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Youth crime is a constant issue in New Zealand – and in the last few years, stories of ram raids, violent attacks and spree offending have dominated the headlines. Successive governments have tried to tackle the problem – introducing various policies, programs and plans and even changing legislation. There has been some success, but for some youth offenders, it seems there is nothing anyone can say or do to stop their often terrifying and relentless behaviour. In this episode of A Moment In Crime host Anna Leask examines the life of one of hte country's worst youth offenders - Paddy. She also speaks with Principal Youth Court Judge Ida Malosi about the issues around young offenders, how they can be stopped and who is responsible. To read more about Paddy click here. The series is written and hosted by Leask – who specialises in crime and justice. She joined the Herald in 2008 and has worked as a journalist for 19 years with a particular focus on family and gender-based violence, child abuse, sexual violence, homicides, mental health and youth crime. If you have a crime or case you would like to hear more about, email anna.leask@nzme.co.nz. A Moment in Crime is available on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes are released monthly. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Our purpose in studying church hurt should be to protect ourselves from being either the “offender” or the “offendee."First, we must understand the importance of being involved in a local, Bible believing church. It truly is God's design for New Testament believers which we can find all throughout Scripture. God's design for a church is unity in doctrine, service, and purpose. At the same time, God has created each of us to be different with unique personalities, talents, and tastes. It is only through the love of God that so many different people can come together in a church unified for the purpose of sharing the Gospel and edifying one another. However, any time people are brought together there is potential for problems…Yes, the church should be different. We should be different.Different...not perfect. So how can we be careful not to hurt or offend others? How can we be sure that when we are the ones hurt, or offended, that we respond according to the Bible?Listen as Crystal shares some thoughts on this difficult topic. Support the showConnect with the ladies of Her Portion, HERE!

Daniel Miles was already serving a lengthy prison sentence for murdering his girlfriend. While in prison, he befriended and became romantically linked with another woman. While on a work release program, Miles escaped custody and hunted down his new lover, only to find her with another man. He exploded in rage and murdered her in cold blood. Daniel Miles will never be released from prison. This episode contains graphic descriptions of violent crime and men's violence against women. If you or anyone needs help, contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or Lifeline on 13 11 14. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we delve into the manipulative tactic known as DARVO—Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. Often employed by individuals to deflect blame and invert the roles in a conflict, DARVO can leave victims feeling confused and doubting their own experiences. We explore real-life examples, discuss its psychological impact, and provide insights on how to recognise and respond to this form of manipulation. Understanding DARVO is crucial in identifying and addressing abusive behaviours in various relationships. Support Resources in Australia: If you or someone you know is affected by issues discussed in this episode, the following Australian support services are available: 1800RESPECT Phone: 1800 737 732 Website: https://www.1800respect.org.au/ Description: A confidential service providing support for individuals impacted by domestic, family, or sexual violence. Available 24/7. Lifeline Australia Phone: 13 11 14 Website: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Description: Offers 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services for anyone experiencing emotional distress. Beyond Blue Phone: 1300 22 4636 Website: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ Description: Provides support for individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Services include a 24/7 helpline and online resources. Remember, reaching out for help is a vital step toward safety and recovery. These organisations are here to support you confidentially and compassionately. Access EXCLUSIVE & AD FREE EPISODES here: apple.co/iam Be part of the inner circle on Sunroom @kylielately Follow me on IG @kylielately & TikTok @kylielately See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Not Forgiving Someone HURTS YOU and NOT Your Perceived Offender; Forgive Like Jesus Who Forgives You, Unconditionally MESSAGE SUMMARY: If God has forgiven you, why do you have to confess your sins? Confession is for you. For you to forgive, as the Christ forgives you. Your forgiving others means that you release others from the offense that you believe they have committed. Jesus set the “forgiveness standard” for you as Paul tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32: “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.". Someone said that “holding a grudge and not forgiving is like drinking poison yourself to kill your enemy”. However, your forgiveness is not conditioned on the offender coming and asking you for their forgiveness – if you are like Jesus, you have already forgiven the offender. If you do not forgive like Jesus, the offense festers and turns into resentment; and these unhealthy feelings are happening in you and not in the perceived offender because you have not forgiven your perceived offender as instructed be Jesus – “forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”.     TODAY'S PRAYER: Lord, fill me with the simple trust that even out of the most awful evil around me, you are able to bring great good — for me, for others, and for your great glory. In Jesus' name, amen.     Scazzero, Peter. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Day by Day (p. 91). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. TODAY'S AFFIRMATION: Today, I affirm that because I am in Jesus Christ, I will entrust to Him my future. I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day.  From 2 Timothy 1:12 SCRIPTURE REFERENCE (ESV): Ephesians 4:31-32; Mathew 6:14-15; Psalms 130:3-4; Psalms 32:1-11. A WORD FROM THE LORD WEBSITE: www.AWFTL.org. THIS SUNDAY'S AUDIO SERMON: You can listen to Archbishop Beach's Current Sunday Sermon: “Essentials Part 4 – One God, Not Three” at our Website: https://awordfromthelord.org/listen/ DONATE TO AWFTL: https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXDonateNow?id=a0Ui000000DglsqEAB

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DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) is a pattern that keeps you stuck in cycles of self-doubt, confusion, and emotional turmoil. In this episode, I break down how it works, how to recognize it in real time, and—most importantly—how to start detaching from the manipulative narrative.If you've ever found yourself defending your actions instead of addressing the real issue, feeling like the "problem" in your relationship, or struggling to get clarity on what's happening, this episode will help you refocus on patterns, not excuses.Understanding these dynamics is a crucial first step in reclaiming your peace and emotional well-being.Support the showWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

On this episode, The Operator covers a case of a trial by fire that spanned more than 14 years - a case of mishaps, missed evidence, and miserable legal work. In the Happy Ending, we see how many times the police will tolerate a small bladder. Hugs. ❤️Ad-free episodes, hours of extra 911 Calls content each week, exclusive merch, and early access to all of the 11:59 Media podcasts. Start accessing hundreds of additional hours! Visit 11:59 PLUS or https://www.patreon.com/1159media

On this episode of Legislative Review:  We take a look at a couple of bills that are making there way through the Senate Law and Justice Committee.

DARVO was coined by Dr. Jennifer Freyd in the 1990s and stands for “Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender.” DARVO is a common defense strategy by perpetrators, narcissists, and offenders of both criminal and noncriminal harm when they wish to deflect accountability for their actions.Despite how common DARVO is both individually in relationships as well as on a larger scale (e.g., corporate and government level), it isn't talked about very often. DARVO is highly effective at silencing victims. But I'm hopeful that by sharing knowledge of how DARVO operates, we can empower ourselves and our society to combat it.In this episode, we discuss the dynamics of DARVO, as well as the ways it can suppress whistleblowers and negatively impact their wellbeing.I know it's a weighty topic for this episode, but it feels highly useful for all of us to have this knowledge handy, whether to advocate for ourselves or to better support our clients in identifying DARVO and successfully holding others accountable.You can find the shorter, less in-depth version of this episode here:https://youtu.be/zhAZfcin3YYNational Domestic Violence Hotline:https://www.thehotline.org/Crisis Text Line:https://www.crisistextline.org/"How to Handle the DARVO Method"https://sentientcounselling.co.uk/2023/03/21/how-to-handle-the-darvo-method/Thank you to Paubox for sponsoring this episode. Paubox makes HIPAA-secure email easy and streamlined. Check them out here:https://bit.ly/pps_paubox_spotify*Get $250 off your first year with Paubox with coupon code "SKILLS"*Bonus Deal:* If you add the Paubox badge to your website you get an extra $100 off your first year - that means you can get your whole first year free if you apply both deals! FREE Guide: Start a Private Practice in Counseling:https://tinyurl.com/y9ek9en8"Processing Personal Challenges While Still Being a Therapist"https://youtu.be/KoLn9XeUZ9YChoosing Therapy Article: "DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender”https://www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/Dr. Jennifer Freyd: “What is DARVO?”https://www.jjfreyd.com/darvoCNN Article: "What others knew: Culture of denial protected Nassar for years”https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/23/us/nassar-sexual-abuse-who-knew/index.htmlOffice of the Whistleblower Website:https://whistleblower.house.gov/“Whistleblowing and Mental Health” Government Document:https://whistleblower.house.gov/sites/evo-subsites/whistleblower.house.gov/files/evo-media-document/Whistleblowing_and_Mental_Health.pdfResources for Whistleblowers:https://whistleblower.house.gov/resources/resources-whistleblowers"The Whistleblower's Dilemma: Do the Risks Outweigh the Benefits?”https://knowledge.wharton.upenn.edu/article/whistleblowers-in-business/Whistleblower Protections (in the U.S.)https://www.dol.gov/general/topics/whistleblowerArticle: "What Makes Whistleblowers So Threatening?”https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4676977/LINKS*Some links are affiliate links. A percentage of purchases come back to me and help my channel immensely!

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Today, Hunter spoke with Professor Daniel Loehr to discuss his research on the Eugenics Origin of Habitual Offender Laws. While many people hear habitual offender laws and think of the three strikes laws from the tough on crime era of the 1990's, Daniel reveals that the history of these laws traces back to a much earlier and darker time in our nation's history. Daniel lays out how America's Eugenics movement wanted habitual offender laws to act as a way to stop certain populations from procreating, and what we as a society should do with these laws given their history.   Guest Daniel Loehr, Professor of Law, City University of New York School of Law   Resources: Contact Daniel daniel.loehr@law.cuny.edu https://www.law.cuny.edu/faculty/directory/daniel-loehr/ Daniel Files an Amicus Brief in Colorado https://law.yale.edu/yls-today/news/amicus-brief-offers-history-habitual-criminal-laws-and-their-origins Daniel's Article   Contact Hunter Parnell:                                 Publicdefenseless@gmail.com  Instagram @PublicDefenselessPodcast Twitter                                                                 @PDefenselessPod www.publicdefenseless.com  Subscribe to the Patron www.patreon.com/PublicDefenselessPodcast  Donate on PayPal https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=5KW7WMJWEXTAJ Donate on Stripe https://donate.stripe.com/7sI01tb2v3dwaM8cMN Trying to find a specific part of an episode? Use this link to search transcripts of every episode of the show! https://app.reduct.video/o/eca54fbf9f/p/d543070e6a/share/c34e85194394723d4131/home  

A mother of a Melbourne youth offender involved in youth crime has spoken out 8 months laterSubscribe on LiSTNR: https://play.listnr.com/podcast/fifi-fev-and-nickSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We can look to the story of the Prodigal's Son to understand the process we should take when asking for forgiveness. When the Prodigal's Son realized that he had done something wrong, he humbled himself, went to his father, admitted his fault, and asked for forgiveness. When we sin against a brother or sister, we are also sinning against God, and we must be willing to humble ourselves and repent.

Saul's grudge against David, not only affected his own life, but David's also, who had to live in fear of Saul's retaliation. When we refuse to forgive a brother or sister, it may cause them to become distant or hesitate to participate in the church family. If we do not forgive and heal our relationships with our brothers and sisters, we not only risk harm to ourselves, but to them as well.

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Anthony John Wheble is not as well-known as many of the criminals previously covered by A Moment in Crime - but he is considered of New Zealand’s most violent criminals. He has been in prison for more than a decade and he is serving as sentence with no end date, due to the severity and nature of his crimes. Wheble has tried to kill two fellow inmates with shanks - one who was confined to a wheelchair at the time with both legs in casts. The impression you get from the news stories and from the court decisions published about his years of offending is tha Anthony Wheble is a menace, someone who needs to be locked up for as long as possible. But there are people who will tell you that is not the case, that prison is the worst environment for Wheble, that he is unwell and needs a significant level of help. In this episode, Anna Leask explores the story of Anthony Wheble - who he is, what he has done and why he may never be released from prison, and speaks to his mum and another of his supporters about their mission to save him. The series is written and hosted by Leask – who specialises in crime and justice. She joined the Herald in 2008 and has worked as a journalist for 19 years with a particular focus on family and gender-based violence, child abuse, sexual violence, homicides, mental health and youth crime. If you have a crime or case you would like to hear more about, email anna.leask@nzme.co.nz. A Moment in Crime is available on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes are released monthly.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The great Scott Ferrall returns to "Locked Up Sports" to talk Super Bowl LIX, Radio Row, crazy nights in New Orleans, why he hates both the Chiefs and the Eagles and tells his favorite stories from Super Bowls Past the way only he can. #ScottFerrall #LockedUpSports #SuperBowlLIV #RadioRow #PHIvsKC

Episode Summary (Dot Points)Understanding Cybercrime through Strain and Anomie TheoriesDr. Dearden explains how strain theory and anomie theory provide insights into cybercriminal motivations.Discussion on economic and social pressures that push individuals toward cybercrime, including unemployment, inequality, and lack of upward mobility.The Role of Honeypots in Cybercrime ResearchOverview of honeypots—deceptive systems designed to attract cyber attackers.How honeypots help researchers observe and analyze hacker behaviors in real-world settings.Differences in hacking techniques and motivations across different regions.Regional Variations in Cybercriminal ActivitiesWhy cybercrime is not uniformly distributed worldwide despite the internet being a global network.Case studies on West African romance scams, Russian cyber operations, and Indian call center frauds.The interplay between legitimate and illegitimate economies in cybercrime hotspots.Cybercrime and Economic OpportunityFindings from recent research on how financial strain vs. greed influences cybercrime.The role of cryptocurrency in enabling financial cybercrimes and providing anonymity to offenders.Discussion on how cybercrime prevention strategies need to address offender motivations, not just security vulnerabilities.Future Research and Policy ImplicationsThe need for broader, structural changes to mitigate cybercrime, rather than relying solely on reactive security measures.How cross-national studies and criminological data collection can improve cybercrime prevention strategies.Upcoming projects on measuring cyber-offending patterns and regional differences in hacking behavior.About Our GuestDr. Thomas Deardenhttps://liberalarts.vt.edu/departments-and-schools/department-of-sociology/faculty/thomas-dearden.htmlPapers and Resources Mentioned in This EpisodeDearden, T. E., & Gottschalk, P. (2024).Convenience Theory and Cybercrime Opportunity: An Analysis of Online Cyberoffending.Deviant Behavior.DOI LinkParti, K., & Dearden, T. (2024).Cybercrime and Strain Theory: An Examination of Online Crime and Gender.International Journal of Criminology and Sociology. https://doi.org/10.6000/1929-4409.2024.13.19Dearden, T. E., Parti, K., & Hawdon, J. (2022).Institutional Anomie Theory and Cybercrime: Cybercrime and the American Dream.Journal of Contemporary Criminal Justice. https://doi.org/10.1177/10439862211001590 Related Episodes Featuring Dr. DeardenEpisode 39 : Strained Dreams: Cybercrime and Institutional Anomiehttps://www.cybercrimeology.com/episodes/strained-dreams-cybercrime-and-institutional-anomie Other:The Human Factors in cybercrime Conference: https://www.hfc-conference.comWe had a chat in a room with a bunch of people just outside having their own great conversations. Kind of nice to get a little bit of that vibe into the mix.  Conferences can be a lot of fun ;)/.To the best of my knowledge, no bovines were harmed during the recording of this episode. 

It all began with a single Reddit post: A Connecticut man, overwhelmed and uncertain, sought advice about what to expect as a first-time, non-violent offender facing prison. He invited us to chronicle his life before, during, and after incarceration, pulling back the curtain on a world most of us only glimpse in movies or headlines. Discover how his expectations clashed with reality in ways he never anticipated, and how his experience offers an unflinching look into the unexpected truths of life. Suggested episodes: Why'd You Do It: I snuck my incarcerated boyfriend out of prison in a dog crate Why’d You Do It?: I Committed Nine Armed Robberies Love without the possibility of parole GUEST: Mike West: An Uncasville, CT resident who was incarcerated from June 2023 until June 2024 for a gun-related felony Support the show: https://www.wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hosts: Erin Rider and Leah Murray  Inside Sources continues previewing legislation ahead of the 2025 Legislative General Session, which begins in five days. State Representative Andrew Stoddard is running a bill that would address some ‘cracks in the system’ relating to the Sex, Kidnapping, and Child Abuse Offender Registry. He joins the program to explain what he’s hoping to do through his legislation. 

In 2011, 19-year-old Kenia Monge disappeared after a night out in Denver, Colorado. A web of lies and deceit unravels as her family desperately searches for answers. The truth behind her disappearance is more sinister than anyone could have imagined, involving a trusted "Good Samaritan" with a dark past and a chilling pattern of predatory behavior. This is the tragic story of Kenia Monge, a young life cut short by a monster hiding in plain sight.   Watch the Youtube version (Sources in the Description) https://youtu.be/WM0o7L_BhZI   Check out my website and submit cases www.danellehallantc.com Follow my socials! facebook.com/danellehallan Instagram.com/danellehallanyt https://www.tiktok.com/@danellehallan

In Part 2, we move forward with discussing the two Attachments Disorder in children and considerations for treatment options, before looking at some real-life examples of child killers with seemingly attachment disturbances. We round out the episode with some really good entertainment examples. Listen to Part 1 here. Join our Patreon family! You can find all of our resources on our website: https://www.la-not-so-confidential.com/  L.A. Not So Confidential is proud to be part of the Crawlspace Media Network

To kick off 2025, we cover Attachment Theory in two parts. In Part 1, we lay the groundwork for the different attachment styles that, in some extreme cases, can have the potential to result in harmful adult behavior.Part 2 will drop tomorrow. Join our Patreon family! You can find all of our resources on our website: https://www.la-not-so-confidential.com/  L.A. Not So Confidential is proud to be part of the Crawlspace Media Network

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“I could barely make out what he was saying. He started screaming and howling. It was extremely distressing. I thought he was being attacked. We rang the police and put the two phones together but it soon went dead. It later turned out the call wasn't recorded because the tape recorder wasn't working. It really does beggar belief.”Anne said her Brother found David's phone upstream from the area his body was found – despite an earlier police search. She added: “The whole case leaves more questions than answers. He could have been attacked, he could have had his drink spiked. "Anything could have happened.”Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/deborah-hatswell-bbr-investigations-cryptids-paranormal-unexplained-events--2840337/support.

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How do Narcissists get to be the Victim? - DARVO DEMYSTIFIED  DARVO is an insidious tactic narcissists use to flip the script and play the victim. DARVO, which stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender, is a manipulative strategy that leaves victims feeling confused, powerless, and silenced. But what exactly is DARVO, and how can you spot it in real-time?In this Episode we unpack:The tell-tale signs of DARVO in actionWhy narcissists rely on playing the victim to manipulate and control such as....Romantic Relationships. You confront a narcissistic partner about their infidelity. Instead of addressing the betrayal, they lash out, accusing you of being overly controlling or untrusting. Suddenly, the conversation shifts from their wrongdoing to your supposed flaws. Now, instead of holding them accountable, you're defending yourself against baseless accusations. Or....After a breakup, a narcissist may launch a smear campaign, portraying you as the abusive one. They might share selective “evidence” with mutual friends, showing their tears and claiming emotional devastation. Meanwhile, they conveniently leave out their toxic behaviours.Tune in to listen to the full episode!For Zoom counselling support in your narcissistic abuse recovery available worldwide, please visit my website below.  Nova

Not Forgiving Someone HURTS YOU and NOT Your Perceived Offender; Forgive Like Jesus Who Forgives You, Unconditionally MESSAGE SUMMARY: If God has forgiven you, why do you have to confess your sins? Confession is for you. For you to forgive, as the Christ forgives you. Your forgiving others means that you release others from the offense that you believe they have committed. Jesus set the “forgiveness standard” for you as Paul tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32: “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.". Someone said that “holding a grudge and not forgiving is like drinking poison yourself to kill your enemy”. However, your forgiveness is not conditioned on the offender coming and asking you for their forgiveness – if you are like Jesus, you have already forgiven the offender. If you do not forgive like Jesus, the offense festers and turns into resentment; and these unhealthy feelings are happening in you and not in the perceived offender because you have not forgiven your perceived offender as instructed be Jesus – “forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”.     TODAY'S PRAYER: Lord, fill me with the simple trust that even out of the most awful evil around me, you are able to bring great good — for me, for others, and for your great glory. In Jesus' name, amen.     Scazzero, Peter. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Day by Day (p. 91). Zondervan. Kindle Edition. TODAY'S AFFIRMATION: Today, I affirm that because I am in Jesus Christ, I will seek God's perspective on my situation. For I know that in all things God works together for good to those of us who love Him and are called according to His purpose. From Romans 8:28 SCRIPTURE REFERENCE (ESV): Ephesians 4:31-32; Mathew 6:14-15; Psalms 130:3-4; Psalms 32:1-11. A WORD FROM THE LORD WEBSITE: www.AWFTL.org. THIS SUNDAY'S AUDIO SERMON: You can listen to Archbishop Beach's Current Sunday Sermon: “Wake Up America!” at our Website: https://awordfromthelord.org/listen/ DONATE TO AWFTL: https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXDonateNow?id=a0Ui000000DglsqEAB

The New York attorney generals office, led by Cy Vance attempted to downgrade Jeffrey Epstein's offender status from level 3, the highest you can go, to level 1. Thankfully, the Judge overseeing the proceedings at the time struck down the notion and admonished the DA for even asking for such a reduction. In this episode, we take a look at how it all went down and what the DA's office excuse was. (commercial at 8:34)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:https://nypost.com/2019/04/11/da-knew-jeffrey-epstein-was-a-dangerous-pedophile-when-arguing-for-leniency/

Stephen J. Giannangelo has spent decades writing and studying Abnormal Psychology, Criminal Psychology, and Serial Murder. Growing up on monster movies of the 1960s, he later became captivated by real-life figures like Albert DeSalvo and Charles Manson, an interest that set him on a lifelong path of exploration into the darker corners of human behavior.With over 20 years of experience teaching university courses on Serial Murder and the Psychology of the Offender, Stephen remains deeply passionate about researching and discussing these topics. His work continues to resonate with a growing audience, and he invites you to explore his books and join in this ongoing journey of discovery.https://linktr.ee/UnforbiddentruthBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/unforbidden-truth--4724561/support.

The New York attorney generals office, led by Cy Vance attempted to downgrade Jeffrey Epstein's offender status from level 3, the highest you can go, to level 1. Thankfully, the Judge overseeing the proceedings at the time struck down the notion and admonished the DA for even asking for such a reduction. In this episode, we take a look at how it all went down and what the DA's office excuse was. (commercial at 8:34)to contact me:bobbycapucci@protonmail.comsource:https://nypost.com/2019/04/11/da-knew-jeffrey-epstein-was-a-dangerous-pedophile-when-arguing-for-leniency/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-epstein-chronicles--5003294/support.

Maddie was in a relationship with her boyfriend Renzo for three years when she got a DM on Instagram asking her: "Do you know your boyfriend is cheating on you?" After Maddie learned about Renzo's extracurricular activities, her cleaning lady spilled all the tea about Renzo's cheating! Emotional abuse and complex trauma aren't talked about nearly enough and friends don't want to listen to you talk about relationship drama. Maddie has learned more about addicts and trauma bonding. She says "do some inner work" to avoid finding yourself in an emotionally abusive and unhealthy relationship with someone who utilizes DARVO tactics: Defend, Attack, Reverse, Victim, Offender. We've learned some new red flags from our interview with Maddie! Thankfully, she's come out on the other side better than ever.  

You know, most of us spend way too much time in the offended seat, because we allow our feelings to be hurt so easily. We start throwing pity parties, and we get stuck in that seat. Quite honestly, I'm really sick of sitting in this seat. It has taken me awhile to realize I sit in the offended seat more than I should, but I've finally gotten really sick of it. And it is like being let out of prison, set free from bondage, when you see how miserable it is to be the offended person and to wallow around in self-pity. If you spend a lot of time in this seat of the offended, with your feelings hurt, and throwing your own pity parties, you probably think someone else has the responsibility to get you out of that seat. You're thinking the person who hurt you, who offended you, should now come and do whatever is necessary to get you out of there. After all, it's not your fault if you're in the seat of the offender, you think, so it's not your responsibility to get yourself out of it! But I hope you will hear this clearly: If you are in the offended seat, it is because you are choosing to sit there. And believe it or not, there is nothing anyone in the seat of the offender can do to get you out of the seat of the offended. You will only get out of that seat when you decide you've had enough, when you see how wrong and sinful it is, and how self-destructive it is. The person who offended you should apologize, especially if it was intentional. I get that. But they may never be able to apologize enough or in an acceptable way to you if you are really stuck in the seat of the offended. And of course, many times the one who offended doesn't apologize, either because they don't know they have offended you or they don't care. So, if you're waiting for the offender to extricate you from that miserable seat of the offended, you're in for a huge disappointment. In fact, there are people in the seat of the offended who enjoy being there, in a rather perverse way. They enjoy being a victim. After all, as long as you're in the seat of the offended, you don't have to take responsibility for anything you did in the seat of the offender. You can just keep shifting blame and having your pity parties—and spend your life in the offended seat. I must tell you when you choose to keep sitting in the seat of the offended, it turns you into someone who is sour, unattractive, self-consumed, and dishonoring to Christ. Now, I know some of you have been hurt very deeply; the offense against you is deep and ingrained. Even so, God wants to deliver you from being the offended person, carrying that burden around with you all the time, wearing that chip on your shoulder. But you must be willing to give it up. What does God say we should do when we've been offended? Romans 12:14: Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. We are to bless them, not slander them. Regardless of what they did to you, it pales in comparison to what your sin—and mine—did to the Son of God. Do you remember Jesus' words on the cross—Father, forgive them? He blessed those who persecuted him. He gave us the model for how we are to treat those who hurt us. Have you blessed people in the offender seat of your life? I mean literally prayed a blessing on them—asked God to bless them. That's one way to get you out of the offended seat. Proverbs has some very wise advice for those who have been offended. Proverbs 19:11: A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense. If you find yourself suddenly in the seat of the offended—someone has said something to hurt your feelings or done something that injured you—can you, by God's grace and through the power of the Holy Spirit, give up your right to feel hurt and actually choose to overlook the offense? Now, I know some offenses should not be overlooked, but certainly with those small things that often put us in the seat of the offended, we can learn to overlook them,

All of us have been in both of those seats; we have offended others, sometimes intentionally, sometimes not, and we have certainly been offended. But neither place is a good place to be; a mature Christian who desires to grow up in Christ doesn't want to spend any time in either place—either as the offended or the offender. This episode and next, I'm going to describe what happens to us when we occupy either of these seats—the seat of the offender or the offended. And then we prepared a special handout to help you stay out of both! You'll find it on our website at christianworkingwoman.org. Let's look at the seat of the offender. Offending others can either be intentional or unintentional. We must recognize both—those times when we really want to hurt someone, and those times when we have hurt someone without even realizing it. First, what would cause us to intentionally try to hurt someone? The first thing that comes to my mind is that we strike back at someone who has hurt us. We've been hurt, so we hurt back. This comes in big ways and small ways. For example, someone may have said one sentence to you today that hurt your feelings, and before you know it, you reacted with a stinger of your own. Or someone may have passed you by without saying hello or treated you in what seemed like a rude way, and so the next chance you get, you respond to them in a similar fashion. Those are small offenses that generate other small offenses. And whether the first offense was intentional, we respond in an intentionally offensive way because we assume it was intentional! Does this not ring a bell with you? You've seen it happen at work, at home, at church, in families, with friends and strangers, and no doubt you've sat in the seat of the offended in response to small offenses. The thing is, these small offenses can easily escalate to a long-term, hurtful cycle of offenses each person inflicts on the other. There are many marriages, as well as other close relationships, that have been in a cycle like this for years, where one small offense generates another in return, and that has become the norm for that relationship—each person offends because she or he is offended, and on it goes. What is needed is for one person in that relationship to be willing to break the cycle. This is why Jesus said, “If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles” (Matthew 5:39 – 41). Jesus is not advocating we become floor mats for people to run over, but he is saying if you will be willing to break the cycle, to be the one who refuses to return an offense for an offense, you can stop this hurtful cycle and you can find healing in the relationship. But someone has to decide to get out of the seat of the offender and not return evil for evil. Some married friends of mine say they have learned to give each other the benefit of the doubt. In other words, if one of them is offended by the other, before they assume that the other meant to offend them, they give them the benefit of the doubt by assuming they did not mean to offend, since they both have promised not to intentionally offend each other. I like that. That will break the cycle of offense before it gets started. If you are in the offender's seat, I want to encourage you—to urge you—to decide to get out of it right now, today. It's really a miserable place to be. But I think it is often true when we do offend someone, it is unintentional. We don't stop to realize how words, attitudes, body language, and facial expressions—and all kinds of little things—can become offensive. We truly underestimate how easily we can cause hurt. Aren't you usually shocked when you find out someone is offended with something you said or did? I was shocked some time ago when a person I counted as a good friend began to strike out ...

New Discourses Bullets, Ep. 101 DARVO is an acronym that refers to a particular abusive behavior that applies when the abuser is caught or called out. It stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender: DARVO. DARVO takes many forms, but in wedge operations it very frequently takes the form of being divisive and then accusing the people who call it out of being divisive. It fits the mold: Deny: "I'm not divisive!" Attack: "You're divisive!" in such a way that it Reverses the roles of Victim and Offender. In this episode of New Discourses Bullets, host James Lindsay explains this simple, common, Machiavellian trick used to steal power by divisive elements. New book! The Queering of the American Child: https://queeringbook.com/ Support New Discourses: https://newdiscourses.com/support Follow New Discourses on other platforms: https://newdiscourses.com/subscribe Follow James Lindsay: https://linktr.ee/conceptualjames © 2024 New Discourses. All rights reserved. #NewDiscourses #JamesLindsay #DARVO

One of the highest profile measures on California's November ballot is Proposition 36. If passed, it would roll back criminal justice reforms approved by voters ten years ago to reduce incarceration rates and increase punishments for certain drug and theft crimes like carjacking, burglary and shoplifting. Supporters say Prop 36 needs to pass because of increases in some property crimes and growing public anxiety over retail theft. But what does a person who once committed those kinds of offenses think about the measure? Guest: Robyn Williams, LA Resident New CDC data show how important COVID vaccines are during pregnancy. Reporter: Jackie Fortier, KFF Health News A new poll finds a majority of California voters support two bond measures on the November ballot.  Reporter: Guy Marzorati, KQED Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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This is just a preview of our Patreon exclusive Bonus Episode. You can hear the full episode by becoming a member at: www.patreon.com/indoctrination Have you ever felt like someone was manipulating you, making you question your own reality? If so, you might have experienced DARVO - Denial, Attack, Reverse Victim, and Offender. Abusers use this manipulative tactic to deny their wrongdoing, attack the victim's character, and reverse the roles of victim and offender. In this Patreon bonus episode, a continuation from pt.1, Rachel dives deeper into this concept, providing real-life examples and practical advice on how to cope with it. Thank you for your continued support as a subscriber and supporter of the show. Your partnership is invaluable, and we are pleased to offer you these bonus episodes as a token of our appreciation. Connect with Us on Social Media: Twitter: www.twitter.com/_indoctrination Facebook: www.facebook.com/indoctrinationpodcast Instagram: www.instagram.com/indoctrinationpodcast YouTube: www.youtube.com/rachelbernsteinlmft Share Your Feedback With Us Here: forms.gle/tz8eQwZorVNWWyQq6 Your reviews and ratings on Spotify and Apple/iTunes are greatly appreciated and help the show reach a wider audience.

This is just a preview of our Patreon exclusive Bonus Episode. You can hear the full episode by becoming a member at: https://www.patreon.com/indoctrination Rachel dives deep into the concept of DARVO - Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender - a term that sheds light on the manipulative tactics often used by abusers to deflect blame and undermine their victims. In this enlightening bonus episode, she breaks down each component of DARVO, illustrating how these tactics are employed and their psychological impact on victims. Rachel explains how abusers deny their harmful actions, attack the victim's credibility, and reverse roles to portray themselves as the victim. She shares personal anecdotes and examples to highlight the real-world application of DARVO, including the disturbing practices within certain fundamentalist groups and toxic men's movements. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the dynamics of manipulation and abuse. Rachel offers practical advice on recognizing and responding to DARVO, empowering listeners to protect themselves and support others who may be experiencing similar tactics. Thank you for your continued support as a subscriber and supporter of the show. Your partnership is invaluable, and we are pleased to offer you these bonus episodes as a token of our appreciation. Connect with Us on Social Media: Twitter: www.twitter.com/_indoctrination Facebook: www.facebook.com/indoctrinationpodcast Instagram: www.instagram.com/indoctrinationpodcast YouTube: www.youtube.com/rachelbernsteinlmft Share Your Feedback With Us Here: forms.gle/tz8eQwZorVNWWyQq6 Your reviews and ratings on Spotify and Apple/iTunes are greatly appreciated and help the show reach a wider audience.

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