Real It In

Follow Real It In
Share on
Copy link to clipboard

“Real It In” is a series of idea-jams featuring Dan, Joe, and Martin, and guests. Together we probe topics of relevance to today’s divided world from angles we care deeply about: Depth psychology, poetry, philosophy, boxing, comedy, music, history, and politics. We hope you’ll enjoy listening, but also to help each of you become who you are, only better, and more so, and pass that torch forward. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

Real It In


    • Sep 18, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 18m AVG DURATION
    • 22 EPISODES


    Search for episodes from Real It In with a specific topic:

    Latest episodes from Real It In

    Season 2 Meta-Commentary: What Have We Done?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 73:00


    A look back at season 2 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Love and work

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2023 77:20


    'Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness', Freud once stipulated - an insight with high relevance for our not so humane current times. With two of the three musqueteers beeing live together in Ljubljana, the guys probe questions about law, religion and science : Why can a company have judicial standing as its own entity or persona? And what does cats have to do with it all ? (or rather, perhaps, not have to do with it…). Tune for a session of wild jams from the center of Europe! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Negative capability and imagining a better future

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 71:38


    Why is it so difficult to talk about a positive future? How or where can we find ways to do it anyway? The guys explore what happens when we have the capacity to wait and withstand frustration, and what happenss when we dont. They talk about a moral imperative to act in the world; and about finding those people who need you as additional conduits to creatively co-dream a possible future. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    imagining better future negative capability
    The Death of Care | Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2023 75:02


    In this episode the guys continue the exploration of what's wrong with modern psychiatry and mental health leading into the ever widening raft between progressive, emancipating ideologies and a conservative, rigid way of conceptualizing reality. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    The Death of Care | Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2023 60:53


    A propos the tragic homicide of a homeless man on the NYC tube the RII crew discuss the prolongation of psychic and socioeconomic pain as kind of cries into the wilderness - they all somehow trigger a need to remain asleep in those who refuse to see that torch of hope and community beyond the confines of shortsighted economic gratification. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Talking truth at the Digital Sangha

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 72:05


    Together with guest Noreen Anderson, Martin and Dan probe questions of spiritual, social and material importance and try to envision a future of solidarity, even in times of AI and exteded mind. Tune in as we explore truth telling in the digital era! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Are Mind And Body One?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 71:24


    The guys chat about their week and probe the timeless riddles of pain and healing, fantasy and archetype, and the comforting but unpopular truth that mind and body are one. anchor.fm/real-it-in-cast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    To know and be known: Is there a global loneliness pandemic?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2023 80:06


    The boys talk about US Surgeon General Vivek Murthy and his book Together, about the problem of loneliness around the world.   anchor.fm/real-it-in-cast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Father Time, Mother Nature, Grim Reaper, Happy Harvest

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2022 70:28


    Once again, the guys chat about their week and probe the timeless riddles of pain and healing, fantasy and archetype, and the comforting but unpopular truth that mind and body are one. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Friendsgiving: do we choose our families?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2022 65:58


    Today, we try something risky and avant-garde: What happens when, live, on camera, someone gets asked “How was your week?”. The Real Boys head right into an exploration of holidays, family and friends, the clan we're born into and the ones we create, and how the bonds are made and frayed. Being who we are, we dive into the socioeconomic, psychosexual, and cultural twists impacting human bonds and their complications. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    The Eagle: on symbolization, maturity and individuation

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 60:40


    The real it in boys reunite to discuss the symbolism of their real world meeting and their journeys to Arctic Norway, in the company of Eagles, of the real and dreamworld varieties. Joe helps Martin and Dan unpack the warm experience of wandering, wondering, and grooving to South American jazz together in the far north, finding a little true-self and deeper questions along the way. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Season 1 Meta Commentary - Finding Winnicott?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 69:59


    In season one's last episode we look back on the conversations, meetings and learnings we have had thus far. A bit surprisingly, perhaps, our jamming takes us to talking about 'reality tv' as a concept, sitcoms and how we hope to venture into more of joy, play and spontaneous jams in a season two that will be largely explored as a live-streaming project. Is our journey taking us towards Winnicott-land- a field of playing and reality? Book Playing and Reality: https://www.routledge.com/Playing-and-Reality/Winnicott/p/book/9780415345460 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    The Sound of Trust

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 91:24


    How can we feel,think and talk about trust by way of music? In this episode Real it in explores how music can forge connection, belonging and identification between and across sentient beings. Article: Structure and function of auditory cortex: music and speech. By Zatorre, Belin & Penhune https://www.researchgate.net/publication/11511045_Zatorre_RJ_Belin_P_Penhune_VB_Structure_and_function_of_auditory_cortex_music_and_speech_Trends_Cogn_Sci_6_37-46 Article: A Theoretical Impasse? The Concept of the Symbolic in Melanie Klein and Jacques Lacan https://www.psychoanalytischeperspectieven.be/vol-33-3-2015/a-theoretical-impasse-the-concept-of-the-symbolic-in-melanie-klein-and-jacques-lacan Song: Journey to the stars by Tom Harrell https://youtu.be/Wq-DnnIE8iM Book: Psyche Singing by Mike Eigen https://www.routledge.com/Dialogues-with-Michael-Eigen-Psyche-Singing/Eigen-Daws/p/book/9780367278717 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Nietzsche, Meditation, and the Collective | Dr. Webb Garrison Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 86:22


    We add more bricks to the spiral wall in this the 2nd episode with the fascinating Dr. Webb Garrison! Join our spiral jam to the center. www.realitincast.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Psychology and spirit: A spiral path to the centre / Dr. Webb Garrison (1/2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 102:33


    Dr. Garrison was professor and Academic Dean at Southwestern College, where he guided a counseling and art therapy program with a unique attention to developing intuitive healing awarenesses. Here is one of our best discussions of things which barely fit into words. Spirals, Whorls, and Faulty Containers: The Psychoanalysis of Form in the Art of Marion Milner's 'The Hands of the Living God' and the Sculpture of Louise Bourgeois, By : Emilia Halton-Hernandez http://freeassociations.org.uk/FA_New/OJS/index.php/fa/article/view/252 Psychoanalytic Field Theory Book Series by Routledge: https://www.routledge.com/Psychoanalytic-Field-Theory-Book-Series/book-series/FIELDTHEORY The Psychoanalytic Situation as a Play Situation; by Rolf Künstlicher: https://www.diva-portal.org/smash/get/diva2:231790/FULLTEXT01.pdf https://www.realitincast.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Property, Ownership, and The Dawn of Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 91:20


    In this episode Joe pops the question of how to best understand the idea of ownership; who can say that they actually own what? Since when? On what terms? What is it that really drives the “liberal guilt” and conservative contempt in society? And is the notion of ownership a sign of our failure to acknowledge and repair the basic empathic failures at the heart of a capitalist world? The Dawn of everything https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/31/arts/dawn-of-everything-graeber-wengrow.html Lacanian ethics and the super ego:http://larval-subjects.blogspot.com/2006/06/lacanian-ethics-and-superego.html Parable: The Emperor Has No Clothes | by Mattimore Cronin | Medium https://medium.com/@mattimore/parable-the-emperor-has-no-clothes-ace63fef6eb8 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    The Dreamers

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 76:58


    In this episode Dan asks whether Homo Sapiens could in fact be better understood as Homo Oneiros, or The Dreaming People? Dreams fill our art and entertainment, our museums, the shows we watch, and our search for truth in science and psychology. We sleep a third of our lifetime, and entertain visionary ideas and imaginatory explorations for much of the remaining two. What if dreaming is the biggest deal of all? Bion's theory of dreaming by James Grotstein - https://icpla.edu/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Grotstein-J.S.-Chapter-25-what-does-it-mean-to-dream.pdf Frank Wilczek on complementarity in Science - https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-mind-expanding-power-of-complementarity/ Crick, F., Mitchison, G. The function of dream sleep. Nature 304, 111–114 (1983). https://doi.org/10.1038/304111a0 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Convergence: Faces, Spaces, Places

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 80:15


    In this episode the Real it in crew is visited by Adam Shechter, a practicing psychoanalyst working out of New York. We talk about areas of convergence between physical places; stoops, cafés, Capitol Hill, and stand up comedy arenas, and the psychical avenues these excursions awaken within, across and between us. We speculate on what the attackers of the capitol hill was really 'searching' for, and reaffirm the ethical imperative that is found in the friendly face of the other. Emmanuel Levinas and the Face-To-Face Relation https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Face-to-face_(philosophy) Jerry Seinfeld - Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee | Netflix Official Site Real It In on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWBCgJVU4jhH-TuuxJGPORg --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Afghanistan | The Fallacy of The Argument Itself

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 95:57


    Joe presents an anti-imperialist analysis of the War in Afghanistan, the US retreat planned by Donald Trump and carried out by Joe Biden, and the subsequent national discourse. Dan and Martin provide further insight into the psychology of vengeance, nationalism, and fear. Follow "Real It In" on Instagram and Facebook "War Is A Racket" by Maj. Gen. Smedley Butler "Return of the Repressed" definition "Media Rediscover Afghan Women Only When US Leaves" by Julie Hollar --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Ineffable Encounters with "The Real" - The Brawl on The Bridge

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 89:42


    Martin tells a horrifying story, of how a pitch perfect Swedish summer night, within two minutes turned upside down. How one footbridge in Stockholm became a mini-war-zone. The group addresses the trauma of "The Real" from a metaphysical and existential perspective. How should one approach the fact that sometimes shit happens to us, the world we inhabit changes, and perhaps we do, as well? Jacques Lacan and the three orders Netflix “Fightworld” “Your body keeps the score” by Bassel Van Der Kolk --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    The Pivot, or Invincible Summer

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 70:34


    Dan tells the inside story of boxer Wladimir Klitschko's rise, professional demise and transformation/rebirth after which he came to dominate heavyweight boxing for the next decade. The group reflects around what it takes to be able to navigate and survive one's trauma, and start fresh. Wladimir Klitschko vs Samuel Peter (2005) Wilfred Bion's thoughts about Alpha Function Keats' concept of negative capability --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    If You Can Be You, Maybe I Can Be Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2021 84:20


    In this episode, Martin, Dan and Joe share a tale involving a psychoanalyst-war-veteran reciting Milton's Paradise lost at a glamorous garden party, as remembered by a psychoanalytic mystic of the following generation. This led to Dan's writing his book and from there meeting Martin. It is a collective musing on the power of making bids for connection to one another, paying it forward where it matters and, on how a little can go a long way in life. If you can be you, then maybe I can be me? “Faith” by Michael Eigen “Freud's lost chord” by Dan Sapen “The Inner Light” Star Trek: The Next Generation --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/real-it-in-cast/support

    Claim Real It In

    In order to claim this podcast we'll send an email to with a verification link. Simply click the link and you will be able to edit tags, request a refresh, and other features to take control of your podcast page!

    Claim Cancel