity, illness, hardship or difficulty

Every day is different, keep going

How much are you willing to put up with until you cut someone off?

Strength, resilience and patience are the core of every hardship and trouble I face.

There is no world where the pain is worth your sanity

People don't give up on people...they just show their true colours.

Make the most of every moment, it's not all about fame, money and status, sometimes the little things matter

Level up ... just as much as you ride and airplane ✈️ not knowing if you'll die or land, but you trust the pilot trust Allah to get you there too

Allah is always there in your highs and in your lows

Trauma is not a comfort zone, it is not a safe space to sit and lounge in....peace and hope are through the corridors of the insecurities you try to avoid

When will we learn to become better than what society wants us to be ? Houses became big but no one to live in them, love became just a fantasy, knowledge is so accessible yet no one looks for it, people's hearts used to be made of gold and now it's dust and greed

Trying to load up two days at once is anxiety and feeling irrational about your fear increases even more

Self improvement is a life long journey, keep going

Stop....relax, read and analyze