Dirty Dishes

Two topics today are surrogacy and postpartum. April is infant loss and awareness month. Tiffany's story is touching, educational, and heartfelt. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Friendships are hard. Do they like me? Can I trust them? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

I'm coming back --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

My thyroid has reared its head again. The exhaustion is at an all-time high. Surgery is looming, and I must take a break --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Matthew Perry's book is amazing. I felt the realness in his story. I felt touched by the story personally. Addiction isn't just a gutter somewhere. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Recently after receiving criticism I had to step back and evaluate my own behavior. It's not easy buy it's worth it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Another round of things I don't understand.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Being honest is difficult for some. Speaking our truth can feel daunting. Holding back on the truth can damage our relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Breaking generation cycles is hard enough. When we break out, we may feel like the odd person out. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

I held grudges. I thought it was them, not me, but I had to examine my own insecurities. My own emotions --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Today was rough. Nothing went according to plan. Enjoy the mess. I say bask in it. You may hear my husband talking....bonus ha! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Plan for money. Financial planning is right at the beginning of the year. Listen for tips and ideas

Taking this hiatus gave me the opportunity to step back and focus on a health scare. Life changes us, and our course sometimes --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

I am taking some time away to refresh myself and deal with some health issues. I'm looking forward to 2024! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The Holidays are coming and so is family time. Maybe we're alone with no one to share the day with. There are so many reasons this season is stressful. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

We're unsure about a relationship, a friendship, or a family member. We overthink or fret about the details. We don't always understand why we're feeling this way, then they respond to us in a way that reveals everything. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

They have it all, they seem happy, they're so successful what made them....I've heard it and I'm sure you have to. Addiction is a battle all its own. And while things look nice on the outside, the internal battle rages on. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The hair on the back of your neck stands up. Is it a cooling sensation or something more? You see something out of the corner of your eye, but you're not sure. I spoke my friend who has investigated paranormal activity to help me understand the process and those times when I get that feeling.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Ghosts aren't just for the spooky season they can creep up on us in the form of regret or past mistakes. It's important to remember how far we've come. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

This episode is moving and timely with the month of October being pregnancy loss awareness. Surrogacy is the topic we touch on. Yessenia explains her why with surrogacy and explains her journey with her own loss. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The power of knowing you can stand in your own power. Being single isn't a failure or issue with you. Knowing yourself and your needs is power. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

An article prompted this episode. To say that music and a movie has increased divorce is sad and startling. The end of the article stated it's not a sad thing but the next chapter. I'm not so sure because I was sad. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Perfection doesn't exist, but some are looking for a person who has it all. If perfection doesn't exist, why do we discredit relationships or people we date? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

A lot of my friends are ready to walk away from their spouses. We decide to try harder, or we pack up and go. I am going through a huge shift myself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

It's hard to authentic. It's hard to say I'm struggling. I don't understand life right now. I had a great experience with a friend, and we were so open and honest! It's was refreshing. Please don't mind the cats and my cold during this recording. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The book The 80/80 Marriage has opened up conversation regarding my own marriage. It touched on the types of marriage we may think it works or it's an outdated concept. This had opened up discussions and brought to light areas of improvement. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Learning about ourselves isn't easy. Understanding addiction or abuse of any substance, food, or drink is hard to comprehend by many. There needs to be support and understanding. We all have baggage, some hide it better. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Not the store! The gap in marriage with our partners. The group of men in their late 30s and older. I've struggled in my own marriage with my spouse hanging on to gender roles. He was raised with a mom that was around to help with every task. I work and so does he....there's a gap in responsibility. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

I never thought of being disillusioned in my marriage. I was angry for sure. Nothing I said or did seemed to stop the arguments. I had become resided to the fact that this relationship was sinking. Then I read about disillusionment and how we see all the flaws of our partner and all the errors they make. Are you disillusioned? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Finding your simplicity. The things that bring you peace and calm. Lifting a weight off yourself and finding a way back to the core of you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Turing 40 changed my thinking. I no longer wanted to go with the trend. I deep dived into simplicity, and it's totally worth it! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Time doesn't stop. We work hard yet debate taking time off. We need to take time away to refocus and enjoy life. We buy things with our time, not money. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Where we come from matters, not just geography. Our family. Our lives before our partners. Exploring that person and what their family values are is key to seeing your partners roots or background. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Independence is underrated. We can place value on our relationship status, whether it's marriage or a simple relationship. We must value our Independence enough to walk away from a relationship that isn't healthy or isn't what meets our needs. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Do kids ruin marriage? Some might think so when things start to fall apart after having kids. When it seems as though you can't get along and agree. It's stressful. Let's evaluate. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

It's tough when you don't like expressing the hardships in life. You've been hurt by people close to you. Maybe even jaded. The power of being vulnerable and releasing ourselves to others can help. Will you express yourself? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

You are responsible for your choices. You are responsible for what happens day in and day out. Sometimes, as women, we get caught in a cycle of rescuing others. It's okay to say NO! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The impact, the aftermath. The hurricane of emotions after the attempt. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Trigger warning!!! There is a discussion about suicide. This may trigger or bring up unpleasant emotions. I am not a therapist or physician. This episode deals with emotions related to suicide. This is my experience and my view. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

They seemed so happy, and I heard this sentiment a lot. Instagram and social media portray a different story. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The art staying busy and forgetting our troubles may seem like a good idea or excuse, but it can actually hurt us. If we're not dealing with our emotions and staying busy to forget or not feel, we're doing a disservice to ourselves. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

We can weigh ourselves or others down. Or we can lift people up. Ballon or Brick. Life events change us. Shape us. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

All life has to offer its confusing at times. I needed to step back to get my focus and create content that I felt was valuable and not stagnant. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Life is getting a little calmer. I'm ready to share this new chapter in my life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

I'm taking a step back, which isn't easy. I created this podcast during covid. It was something I wanted to try. I wanted to lend my voice to anyone struggling. Ive decided to step back to the rest of this month and see what may brings. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

For me, the media had become misguided in their approach to social media. Posting an emoji for a headline on social media instead of an actual headline is off-putting. Tell me the headline. I feel like it's more about traffic on your page than the actual story. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Being vulnerable is hard. It can hurt us to be sad, and we may want to escape. Don't hit the escape hatch, talk to your partner or spouse. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

Grief is hard. Marriage is hard. When they collide, it can bring a lot issues with it. If our marriage or relationship was having problems before it can intensify them. You're not alone, grief can be worked through. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

It's awards season. The red carpet. Fashion fly through! My passion is to pass the time before spring. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

The chair was empty. No parent attending tonight. The child is searching for that support and love. I encourage parents not to leave the chair empty. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support

It's hard to speak our truth. It's hard when we hear the voice that says they won't like me or I'm nagging. There's room for honesty. Let's make room. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jo351/support