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Under federal law, producers of child exploitation material must pay a minimum of $3,000 in restitution to each of their victims. That would seem stricter than the restitution rules related to child sex trafficking, which also mandates compensation to victims but with no minimum amount. In reality, the problems that prevent child sex trafficking victims from receiving restitution also persist in child pornography cases. The News found recent local cases involving children 12 or younger. None of those pedophiles was forced to pay restitution, nor was it sought by prosecutors or required by judges. Read the stories in the “Abused and Abandoned" series now at dallasnews.com/abusedandabandoned. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

For years, federal and state laws have mandated survivors of child sex crimes to be financially compensated by their abusers. But a yearlong Dallas Morning News investigation found THAT promise is rarely fulfilled — especially in North Texas, where restitution is often never pursued or ordered. The effects are lasting. Many survivors are left without the money they need for counseling, medical treatment, housing and other support as they try to recover from devastating abuse. Why does the system so often fail the very people it was designed to protect? And how can that be changed? Read the stories in our investigative series: “Abused and Abandoned” at dallasnews.com. In today's headlines: Former Michigan head coach Dusty May has agreed to become the next coach in Dallas; interest in succeeding Eric Johnson as mayor already has produced a long list of potential contenders, even though the election remains more than a year away; Six Flags Over Texas is delaying the launch of its highly anticipated dive coaster, Tormenta Rampaging Run; Frisco King starring Samuel L. Jackson as a hitman who aims to start a new life in Frisco is looking for a few extras. For more info and to apply go to: mycastingfile.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr. Deb Muth 00:03What if your diagnosis isn’t actually your diagnosis? What if the fatigue, brain fog, anxiety, and inflammation you’ve been told are normal are actually signals your body is reacting to something in your environment? Something no one ever tested.What if the reason you’re not getting better is because no one is asking the right questions?Today, we’re exposing one of the most overlooked drivers of chronic illness, and why so many people are being dismissed, misdiagnosed, and left without answers.You guys can insert, one of our ads in here, that’d be great.Welcome back to Let’s Talk Wellness Now, the show where we uncover the root causes of chronic illness, explore cutting-edge regenerative medicine, and empower you with the tools to heal. I’m Dr. Deb, your medical detective. And today, we’re diving into the hidden drivers of chronic illness through the lens of functional and environmental medicine.If you or someone you love has been diagnosed with a chronic condition or is struggling with unexplained neurological symptoms, like fatigue, brain fog, numbness, or chronic pain. This episode is for you. So, grab your cup of coffee, tea, or whatever helps you unwind.Settle in, and let’s get started on your journey to deeper healing.Today, I’m joined by Dr. Kelly McCann. A board-certified physician in internal medicine and pediatrics, with advanced training in functional, integrative, and environmental medicine. She’s known for her work in mold illness, chronic infections, MCAS, and complex chronic conditions And for helping patients who have been told everything looks normal. She helps them finally get real answers. Dr. Kelly, welcome to the show. I’m so excited to have you here. Share a little bit about what you’re doing these days, and who you are, and who you’re serving with us. Kelly McCann 02:42Thank you. So, my favorite patient population is patients who deal with complex chronic illness, and I didn’t set out to deal with these kinds of patients, but I kept… needing to be able to solve the puzzles, right? So they would come in, and there would be so many things that just didn’t add up and didn’t make sense, and it started with,it started with just doing functional and integrative medicine, and GI issues, and hormone issues, and autoimmune issues, and then it was mold as a driver, and then it was Lyme disease and the other tick-borne infections, and then all of those patients, many of those patients developed mast cell activation syndrome.Which I’ve now gone on and become an expert in, because they all have it.And all the related conditions with MCAS, the Ehlers-Danlos, hypermobility syndrome, POTS, postural orthostatic tachycardic syndrome, and… The one thing that really stuck out to me over the years of treating these patients is the ones who were willing to take a deep look inside. And see how their… their belief patterns, how their thoughts how they perceived themselves, different traumas that they experienced. If they were able to reframe some of the ways that they were thinking about their illness, about themselves, their relationship to themselves, they were the ones who really healed.And not only did they heal physically, they healed emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. I have some patients who started out disabled, and now are running their own companies. One who, again, same thing, terribly disabled, lots of emotional issues, lots of ups and downs, food sensitivities, oxalate issues, and now she’s a medical intuitive. And she’s just doing fabulously, and has blossomed, right? So, this is a missing piece that we’re not really talking about. Dr. Deb Muth 05:04Yeah, I so agree with you. I see the same thing in my practice, and I treat a lot of the same people you do, and you are so right. Like, if we can get down to a deeper level with them, and address the trauma that happened.And it may be a trauma they never even remembered, right? It could be something that’s just seated in their cells and they don’t remember it. And you don’t directly think it’s causing the illness, but it is getting in the way of them healing. If you can address those things, those are the people that tend to do so much better, I think, versus the people who are getting some mileage out of their illness. That there’s a reason they stay stuck, there’s a reason they stay sick, they’re getting something from it, even though they don’t realize it in the moment.So let’s talk a little bit, before we hopped on the recording, you and I were talking about body, emotion, spirit. A little different than what we’re used to hearing with mind, body, spirit. Talk about your philosophy on this. Kelly McCann 06:01So what I’ve really come to realize is that the mind is getting in the way. And we have this perception that our mind is who we are. Right? We really think that who I am are the thoughts that I have every day. That’s me. And when I’m not getting better, it’s because my body is not… Falling in line with what my mind and my will want to do. So we set up this adversarial relationship. And this has been the philosophy in Western culture since Descartes said, I think therefore I am. Where the mind is supreme, and it is the all-knowing, and the body is just a vehicle for the mind. And every… Therapeutic intervention, from trauma-informed therapy, from, you know, wonderful people who have committed a lot of help and given great information. Bessel van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score, Gabor Mate, you know, all of these folks who have done such great work in us understanding trauma I think… The next phase is really recognizing that the body is actually not against us. It is not our enemy. In fact, it is… The body that is speaking to us as the voice piece of our souls and our spirits, that is saying to us, hey. you’re not listening. The path that you are walking down and the way that you are being in the world is not really working for you. It’s not who you are. It’s not who you’re supposed to be on the planet. And we’re trying to get your attention, right? Dr. Deb Muth 07:59Yeah. Kelly McCann 07:59I mean… Dr. Deb Muth 08:00this thing, so I’m gonna talk louder. Kelly McCann 08:02Exactly, exactly! It’s like a little toddler who only can speak in so many words, right? There’s only so many ways that a younger version of ourselves, or our bodies, like, how do our bodies communicate to us? Symptoms and sensations. That’s it. Those are the ways that our bodies communicate. And if we don’t listen to sensations, well, it’s gotta turn it up, it’s gotta turn up the volume, and then we have more symptoms. And then if we’re still like, no, it’s gonna do it my way, it turns up the symptoms some more. And when… We are in this adversarial relationship, we can’t bridge that gap. Can’t bridge that gap, so… What… what happens is thatUnderneath the symptoms and the sensations are emotions. Emotions that have not been processed. Because we’ve been stuffing them down, we believe that they shouldn’t exist, we don’t want to face them, we’re afraid of them, they’re not acceptable, we’re ashamed of them, whatever the reason may be, and they’re stuck in the body. And so the way through is to actually just feel our feelings. Dr. Deb Muth 09:26That’s kind of scary for some people. Kelly McCann 09:28It’s… it’s scary for the… it’s scary for the whole planet! Dr. Deb Muth 09:32For all of this, right? Kelly McCann 09:33For all of us. When we start to feel our feelings, we don’t like it. We’ve been taught it’s not okay. Boys, it’s not okay to cry. Girls, don’t be loud, don’t be angry. You’re a B-I-T-C-H if you do that, right? So there’s so many taboos about feeling our feelings. I have patients who say, I can’t be mad at my father or my mother because I was taught to honor thy father and thy mother. Like, yes, but you’re angry, and guess what?] That ain’t going nowhere until you express it, so… you have a choice. Express it, or hold onto it, and then you just kind of stay here in this space where it’s never expressed. Dr. Deb Muth 10:19Yeah, except in your body, in your physical being, right? Kelly McCann 10:22Except in your physical being. And here’s the magic. Emotions are meant to move through us, right? Emotion. They don’t last for that long!60 to 90 seconds, really? Maybe a couple minutes? Yeah. You really, really feel them. Right? Dr. Deb Muth 10:44Yeah. Kelly McCann 10:46And we’re terrified of that 60 to 90 seconds. Dr. Deb Muth 10:50What might we do to ourselves or to someone in that 60 to 90 seconds, right? I may scream, I may cry, I may not be this person that everybody thinks I’m supposed to be. That person that holds it all together is there for everybody, holds everybody else’s space. So well put together, right? If you’re not that person, then who are you? Are you human? Kelly McCann 11:16Oh, you’re more than human. Yeah, I mean, the way that I would look at it is, I would say, well, you don’t have to put on a show, right? This is really for you. Close the door, lock the… close the windows, get out your pillow. Whatever you need to do. I mean, I have some patients who will write it out. There’s a way to just, like, freeform write, where you don’t actually read it, you just write it out, scribble it out, get it all out on paper, and then burn it, or shred it, or something like that. you can pound a pillow, you can, you know, scream, whatever it is, you can cry. I mean, I think crying is, at least for… for me. Crying is the easiest way to think about it. So, you start crying, you’ve got a few little tears, you know, it’s not too bad, and then it’s a full-on sob, and then at some point, you’re like, okay, I think I need a tissue, right? But it doesn’t last forever Dr. Deb Muth 12:22No, it really doesn’t. I had a physical therapy friend who, when I started my practice, and you know, you start your business, and everything’s just chaotic, because you don’t know what you’re doing, and you have all kinds of people that don’t know what they’re doing, and there’s always a problem. Computer, the phone, the this, the that, blah blah blah. And she brought me what was called a Dammit doll. And I had never seen one, I didn’t know what it was, and it was this really… sturdy doll that didn’t look like anything, that had two legs that you could grab onto, that you could just beat at the table whenever you needed to. And she’s like, this is how you do it. And I was like. oh my god, that’s amazing! And I would use it every couple of hours sometimes, sometimes every day, and I would just be like. And then it was over.Yeah, sure, but it was over, instead of me walking around all day long, carrying all this frustration and not having anybody to talk to about it, because you’re busy during the day. And then if you keep talking about it, it just gets worse. But I could do that, and then I’d be done, and I’d be like, okay, I got it out, let’s find the solution, now let’s move on. Kelly McCann 13:28Exactly! Dr. Deb Muth 13:29Coolest thing! Kelly McCann 13:31Exactly! That is exactly what I’m talking about, Deb. Exactly, that’s so cool. I love that. Yeah, I mean, anger is really taboo in our society. Very taboo. And, And, you know, I have a couple patients that struggle so much with expressing their anger, but it’s important. It’s important. We’ve all had so, so many instances. You know, and… of being disappointed. Dr. Deb Muth 14:08Yeah. Kelly McCann 14:08from our… from… All sorts of situations in our lives. And, you know, nobody gets out of life without any trauma. you know, little T traumas. Everybody’s got some. Even if you have the most wonderful, well-meaning parents, something’s gonna happen, and it might be the parents, it could be just life, but things happen that we misinterpret. And then we think.We make decisions about ourselves, or about our families, or about what’s okay and what’s not okay, and those things cause us to forget who we really are. Dr. Deb Muth 14:53That’s okay. Kelly McCann 14:55Because when you look at a 1-year-old or an 18-month-old, they are joy and love incarnate, right? Dr. Deb Muth 15:03Yeah, they are. Kelly McCann 15:05That’s who we are. That’s who we really are. But we forget. We forget, because of all the rules, and all the expectations, and all the disappointment, and all the misinterpretations, we forget who we really are. And… I think… A life journey, especially a health journey, is a way back to who we really are. Dr. Deb Muth 15:32It’s interesting, as we’re talking about this, because I think about people who have really traumatic life events, like life and death. They are so lucky that they’re alive. They were in an accident, or, you know, they had this horrible cancer that they survived, and they weren’t supposed to. And they come out very differently, oftentimes. Because they realize how precious life is, and it’s… they look at life now as a gift instead of whatever else we were looking at it before that time, right? But they do truly look at life differently. I… I’m curious always, like, how do they… how do they do that? But yet, if we have a chronic illness.It’s so much harder to do that same thing when there’s a chronic illness versus an acute thing, and you’ve got this second chance. Kelly McCann 16:20Right? I see it as, The chronic illness is this slow decline, right? And because it’s a slow decline, there’s never that. Wake-up call. Which people get in a car accident, in a cancer diagnosis, where all of a sudden, your life changes in front of you, and you have to really reflect. Where I think with chronic illness, it’s like, oh, this isn’t great, I don’t love this. Oh, this is a little worse. But we keep hoping… which is the part that’s connected to who we really are, right? We keep hoping it’s gonna get better. Keep hoping it’s gonna get better, but it’s getting worse, and it’s getting worse. And… And we… as a… again, as a culture, have an expectation that somebody is gonna throw us a bone or a line, and we’re… they’re gonna pull us back out. We’re gonna find the right protocol, we’re gonna find the right practitioner, we’re gonna get… have somebody else help us get out. And… As healthcare practitioners, we can help people get 50% better, 80% better, you know, sometimes 100% better, but not all the time, because it’s an inside job. Dr. Deb Muth 17:42Well, and I like to tell people, too, like, you’re never 100%, 100% of the time. there’s always going to be something that you’re not gonna like. You wake up, you’re a little more tired, you know, you slept wrong, you got a kink in your neck, whatever it is. But I think you’re really on to something here, too, because if you don’t deal with the emotional baggage, the trauma. the person who said something to you in high school. If you don’t deal with that, and you carry that around forever. you kind of keep inviting the same people into your lives to treat you the exact same way. So then you just kind of keep that same pattern going over and over and over again, and you just keep thinking, why am I the doormat? Why does everybody keep kicking me? And when we truly start to deal with what happened, you start to attract those people differently in your lives, and people aren’t walking all over you anymore. Kelly McCann 18:35Right. And… It’s very easy to get caught up in the whys. And that keeps us up here. Right, and what I’ve found with myself and, you know, many of my patients is that We have to stay in the body long enough with the sensations and the emotions to have it, you know, crescendo on the emotion, and then decrescendo. But when we pop out, and we start asking, well, why did this happen, and why am I a doormat, and why am I a victim, and why, why, why, or… or analyzing, or what have you, we… We stop the emotive process. Which halts the resolution, and we don’t actually get to where we want to be. So, you know, I was just talking to a patient today. She’s like, well, I’ve been feeling my feelings, and I’ve been feeling the fear. I’m like, yes, but did you actually stick with it the entire time, or did you start thinking about it? Because we do this, we pop into our thoughts, and we’re like… oh, yeah, I was emoting. You know, like, oh, that made me sad. And then come back up here, and then we realize, oh, we gotta, we gotta… we’re still stuck in it, we’re still stuck in it. And I’m like. Dr. Deb Muth 19:56Like, when we’re… annotate. Kelly McCann 19:59Exactly! Exactly! It’s kind of like that, yeah. And so we stay on this little, hamster wheel. Because we don’t recognize it. The solution is in the emotion. Dr. Deb Muth 20:15So how do people stay in the feeling instead of letting their mind escape to the grocery list, the kid’s to-do list, dot dot dot dot dot? How do we stay in that emotion long enough to kind of work through it? Kelly McCann 20:30It’s a good question. I think… Having the awareness that that’s what you need to do. is the first step, right? Is to really say, okay, I’m gonna, like, put my mind outside of the door, say I’ll be back in 20 minutes, and then really just give yourself the permission to stay with whatever emotion that’s coming up. And it’s practice. It is a lot of practice. This is not… it’s very, very simple. It is not easy for the vast majority of people, and especially if we’re really patterned. So, I actually started an online program to help people learn how to do this. Because it is… not easy. Dr. Deb Muth 21:16If it was easy, we wouldn’t have so many problems, right? We would just move on and keep going, but that’s where we got ourselves into a lot of trouble, is we just recognize, acknowledge, move on, and say, okay, I’m out of it, good, let’s go, next thing, next thing. Kelly McCann 21:32Yeah, which doesn’t work. Like, oh, I dealt with that. I, you know, talked to my parents before they passed, and we came to an understanding. Like, that’s not the same thing as feeling your feelings, because that 10-year-old, that 5-year-old who felt abandoned, or felt… Abused, or whatever it is that you’re feeling, they’re still in there. The adult you made this agreement with your parents that you’re gonna be okay, right? But that kid you still is upset. So…I think the first… the first thing is recognizing that emotions and thoughts are very different, and to learn the difference. So if I say, I feel like blah blah blah blah blah, that’s not a feeling, that’s a thought. Dr. Deb Muth 22:26Hmm. Kelly McCann 22:27Right? I feel like, this. I’m in… I feel embarrassed. No, that’s the thought. Dr. Deb Muth 22:34That’s not… Kelly McCann 22:35the actual feeling. Feelings are really often located in the emotions. They’re very simple. I’m afraid. I’m sad. I feel terror. I’m angry. I’m enraged. Those are feelings. I… I am mad that blah blah blah blah blah. You