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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, it is my honor to welcome DJ as he shares his personal journey with you. Having people come in and share the details of their life is one of the best parts of this platform!DJ is a therapist who works in the Seattle area. He specifically works with patients who are struggling with sexual addiction, codependency, and other process addictions. He is the best-selling author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Sex and Love Addict, and his story is one of bravery, honesty, and hope.Listen along and learn more DJ’s story!Key Moments in DJ’s Life That Led to RealizationAs DJ shares early in the interview, it wasn’t until he moved from Georgia to Seattle that he began to realize the extent of his psychological hang-ups. Before, he had moved from place to place in an attempt to run from his problems, but he soon began to grasp his compulsions with more clarity.While DJ was in Georgia, he experienced relationship problems. As he says during the talk, “when you talk about being gay in the south, you don’t get a lot of support.” And on top of this, same-sex marriage was illegal at the time, so DJ and his partner decided to move to Seattle.At this point in his life, DJ was exhausted from his caregiving profession. Being a natural caregiver, DJ had always found ways to give more to others than himself. But that certainly sapped a lot of energy from DJ. He needed a break! Soon though, he realized he had been in a dysfunctional relationship with his husband from day one.Hear this part of DJ story in his own words. Listen along!Other Problems That DJ Faced at the TimeHe says that he struggled with poorly established boundaries in his relationship, as well as codependency that manifested itself in a ‘fix-it’ mentality for DJ. He states that fixing people and things are all he’s always known. And so his relationship made it hard for him to shake that compulsion.DJ also talks about how difficult it was to have a partner who stored porn on a hard drive and who viewed it regularly, sometimes sitting right next to DJ on the couch. This negatively affected DJ’s self-esteem and desire to be available for sex.His insecurities got so severe that he says he was drowning his sorrows in alcohol and porn himself. All of this after his partner started regularly meeting up with a porn star for dinner.DJ discusses more about this time in his life during the interview.New Relationship, Same ScenarioShortly after moving to Seattle, DJ tells us that he and his partner split up. This was just 2 weeks after moving, so DJ didn’t have a job and tried his hardest to get enough money to move out of the apartment he shared with his ex.He got a job and then found himself in a new relationship. But it soon became the same old relationship dynamic he had always known.After he got married again, that’s when his sex addiction showed up.DJ’s Sex AddictionOnce he was married again and living in Seattle, he and his partner decided to pursue an open relationship. They both were curious about the dynamic, and from within that framework, they embraced the lifestyle.DJ said he was immediately hooked. He and his partner had originally pursed outside relationships together, but they soon branched off and did their own thing within the set of rules they had laid out.But coupled with a drinking problem and an increasingly growing sexual appetite, DJ started to realize that he was in trouble. This realization came from a shocking physical confrontation and his spiral out of control.DJ’s Recovery ProcessOnce DJ’s partner agreed to go to treatment for his alcohol addiction, DJ realized his struggles and addictions. He says that when he filled out the assessment for Co-Dependents Anonymous, he checked off every single box on the sheet of paper. He also started attending Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meetings as well. In a similar manner, he found himself checking off the majority of preliminary assessment questions.He said it was absolutely heartbreaking to have the truth right in front of him in black and white. It also led DJ to discover an event in his life that had opened up everything to him. His meetings brought the necessary context for him to have the crucial breakthroughs that he needed to have.For much more on the story, including how spirituality helped him recover, his work with helping people, his amazing marriage and son, and his happy ending, listen along!Key Links for DJDJ’s website: http://www.djburr.com/DJ’s podcasts: Journey On Podcast || Making an AddictAffiliate link for DJ’s book, I Just Wanted Love: https://amzn.to/2VcKLIBMore info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, it is my honor to welcome DJ as he shares his personal journey with you. Having people come in and share the details of their life is one of the best parts of this platform!DJ is a therapist who works in the Seattle area. He specifically works with patients who are struggling with sexual addiction, codependency, and other process addictions. He is the best-selling author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Sex and Love Addict, and his story is one of bravery, honesty, and hope.Listen along and learn more DJ’s story!Key Moments in DJ’s Life That Led to RealizationAs DJ shares early in the interview, it wasn’t until he moved from Georgia to Seattle that he began to realize the extent of his psychological hang-ups. Before, he had moved from place to place in an attempt to run from his problems, but he soon began to grasp his compulsions with more clarity.While DJ was in Georgia, he experienced relationship problems. As he says during the talk, “when you talk about being gay in the south, you don’t get a lot of support.” And on top of this, same-sex marriage was illegal at the time, so DJ and his partner decided to move to Seattle.At this point in his life, DJ was exhausted from his caregiving profession. Being a natural caregiver, DJ had always found ways to give more to others than himself. But that certainly sapped a lot of energy from DJ. He needed a break! Soon though, he realized he had been in a dysfunctional relationship with his husband from day one.Hear this part of DJ story in his own words. Listen along!Other Problems That DJ Faced at the TimeHe says that he struggled with poorly established boundaries in his relationship, as well as codependency that manifested itself in a ‘fix-it’ mentality for DJ. He states that fixing people and things are all he’s always known. And so his relationship made it hard for him to shake that compulsion.DJ also talks about how difficult it was to have a partner who stored porn on a hard drive and who viewed it regularly, sometimes sitting right next to DJ on the couch. This negatively affected DJ’s self-esteem and desire to be available for sex.His insecurities got so severe that he says he was drowning his sorrows in alcohol and porn himself. All of this after his partner started regularly meeting up with a porn star for dinner.DJ discusses more about this time in his life during the interview.New Relationship, Same ScenarioShortly after moving to