Podcasts about stepmoms

ResourcesClick here to schedule your FREE COACHING CALL239.  Feeling Responsible for Everyone? How Codependency Hinders Family Relationships and How to Heal [with Michelle Farris]To connect with Michelle Farris, CLICK HERE Episode 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued our Marriage and How We Finally Broke FreeSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callYou don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogetherSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Codependency can be tricky to recognize because it often looks like love, generosity, or “just trying to help.” But when our giving turns into fixing, rescuing, controlling, or sacrificing ourselves to earn love and approval, it can quietly create tension in our marriage, parenting, co-parenting, and stepfamily relationships.In this episode, we're joined by therapist Michelle Farris for a practical and hope-filled conversation about how codependency shows up in blended families and how to heal it. Michelle is a psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management specialist with a passion for helping people break free from toxic relationships. Her YouTube channel has over 3 million viewers, where she's known for her practical tips and expertise. She's written several ebooks and courses for creating relationships that work. Michelle helps us understand the difference between healthy care and over-functioning, why some parents struggle when their kids are hurting or moving between homes, and how our desire to protect or please can sometimes blur important relational boundaries.We also talk honestly about how codependency can impact the parenting partnership in a blended family. When a bio-parent feels caught between their child and spouse, the pressure can intensify. When a stepparent feels responsible for things they don't have authority over, resentment sets in.  But there is a healthier way forward. Michelle shares how couples can take small steps toward clearer boundaries, stronger self-awareness, and more secure connection without becoming rigid, reactive, or disconnected.If you've ever felt responsible for keeping everyone okay, struggled to set limits with your kids or ex, or wondered why you feel resentful after “helping,” this conversation will give you language, clarity, and hope.You'll Discover:The difference between being kind and being codependent How codependency can show up with your children, with an ex, or inside your marriage How over-functioning, fixing, rescuing, controlling, and people-pleasing can create ongoing resentment and disable others How to identify your non-negotiable boundaries without becoming rigid or reactive Three key areas of codependency and how you can move toward relational health and wellnessResources from this Episode:To connect with Michelle Farris, CLICK HERE Michelle's free guide: 7 Steps to Healing One Sided RelationshipsRelationships That Work with Michelle Farris (YouTube)Episode 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued our Marriage and How We Finally Broke FreeReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionYou don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogetherSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

What should a stepmom do when her stepkids are disrespectful?Few things trigger a stepmom faster than being ignored, talked back to, rolled eyes at, or treated like she doesn't matter. When you're already questioning your role in the family, disrespect from a stepchild can feel deeply personal—and it can quickly create resentment, frustration, and conflict in your marriage.In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives into one of the most common challenges stepmoms face: dealing with disrespectful stepkids. She explains why disrespect from stepkids often hurts more than people realize, how feelings of uncertainty and lack of belonging can amplify those interactions, and what stepmoms can do instead of reacting from anger or hurt.Whether you're dealing with eye rolls, backtalk, being ignored, or feeling completely unsupported, this episode will help you respond with confidence instead of resentment.If you've ever found yourself wondering whether your stepkids respect you—or if you've questioned whether you even belong in your family—this episode is for you.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Welcome back to Nikky After Dark, where we dive deep into your wildest, filthiest, and most honest confessions. I'm your host, Nikky, and tonight we're going full throttle on long-held fantasies, forbidden reunions, and zero-fucks-given dominance.Here are three dirty stories you'll hear in this episode:A shy 18-year-old senior walks in on his gorgeous 22-year-old Spanish teacher barefoot in class and spends years fantasizing about her — until he runs into her ten years later as the maid of honor at a wild bachelorette party. What follows is an unforgettable hotel suite night filled with foot worship, footjobs, squirting, audience teasing, and raw passionate sex while her drunk friends watch.A dominant man wakes up to his fiery redhead writing in bed and decides it's time to claim every single hole — taking her roughly in the shower, spanking her ass red, fucking her pussy, ass, and throat while making her taste herself and swallow every drop like a good cum slut.A 19-year-old catches his hot stepmom mid-vibrator session screaming for dick — then turns her into his personal ass-slut, spanks her red, and later enjoys a full outdoor threesome with her and the Italian maid under the stars… until his drunk buddy claps at the end.Stick around, because we've got even more where that came from — including a vivid mall sex dream, secret bisexual blowjobs after game night, and plenty of taboo power play.Join us over on Discord: https://discord.gg/uqqxsCSDfwSupport Nikky:Patreon: Unlock exclusive confessions, bonus thoughts, and steamy Q&As at Patreon.com/DearNikky. Join the inner circle for extra spice!Featured Release: Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You is out now! Dive deeper into the raw, unfiltered stories you love.Contact:Email: Nikky@dearnikky.comWebsite: DearNikky.com/confessionsSocials: Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162), Facebook (@DearNikky)Content Warning: This episode contains explicit sexual content, including graphic descriptions of teacher/student fantasy fulfillment, foot fetish play, squirting, anal sex, threesomes, public teasing, audience voyeurism, power exchange, rough dominant sex, creampies, and cum play. Stories are real listener confessions depicting enthusiastic consent. Listener discretion advised; 18+ only.Get Involved:Submit Your Story: Got a secret fantasy or steamy confession? Write to Nikky at Nikky@dearnikky.com or submit anonymously at DearNikky.com/confessions. By submitting, you certify you're 18+, the sole creator, and that your story avoids prohibited themes.Say Hello: Have a burning fantasy or just want to chat? Email Nikky@dearnikky.com or connect on Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162), or Facebook (@DearNikky).Support the Show: Love these private peeks into filthy lives? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Spreaker or your favorite platform to help new listeners discover the heat. Your support keeps the conversation sizzling!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dear-nikky-hidden-desires--6316414/support.

Anybody else look at the summer custody schedule and immediately feel their eye start twitching?

