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Donisha and J.L. talk relationship, living and loving as a Millennial couple.

Donisha and J.L.


    • Apr 20, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
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    • 63 EPISODES


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    Episode 412: What's Next for the Woodsons?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 65:10


    In this episode we discuss some of our plans for the remainder of the year!!! Check in and see all the fun stuff we have planned!!! Follow us on Instagram: @thewoodsonway @ifitisntlovepodcast @donisharhnae @jlwoodson

    Episode 411: My Body Autonomy Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 56:46


    Weeee'reeeee back! It's another week in the Woodson household and we're happy to bring you all another episode! On this week's episode we discuss the hullabaloo surrounding the Oscars - from our Auntie Angela Bassett being snubbed to Ciara's on theme after party dress. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @thewoodsonway and @ifitisntlovepodcast

    Episode 410: Soulmates to Workmates

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 57:07


    On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and JL discuss what it's like to become business partners during their first year of marriage. How do they balance work and relationship? Who's really the boss? Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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    Episode 409: Marriage Be Hard - The Conclusion

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2023 70:25


    Welcome to another week of our podcast!!! We are finishing up our reading and review of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. We definitely recommend this book. Check out this latest episode to get our thoughts on the lessons shared. Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 408: MBH - Self-Worth Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 71:09


    On this week's episode - Donisha and JL continue on in the conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks. Follow us Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway Follow JL - @jlwoodson Follow Donisha - @donisharhnae --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 407: MBH - Divorce Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 67:03


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue on with their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks. Follow on Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway Follow Donisha: @donisharhnae Follow JL: @jlwoodson --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 406: MBH - Quarantine Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 77:38


    On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L discuss Chapter 9 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. Quarantine in the time of Covid-19 was a struggle in so many ways, and relationships of all kinds took a hit. Donisha and J.L discuss how quarantine effected their relationship after just 3 months of living together. Follow Us on Instagram: @ifitisntlove and @thewoodsonway Follow Donisha: @donisharhnae Follow J.L: @jlwoodson --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 405: MBH - Parenting Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 74:51


    On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on in their dissection of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks with a conversation around parenting. The book's discussion took a different direction than what Donisha and JL expected, but it did lead to some fun storytelling and conversations on what kind of parent's the couple things they will be. Follow on Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast @thewoodsonway FOLLOW DONISHA RHNAE - @donisharhane (Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook) FOLLOW J.L WOODSON - @jlwoodson (Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 404: MBH - Fighting Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 104:51


    Donisha and J.L continue on their deep dive and review of New York Times Best selling book Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. This episode gets real REAL as the two look into their own fighting style and decide if they really fight fair. This full video episode is available on their YouTube channel - @thewoodsonway22 Follow us on IG @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway FOLLOW DONISHA @donisharhnae FOLLOW J.L @jlwoodson --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 403: MBH - Fidelity Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 116:43


    Welcome back to another episode! We are continuing our journey with Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. In this week's episode we're discussing the issue of fidelity in marriage. Join us in this conversation! Follow us online - @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 402: MBH - Marital Roles Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 133:10


    On this week's episode, we resume our conversation around the New York Times Best Selling Book - Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fdricks. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 401: And a Happy Woodson New Year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2023 71:18


    Happy New Year Everyone!!!! The Woodsons are baaaaaack!!!! We're so excited for 2023 as we have some fun new endeavors as individuals and as a married couple! Tune in to see what we have planned in this new year! Follow Us: Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway YouTube: @TheWoodsonWay --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 314: MBH - Jealousy Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 72:52


    On this week's episode - we discuss Chapter 4 of Marriage Be Hard by Kevin and Melissa Fredricks! Check out our episode to listen to our thoughts! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 313: MBH - Sex Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 75:56


    In this week's episode, Donisha and J.L continue on their journey with the Marriage Be Hard book with Chapter 3 - Sex Be Hard (badumboom). Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 312: MBH - Communication Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 87:27


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation around the book Marriage Be Hard written by New York Times best selling authors Kevin and Melissa Fredricks. We discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships and what some of our communication struggles are. Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 310: MBH - Expectations Be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 77:02


    On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L. discuss Chapter 1 (Expectations Be Hard) of the New York Times Bestseller, "Marriage Be Hard: 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning with Your Partner," by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks. Make sure to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 310: What is the Going Rate for Coochie?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 76:39


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the most recent uproar about a man cancelling his female companion's plane ticket after she didn't agree to sex with him. Make sure to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 309: Wanna Play a Game?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 61:04


    On this week's episode of the podcast, Donisha and J.L. play a fun game of "Would You Rather?" Check out our website: https://ifitisntlovepodcast.com Follow us on Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Follow us on Facebook - @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 308: "V" is for Vabbing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 60:06


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL dive deep (pun intended) into some hot topics about vaginas! And whew it's a doozy! Follow us on Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 307: The Blueprint

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 62:17


    A change is gon come! On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss some major career changes and how they are working both together and separately on this new journey. Don't forget to follow: Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter: @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 306: Black Like We Never Left

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 31:19


    We're baaaaaaack....AGAIN! Look y'all, life be life-ing! But so much has happened, including OUR WEDDING! The Woodson's are here officially! Come catch up with us to see how the married life is treating us. We have new socials: Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast and @thewoodsonway TikTok: @thewoodsonway --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 305: Urgent Like a Mutha

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 56:29


    On this week's episode, we recap our Valentine's Day and JL's 36th birthday celebration! Donisha finally saw the movie Love Jones and we talk about how it holds up in the 2022 of things! Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 304: Sorry to That Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 58:56


