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This is the story of Amie and WillowAmie is mum to twin daughters Willow and Bella and their baby sister Sadie. Willow is the family's sunshine and warmth, the ray of light. Amie was excited to welcome her twin daughters but the pregnancy became complicated, with Willow being diagnosed in utero with anencephaly. Amie talks openly about her journey through motherhood so far, her experience with mental health struggles and her passion to help others by sharing her grief.Angel willow is very present with her family today, evidenced by love and playfulness of her sisters and the warmth and radiance of her mum. This is the story of Amie and willow Hosts- Bec Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Amie Rohan Loss Mothers Conversation Cards https://www.thelossmothers.com/lmstore 10% all proceeds to Red Nose Link to Aime's episode on Beyond the Bump https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-do-you-go-on-when-you-discover-one-of-your-twins/id1484930949?i=1000624441989

This is the stories of Madeleine & AnabelleStacey & SonnyEmma & Luna You will hear from three special Mums sharing and speaking about their babies. Sadly these mums were forced to say goodbye to their babies in a very difficult way, in a way that no parent wishes to be confronted with- Termination for Medical Reasons – often seen in text as TFMR. We present this episode in a different way than previous episodes. The reason for this is we wanted to highlight that no one is alone in this journey, there is a community of women and families, and this is something that many families face everyday in Australia. By having these three Mums share their babies you will hear the highlighted that each families experience with TFMR is uniquely different, but they are united in their heartache of facing such circumstances, their grief, and the lasting love they have for their precious children. Special thanks to our guests:Madeleine, Stacey & Emma Episode sponsor:Luna Essential Soul Therapies www.lunasoultherapies.com@luna_soultherapies Let's Talk About Grief Cards can be purchased at www.thelossmothers.com/lmstore 

This is the story of Bec and Andrew … Bec shares a slightly different take on being a “Loss Mother”. Bec shares the loss of her husband Andrew and how she was, without warning, an unexpectedly a grieving wife with two young children grieving their Dad. Andrew passed from a heart condition- Arrythmogenic Ventricular Cardiomyopathy (AVC). Bec shares her love, pain, grief and parenting without her husband, best friend and their childrens Dad AVC The Label - https://avcthelabel.com/ Guest- Bec Barry Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Eppshttps://www.thelossmothers.com/lmstore5% of our card sales going to The Heart Foundation Australia  from 11/10/22- 25/10/22 

This is the story of Celeste and Teddi. At age 46 after 12 years of IVF Celeste became pregnant. At 21 weeks Celeste was admitted to hospital and diagnosed with preeclampsia. At 24 weeks and 3 days the preeclampsia had reached a point where it was unsafe to continue the pregnancy, Celeste had an emergency caesarean section. Teddi was born on 24th march at 24 weeks and 3 days, weighing 422g, he was severely premature resulting in many health complications for him to battle. Teddi is a brave warrior. Teddi was in NICU for 110 days. He was moved to palliative care and passed away on his due date in Celestes arms, with family and friends. Celeste gives wonderful insight into palliative care and time spent with a son in NICU This is the story of Celeste and Teddi... an incredible team! Hosts Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps %5 of sales from our Let's Talk About Greif cards + add on packs going to Angel Gowns Australia for the entire fortnight following episode release www.thelossmothers.com/lmstore

This is the story of Casey and Zayden. Zaydens life was taken from him. His life was ended far too short at just 10 and a half months of age. Zayden was violently murdered on June 15th 2012, while asleep in his cot, by a 19 year old ice addict during a string of robberies. He inflicted fatal and horrific injuries, it has been described as one of the most shocking and heinous crimes in Australian history, appallingly violent and shockingly evil. Casey shares her grief and insight into trauma and triggers. She discusses how she has reached a stage of grief beyond acceptance and her determination not to let trauma define her. From 11/9/22- 25/9/22 5% of all sales from our Let's Talk About Greif Cards will being going to Casey's chosen charity ‘Bears of Hope Australia' Visit www.thelossmothers.com/lmstore to see the range *Please note this episode is not suitable for young children *Content discusses death, grief and violent crime- if you need assistance Lifeline Australia - 13 11 14 - Crisis Support. Suicide Prevention.

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Today we welcome Nicoleta to The Loss Mothers. You may already know Nicoleta as Keepsakes By Nicoleta. In an ever increasing disposable world Nicoleta is passionate about creating heartfelt keepsakes that can be passed down for generations. Nicoleta works with precious materials such as hair, ashes and breastmilk to create amazing jewelry and other sentimental pieces. These pieces are made with loving intention, passion and a deep understanding of human connection. Nicoleta humbly shares with us where her passion came from and the extraordinary ways that Nicoleta has followed her heart, listened to her intuition and honoured the deep connection she has with her Grandmother. She reminds us that we all have a special ability inside to listen to our heart, stay open and welcome the magic all around us. This is the story of Nicoleta. As we head towards christmas and the closing of the year we hope listening to Nicoleta helps open your heart to receiving all the love here on earth and from our loved ones beyond. If you would like to see Nicoletas work you can via her website www.keepsakesbynicoleta.com.au Facebook Keepsakes by Nicoleta TM | Facebook Instagram @keepsakesbynicoleta We thank all of our listeners and guests for joining us in 2021. Creating this space for mothers to share is important and sacred. We hope that these stories have touched your heart, given you insight into grief in its complexity and its normality in our lives, given you hope, given you a little something from all the beautiful souls that watch over us here on earth. We wish you all love in your heart this Christmas With Love Bec & Caitlin xo Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Nicoleta- Keepsakes By Nicoletta Follow us @thelossmothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook

This is the story of Pamella and Cohen. Cohen was a bright, loving, honest and warm 17 year old. He had plans for the future, he had a girlfriend, was mature in talking about his feelings and his mental health with his mum and always had a 'thumbs up' for the camera. Cohen died by suicide at home, during his mid year ATAR exams. He had battled anxiety and depression openly and honestly with his family and professional support. Sadly there was a communication breakdown at his school, his diagnosis was communicated clearly from Pamella but unclearly amongst staff. While staff and teachers came to have concerns for Cohens mental health and recognised a young male in crisis- communicated through emails - there was no communication to Cohens family- despite written discussion amongst staff that there needed to be. Cohen's parents Pamella and Chris have continued to be Cohens biggest advocates and in turn advocates for all and are reminding us all that Suicide Prevention is Everyones Business. This is the story of Pamela and Cohen. ThumbsUp4Cohen- Suicide Prevention is Everyone's Business (4) thumbsup4cohen - suicide prevention is everyone's business - Search Results | Facebook Instagram- @thumbsup4cohen Guest- Pamella Fink Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Content warning: This episode discusses suicide. This content may be destressing for some listeners. Below is a list of support resources: StandBy- Support after Suicide. Australia's leading postvention program www.standbysupport.com.au SPAN- Suicide Prevention Awareness Network- Bendigo and Central Victoria www.spancv.org.au Beyond Blue www.beyondblue.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au

This is the story of Amy and Jemma. Jemma is Amy and Matthews second child. Jemma was born unexpectedly premature at 27 weeks in the rural region of Gippsland. She was transferred to the Mercy in Melbourne, where after 8 days of life, she was released to the heavens. 16 years on Amy shares with us the grief that never leaves but the grief that grows into life after loss, and the little Jem that sits inside her heart. Little Jem who has touched this family in such profound ways and shined her light over the Gippsland community. Listening to Amy will warm your soul as she openly shares the dark and the light, the pain and the beauty, the sorrow and the joy that is grief. If you would like to know more about The Little Jem Foundation and how you can help head to their Facebook page Little Jem Foundation | Facebook Credits: Host- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Amy Daly Follow The Loss Mothers Journey Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- facebook.com/thelossmothers

This is the story of Tracy and Georgia. Today Tracy shares with us her youngest daughter Georgia, a beautiful soul, a spark of light, a loving, fun filled, compassionate and kind person with a huge heart warming smile. Georgia's big heart enveloped her family, friends and she had a special place in there for animals too- any human or animal to experience Georgia's love was a lucky being! Georgia had a full life and touched many people far and wide. Sadly her life ended shortly after a motor vehicle accident, with her boyfriend Josh, just before she turned 16. The circumstances surrounding the accident buried her family in another layer of grief. Tracy shares with us how the very essence of Georgia has aided and guided her through this journey of grief and life after the accident. Tracy also gives an insight into restorative justice and her experience in the Open Circle program. We hope a little of Georgia's light touches you all through Tracy. This is the story of Tracy and Georgia. Credits: Host- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Tracy Larsen Follow The Loss Mothers Journey Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- www.facebook.com/thelossmothers Please remember to subscribe, rate and review... and share with those that would benefit from listening to these stories xo For more information on Open Circle - RMIT Restorative Justice, visit the link below Open Circle | RMIT Centre for Innovative Justice (cij.org.au)

This is the story of Danielle, Jackson & Scruff. Danielle and Scruff are mum and dad to Jackson. In 2016 Danielle and Scruff were living a happy, full, family life. They were living in a small coastal community and were excited to be installing a pool- something they knew would bring many happy family memories. During its construction in 2016 Jackson was run over by a vehicle on their family property and sadly lost his life. On average Driveway accidents or vehicle accidents on private property in Australia take the life of 7 children each year and seriously injure 60. The driver is often known to the family or is family and adds another devastating layer to an already immense grief. Following Jacksons passing Danielle had grave concerns for the health and wellbeing of her husband Scruff- a previously well, healthy and vibrant man. Less than 3 months after Jackson died, Scruff made the decision to take his own life. Danielle bravely and honestly shares her story with us today. You will hear the admiration, love and respect she has for her boys and for herself. This is the story of Danielle , Scruff and Jackson Credits: Host- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Danielle Harris Follow The Loss Mothers Journey Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- www.facebook.com/thelossmothers Please remember to subscribe, rate and review... and share with those that would benefit from listening to these stories xo

This is the story of Amelia and Tommy. Amelia is mum to two sons- Aston and Tommy. Tommy was born unexpectedly and quickly at 17 weeks gestation. Amelia was able to spend some precious time with Tommy, appreciate his features, hold him, create some memories and invite a few family members to meet him- including Aston his big brother. This precious time meant a lot to Amelia and her family who are very early in their journey of grief. Amelia was gracious to speak with us about her birth experience with Tommy and what miscarriage means for her. Miscarriage in Australia is defined as a pregnancy loss before 20 weeks gestation, this happens to 1 in 4 to 1 in 5 pregnancies. It is a grief that many women suffer in silence. A grief that sometimes is pushed to the side as an expected event for a woman to endure and often is accompanied by many unhelpful platitudes. As we go on to talk about, for some woman this may not have significant impact on their lives and for others this will be the beginning of a significant journey of grief and the alteration of life as they once knew it. Many do not get to experience holding, touching, seeing and sharing their baby but everyone who experiences miscarriage understands the emptiness left behind. We thank Amelia for sharing her personal and family story with rawness, honestly and bravery. We know the power of story telling and we know that by sharing your grief and Tommy that you will help many others. This is not a journey any woman should feel alone in. This episode is dedicated to little Tommy and to all the little footprints that may not have walked the earth but have left footprints on hearts across the world. Content warning: This episode discusses miscarriage/pregnancy loss. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources SANDS Australia- Miscarriage, stillbirth & newborn death support http://www.sands.org.au Stillbirth awareness - Red Nose supports families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy and is working collaboratively with the researchers and allied organisation to help prevent stillbirth https://rednose.org.au/ Bears of Hope- Pregnancy and infant loss support https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/ Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Amelia Webb Follow us Instagram - @thelossmothers Facebook- www.facebook.com/thelossmothers

Welcome to author Karina Machado. Karina is a journalist with over 25 years experience and the author of the non fiction series The Spirit Sisters, Where Spirits Dwell and Love Never Dies. She has also recently written Awaken: The search is over with her sister Natalie Grueninger. She is also creator and host of two podcasts- The Spirit Sisters and The Ghost Files- highly recommended reading and listening!! Karina is passionate about sharing stories, especially stories of encounters from the other side. Karina strongly believes that love never dies and love is more powerful than death. She has interviewed many people that have received signs, messages and visitations from their loved ones gone before them and the impact that these moments can make on a lifetime in the physical. 3 Many of our guests have shared their own encounters and signs sent from their loved ones and we felt it was an important topic to explore. These signs and encounters are often comforting to those left behind and become treasured moments in time. While many people listening will have had such experiences, many others may not have. As Karina discusses this does not mean our loved ones are not with us or watching over us. they are always around. - We felt this was an important subject matter to cover. The women we have interviewed light up at two points during the time we spend, when they talk about their childs time on earth and when they talk about their child in spirit. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed creating this episode with Karina. Below are the links to Karina's podcasts and website, where you can find links to her books. Website:- Karina Machado -author of Spirit Sisters, Love Never Dies, AwakenKarina Machado Podcasts:- The Spirit Sisters ‎Spirit Sisters - the podcast on Apple Podcasts The Ghost files ‎The Ghost Files on Apple Podcasts Connect with Karina on Facebook. Instagram. End reading a channeling from Alicia Dumais Temmerman. Alicia Dumais Temmerman is the founder of the Global Soul Centre. For more information The Global Soul Centre Hosts: Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest: Karina Machado With Thanks to Alicia Dumais Temmerman for allowing us to share her channeling Follow us The Loss Mothers Facebook- (1) The Loss Mothers | Facebook Instagram- @thelossmothers Please remember to subscribe, rate and review! Please help us share these important stories, share to your social media and spread the word!

This is the story of Catherine and Riley. Catherine is mum to three children. Olivia, Riley and Lucy. Riley, a sweet baby boy with beautiful bright eyes and a calm, content nature. At just three weeks of age Riley developed a cough, he was diagnosed with whooping cough and sadly passed away 5 days after being admitted to hospital at just 32 days old. Catherine shares Riley with us, her personal grief and her incredible advocacy work with "Light For Riley" and Immunisation Foundation of Australia. Light for Riley Facebook- Light for Riley (facebook.com) Immunisation Foundation of Australia- Immunisation Foundation of Australia (ifa.org.au) Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Catherine Hughes Follow us on social media Instagram- @thelossmothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook Please subscribe, rate and review to help share these important stories far and wide. Sharing and reposting on your social media is another powerful way to spread these stories- you never know just who you know that will benefit from hearing they are not alone!

This is the story of Nikki and Max. Nikki is mother to three sons, Julien, Max and Noah. Max was being lovingly nourished and growing during pregnancy but sadly he was diagnosed with severe hypoplastic left heart syndrome and would not be able to survives after birth. Nikki shares her pregnancy journey with Max and how difficult it is to say hello and good-bye at the same time. Nikki is passionate about opening up the discussion around pregnancy loss and the social taboos surrounding early pregnancy and the isolation women can feel. Max will forever be a part of the Petersen family and we thank Nikki and Max for the beautiful messages shared today. Content warning: This episode discusses stillbirth, pregnancy loss and miscarriage. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources SANDS Australia- Miscarriage, stillbirth & newborn death support http://www.sands.org.au Stillbirth awareness - Red Nose supports families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy and is working collaboratively with the researchers and allied organisation to help prevent stillbirth https://rednose.org.au/ Bears of Hope- Pregnancy and infant loss support https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/ Stillbirth Foundation Australia https://stillbirthfoundation.org.au/ Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Nikki Petersen Follow The Loss Mothers on social media Instagram- @thelossmothers Facebook- (2) The Loss Mothers | Facebook

This is the story of Rache and Jordan. Rache and Jordan are siblings. Jordan is Rache's big brother. They shared a happy, fun filled, at time cheeky childhood together. Their bond is unique, both Rache and Jordan were adopted at infancy- they have a deep understanding of each other and always had each others back. Jordan's life here on earth ended suddenly at age 26- a complication of diabetes and an underlying heart condition. The passing of Jordan forever changed the dynamic of Rache's family. Not only was Rache a sister grieving the loss of her brother and a daughter seeing her parents grieve the loss of their son- she was also a wife and mothers helping her family navigate the loss of Jordan. Please subscribe, rate and review wherever you are listening to The Loss Mothers. Share to your social media- this helps spread these important stories! Follow us The Loss Mothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook Instagram- @thelossmothers Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Rache Mahon Extract passage read from Grieving the Death of a Sibling is one of the most neglected types of grief. (healgrief.org)

This is the story of Alannah, Stuart and Angela. Alannah is Mum to Stuart, Stacey and Angela. The children were each born close together. A family of 5 living in regional Victoria. Stuart and Angela were similar in personality- fun, sporty and happily loud. Stuart had become a proud father and commenced his culinary career-as his dream was to become a traveling chef. Angela a kind, bright, bubbly , social teenager who loved to laugh. Angela was not afraid to stand up for people and for what she believed in. Stuart a loving older brother to his two younger sisters became a shadow of his former vibrant self due to workplace bullying and the family became very concerned about his mental health. Watching his decline had a deep impact on Angela which resulted in her taking her own life in August 2002. A month later in September 2002 Stuart also took his own life. Through such tragic loss Alannah was instrumental in bringing the Suicide Prevention Awareness Network - known as SPAN to Central Victoria. Thank you Alannah for sharing your story and for raising suicide awareness - this all too prevalent, at times silent epidemic - in our community. SPAN- Suicide Prevention Awareness Network Central Victoria "Tough times pass" SPAN Bendigo & Central Victoria - SPAN Central Victoria (spancv.org.au) Please subscribe, rate and review wherever you are listening to The Loss Mothers. Share to your social media- this helps spread these important stories! Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook To support the ongoing production of The Loss Mothers you can become a Patreon at The Loss Mothers by Bec Gallagher and Caitlin Epps are creating The Loss Mothers Project | Patreon Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Alannah McGregor

This is the story of Claire and her beautiful daughter Sian. Sian entered the world in 2006. A joy, a bright little girl with gorgeous red locks. Sian blossomed into a creative, smart, cheeky and happy little girl. She became a proud big sister to her brother Dane and had just started school. On the 12th May 2012 Sian sadly passed away at home enveloped in her mums loving arms. Sian braved medical hardships with her signature cheeky grin, her pictures radiate happiness and the golden joy of a child. As Claire shares Sian's life with us she also lights up and smiles. Claire shares what a joy Sian was and now continues to be in a different way. Claire and her family have some beautiful ways to honour Sian, to keep her near, to be connected and to continue to feel the love, light and warmth that Sian brings to life. Claire has embraced her grief and made sure every essence of Sian can be felt by those who are her remaining family, those who knew and loved her, those who are inspired by her qualities and those who never met her but have something to gain by having her shared with us. Thankyou Claire for sharing your grief and your Sian. Please subscribe, rate and review wherever you are listening to The Loss Mothers. Share to your social media- this helps spread these important stories! If you are interested in finding out more about the 'Grief & Bereavement' talks that Claire presents on behalf of The Compassionate Friends of Victoria, please feel free to contact her at clairew@tcfv.org.au For 24/7 grief support after losing a child, sibling or grandchild, please contact The Compassionate Friends of Victoria on 1300 064 068 Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook To support the ongoing production of The Loss Mothers you can become a Patreon at The Loss Mothers by Bec Gallagher and Caitlin Epps are creating The Loss Mothers Project | Patreon Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Claire Wilson

This is the story of Sally and her gorgeous daughter Lucia. Lucia is the second daughter of Sally and Peter and younger sister to Sofia. Her entrance into the world took her parents by surprise, from pregnancy to her birth, Lucia made her mark on this world in her own way and her own style. She touched the hearts of many during those early moments of life. Lucia a beautiful baby girl with chubby cheeks, big heart melting eyes and a wise soul. Lucia, a delightful baby, enveloped her family in that beautiful newborn bubble. Sadly Lucia did become acutely unwell and was diagnosed with Pompe disease. Sally shares that Lucia grew her Angel Wings on the day she was Baptised and a few days later as the sun shone brightly Lucia passed away on 22nd July 2019 at 99 days old- knowing only love, wrapped in her Mums embrace and holding her Dads hand. Lucia has an important message for all of us and her spirit is strongly felt. This is the story of Sally and Lucia. If you would like to donate to the Lucia Crinis Legacy Fund you can do so via this link Lucia Crinis Legacy Fund - The Royal Children's Hospital Foundation (rchfoundation.org.au) The Lucia Crinis Legacy Fund has been established in recognition of the incredible care and support Lucia received at the RCH, and to continue her legacy in honour of the Cardiology Department. This episode is brought to you by Rhythm First Aid Rhythm First Aid are makers of beautiful family first aid kits, handpicked by Melbourne healthcare professionals with the tick of approval from Australian families To get $20 off enter the code : THELOSSMOTHERS Instagram @rhythm.firstaid Web www.rhythmfirstaid.com.au Please subscribe, rate and review wherever you are listening to The Loss Mothers! Share to your social media- this helps spread these important stories! Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook- The Loss Mothers | Facebook To support the ongoing production of The Loss Mothers you can become a Patreon at The Loss Mothers by Bec Gallagher and Caitlin Epps are creating The Loss Mothers Project | Patreon Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Sally Crinis

This is part 2 of Kathy, Thomas and Stuart. Kathy continues to discuss the aftermath of Thomas's murder, the beauty and the beast of the Australian media and the chain of events that led to Stuart taking his own life. Kathy also shares her private maternal grief and insight into her life after the death of her boys. We advise you listen to Part 1 and Part 2 in sequence. Thanks to Kathy for sharing her boys to all of us. Thomas and Stuart two pure, gentle and loving souls- when we think of these boys we smile, we hope you do too. Importantly we hope you all remember to embed kindness into your thoughts, words and actions and help those ripples of kindness continue to spread and turn into waves xo Hosts: Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest: Kathy Kelly To purchase Kathy & Ralphs book- Too Soon, Too Late - Too Soon, Too Late - Ralph and Kathy Kelly - 9781760632786 - Allen & Unwin - Australia (allenandunwin.com) kathykelly.com.au - to explore more about the Kelly's story or to get in touch with Kathy for inspirational speaking Stay Kind | Promoting kindness in everyday life- To join the Stay Kind movement and take the pledge to be kind and promote kindness in everyday life. To all our beautiful listeners .... Take Kare & Stay Kind xo

Kathy's family story may have touched many of our listeners lives already. Kathy and her husband Ralph Kelly together with their children (Madeline & Stuart) were thrust into the media after the tragic 'one punch' homicide of their eldest son and brother Thomas in 2012. After the death of Thomas, life unavoidably changed for the family. Sadly it then set off a chain of events that tragically led to Stuart (their youngest son) taking his own life 4 years later. Kathy and Ralph together have been the faces, the heart and the soul of the Stay Kind Foundation (formally known as the Thomas Kelly Youth Foundation) and the Take Kare safe spaces. There have been so many incredible achievements made out of such tragedy that have and are continuing to make our country a better place for our children. Its been a selfless journey. Today though we are here to talk about Kathy Kelly the mum. The mother in a family of 5. The mum that has endured grief, trauma, heartbreak and pain - in the public eye- and continued to grow as mother and wife to her family. The mum that is shouldering the pain and wounds that society has inflicted on her. As you listen you too will understand how our society and culture let down and did not protect the Kelly boys. Importantly you will learn about Thomas and Stuart's life from their mum Kathy. Chatting with Kathy it is so clear that Thomas and Stuart are part of her and she lights up when she speaks about them. Two young boys that had been loved deeply were growing and developing into young men that held a lot of promise and had a lot to offer our world. While their opportunity in the physical world has been taken away their lives continue to make a big difference. This is the story of Kathy and her sons Thomas and Stuart. Part 2 coming Thursday 15th April Hosts: Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps The Loss Mothers | Facebook Instagram @thelossmothers Guest: Kathy Kelly To purchase Kathy & Ralphs book- Too Soon, Too Late - Too Soon, Too Late - Ralph and Kathy Kelly - 9781760632786 - Allen & Unwin - Australia (allenandunwin.com) kathykelly.com.au - to explore more about the Kelly's story or to get in touch with Kathy for inspirational speaking Stay Kind | Promoting kindness in everyday life- To join the Stay Kind movement and take the pledge to be kind and promote kindness in everyday life. To all our beautiful listeners .... Take Kare & Stay Kind xo

The National Centre for Childhood Grief is dedicated to helping bereaved children and their families rebuild their lives, by teaching them how to live with their grief. The Centre was established in 1994 by founders Mal and Dianne McKissock, internationally recognised experts in the field of child bereavement and grief counselling. The National Centre for Childhood Grief is a not-for-profit that operates from 'A Friend's Place' in Sydney- where we are today. The Centre has an experienced team of specialist bereavement counsellors and trained volunteer support workers, led by Clinical Director, Dr Elizabeth Mann , ensuring the effective delivery of these important services. The National centre for childhood grief provides free and unlimited grief counselling for bereaved children aged 3 -18 years. They provide grief counselling to recently bereaved adults on a fee-for-service basis. The centre also provides education and training for individuals, schools and other organisations handling the grief of children and young people. Some of you may have already come across the Centres work through the Play School episode 'Beginnings and Endings' The Beginnings and Endings episode was made in consultation with the National Centre for Childhood Grief, who worked with the Play School team throughout the development of the show. The centre recognised that there is currently very little available to help children experiencing grief and that introducing the subject in a gentle, safe environment, as the playschool episode does, is a great way to help children start to understand life and death. Please subscribe, rate and review! Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook - The Loss Mothers (facebook.com) Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Dr Elizabeth Mann Links National Centre for Childhood Grief - Providing loving support for children grieving a death Play School- Beginnings & Endings - Play School: Beginnings and Endings - Play School - ABC Kids

This is the story of Corinne and her family. In 2004 Corinne was 20 years old and living in Melbourne Australia with her boyfriend (now husband) Bodee. She had just deferred her second year of university and was about to start a new job. On the 20th June 2004 Corinne and Bodee had just returned from a short trip to Queensland to visit her Pop who was terminally ill. She was expecting to hear from her Mum soon but instead received a call by another family member. This call was to let her know that there had been a car accident. The car accident had resulted in the devastating death of her Mum (Anne) , Dad (Rick), sisters Brooke and Jade (17 & 14) and Elizabeth- a French exchange student who was staying with the family. Later that evening Corinne learned that the family had been showing Elisbeth around Dalysford on Sunday and their last stop was the Chocolate Mill , they were headed home. Her sister was driving (getting some learner driver experience) and had ended up on the wrong side of the road. The stretch of road wasn't great and it is thought she clipped the edge of the road and overcorrected, a truck was coming the other way and they had nowhere to go. No one in the car survived the crash and there was no medical intervention. Corinne today shares her family with us and how she navigated her way through such unimaginable loss. She also shares how life has evolved for her and what family life means for her today. This episode is a different angle on The Loss Mothers from what we have documented to date. However this is significant story of motherhood and loss. If you would like to hear more episodes like this sign up to become a Patreon at www.patreon.com/thelossmothers . Episodes like Corinne's will be exclusive to patreon members. Please subscribe, rate and review! Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook - The Loss Mothers (facebook.com) Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Corinne Scullie (Ervin)

This is the story of Rosalie and Grant. On 9th April 1990 Grant Mark Evans was born sleeping at 37 weeks. The stillbirth of Grant was a shock to Rosalie and her husband Barry. Rosalie had blossomed during her pregnancy and they were looking forward to introducing a new baby into their family and making James a big brother. Rosalie highlights the contrast of care after stillbirth between now and 30 years ago. Grant has a very special place in the heart of the Evans family. Special thankyou to Rosalie for sharing the story of her son Grant so beautifully. Please subscribe, rate and review ! Follow us The Loss Mothers Instagram @thelossmothers Facebook The Loss Mothers The Loss Mothers | Facebook The Compassionate Friends Australia www.thecompassionatefriends.org.au Stillbirth Foundation Australia http://stillbirthfoundation.org.au Bears of Hope- Pregnancy & infant loss support www.bearsofhope.org.au Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Rosalie Evans

Welcome to 2021 of The Loss Mothers Project. This episode is just Bec & Caitlin, which will not be happening very often! We wanted to start the year by welcoming our new listeners from the summer period, recap some things we learnt from our beautiful guests in 2020 and share with you what we have planned for 2021. Please take a screen shot on the device you are listening on and share to your social media stories!! You can now follow The Loss Mothers Facebook- (2) The Loss Mothers | Facebook Instagram- The Loss Mothers (@thelossmothers) • Instagram photos and videos Website- THE LOSS MOTHERS Please become a Patreon at - The Loss Mothers by Bec Gallagher and Caitlin Epps are creating The Loss Mothers Project | Patreon By becoming a Patreon you will have access to bonus content, bonus episodes, early release of regular episodes & more! This aids in the ongoing production of The Loss Mothers Project which is currently fully self funded.

This is the story of Donna and her gorgeous, determined, and loving daughter Montana. Montana was a bright 19 year old young woman with a very caring nature. She had four loving sisters, talking to Donna it was evident the strong love and bond between mother, daughter, sisters, and their father Rick. Montana was diagnosed with epilepsy just before 7 years of age, tragically at 19 Montana passed away on Boxing Day 2015 from Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy. Donna shares some beautiful moments she shared with Montana and some moments after she passed that help her to know she is still with them. This is our final recording for 2020. Special thankyou to Donna for sharing her story. We wish everyone a safe, healthy and happy Christmas and new year spent with loved ones. Importantly we acknowledge that there are many families that will have an empty seat at their table and for some families this will be the first year that they navigate a celebration around the loss of a loved one. We look forward to bringing you more of these exceptionally special stories from February 2021 Please subscribe, rate and review Content warning: This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources Epilepsy Foundation Australia https://epilepsyfoundation.org.au/ Beyond Blue www.beyondblue.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Donna Wills Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

This is the story of Merna and her beautiful daughter Kristen. Kristen was a loving, bright, happy young woman who would make fun happen wherever she went. She enjoyed spending time with her family, time at the family farm and shared a close bond with her two younger brothers. Merna says Kristen gave the best hugs and she gave a lot of them during her time here. In 2002 Kristen and a friend set off for a holiday. Tragically on this holiday her life was taken from her in the Bali Bombings. Merna shares with us the complexity of losing a loved one in such circumstances and the difficulty that comes with a grief that is so public. Merna gives an insight into the life of families thrust into the news and media at an intensely personal and devastating time in their lives. Special thanks to Merna for again publicly sharing such personal details about her family life. Merna is not only a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend but she is also an inspiration to women working in agriculture in Australia. Please subscribe, rate and review Content warning: This episode discusses Bali Bombings 2002. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources Phoenix Australia www.phoenixaustralia.org Beyond Blue www.beyondblue.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Merna Curnow Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

This is the story of Eliza and Phoenix. Eliza is mum to 5 boys, one who was born sleeping. At 40 +2 weeks Eliza attended a regular scheduled appointment at the hospital, the pregnancy had been good- Eliza and Paul were getting excited to meet their baby. During this appointment it was discovered that there was no longer a heartbeat. Sadly Phoenix Oliver was born still on 9th may 2013. He had beautiful chubby cheeks, long feet, he was a gorgeous newborn baby boy. Eliza shares the heartbreaking loss of her son, how she navigates her lifelong grief and the path Phoenix had led her to take. Eliza is passionate about breaking the silence of stillbirth, thankyou Eliza for sharing your story. Content warning: This episode discusses stillbirth and miscarriage. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources SANDS Australia- Miscarriage, stillbirth & newborn death support http://www.sands.org.au Stillbirth awareness - Red Nose supports families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy and is working collaboratively with the researchers and allied organisation to help prevent stillbirth https://rednose.org.au/ Bears of Hope- Pregnancy and infant loss support https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/ Stillbirth Foundation Australia https://stillbirthfoundation.org.au/ Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Eliza Pringle Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers Please take a moment to subscribe, rate and review! We and our special guests love to hear your feedback!

This is the story of Anna and her children Charlotte Leigh and William "Billy" Jacob. At the routine 20 week morphology scan baby Charlotte was diagnosed with hypoplastic left heart syndrome (HLHS). This is a complex and rare cardiac defect. Anna and Adam were faced with the hardest decision they have ever had to make around their baby's life. Anna shares the loss of her following two pregnancies, an 8 week miscarriage and Billy who was also diagnosed with severe hypoplastic left heart syndrome at 12 weeks. Anna eloquently shares the choices herself and Adam were faced with post the diagnosis of HLHS, the time they spent with Charlotte and her personal journey of grief after loss. She walks us through a beautiful analogy of grief and reads a special piece she wrote after Charlotte and Billy. It was fitting that we recorded this episode on Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day. A day to remember all of the babies- named and unnamed- lost recently or long ago but forever living in the hearts of their families. Anna and Adam would like to sincerely thank their family and friends for all of their support. For the practical help, but most importantly for listening over the years when they needed. Anna would also like to thank the staff at the Royal Women's and Royal Children's Hospital for the amazing care of herself and her family. Content warning: This episode discusses stillbirth and miscarriage. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources SANDS Australia- Miscarriage, stillbirth & newborn death support http://www.sands.org.au Stillbirth awareness - Red Nose supports families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy and is working collaboratively with the researchers and allied organisation to help prevent stillbirth https://rednose.org.au/ Bears of Hope- Pregnancy and infant loss support https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/ Stillbirth Foundation Australia https://stillbirthfoundation.org.au/ Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Anna Hall Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

This is the story of Flavia and her dancing queen Kristy. Flavia shares with us the beautiful spirit of her daughter Kristy. They share an incredible mother/daughter love that shines through so brightly as Flavia talks about Kristy's time spent here. Kristy was developing into a strong young woman, she had immense love for family, friends, shopping, animals and was making her way in the world. She shared a close bond with her older brother Sean and had become a proud big sister to Taylah. In late October 2004 Kristy was 17 years old and was excited to go on a camping trip with her boyfriend, her first time away on her own. Kristy was involved in a jet ski accident that saw her placed in an induced coma. Sadly Kristy's life on earth ended in November 2004, surrounded by those she loved. Flavia shares how grief has altered her forever and changed her perspective on the world around her. She has been able to discover the collateral beauty born through her grief and over the years life has shown her that she has a lot of wisdom to impart learnt from her grief. Flavia explains the touch and hugs are the feelings that are missed the most and the pain knowing that there is no way to have that back. Prior to our recording Flavia shared photos and stories of Kristy. We had a beautiful day together, there was a special energy in the room and we really felt like we got to know Kristy. In the photos Flavia shared of Kristy it was clear she had a smile that makes you smile, she wasn't afraid to show her love for those she loved and there was a sense of happiness and fun within the moments captured in time. She is sunshine. We felt the love. mwah Xo Content warning:- This episode discusses accident and trauma. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below are a list of resources The Compassionate Friends Australia- The mission of The Compassionate Friends in Australia is to offer and provide friendship and support to bereaved parents and their families following the death of child at any age and from any cause www.thecompassionatefriends.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au Credits : Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Flavia Kaucic Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

This is the story of Shelley. Over a 7 month period in 2018 she endured the stillbirth of her son Austin, the 15 week birth of her son Archie and the death of her father in law Brian. Shelley, her husband Eric and their 2 year old daughter Amber were excited to welcome their son and brother but instead they endured a grief that no family should ever have to. Shelley shares the precious time she got to spend with Austin and the special way in which they honoured his life. Shelley beautifully explains that grief is not linear, and while it may soften there is a piece of the heart that can not be fixed. Shelley is an exceptional young woman who has endured such joy and such sorrow during motherhood. Shelley has a huge heart with a lot of love to give. This is the story of Shelley and her much loved sons Austin and Archie. Content warning: This episode discusses stillbirth and miscarriage. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of resources Stillbirth awareness - Red Nose supports families who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy and is working collaboratively with the researchers and allied organisation to help prevent stillbirth https://rednose.org.au/ Bears of Hope- Pregnancy and infant loss support https://www.bearsofhope.org.au/ Stillbirth Foundation Australia https://stillbirthfoundation.org.au/

Tracie & Bailey 01 Part I This is the story of Tracie and her beautiful Bailey Boy. Tracie was 30 years old when she became a mother. Tracie and Bailey became a dynamic mother and son duo from the very beginning, they shared a unique, open, loving, trusting, adventurous and engaging mother and son bond. Tracie guided him through life as he gathered a large collection of family and friends that loved him wholeheartedly and Bailey returned that love with love, kindness and respect. Bailey chose to take his own life in 2017 when he was 19 years old. Leading up to his death Bailey had endured a rapid decline in his mental health and was a victim of a violent assault. Bailey left behind twenty-one messages and notes. These notes included words of advice, messages of thanks, his own eulogy and in his words that 'this' was the way for him. Tracie shares stories about her Bailey boy, how she continues everyday to navigate her immeasurable grief and learning to live life in the wake of the death of her only child. Join us for Part I as we learn about Tracie and the big life her beautiful Bailey boy lived in his short time here. Content warning: This episode discusses suicide. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of support resources: StandBy- Support after Suicide. Australia's leading postvention program www.standbysupport.com.au SPAN- Suicide Prevention Awareness Network- Bendigo and Central Victoria www.spancv.org.au Beyond Blue www.beyondblue.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au Credits : Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Tracie Tester Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

Part II This is the story of Tracie and her beautiful Bailey Boy. Tracie was 30 years old when she became a mother. Tracie and Bailey became a dynamic mother and son duo from the very beginning, they shared a unique, open, loving, trusting, adventurous and engaging mother-son bond. Tracie guided him through life as he gathered a large collection of family and friends that loved him wholeheartedly and Bailey returned that love with love, kindness and respect. Bailey chose to take his own life in 2017 when he was 19 years old. Leading up to his death Bailey had endured a rapid decline in his mental health and was a victim of a violent assault. Bailey left behind twenty-one messages and notes. These notes included words of advice, messages of thanks, his own eulogy and in his words that 'this' was the way for him. Tracie shares stories about her Bailey boy, how she continues everyday to navigate her immeasurable grief and learning to live life in the wake of the death of her only child. Join us for Part II as we continue to explore Tracie's grief, her journey to acceptance and the little ways she knows Bailey is still with her. Content warning: This episode discusses suicide. This content may be distressing for some listeners. Below is a list of support resources: StandBy- Support after Suicide. Australia's leading postvention program www.standbysupport.com.au SPAN- Suicide Prevention Awareness Network- Bendigo and Central Victoria www.spancv.org.au Beyond Blue www.beyondblue.org.au Lifeline Australia- 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au Credits: Hosts- Rebecca Gallagher & Caitlin Epps Guest- Tracie Tester Follow us Instagram @thelossmothers

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