Stepmom Wisdom Tips

In this episode, we're diving into some key aspects of our unique role as a stepmother: The Role and Recognition of a Stepmom: We talk about the struggles of many stepmoms who don't feel acknowledged for the motherly roles they play and the importance of recognition coming from your partner. Role Model Mode: We focus on the essence of being a stepmom - setting positive examples for the children. More than the semantics, it's about the impact you're making in their lives. Grace Under Pressure: We reflect on the importance of handling challenging situations with grace and dignity, a key part of being a stepmom. Ignoring Stereotypes, Embracing Impact: We delve into the importance of overlooking societal labels and focusing on the positive influence you have on your stepchildren's lives. Brenda Ockun, founder and publisher of StepMom Magazine—the how-to guide for any woman who dates, lives with, or is married to someone who has kids, and a fellow stepmom, shares her wisdom on these areas. We also discuss the importance of partner support, and how your grace under pressure, your responses, and actions are observed and valued by your stepchildren. If you found this episode helpful, do share it with other stepmoms in need of encouragement and subscribe for more insightful episodes. You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts or your preferred podcast platform, which helps us serve you better. For more support and guidance, check out my book, "The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries," available in paperback, ebook, and audio formats. Feel free to reach out through our website or social media channels to share your challenges, feedback, or topics you'd like covered in future episodes. Thank you for joining the Stepmom Wisdom Circle. Remember, you're valued, seen, and doing a wonderful job. Until next time, continue setting positive examples and shining your light. Take care!   Links Mentioned in this podcast: StepMom Magazine   Claudette Chenevert – The Stepmom Coach  The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries   The Ultimate Stepfamily Summit   

Hi, and welcome to the Stepmom Wisdom Circle! I'm thrilled to announce that we're relaunching the podcast with a fresh new sound and even more insightful and practical content to empower your stepmom journey. The Stepmom Wisdom Circle podcast is a heartfelt, enlightening, and practical guide for stepmoms navigating the unique challenges of blended family dynamics. Hosted by a seasoned stepmom and professional coach with over three decades of experience, this podcast provides a supportive space for stepmoms to explore their roles, build strong relationships, and foster harmonious families. From candid discussions on setting boundaries and managing conflict, to invaluable advice on communication and self-care, the Stepmom Wisdom Circle empowers stepmoms with wisdom, empathy, and tools they need to thrive. Tune in for relatable stories, expert insights, and transformative strategies that will inspire you on your stepmom journey.   Check out my website at www.StepMomCoach.com to learn more about what I'm doing and upcoming events that benefit all stepfamilies around the world.   

What's missing in your stepfamily? If you're in a stepfamily, you may feel as if something is missing. You can't put it into words yet, but you know it's a problem. Maybe you're new to this. Maybe not. Still, everything from badly-behaved exes to parenting rifts causes squabbling that disrupts the harmony in your home. The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries helps you thrive despite rocky relationships, schedule snafus, and more. Stepmom Magazine Contributor and Master Certified Stepfamily Coach Claudette Chenevert provides clear explanations, humorous insights and exercises to help you pave a path to healthier boundaries and more enforceable House Rules—for your own version of the white-picket-fence dream. You can find the full unabridged copy of The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries on most audiobook sellers or on www.StepmomCoach.com/Shop About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it's like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com  Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook Facebook Group Stepmom Supporting Stepmoms  Twitter  Instagram  Pinterest Linked In  YouTube

What do you say to a child when you’re about to separate or get a divorce? Books are often a great way to help children understand complex issues such as these. But where do you find them? On today’s podcast, I’ll be talking with Rachel Brace, an author and psychologist who works with children, adolescents and their parents/caregivers who are in situations of family conflict, separation and divorce. Rachel has a keen interest in stepfamilies and in working with and supporting parents, stepparents and co-parents who are adjusting to shared care arrangements. Rachel’s previous work experience includes nine years with the Australian Family Law Courts as a Court appointed psychologist/Family Consultant. Since 2014 Rachel has been consulting privately in Sydney, providing Single Expert services in Family Law matters as well as therapeutic support to parents, children and young people facing transition, loss, growth and change. Originally from New Zealand, Rachel now lives in Sydney with her family. In this podcast, we’ talking about: How children perceive separation and divorce The losses these children experience When to talk about separation and divorce to our children How to help the children deal with their emotions in healthy ways To learn more about Rachel and her books, go to www.kinshipbooks.com and read her blog at Stepping Through  About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com  Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook Facebook Group Stepmom Supporting Stepmoms   Twitter  Instagram  Pinterest Linked In  YouTube

What would you give to not have your kids or stepkids argue, fight or resist going to bed every night? I remember when our kids were young, there were times when it seemed to take forever to have them go to bed, let alone fall asleep. Bedtime meant alone time for me and my husband not to mention the health benefits of our kids, making sure they had enough sleep. On Today’s podcast, I’m talking with Brook Packard, a writer, musician and an early childhood educator who created the Sleepytime Club which makes bedtime simple for families, helping parents reclaim their evenings. She believes bedtime is the first, best habit; a moment of grace to us every single night; and that we can change the world for the better by using this time to care for ourselves and our families and communities.  You can learn more about Brook at sleepytimeclub.com. About Claudette Chenevert About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com  Social Media #stepmomcoach FacebookFacebook Group Stepmom Supporting Stepmoms  Twitter Instagram PinterestLinked In YouTube

Have you ever felt like your partner may be interacting with his kids out of guilt or maybe even shame because of the breakup of the family? Do you feel he might be compensating for not being with his kids 24/7 by being a Disney Dad? On today’s podcast, I’ll be talking with Tracy Poizner, a stepmom of 14 years, an alternative healthcare professional and a fellow podcaster of her weekly Essential Stepmom show, who will share her perspective on why dads behave the way they do.  Tracy is the host of the weekly Essential Stepmom podcast, now being heard in 48 countries worldwide. She offers unconventional advice and inspiration for what she calls The Womanly Art of Raising Someone Else's Kids.  As a stepmom for 14 years, and an alternative healthcare professional for over 20 years, she has a special perspective on emotional healing and how to balance our personal needs as stepmoms with the requirements of this challenging lifestyle. Tracy's website is essentialstepmom.com. Download Tracy's free offer 3 Secrets of Successful Stepmoms: a free pdf guide. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert    

Having a baby is one of the most precious event a woman can go through. It’s life changing.  But when you're faced with postpartum depression, that joy can be taken away from you and the family. Postpartum is a topic that not many women care to talk about. It seems so unmotherly. Yet as Leslie McKeough, a licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in postpartum adjustment and perinatal loss shared with us, close to 90% of women today will suffer some form of postpartum depression. Leslie's approach combines support, education and counseling.  She often works with women and their partners in the recovery process as postpartum difficulties affect the whole family.  She also has several years experience working with adolescents and families. If you or someone you know suffers from postpartum depression, go to www.corevalu.com or visit https://www.postpartum.net/ to find out where you can get help today. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

Do you feel like your stepkids or the ex have done you wrong and you have a hard time letting go? Are you feeling bitter and resentful at how your life is turning out? Maybe it's time to think about forgiveness. Forgiveness is not about letting the others walk all over you, or to let them get away with their bad behaviors or action. For starters, forgiveness is letting go of the pain and sting that the person's actions have done against you. Forgiveness is an act of self love. Forgiving another person is probably one of the hardest things we might ever have to do. If you're in a place where you are tired of feeling the wait of the anger and resentment on your shoulders, this is the show for you. Taylor Tagg is the author of the book "The Path To A Peaceful Heart" and a Forgiveness Educator and Facilitator at The Midwest Institute for Forgiveness Training To learn more about Taylor Tagg and his work, visit his website at www.theevolvingheart.com    About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