Seattle, DJ tells us that he and his partner split up. This was just 2 weeks after moving, so DJ didn’t have a job and tried his hardest to get enough money to move out of the apartment he shared with his ex.He got a job and then found himself in a new relationship. But it soon became the same old relationship dynamic he had always known.After he got married again, that’s when his sex addiction showed up.DJ’s Sex AddictionOnce he was married again and living in Seattle, he and his partner decided to pursue an open relationship. They both were curious about the dynamic, and from within that framework, they embraced the lifestyle.DJ said he was immediately hooked. He and his partner had originally pursed outside relationships together, but they soon branched off and did their own thing within the set of rules they had laid out.But coupled with a drinking problem and an increasingly growing sexual appetite, DJ started to realize that he was in trouble. This realization came from a shocking physical confrontation and his spiral out of control.DJ’s Recovery ProcessOnce DJ’s partner agreed to go to treatment for his alcohol addiction, DJ realized his struggles and addictions. He says that when he filled out the assessment for Co-Dependents Anonymous, he checked off every single box on the sheet of paper. He also started attending Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meetings as well. In a similar manner, he found himself checking off the majority of preliminary assessment questions.He said it was absolutely heartbreaking to have the truth right in front of him in black and white. It also led DJ to discover an event in his life that had opened up everything to him. His meetings brought the necessary context for him to have the crucial breakthroughs that he needed to have.For much more on the story, including how spirituality helped him recover, his work with helping people, his amazing marriage and son, and his happy ending, listen along!Key Links for DJDJ’s website: http://www.djburr.com/DJ’s podcasts: Journey On Podcast || Making an AddictAffiliate link for DJ’s book, I Just Wanted Love: https://amzn.to/2VcKLIBMore info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, it is my honor to welcome DJ as he shares his personal journey with you. Having people come in and share the details of their life is one of the best parts of this platform! DJ is a therapist who works in the Seattle area. He specifically works with patients who are struggling with sexual addiction, codependency, and other process addictions. He is the best-selling author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Sex and Love Addict, and his story is one of bravery, honesty, and hope. Listen along and learn more DJ's story! Key Moments in DJ's Life That Led to Realization As DJ shares early in the interview, it wasn't until he moved from Georgia to Seattle that he began to realize the extent of his psychological hang-ups. Before, he had moved from place to place in an attempt to run from his problems, but he soon began to grasp his compulsions with more clarity. While DJ was in Georgia, he experienced relationship problems. As he says during the talk, “when you talk about being gay in the south, you don't get a lot of support.” And on top of this, same-sex marriage was illegal at the time, so DJ and his partner decided to move to Seattle. At this point in his life, DJ was exhausted from his caregiving profession. Being a natural caregiver, DJ had always found ways to give more to others than himself. But that certainly sapped a lot of energy from DJ. He needed a break! Soon though, he realized he had been in a dysfunctional relationship with his husband from day one. Hear this part of DJ story in his own words. Listen along! Other Problems That DJ Faced at the Time He says that he struggled with poorly established boundaries in his relationship, as well as codependency that manifested itself in a ‘fix-it' mentality for DJ. He states that fixing people and things are all he's always known. And so his relationship made it hard for him to shake that compulsion. DJ also talks about how difficult it was to have a partner who stored porn on a hard drive and who viewed it regularly, sometimes sitting right next to DJ on the couch. This negatively affected DJ's self-esteem and desire to be available for sex. His insecurities got so severe that he says he was drowning his sorrows in alcohol and porn himself. All of this after his partner started regularly meeting up with a porn star for dinner. DJ discusses more about this time in his life during the interview. New Relationship, Same Scenario Shortly after moving to Seattle, DJ tells us that he and his partner split up. This was just 2 weeks after moving, so DJ didn't have a job and tried his hardest to get enough money to move out of the apartment he shared with his ex. He got a job and then found himself in a new relationship. But it soon became the same old relationship dynamic he had always known. After he got married again, that's when his sex addiction showed up. DJ's Sex Addiction Once he was married again and living in Seattle, he and his partner decided to pursue an open relationship. They both were curious about the dynamic, and from within that framework, they embraced the lifestyle. DJ said he was immediately hooked. He and his partner had originally pursed outside relationships together, but they soon branched off and did their own thing within the set of rules they had laid out. But coupled with a drinking problem and an increasingly growing sexual appetite, DJ started to realize that he was in trouble. This realization came from a shocking physical confrontation and his spiral out of control. DJ's Recovery Process Once DJ's partner agreed to go to treatment for his alcohol addiction, DJ realized his struggles and addictions. He says that when he filled out the assessment for Co-Dependents Anonymous, he checked off every single box on the sheet of paper. He also started attending Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meetings as well. In a similar manner, he found himself checking off the majority of preliminary assessment questions. He said it was absolutely heartbreaking to have the truth right in front of him in black and white. It also led DJ to discover an event in his life that had opened up everything to him. His meetings brought the necessary context for him to have the crucial breakthroughs that he needed to have. For much more on the story, including how spirituality helped him recover, his work with helping people, his amazing marriage and son, and his happy ending, listen along! Key Links for DJ DJ's website: http://www.djburr.com/ DJ's podcasts: Journey On Podcast || Making an Addict Affiliate link for DJ's book, I Just Wanted Love: https://amzn.to/2VcKLIB More info: Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.com Web – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/ Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/ If you're enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcast Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/More info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

In this episode, recovery coach and author D.J. Burr and host Josh Hall dive into several topics, including self-care, surviving sexual abuse, codependency and addiction, and the freedom that comes with recovery. "Codependency is a dysfunctional relationship with yourself that is typically manifested with other people." - D.J. Burr, LMHC, NCC, S-PSB D.J. gives specific examples of what codependency looks like and how it manifests in simple daily activities, such as having a simple conversation. D.J. Burr himself is the host of two podcasts Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault and Making an Addict. In D.J. Burr's book, "I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict", he tells his story of recovery from sexual abuse, codependency and addiction. You can view more episodes at RecoveySoapbox.comOr subscribe to the audio version on iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher, Soundcloud, and Libsyn. Watch this episode on our studio cameras - Codependency and Addiction

In part-two of the premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her personal experience as a survivor. Nanette states early on in the interview that this is her first time publicly sharing about the emotional and physical abuse she endured in her young life. Nanette also shares how her own story helped her write her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed which she talked about in part-one of this interview. Thank you Nanette for giving us the gift of your journey. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault.   About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

In part-two of the premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her personal experience as a survivor. Nanette states early on in the interview that this is her first time publicly sharing about the emotional and physical abuse she endured in her young life. Nanette also shares how her own story helped her write her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed which she talked about in part-one of this interview. Thank you Nanette for giving us the gift of your journey. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault.   About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

In part-one of the two-part premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed. Nanette had the privledge of writting Denial, which is about a dear friend, David Wagner, and his childhood sexual abuse and subsequent struggles with sexual addiction and mental health problems. David unfortunatley took his on life, but Nanette is here to tell what she knows about his journey. Come back on Wednesday, October 4 for Part Two of D.J's interview with Nanette. She will be back to share her personal story of survival. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault. About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

In part-one of the two-part premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed. Nanette had the privledge of writting Denial, which is about a dear friend, David Wagner, and his childhood sexual abuse and subsequent struggles with sexual addiction and mental health problems. David unfortunatley took his on life, but Nanette is here to tell what she knows about his journey. Come back on Wednesday, October 4 for Part Two of D.J's interview with Nanette. She will be back to share her personal story of survival. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault. About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

This season on Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, you will hear more inspiring stories of hope, resiliency, and recovery. Men and women are coming together to help one another heal from the abuse and trauma of their past. Our stories are different, but our paths are similar. Join us October 1 for Episode One of Season Two featuring Nanette Kirsch, survivor and author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed.  Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr, abuse survivor, psychotherapist, behavioral addiction specialist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent Sex and Love Addict. D.J. is on a mission to bring healing to survivors who may suffering in silence. Hear our stories and share your own; you are not alone.    Music Ethereal Space (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2011 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/34151 Ft: snowflake

This season on Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, you will hear more inspiring stories of hope, resiliency, and recovery. Men and women are coming together to help one another heal from the abuse and trauma of their past. Our stories are different, but our paths are similar. Join us October 1 for Episode One of Season Two featuring Nanette Kirsch, survivor and author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed.  Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr, abuse survivor, psychotherapist, behavioral addiction specialist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent Sex and Love Addict. D.J. is on a mission to bring healing to survivors who may suffering in silence. Hear our stories and share your own; you are not alone.    Music Ethereal Space (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2011 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/34151 Ft: snowflake --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Seattle therapist Danielle DeBray about emotional intimacy and addiction. In the interview, Danielle references the classic psychological experiment "Rat Park" from 1978, which demonstrated how connectivity beats addiction and she calls for our own "Chimp Park" to beat the various addictions us humans have to other people, places, and things. Danielle is an expert on emotional attachement, atunement, addiction, eating disorders, and a phenomenal group therapist. She has been in the field of counseling for over 23 years. To learn more about Danielle visit her website. Here is a YouTube video on Rat park. Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

In the Season One finale of Journey On, host D.J. Burr talks with Patrol Officer Mike Steven of the Avon and Somerset Constabulary in the U.K. Mike is a strong advocate for male survivors. He is working diligently to increase awareness about male sexual abuse and assault; increase accessibility to services for male survivors, and increase the visibility of the services provided by engaging in a social media campaign aimed at reaching those survivors who have not been able to come forward previously. Listen for the differences in how the US and the UK deliver services and legal protections to survivors. Follow Mike on Twitter @ASPMikeSteven. #ListenBelieveRespect Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, D.J. goes off script a bit to talk with James Reyes' mom, Earlene. James' story of early childhood molestation and subsequent predatory behavior was featured on Episode Eight. Earlene insisted on giving her side of the story, as well as accounts of her experience dealing with various systems that are preventing James from getting the proper care he needs. D.J. offers Earlene the space to dive deep into her own hurt and pain and she recounts what it has been like for her to relive her own battle with sexual abuse as a child; managing her emotions as she fights for her son's rights; and moving toward acceptance of her son's emotional and mental health needs. This episode is truly heartbreaking, yet inspiring. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with James Reyes – a 38-year-old from Tennessee. James shares his experience of being abused from 4yrs old to 12 years of age by three different people. James is not only an abuse survivor, he is also a sexual offender. It’s important to talk about James' story because it is one that we generally only hear negatives things about. Sexual predators may also be abuse survivors and their stories need to be told as well. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Ken, a person in long-term recovery from early childhood sexual abuse and sexual addiction. Ken has been a longtime mentor and friend to D.J. He shares his harrowing story of abuse by a trusted adult from his childhood and the subsequent battle with sex addiction that resulted from the early trauma. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, DJ talks with Andre Bisquera who shares his experience as an incest abuse survivor and the challenges he has faced, as well as the support he provides to those in need. Andre who is working within the legal system to enact change for survivors regarding the statute of limitations. Many survivors find that the legal system is unfair and unjust when a survivor decides to pursue legal charges. Andre's story is full of compassion and hope for a new day for survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music: peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this episode, D.J. talks with Joe Braxton. Joe is an author and advocate. His new book, Still Breathing: How to Regain Your Life After Being Robbed, chronicles Joe's struggle with realization and acceptance that he is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Joe was groomed by a family friend, someone Joe has known almost his entire life and molested and sexually assaulted him for over 24 years. Joe describes what it has been like for him as he is coming to grips with the reality that the man who molested him, was also a man he fell in love with. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music: peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. D.J. Burr talks with Patrick Dati, a survivor of the prolific serial killer, John Wayne Gacy. Patrick shares the heart-wrenching story of how he escaped the grasps of Gacy and found his way to becoming a national speaker on child abuse and assault; bullying; and LGBTQI rights. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music: peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. D.J. Burr interviews Loren Michaels Harris - national speaker and advocate - about his experience growing up in the foster care system, and being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse while under the care of the foster care system. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Musis: peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In this week's episode, I talk with John, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and a person in long-term addiction recovery. John was abused from an early age by his father and his priest. Because of the abuse, John grew distant from the church and found other people, places, and things to fill the void left in him by his abusers. Hear John's brave story of recovery and a renewed love for himself and others. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 Follow #JourneyOn Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised. In the premiere episode, Journey On host, D.J. Burr, shares his story of childhood sexual abuse and the journey he took to heal from the hurt and pain. D.J. is a psychotherapist in Seattle, WA; best-selling author of the memoir, I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict; and he is the owner of ABLE Counseling Services in WA state. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 Follow #JourneyOn Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Listener discretion is advised.  In the premiere episode, Journey On host, D.J. Burr, shares his story of childhood sexual abuse and the journey he took to heal from the hurt and pain. D.J. is a psychotherapist in Seattle, WA; best-selling author of the memoir, I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict; and he is the owner of ABLE Counseling Services and Recovery Legacy Network, based in Seattle, WA. Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 Follow #JourneyOn Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram      

Journey On is a podcast for survivors of sexual abuse and assault. We are survivors. Here our stories and share your own; you are not alone. First episode premieres Monday, March 20, 2017. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. DJ's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable Music : peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

Journey On is a podcast for male survivors of sexual abuse and assault. We are survivors. Here our stories and share your own; you are not alone. First episode premieres Monday, March 20, 2017. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Music   peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram