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Parenting Smarts! We need them, and sometimes we feel them. Our host, MaryRuth Hackett, is a mom of four with a doctorate in educational psychology, specializing in child development. Parenting Smarts blends together the science of child development and the realities of family life. Thanks for list…

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    • May 14, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 38m AVG DURATION
    • 121 EPISODES

    4.9 from 134 ratings Listeners of Parenting Smarts that love the show mention: parenting, catholic, thank you thank, dr, kids, tips, practical, smart, helpful, great, maryruth.


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    The Parenting Smarts podcast is an absolute gem for parents looking for practical advice and wisdom in raising their children. Hosted by Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett, this podcast covers a wide range of topics that are relevant to parents, including science, psychology, and Catholic principles. Dr. Hackett's relatable thoughts and discussions make it easy for listeners to relate and apply the information to their own lives.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the wealth of knowledge and expertise that Dr. Hackett brings to each episode. As a trained professional and parent herself, she offers valuable insights and tips that are grounded in research-based wisdom. The guests she brings on the show also contribute valuable perspectives and ideas, making each episode informative and thought-provoking.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is its focus on real-life parenting issues. Dr. Hackett discusses topics that many parents can relate to, such as improving relationships with children, navigating through different stages of parenthood, and finding balance in a hectic world. The discussions are practical and offer simple things that listeners can mull over and implement in their own lives.

    Perhaps one downside to this podcast is that some may find it too focused on Catholic principles. While these principles provide a valuable framework for parenting, it may not resonate with everyone who listens to the podcast. However, even if you don't align with Catholic beliefs, there is still plenty of helpful information that can be applied to any parenting style or philosophy.

    In conclusion, The Parenting Smarts podcast is a wonderful resource for parents seeking guidance in raising their children. Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett offers valuable insights grounded in science, psychology, and Catholic principles. Whether you're a new parent or have been on this journey for a while, this podcast provides practical advice and relatable wisdom that can help you become the best parent you can be.



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    118: Discernment

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 38:28


    Stephanie Burke joins MaryRuth to talk about how to help children understand the spiritual world in age-appropriate ways.

    117: Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 30:09


    MaryRuth dives into the virtue of faith and ways to nurture it in ourselves and in our families.

    116: Patience

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 30:39


    MaryRuth is joined by Jennifer Ellis to reflect on patience, what they have learned and how to practice it in family life.

    115: Wisdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 48:25


    How can we choose our words, listen to the Lord and discern well? Fr. Will Schmid joins MaryRuth to discuss how to allow wisdom to permeate our lives and families.

    114: Courage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 40:16


    Gail Davis, MaryRuth's mom, joins the program to help us learn how to cultivate courage in ourselves and our families.

    113: Kindness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 31:32


    Olivia Spears joins MaryRuth to explore how to cultivate kindness in our families.

    The Golden Rule

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 54:50


    Tina McAllister-Smith joins MaryRuth to talk about how stories can teach virtues and the Golden Rule.

    111: Spiritual Detachment

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 50:32


    Nell O'Leary and MaryRuth share a casual, vulnerable conversation exploring attachment parenting and spiritual detachment.

    110: Temperance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 42:15


    MaryRuth welcomes Lindy Wynne to explore the virtue of temperance and how to cultivate it on ourselves and within our families. 

    109: Fortitude

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 37:09


    Megan Hjelmstad joins MaryRuth to explore the virtue of fortitude. Help your kids be able to endure difficulty and to do hard things.

    108: Merry Christmas!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2024 6:07


    MaryRuth shares some thoughts and wishes everyone a Merry Christmas!

    107: Hope

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 50:06


    Joyce Coronel joins MaryRuth to talk about different seasons of life and how to foster hope in all circumstances.

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    106: Piety

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 51:43


    Katie Burke joins MaryRuth to talk about what piety is, what it can look like in family life and how to cultivate it in your home.

    104: Humility

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 35:25


    Jenna Guizar joins MaryRuth to discuss growing in the virtue of humility as parents and encouraging it in our children. They reflect on depending on God, knowing who He is and who we are. Join them in praying the Litany of Humility.

    105: Prudence

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 30:12


    MaryRuth explores the virtue of prudence. She shares definitions, how it relates to other virtues, what it can look like in family life and how to cultivate it in our homes.

    Creating a Virtue Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 38:41


    How do we grow in virtue as parents and foster a culture in our home focused on virtues? Emily Jaminet explores ways to transform our hearts, make priorities, examine interactions, and be disposed to the grace that helps cultivate family life striving for virtue.

    The Virtue of Sleep

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 31:17


    As we launch into a season exploring virtues related to family life, MaryRuth explores the importance of sleep and how it contributes to well being. Physical rest helps us pray better, relate better and parent better. 

    101: Fatherhood Revisited

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 29:29


    Fr. MarkMary Ames joins MaryRuth for another conversation about fatherhood. They explore the ways parents, especially fathers, can provide what kids need to flourish. 

    100: Discipline Practical Tips

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 44:13


    How do you remain consistent yet adapt to individual children and circumstances when making decisions about discipline? Gina Festerer joins MaryRuth to explore this and more questions related to discipline.

    99: Discipline

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 26:28


    In an early episode, MaryRuth addressed discipline, but the next two episodes take a deeper dive into the topic. In this episode, MaryRuth provides framework for the purpose of discipline and concepts to consider. In the next episode a guest will join her to provide practical tips.

    98: Parental Stress

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 50:07


    Parents get stressed! How can we deal with stress in a way that is healthy? How do we keep from losing it? MaryRuth explores the science behind stress and shares practical tips to help parents manage it.

    97: Dealing with Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 48:08


    Parenting can be an emotional rollercoaster. How can we teach our children to understand and deal with emotions? How can we handle our own feelings as well? Cindy Bird joins MaryRuth help us with our emotional health.

    96: The Grandparent Effect

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 47:03


    How do children benefit from grandparents? How about grandparents from grandchildren? Anita Hackett and Carol Damaso join MaryRuth to explore the grandparent effect and how to cultivate healthy multigenenerational dynamics.

    95: Grit

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 28:54


    How do you help your kids learn to follow through to get things done? MaryRuth explores the definition of grit and how to encourage its development in our children.

    94: Silence

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2024 51:08


    We live in a noisy, distracting culture. How do we cultivate silence for our ourselves and our families? Nell O'Leary joins MaryRuth to help us find ways to invite exterior and interior silence into our lives.

    93: Q & A

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 67:15


    Get practical answers to your parenting questions. MaryRuth and Christy Isinger tackle questions that were submitted by listeners. 

    92: Social Media - The Research Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2024 43:07


    When and how to allow social media is a popular question parents ask. It's a complicated answer. MaryRuth explores the research on mental health and social media to equip you to find the right answers for your children.

    91: Decisions, Decisions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 48:20


    Every day we're faced with big and small decisions. Some decisions require discernment, a longer period of prayerful time before making a decision. Claire Dwyer joins MaryRuth to explore some strategies for making sound decisions and cultivating those skills in our families.

    90: Adolescent Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 63:04


    Parenting teens can be challenging. Deb Herback joins MaryRuth to discuss how to create a culture that helps young people grow, understand boundaries, know their worth and cultivate faith.

    89: You Are Enough - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 33:53


    MaryRuth explores the development of self-perception and self-worth along with tips to help cultivate it in ourselves and in our children.

    88: You Are Enough - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 49:07


    Eric Brooker joins MaryRuth to share about his journey toward discovering his worth. His book is You Are Enough: Overcoming Lifelong Doubts of Worthiness.

    87: Making Friends with Saints

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 32:26


    The saints are our friends in Heaven. They want to intercede for us, to be part of our faith family! Katie Burke joins MaryRuth to explore ways to cultivate friendships with saints in our families.

    86: Meet Mr. Hackett

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 43:26


    What's it like to parent alongside a parenting expert? We'll find out when MaryRuth is joined by her husband, Bob Hackett. 

    85: What's in Your Backpack?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2023 54:02


    Susie Garlick joins MaryRuth to explore how our experiences and background influence our parenting. Her book is The Parenting Backpack.

    84: Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 60:27


    Traveling with your family can be challenging, but it is worth it! Being together sharing new experiences is good for our brains and good for our relationships. Brina Sauers joins MaryRuth to share tips on how to travel well with children. 

    83: Transitions

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 43:45


    Raising children is full of transitions. Jennifer Ellis joins MaryRuth to explore how parents can adjust to change as their children grow up.

    82: Boredom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 15:47


    Summer is almost here and the kids will get bored. MaryRuth takes a look at how boredom affects brain function and gives us tips on how to deal with boredom.

    81: Spiritual Authority

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2023 52:26


    Parents have a duty to pray for their kids and their prayers are especially powerful. Kathleen Beckman joins MaryRuth to explore spiritual authority including ways to protect and pray for our children. 

    80: Anger

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2023 40:59


    Are you an angry parent? Are your children angry? How do we teach our children how to regulate emotions, especially anger? MaryRuth outlines strategies to deal with strong emotions in a healthy way. 

    79: Justice

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 41:40


    Our God is merciful and just, perfectly merciful and perfectly just. How do we cultivate an understanding of justice that balances mercy and forgiveness in our children? Justice Kathryn King joins MaryRuth to explore how we can communicate these concepts through our parenting. 

    78: Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 37:12


    What does it take to thrive, to have well being, to be happy? MaryRuth discusses the five factors that contribute to happiness and challenges us to take a closer look at how these areas operate in our lives.

    77: Loneliness and Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 44:56


    We are built for relationships. If we don't three different types of relationships - intimacy, friendship and community, we can be lonely. Michelle Benzinger joins MaryRuth to discuss creating connections and building good relationships.

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    76: Suffering and Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 58:51


    All of us will suffer. Grief is part of life. How do we deal with loss and how do we help our children with suffering and grief? Rita Morton joins MaryRuth to explore grief, suffering, loss and healing.

    75: Mental Health with Bishop Dolan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 40:41


    We are in a mental health crisis, especially with children and teens. What are parents to do? Bishop Dolan joins MaryRuth to explore strategies and resources to help those who suffer.

    74: Phones

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 22:52


    When is a good time to get your kid a phone? It's a tough question and one that varies from family to family, and child to child. MaryRuth breaks down some of the considerations to keep in mind when making decisions about phones.

    73: Personality Tests and Enneagrams

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2022 37:44


    Personality tests, especially enneagrams are so popular, but are spiritually dangerous. In addition to not being based in science or truth, enneagrams have their foundations in the occult.  Jordan Burke joins MaryRuth to explore the validity and spirituality behind these practices.

    72: Healthy Masculinity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2022 42:53


    What is it to be a son of God? Mike Phelan joins MaryRuth to discuss what healthy masculinity is and how to cultivate it in our sons.

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