For many stepmoms, Mother's Day is a difficult day for them. It's a reminder that the man they love has kids with another woman, whom the kids call mom and often want to spend the day with her. Most likely, you do a lot for your stepkids, just like a regular mom. The only difference, is you get not recognition or appreciation for what you provide to the family.  In this podcast, I share my very first Mother's Day as a stepmom and how, with each passing year, my relationship with my stepdaughters got better.  How are you planning on celebrating this Mother's Day? What are some of your challenges and struggles attached to this day? Leave a comment below and I'll gladly respond. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

Your stepchild comes home with a smartphone, one that you didn't approve of. What are some of the things you can do to help your kids stay safe will taking on the responsibility or technology. During our interview, Lisa shared some great resources that we want to share with you: The book "iRules" by Janelle Burley Hoffman which shows one Mom's technology contract that went viral. It's a great read!  https://www.amazon.com/iRules-Tech-Healthy-Selfies-Sexting-Growing/dp/1623363527 Janelle's iRules website makes creating your own customized tech contract easy http://www.irules.co/builder/ Wait before 8th Facebook page (a movement to wait until 8th grade to give kids a smartphone) https://www.facebook.com/waituntil8th/ If you enjoyed this audio, please share it with your family and friends. We'd love to hear your thoughts and comments as well.   About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert Lisa Honold is an Online Safety Advocate who is passionate about keeping kids safe online. She teaches parents, educators and organizations how to be the guard rails on the information superhighway by setting up boundaries for kids online. She's a positive discipline parent educator and is in-the-trenches as a parent to three digital natives of her own. You can find her at www.ParentingDigitalNatives.comhttps://www.facebook.com/ParentingDigitalNatives/

There's been talk of challenges of the type of MoMo that may or may not appear on children's videos. During our conversation, Claudette and Lisa discuss the dangers of online challenges and ways to keep your children safe.   Let us know what you thought of our interview or if you have any comments or questions for us. Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent.   About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert Lisa Honold is an Online Safety Advocate who is passionate about keeping kids safe online. She teaches parents, educators and organizations how to be the guard rails on the information superhighway by setting up boundaries for kids online. She's a positive discipline parent educator and is in-the-trenches as a parent to three digital natives of her own. You can find her at www.ParentingDigitalNatives.comhttps://www.facebook.com/ParentingDigitalNatives/

When it comes to online safety, it's important to be on the same page. What happens if you and your ex can't get along? Lisa and Claudette share tips to help you be on the same page. The first circle Lisa talks about is on aligning as parenting partners and on family values. To read more about Lisa's Five Circles of Online Safety, go to https://parentingdigitalnatives.com/circles-of-safety/  Who are Claudette and Lisa? About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert Lisa Honold is an Online Safety Advocate who is passionate about keeping kids safe online. She teaches parents, educators and organizations how to be the guard rails on the information superhighway by setting up boundaries for kids online. She's a positive discipline parent educator and is in-the-trenches as a parent to three digital natives of her own. You can find her at www.ParentingDigitalNatives.com https://www.facebook.com/ParentingDigitalNatives/

With Lisa Honold and Claudette Chenevert  I’ll admit, I “spied" on our kids while they lived in our home, especially during their teen years. There was nothing fun or exciting about snooping on what our kids did on the internet (which by today's standards would be seen as primitive), going through their stuff to make sure they weren’t doing anything illegal or immoral.  This was one area where my husband and I strongly disagreed on whether it was OK for me to spy on our kids or not. And he’s not the only one. Recently, I asked my Facebook followers if they spied on their kids and the responses were from Absolutely to Never and everything in between.  Now if I changed the word from spying to monitoring, then the response was different. Even my husband was more on board with the thought of monitoring our kids and seeing this as being responsible parents.  So what’s the difference between spying and monitoring? Lisa and I talk about this in our video and what best tools to use to help you monitor your children without being invasive.   Here's the 20% discount for Bark code https://www.bark.us/signup?ref=PS3PQDK About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert   #bark #boundary #stepmomcoach #thestepmomcoach #lisahonold #trust #stepmomwisdom #stepfamily #stepmom #stepmomhelp #spying #monitoring 

Celebrating all day long the amazing women that help up make a difference in our world, encourage and embrace gender equality, and teach others what that looks like. Here is a video that two of my colleagues and I created, sharing our thoughts and wisdom about what Women's Day means to us. http://empowerthedream.com/intl-womens-day-2018-webinar/ #PressForProgress #IWD2018 #internationalwomensday #stepmom #stepmomcoach “Men are taught to apologize for their weaknesses, women for their strengths.”Lois Wyse For far too long, our societies have misappropriately fused sex with gender to the point of creating a hierarchy among the sexes. Boys are disciplined to present themselves as stoic, while girls are to portray themselves as emotional. Because of the association between emotionless and strength, and sensitivity and weakness, society often places men above women. Men are associated with strength, and women with weakness. And this has trickled down to the workforce. sports, schools, among other places. where girls and women alike are not as valued for their worth. It's changing, yes....slowly. How has this impacted our past, our future and what empowering ways can we show up and go forward as a whole society where our girls no longer feel less than?Like this Poscast? Share it with other that might need a pick-me-up or some inspiration as to how to be a stronger and healthier stepmom.  About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

Many stepmoms share they wished they had a better relationship with their stepkids but it's not happening. It can be hard for stepmoms when the stepkids are not interested in creating any type of relationship with them. This can be even more difficult if the stepmom has no support from her spouse or partner. So what's a stepmom to do? In this video, I explains a few reasons your stepkids might not want to bond with you as a stepmom and what you can do to start bridging that gap, one step at a time. I'd love to hear what are some of the struggles you have as a stepmom (or stepdad) and share in the comments below. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert "There is no manual on how to come together as a stepfamily." That may have been true at one time, but not anymore. Everything you are looking for to THRIVE in your relationships, you can find here. Come back often to see what new information I have for you. Better yet, just click the subscribe button and you will never miss another episode again.

Holidays! Not everyone enjoys them. Maybe you're dreading the holidays because you're sad that you won't be all together as a family. If you're feeling sandwiched between your parents and your kids, maybe you have a sense of guilt about where to be and where to put your focus. Nostalgia of how it used to be can bring up grief about what's no longer there. Whatever reason that might be that you're feeling down about this festive time, Claudette and Sharona want to share with you some tips to help you get through those holiday blues. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert Sharona ESThe Midlife Women Dancing With Changehttp://www.MidLifeWomenDancingWithChange.com "There is no manual on how to come together as a stepfamily." That may have been true at one time, but not anymore.Everything you are looking for to THRIVE in your relationships, you can find here. Come back often to see what new information I have for you. Better yet, just click the subscribe button and you will never miss another episode again.

There is so much advice out on the internet that it's hard to know what to listen to. Here are a few tips in helping you find your own way to being a stepmom. "There is no manual on how to come together as a stepfamily." That may have been true at one time, but not anymore. Everything you are looking for to THRIVE in your relationships, you can find here.Come back often to see what new information I have for you. Better yet, just click the subscribe button and you will never miss another episode again. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

Ever had someone get angry at you and then blame you for the way they felt? A while back, I did a video called " Before You Engage In An Argument With Your Spouse" and a viewer asked me what to do when your partner purposefully makes you angry. There are many reasons why we get angry. It can be because we're hungry, tired, overwhelmed or again we are angry because we feel hurt, afraid, alone. In this video, I shared my story of getting angry at my husband and our kids and what are some of the solutions to help you in these types of situation. "There is no manual on how to come together as a stepfamily." That may have been true at one time, but not anymore.Everything you are looking for to THRIVE in your relationships, you can find here. Come back often to see what new information I have for you. Better yet, just click the subscribe button and you will never miss another episode again. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