know, we don’t necessarily have to know why we feel the feelings. Eventually, we will understand where they’re coming from. But it’s actually just feeling the feelings, and then… oh, I love this one, too. It’s like, well, I’ve forgiven them. I’ve forgiven them for, you know, what they did to me. That’s here. Yeah. If you’ve really forgiven them. it comes from here, and it comes after the feelings. So, we still have to feel our feelings if we’re angry or upset about something, if we’re sad about something, we have to feel them first, and then the beauty is in what’s underneath the emotions. It’s quiet, it’s calm, it’s soft, it’s connected to who you really are. And at that point, then you have a much broader worldview and understanding of things, and you can have compassion for yourself. You can have compassion for other people and their choices. And when I… when it’s… when it’s held in that space, it’s… it’s such a different experience. Yeah. Dr. Deb Muth 24:18Do you think people can have compassion for others if they don’t deal with their own things? Kelly McCann 24:24It’s, again, it’s… it’s from the head, right? Dr. Deb Muth 24:28Not from the heart. Kelly McCann 24:29It’s not from the heart. It’s not from the heart. And it’s a good try, but it’s, like, a carbon copy of the real thing. It’s not really the thing. Dr. Deb Muth 24:39Hmm. What happens if people walk around thinking that they have all this, you know, great compassion and love for the world,but it is truly just coming from the head and not the heart? Kelly McCann 24:54Then, you know, they’re kind of circling and circling, and they’ll find that the thoughts and the beliefs and the things that cause them to be upset will still be there. Right? There’s a… I mean, I have to admit, I don’t really watch the news, because it is upsetting, right? Dr. Deb Muth 25:14I am. Kelly McCann 25:15And I have a number of patients who are very, very distraught about the state of the world.That’s… not seeing the bigger picture. It’s coming from here. Rather than here. And this is a really hard thing for people to grasp. But when we are triggered, By something outside of ourselves. That is because that upset exists inside of ourselves. So, for example, if I call you stupid, Deb, and there’s no part of you believes that you are stupid, it will bounce off you. You know, like you’re a rubber ball, right? Because it’s not true. It doesn’t resonate anywhere in you, so you can’t possibly be triggered by that.But if I say to you something that, you find hurtful, it’s not because of what I’ve said. It’s because that hurt, that upset, is still alive in you. And that… Opportunity, then, Is there for you to say, hmm… Clearly, there’s something inside of me that needs some attention about this.we’ve… we don’t really think about life that way. Right. We think… That person made me mad. Nobody makes you mad. It’s you. That inside of you. Right? I was talking on the phone last night with one of my colleagues whose daughter is in the hospital, and she’s been in the hospital in, like, the best Children’s Hospital, in Chicago for 2 months. Two months with gastrointestinal issues. And… They haven’t done a CT scan yet. Dr. Deb Muth 27:24What? Kelly McCann 27:25I know. I was talking with another, physician colleague of… colleague of mine last night, or this morning, at the time. How… that should have been done in the ER! Dr. Deb Muth 27:38Yeah! Kelly McCann 27:39At least… At least, or maybe the first day of the hospitalization, they didn’t do an endoscopy until Last week. 7 weeks in the hospital with an NJ tube. Dr. Deb Muth 27:53Oh my god. Kelly McCann 27:54Tube feeds. like, what is wrong with these people, right? So, I was so mad on her behalf. And of course, what I realized, too, is then, okay, well, there’s stuff inside of me, like, I have really… I have some stuff about… what is expected of other people in the world, what is expected of other physicians in the world. Like, these are the worst physicians on the planet. They clearly don’t care. They should all be fired. But there’s stuff in me that is really being triggered by this, that I have… I have work to do about. And I still think it’s wrong. Dr. Deb Muth 28:36I had that same experience last week. I had a pharmacist tell my patient they didn’t need a prescription that I had ordered, because she… didn’t fill it frequently enough because she was using it differently than what we wrote it, which so many of our patients do. It’s a hormone, it’s not a big deal, right? Kelly McCann 28:53Yeah, right. Dr. Deb Muth 28:54And… and he said to her, well, I don’t think you need this anymore. Yes. Kelly McCann 29:00choice. Dr. Deb Muth 29:01Right, and that’s what I said, I’m like… I said, who the F is he? To tell you that he thinks you need this or not? He doesn’t know you, he doesn’t know your labs, he hasn’t been taking care of you for 20 years. I have, and you’ve clearly been using it. And so I called the pharmacy, and the conversation went a little differently on his side, of course, than what the patient explained to me, but I had to sit back, too, and I looked at that, and I was like, why was I so angry that he said this to her? And I understand, it was, you know, he was undermining my authority, my knowledge base, and I knew that right away, but I was still so triggered by it, and… and she was just kind of like. Yeah, I was really surprised he said that, but I figured he knew more than me, and I’m like, so I was coming to see you, I would just tell you, and you would tell me if it was right or wrong, and I’m like. okay, that was a good way to take it, but boy, that instantly triggered for me. But again, I recognized exactly why I was triggered with that, and had to calm down a little bit and all of that, but… I think there’s a lot of that that happens. And, you know, when you work hard to know what you know, and I work hard, and we see other people doing not even the basics, it’s kind of like, what is wrong with the world? Kelly McCann 30:18Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, and there’s stuff there, right? So why is it that I worked so hard to become the best doctor that I could? Because I didn’t feel adequate. And so, when somebody else shows up as inadequate, or I perceive them to be inadequate, that triggers that… my own inadequacy, right? Especially since it was a man, so there’s a man under my your authority. Yeah, that would just really get to me. Yeah, so there’s something around that, so I know that, you know, for me, that might be where I explore it, but yeah, it’s, Life is a journey. Dr. Deb Muth 31:00Yeah, it really is. And I think, too, from a practitioner standpoint, like, we take so many of our patients home with us, like, it’s our job to be the medical detective, figure them out.Help them find the answers, make them feel better. And not that we do it from an eco perspective, because I think most practitioners don’t. They truly do it because they care and they want to make people better, and we have this knowledge and this expertise that other people don’t have. But, boy, it gets harder and harder and harder when you get more and more chronically ill people to help them find the answers and help them be well, especially if they don’t deal with their own house, right? We don’t… if they don’t deal with their house, it’s hard for us to come in and say, let me help you deal with your house. Right. So, how does that fit into some of this? Kelly McCann 31:51You know, that’s a really good question. I had to learn that over time to be able to use my own intuition to say, how much is this person willing to do? And really evaluate their… their willingness to change, their willingness to do the hard work. And… And I… and I had to hone my intuition in order to do that, and now I see… I will see there are people that… they’re happy. in their little merry-go-round, in their whack-a-mole game. And I will do my best, and I will kind of, you know, nudge where I think it’s appropriate, but when they push back, I gotta let that go. I gotta let that go, and recognize that it’s their journey, it’s their life, and I can’t be more attached to their healing than they are. Dr. Deb Muth 32:49That’s what I’ve done, too. That’s what I tell my practitioners, my young practitioners that come in by me, too. I say the same thing. Like, I have some that are really young, and we’re all green, right? And we want to just fix the world, and I’ve got so much I can give you, and so much you can do, and then when they don’t do it, you’re like. what did I do wrong that they’re not doing it? And I have to go back and tell them the same thing. This is their journey, not yours. You’re just here to give knowledge and hold space. And they get to pick and choose what they want to do, and if it’s not exactly what we want them to do, that’s okay, it’s their journey. And every time… and I laugh because I always see my younger self in them, too, but why don’t they want to do it? This is gonna make them so much better! We have this tool! And it’s like… they’re not ready yet. It’s okay for them not to be ready yet. We have to be okay with the fact that they’re not ready yet. And I think as a provider and a practitioner, that is one of the hardest things to do, is to sit back and go, okay, you’re just not ready yet. When you’re ready, we’ll be here to hold you and hold space. But right now, you’re not there, it’s okay. Kelly McCann 33:52Yeah, it is okay. Yeah, actually, one of the women that I mentioned earlier, earlier in the podcast, it took her 18 months to get to the point where I felt like she was ready, and it was one of those things, like. You’re ready! I got so excited, and that’s exactly what I said to her. I was like, okay, here, I want you to read this book. Dr. Deb Muth 34:14And he was. Kelly McCann 34:14finally ready, and I gave her the book called How to Heal Yourself When No One Else Can by Amy B. Share, which is just so awesome. And she took that book, and she was like, I am going to do this. And she wrote out journals and journals and journals, and… did lists, and then she would clear them, and then she would clear them. She got so much better, and then it was, like. Biofield tuning, and she did, Gupta, and Amya Piggin’s work, and, you know, so many other things. And then she was doing really well, 80% better, eating all sorts of foods, and there was still this little, like. Mmm, something’s still missing. Something’s still missing. Not quite where I want to be. I still have some mood issues. And then she came and joined my Unforgetting Project program. And that was the missing piece for her. This… whole thing that we’re talking about, like, just feeling the feelings was really her missing piece, because she was clearing, you know, with using EFT, but it wasn’t working anymore, because she actually was bypassing feeling her feelings. Dr. Deb Muth 35:38Hmm. Kelly McCann 35:39So I, you know, these programs, the nervous system programs, the limbic system programs, they are fantastic, and they’re super, super helpful. And then there comes a point in time where we have to shift gears, and we have to go deeper. But it… all of those programs get people, if they’re willing to put in the time and effort, get people to the place where, like, okay, now I gotta go in. Even deeper. Yeah. Dr. Deb Muth 36:07And that can be scary for people. That can be really frightening. I did a 10-day women’s retreat in Spain, with a priestess program, and I had no clue what I was doing. I was going to my first women’s retreat in Spain, no clue, but I had to do. Kelly McCann 36:23It sounds fantastic. Dr. Deb Muth 36:25Fantastic, right? And and when I got there, it was a lot of shamanic work, deep work, and, as we’re all… there’s, like, 30 of us women going through, and all different ages, going through things. And reliving our past as a child, and reliving all these different pieces of us as women that we’ve left behind someplace else. We’ve lost. And, And just sitting in… I still remember it to this day, you know, the crying, the sobbing, the anger, the screaming, the stomping. the silence. Like, everybody had a different way of dealing with those emotions coming out, and we had to be silent from, 10 at night till 10 in the morning. You couldn’t say anything to anybody. And, and that was a little challenging for a lot of us. But it gave you that time that after you went through one of these processes. you could process. You could just sit with those feelings, sit with what came up for you, journal. And it was a really incredible time to watch a lot of women just blossom into a new version of themselves, you know? Their old version, but a new version. A healed version of themselves, in a lot of ways, yeah. Kelly McCann 37:45So what… in the languaging that I’ve come up with, it’s the, unforgetting, right? So it’s actually the remembered self, because we have let go of the things that caused us to forget. So we have unforgotten who we really are, because As you’re right, it’s… it is not new, it’s just remembered, or unforgotten. Dr. Deb Muth 38:12Yeah. Yeah. That’s really awesome. For somebody that’s listening to us have this conversation, and they’re kind of thinking, this all sounds great, but I have no clue where to start with something like this, what kind of recommendations would you give to them? Kelly McCann 38:29Well, I actually have an online program. And… it’s, it’s a 9-week online program, and…What you’re doing in community is learning how to Feel your feelings, and how to understand them, and different access points in to them, and doing it in a community, which is terrifying for some people when they start, but at the same time, it is the most loving container Because these people are also on their complex chronic illness healing journey. And they have chosen themselves, and chosen to show up, and chosen to show up for 9 weeks, which is a long time, but it’s also this beautiful, sacred time. And, half of the class is lecture, sharing, and then half of the class we spend in trios. Which means, my staff divvy up people into groups of three, and then there… each trio goes through a process. They all do the same process.And you do it 3 times, so you have a chance to be, a different role in each iteration that you go through. So one role is the explorer. Those are the people who are actually just feeling the feelings. And exploring what’s going on inside of them. One person is what we call the companion, they’re kind of like the… the, not really the guide or the therapist, but they’re just holding space with them, maybe giving some prompts to help them work through the process. And there’s a handout that works through the process, and then there’s the third person whom is the anchor. And the anchor is holding that loving battery. And it just sets up this…situation where you’re held in such an embrace that you’re able to express your feelings. And one of the things I learned early on was that vulnerability leads to intimacy. And so, when you’re vulnerable with somebody else, they feel… closer to you, and they feel more capable of being vulnerable with you, because you’ve trusted them, right? So, it builds this level of vulnerability, intimacy, and trust in the community, and then each time you do your trio with somebody, with new people, often. Dr. Deb Muth 41:16time. Kelly McCann 41:17And it’s a really, really special program where you’re practicing this, and you’re doing homework, so you take the things that you learned from the class, and then you go home and you practice it with yourself. So that’s what I have come up with to help people start to really learn how to do this. And then it’s gonna grow from there. So I have a foundational class right now. We’re on… we just started our second cohort, And then eventually there will be a second-tier class, and workshops, and the other thing that I’m doing is one-on-one, trainings with… what one-on-one… I call them unforgetting journeys with people. So, you know how you go to a therapist, and you’re in the middle of a story, in the middle of sobbing, and they’re like, oh, well, that’s 50 minutes, it’s Here’s your tissue, we’ll see you next week. Dr. Deb Muth 42:12Yes. Kelly McCann 42:13Yeah, so painful. Dr. Deb Muth 42:16Oh, bad. Kelly McCann 42:16So painful, and I understand, like, we have the same thing, too, as physicians, like, oh, I’m so sorry, your time is up, I gotta go, I have more patients waiting. The unforgetting journey, I don’t have a clock. Dr. Deb Muth 42:29Mmm. Kelly McCann 42:30It’s… we go until you feel complete. And for most people, it’s two and a half, three hours. Dr. Deb Muth 42:37Wow. Kelly McCann 42:37To really process through the emotions that are coming up. Dr. Deb Muth 42:43to get… Kelly McCann 42:43To the point where you’re… they feel… Okay. I feel… I feel complete for today. Dr. Deb Muth 42:52For now. Kelly McCann 42:53For now. Dr. Deb Muth 42:54So the next layer, kind of. shows itself, right? Yeah. Kelly McCann 42:59Yeah, yeah. And for now, the Unforgetting Journeys are for people who have gone through the program, or are in the program, because you really need to… you have to have the skills. Dr. Deb Muth 43:11So, if somebody’s interested in your online program, how do they get in touch with you? Kelly McCann 43:17The website is unforgettingproject.com. And you can sign up right there. The next cohort will start May 20th. It’ll be a Wednesday evening. From 4.30 to 6.30 Pacific time, so I tried to make it so as many people on both sides of the continent could make it. I know it’s a little late for East Coast, but, yeah. And then, you know, every month or two, we’ll start a new cohort, so if you’re interested, and if those… that time doesn’t work for you. You know, I did Fridays initially, I’m doing Mondays, this iteration. We’ll try, other dates and times for people, and try and get a few more dates, on the calendar, so that people have some options. But yeah, that would be my suggestion. You can sign up for our email list, and we’ll be sure to let you know all the happenings at the Unforgetting Project. Dr. Deb Muth 44:17That’s awesome. And for those of you who might be driving or didn’t catch that, we will have it in the show notes as well, so that you can jot it down, check it out, if it sounds like it’s something that really resonates with you. Dr. Kelly, thank you so much for your time tonight. Is there any last words you want to leave with our listeners? Kelly McCann 44:35Of course, of course. There’s always hope. And that hope that burns inside you, that…There is a different life… a different life waiting for you. That is your spirit. That is your soul. Talking to you, and spurring you on. And my encouragement is to really listen to that. Because then you will find your way to people like Dr. Deb, and other practitioners who have heart, who have the tools and the capacity to help you on the physical world journey, and then… You know, my other encouragement would be, really listen to your body. Consider the possibility with curiosity that it is on your side. And if it’s on your side, and it’s talking to you and communicating to you, what might it be saying that it needs from you? Dr. Deb Muth 45:43I love that, that’s awesome. Thank you so much for your time today. Kelly McCann 45:47You’re welcome, my pleasure. I’m so happy to speak with you and to talk with your, audience. I think it’s wonderful. Dr. Deb Muth 45:54Thank you. Boom. Wow, what an episode we just had with Dr. Kelly McCann. This is incredible. It’s a completely different way for us to think about chronic illness, and think about what our body’s actually going through, and how we can repair it from a different aspect. So, thank you for joining me today on Let’s Talk Wellness Now. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who’s been searching for answers and hasn’t found them yet. And if you’re enjoying our episodes of Let’s Talk Wellness now, we would love to ask the biggest favor you could do for us, which is like and subscribe and share. It goes a long way for us getting our podcasts and our episodes out into the hands of so many people Who need to hear these messages. So, if you’re feeling inclined to do that, we would love that, that affirmation from you guys. So, remember, wellness isn’t just about feeling good, it’s about thriving in every area of your life. If you’re ready to explore the root cause medicine. We can help you. Visit serenityHealthCarecenter.com or Dr. Kelly McCann, and until next time, I’m Dr. Deb, reminding you to take care of your body, mind, and spirit. Be well, and we will see you on the next episode. The post Episode 270 – Chronic Symptoms Are a Hidden Message: How to Listen and Finally Heal | Dr. Kelly McCann first appeared on Let's Talk Wellness Now.

In this powerful conversation, Chloe from The B Brave Project, opens up about the urgent need for more honest discussions around child sexual abuse (CSA). After years of silence, she explains how shame thrives when experiences are hidden and why speaking openly is so important for healing and awareness.Chloe shares how grooming and control can look very different in every situation, often making a child feel special, chosen, and loved, making it impossible for many children to fully understand what is happening to them at the time.Reflecting on her own experience, Chloe describes how she was groomed by the taxi driver who took her to school. What began with jokes, laughter, sweets, and pocket money led to inappropriate touching, gradually escalating.This conversation highlights the importance of awareness, open communication, and helping parents understand the subtle signs of grooming so they can better protect and educate their children.Chloe is the host of The B Brave podcast series, creating space for open conversations, awareness, and healing surrounding CSA.To contact Chloe across most social media platforms: https://bit.ly/4tqIYvwTo help support her cause: https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-b-brave-projectIf this conversation resonated with you, please like, comment, and subscribe to help raise awareness and support more survivors speaking out. You van also join our YouTube or Patreon Memberships for extra content and early access: Patreon: / somethingtosay YouTube membership: / @somethingtosayofficial To follow us on social media: Instagram: / somethingtosayofficial Facebook: / somethingtosayofficial1 Linkedin: / something-to-say1 TikTok: / somethingtosayofficialTikTok: / somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Jas Rawlinson is a fearless journalist, author and advocate. But before she was any of those things, she was a girl trying to survive in a home filled with domestic violence and coercive control. Jas grew up watching her father abuse her mother. She carried that shame into her first relationship, where love bombing turned into sexual abuse. But Jas didn't stay silent. She reclaimed her story and her power. And now, she's on a mission to expose the systems that exploit vulnerable women. In this episode of I Catch Killers, Jas explains the difference between physical and emotional abuse, and why the latter is so often dismissed, why she went undercover to expose Brisbane’s illegal massage parlour industry, and why she refuses to believe all men are the problem. This episode contains graphic descriptions of sexual assault and men's violence against women. If you or anyone you know is impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence, contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 for counselling, information and support services anytime. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel. Follow I Catch Killers:Instagram: @icatchkillersTiktok: @icatchkillerspodcastFacebook: @icatchkillersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You can fill in the blanks on this one! Whatever you allow is what you're going to get! If you don't want better, keep doing what you're doing but it will never benefit you!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

It's crazy that people are still rallying around and supporting the very system that's causing them to struggle! People in the U.S. and around the world have been used and abused for hundreds of years. It's time to wake up! We, the people have the power! It's irrefutable, but until people wake up, things will not get any better! People are too busy fighting one another with no understanding that it's exactly what those in power want you to do! They fear the people coming together and changing the trajectory of their lives by making them less rich! Therefore, they keep discord and division among the people because it's easy to do amongst people who are broken like them. The difference is for the majority of them, you've made them rich, yet you're not. They make you think they care, but haven't done anything to show it! They understand what they're doing to keep their riches flowing. They also know you're easy targets to manipulate and brainwash, because you're broken too, but their hoping you never figure it out!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Lester Kiewit speaks to Ben Lombaard, co-founder of LieTech Polygraph & Forensic Services, about dramatic testimony in the Madlanga Commission. Policeman Karl Sander was previously told he failed a lie detector test over cocaine worth R200m stolen from Hawks’ KZN offices, which made him look as if he was complicit. Sander was in tears when he heard through the Commission, that the person administering the test had made errors, exonerating him. Lombaard has known Sander for most of his career, and discusses how polygraphs should be used as an investigative tool, and how it can also be abused by the corrupt. Good Morning Cape Town with Lester Kiewit is a podcast of the CapeTalk breakfast show. This programme is your authentic Cape Town wake-up call. Good Morning Cape Town with Lester Kiewit is informative, enlightening and accessible. The team’s ability to spot & share relevant and unusual stories make the programme inclusive and thought-provoking. Don’t miss the popular World View feature at 7:45am daily. Listen out for #LesterInYourLounge which is an outside broadcast – from the home of a listener in a different part of Cape Town - on the first Wednesday of every month. This show introduces you to interesting Capetonians as well as their favourite communities, habits, local personalities and neighbourhood news. Thank you for listening to a podcast from Good Morning Cape Town with Lester Kiewit. Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays between 06:00 and 09:00 (SA Time) to Good Morning CapeTalk with Lester Kiewit broadcast on CapeTalk https://buff.ly/NnFM3Nk For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/xGkqLbT or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/f9Eeb7i Subscribe to the CapeTalk Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/sbvVZD5 Follow us on social media CapeTalk on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@capetalk CapeTalk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ CapeTalk on X: https://x.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CapeTalkSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chris Cooke was 13 years old when he was accused of stealing a pumpkin on mischief night in Warren, New Jersey. He didn't do it. In this episode of Locked In with Ian Bick, Chris shares how that one false accusation set off a chain of events that would change his life forever — probation, juvenile detention, and the unthinkable abuse that followed at the hands of the person meant to protect him: Warren County Sheriff Edward Bullock. What started as 30 days in juvenile detention turned into years of abuse, addiction, and silence. Chris tried to report what was happening. Nobody believed him. It would take decades before the truth came out — and even longer before justice was served. _____________________________________________ #SurvivorStory #TrueCrime #Justice _____________________________________________ Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ _____________________________________________ Shop Locked In Merch: http://www.ianbick.com/shop _____________________________________________ Timestamps: 00:00 Betrayed by the Badge — Chris Cooke's Full Story 04:00 Growing Up in a Single Parent Household and What That Left Him Vulnerable To 07:00 The Pumpkin Incident That Started Everything — How a Minor Charge Changed His Life 11:00 His First Encounters With a Juvenile Justice System That Failed Him 15:00 First Time in Detention — And the Moment the Abuse Began 20:00 How the Cycle of Probation Violations Kept Him Trapped and Exposed 27:00 How the Abuse by the Sheriff Escalated and What It Did to Him 35:00 How the Abuse Destroyed His Schooling and Turned Him Against Everything 40:00 Using Substances and Relationships to Cope With Trauma He Couldn't Name 47:00 Addiction Mental Health and the Moment He Almost Didn't Make It 53:00 Building an Adult Life While Hiding the Secret That Was Destroying Him 01:00:00 Hitting Rock Bottom — The Moment Everything Finally Had to Change 01:07:00 Admission Rehab and the First Steps Toward Actually Healing 01:14:00 Fighting Back — The Legal Battle Against Warren County That Nobody Expected Him to Win 01:20:00 Walking Into Court and Facing the System That Failed Him as a Child 01:26:00 After the Case — Why Winning Doesn't Mean the Healing Is Over 01:32:00 Coming Forward Speaking Out and What Advocacy Really Looks Like 01:38:00 What Healing and Forgiveness Actually Mean After 30 Years of Carrying This 01:44:00 The Lessons He Learned and What He Wants Every Survivor to Know _____________________________________________ To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/LockedInWithIanBicka Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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You Won't Believe What Trump Just Did- A $1,776,000,000 Gift To Abused Patriots Trump just turned the left's own legal weapon against them — and handed $1,776,000,000 to the Americans they hunted. The number wasn't random. It was chosen on purpose. Is this the reckoning patriots have been praying for? Lance Wallnau breaks down exactly how Trump used Eric Holder's own Obama-era DOJ playbook to build a $1.776 billion compensation fund — deliberately named after 1776 — for every American targeted, prosecuted, and destroyed by weaponized government under the Biden administration. From the Russia hoax to the Mar-a-Lago raid to the IRS leaking Trump's tax returns — it's all bundled into one historic settlement. The left is screaming "slush fund." But the courts already blessed this structure when Obama did it. Lance also features a powerful Charlie Kirk clip revealing the stunning Christian foundation of all 13 original colonies, plus a conversation with attorney and author Elizabeth Ingram Carlisle on her new book Americans Who Pray — released just in time for America's 250th anniversary. In this episode: How Trump flipped the Obama-Holder DOJ playbook into a $1.776B win for patriots Why the January 6 defendants may finally see justice and compensation The Mar-a-Lago raid, the Russia hoax, and the IRS leak — all settled Chuck Schumer and the New York Times meltdown explained Charlie Kirk: 9 of 13 original colonies required Bible-believing Christians in government Deuteronomy — the most quoted source in all of America's founding documents Interview: Americans Who Pray author Elizabeth Ingram Carlisle on faith and America's identity Lance's personal testimony of coming to Christ at Valley Forge The reckoning isn't coming. It's already here.

NOTE: When you sign up for Patreon, PLEASE do it through a web browser (Safari, Chrome, etc.) and NOT an app on your iPhone. The Apple app charges 30% !!! If you just click on the link above, it should be fine. In today's episode, Becket Cook sits down with Carlos Qatari for one of the most powerful redemption stories you will ever hear. From being sexually abused by family members between the ages of 5 and 12, to a life of extreme promiscuity, prostitution, and over 600 same-sex partners, Carlos spiraled into sex addiction and suicidal despair. After a radical encounter with Jesus through "The Passion of the Christ," years of legalism and failed attempts to change left him empty—until he fully surrendered his life and stopped obsessing over his attractions. What God did next was miraculous. Today Carlos is happily married to a beautiful woman, a proud father of twins (with a third on the way), and living in complete freedom. This isn’t just a testimony—it’s a powerful message about true surrender, identity in Christ, forgiveness, and the renewal of the mind. Watch until the end. Carlos' Book in Spanish (English not yet available): https://www.amazon.com/Inexplicable-Spanish-Carlos-Catari/dp/9804370344 The Becket Cook Show Ep. 239 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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Nick George's life started with the odds stacked against him before he ever had a choice. Born to a teenage mother, abandoned by his father, abused as a child, shuffled through 12 schools, and out of the house at 16 with nowhere to go. He survived on food stamps in a stranger's basement, gave his mom an ultimatum she failed, and made one decision at 18 that changed the entire trajectory of his life: the United States Coast Guard.What followed was 22 years of service, advancing to Chief Petty Officer in nine years, two divorces, the devastating moment he became the father he never had, and the slow, hard climb back to himself through leadership, coaching, and doing the inner work most people avoid.Nick is now a professional leadership coach, a husband, and a father of five. He talks openly about battling depression, what it costs to finally choose your values over security, the identity crisis that hits when you leave the military, and why the life he always wanted is the hardest one he has ever had to learn to receive.Subscribe and leave a review if this one hit you.00:00 Almost Adopted01:05 Podcast Welcome03:15 Nick Today Transition07:01 Values Alignment09:48 Reluctance And Identity15:45 Back To Childhood17:15 Adoption Story Meaning19:47 Abuse And Survival22:44 Faith And Responsibility24:22 Sponsor Break25:49 Family Trauma And Boundaries34:25 Mentors And Coast Guard40:24 Structure And Belonging44:51 Learning Fatherhood46:24 Bids For Connection48:03 First Time Dad Reality52:45 Divorce And Failure Fear59:08 Choosing Balance After Divorce01:02:10 Leadership Coaching Awakening01:07:42 Remarriage Lessons Learned01:14:23 Retiring And Starting Over01:16:45 Veteran Identity And Purpose01:19:41 Civilians Veterans And Empathy01:28:28 Family Legacy Closing01:29:21 Healing In Many Lanes#RelentlessPursuit #NickGeorge #CoastGuard #LeadershipCoaching #GenerationalTrauma #BreakingTheCycle #VeteranStories #MilitareToCivilian #FatherAndSon #MensWork #Resilience #FamilyLegacy #TraumaRecovery #PersonalDevelopment #SelfDevelopment #MindsetShift #Veterans #RealTalk #Authenticity #Podcast

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Sarah Benson, Women's Aid CEO, reacts to the sentencing of former garda Paul Moody, who physically and psychologically abused his former partner.

A former Garda, Paul Moody physically and psychologically abused and terrorised his former partner and the mother of his child in a prolonged, repeated and controlling manner over a number of years, the Dublin Circuit Criminal Court heard today. Our Crime Correspondent Paul Reynolds has more.

Rashida Inez grew up without her father and endured sexual abuse at the hands of her own mother. In this episode of Locked In with Ian Bick, Rashida shares how she believed marriage would be her escape — only to find herself trapped in a violent and abusive relationship with a soldier that lasted for years. She opens up about the cycle of abuse that defined her life, why victims can't simply walk away, the emotional and psychological toll it takes on every part of your life, and how she finally found the strength to survive and rebuild. _____________________________________________ #DomesticViolence #SurvivorStory #TrueCrime _____________________________________________ Connect with Rashida Inez: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rashidainez?_r=1&_t=ZT-95oCy7NsKej Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1DhRyS2jdV/?mibextid=wwXIfr Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealrashidainez?igsh=MTJrMHBvYzU2emU5OQ== Youtube: https://youtube.com/@rashidainez5272?si=kWbGYP0E__rrQNQh X (Twitter): https://x.com/therashidainez?s=21 _____________________________________________ Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ _____________________________________________ Shop Locked In Merch: http://www.ianbick.com/shop _____________________________________________ Timestamps: 00:00 From Abuse Survivor to Starting Over — Rashida's Story 00:17 Growing Up in Phoenix City — Where It All Began 01:48 A Childhood Without Parents — The Absence That Shaped Everything 03:58 The Complicated Relationship With Her Biological Father 07:21 A Toxic Mother Daughter Relationship That Left Deep Scars 10:37 A Lonely and Traumatic Childhood Nobody Knew About 13:00 The Moment the Abuse Was Revealed — And What Happened Next 19:59 The Teenage Years — When the Anger Finally Came Out 22:04 The Dreams She Had and the Barriers That Destroyed Them 24:23 Why She Got Married — And What She Was Really Running From 26:09 The Cycle of Domestic Abuse She Couldn't Escape 29:49 The Breaking Point — What Her Children Witnessed 33:53 The Moment She Started Healing and What Forgiveness Really Looks Like 39:02 The Warning Signs She Missed — And What She Wants You to Know 41:09 Why Abuse Victims Stay — The Truth Nobody Talks About 45:26 How the Military Helped Her Finally Start Over 53:00 Homeless and Rebuilding From Absolute Zero 55:58 The Second Marriage That Finally Gave Her Strength 58:12 Finding Her Voice Through Entrepreneurship and Social Media 59:51 How She Now Helps Other Survivors Find Their Way Out 01:01:28 What She Would Tell Her Younger Self — And Final Thoughts _____________________________________________ To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/LockedInWithIanBicka Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Black people have been the target forever, yet some Blacks are still allowing themselves to be tokens who get used up and tossed aside! There are Blacks who have fallen for colorism and the racial social construct, and they refuse to open their eyes to the truth! Black people have never tried to be superior, but they are a superpower group of people, not of their own doing but designated and designed by God. Blacks were chosen to take the burden because God knew we could handle it! Blacks have always been there since the beginning of time at all four corners of the earth! All people came from Blackness and it's been hidden from the world, but there is enough evidence out there to see the truth if people got out of their own way to reveal the truth! Black people everything has been on your backs but if you just stand up, it changes everything! Lose the slave mentality that has left an imprint, we as Blacks were supposed to learn from it and become better and stronger, not stay there with the same mindsets! Time for a change! Black men and women must understand that they are the target for prison, jail, and the grave! Stop falling for the racial social construct that has been designed for you to fail! You are unique, own it, and walk it! I understand most Black people are not this way (tokens, jealous, envious, etc.), but those who are put a stain on the rest! Stand up, for divided we'll always fall!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

When the Holy Spirit comes into our lives, we receive all of Him into all of us. But did you know that we can abuse Him? He is abused when we suppress Him, quench Him, or subdue Him. Limiting Him to only certain areas of our lives is considered abuse… and a sin. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1141/29?v=20251111

Ryan was 11 years old when it first happened. Home wasn't always a safe place. His mother struggled with alcohol, and there had already been previous trauma from domestic violence. Most mornings, Ryan would climb into her bed, just to feel close to her and to feel some sense of comfort. One morning, her boyfriend was there too. When his mother got up to go to work, she left Ryan alone with him.That's when the abuse began.At the time, Ryan didn't fully understand what was happening. He knew it felt strange, even puzzling. Even more confusing, parts of it felt physically good. That's something some children can experience, and it can lead to overwhelming feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment. This is how child sexual abuse often goes unnoticed. This is why awareness matters.To contact Ryan on Instagram - @wryanw1973Join our YouTube or Patreon Memberships for extra content and early access:Patreon: https://patreon.com/SomethingtoSayYouTube membership: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4HNNfmEdxrGiVKxGNW6zoA/joinTo follow us on social media;Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When the Holy Spirit comes into our lives, we receive all of Him into all of us. But did you know that we can abuse Him? He is abused when we suppress Him, quench Him, or subdue Him. Limiting Him to only certain areas of our lives is considered abuse… and a sin. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/508/29?v=20251111

Love to hear from you; “Send us a Text Message”Unveiling the Hidden Attacks on Family, Faith, and Free SpeechIn this episode, Jack sits down with seasoned investigator and commentator Thomas Hampson to explore the deep-rooted threats to traditional values, free speech, and the integrity of our families. Their candid discussion sheds light on real-world agendas hiding behind laws, organizations, and cultural shifts that compromise our society's foundation.Main Insights:The ongoing attack on moral and cultural foundations, including the influence of organizations like the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC)How laws like the Predator Protection Act and conversion therapy bans suppress free speech and parental rightsThe role of sexual abuse, grooming, and societal confusion in breaking down family unitsThe influence of radical gender ideologies and questionable school curricula on children's innocenceThe importance of courage, conviction, and active participation in defending truth and libertyIllinois HB 5295 and how parental notification, abortion record secrecy, and cross-state travel can create serious blind spots that predators can exploit. If you care about child protection, parental rights, free speech, and practical ways to push back in your local community, this one is for you. Subscribe, share this conversation with a friend, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway or the question you want us to tackle next.Connect and Support Thomas Hampson's Work: Resources & Links:Illinois Family InstituteTruth Alliance FoundationSubstack NewsletterClaymore Milites Christi, The Battle Plan For Young Men Waking Up to the Evils of Our DayJohn Paul II Renewal CenterEmail Jack with questions and comments to answer and discuss on future episodes! jack@ClaymoreMilitesChristi.com. Visit https://claymoremiliteschristi.com/Support the show

PJ talks to Marie-Claire who says in a decent society we need more people to stand up and be an ally of those who are getting physical and verbal abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The British government has for the first time formally acknowledged that a woman abused by the late owner of the luxury London department store, Harrods, was a victim of modern slavery. Rachael Louw was trafficked by the Egyptian businessman, Mohamed al-Fayed, and his brother Salah.Also on the programme, former US officials criticise the Pentagon for not releasing more information about the US attack in Iran that hit a school, and why temperatures are rising faster in Europe than any other part of the world. (Photo: Mohamed Al Fayed, Owner and Chairman of Harrods department store from 1985-2010)

Anthony thought he was doing the decent thing — stopped at the lights on Pearse Street and dropped 50 cent into the cup of an elderly Roma woman begging. Seconds later, an Irish passer-by roared at him: “Don't give her any fucking money… give money to your own!”On this episode, Adrian and Jeremy ask the question: are you encouraging organised begging and scams… or are you just showing basic humanity?Plus, another Opinions Matter travel mug giveaway at the end.

