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Discussions all about black love. And that can come in many forms. I will express how I feel black love should be. This doesn’t mean I will always be correct but this is just my opinion. Come listen and let me know what you think. Contact Information Facebook: Jay Marie Instagram: This Black Love Twitter: JayDotMarie424 Email: jm_wade2010@live.com

Jessica Wade


    • May 2, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 49m AVG DURATION
    • 126 EPISODES


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    Happy Birthday To Me!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 45:00


    I know I missed last week, but I am back. I needed some time to celebrate me! I am now the big 38 and I love it and embracing it! I just wanted to let y'all know I am not going anywhere I just needed some me time. So, I hope you all enjoy today's episode of This Black Love! We will have some things to talk about! Enjoy your weekends lovies!

    It's About Appreciation!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2025 48:09


    I know this is out of the ordinary posting an episode on a Sunday. But it is 420 y'all!!!! Happy Resurrection Sunday or ass y'all like to say Happy Easter!!! Today this is 2-part episode of This Black Love! I started filming on Friday and finished today! But I had to finish this and post it so that you can know what the discussion it about today. We are learning to date and love on ourselves. But I hope you enjoy this episode and back to the regular schedule program.

    What In the Marvin Sapp Is Going On!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 71:01


    Happy Friday TBL Fam!!!! I hope all is well with you all! Today is going to be a great day, so claim it! Yes! I am speaking on the whole Marvin Sapp scandal that went on recently. We as a people got to do better because why did he do that? But I did have a few thigs I wanted to say, and I promise I am not here to offend anyone. Just speak my truth. So, let's talk about it. If you have any comments, please feel free to leave one. Have a great weekend, love y'all a bunch!!

    Baby Momma/Baby Daddy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 71:40


    Hello TBL Fam!!!! It's Friday again, and I got another great episode for you guy!! I hope all is well with you all. Today I wanted to get this topic off my chest. And you will hear me say in the video that if the shoe fits wear it, and if it doesn't just let it fly. But I feel as a community we need to hold each other accountable. But it's a learning curve, we have to learn to crawl before we walk. I hope you all enjoy this week's episode and share with everyone and get the conversation started!!!!!!

    A Womans Worth!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2025 43:32


    Happy Friday my loves!!!!! I know I missed last week, but I had to give y'all a new episode of This Black Love!! And since we are still in the month of March, which is Woman's Month, I wanted to speak a little bit on us as women. All positive thoughts and uplifting and you know I had to drop some truth. So, lets appreciate each other just a little more always and not just for one month. We are warriors out here, lol. But I hope you enjoy this week's episode. Love y'all a bunch!!!

    House of Lu Beauty 1950

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 61:18


    Happy Friday!!!! Today I have a special treat for y'all today!!! I'm always shouting her out and I was blessed with her appearance today, it's none other than Tay from House of Lu Beauty 1950!! And yes, I am glad to have another entrepreneur chatting with me today!!! We go waaaaaay back and it was fun catching up with my good good sister!! Please make sure you shop with her at House of Lu Beauty 1950. There is a website that that is her Instagram as well. please shear and listen as we cut up and have a good girls chat. Love y'all to the moon and back!!!!

    Where I've Been?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 50:46


    Happy Friday!!!!!! I know what you're all thinking.... where have I been. I have been healing my heart and mind to get back right. I didn't want to have to fake a smile or anything. I wanted to be authentic as I always am. But I am here and back at bringing y'all another episode of This Black Love!! This episode is kinda all over the place, but I just want to let y'all know I'm getting back to what I love and that's doing more episodes of This Black Love! Enjoy this episode and I will be back next week at 2pm est. Have an amazing weekend y'all!!

    Transparency

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 57:04


    Happy Friday This Black Love family!!! You all are my family for real. I can be myself and be my best version. Y'all accept me for who I am. So, today's episode is a little different. I get really vulnerable and open up to accept my real truth. This is my first time being this transparent in my life so take it easy on me a little. I do hope that my vulnerability can help or be relatable to someone else. You guys enjoy your weekend and be safe. Love y'all soooo much.

    It's Time To Start Talking

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 54:01


    Happy Friday This Black Love!!! As you know it's time for another episode. This episode well not be one to expect, but it needed to me said. Some conversations need to be started and why not start now, it's the best time to. You don't want to wait until it is too late, and you can no longer talk. As I stated I am not afraid to talk about the hard stuff because it can lead to your healing. But let me know your thoughts and opinions in the messages. I am always up for dialogue. Love you all so much and enjoy your weekend.

    Let's meet Koolaid Muzic

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 80:51


    Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!! We are back to our regular scheduled program. And today I have a guest!! I am so excited to have my first guest of the new year. We are growing people, and I am glad you are getting to witness this. This conversation was amazing and deep at the same time. We toughed on just about everything. you can find Koolaid on all social media platforms at koolaidmuzic. Let's support this Black artist.

    Topic Of the Day: How Far Is Too Far?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2025 59:37


    Happy Sunday and Happy New Year!! It's the first episode of the new year and I wanted to start it off with a topic of the day. Now I know that this episode it late, time has gotten away from me already. But I didn't want to leave you hanging! So, I seen a story online that i had to put my two cents in on. And I would like to know what you all think as well. This episode has a poll attached and I would love to hear from you. Love you all always!!!

    Goodbye 2024, Hello 2025!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2024 37:36


    Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!!! It is the last Friday of the year 2024! I am excited about this coming year! All good thing for 2025. I just wanted to send some positive energy your way and not hold you too long. Just some helpful nuggets going into the new year. Let's all make sure we celebrate responsibly and make it to see 2025. I love y'all down and thanks for rocking with me another year!! See y'all in 2025!!!!!

    Being Financially Responsible

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2024 61:13


    Happy Friday. we are now 11 days before the New Year. I want everyone to enjoy time with family and friends but also not go into debt for the coming year. Most times we spend so much trying to keep up with the "Jones" but are going further and further into debt. That's not what we need for the new year. When we die, we can't take all our things with us, so why store up on earth? I want better for us, and you should too. Please don't think that you can't splurge, but at least be able to continue to pay your bills and get closer out of debt. I hope you enjoy this episode and share with someone. Until next week, have a great weekend!!!!

    What Are #COUPLEGOALS

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2024 60:32


    Happy Friday my fellow Black Love family! Its Friday December the 13th!! Can you believe its Friday the 13th!!! But nonetheless I have a new episode ready for you on this Friday the 13th. With all the social media gossip and receipts going around about Remy Ma and Papoose, are celebrities really #COUPLEGOLAS? What makes a couple #couplegoals? Who started it and where is its origin? Well, y'all know I said my two cents on this subject, and it may not be something you agree with. But maybe that's why I talked about it today. I hope you all enjoy and have a great weekend!!!

    Some Things Are Out of Our Control

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 45:35


    Happy Friday!!!! OMG! The year is coming to a close and we only have 4 fridays (including today) left in the year! It's exciting!! I hope all enjoyed their thanksgiving holiday. Today I wanted to bring an awareness that is happening in our community that we dont talk about much. I just gave a little one to bit information that I looked up and wanted to share. To let you know you are not alone. I hope this encourages someone if not all. I love yall and happy podcast listening!!!!

    Who Are We Really Dating?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 72:54


    Happy Friday This Black Love family!!!!! I hope all is well. And just like that I am back with another episode of This Black Love at its regular scheduled timing. I just been feeling a type of way with all these different dating shows, it shows me that I am not ready to start dating. But to really take a dive into who are we really dating? Do we really know who we call our boo or we just liking the feel good of the relationship. What I am saying is just don't settle. But take a listen and let me know what you think.

    Free Thoughts/A Woman's Worth

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2024 80:36


    Happy Friday my lovessss!!! Here is another episode of This Black Love. I know, I know this episode is late. I was gonna put up a late episode but not this late. I had a few tech issues but nevertheless I got it done. But as the holidays are here just be kind to one another, you never know what someone is going through and please love on your family. Also, today I weighed in on how woman is treated or mistreated and how we need to come together as women. Just a little feeling here and there, but I hope you enjoy today's episode and enjoy your weekend!!!!

    Let's Be Intentional

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 73:02


    HAPPY FRIDAY LOVESSSSSSS!!! It's Friday and another episode of This Black Love is here!!! Today I wanted to pour out my heart to yall about being a friend and knowing that everyone isn't your friend. Also, I wanted to touch on the Megan The Stallion documentary and I have a few choice words, and it gets a little deep. And some things I say I really did mean them, buut lets really start the conversation and think differently. Please share and enjoy your weekend lovessss!!

    The Dating Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 72:32


    Happy Friday!!!! Its the first of the month! Happy November. We have one more month until 2025. Time is going fast. But not as faster than the way we out here dating. Just to warn you, I am all over the place with this episode. But I do have a subject that started this conversation started. Just bear with me and my scattered brain today. Thank you for listening and sharing!!

    What Are We Watching

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 68:07


    Happy Friday!!!! As we continue to explore different things and different activities, I wanted to talk about what I'm currently watching. I love, love, love watching movies and series. And I wanted to show what I am currently watching. I would also like to know what you are currently watching. Don't be afraid to connect with me by messaging me. I would love to hear from my sweet listeners are watching. I hope you all have a great weekend!!!

    Books And Giggles

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 66:06


    Happy Friday!!! Yes, when you see consistent in the dictionary my picture would be right there. Today I wanted to get you out of your comfort zone and try something different. So, I wanted to let y'all in on one of my favorite hobbies, READING!!! It can be fun, and you can get caught in a different reality from a good book. So, let me show you some of my favorite reads and books I need to read, lol. I hope you enjoy your weekend and this episode!

    Let's Start A Serious Conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 75:51


    Happy Frrriiiidddaayyy lovely people. I hope today brings you nothing but joy and happiness. I wanted to continue my consistency with a serious but needed topic. Number 1. Ladies take time for yourself and rejuvenate. Number 2. Let's start a conversation with our young people, whether you are a parent or guardian. Let's not think that they are not going through things when they are. It's time to create an open space where the young people can feel safe coming to speak to us adults. Have a listen and let me know your thoughts and opinions.

    Say His Name...Marcellus Williams

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 33:31


    Happy Friday This Black Love Family!!!!!! Come hell or high water I was going to get this episode out to you today!! Whew, this was a tough one but we have to get the conversation started, and a change needs to be made. Here is my quick opinion about Mr. Marcellus Williams. I didn't get a chance to dive deep in his background, it's just another innocent black man put to death for a crime he did not commit. Something has got to change and fast. So take a listen and let me know your opinion!!

    Aye, Yo! Let's Hit Them With A Part 2!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 72:37


    Happy Friday!! I hope you all had a great week and will have a great weekend. I wanted to do a part 2 of this Sean "Diddy" Combs indictment that took place last week. If he is found guilty, he is looking at serious time. But I just wanted to hit y'all with some facts I found out. I hope y'all enjoy the episode and don't be afraid to leave your opinion of this episode. Until next time, enjoy your weekend!

    See What We Not About To Do.....

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 62:14


    Hello! Happy Friday my beautiful people! I have another great episode for you today. I may ruffle a little bit of feathers, but its my truth. And y'all know I don't mind getting the conversation started. Taking accountability you know! I hope that you have commentary for me this week. Let me know what you think, express yourself, don't hold back. As always thanks for the love and support! muah

    It's That Time Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 58:39


    It's the election year and I watched the debate on Tuesday. I have a few thoughts and some choice words, but still had a good time. Please excuse any background noise. This election year it's your choice to vote how you see fit or not to vote, the choice is yours! Enjoy this week's episode and let me know what you think. Have a great weekend

    I Been Gone For A Minute...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 68:56


    HELLO!!! I know it's been a while, and I have some explaining to do. And in this episode, I will do just that. Sometimes we cannot control the way life throws curve balls at us, so we have to do what is best for us. And mine was a little mental break. But I am back and ready to hit the ground running. I am trying something new so i hope you all are along for the ride.

    Was That A Apology?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2024 50:32


    Happy Friday my love bugs. Since last weekend Diddy issued an apology. And I wanted to put my two cents in on it. And before you ask I did go off on a few tangents but I brought back. I hope you take something positive away from this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Relationship Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 46:15


    Happy Friday everyone!!!! We back with part 2 of relationships. Today I'm diving into the different types of relationships and the definition of a relationship. So take a listen and remember that my opinion is not always right but what I accept is something you may not accept. But I hope y'all enjoy this episode and share with any and everyone. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Relationship Pt 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 45:21


    Happy Friday!!!!! Today I wanted to talk about it!!! That's right relationships. This week I just broke down the terms o bro g single and dating. Ooouuuu which one are you right now? I know I'm definitely single for sure. But take a listen and let's talk about relationships in this little series I'm starting. Next week we are getting into more so stay tuned! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Something Slight

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 34:04


    Hey my beautiful people. Today I just wanted to talk about something not so heavy this week. I just wanted to let you know what I've been up to and talk about that Chris Brown and Quavo beef. lol but I hope y'all enjoy this episode cause I'm bout to turn up for my bday weekend --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Yup I'm Talking About Diddy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 51:57


    Happy Friday!!!! As the news of Sean “Diddy” Combs spreads like wildfire I wanted to put in my two cents. It may not be the popular opinion but it's how I feel. I hope this conversation gets started all over the place to hold those accountable for their wrongdoing. I'm not a judge or God but I know right from wrong. Please excuse my passion as I get real passionate talking about these allegations. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    What Is The Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 52:05


    Happy Friday!!! I know I'm late with this episode but it's here. I had to push myself today. But as promised I will be delivering my results from the K10 Test I took. Also I wanted to talk about Lake Lanier and the significance of it. I this one won't be a feel good show but some hard facts and truths. I hope you enjoy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    My Reality Check

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 48:52


    Today I wanted to talk to y'all. Today is not gonna be a feel good message but a more introspection of myself. I may have been giving yall info but it's really for me. Don't judge me just know you are not alone in your journey. Have a great weekend y'all --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Content Creator

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 61:52


    Happy Friday!!! On today's episode i have a special guest. Yall know for Black History Month I wanted to do something a little different and shine light on our people who are making a difference. So today I have someone who is changing the game and is a content creator. Come listen and show her some love, just don't use her pics to catfish anyone! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Stand In Your Truth

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 35:34


    Happy Friday my loves!! I hope y'all enjoyed this week. Today I wanted to express some feeling that I have after watching the Shannon and Mo'Nique interview. I would advise you to listen and tell me your truth. YALL know I love you sincerely

    Art Is Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 96:08


    Happy Friday!!! As promised, we are doing it big in February. Today I have a special guest who is an amazing artist. She may paint and create digital art, but she is doing what she loves and following her dreams. Take a listen and share with any and everyone!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    It's February

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 29:46


    Happy Black History Month!!!! Omg it's FINALLY February and it's our time to shine. This year I'm doing something a little different I'm shouting out Black Owned Businesses that I personally know and people who I don't. This year we doing it big!!! We are having a celebration!!! So let kick off February right with House of Lu Beauty 1950!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    My Dating Disaster

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 45:57


    Hey my family!!! I know I know but today I have a hilarious story to tell and I think you will laugh just like I did. Dating should not be this hard I swear. But here is my funny dating experience on dating apps. Needless to say I'm done with online dating. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 30:48


    Happy New Year everyone!!! I hope y'all had a safe and positive holiday. It's only been 5 days into the new year and so much has happened. But we are still here. And yay I'm on season 7!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    It's Friday!!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2023 20:55


    Yall, it's the day after thanksgiving and I'm tired. I'm still full from yesterday lol! But I hope yall are all doing good. I don't have much to say but thank you all for listening and just be aware this holiday and coming up tax season. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Grieving Is Hard To Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 40:41


    Happy Friday!!!!! As the holidays are now here it can get sad and people are missing their loved ones. So today I wanted to talk about grief and grieving loved ones. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Just know that there is help if you need it. And it can be hard this holiday season. Just know you are very loved. Please share with any and everyone! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Holiday Season

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2023 43:43


    Holiday season is here!! First up Halloween, make sure yall are safe this Halloween season!! Next up, Thanksgiving!! Yummy and then Christmas and following that New Year's!! And a lot can transpire so make sure that you and your family are good and creating healthy safe spaces. Make sure you listen to this week's episode of This Black Love! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Background Check

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 42:44


    I know it's been a minute but I'm under construction right now. But I wanted to take you back to where I started from back in July of 2020 and why I started my podcast. I may be all over the place but I promise I bring it altogether. Happy Friday my loves

    Sorry For The Wait

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2023 22:29


    I know I been gone for 2 weeks and I'm so sorry. Some unforeseen events occurred that needed my attention. I hope y'all can forgive me. Besides I do go on a little rant. So take a listen --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Is It The Color Of My Skin?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2023 58:38


    Happy Fist Of The Month!!!! Omg it's September already where did the time go!! Idk but I have a new episode today and I been wanting to do another episode on this topic. I also may want to have a round table discussion as well…..hmmm. We shall see. Thank you for listen and share with a friend --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    It's Hard Out Here For A Pimp

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2023 24:36


    Yes!!!! I kept my promise! And you know I had to keep my word with y'all. I love y'all so much, but the struggle is real. I'm out here trying to keep my head above water! And I just wanted to vent a little bit. We in this together y'all!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    The Man With 2 Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2023 53:19


    Before y'all chew me out head me out. Again my apologies for leaving y'all hanging. Im traveling through this thing called life, but I do have something to talk about that I saw online. So tell me what you think? Sound off on your opinion of the situation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Let's Catch Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2023 33:41


    I know I have been M.I.A. And I want to fix that. So on today's episode of This Black Love I wanted to recap what been happening lately. It's been a lot but let's unfold some things shall we ? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    Baby, It Will Be Ok

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 45:03


    Happy Friday y'all!!! I hope y'all having a great day. Today I wanted to let you know that no matter the struggle it will be ok. Things happen and people may not support you but you gotta keep pushing. Don't stop because your dream is depending on you. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

    It's Something About Having A Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2023 51:01


    Happy Friday my loves!!! This week I wan to to focus on purpose. Do you know what your purpose is in life? Are you walking in your purpose? I sure hope I am lol. Today I just wanted to chat it up with y'all one time. I hope you enjoy:) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-marie4/message

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