Melanin & Cocktails

Don't call it a come back! Secrets and Xtina reunite and share their Vegas experiences and the importance of loyalty to yourself first, when dealing with friends.

The ladies discuss Men and all their glory or lack thereof and friendships. Is it good to break up with a friend or acquaintance because they and your "friend" or friend break up? Secrets gets vulnerable about her relationship situationship with New York trash. Listen in,

Porsha Williams blew up the Internet after she posted a photo showing her cuddling up with “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” co-star Falynn's ex-husband, confirming that the two were in love after only 30 days. And then there was that ring. Tell us: Real love or made-for-TV love? Xtina and Secrets share their celebrity crushes. Also is the term "What do you bring to the table?" one for men to ask a woman? An Can you always be your authentic self?

SO you want to hike? Hit our Dm and Secrets will hook you up with some great locations. We discuss celebrity crushes, the difference between Compost and Trash ®, discounting peoples support and Justin Timberlake debate. Also Peleton we see you ho.

In this episode as we say goodbye to a host, discuss Normalizing Black Love, True Friendship and Farewell to a legend our DMX!We say hello to new beginnings! Melanin & Cocktails will continue serving up cocktails, special guests and relatable conversations. Pit Liquor https://linktr.ee/pitliquor discount code is M&C15 for 15% off of one purchase per customer through June 30, 2021.

We say goodbye to Charlotte in her last episode. Don't worry we'll force her to come back and share some of her stories. Tonight we discuss Social Media in relationships how important is it? Does Amanda have a fear of commitment or does she just keep interacting with compost men? (Compost: a man that is not completely trash, he has the potential for growth but still has not grown) Do men really prefer women who serve them half popped popcorn? Is there ever a good reason to break up with your best friend for your man?

Amanda and her theory of who "Becky with the Good Hair" is? Can someone you aren't married to pay your bills? What celebrities should play other celebrities in their biopics?  More rants

In this episode the ladies discuss all the March racists thus far. Sharon Osbourne and her trash friend Piers Morgan, the trash Basketball Commentator, the trash Sheriff. With a splash of relationship talk, about do you alter your appearance to looks that your mate prefers.

In this episode the ladies discuss Harry and Meghan interview, review Coming 2 America and Staying hot for your mate.

Cheapskates on Dates This week special guest GZA (https://www.instagram.com/gza_geniuz/?hl=en) aka gza_geniuz weighs in on financing dates, and PDA.

In this bonus episode, the ladies share their go to wellness products of the moment. Self Care is not a hashtag its a necessary part of your everyday life and does not need to cost you anything.

We finish the previous episode by asking about, Should you let someone put you on layaway? Is it fine to wait for someone to get their life together ie finances, education or dealing with intimacy issues.

In this episode the ladies try out being bartenders with Vodka as the mandatory ingredient. Then they join Patrick and discuss should partners exchange each others passwords or are some boundaries in a relationship important?

In tonight's episode we had our wonderful guest host Ari and her captivating perspective on life. We talk about Chris Harrison's Bachelor scandal, with a shot of JT's apology. Then Did Randy Jackson and Luther Vandross have an affair with Osama Bin laden?! An we finish it all up with our relationship topic Should couples share finances?

Bonus episode! After lightly  discussing relationships and colorism Ta'mora and Charlotte logged off.  Xtina, Amanda and Erayna stayed on and balderdash ensues! From wondering where Theo the Dj/Vj is to Xtina dropping fire lyrics.

In this episode your melanin ladies discuss what their mates do to make them feel special and what they do to try to keep the relationship fresh. They are joined by the very romantic Elden. Then a conversation about Imitation of Life spirals uncontrollably.

On this episode we let you get to know your Melanin Ladies. Please watch as we discuss ourselves, Revenge Bedtime Procrastination, Movies that need sequels and earthquake preparedness.

In this episode we discuss an age old question of should a woman go after the man she wants or is there a certain role women have no matter how much time has passed and it includes "letting him come to you." We will discuss, when should you let someone meet your children even when should you share important things about your past.

We delve into if we have ever experienced ghosting and what is the appropriate way to break things off with someone you are not interested in. Plus Story time with Charlotte. She has the best stories! For more content please check out our Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNlGIMrsYvode6haP9piW4Q

Amanda, Erayna, Xtina and Ta'mora attempt to still pour up a great episode! The ladies discuss what kind of background checks and how much digging should you do on a romantic interest. Favorite restaurants and future travel plans and who you must travel with. Question for listeners do you know any great restaurants that have crème brûlée? Email us at melaninandcocktails@gmail.com Intro music from the amazing DJ please follow him at dclass3.org and follow dclass3 on all music platforms even tiktok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9U-YnkI1di24j5xlDPmKcA

In this episode we discuss Matt James the first bi-racial Bachelor. Where would we love to travel and where will we be traveling once we can travel again. Romance question which form of cheating is worse mental or physical? Intro music from the amazing DJ please follow him at dclass3.org and follow dclass3 on all music platforms even tiktok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

On today's episode we dive into some relationship topics and offer a male perspective from Jeff.

In today's show we discuss Gal Gadot as Cleopatra do we need another Cleopatra movie is she the appropriate actor for it, what self-care looks like to us and can men and women be "just friends. Get your drink and get comfortable.