What's up all you stoners! Mr and Mrs Weedman are back with another round of cannabis headline news, reports, research and they share some stoner stories too - in an effort to #StompTheStigma and #FreeThePlant. Their advocacy is intended to educate and entertain consumers, from the most OG Toker all the way to the Day 1 Experimenter.  They share their understanding of cannabis and they break down the barriers and stigmas that the War on Drugs created around this phenomenal plant that's so simple yet so complex.  Before they get into this week's big topics, they get normal - seshing on Broken Lollipop from The Art of Genetics. This week Mr Weedman talks about new data showing CBD can positively impact Alzheimer's disease and he talks about the positive benefits of vaporized cannabis vs traditional combustion.  Mrs Weedman shares an update on cannabis use reducing the need for opioid and sleep aid medications, she delivers a piece about the discovery of the CB1 receptor and the endocannabinoid system, and she covers a perspective on the manipulation of marijuana as a political tool. Thanks for listening, as always hit us up!TWITTER: @weedman420podYouTube: Weedman420 ChroniclesEMAIL:  weedman420chronicles@gmail.comSHOP: www.eightdecades.comIG: @eightdecadesEMAIL: eightdecadesinfo@gmail.comSesh Connect: IG @the_art_of_genetics #CannabisTruth #StompTheStigma #HomeGrow #FreeThePlant #Stoners #rosin  #Potheads #CannabisEducation #CannabisResearch #Weed #Marijuana #LegalizeIt #CannabisNews #CBD #Terpenes #PodcastCannabis #eightdecades #CannabisLifestyle #HealthyLifestyle #NaturalMedicine #CannabisIndustry #PlantMedicine #News #WeedResearch #MedicalMarijuana #Infused #420Podcast #420Education #Health #WeedWellness #WorldNews #Gardening #420Culture #hemp #edibles #weed #gummies  Article Links:* https://www.greenstate.com/health/cbd-shows-promise-for-alzheimers-in-early-study/* https://www.marijuanamoment.net/medical-marijuana-helps-people-stop-using-opioids-sleeping-aids-and-other-prescription-drugs-study-shows/* https://www.marijuanamoment.net/vaporizing-marijuana-reduces-harmful-inhaled-byproducts-by-99-compared-to-joint-smoking-new-study-shows/* https://sechat.com.br/en/noticia/allyn-howlett-and-the-discovery-of-the-cb1-receptor-the-gateway-to-the-endocannabinoid-system?utm_source=flipboard&utm_content=user/ChefJeff314* https://cannabis.net/blog/opinion/cannabis-as-a-political-tool-they-were-never-fighting-a-drug-they-were-fighting-youCOPYRIGHT 2021 WeedMan420Chronicles©Suggestions? Questions? Chat with us here.Support the show

On this Salcedo Storm Podcast:Congressman Brandon Gill represents the 26th congressional DISTRICT IN THE GREAT STATE OF Texas. He's a rising star inside the GOP who uses logic, conservatism and reason to defeat irrational leftist ideas.

A jury found Live Nation and its subsidiary Ticketmaster are a monopoly in violation of federal and state laws. The trial could have implications for both the company and the entertainment industry. States argued Live Nation used its control of ticketing platforms and concert venues to force artists into bad deals and drive up prices for consumers. Amna Nawaz discussed more with Jem Aswad. PBS News is supported by - https://www.pbs.org/newshour/about/funders. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy

EXCLUSIVE: Firerose Flamed - By Her Own Family! Billy Cyrus' Ex-Wife's PARENTS Singe Singer's Claims He Abused HerAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Foreign national nurses in Ireland are now travelling to and from work in groups because of racially motivated abuse on the streets — and Adrian and Jeremy are furious. They react to the INMO warning, ask why so many people are demanding “proof”, and tear into the excuses, the whataboutery, and the “it's just words” attitude. Callers argue back hard: one claims it's exaggerated and “woke”, while others share what they've seen in hospitals and on the streets. Mo, who grew up in Ireland and later left, explains why she'd tell any doctor or nurse of colour: don't come here.

In 2024, domestic violence shelters across the state served nearly 55,000 people who were seeking emergency shelter, court advocacy, therapy and more.

Today's podcast is a reminder for everyone who has been abused that although the reality is that someone abused you, you did NOTHING to make that person treat you so badly. Abusers choose to abuse. Period. www.CynthiaBaileyRug.com

There were signs that things were not right at home for 12-year-old Lori Paige. Not just tiny ones: blazing red flags that followed her all her life. She came to school without shoes. She was hit with a belt in front of her classmates. She cried to friends and teachers, saying she couldn't take the abuse any longer. And then… she vanished. What followed was an investigation that came far too late—one that revealed sexual abuse, violence, and cruelty at the hands of the person who was supposed to care for her most: her father. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lawyer is the author of My Pain Is My Identity, a raw and redemptive memoir tracing his journey from childhood sexual abuse and incarceration to healing, forgiveness, and service. Abused at age seven by a family acquaintance in upstate New York, he spent years battling anger, addiction, and violence—until finding faith, mentorship, and emotional truth while serving time in North Carolina prisons. Now based in Arizona, he runs two businesses—Creative Home Designs LLC and Creative Electrical & Plumbing—and speaks to young men about trauma, accountability, and transformation. His story gives voice to men who've long suffered in silence and reminds us that healing is always possible.In This EpisodeLawyer's websiteIGBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-trauma-therapist--5739761/support.You can learn more about what I do here:The Trauma Therapist Newsletter: celebrates the people and voices in the mental health profession. And it's free! Check it out here: https://bit.ly/4jGBeSa———If you'd like to support The Trauma Therapist Podcast and the work I do you can do that here with a monthly donation of $5, $7, or $10: Donate to The Trauma Therapist Podcast.Click here to join my email list and receive podcast updates and other news.Thank you to our Sponsors:Jane App - use code GUY1MO at https://jane.app

Warning: this episode contains mentions of suicide. The civil rights icon had a history of sexually abusing women and girls, which the Times reporters Manny Fernandez and Sarah Hurtes spent five years investigating. They spoke to “The Daily” about how they uncovered the story.  Guest: Manny Fernandez, an editor at large for The New York Times. Sarah Hurtes, an investigative reporter for The New York Times. Background reading:  Read the investigation by Manny and Sarah into the allegations against Ceasar Chavez. Photo: Barton Silverman/The New York Times For more information on today's episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily. Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday.  Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A Dublin taxi driver from Pakistan, Mohammed “Atti”, went viral after a shocking video showed an Irish passenger roaring abuse at him over the Sunday starting fare of €5.40… an argument over about 60 cent. In this special episode, Adrian and Jeremy speak to Atti exclusively about what really happened before the recording started, why he stayed so calm while being threatened and racially abused, and why he turned back to the pub for CCTV. Atti also opens up about life as a taxi driver in Dublin, the abuse some foreign drivers face, and how tech like recordings and dash cams can keep drivers safer.

Send me a DM here (it doesn't let me respond), OR email me: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.comToday I'm honored to introduce you all to: Ritualistic, religious and child sexual abuse survivor and overcomer, social media whistleblower and content creator, therapist and educator, award winning and renowned fashion designer, founder of Tarese Estelle Couture and Birds With a Feather, plant parent, passionate speaker and writer, and an incredible DID system sharing their story with the intent that others know they aren't alone and that hope is possible: Tarese Estelle & Co Born into the shadows in Sydney, Australia - then carried to the isolated strictures of Queensland, Tarese grew up as the eldest of eight in a world sealed by rigid religious doctrine. Her family believed they were part of ‘the chosen' - only 144,000 souls bound for heaven - while the rest of humanity languished in damnation. No birthdays, no Christmas, no play on the Sabbath; only rules, isolation, and heavy burdens placed on young shoulders. As a child, Tarese carried and took care of her siblings when her mother could not rise from illness, her innocence guarded by dissociation that turned horrors into distant, flickering glimpses she viewed through a wooden fence.Adolescence arrived as a tornado: depression like a suffocating fog, anxiety a relentless storm inside her chest, self-harm escalating to life-threatening extremes, to eating disorders, to further exploitation from the little bit of connection she had to the outside world. At age 14, she ran away, dreaming of escape through the only value she believed she possessed. But light pierced the darkness. In 2009, at 18, Terese stepped through the doors of Destiny Haven - a sanctuary of unconditional love, where volunteers poured their hearts into healing broken women. There, she learned to name her emotions, to face the flashbacks she once dismissed as imagination. Art therapy unveiled truths long buried; sewing awakened a dormant creativity. Birthdays, once forbidden, became celebrations of her existence. She discovered a God of grace, not judgment, and began weaving beauty from pain - transforming fabric into whimsical, ethereal gowns inspired by fairy tales she was never allowed to indulge in as a child.From there, her wings unfolded. She studied fashion design, launched incredible collections, collaborated with other renowned artists, was featured in iconic magazines, dressed icons, and created poignant campaigns. Runway shows, scholarships, ambassadorships - each step a defiant declaration: I am more than my scars.Today, Terese stands as a beacon of hope and light - a warrior whose scars are constellations guiding others home. She advocates fiercely for survivors, sharing her story to shatter stigmas, ignite hope, and prove that healing is not a destination but a courageous, ongoing journey. CONNECT WITH TARESE: Website: https://thehungryaustralien.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thehungryaustralien TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thehungryaustralien Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehungryaustralien Substack (coming soon!): https://substack.com/@tareseestelle Birds with a Feather (sharing stories):YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Birdswithafeather TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@birds.with.a.feather Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birds.with.a.featherCONNECT WITH EMMA:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@imaginationpodcastofficialEMAIL: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.com OR standbysurvivors@protonmail.comSubstack: https://emmakatherine.substack.com/BUY ME A COFFEE: https://www.buymeacoffee.comSupport the show

Send us Fan MailChris Carazas shares how growing up across South America, Africa, and Europe as a “third culture kid” left him socially awkward until an autism diagnosis at 35 finally gave clarity—and then became a doorway to escalating psychological abuse from his mother-in-law and then-wife, including daily suicide encouragement that led to two attempts. After getting treatment with the support of insurance and an understanding boss, he rebuilt, was promoted, and met a partner who accelerated his healing; he began writing a confessional to her that became his book, “Now That I'm Still Here,” but she died while he was writing and he was also laid off after USAID changes. They discuss trauma triggers, “no deadline” for healing, reclaiming life in small moments, stigma around therapy and hospitalization, men's mental health, and how Chris stays alive through therapy, attempt-survivor groups, and caring for his dog, while planning book proceeds to support suicide prevention, autism support, and eating-disorder access. #author #autism https://chriscarazas.comSupport the show

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What happens when seeing your ex derails all your progress? And why do your friends think he's such a great guy when you know the truth?

Dogs like my beagle Lily are being bred for experiments in the U.S. Kept in cages.Used. Abused. Denied sunlight, freedom, play, safety, and love. But there are a brave group of people fighting back. In this episode of Food Heals, I share what happened when Wayne Hsiung and fellow rescuers entered Ridglan Farms in Wisconsin and carried 30 beagles out of a breeding facility tied to animal testing. Some made it to safety. Eight were taken back.  As a beagle mom, this story hit me hard. What Wayne and these rescuers did took extraordinary courage. They refused to look away. They risked everything to expose the truth and bring these dogs into the light.  This episode is about cruelty.But it is also about heroes.About hope.And about how you can help. Listen to hear what happened, why this rescue matters, and what you can do for the beagles still waiting to be saved.  Accounts worth following:@kameronwaters@animalactivismcollective@waynehhsiung@thealexandrapaul@for.petes.sake.official@sexyfitvegan Resources:SaveTheDogs.ioblog.simpleheart.org  Take action by contacting Dane County authorities and urging them to rescue the remaining dogs: (608) 266-4211 ismael.ozanne@da.wi.gov danecoda@da.wi.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send me a DM here (it doesn't let me respond), OR email me: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.comToday I'm honored to introduce you all to: Ritual Abuse, mind control and child sexual abuse survivor and overcover, social media whistleblower, devoted wife and loving mother, content creator and educator, singer and songwriter, and a woman who has made it her mission to educate on and destigmatize RAMCOA and DID and to let every survivor know they aren't alone: Emily Montefusco aka ‘Light System' In the shadowed corridors of generational trauma, where secrets fester like unhealed wounds, emerges the extraordinary story of Emily - a beacon of resilience whose life defies the darkness that sought to define her. Born into a lineage marred by abuse on her father's side, Emily's family tree stretches back through time, tangled in the roots of power and pain. Amid this, her mother hailed from humble, impoverished beginnings, vulnerable and easily swayed by her older husband's manipulations. Raised in a strict religious household, Emily was groomed from infancy to embody piety: attending church, praying at meals and bedtime.Emily's early years painted a facade of normalcy - especially under her mother's care. Yet, beneath this veneer, the storm brewed. Abuse began insidiously as a young child, escalating in a calculated progression of sexual acts that seemed drawn from her father's own unresolved traumas. Sundays became days of dread, nights a trigger for terror. Somatic flashbacks haunted her while holidays unearthed buried horrors. As Emily navigated her formative school and teenage years, the abuse wove itself into the fabric of her existence, fueled by her father's emotional volatility. The programming deepened with progressive acts of violation and these traumas splintered her psyche, creating alters that stored her pain and hid it from her, allowing her to survive and function as a normal child. Abuse spilled beyond home: Airport bathrooms, restaurant stalls, mall backrooms, hotel, and even suspected sites like movie theaters and the Cayman Islands.With over 20,000 follower on TikToks, she openly shares her journey: introducing alters, explaining switching, subsystems, programmed DID through torture-based mind control, and the myths versus realities of DID. Her content emphasizes self-compassion, following triggers to uncover and heal buried memories, daily practices of breaking old patterns, and the truth that compassion and love in sharing stories will not go unnoticed.SIGN EMILY'S PETITION TO HAVE HER FATHER INVESTIGATED: https://c.org/M4K9DHPc55CONNECT WITH EMILY & HER MUSIC:LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/light.systemTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@light.systemYouTube: @emilymontefusco SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/emily-montefuscoSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5fsQtJZZsZTqQfS1rmqT8L?si=T6iOEn6oSdm1X3LNKBpRSACONNECT WITH EMMA:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@imaginationpodcastofficialEMAIL: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.com OR standbysurvivors@protonmail.comMy Substack: https://emmakatherine.substack.com/BUY ME A COFFEE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/theimaginationVENMO: @emmapreneurCASHASupport the show

We're back and talking hardcore. This time around, Jon Westbrook joins Zack and Kev to kick off round one of the 1st wave USHC tournament. You know what that means: Minor Threat, Poison Idea, Negative Approach, The Abused, Antidote, The Fix...basically the best music of all time.There is a massive Substack post with the bracket and all the music embedded so peep that: https://185milessouth.substack.com/Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VKx8Il9GzpYListen to all the 7"s here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjU9NUzv35M&list=PLTelYRGBafdgU5IYL6RLs9ikEM5msUs21Check the website: https://www.185milessouth.com/Support the pod: https://www.patreon.com/185milessouthContact Zack: 185milessouth@gmail.comCheck out Zack's band, SUBVERSIVE INTENT: https://rebirthrecordsphl.bandcamp.com/album/subversive-intent-demoCheck Out Kev's band, FALSE SALVATION:https://rebirthrecordsphl.bandcamp.com/album/false-salvation-through-shards-of-glassIntro: KoroOutro: C.I.A.Support the show

Empathy means understanding how someone else feels. In this episode, I break down why people don't ask for empathy equally. They usually demand it from those they think will give it, and stay quiet around those who won't. I believe empathy is often requested based on leverage, status, and perceived vulnerability. People calculate who feels safe to push and who doesn't. So the conversation isn't just about feelings. It's about power, positioning, and who holds the advantage in the moment. Show Notes: [03:40]#1 Empathy is a mandate from those who expect someone to yield. [14:21]#2 Power determines who gets empathy versus who gets accountability. [20:17]#3 Empathy is a tool used to suspend standards selectively. [24:42]#4 Empathy is almost always enforced downward, never upward. [25:58] Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3221: Why Christianity Is Openly Disrespected [Part 1 of 2] 3222: Why Christianity Is Openly Disrespected [Part 2 of 2] Next Steps: --- Power Presence is not taught. It is enforced. If you are operating in environments where hesitation costs money, authority, or leverage, the Power Presence Mastermind exists as a controlled setting for discipline, execution, and consequence-based decision-making. Details live here: http://PowerPresenceProtocol.com/Mastermind  This Masterclass is the public record of standards. Private enforcement happens elsewhere. All episodes and the complete archive: → WorkOnYourGamePodcast.com 

Since the era of Joseph Stalin, Moscow’s rulers have sent Russian athletes into the Summer and Winter Olympics with one command: you must win. These competitors operated under a "win-at-all-costs" doctrine most notably through the use of "shamateurism." By giving elite hockey stars nominal titles as military officers or factory workers, the USSR bypassed amateur requirements to field seasoned professionals against genuine Western students—a disparity that defined the Cold War sporting era. But the deception went deeper than employment records; it extended into the very biology of the athletes, particularly in high-strength disciplines like weightlifting and powerlifting. Athletes such as Vasily Alekseyev, the super-heavyweight lifter who set 80 world records and weighed 360 pounds, were often the face of a system later revealed to be fueled by state-mandated anabolic steroids Today’s guest is Bruce Berglund, author of “The Moscow Playbook: How Russia Used, Abused, and Transformed Sports in the Hunt for Gold.” We look at the intersection of Russian sports and geopolitical power, from the dominant Soviet teams of past Olympics to recent doping scandals and international sanctions. With new research from Olympic archives, records of the Soviet bloc and current Russian media, Berglund shows how Moscow’s leaders have defied the rules of the game for decades as the world’s governing bodies turned a blind eye.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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MIchael McKee allegedly threatened to kill his ex-wife "numerous times" during and after their marriage. That was just one of the shocking revelations in a new court filing. McKee -- a vascular surgeon -- is charged in the shooting deaths of Spencer and Monique Tepe at their Columbus, Ohio home December 30th. Their two young children were at home at the time of the murders. The new documents detail how Monique Tepe feared her ex-husband for years and how he wanted her to “ always be his wife.”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.