ResourcesEpisode 50. How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want Episode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and Clarity Episode 98. Is fear of being vulnerable keeping you from loving your spouse wholeheartedly?Episode 180. Break Free from Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and SecurityEpisode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 237. Communication Frustration?  Gain Powerful Tools & Insight to Help Reduce Conflict & Stay ConnectedSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callYou don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogetherSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Does setting boundaries make you immediately feel guilty?Do you finally decide to say no, ask for space, or stop carrying everyone else's emotions… and then immediately wonder if you're being selfish?You're not alone.In this episode, Alicia is diving into why boundaries can feel so uncomfortable—especially for stepmoms who are used to people pleasing, over-functioning, and carrying the emotional weight of everyone around them.If you've ever felt responsible for keeping the peace, fixing everyone's feelings, or making sure nobody is disappointed, this episode will help you understand why boundaries can feel "mean" even when they're healthy.You'll learn why guilt doesn't always mean you're doing something wrong, how people pleasing can quietly fuel resentment, and practical ways to start setting boundaries without feeling like the villain in your own home.Because boundaries aren't about pushing people away.They're about protecting your peace.Resources Mentioned:Download your free boundaries resource:Aliciakrasko.com/boundariesJoin The Stepmom Side Community:The Stepmom Side CommunitySupport the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Do Dads need to have the stepmom's back in disagreements with the stepkids?  The reasons why boundaries might feel different with stepkids vs bio kids How aligned do you need to be with your partner about family rules and boundaries?  Why are men scared to set boundaries with their ex?  How love can feel different for stepkids and biokids… and why that's okay.    Darren joins Jamie for another honest talk about these topics and more in this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast.    Check out The Stepmom Rebrand:                                                                                                              www.stepmomrebrand.com  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off  Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com

In this powerful new Nerdy Bitz: TL;DL titled “The Stepmom Trap,” The Reverend Tracy takes a deep dive into one of the most unfairly judged roles in modern family dynamics: the stepmother. Long before a stepmom even has the opportunity to build trust, bond with children, or find her place within a family, society often hands her a villain label wrapped in centuries of cultural baggage.Using the evolution of Hansel and Gretel as a striking example, The Reverend Tracy explores how the original versions of the fairy tale featured the children's biological mother as the parent responsible for abandoning them. Over time, however, later retellings transformed that mother into the now-infamous “evil stepmother,” helping cement one of the most enduring stereotypes in storytelling. From fairy tales to sitcoms to modern social media narratives, stepmothers have repeatedly been portrayed as cold, manipulative, jealous, or dangerous — and The Reverend Tracy examines how deeply those narratives still influence real families today.This episode also explores psychological and sociological studies surrounding blended families, including how unclear roles and unrealistic expectations can create emotional tension for everyone involved. Unlike biological parents, step parents often enter family systems without clearly defined boundaries, authority, or emotional security. The Reverend Tracy discusses how many stepmothers are expected to provide emotional labor, caregiving, and support while simultaneously being criticized for “trying too hard” or accused of overstepping. It's a no-win situation that leaves many step parents feeling isolated, hyper-analyzed, and emotionally exhausted.The Reverend Tracy also tackles the painful reality that genuine love and care from a step parent is often viewed through a lens of suspicion. Whether it's affection being questioned, discipline being scrutinized, or emotional closeness being treated as somehow artificial, step parents frequently face social distrust that biological parents rarely encounter. This episode unpacks the emotional toll of constantly being treated as temporary, secondary, or potentially harmful — even while showing up every day for the children they love.Blending personal insight, cultural analysis, psychology, and storytelling, “The Stepmom Trap” challenges listeners to rethink the stereotypes we casually accept and the damage those assumptions can cause inside blended families. It's an empathetic, thought-provoking conversation about family roles, emotional labor, identity, and the complicated realities of building connection in spaces where trust is often hardest to earn.Support Friends Talking Nerdy on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠.As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.Head to Friends Talking Nerdy's⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for more information on where to find us online.

Co-parenting conversations can escalate fast, especially when an ex is reactive, manipulative, dismissive, or unreasonable. It's tempting to defend yourself, fire back, or make a quick decision just to escape the pressure. But that kind of response rarely moves things forward, and it can leave kids carrying the emotional weight of adult conflict.In this episode, we share practical tools to help you communicate with an ex in a way that is calm, clear, and solution-focused. You'll learn our 5 A's Framework for navigating hard co-parenting conversations, along with strategies for handling pressure, staying grounded, and setting healthy boundaries with confidence.We also open up about a painful moment in our own blended family story, when Kim felt pressured by her ex into making a major decision before she had time to think clearly or consult with Mike. From that experience, we share what we wish we had known then, and how these tools can help you protect your marriage, create greater stability for your kids, and build more peace in your home.Be sure to grab the free downloadable worksheet for this episode to help you plan your next hard conversation and put these tools into practice.You'll Discover:Why reactive communication with an ex often fuels ongoing conflict How to use the 5 A's Framework for clearer, more cooperative co-parenting conversations Three strategies for handling pressure-filled moments with greater steadiness A simple tool for setting healthy boundaries with an ex How consistency can build trust, influence, and greater stability for your kidsResources from this Episode:CLICK HERE to grab your free co-parenting communication worksheetEpisode 211. 8 Warning Signs Your Ex is Manipulating Your Child's Heart and MindEpisode 218. How to Positively Influence You Kids' Character When Your Ex Undermines Your Values Episode 207.  4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules and How to Build Consistency  Episode 232. 5 Principles to Manage Contact Between Homes and Promote Your Child's WellbeingEpisode 229. The Heavy Burdens Kids Carry: Loyalty Binds, Parental Allegiance and How to HelpEpisode 175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between HomesEpisode 161. How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification [ with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the KidsEpisode 42. Our Challenging Story of Parental Alienation - and 6 Tips For YouEpisode 91. Is Your Husband's Hostile Ex-Wife Invading Your Life, Stealing Your Joy and Confidence?Episode 194. Powerful Tips for Effectively Connecting with Your Angry or Distant Child [with Amy J.L. Baker]Episode 226. How Two Homes Raise Kids That Thrive:  A Blueprint for Caring Parents [with Jay & Tammy Daughtry]Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Are you constantly chasing peace in your blended family… but secretly defining peace as “everything going perfectly”?In this episode, Alicia dives into one of the biggest mindset traps high-achieving stepmoms fall into: believing that peace and perfection are the same thing. From overthinking conversations to trying to control transition days, co-parenting dynamics, schedules, emotions, and everyone else's reactions, many stepmoms end up emotionally exhausted trying to create a version of family life that simply doesn't exist.If you've ever thought:“I'll relax when things settle down.”“If everyone would just cooperate, THEN I'd feel calm.”“Why can't I stop overthinking everything?”…this episode is for you.Alicia breaks down:Why so many stepmoms equate peace with perfectionHow childhood conditioning and high-achiever tendencies fuel perfectionismWhy blended families trigger hypervigilance and emotional burnoutThe difference between emotional control and emotional flexibilityHow to stop spiraling when conflict, stress, or awkward moments happenPractical mindset shifts to help you feel calmer and more grounded as a stepmomThis episode is a reminder that peace in a blended family does NOT come from everyone behaving perfectly. It comes from learning how to stay grounded when life gets messy.Because real peace?It's not perfection.It's resilience.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

