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    • May 27, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 55m AVG DURATION
    • 52 EPISODES


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    We Really Not That Secure Episode 52. "Celebrity Relationships"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 47:39


    On this episode we discuss:- woman charged for poking hole in partner condom- will and jada may file for divorce- pete davidson jokes on kanye- and much more....

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 51. "Them Completics"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 54:31


    On this episode we discuss:- the importance of communication to your barber- jobs that you never liked- Johnny Depp case- and much more....

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 50. " The Ultimatum"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 39:37


    On this episode we discuss:- dj envy wife drops wild information- ultimatum on netflix- would you let your significant other go on a test run with someone else- and much more....

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 49. "We Slap Back"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 62:58


    On this episode we discuss:- Will Smith slaps Chris Rock at the Oscars- Relationship etiquette- and much more.....

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 48. "Catfishin'n"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 56:31


    On this episode we discuss:- people still getting cat-fished-people using old photos on dating apps- if your partner uses snapchat they are doing something sneaky- Bel air recap- power recap- NBA trades/NBA all star events

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 47. "Art Talk With @cbperry_

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 58:53


    On this episode with @cbperry_ we discuss:- when the art journey began- what keeps him inspired- do you feel like you have competition- what is the biggest accomplishment you have so far- body painting- ice cream investment- and much more....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1_

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 46. "V-Day" @mydaya

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2022 65:06


    On this episode we discuss:-what was your best valentines day experience?-is there a minimum amount you should spend on gifts?- is there a such thing as spending to much on v-day?-is there a difference between a woman having four baby dads and a man having four baby moms?-and much more........Follow The Team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1@wereallynotthatsecure

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 45. "Hammer, No Words" ft @mariab_sofit

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2022 54:43


    On this episode we discuss:- Maria B fitness journey- personal training- her favorite part of training- what benefits come with working out regularly- gym outfits- step with Maria B (step class every week)- how kinky do your dms get?Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1- and much more.......

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 44. "Smile, You're Alive!" ft @avatarbenji

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2022 59:55


    On this episode we discuss:- when Benji began his music journey- how important a team is in the music industry- when was the moment you knew you were really a household name- discuss album that was released in September "Smile, You're Alive"- discuss whats next for Benji- and much more....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 43. "Mr Cosmo' ft @neiceyssun

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2022 55:46


    On this episode we discuss:- how @neiceyssun got his name- when he began party promoting and "Mr. Cosmo"- the process of moving up in the ranks within the club- common misconceptions of the job- and much more.......Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 42. " DJ Solodolo"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 60:58


    On this episode we discuss:- when he started and what made him say that is what he wanted to do- when he felt like he got nice at it- what makes a Dj good or bad- questions that Dj's don't like- Drake hot sauce situation- are there levels to hoeness?- and much more......Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 41. " Back Like We Never Left"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 44:15


    On this episode we discuss:-what do you need most from a woman?- how do you know when a relationship over?- do you have to live with a woman before you marry?- Big Ben retiring- AB sideline problems

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 40. "Bringing in the New Year @embr LIVE SHOW"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 75:41


    Happy New YearLIVE Show:- matching pajama couples who were cheating- biggest red flags- does your hoe-ness get erased- a shorty over 30 and single is a red flag- what would you do if you came back from a trip and your partner was better at everything- truth or hold that L

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 39, Music Wit Christo

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 57:19


    On this episode we discuss:- Music wit Christo- how he get started- what plan he has for the future- Mr Small theatre show coming up in February- the music scene in Pittsburgh- and much more......Follow The Team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1@wereallynotthatsecure 

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 38. "Chronicles of Mike Murphy"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 59:48


    On this episode we have a special guest @comedianmikemurphy- when he began doing comedy- who were some of his inspirations- moving from Pittsburgh to California to pursue his career in comedy- how he has gained traction over there and what plans he has for the future-and much more...Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecure- Youtube as well

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 37. @dougie_flexx_fit

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 60:34


    On this episode we sit down with @dougie_flexx_fit.We discuss:- bodybuilding, how he started and how it has changed his life- placing number 1 in Toronto Super Pro competition and qualifying for "Mr. Olympia"- taking on new clients and being able to quit day job and do what he loves- and much more....We also discuss:- is there a limit on the price of a gift- is there a minimum amount you should spend on Christmas- and more....Folow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1@wereallynotthatsecureSubscribe to the Youtube channel as well

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 36. "Kavonnnna and the guys"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2021 54:03


    On this episode we have @kavonnnna join us to discuss @poutfitnessWe discuss:- personal training- how she got started- women only establishment- plans for the future- and much more...........

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 35. "GOODDAYSBRAND" with @chrisarahx

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 53:47


    On this episode featuring @chrisarahx we discuss the vision and concept of "GOODDAYSBRAND". We learn the meaning and get a more in depth look into how everything was started.We also discuss:- being a business owner- plans for GOODDAYSBRAND in the future- Will Smith vs Jada- would you rather have a trapper, scammer, or 9-5 type of person- would you rather have a stripper, porn star, or a shorty who does only fans- and much more.....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1@wereallynotthatsecure on Youtube as well 

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 34 " Friendsgiving"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2021 40:16


    On this episode we discuss:-thanksgiving do's and don'ts - food we are looking forward to- conversations you don't want to have at the table- live show coming up- and much more....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@bigguyofficial1@lakecityfresh

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 33. @dsb_digital "Mic'd Up"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 42:41


    On this episode with @dsb_digital:We discuss:- why he started and when he figured this would be his lane- top 3 in the city when it comes to music videos- does price equal quality- real estate/ air bnbs- mic taps and much more.....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 32. " Joe Leachko(Owner of Studio-Me)"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 57:45


    On this episode we sit down with the Owner of Studio-ME "Joe Leachko"We discuss:- how and why he started this venture that gives creatives a space to do almost anything multi media wise at a great price with amazing quality as well- includes a recording studio, podcast room, multi media room for photoshoots, and much more....- the future of the business and ideas for expansion and even having remote options as wellFollow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 31. "TTG Johnny Spell Trained To Go"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 61:30


    On this episode we had Johnny "TTG" Spell stop through and tell his story.- how he started boxing and why he chose to continue his journey- plans after the next couple of fights-November 13th upcoming fight-top 10 boxers of all time- and much more....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial1

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 29. "Hurt Me"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 61:53


    On this episode we discuss:- more and more cancel culture happening- if you could go back for 24 hours what would you change for black culture- why men don't express how they are really feeling- is an unsupportive friend a hater- and much more....Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecureYoutube- We Really Not That Secure( on all platforms)

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 30, "18 Month Run" featuring @therealowey

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 57:47


    On this episode we discuss:"18 Month Run" new project released by @therealowey "Pittsburgh Legend" and its meaningWe discuss his history and what plans he has for the future as well"Mr. Perfect, I f*** up on purpose"- women claiming that going to eat is no longer a date- what would you do if someone sent your girl a drink at the bar while you are there?- Netflix workers and the community vs Dave Chappelle- Kyrie Irving vs the vaccine- Gruden being fired- and much more..........

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 28. " Am I My Brother's Keeper?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 57:39


    Follow the Team@ecruse_official @lakecityfresh @bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecure on IG and YoutubeOn this episode we discuss:- The Hill rebels vs. Deion Sanders and media- R. Kelly case- Is there a window for marriage?- Fathers not taking care of business- If you became rich tomorrow what is the first thing you would buy?- Squid Game- and much more.....

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 27. "How's it feel to be me"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 59:26


    We Really Not That Secure Podcast:Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecureOn this Weeks episode we discuss:-deadbeat fathers and mothers-Jason Lee and Hollywood unlocked - girl stabs through door with knife-would you rather cuff a known freak or a lady freak-what would you do if you were in the bedroom and your partner called you by someone elses's name-if you could remake a movie and be in it, what would it be- and much more......

