Talk to Amber

There have been many personal and professional changes in my life as I’ve adjusted to the chaos of this mind-boggling year. As the second half of 2020 unfolds, letting go of the podcast (spoiler alert!) is a step I need to take. Listen to learn why and hear what’s next!

For the last episode in our Myers-Briggs personality type exploration, we're tackling the fourth preference pair of Judging and Perceiving. These two preferences address the question, “How do you approach the outside world?” One focuses on making plans, while the other can’t stand feeling locked in. Listen to get the scoop on which one fits you best!

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) Assessment has four preference pairs that help us understand our personality. The third preference pair is Thinking and Feeling which addresses the question, “How do you decide and come to conclusions?” One focuses on logic, while the other hones in on impact, and not emotion, as one might think. Listen to gain clarity on which one fits you best!

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) Assessment has four preference pairs that help us understand our personality. Extraversion and introversion are the most commonly discussed, but the other three pairs tell the full story! This episode explores Sensing and Intuition, which addresses how you take in information. Listen to gain insights into whether you’re truly a facts only or big picture person.

I gave my first TEDx Talk earlier this year and my journey included rejection, a new level of confidence, and huge leaps out of my comfort zone. In this episode, I talk about all of that, in addition to details about the application process.

The term, "introverted extrovert" has always made me cringe. Now that I am a Certified Myers Briggs Type Indicator Practitioner, I want to share some insights into understanding your personality type and offer a better way to describe it.

I’m tired of being made to feel like overthinking is a bad thing, so I finally decided to own it. In this episode, I share what led me to that conclusion and how to recognize when your thought process can help and hinder your growth.

In a surprising plot twist, I made the decision to leave full-time entrepreneurship to take a position in corporate America at the beginning of 2020. Listen to this episode for the full story and for some basic tips on how to process big decisions in a practical way!

The title says it all. This year was long and hard, but I made it. Join me as I reflect on how I managed to make it through, and still hold onto my joy.

Feeling like you have to be an alternate version of who you really are at work is never any fun. It’s actually quite frustrating, and yet, so many people face that reality every single day. In this episode, I share my experience in learning how to be myself in every room I enter, and how my life and career have thrived, as a result.

Description: We’ve all had those moments where we’re faced with a hard conversation and the thought of it causes all kinds of stress, anxiety, or overthinking. As a result, we put it off or avoid it altogether, which sometimes makes things worse. In this episode, I’m going to give you some simple tips to help you confront those difficult conversations with more confidence, without ruining the relationship. Visit bit.ly/talktoanyoneguide for even more free tips!

If you’re going through a hard time, this is your reminder that what’s happening is only temporary. The clouds will part, your tears will dry, and one day, things will be much, much better. Even though it feels like you're failing, you have to stay in it now, so you can flourish later. Here are a few words of encouragement to get you through in the meantime. Mentioned in the episode is a book called Draw the Circle by Mark Batterson.

Everywhere you look these days, there’s a social media post, graphic, or article talking about self-care. It’s not a new concept, but it seems as though it’s on everyone’s minds lately. Why is that, exactly? Here’s my take on what self-care is and why everybody is talking about it. Instagram accounts mentioned in this episode include @theselfcaresuite, @icedcoffeeandselfcare, @thewaythru, and @thenapministry.

Your “best life” is within your grasp, but for some reason, you can’t seem to seize it. You ask yourself questions like, “Am I doing something wrong? When will my breakthrough, come through? Do I need a coach? If so, where do I start?” This episode offers some answers to those questions, so when the time is right to hire a coach, you’ll know how to move.

No matter what your personality type is (introvert, extrovert, or ambivert), you can become a master communicator. The trick is that you have to be willing to work on it. This episode breaks down the most practical tips you've ever heard for learning how to show up in any room and talk to anyone, with confidence. To download the free guide mentioned in the episode, visit www.talktoamber.com.

After a brief hiatus, we’re back with a brand new episode of the Talk to Amber Podcast. In it, Amber spills the tea on why she took a break and shares the exciting changes you can expect now that she's back! Hidden gems are dropped throughout on why we all have to abandon our comfort zones if we want to grow.

This year has been a bumpy one for me on a personal level. The combination of prayer, patience, and positivity has helped make the journey a little smoother. Maybe it’ll help you on yours, too.   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: bit.ly/canwetalkcards2 Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

I know you mean well, but trying to do everything yourself can actually sabotage your goals, instead of helping you accomplish them. Get out of your own way by seeking and receiving the help you need!   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

You took the quiz, read the book, and now you know your love language. Great! Now what?   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: bit.ly/canwetalkcards2 Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Can We Talk Cards are a deck of Q&A cards meant to spark fun and engaging conversations. In this episode, I share why I made them, why you need them, where you can get them, and five ways to use them (this starts at the 14: 47-minute mark).    Can We Talk Cards: bit.ly/canwetalkcards2 Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

We all ask ourselves this question on occasion. The answer varies, depending on where you are. It’s a good filter for productivity, but it can also be a trap of self-doubt. Let’s discuss it all in this episode.   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: bit.ly/canwetalkcards2 Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Beyonce reminded us all in the “Homecoming” documentary that if you are woman with big dreams and children, having it all (however you define it) won’t come easy, but it’s not impossible.   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Scroll envy is a thing. Feeling like errrybody’s winning but you, is a thing. But you know what else is a thing? Your future. And it’s bright, so get ready. Your time is coming, okay?   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Running a business may look great on the gram, but it can also be taxing mentally and emotionally. Let’s talk about it, so we can all get what we need to flourish as we grind.   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Running a business takes time, planning, organization, and systems. These are the tools I use to keep things in order and my sanity intact.   Tools mentioned in this episode are below and any affiliate links are noted:   Acuity - Join via my referral link http://bit.ly/ambersacuity Asana Dubsado - Save 20% with my talktoamber discount code Google (Drive, G-Suite, Calendar) Libsyn Planoly Stripe WaveApps Zoom   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Staying happily marriage ain’t no crystal stair. It’s time to get real if you want to reach the top of the staircase.Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

A recent conversation with my 8 year old daughter helped me realize how early our attitudes toward money begin to take shape. Listen to hear my thoughts on why you need to learn how to cancel your mental money blocks and trust your gut so you can make the money you desire and deserve.Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Perfection is a prison. Here’s how I broke free as a mom.   Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

You need people, sis. It’s okay to admit and accept that truth. Let’s talk about how to find, keep, and maintain relationships that add value to your life. Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

It’s time out for pretending to be something or someone you’re not, okay? Noteworthy Stuff Mentioned in this Episode: Johari Window, CBS Sunday Morning Visit my website: talktoamber.com Follow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamber Can We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.com Find Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Here’s how to not suck as a podcast guest, so you can continue being a podcast guest (and grow your brand as a result).Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

The most wildly entertaining piece of video content I’ve consumed in a long time was Soulja Boy’s recent interview on The Breakfast Club. Beyond the shenanigans and meme-worthy moments, if you look closely, there were some good lessons revealed on how to handle the media. I noted them for you, so do you don't have to. Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

Everybody likes to shout, "Check on your strong friends!" when we learn they're not doing so well or tragedy has struck. But how, though? What can you say or do to reach out to the friend that always seems to have it together? Here's my take. Get ready to take notes. 

To accomplish your goals, sometimes you need to block out the world, find your zone of focus, and make magic happen. Your new life depends on it. Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

New year. New website. New vibe. New you. It's time!

The title says it all. Hang out with me for a bit while I recap and reflect on the things that brought me both challenge and triumph this year.

Mama, I made it! My first year of full-time entrepreneurship is in the books. Join me as I reflect on the best lessons this year have taught me.

The end of the year is upon us and everyone's thinking about what the next 12 months will look like for them. And rightfully so. But don't let it stress you out! Here's how.

Letting go of people, places, and things can be slow and painful or swift and painless. It’s up to you and how ready you are to make change happen in your life.

The holidays are upon us and that means it’s ‘tis the season for folks to get on your nerves! If you’re gearing up for holiday festivities at home with friends and family or at the office, here are some basic tips to help you deal with it all and protect your peace.Visit my website: talktoamber.comFollow me on IG: instagram.com/talktoamberCan We Talk Cards: canwetalkshop.comFind Your Voice: bit.ly/canwetalkbook

You know how you can feel like you're on the brink of something amazing? This change is part of that for me. In this episode I share why I changed the name of my podcast from Words Well Said to Talk to Amber, and what you can expect moving forward. 

You say you want a new career, relationship, life, or whatever. But are you really ready for it? Are you preparing for your glow up RIGHT NOW? Here’s why you should.

I had an experience recently that caused a core-rocking shift in my mindset that has left me forever changed. I recount the experience in detail and encourage you to evaluate your own mindset and get on the path to seeing your wildest dreams come to fruition.Mentioned in this episode: canwetalkshop.comInstagram.com/canwetalkshopInstagram.com/wherewomenbloom

It's been one year since I launched this podcast and what a year it's been! The podcast anniversary is in tandem with my birthday, and I reflect on both in this episode. I also introduce a new product I rolled out this week that I'm really proud of and excited about! Learn more at bit.ly/canwetalkcards

My husband and I just celebrated 12 years of marriage and as I reflected on our time together, there were some hard truths that emerged. One being, there was a time I wasn’t sure we were going to make it and I thought about getting a divorce. Hear me talk about what caused the breakdown between us, how we handled it, and how we made it through it.

If this question makes you roll your eyes because you don’t know what to say in response, use these tips to nail it with confidence next time. Talktoamber.comInstagram.com/talktoamberTwitter.com/talktoamberbit.ly/betterspeaker

It’s happened to the best of us. You meet somebody new, things are going well, and then poof! They disappear. No call, no text, nada. In both personal and professional contexts, ghosting sucks. I have a theory on the real reason people do it. Listen to learn what it is and let’s all get the closure we need.bit.ly/betterspeakerwww.talktoamber.comInstagram.com/talktoamberTwitter.com/talktoamber

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I’ve got a lot going on right now and it can all be summed up in these three words: tears, diets, and gratitude. Listen and let me know if you can relate!Connect with me after the episode:On The Book facebook.com/talktoamberOn The Bird twitter.com/talktoamberOn The Gram instagram.com/talktoamberOr on my website www.talktoamber.com

This one’s easy: unplug and mind your business.

I’ve been a full-time entrepreneur for six months and am sharing what I’ve learned so far on the journey. Come and take a look behind the scenes of what it takes to build a brand that makes my heart sing and my wallet full.