On this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast Jamie chats with stepmom and content creator Savana Chapin, a woman who knows a thing or two about the realities of being a young stepmom.    We'll get into Savana's experience of becoming a stepmom at age 24 to a daughter who was 17, her tips for building a relationship with a teenage stepkid, the pros and cons of age gap marriages, navigating finances as a blended family, and how she deals with the hate she receives about her stepmom story online.    Follow Savana at @savana_chapin   Check out The Stepmom Rebrand:                                                                                                            www.stepmomrebrand.com  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase.

In the episode this week, Cath is joined by Colleen Adrian. Colleen is an author and a connected parenting coach for parents of sensitive spirited children. She's a Mom, a Stepmom, and a Grandma and lives on a small island on the west coast of Canada.Cath and Colleen talked about how Colleen has grown herself up in motherhood, how discovering neuroscience and better understanding her nervous system. And, why that of her child's shifted everything for her and how she continues to surrender to her journey. Colleen shared how astrology has supported her and how she tends to anxiety when it comes up.Colleen helps parents of sensitive spirited children who struggle with intense emotions, including anxiety, aggression, perfectionism, tantrums and rebellion. Through parent coaching, somatic therapy and online courses, she helps parents learn skills for connection and emotional regulation, both for themselves and their children so they can leave behind authoritarian parenting methods. And, have a strong bond with their kids that they're deeply longing for. She specialises in creating secure attachment and somatic healing.She's passionate about nurturing authenticity, connected relationships, creativity, and supporting kids to grow into their unique selves. She believes the world needs more compassionate human beings who are living authentically from their hearts. You can find more about Colleen below:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@colleenadrian1590/videosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/colleen.parentwriter/Website: https://colleenadrian.com/If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. Follow Cath on social media here:Instagram: @cathcounihanSubstack: Nurture.Heal.GrowFacebook: Cath Counihan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(

Ever felt like stepmom life isn't what you expected- and no matter how hard you try, you're carrying a weight you can't quite explain? If you've felt resentment, guilt, or even questioned your choices, this episode will hit home. In this episode, we're joined by Rachel Dunne, licensed counselor, certified stepfamily coach, and founder of Spiritual Stepmom. Rachel shares her personal journey into stepmotherhood and opens up about the stepmom grief no one talks about- the hidden sense of loss, emotional overwhelm, and internal conflict that so many women experience but rarely say out loud. She also brings her clinical expertise to help stepmoms understand what's really happening beneath the surface- and how to begin healing. Key takeaways from this episode: The stepmom grief no one talks about- and why it's completely normal How resentment and emotional shutdown happen when grief goes unprocessed Why stepfamily life triggers loss- not just love How repair (not perfection) can actually strengthen your relationship with your stepkids  If you've ever thought, "This is harder than I expected," or felt alone in your experience as a stepmom, this episode will remind you- you're not broken, and you're definitely not the only one. Resources Mentioned: Rachel Dunne Coaching: https://racheldunnecoaching.com Follow Rachel on Instagram: @spiritualstepmom Stepfamily Circle Membership – A supportive community for stepmoms who want help navigating conversations with stepkids, partners, and exes - without losing themselves in the process. Inside, you'll find coaching, real-life examples, and space to practice these conversations so you're not guessing anymore. Love The Stepmom Diaries? Please consider rating and reviewing The Stepmom Diaries on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your feedback helps the show grow and reach more blended families who need honest conversations like this one.

Our guest this week is Jena Malone. The actress and musician has spent decades building one of the most fascinating and wide-ranging creative careers in entertainment, delivering memorable performances across films like Stepmom, Donnie Darko, and the Hunger Games franchise while also pursuing her songwriting through projects like The Shoe and Jena Malone and the Blood Stains. Last week she released ‘Flowers for Men', her debut album under her own name and a distinctly imaginative record that weaves together sci-fi influences and alt-country textures. On today's episode, Jena joins us on the podcast to talk about why now felt like the right moment to make a solo record under her own name, her approach to songwriting and the freedom that comes with it, and whether there's a world where her film and music careers might one day meet on the big screen.Jena Malone : Instagram / Spotify / WebsiteVisit our official website here and follow us across our socials.

If there's one thing we've learned in our 25 years of marriage, parenting, and blended family life, it's this: communication problems aren't about bad intentions more often, they're about lacking the right tools. In this episode, we share the painful, unproductive patterns we got stuck in and the communication shifts that changed everything for us, helping us strengthen our marriage and build a healthier parenting partnership.We unpack a simple communication styles model, then share two practical frameworks that help couples handle sensitive issues with more wisdom and less reactivity.  We also share about the impact of emotional dysregulation (one of the biggest obstacles to healthy communication), and touch on four of the most common unhealthy patterns that keep couples stuck.This episode will offer practical tools to build trust and connection, reduce conflict, and communicate more like a united team.  Even when you each have different perspectives.  If we can do it, you can too!  Listen in and learn these pivotal tools so you can break free from unhealthy communication patterns and make a real difference in your relationship!You'll Discover:How different communication styles can quietly create friction, even when both of you mean well A simple framework for talking about sensitive issues, especially conversations about each other's kids How to use the FAQ approach to start hard conversations without blame or escalation Why emotional dysregulation can quickly derail communication How to recognize Gottman's Four Horsemen and replace them with healthier patterns that build connection and teamworkResources from this Episode:CLICK HERE to schedule your free call and learn more about our Relate Strong coaching focused on regulating painful emotions when it matters most.FREE DOWNLOAD: Communication Toolkit WorksheetEpisode 202.  How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Episode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamCrucial Conversations by K. Patterson, J. Grenny, R. McMilan, A. Switzler Leave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Summer break sounds fun… until your house turns into chaos, the routines disappear, and you feel like you're running a summer camp you never signed up for.In this episode, Alicia breaks down how stepmoms can create structure, maintain control, and protect their sanity during summer break—without turning into the “strict” or overwhelmed one in the house.If you're already dreading the lack of routine, constant transitions between homes, and the mental load of managing it all… this episode is your game plan.You'll learn how to create a flexible daily structure, set expectations that actually stick, and navigate summer transitions without feeling like you're starting over every week.Because summer doesn't have to feel like survival mode. You don't need a perfect summer. You need a plan that creates just enough structure to keep your home calm, predictable, and manageable.Resource mentioned:Summer Routine PlanSupport the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Should Dads get 50/50 custody even if they don't know their child's doctor?  Why the stepmom should not be considered a 'nanny'  The headaches you'll avoid by having a very detailed co-parenting agreement  Should you be upset if your partner helps the bio-mom by taking the kids more?  How to communicate with your partner if you need to take a step back or disengage    Jamie and her husband Darren give their unfiltered thoughts on these topics on this week's episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast.    Check out The Stepmom Rebrand:                                                                                                            www.stepmomrebrand.com  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off  Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com

If Mother's Day feels more painful than joyful as a stepmom… you're not alone. While everyone else is celebrating, many stepmoms are left feeling unseen, unacknowledged, or unsure where they fit. In this episode, Cameron Normand breaks down why Mother's Day for stepmoms can feel so heavy—and reminds you that it's not because you're doing anything wrong. More importantly, you'll walk away with a simple, empowering plan to help you navigate the day with more clarity, confidence, and peace. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why Mother's Day hits differently in blended families The hidden grief and expectation gap stepmoms experience The truth about validation (and why it's not a measure of your worth) A simple plan to take back control of your Mother's Day You deserve to feel seen—on Mother's Day and every day. Hit play to go into this year feeling supported, grounded, and a little less alone. Resources Mentioned Join us for The Stepmom Soirée — a free virtual party for stepmoms who deserve to be celebrated, full stop. It's the party that Mother's Day forgot to throw you!  Want to join us where you can take the time to find yourself again? Get on the waitlist for The Stepmom Retreat happening Nov. 6-8, 2026 in Siesta Key, Florida! Stepfamily Circle Membership – A supportive community for stepmoms who want help navigating conversations with stepkids, partners, and exes - without losing themselves in the process. Inside, you'll find coaching, real-life examples, and space to practice these conversations so you're not guessing anymore. Love The Stepmom Diaries? Please consider rating and reviewing The Stepmom Diaries on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your feedback helps the show grow and reach more blended families who need honest conversations like this one.

#CouplesTherapy The One with the Stepmom's Mother's Day + Memory Lane Game for Moms 4 Messina tix, Coryelle adds another reason to not take a cruise, Let's Buy Spirit Airlines, The Start of Teacher Shoutouts & More!

ResourcesEpisode 236. Does it Ever Get Easier? How to Stay Hopeful by Playing the Long Game [with Gayla Grace]Episode 157. 3 Seasoned Stepmoms Share How They've Survived and Thrived in Their Blended Family JourneyWomen & Blended Families: Mother's Day/Stepmother's Day  (Gayla's interview with Laura Petherbridge)CLICK HERE  Mother's Day Tips for HusbandsSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callYou don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogetherSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Alicia dives into one of the most confusing and emotionally triggering experiences for stepmoms: why stepchildren suddenly act distant, avoidant, or completely different when their other parent is around.If you've ever felt ignored at pickup, brushed off in public, or like your relationship disappears the moment their other parent enters the picture… you are not imagining it. And more importantly—it's not rejection.This episode breaks down the concept of loyalty binds in stepfamily dynamics and explains why children may feel torn between showing love to their stepmom and protecting their relationship at the other house. Even in healthy, connected relationships, kids can shift their behavior depending on the environment, leaving stepmoms feeling confused, hurt, and questioning everything.Alicia walks you through:What a loyalty bind is and why it happens in blended familiesWhy your stepchild's behavior changes between homesThe why behind emotional “switching” and adaptive behaviorWhat stepmoms often take personally—but shouldn'tHow to respond in a way that builds trust and emotional safetyThis episode will help you stop overanalyzing your stepchild's behavior and start understanding what's actually happening beneath the surface.Because it's not rejection.It's emotional survival.If you're a stepmom navigating complex family dynamics, co-parenting stress, or feeling like an outsider in your own home, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and a completely new perspective.If this episode resonated with you, you're not alone—and you don't have to figure this out by yourself. Come join us inside The Stepmom Side Community!Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

In this episode, with Thais Gibson, we dive deep into how our childhood conditioning shapes our adult relationships. From attachment styles to the subconscious filters we wear every day, understanding these dynamics can be a game changer, especially in the stepmom dynamic.  What's your attachment style? Knowing it can unlock the keys to your emotional needs and triggers. Let's explore how to rewire those patterns and better meet our needs. For more from Thais:  https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Download the Free Guide:  12 Things Stepmom Coaches Don't Have the Guts to Tell You www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freebie  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off

Reddit Stories - OP refuses to take her father and stepmother's son to Disneyland Paris after years of being pushed into a parenting role, causing a heated family fight over boundaries, responsibility, and their desire to relax.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lost-genre-reddit-stories--5779056/support.

Have you ever felt like you've lost yourself somewhere along the way in stepmotherhood—and no matter how hard you try, you can't quite find your way back? If you've been holding it all together on the outside but feeling overwhelmed, resentful, or invisible on the inside… this episode will hit deep. In this episode, we're joined by Christina Nelson, host of the Radical Stepmoms Podcast and a leading voice in honest, unfiltered conversations about stepmom life. Together, we dive into the stepmom identity crisis so many women experience, and what it really takes to be a stepmom without losing yourself in the process. Key takeaways from this episode: Why so many stepmoms feel like they've lost themselves (and why it's more common than you think) The hidden emotional load of stepmotherhood no one talks about How to start reclaiming your identity without guilt or burnout The role boundaries play in protecting your peace and your relationship A powerful reframe that helps you show up as yourself—not just "the stepmom" If you're tired of feeling like you're disappearing in your own life and ready to feel like you again, this is an episode you don't want to miss. Resources Mentioned Radical Stepmoms Podcast: Hosted by Christina with raw, honest conversations about stepmom life and blended family dynamics Join us for The Stepmom Soirée — a free virtual party for stepmoms who deserve to be celebrated, full stop. It's the party that Mother's Day forgot to throw you!  Want to join us where you can take the time to find yourself again? Get on the waitlist for The Stepmom Retreat happening Nov. 6-8, 2026 in Siesta Key, Florida! Stepfamily Circle Membership – A supportive community for stepmoms who want help navigating conversations with stepkids, partners, and exes - without losing themselves in the process. Inside, you'll find coaching, real-life examples, and space to practice these conversations so you're not guessing anymore. Love The Stepmom Diaries? Please consider rating and reviewing The Stepmom Diaries on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your feedback helps the show grow and reach more blended families who need honest conversations like this one.

Send us Fan MailStepmoms are expected to show up like a parent, step back like a stranger, and never complain about any of it. Jamie Simkins — licensed therapist, stepmom coach, and stepmom twice over — has been there herself. In this episode from the vault, she gets into the real dynamics of blended family life: navigating a high conflict bio mom, connecting with stepkids before ever trying to discipline them, why stepdads get to be heroes while stepmoms become the scapegoat, and why she calls being a stepmom a spiritual experience.Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by our podcast guest are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or the podcast. We value diverse perspectives and aim to provide a platform for thoughtful discussion and exploration of different ideas.Got any comments, suggestions or queries? We'd love to hear from you! DM us on Instagram @dirty.laundry.podcast to be featured on one of our upcoming episodes.  Also, don't forget to rate and review our show on your favourite podcast player.

In this episode, we sit down with our friend Gayla Grace for a deeply encouraging conversation about what it really takes to build a strong blended family over time. Gayla candidly shares about the challenges she and her husband faced while blending "hers", "his", and "ours". From parenting conflict to grief and unexpected setbacks, Gayla shares how those hard seasons pushed them to seek help, grow in humility, and fight for unity in their marriage.Gayla is an author and international speaker with the FamilyLife Blended® team, where she encourages and equips blended families. She has a master's degree in Psychology and Counseling, and she hosts the livestream Women & Blended Families.Throughout our conversation, we explore three powerful truths that every blended couple needs to hear: expect challenges, expect the process to take longer than you want, and commit to playing the long game. Gayla offers practical wisdom, hopeful mindset shifts, and a refreshing reminder that your efforts matter, even when you don't see immediate results.  Listen in and be encouraged as our guest Gayla Grace shares from more than 30 years of personal experience, and reminds us that blended family life is rarely easy or quick, but it can absolutely be worth it. You'll Discover:Why blended family couples need to expect challenges and meet them with both grit and grace Why playing the long game can lead to deep rewards in your marriage and step relationships How community and the right kind of support can help you move forward when you feel stuck Why making your marriage the foundation of your home creates greater stability for the whole familyResources from this Episode:Beautifully Blended: 101 Devotions to Encourage Couples in Blended Families by Gayla GraceCLICK HERE to connect with GaylaWomen & Blended Families: Mother's Day/Stepmother's DayReady for some extra support: We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionYou don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogetherSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsGive a review over on Apple Podcasts .  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” .  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Stepmother's Day—did you even know it existed?In this episode of, Alicia dives into the emotional complexity of Stepmother's Day—a holiday created in 2000 a nine year old to honor her stepmom. While the intention behind the day is meaningful, the reality for many stepmoms is… complicated.Alicia unpacks the mixed emotions stepmoms experience around Stepmother's Day and challenges stepmoms to rethink how they approach this day. Instead of waiting for others to get it right, Alicia encourages listeners to take ownership of what Stepmother's Day means to them—whether that's celebrating, setting expectations, or choosing to ignore it altogether.If you've ever felt invisible in your role, questioned whether you “count,” or wished your partner understood what you do—this episode will make you feel seen, validated, and empowered to speak up.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Should a stepmom be celebrated on Mothers Day? What could be holding kids back from doing something for the stepmom? Why are Stepdads celebrated and Stepmoms still villianized. How should a stepmom communicate with their partner that they feel upset on this day? Jamie and her husband Darren dive into all of this and more on this week's episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast. Download the Free Guide:: 12 Things Stepmom Coaches Don't Have the Guts to Tell You www.jamiescrimgeour.com/freebie The Stepmom Rebrand www.stepmomrebrand.com Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching EPISODE SPONSORS:Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order. LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase.

Morgan and Abby answer all the listener questions! They share their big goals for 2026, plus where they see themselves in 10 years. Abby gives tips for anyone wanting to solo travel and shares how she’s adapting to being a stepmom. Plus, the Wichita restaurants they miss the most and wedding planning news. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Valerie Mills shares her remarkable story of becoming a stepmom who ultimately adopted her stepdaughter, overcoming immense obstacles and heartbreak along the way. Listeners will journey with Valerie Mills as she details the emotional and legal complexities of her family's story, from rescuing her stepdaughter from a difficult home environment at age 7, to navigating the revolving door of foster care, facing her own battle with cancer, and overcoming domestic abuse. Hear how Valerie Mills fought for custody, the surprising ease of the adoption process as a single parent, and the pivotal moments where unconditional love triumphed over adversity. This episode covers: The unique challenges of blended families and step-parent adoption Navigating the foster care system and the importance of stability for traumatized children Open, candid discussions about mental health, resilience, and healing after trauma The power of chosen family and how more love supports a child's growth You'll also hear touching anecdotes about mother-daughter dynamics, ongoing struggles with biological parents, the importance of extended support systems, and practical tips for anyone considering adoption or dealing with family court. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this inspiring story with someone who needs to know they're not alone on this journey!

Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, your stepteen keeps pulling away—and you're left wondering if you're somehow making it worse? If you've been overthinking every interaction or trying harder and harder to connect, this episode will hit home. In this episode, we're joined by Mindy Kyle, Certified Parenting with Purpose and Certified Stepfamily Family coach with over 16 years of experience helping stepmoms navigate boundaries, burnout, and complex family dynamics. She breaks down what's really happening during the teen years- and why the way you show up matters more than you think. Key takeaways from this episode: Why stepteens pull away (and why it's not necessarily about you) How your energy impacts connection more than your effort The key to setting boundaries without pushing them further away A powerful mindset shift to build trust without forcing closeness If you're craving a better connection with your stepteen without feeling like you're chasing it, this episode is a must-listen. Resources Mentioned Learn more about everything Mindy offers HERE Follow Mindy on on Instagram and TikTok Want to work with Cameron? Click Here Check out our YouTube channel where we share real-life stepfamily dynamics, expert advice, and practical tools you can actually use. Plus, you can watch full behind-the-scenes video episodes of the podcast. Subscribe and join us!  Stepfamily Circle Membership – A supportive community for stepmoms who want help navigating conversations with stepkids, partners, and exes - without losing themselves in the process. Inside, you'll find coaching, real-life examples, and space to practice these conversations so you're not guessing anymore. Love The Stepmom Diaries? Please consider rating and reviewing The Stepmom Diaries on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your feedback helps the show grow and reach more blended families who need honest conversations like this one.

In this episode, Keltie speaks with therapist, Tonya Kelly, about what happens when you're childfree by choice...but your partner is a parent.  Hear them discuss: How societal norms and family expectations clouded Tonya's Kids or Childfree choice. Tonya's journey to making her childfree decision, after years of being on the fence.  How she navigated tough conversations with her mom about her decision not to have kids, especially as an only child. - The things that helped Tonya to cultivate greater confidence in her childfree choice. The challenges — and perks — of being married to someone who is a parent. How unusual and challenging it can be to be a step-mom who is childfree — and why it often feels like you don't fully fit in anywhere. (0:48) Meet Tonya and her Kids or Childfree decision (12:27) Advice for fence-sitters about outside pressure (18:07) Marriage, divorce, considering egg freezing, and re-marrying someone with a 16-year-old (34:22) Being a childfree step-mother (47:28) Tips for finding confidence in being childfree (56:34) Tonya's experience in the Confidently Childfree Group Intensive About Tonya: Tonya Kelly has a background in social work and is an owner of a private practice clinic in Ontario, Canada. She specializes in trauma treatment for first responders. She also works with individuals and couples to help them explore old patterns, heal from painful experiences and reconnect with their sense of self. She is deeply committed to her own healing journey and is passionate about cultivating a life that is rooted in inner peace, joy, and purpose. She spent over a decade on the fence about whether or not to have kids, shaped by her own childhood experiences, relationship changes and learning to trust her inner knowing. Mentioned in the episode: Find Tonya online at www.coretherapycentre.com And on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/core.therapy.and.assessment/  Read Cheryl Strayed's The Ghost Ship That Didn't Carry Us. Hear these past The Kids or Childfree episodes that discuss egg freezing: Episode 53 with Sophia Seymour Episode 75 with Ruthie Ackerman Episode 72 with Dr. Amanda Adeleye  __ MORE HELP FOR YOUR KIDS OR CHILDFREE DECISION Start Here: sign up for an upcoming WORKSHOP

Resources from this episodeEpisode 235. Stepparenting Takes Two: How to Build Connection and Avoid Common Wrong TurnsEpisode 103. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2)Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Mother's Day can be one of the most confusing—and painful—holidays for stepmoms.You show up. You support your partner. You help raise kids who aren't biologically yours. You carry emotional labor, household responsibilities, and the invisible weight of stepfamily dynamics……and then Mother's Day rolls around and you feel completely overlooked.In this episode, Alicia dives into the emotional reality of Mother's Day for stepmoms—especially those who are childfree or childless. If you've ever felt forgotten, awkward, resentful, or unsure of your place on this holiday, you are not alone.This episode will help you:Understand why Mother's Day feels so triggering and complicated as a stepmomBreak out of the silent expectation trap that leads to disappointmentLearn how to communicate what you want (yes… even if it feels uncomfortable)Explore ways to celebrate yourself—without waiting for someone else to do itNavigate grief and complex emotions as a childless stepmomReclaim your power and define your role on your termsWhether you want to feel appreciated, create your own plan, or simply survive the day without spiraling, this episode gives you practical tools and a powerful mindset shift.Because you don't need permission to matter in your home.And you don't have to keep feeling invisible.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

USE CODE 'STREAM7' FOR A FREE WEEK OF ADULT TIME!This week on the pod, host Bree Mills is joined by industry icon & self-proclaimed sex nerd Ryan Keely! Reflecting on 2 decades in the Adult industry, Ryan shares how dropping out of Catholic school led to her fascination with sex. From jerking off while listening to the news, life-threatening illnesses, and home improvement projects, Ryan leaves it all on the table. Tune in to hear all things piledrivers, exploding amine penises, starring in an Eminem music video, and SO MUCH MORE!Ryan Keely: https://www.instagram.com/ryankeelytm/ Bree Mills: https://www.instagram.com/thebreemills/ The Adult Time Podcast: https://bemyfan.com/TheAdultTimePodcastABOUT ADULT TIME:Adult Time is a digital subscription platform for a new era of adult entertainment. We are a brand built by people who believe in a future where mature audiences can safely, securely, and proudly have a place in their lineup for premium adult content. In addition to our addictive programming, Adult Time is dedicated to creating a personalized content experience for all our viewers with 400+ channels, 60,000 episodes, and VR and interactive toy integration.

This one took a while to land. The part that tried hard not to upset anyone, to do it right, to keep the peace, to earn my place was running rampant!And how exhausting that became.Somewhere along the way, I realised trying to be liked was costing me something far too precious ... myself.This is a conversation about self-abandonment in prettier clothes. About confusing being liked with being loving. About the shift from managing everyone else's comfort to staying true to what feels right and good and true for you.If you're a step-parent who has bent yourself to belong, bit your tongue, second-guessed your instincts or wondered why this role can feel so hard, this one is for you.IN PERSON EXPERIENCES, MelbourneSunday Meds - April 26th, 2026One-day retreat in Balnarring - June 12th, 2026ONLINE WORKThe Good Life - sign up hereAuthentic The Program - sign up here1:1 COACHINGKeen to work together? - Book a 20-minute call nowRead my book, Authentic - coming home to your true self - AUS, EUR, USAWrite into us - let us know what you want to hearWelleCo - use code KAT15 for 15% off welleco.com.auwww.katjohn.com.auSupport the show

When we got married, we stepped into blended family life with a lot of hope, but also a lot of unrealistic expectations. We thought connection would come quickly, parenting would feel natural, and our new family would settle into place easily. Instead, we ran into disappointment, resistance, and the painful realization that blended family life does not work like a first family experience.  In this episode, we share one of the most important truths that changed everything for us: stepparenting is a two-person job. That shift helped us stop putting pressure in the wrong places and start building with more wisdom, patience, and teamwork. Our hope is that this conversation helps you let go of unrealistic expectations and take wise next steps toward real trust, genuine connection, and healthier family dynamics. Resources from this Episode:Strategy #1:   Encourage relational growth in wise, helpful ways and reduce pressure:Episode 213. Discover How to Better Understand and Connect with Children of Divorce [with Lauren Reitsema]Episode 72. The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded RelationshipsEpisode 130. How to Build Trust that Nurtures Bonds with Your Kids and Stepkids Episode 37. Why do kids struggle to accept their stepparent?Strategy #2:  Help a resistant child bring down walls in ways they can receive:Episode 229 The Heavy Burdens Kids Carry:  Loyalty Binds, Parental Allegiance, and How to Help Episode 222. Step-by-Step Guide:  Facing Painful Pushback Without Making Things Worse (Part 1 of 2)Episode 132. How do loss and grief impact blended family integration?Episode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and HurtEpisode 92. At a loss and feeling defeated because the kids stubbornly refuse to blend?Strategy #3:  Build your parenting partnership and reduce negative interactions:Episode 219. From Chaos to Clarity: A Proven Strategy for Leading Your Blended FamilyEpisode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting:  Defining Appropriate Roles and ResponsibilitiesEpisode 208. The Transfer of Power: A Smart Strategy for Stepparents Left in ChargeEpisode 205. 4 Facets of Parenting:  What Bio Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes Episode 230. Everyday Decisions, Big Tension:  The Hurtful Patterns That Create Blended Family DivisionReady for some extra support? CLICK HERE to schedule your free coaching sessionCLICK HERE to join the Blending Together Community

In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia is joined by Monica Tanner to talk about how to reignite connection and intimacy in blended families, why stepfamily myths can damage marriages, and what couples can do to create a stronger, healthier relationship.They dive into one of the most controversial but important ideas in blended family life: why the couple relationship has to be the priority. Monica explains what that actually looks like in real life, how to support your partner without making it a competition with the kids, and why children benefit from seeing a healthy relationship modeled in the home.One of the most powerful parts of this episode is Monica's explanation of repair in relationships. She breaks down what repair means, how couples can come back together after conflict, and why healthy relationships are not conflict-free—they are built through harmony, disharmony, and repair.If you are a stepmom feeling disconnected in your marriage, exhausted by blended family stress, or unsure how to rebuild closeness with your partner, this episode will remind you that healthy relationships are built, not found.In this episode:How to rebuild connection and intimacy in blended familiesThe myth that kids should always come before the marriageWhat it means to make the relationship the priority without neglecting the childrenWhy stepfamily structure and united parenting matterConnect with Monica:www.monicatanner.comOn InstagramOn YouTubeSupport the showRegister here for StepmomCon Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

This week's episode is for every stepmom who has ever felt something and immediately felt guilty for feeling it. Jen from The Sober Stepmom joins me this week and we go there. Jealousy, grief, nervous system overload, the control trap. All of it. This is the conversation I wished I'd had years ago. Here's what we cover, but honestly, just go listen. This one got personal fast. In this week's episode, Jen and I discuss: How becoming a stepmom inspired Jen's journey with sobriety The emotions that catch stepmoms completely off guard and why feeling them doesn't make you a bad person Jealousy in the stepmom role, what it actually is and why so many stepmoms carry shame around it The nervous system science behind why stepmoms feel so on edge, especially around transition days Grief that stepmoms never name and how it shows up sideways when you least expect it The unique experience of the childless stepmom, including Jen's raw and honest take on navigating infertility while stepparenting Why trying to control everything in your blended family is quietly costing you more than you realize How to create space between the feeling and your reaction and why that gap is where your power lives Practical nervous system regulation tools you can actually use in real stepmom moments I think this one is going to stay with you. Find Jen on Instagram @the_sober_stepmom Masterclass: How to Stop Letting a High-Conflict Ex Hijack Your Life  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/masterclass Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook    Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Head to www.cozyearth.com and use the code JAMIESBOGO by April 18th for my  exclusive Mother's Day BOGO deal. Or, use the code COZYJAMIE anytime for 20% off your order. LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Kajabi | www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi to get all the details.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Karly had to wake her dad up at 4am to jump her car off because the battery was dead. Nancy had to go to the ER with her cousin yesterday because he fell off his bike. Turns out he broke FOUR ribs. Hot Tea: Lainey Wilson revealed that she wants to be a mom someday, so she is freezing her eggs. A Today Show host accidentally revealed that Jenna Bush Hager is going to be in The Devil Wears Prada 2. A new version of Monopoly based off of the Smoky Mountains is coming soon. The company has asked for suggestions of business and landmarks to go on the game. Karly submitted WIVK to be included, and we talked about other ideas such as the Titanic museum and the Jurassic boat ride. Karly is trying to buy tickets to the LA 2028 Olympics for gymnastics. Her first attempt at buying tickets is today, but most tickets in this ticket drop are sold out already. Lucky 7 for $50 to Old South Candy Nancy is going to minister training! She has signed up to help minister to women in correctional facilities and women who are transitioning back to normal life after being in one. She also joked about how she has technically been an online-ordained minister for years. An unsupervised kid at a theme park got into a wolf enclosure. It’s said that the parents were not paying attention to the child and were on their phones. Group Therapy: My Kids’ Stepmom is Trying to Make Them Call Her “Mom” Joey had his virtual GI doctor appointment yesterday. It was really odd to talk about GI issues on a video call. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ResourcesEpisode 234. Caught in the Negative?  How to Reframe Painful Moments and Regain Hope Episode 106. How to Avoid "Outlaw Words" [with Mark Warren]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Trigger warning: miscarriage Infertility is hard. Being a stepmom is hard. Put the two together? Yeah… it's a whole different level that no one really prepares you for.In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia sits down with Kristen Skiles to have an honest, emotional, and empowering conversation about infertility as a stepmom—including the heartbreak of a failed IUI cycle.They dive into the layered experience of wanting a baby while already being a parent figure, the guilt that can come with that, and the identity shifts that happen when motherhood doesn't look the way you thought it would.This conversation is for the stepmom who feels torn between gratitude and grief… who loves her stepkids but still deeply wants a child of her own… and who wonders if she's allowed to feel both.Inside this episode, you'll hear:What infertility feels like specifically as a stepmomThe emotional impact of a failed IUI cycleThe guilt, comparison, and identity struggles no one talks aboutHow infertility can affect your relationship with your partnerMindset shifts that help you cope during the hardest momentsHow to hold grief and gratitude at the same timeA new way to define motherhood beyond biologyIf you've ever thought, “Why is this so hard for me when I already have stepkids?” or “Will I ever feel at peace with this?”—you are not alone.This episode will help you feel seen, understood, and a little less alone in your journey.Connect with Kristin:www.stepmomming.comStepmomming Made Easy (Book on Amazon)On InstagramOn FacebookOn PinterestRegister here for StepmomCon Support the showRegister here for StepmomCon Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

When kids live in two households, education decisions can get complicated fast!  In this episode, Houlie Duque, former teacher and founder of Homeschool to Go, shares a fresh perspective on how families can rethink learning when co-parenting is part of the picture. As both a biomom and stepmom raising kids in a blended family, Houlie brings real-life insight into how parents can create flexible education plans that support children across two homes. From navigating co-parenting dynamics to designing learning around a child's strengths, this conversation explores what it really looks like to prioritize a child's growth in a blended family. If you've ever wondered how education decisions work when multiple parents are involved, this episode will open your mind to what's possible. In This Episode You'll Learn: • How blended families can approach education decisions across two households • Creative ways co-parents can divide responsibilities while supporting their child • Why adaptability and communication are key when raising kids in blended families Resources Mentioned: Homeschool to Go [https://www.homeschooltogo.org/] An organization that helps families design personalized education plans tailored to each child and family structure Free Homeschool Masterclass (Homeschool to Go) [https://courses.homeschooltogo.org/freemasterclass-registration]  A 30-minute class explaining how parents can explore alternative education options Houlie Duque Instagram  [https://www.instagram.com/houlieduque/] sharing education insights and parenting perspectives Stepfamily Solutions [https://stepfamilysolutions.com/] Your single source of support for building and blending a thriving stepfamily Subscribe to the Stepfamily Solutions YouTube channel- your go-to resource for blended family life, where we're constantly dropping new videos packed with expert interviews, full podcast episodes, and everything you need whether you're navigating stepfamily life or thinking about becoming a certified stepfamily coach! Love The Stepmom Diaries? Please consider rating and reviewing The Stepmom Diaries on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Your feedback helps the show grow and reach more blended families who need honest conversations like this one.

The reality is, blended family life gives us plenty of painful moments to get caught up in: tension with an ex, a hard interaction with a stepchild, a family activity that goes sideways, or marital conflict. And it is easy for one negative moment to become the headline.In this episode, we unpack negativity bias, our tendency to notice the negative faster, feel it deeper, and replay it longer. When it goes unchecked, it can shape how we make decisions and relate to the people we love.  And it can steal your joy and leave you feeling hopeless.This conversation is personal for us. As we reflected on our own journey, we were reminded how easy it would have been to let negativity define our marriage and our family years ago. But real (imperfect) progress became possible when we chose to refocus on the small wins along the way and hold onto hope.  That made all the difference for us, and we want to equip you to do the same. You'll Discover:What negativity bias is and why it can make one hard moment feel louder than all the good ones combined How negativity bias impacts your marriage, your connection with step kids, and even relationships between homes Practical ways to reframe painful moments, interrupt negative self-talk, and move toward a growth mindset How to capture the good and cultivate belief so you can protect your emotional wellness and lead your family with greater hope and courageCLICK HERE to join the Blending Together CommunityResources on this topic:Soundtracks:  The Surprising Solution to Overthinking by Jon AcuffEpisode 117. Harness the Power of Positive Affirmation with Your Kids and Step-KidsEpisode 105.  What powerful traits do you need to successfully blend and stay united?Episode 220. From Marginalized to Mainstream:  How to Reclaim Confidence for Your Blended FamilyEpisode 165.  How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life? Episode 156. The 3 Super Strengths of a Blended Family MarriageEpisode 187.  Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 219. From Chaos to Clarity: A Proven Strategy for Leading Your Blended FamilyEpisode 225. Gratitude Superpower:  How to Boost Hope and Connection Through Challenging SeasonsEpisode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and HurtEpisode 231.  When Your Ex Starts Dating:  How to Handle Their New Partner and Protect Your Kids

Intuitive coach and stepmom Laurie Oakes joins Jamie on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast to discuss the positive changes she's experienced in her stepmom life through her coaching work with Jamie.  Laurie will share how shifts in her perspectives and expectations led her to less stress, more harmony in her home, and stronger relationships with her stepkids and her husband. Plus, she'll share about her work as a medium and intuitive coach.  Learn more about Laurie's work:  www.laurieoakesmediumship.com  Masterclass: How to Stop Letting a High Conflict Ex Hijack Your Life  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/masterclass Join Elevate: Group Coaching For The High Level Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook    Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off  LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off  Kajabi | www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi to get all the details.

ResourcesGet your FREE copy of Blended Family Finances (limited offer) by Brian K. PetersonTo connect with Brian, CLICK HERE (Endurance Financial Group / Blended Family Financial)Episode 233.Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Stepmom guilt can quietly keep you stuck, second-guessing yourself and making a complicated role even more complicated. In this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Jamie shares what stepmoms need to stop feeling guilty about, plus her biggest stepmom regrets. If she could go back, these are the things she would do differently.    Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off  LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off