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 26. "Be Good"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 49:18


    On this episode we discussed:Should the first date be dutch?Do you judge a partner off their past relationships?Has a woman ever planned a fire date for you?What would you do if your sneaky link fell in love with you?If your significant other quits working because of mental health will you support them?What if marriages had an expiration date?

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 25. "What he won't do, I will"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2021 59:42


    On this episode we discuss:-21 savages talks about conquering and why it is ok for men to cheat but not women-how long you staying in the relationship if its dead-can you forgive a shorty who cheated-does her hoeness get deleted-what are the standards for wifey material-should everyone leave their hometown at some point-what is the fastest you ever ghosted someone

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 24. "You Don't Want The Dild*s (Pause) LMAO!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2021 63:59


    On this episode we discuss:Never have I ever goes wrong. Doug seen a shorty drop the hammer (dil*o) out her bag. Lake gives three keys to a successful relationship. Rell tells us that women check out mentally first before they leave. Also:is it a deal breaker if a shorty can not cook?if she doesn't get wet is it her fault or the man's fault?is going through a hoe phase necessary?Top 3 red flags when dating?and much more .......Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel( We Really Not That Secure)Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 23. "Shaded By The Beat Buttah"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2021 69:13


    On this episode we discuss:Could you date a shorty who wears the same size shoe as you?what is your strip club behavior? How much you throwing?what would you do if your shorty wanted you to hit her best friend?if you catch your shorty cheating and she wanna talk and give you a pass would you take it?can you be pro mental health and pro cancel culture?and much more... with special guests @shadedbythequeen @itsheavenleiFollow the team and subscribe to the Youtube Channel:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 22. "Dibble and Dabble"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 66:11


    On this episode we discuss:what is a valid reason for a man to leave a relationship?do you believe in closure?have you ever ghosted someone, what was the reason and did you feel bad?do you trust your significant other on a trip with her friends?do club owners be hitting all the bottle girls?and much more....Make sure you subscribe and follow Youtueb channelFollow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficialft. @therealverawangteisha

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 21. "Single Women Keep Women Single"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 106:31


    On this episode we discuss:Do women keep single women single?Should sex work be respected just as much as any other job?is there a code to cheating?Do black women marry down?and much more...Subscribe to Youtube channel Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 20. "Baby Contracts"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 57:07


    On this episode we discuss:- Is Dababy cancelled- PJ Washington paying 200K a month is child support- Boosie can't get his old IG page back- Do you trust your girl to go OT with her hoe friends?- Tokyo Olympics- How do you feel about apologies?- and much more....Make sure you subscribe on Youtube and follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecure

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 19."Glizzy and Noodles"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2021 53:41


    On this episode we discussed:Do you fall in love with the lifestyle before you fall in love?Do you judge potential partners on their social media content?Are you still friends with ex and can your partner still be friends with their ex?Would you rather find out you got cheated on before you get married or before the baby shower?Are you okay with someone else paying for the date you are on with someone else?and much more....Make sure you subscribe on Youtube and follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecure

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 18." Is there a such thing as unconditional?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2021 56:40


    On this episode we discuss:what conversations are important before you get into a relationship?how long would you support a woman who is not working?is there a such thing as unconditional love?would you delete your social media for your partner?Make sure you subscribe and follow the team@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial@wereallynotthatsecure

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 17 "Bring a Friend"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 51:14


    On this episode we discuss:would you get your side chick a joint account?is there a specific amount of time you should wait to have sex?have you ever cheated in your own bed or would you?single women keeping their friends singleand much more....Make sure you subscribe on YoutubeFollow the crew@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 16 " The Block List"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2021 62:03


    On this episode we discuss:- If a woman went through your phone and went through your block list would be mad?- if you know she cheated on her last relationship for you could you cuff her?- do you only have a close friends to hide things from your partner?- is it harder for men or women to meet expectations?- should birthday behavior be excused?- should you date if youre broke?- is future pettey bringing up Lori Harvey in song?- and much more...Make sure you subscribe on Youtube:  We Really Not That SecureFollow the crew:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 15. "I Been Sorry"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 49:54


    On this episode we discuss:- mental health awareness month- shorties who get their body done vs people who got the PPP loan- do women cater to men?- what does happy wife, happy life mean?- are you expecting head on the first date?- Kwame brown vs the world- and much more...Make sure you Subscribe to the Youtube channelFollow the hosts:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 14. "Drinking Might Lead To Bad Activity"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 58:33


    On this episode we discuss:- is monogamy a thing of the past?-when is the last time you cheated?- best coping mechanism after a heartbreak- how much money does a man have to make for a woman to except her role as a side chick?- J Cole album review- Gary Owens wife asking for $44k a month in spousal support- Lamar Odom ex claiming they are facing eviction because of unpaid child supportMake sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 13. " Who Else Got The PPP"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 53:10


    On this episode we discuss:- PPP loans for fake businesses - if you met the woman of your dreams how many of your ways would you change- would you tell your friend if you knew their partner wasn't shit- men wanting to watch their wife get it in with someone else- and much more...Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 12. "Blessed to be or Blessed to pay a fee"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 52:00


    On this episode we discuss:- If you had one super power what would it be?- name 5 things that irritate you - should a woman have all guy friends?- and much more...Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 11. "Ed, Eddie, and Leon lol

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 55:35


    On this episode we discuss:- is hot girl summer over?- Kevin Samuels rates Saweetie a 6 out of 10- dm etiquette - sending meat mail lol- and much more...Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 10. "Meals And The Box"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 59:37


    On this episode we discuss:- when do you know your too comfortable in a relationship?- what are your expectations in the dating phase?- Deshaun Watson trial- George Floyd trial- and much more...Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 9. " The Blue Rhino"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 51:22


    On this episode we discuss:- false allegations- Paul Pierce fired- do you believe in closure- women saying they wish they could choose they baby daddies- and much more....Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 8. "She gon let me cheat respectfully"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 54:27


    On this episode we discuss:- cheating respectfully- Quavo and Saweetie elevator situation- when is your hoe title erased- theybies- are you running red lights- do you inspect your shits?- and much more...Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube Channel: "We Really Not That Secure"Follow the team:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficial

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 7 "Oh You Like Poppa Dock"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2021 47:30


    On this Episode we discuss:-Derrick Jaxn situation-would you be comfortable with women getting a massage from another man?- If you are out with your girl and her friends are you buying for everyone?- how do you handle conflict with family, friends, and your significant other?- and more......Make sure you subscribe to the Youtube channel and follow us for more content:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@bigguyofficialYoutube: We Really Not That Secure

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 6. " Saweetie Ain't That Sweet"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2021 61:26


    We Really Not That Secure Episode 5. "You ain't no lion, you a leopard"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 41:33


    We Really Not That Secure Episode 4. "Shiddddddd am I trippin?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 52:35


    We Really Not That Secure Episode 4. On this episode we will be discussing what men really want in women, when is it okay for men to cry, and is it time for men to stop asking for hair dye at the barbershop. We will also be discussing if your woman will still respect you if you lose a fight in front of her and more...Make sure you subscribe and Share:Youtube: WereallynotthatsecureInstagram: @wereallynotthatsecureFollow the crew:@ecruse_official@__bigguy__@lakecityfresh

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 3. "Halle Throwing That Check"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2021 21:17


    On this episode of "We Really Not That Secure", we are discussing Halle Berry paying $16k in child support. We ask how many kids are too many kids. Has a woman ever asked you to bring food home for the kids on the first date? And plenty more...Make sure you subscribe and Share:Youtube: We really Not That SecureInstagram:@wereallynotthatsecureFollow The Other Guyz:@ecruse_official@lakecityfresh@__bigguy__

    We Really Not That Secure Episode 2. " You Heard B. Simone"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 22:58


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