Talk About It TITI

To be or not to be.. THAT is the ⁉️ life is a MF I tell you. And it doesn't get any easier the older you get. Hell it might get slightly more difficult for the simple fact you are the one solely responsible for how it's going. I'm still trying to figure out my path to purpose. **************************************On Your Mark...Get Set...38!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w https://twitter.com/TalkAbtItTiti?s=09 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070016179352 talkaboutittiti222@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/tiaundra-wesley/message

Sometimes we set the bar too high, or expect people to be perfect while keeping a blind eye on our own shortcomings. But still, some people just can't hold themselves accountable and you be the one having to pay the cost. Do they not know to do better? Bc they say when you know better you do better. There's always room to learn and grow, and pass on what you've learned and what caused you to grow to the next person. But they have to be willing. You can't keep yourself held back for the next man if they're not trying...but are they? Where's the boundaries, what's the correct balance?******************************https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070016179352 https://twitter.com/TalkAbtItTiti?s=09 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I be going back and forth on what I should be doing to make the most of my life. Like I'll make excuses not to do what I love to do because it seems just to easy, trivial or basic to have an actual band meaningful impact on my life and the life of my loved ones, and even You! At the end of the day, I'm fighting an ongoing battle against fear. Trying to find the courage to live true to my purpose and Excel in the God given gifts I've been blessed with to live my very Best life, while helping others do the same! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with this series it's pretty improv. I'm just trying to keep it going to a certain extent before I give up completely on this podcast journey lol it's been a year and I still haven't found my niche yet but nothing beats a failure but a try! If nothing else it's always something to look back on. Thanks for coming along on my journey with me

I'm trying to get somewhere. Be patient with me! Please & Thank ya kindly

Just a random story. You should know by now how much I love love. And Happy endings...or beginnings***** On Your Mark...Get Set...38!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w ***Twitter @TalkAbtItTiTi *** TalkAboutItTiTi222@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Disrespect is HUGE to me. IDC who you are or think you should be... You gots to give it to receive it! Now, I'll Always lead with it, but that's on you how I finish

It's a challenge trying to find the balance between your physical and spiritual life. I know it all ties together, just trying to figure out how and what really is my role. Like a game of spades, a good hand is determined by the nigga that knows how to count their books! .. so is it fate or is it all up to you?

I love talks with my big sister bc even though we are soooo completely different, we're SO alike on the other. She gets me and where I'm coming from when I journey back from the black whole of wonder lol. Ijs nobody knows everything and ANYTHING is possible.............................................On Your Mark...Get Set...38!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w ***Twitter @TalkAbtItTiTi *** TalkAboutItTiTi@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I'm sure like so many of you, I have been going through it in these school of hard knocks hallways!!! BUT I been coming through a VICTOR!!

This was theeee most random dream to have it remember considering the cast lol. It was so real and powerful I had to share with somebody! Maybe it's an omen of what's to come?

Chiiile I just want to know when's enough ENOUGH??

Soooo I had been feeling like Gandhi's third cousin on his step daddy side twice removed, all peaceful and whatnot... When I got my peaceful ass handed right to me yesterday

When you know, that you know you know, that you know.. but fear makes you loose hold of what you know...be still and know again!!

WHERE IS MY BOO??

It's been a while..well considering my new goal was to post at least biweekly! Lol but HEY! don't you judge me, God ain't through with me yet!!

Valentine's day just passed and I am SO glad to be passed that point in my life where it was a day of dread and gloom! Life's so much better when you have people you love and genuinely love you in return to share it with. I had to learn the hard way that everyone ain't your friend. Don't lose love or miss out on all the good times you can share with the real ones, harping over the one's to foolish to recognize the joy it means to have someone like the one and only YOU!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I was dead set against the "New Year -New Me" resolution because it is so damn ghetto and cliche IMO!! Lol BUT WHY I get this new resolution dropped on my spirit first thing in the morning.. that I did Not ask for... that ULTIMATELY results in a "New me" because it's a whole new perspective! Lol Look at God! I be ready to act a whole ass clown but God be having my angels snatch me by my collar like "Hold Up"✋

2020 has been a whole muthafucca and I'm not too sad to see the bitch pack her bags!! Through it all though, we seemed to have made it just enough to pass to the next level if the Lord says the same. The countdown is on and I got a little more shedding to do before the clock strikes 12. I hope and pray I make better use of my restart this time around. How about you?https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Fuuuuuuuuuuck the dumb shiiiiiiiT!!!

ShiT be heavy boss, and I's TIIIIED!! But at the end of the day, I essentially made it THROUGH the day, and will try to push on through the next. It's so hard sometimes though, I swear... having you loosing sleep and whatnot. Still more often than not, a change in perspective can help ease your mind, even will help you go back to sleep and bring a little bit of peace to your day. That and a fat ass joint I KIDS YOU NOT!!

ESPECIALLY during this pandemic, it's easy to fall victim to depression. Alot is out of our control and things may never be the same. Eventhough it's been bad, for some reason God has turned things around for my good. Even if it's just peace of mind, (which is golden to me) I'm somehow making it through this thing better than I was before. It's a daily fight, but I honestly feel like going on! https://youtube.com/channel/UCDxADHIONWoLECd53Jm3M6w

We all think we know, but do any of us really have an idea? What makes "right" right? And by whose standards? In a world filled with so many differences, whose to really say? .....................................................................................................................................................................................On another note............................. On Your Mark...Get Set...38!! Follow my vlog on YouTube documenting my chapter 38. My ups downs and in between. Follow me on my journey to see what a difference 1 year makes. Growth? Setbacks? Drama or Favor?? Chile Idk! Ima be watching just like y'all

Sometimes yuh ou got to write it out, as much as you need to speak it into existence. Everything may not be exact, but still, everything starts with a vision. What's your "Happily Ever After " look like? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Sometimes we think we have to fit in someone else's mode or calling to be effective or counted worthy. Well I'm here to tell you, NOT SO!! God wanted YOU, he didn't ask for another THEM. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Remember back when you were little and you would think of the best 3 wishes you would make should you ever cross a genie? How daunting the task to get the wishes JUST RIGHT because more than likely the genie would try and trick you. As an adult, I've recently been refreshed with the realization that ... for one, I don't think genies are real ( spirits and Magic is a whole nother convo), and even if they were, I'm not likely I would cross one... and two, being in a relationship with God.. wishes, dreams and possibilities are limitless.. and even granted --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I published and unpublished this episode about a good 10 times because it just seem to be tooo invasive regarding my personal life. But, again, somebody else may be going through something similar. Sometimes, I think we get so used to the masks we hide behind that we almost forget they are there. I was CHALLENGED over this past month or two to remove my mask before God, to be real about my true heart's desires, and who I really am as a person. I'm always asking God to take me to the next level, crying that I am ready. But how can God give you what you want,when you don't even know what that is, because you can't keep it real with yourself? When I got real.. it got REAL --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Shooting the shit while getting my hair braided like we do, we discussed a plethora of things that we as women deal with in life today, now in the 2020. Introducing: SHAQURINA! YOUTUBE: Queen's Beauty Hall | Business IG + FB: BraidsbyQueen https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChZ28ngzvjvV4LdsMengt7A PATRICE LASHONNE! https://patricelashonne.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Promiscuity is always looked at as a negative attribute for a woman. The the freedom to pick and choose and entertain a variety lovers as men do has always been looked at as shameful for a woman. Why is that really? Does the stipulation to be a "lady" really apply in today's world? Truth be told some of them ladies are ho's, too.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Trying to figure out what I really Really want. Sometimes we really think we need life to go a certain way to be happy, not realizing how happy you already are where you are at. Still, change is good...right? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

As the days go by and the time just passes, I'm reminded that my kid watches every move I make still, even moreso now that there isn't much else to look at. It's the easiest thing to do to allow her to go emerge herself in her phone to stay preoccupied. But honestly, it's not YouTube's job to mold her. Especially when she can be the one on YouTube being watched, collecting coins. If she wants, she will be the star of tomorrow. All of our kids will be, if we do our part to get them up and trying. We are working on manifesting an empowering future for ourselves, and even though we aren't sure how to exactly, we know you at least have to do SOMETHING to get something. Trial and error. Follow us on her journey.

I was so restless after letting y'all peek in my journal

A peek into my journal... I'm talking to me. Somebody feel me though..

If nothing else, this quarantine has provided time self reflection. Even if not complete and concise plan, you at least have a inkling of what you want out of this life. What will make YOU happy and what can YOU do to make it happen? The struggle is real But conquerable! Is that a word?? Lol idk but it fits!! You know what I mean lol --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Sometimes we let other people's beliefs and perspectives get in the way of who we really are and what we're here to do. We allow them to cause us to second guess ourselves and dictate how we should act or feel about things. But why? What causes us to search for security in anyone other than ourselves?

Hall'O! Idk about you, but sometimes I get tired of being so damn STRONG!! liiiiiike "can I get a window seat"... But.. yet and still, somebody's gotta do it.

Stagnant.. when you know that you know that you KNOW you got something to do, but that energy is just not there and that "UMPH" is flat... it's a test, KEEP GOING!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Hall'O!! Welcome to Talk about it TiTi!! This is just a quick lil run down on what to expect when you step into my rant room. Brace yourself! It ain't gonna be for Everybody!! Talk about it Titi is a RAW and unfiltered platform to discuss everyday topics and random ass epiphanies that come to my head whenever and however they come freely. Talk about it Titi reflects the beliefs, ideas, dreams, visions and perspectives SOLELY of TIAUNDRA LEATRICE WESLEY. P.S. in advance.. I SAID WHAT I SAID!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app