    On this week's episode of the podcast, we discuss the newest documentary scandal - The Tinder Swindler. Make sure to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 303: Cheating Respectfully?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 55:50


    It's Wednesday so you know what that means - new podcast episode! On this week's episode we discuss cheating. Can you do it respectfully? Is it ever the other person's fault? Lean in, listen and let us know what you think! Be sure to follow us on Instagram and YouTube @IfItIsntLovePodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 302: What About Your Friends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 59:27


    This week's episode is all about friendships and the boundaries within our friendships. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 301: Do You Want a Resolution?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 55:44


    Happy New Year listeners! It's 2022 and we are taking our time getting into this year so we can do this right! On our first episode of the year, we discuss our new year's resolutions and goals for 2022! What are your goals? Make sure to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 227: It's Not Goodbye

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2021 39:53


    On this week's episode, we have a VERY important announcement for all our listeners! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 226: Breaking the Ice

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2021 64:10


    On this week's episode of the podcast we play a fun round of ice breaker questions. Take a listen to see what we learn about one another. Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 225: Minding My Black Business

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2021 64:17


    Thanks for being patient with us while we took a few weeks off to handle some business. Speaking of which, on this week's episode we discuss the entrepreneurial journey and the pros and cons versus more traditional employment. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram on @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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    Episode 224: Money Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 64:21


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss their journey to getting their finances in order as they prepare to enter into marriage. Check out the episode and let us know what you think! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 223: Bringing Home the Bacon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2021 58:44


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss traditional relationship roles and their place in modern society. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 222: Body-ody-ody-ody Image

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 66:13


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss body issues and how it's showing up in their lives. Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 221: Karens Gone Wild!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2021 81:06


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss the rampant slew of Karen's that have been on the prowl this week! Make sure you're following us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 220: I Don't Belong Here - Imposter Syndrome

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2021 81:44


    In this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss imposter syndrome and how it has shown up in their lives. Follow us @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 219: Here's the Line - Don't Cross It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 77:46


    This week Donisha and JL discuss setting boundaries and what steps they are taking to have more fulfilled lives. Follow us on Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 218: Fiancé

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2021 66:37


    Guess what y'all? WE'RE GETTING MARRIED!!!! In this week's episode we discuss our proposal story and how our engagement is going so far. Follow us on social media: Instagram: @ifitisntlovepodcast Facebook: @IfItIsntLovePodcast Twitter: @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 217: Health is Wealth - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2021 62:31


    Join Donisha and JL this week as we inadvertently discuss health again. It was supposed to just be an opening topic, but here we are. Check us out! Also don't forget to follow us on social media: Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 216: Health is Wealth

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2021 59:40


    This week, Donisha and JL discuss their new journey in taking better care of themselves. Follow us on social media: Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 215: Holy Moly!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2021 76:50


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL discuss how religion has influenced their lives and how they plan to incorporate religion in their future. Follow us! Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Facebook- @IfItIsntLovePodcast Twitter - @ifitiisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 214: Well DAMN, That Sucks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 67:51


    This week Donisha and JL discuss dealing with disappointment. We've all been there, but what do we do when life gives us lemons and we can't seem to find the sugar to make lemonade? Join in on the conversation. Follow us on social media: Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 213: Dating Disaters

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2021 77:34


    On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L talk about dating disasters - clearly before they started dating one another. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 212: Great Expectations - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 71:59


    On this week's episode, Donisha and JL continue their conversation on relationship expectations. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 211: Great Expectations - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 86:51


    This week Donisha and JL discuss what their expectations are in a healthy relationship. The conversation got so good we had to split it into two parts. Follow us! Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 210: If the Monogamy Doesn't Fit; You Must Aquit

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 61:15


    This week Donisha and JL completely divert from the intended weekly topic and instead dive into celebrity couple gossip that has been flooding Twitter. Questions discussed: Is monogamy the way to go? Do all men cheat? Would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught? Join the discussion! And don't forget to follow us - Facebook and Instagram @ifitisntlovepodcast and Twitter @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 209: Diabetes Made Me Do It

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2021 59:51


    This week, Donisha and JL discuss hot topics including cussing out your children, diabetes induced racism and Grammys so Black! Follow us on social media: Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 208: New Place, Who Dis?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2021 61:17


    Hey guys! We're finally moved and ready! Check out today's episode where we update you on all of our updates! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 207: Better Late Than Never

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 70:49


    We missed a week because Texas decided to dress up as the North Pole. Then we moved so we never got around to uploading this episode. But like the title said - better late than never. We'll be back on track next Wednesday. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 206: All Holidays Matter

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 62:38


    In this week's episode we discuss Valentine's Day and holidays overall. Follow us on social media: Facebook - @IfItIsntLovePodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 205: Double Tap That A$$

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 86:08


    On this week's episode of "If It Isn't Love" Donisha and JL discuss social media and it's impact on relationships. Follow us on social media! Facebook - @ifitisntlovepodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 204: That's a Weird Question!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2021 67:33


    This week we tried to make the episode a little light-hearted and played a game of "weird relationship questions" - thanks Google! Don't forget to follow us on social media! Facebook - @ifitisntlovepodcast Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 203: Now You're Speaking My (Love) Language

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2021 65:51


    On this week's episode, Donisha and J.L. explore Love Languages and how to strengthen their relationship by loving one another like they need to be loved. Follow If It Isn't Love on social media: Instagram - @ifitisntlovepodcast Facebook - @ifitisntlovepodcast Twitter - @ifitisntlovepo1

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