Save The Date Show

Hey y'all! We are SO SORRY for leaving you all hanging for the past months. But we love you all and wanted to update you on where we've been and why. Catch up with us on this episode and stay tuned because we have a BUG announcement coming! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Imagine being someone’s everything? How do you feel? Does that scare you or excite you? Let’s chat. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

What does it mean to settle down? What if I wanna stay up?? Let’s chat! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

We’re back from our first of year hiatus and we’re coming in hot! It’s Valentine’s Weekend and what happens when you lead with dollar signs?! Love might cost a thing. Let’s chat! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

It’s the last episode of the year! We've learned so much this year, so we decided to mash up our Lessons Learned segments from 2020 for your listening pleasure. Enjoy! See you next year! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Is moving in together just a logical next step in the dating process? Or is it something that some people do and some people don’t? What are the pros and cons? What should we consider? Let’s chat. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Did you know that your love language is not a static personality trait?? We explore some of the critiques of the theory and address how trauma, especially a pandemic, can totally rearrange your love language rankings. So what do you do when your partner's love language changes?? Let's chat. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

So there's a clip of a popular couple's content going viral in which the husband has a very interesting question for his wife about their sex life... or lack thereof... and monogamy. So this episode explores ultimatums. What are they? What are they used for? Who benefits? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Once you shoot your shoot, who is responsible for pursuit? Is it once sided? Should it be mutual? Is it strictly based on gender? Let’s chat. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

What’s it mean when someone says they’re a really good partner but they’re good at dating. Or good at dating and not good in a relationship? Is there something to unpack here? What’s not being said? Let’s chat about it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

The Honeymoon stage is easily the best part of a new romance. What does that mean? How long should it last? And what do we do when the honeymoon stage is over? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Hey family! We're back! Thanks for hanging in there with us! Sorry for the late episode but it's still lit! Why do we loooooove bad boys? Do nice guys ACTUALLY finish last?? Let's talk it out! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Have you ever been embarrassed by a significant other's line of work? How important is a potential partner's career to you? How employed do they have to be? Can they have just ANY job? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

DISCLAIMER: This episode is more explicit than our normal episodes. If you have littles you may want to rethink this episode Lol Hey guys! We linked up with our friends over at The Chef the Angry & the Adam Podcast for this fun Quarantine episode where they asked us a lot about dating and shared some of their views as well. This episode originally dropped on their platform but we wanted to share too because it's HILARIOUS. Thanks to the guys for having us on their show! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

We're talking about Plural dating so we have plural guests on the show and they're both men Lol. In the wake of August Alsina telling his truth about his relationship with the Smith family, specifically Jada, we talk Plural dating and open relationships with Brother Nova, a poly dating enthusiast, and Just GQ from the Travel Guydes Podcast. It gets... interesting. Lets chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Dating in different cities can actually yield totally different experiences depending on who you are and where you are. Why is that? Let’s talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Welcome listeners! We're back and there's quite a bit to discuss here lately. How do we introduce these discussions into our vetting processes for dating? Are these even conversations we need to worry about having while casually dating? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

**disclaimer** this episode has just a bit more profanity than normal so keep in mind if there are children nearby. What's like to be millennial, married, divorced, and back on the dating scene? Kandice and Imani have no idea. Which is why they've called on their friends CJ and Shona for their perspective. Dating after ending a marriage can be a lot so let's chat about it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

What does it mean to Ride or Die? How can you tell if someone will ride for you before you even get serious? What's the difference between Ride or Die and blind loyalty? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

2 is a couple, a 3rd wheel is a crowd but a wingman is a party! On this episode Kandice and Imani talk 3rd wheels, the issues and how to navigate them and how to be a really good or REALLY bad wingman. Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Who or what exactly is a Lame Lance? or Lame Linda? What do we do when we simply cannot bear someone's personality? Let's unpack. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Ok let’s just get down to it, dating is expensive! Let’s talk about it and ways we can be prepared to enjoy the scene. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

When dating, you're usually looking for someone with whom you share at least a few things in common right? Is that even necessary though? Let's chat about it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

It’s season THREEEEE! We have new conversations, new intro music, and Kandice has the flu

**Disclaimer** somehow the audio mixed incorrectly and there are places where it sounds like we're talking over one another. We apologize! We couldn't fix all the spots but we hope it doesn't completely ruin the episode for you! This decade has been an interesting one to say the least. Listen as Kandice and Imani recap some dating trends, some of the celebrity relationship gossip from the decade and our biggest lessons. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

THE GIRLS ARE FIGHTING OVER COOKIES! How far is TOO far with holiday gifts from coworkers and are we running down on the office flirts? Let's chat. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Have you ever wanted to talk to someone but felt like they were out of your league? Has someone ever approached you and you thought “I’m way out of your league” ? Let’s talk leagues. Are they real? Should we stick to the rivers and lakes we’re used to or shoot our shot? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

We know how it goes, you graduate high school, you go to college, you meet the love of your life, you get married, and live happily ever after? Right? Is college romance expected? Is it realistic? Is it even necessary? Let's talk about it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Hey! Kandice and Imani are back together this month with a new episode on doing favors and borrowing. How do we feel about being asked for favors from a love interest? Should we wait until it's official? How early is too early? How much is too much? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

This episode is brought to you by Studio 17 Creative Podcaster Jam Session. It’s a collaborative episode with Imani, Dally Dal from Open Bar Radio, Diana Oh of The Fox Orlando, and Jay of Ciroc Obama podcast. The topic was “If time stood still for everyone but you, what would you do?” Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Romance and grand gestures seem to go hand in hand. On this episode, Kandice and Imani explore what the deal is with grand gestures good and bad, and hear from a listener who had some technical difficulties with her grand gesture. Tune in and join the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

It’s human to seek community with people who share similar experiences. But when does that get dangerous? On this episode Kandice and Imani explore trauma bonds, talk what we want in and bring to a relationship and about how DNA can be used to help find a partner in as short as 20 years from now

Kandice and Imani have discussed how our families influence our dating styles. Now they’ve learned or siblings play a bigger part than we realize. On this episode we talk siblings, hot girl summer, and an almost ridiculous pick up line

What is a summer fling?? Why have so many people had them?? What do you do when the feelings start?? Let’s chat. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

The show has covered toxic relationships but this time it’s about how to leave and how to be a good friend when it’s your friend’s turn to go through it. Let’s chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

We finally had some men on again for y’all. This episode we talk to our friend Donte and our new friend Nekos of the Views from a Jerk Podcast about what to do when there’s a communication break down. Is it a women/men issue? Or is it simply that we need better tools? Let’s chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

How hard is it for you to apologize when you're wrong? Do you think someone you're not in a relationship with just yet is worth an apology or even a second chance when they apologize? Let's talk about it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Hey guys! We hope you enjoyed your Memorial Day break from us because we’re back again to ask the difficult questions. Can you successfully be platonic friends with your ex?? Let’s chat. Also, Kandice has big news! And our 2 year anniversary is right around the corner! Don’t forget to leave us some feedback and follow us on Instagram @savethedateshow! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

*** Warning! There is unedited cursing in this episode. We left it in because it's hilarious. If you would like to skip past it, skip the Rescue Me segment.  What's in a petname? Do you like to be called Baby? Babe? Bae? Boo? When is it too early for all of that? What's the rule on petnaming other people if you're not exclusive? Imani and Kandice discuss that and more in this episode. Check it out! Don't forget to leave us a rating and a review in the Apple Podcast App! Thank you for listening! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

We continue the conversation from last week with a little insight from our friends Ashley and Justin. What's it really like to have mixed relationship statuses within the friend group? What's so tough about having single friends? What's tough about being the single friend? Is it ok to be jealous of one or the other? Let's chat! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

When your close friends get close to a new love interest, if you're not careful, it has the potential to totally alter the preexisting friendship dynamic. How do you handle losing a friend to their new lover? How do you support your friend while not necessarily supporting their relationship? Lots of questions and we attempt to answer them. There's a bunch of nostalgia in this episode so buckle up! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

On this episode Kandice and Imani explore how the concept of 6 Degrees of Separation is really evident in our dating lives. How many mutuals is too many? Where do you draw the line at the kind of relationship to the person you two have in common? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Do we really NEED titles on our relationships? Does what's understood really need to be explained. This episode Kandice and Imani explore (or re visit) the issue of placing titles on relationships, what titles are appropriate and important, and discuss a new dating trend that involves one of our favorite social media platforms. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

On this episode Imani and Kandice discuss parental expectations when dating. How much does what your parents think about your significant other matter? What if your parents don't approve of your partner? Is it possible to give parents a healthy level of involvement in your dating life? All being discussed on this episode. Imani's dog Tino was also very fed up that he couldn't be included in the conversation so he decided to let his voice be heard to. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Valentine's Day is on the way! Kandice shares a variety of pickup lines (All of them inappropriate) Kandice & Imani share some date and gifting tips, a listener shares a near fatal Valentine's Day experience and everyone shares lots and lots of laughs. Imani got a little fancy with the edits this episode so let us know what you think! Follow the show on Instagram @savethedatepodcast for a special Valentine's Day Match Making game! Rules for participation are on the post. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

HEY! Happy 2019! In the first show of the new year, Kandice and Imani explore the difference between chasing/being chased and pursuing/being pursued. Make sure to sound off and let us know your thoughts! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

On this episode, Imani and Kandice share some things they learned in 2018 and things they want to manifest for themselves in 2019. They also share 11 favorite lessons from 2018's episodes. There were a bunch of episodes this year so of course there were many more moments not included in this episode. What 2018 Save the Date Show moments were your favorite? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Dating takes a lot of time. What do you do when you don't have much of that to spare? How about when your love interest isn't very available? On this episode we explore the busy world of the dating, working, millennial with our friends Rachel Jackson of the RJackson Agency and Dante Jenkins, a professional in the automotive industry. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

Dating comes with a lot of disappointment, in many different forms. If we're not careful, we can let it overshadow our dating experience. On this Episode, Kandice and Imani discuss dating disappointments and how to handle them as they come. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

When one thing ends another begins. But when is an appropriate time to begin something new? Are we on the rebound? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support

On this episode, Imani ain't keepin no cheatin secrets and Kandice advises that you just stay in the pickle. This episode is all about pillow talk. Get in on the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/savethedateshow/support