What's it like for dad and stepdads in a stepfamily? What are some of the struggles they face while trying to support their wives/girlfriends AND be a dad to their kids? On this episode, Claudette has a frank conversation with her husband Bernard about the struggles and challenges they've faced during their 21 years together. There is a lot of great information such as dealing with discipline, ex-spouses, being on the same page, and so on. Make sure to take notes during this content rich talk so that you may find ways to help you move forward. For additional help and information on how you can build and create stronger and healthier stepfamilies, go to www.stepmomcoach.com where you'll find plenty of free resources to get you started. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

Have you ever asked yourself why it's so hard to be a part of a stepfamily? How can you deal with the challenges that you face as a stepparent?In this audio, I share ideas and thoughts on how being more confident can actually help you be happier in your relationship with your spouse and your stepkids. In fact, I talk about 7 habits that confident people have that will make a difference in your life. If you'd like to learn more about being a confident stepmom, visit this e-course where you'll get great ideas as to ways to help you be happier in your life. Go to https://app.ruzuku.com/courses/16701/about  About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

If you're a stepmom, you know that it's not easy, no matter how you became a stepmom.Kim never thought it was going to be this challenging. She'd been newly married to her husband when she sought my help.  Listen to our conversation as Kim shares some of the struggles and challenges of becoming a stepmom and how she's doing now. If you're a stepmom and looking for help and support, go to www.stepmomcoach.com where you'll find plenty of resources to help to navigate the road to building a strong and healthy stepfamily. About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert

When you awake up in the morning and look in the mirror, do you start pointing out all that is "wrong" with you?  Are you comparing yourself with others, maybe the ex, your friends, co-workers, maybe even your siblings? In this episode, I have a conversation with Sharons ES from Midlife Women Dancing With Change about comparing ourselves to others and what it does to us. We also share our thoughts & suggestions of letting go of the concept of "What's Wrong With Me?" About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert  

National Stepfamily Day is Sept 16th and I’d love to talk to you about why it’s important to celebrate this special day and offer suggestions and ideas. Stepfamilies have come a long way since we first merged our families together in 1990. Back then, there was little information about support and advice in how to come together, understanding our roles as stepparents and dealing with exes and stepkids that weren’t welcoming of us. Today with the internet and social media, millions of stepmoms and stepdads around the world can search and reach out to other stepparents to get support and advice. Many have found comfort in knowing they are not alone or going crazy in their stepmom journey. When Christy Tusing Borgeld decided to start National Stepfamily Day in 1997, I don’t think she realized the impact she would have on the people that became stepfamilies.  She helped to bring us out of the shadows and to shine, to show that there are great people that become stepparents every single day. She inspired many, including myself, to promote and become advocates in creating positive images of steprelationships.   About Claudette Claudette Chenevert, known as The Stepmom Coach works with stepmoms who are struggling to create a cohesive family life. Claudette, a Master Certified Stepfamily Foundation Coach helps stepmoms build and create strong and healthy stepfamilies by helping stepmoms focus on what they want as a woman, a partner and a parent. Claudette has over 30 years of experience as a stepmom and 36 years as a mother. She understands what it’s like to be in your shoes and teaches the best strategies to make life as a stepmom more harmonious. Claudette offers online support groups, self-study stepmom programs, and one-on-one coaching. Claudette also writes for Stepmom Magazine, has a blog and speaks on parenting platforms.  Her book The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries: How and Where to Draw the Line --for a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily? is available on Amazon, https://amzn.to/2DawHnZ For more information of programs and service, go to https://www.stepmomcoach.com Social Media #stepmomcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stepmomcoach Twitter: https://twitter.com/stepmomcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stepmomcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/stepmomcoach/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stepmomcoach/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudetteChenevert