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1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men have been sexually abused or assaulted. Hear survivor stories filled with hope, resiliency, and recovery. You are not alone.

D.J. Burr


    • Mar 29, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 56 EPISODES


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    A Journey to the End

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 7:01


    This is the last episode of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault. It's with a heavy heart that I make this decision. I wish all of my past guests and all of my listeners nothing but love and healing. I know that you will continue to pursue your life goals and continued healing from sexual abuse. You deserve healing. I'll still be around. Email me if you need additional support. Take care. -- D.J. Burr --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    A Journey Out of The Family Secrecy Program w/Janitta Nichols

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 33:58


    In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with Janitta Nichols, former police officer and author of "The Secrets of My Mother." In this book, Janitta explores what she calls "the family secrecy program" and details her harrowing survival from 300 sexual abuse experiences by family members! Janitta is a survivor! Follow and Subscribe to see more of Janitta's journey: Instagram and Youtube. Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    A Journey Forward w/Andre Bisquera

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 36:04


    In this episode of Journey On, DJ welcomes back friend and past guest Andre Bisquera (Previously on S1E6) to get caught up on Andre's quest to right the wrongs of the legal system when it comes to survivors' rights and statutes of limitation for reporting sexual abuse/assault. Andre lives in Hawaii and has amassed a strong following from the survivor community there. His online men's survivor group has grown exponentially in the last year or so. He shares what it's like to see the journey ahead unfold. Follow Andre on Twitter or email him to learn about his group at malesurvivorhi@gmail.com. Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Journey On the Path of Trauma Recovery w/Dr. Matt Jaremko

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 47:02


    On this episode of Journey On, DJ talks with Dr. Matt Jaremko, a clinical psychologist who co-wrote a book with Beth Fehlbaum, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, called Trauma Recovery: Sessions with Dr. Matt, Narratives of Hope and Resilience for Victims with PTSD. Dr. Matt. DJ and Dr. Matt take a deep dive into the roots of trauma and how survivors can navigate the complex healing process. You can view their conversation along with power points on Youtube. Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Journey On Survivors Are Resilient People w/Rick Huttner

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2021 40:32


    On this episode of Journey On, DJ talks with author Rick Huttner. Rick discusses sexual abuse as an infant and a teen, and the impact that has had on his life. He also discusses about the resiliency of survivors. Make sure to check out Rick’s foundation, Resilient People, and his book, Resilient People: A Journey from Abuse to Healing & Love - Available on Amazon. Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    On An Accidental Journey with Dr. Jason Newsome

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 41:38


    On this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with Dr. Jason Newsome, author of Finding Peace In An Imperfect World: Applying God's Principles to Calm Real-Life Chaos, and director of Day Spring Counseling Service in Dunbar, WV. Jason shares about his experience of healing from physical, emotional, and sexual abuse by five different perpetrators. In his private practice, Jason works with both sexual perpetrators and sexual abuse survivors. He talks about forgiveness as a debt, which opens up an enlightening conversation with D.J. that aids in additional healing for him. Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault is hostedby D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega - Follow on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Journey On to Forgive But Never Forget w/Mykahl Battin

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2020 45:26


    In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with fellow podcaster, Mykahl Battin, of the “What If” podcast, about his experience as a male survivor. Mykahl shares about incest, the pain of not being heard, and learning to forgive, but not forget. Follow Mykahl on Twitter @MykahlBat. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Journey On Ruhls of Engagement

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 37:11


    Author Larry Ruhl joins D.J. for another riveting episode of the podcast. Larry discusses his book, Breaking The Ruhls, what it was like to grow up in a home with a mother whom suffered with mental illness, and a father who sexually abused him. Larry maneuvered through his tragedy with relationships, and drugs, but emerged as someone willing and able to survive. Learn more about Larry and his fantastic memoir at www.breakingtheruhls.com. Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault is hostedby D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega - Follow on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Journey On Through A Global Epidemic w/Ben Black

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 46:15


    Journey On is Back! Join D.J. and guest, Ben Black, as they discuss what it means to be survivors of a global epidemic - child sexual abuse! Ben identifies as a queer person who has suffered greatly. He goes in-depth to discuss how he survived being abused within the Catholic church, and how he and others fought back - to be heard and to be seen. Ben discloses that his father is also a child sex abuse survivor, and was also abused by a clergy member. Intergenerational child abuse trauma is real and must be discussed, and addressed. Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse and Assault is hostedby D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist, screenwriter, and author. Check out DJ's linktree: https://linktr.ee/djable for links to books, shows, etc. Each episode of Journey On features real-life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music by: Condewit, Matthew Ortega - Follow on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    Season 3 Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2020 1:12


    D.J. Burr and Journey On are back for Season Three. You'll hear more riveting stories of survival and hope. New episodes premiere Sunday, November 1st.  Music by Condewit, Matthew Ortega www.condewit.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/journeyonpod/support

    "15 Minutes" feat /Evie Warner - S2Bonus2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2017 5:06


    In this mini bonus, D.J. talks with film producer Evie Warner regarding her latest project, "15 Minutes," which highlights male sexual assault. To learn more about the film and Evie, check out her Facebook page.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music  

    "Me Too" and the Journey After - S2E8

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2017 12:47


    In the Season Two finale, D.J. Burr talks about "Me Too" and how he has been impacted since the nation and the world FINALLY began to take notice of the horrendous behaviors committed against female and male survivors. D.J. expresses a myriad of emotions, and details what he plans to do to take care of himself during this tumultious time. He shares recommendations and offers continued support to those still suffering.    Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey Through Sexual Abuse Within a Relationship feat Liz -S2E7

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2017 22:12


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with a friend and colleague, Liz, who reached out to D.J. for help sharing her story of what it was like to be a sexual assault survivor while being in a relationship. Liz talks about an important topic we need to talk more about. Even in a relationship, you have the right to say 'no' or 'not yet' and have your boundaries respected. When that doesn't happen, shame, fear, guilt and anger can destroy you from the inside out. Liz opens up about her self-care practices which help her heal from past abuse.    Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey Off The Record feat Neil Jaffee -S2E6

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2017 29:19


    In this week's episode, D.J. Burr talks with Neil Jaffee, distinguished filmaker and lawyer, about his two documentaries: Off The Record: Justice Denied to Child Sex Abuse Survivors(Best in Show - Rosebud Film Festival) and Pursuit of Truth. Neil and his co-producer, Valerie Gibson, are advocates for survivors and they work tirelessly to educate the public about the injustices survivors endure when coming forward to report their sexual abuse experiences.  Neil talks with D.J. about how to navigate the complex judicial system; how to identify the proper resources to help pursue legal justice, either through criminal or civil prosecution; and some of the additional challenges survivors might face on the road to justice. D.J. and Neil also discuss the recent #Metoo movement.  Check out Off The Record - www.offtherecordfilm.com | Trailer - https://vimeo.com/183590177 | Purchase on Vimeo on Demand Pursuit of Truth - www.pursuitoftruthfilm.com Email Neil/Valerie @ thejustice101@gmail.com    Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    Our Similar Journey feat Author+Advocate Eddie Kedge -S2E5

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2017 44:17


    In this week's episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with sexual assault survivor turned author and advocate, Eddie Kedge. In 1980, Eddie was kidnapped and sexually assaulted by a serial predator. Eddie says he is a "ten percenter", referring to the statistic that only ten percent of those abused are abused by a stranger. Here his inspiring journey.  To Learn more about Eddie, check out his book Song of Highway 1 South: A Boy's Journey Through Abuse, Neglect and Fantastic Sunsets. Find Eddie on Social Media: Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.   Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey On Uncharted Waters feat Dan Quenneville (Alter Pain) - S2E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2017 39:33


        On this week's episode, D.J. talks with author Dan Quennevile, otherwise known as Alter Pain, about his book The Heartest Story Finally Told: Jesus's Glory Divinely Bold. Dan shares what it was like for him growing up; experiencing molestation at a very young age; and living with a man he considered like a father who tormented him emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Grab a copy of Dan's book today! You can email Dan Quenneville at alter@hearteststory.com.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey Through Layers of Trauma feat David Lorenz - S2E3

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2017 51:11


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with David Lorenz, child abuse advocate, member of SNAP (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priest) and male sexual abuse survivor who speaks out regularly about child sexual abuse and statute of limitations which prevent some survivors from coming forward with their truths. David was featured on Netflix's The Keepers as he, and other advocates, voiced concerns about the statue of limitations in the state of Maryland. David says we either need to abolish the statues of limitation or raise them.  Learn more about SNAP and StopItNow, two valuable resources David shared about.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey Toward Self-Compassion feat David Lohman DeVore - S2E2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2017 55:38


    In this week's episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with psychotherapist and life coach David Lohman Devore about his experience as a surivor of childhood sexual abuse. David shares on spiritual abuse, shame, and regaining a sense of self after healing from the deep wounds of his past. David offers compelling insight and inspiring action steps you can take to heal each day. David is currently at life coach in Chicago and can be reached at his website. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram  

    "We could not do this journey without God beside us" feat Nanette & Craig S2Bonus

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2017 15:56


    In this bonus episode, D.J. talks with Nanette Kirsch, author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed, and her husband Craig. Craig provides his perspective as a spouse witnessing the affects of the abuse his wife suffered had on her and their marriage. This intimiate conversation opens up a lot of avenues for further discussion and we hope it gives you, the listener, an opportunity to share how it impacts you.   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755  

    A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part Two

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2017 25:04


    In part-two of the premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her personal experience as a survivor. Nanette states early on in the interview that this is her first time publicly sharing about the emotional and physical abuse she endured in her young life. Nanette also shares how her own story helped her write her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed which she talked about in part-one of this interview. Thank you Nanette for giving us the gift of your journey. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault.   About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

    A Journey Through Denial feat Nanette Kirsch - S2E1 - Part One

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2017 27:38


    In part-one of the two-part premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed. Nanette had the privledge of writting Denial, which is about a dear friend, David Wagner, and his childhood sexual abuse and subsequent struggles with sexual addiction and mental health problems. David unfortunatley took his on life, but Nanette is here to tell what she knows about his journey. Come back on Wednesday, October 4 for Part Two of D.J's interview with Nanette. She will be back to share her personal story of survival. Nanette is offering 15% off Denial for Journey On listeners. You can purchase the book at www.denialbook.com and enter promo code: JourneyOn at check out. Proceeds will benefits organizations supporting survivors of sexual abuse and assault. About D.J. Burr D.J. Burr is a survivor in long-term recovery. He is a psychotherapist practicing in Seattle, WA. D.J. is also the author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict. His mission is to provide support to those who are still suffering and help them understand that they are not alone. You can learn more about D.J. at www.djburr.com. Follow D.J. on social media: Instagram Facebook Twitter Newsletter   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

    "It is about attachment...for reals!" feat Kris Cook

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2017 47:13


    In the season one finale of Making An Addict, D.J. talks with colleague Kristina Cook about her life in recovery and the challenges she faced growing up as a young person looking for validation, support, and love - everything she should have received freely - and how she eventually discovered her inner worth and beauty. As Kris says, "It's about attachment, for reals!" Kristina is a leading therapist in Seattle, WA. Learn more at http://www.fremonthealingarts.com/practitioners.html. Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    Journey On: Season Two Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2017 1:57


    This season on Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, you will hear more inspiring stories of hope, resiliency, and recovery. Men and women are coming together to help one another heal from the abuse and trauma of their past. Our stories are different, but our paths are similar. Join us October 1 for Episode One of Season Two featuring Nanette Kirsch, survivor and author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed.  Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr, abuse survivor, psychotherapist, behavioral addiction specialist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent Sex and Love Addict. D.J. is on a mission to bring healing to survivors who may suffering in silence. Hear our stories and share your own; you are not alone.    Music Ethereal Space (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2011 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/34151 Ft: snowflake

    The Gifts of Addiction and Recovery featuring Christina - S1Ep20

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2017 50:52


    In this week's episode, DJ talks his dear friend, Christina about what it was like to lose her father at a young age, and the neglect she suffered within her family of origin. Christina shares what it's like to be a parent while in recovery; dating in recovery as a healthier person; and not trying to control everything in her life. Christina also gives us a glimpse of what it's like to be in recovery from sex/love addiction.    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    Therapist Danielle DeBray on becoming emotionally intimate with ourselves to fight addiction. S1E19

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2017 65:12


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Seattle therapist Danielle DeBray about emotional intimacy and addiction. In the interview, Danielle references the classic psychological experiment "Rat Park" from 1978, which demonstrated how connectivity beats addiction and she calls for our own "Chimp Park" to beat the various addictions us humans have to other people, places, and things. Danielle is an expert on emotional attachement, atunement, addiction, eating disorders, and a phenomenal group therapist. She has been in the field of counseling for over 23 years. To learn more about Danielle visit her website. Here is a YouTube video on Rat park. Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    Allie Haydon on working with youth in recovery S1E18

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2017 65:20


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Allie Haydon, a licensed chemical dependency counselor, licensed marriage and family therapy associate, who works for Palmer Drug Abuse Program(PDAP) in Houston, Texas. Allie shares her story of alcohol and drug abuse recovery and how her experiences led her to helping youth as young as 12 years old in recovery. Allie says some people considered her a "low bottom/high functioning alcholic," but I think she is a gem for the hard work she does for the youth.  After our interview, Allie and the PDAP family were in one of the worst hurricanes to hit the U.S. Allie reports that everyone is doing well after Hurricane Harvey struck Houston, but donations are appreciated to help youth stay in recovery. You can donate to PDAP directly at http://pdaphouston.org/support/ . Thank you for considering.  Learn more about Allie Haydon on her website. Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    Trauma Therapist Christy Alexander shares on why hurt people hurt people and how to hit F5 and open yourself up for change in recovery. S1E17

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2017 82:42


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with his friend and colleague Christian (Christy) M. Alexander, trauma therapist, about her recovery journey from alcohol and drugs and the impact her addiction has had on her health. Christy opens up about her struggles staying sober while actively working with clients in various mental health settings. With the help of her network, Christy has been able to embrace sobriety and accept the gifts of her own imperfections as gifts to those she treats in her private practice in Federal Way, WA. Learn more about Christy Alexander.  Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    Hypnotherapist/Life Coach Joe Class talks healing the souls of those afflicted by addiction. S1E16

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2017 46:52


    In this week's episode, DJ talks with colleague Joe Class about his experience working with addicts in recovery, and his own journey of recovery. Joe's belief is every one has an addiction to something. He explains that he is a soul healer - empowering clients to get in touch with who they really are and strengthening their own sense of self. We have to heal the hurt beneath addictions.  To lean more about Joe Class, visit his website Flowing Water Healing and read his blog post Everyone's An Addict.  Joe is also on Facebook!   Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/

    "I lost everything, including $200,000 on my addiction, and now I embrace the pain and live for the fight," featuring Chris Duvall - S1E15

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2017 52:01


    In this interview, D.J. interviews his friend in recovery, Christopher DuVall, a recovering substance abuser. Chris tells D.J. about his long history of substance use dating back to the 80s; he once surrounded himself with people who were all about living the fun life and now Chris is back on track and focused on his recovery and education!    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler

    We Must Do Our Own Work First featuring author Troy L Love. S1E14

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2017 50:43


    In this interview, D.J. interviews colleague, Troy L Love, author of Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing from Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betryal and Abuse. Troy talks about the attachment theory of addiction and how lack of attachment leaves people vulnerable to addiction. DJ and Troy, both sex addicts in recovery, talk about how sharing their secrets has helped them heal and provided them the strength to help others.    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler

    Robert Cox on "The Broken Places Are Where the Light Enters You"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2017 62:41


    In today's episode of Making An Addict, D.J. talks with Robert Cox - therapist and host of Mindful Recovery podcast - about filling our broken places with addictive substances to numb the painful experiences we encounter in life. Robert's heart stopped due to his previous drug use and abuse and he says "It scared me straight." Robert talks about the benefit of being mindful and practicing mindfulness. Robert's podcast, Mindful Recovery provides mindfulness resources to trauma survivors and those in addiction recovery. Learn more about Robert and the services his offers at www.liferecoveryconsulting.com   Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler

    Mitch Russo talks curiosity and how his addiction rocked his family in 1970s New York. S1E12

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 60:05


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with successful entrepenuer Mitch Russo about his polysubstance use and abuse, growing up in New York City in the 1970s. Hard drugs led to intensive inpatient drug rehabilitation which saved Mitch's life. Mitch is the author of "This Invisible Organization" which is the CEO's guide to transitioning a traditional brick and mortar company into a fully virtual organization; and, he is a landscape and travel photographer, recognized for his work by the Sierra Club and JETGALA Magazine. Learn more about Mitch and the successful life and career he has had after getting sober!  www.MitchRussoTravels.com. Mitch's consultant/business web site is at www.MitchRusso.com. Mitch's Book site: www.InvisibleOrganization.com Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler

    Addiction disclosure and maintaining a functional relationship. S1E11

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 59:38


    In this week's episode, D.J. has an intimate conversation with his partner, Alan. DJ and Alan talk openly about their individual family addiction history; Alan's older brother's addiction to drugs and subsequent death; and how D.J.'s addiction and recovery affects their relationship.    Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler

    Arlina Allen of ODAAT Chat says "We don't have to suffer." S1E10

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 75:19


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with fellow podcaster and friend in recovery, Arlina of the ODAAT(One Day at a Time) Chat podcast. Arlina Allen speaks openly about her 23 years of sobriety, as well as her years of active addiction to drugs, alcohol, and men. Arlina goes on to share about early childhood abuse; using drugs and alcohol to numb painful emotions; and what it was like living in insanity.  For Arlina, it all came down to a spiritual solution, regardless of the various addictions plaguing her life. She had to start at Step One and fight hard to maintain her sobriety one day at a time.  Arlina and D.J. also talk recovery resources including self-care tips, having chickens in the backyard and using nail art to find solace when thing are feeling overwhelming. Here are some links to resources Arlina shared about in the episode:HeadSpace app for mediation - https://www.headspace.com/Sam Harris - https://www.samharris.org/aboutTara Brach - https://www.tarabrach.com/guided-meditations/Backyard Chicken -https://www.backyardchickens.com/ODAAT Chat Facebook - ​https://www.facebook.com/odaatchat/ Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com   Sponsored by: ABLE Life Recovery - Online Recovery Coaching - Listeners receive 25% off when you select a plan. Visit ableliferecovery.com today.  Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler The Stars Look Different (Ziggy Stardust Mix) by spinningmerkaba (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/jlbrock44/52765 Ft: stefsax and Dimitri Artemenko

    "I'm not valuable enough to take care of. I need to look outward when I need to feel good." S1E9

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 44:58


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Diana about what it was like growing up in a house with five other siblings; addiction being present in her life from an early age; and, what happened when she began to use alcohol and food to numb all the difficult emotions, that she never knew she could talk about. Diana also shares about her work as a suicide prevention advocate, which took her to the White House to speak on the national level. Listen Now! Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler The Stars Look Different (Ziggy Stardust Mix) by spinningmerkaba (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/jlbrock44/52765 Ft: stefsax and Dimitri Artemenko

    "Sign me up for rehab!" S1E7

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 40:25


    In this week's episode, DJ talks with his best friend, Randal, whom he met in the 12-step rooms. Randal's story is unique. He was suffering with depression, substance dependence and signed himself into rehab only to learn he wasn't an "addict" in the traditional sense. Listen as Randal talks about how ancient Eastern philosophy, religion, and psychology helped him understand his "unhealthy attachment" to people, places, and things. Is he really an addict in disguise? Listen NOW! Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler Drops of H2O ( The Filtered Water Treatment ) by J.Lang (c) copyright 2012 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/djlang59/37792 Ft: Airtone www.djburr.com

    Dr. Brummbaugh on "arrested development" and working with the fact that "80% of people who suffer from addiction have suffered from trauma." S1E8

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 54:57


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Dr. Kay Brumbaugh, a licensed psychologist practicing in Humble, Texas. Dr. Brumbaugh shares her experience of working with adult clients suffering from various addictions. You will learn today that it's a complicated process to help clients put down all their armor and begin the recovery process. For those afflicted by the disease of addiction, the addiction has been a source of comfort and support - but it can kill them. Hear D.J. and Dr. Brumbaugh talk in depth about the work that is required for the addict who is still suffering. Learn more about Dr. Brumbaugh at her website.  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler Drops of H2O ( The Filtered Water Treatment ) by J.Lang (c) copyright 2012 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/djlang59/37792 Ft: Airtone www.djburr.com

    Lisa Duez on helping addicts who want help, but don't know how to get it; what it looks like to treat co-occuring disorders(mental health diagnosis/substance abuse). - S1E6

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 39:51


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with fellow therapist, Lisa Duez, of Virginia Beach, Virginia. Lisa works with children and adults in her private practice. She works primarily with women in recovery. D.J. and Lisa talk about the consequences of addiction on families; clients who present due to legal system involvement; and how to educate teens about substance use and abuse. As a therapist, we sometimes just want to tell people to "Stop," but we can't force people to stop addictive behaviors. Listen as Lisa and D.J. talk about what it means for them to be providers and holding space for clients who have to hit bottom before recovery can begin. "If nothing changes, nothing changes." - Courtney C. Stevens Contact: Lisa - Instagram; Facebook; Website Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    Dak Wasson on the short cuts we take to numb difficult emotions. - S1E5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 69:10


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with his colleague, Dak Wasson of MacPherson Pacific Counseling in Seattle, WA. Dak is a chemical dependency professional and sex addiction therapist. Dak talks candidly about being a "mess" in active addiction from drugs, alcohol, and other behaviors. He got so drunk he agreed to inpatient treatment, which saved his life and helped him get to the place in his life where he is now eleven years sober and helping others walk the path of recovery.  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    "I was living on frozen yogurt" because of meth use. Now she is a well-respected addiction therapist! - S1E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 81:15


    In this week's episode, D.J. talks with his good friend and colleague, Anne. Anne is a chemical dependency professional and licensed mental health counselor. Anne shares her deeply personal account of growing up in a dysfunctional family system and finding hard drugs to numb the deep emotional pain. Anne describes what it was like to live a "double life" - a star athlete and a drug abuser - while clinging on for dear life.  Anne's story is moving and inspiring. Hear her experience, strength, and hope today.   Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    Forest Benedict on Life After Lust - S1E3

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 40:00


    In this third episode of Making an Addict, D.J. talks with Forest Benedict, sexual addiction therapist and author of Life After Lust: Stories and Strategies for Sex & Pornography Addiction Recovery. Forest highlights his own recovery journey of surviving living in a home with an alcoholic father and early exposure to pornography. Forest now helps other men fighting the disease of sexual addiction. You can learn more about Forest at www.forestbenedict.com  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    Childhood trauma as a catalyst for any addiction -S1E2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 75:44


    In this episode, D.J. talks with Becca about her experience as an addict in recovery. She shares openly about her struggles with food, compulsive spending and debting. Becca relates her addictive behaviors to early childhood trauma including molestation and her father dying.  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    Steven C. on "It's A Selfish Program" and codependence as the root of all addictions -S1E1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 74:37


    In the premiere episode of Making an Addict, D.J. talks with Steven C., author of It's A Selfish Program: Experience, Strength and Hope for Recovering Addicts and Amends, Apologies and the Myths of Forgiveness: A Guide to the Eighth and Ninth Steps, shares his thoughts and opinions on what makes an addict. Steven talks candidly about his use of drugs, alcohol, and sex to numb difficult feelings from his childhood. Steven also gives us a great working definition of codependency as the root of all addictions.  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler www.djburr.com

    Making An Addict - Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 3:14


    Trailer for the new podcast, Making an Addict, exploring what makes someone an addict. Listen to recovering addicts, their family members, and treatment providers all provide their thoughts and opinions on the subject.  Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, author, and addict in long-term recovery. Learn more at djburr.com   Music  The Stars Look Different (Ziggy Stardust Mix) by spinningmerkaba (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/jlbrock44/52765 Ft: stefsax and Dimitri Artemenko

    Office Mike Steven on providing the necessary support for male victims and survivors. We must #ListenBelieveRespect. S1E10

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2017 37:59


    In the season one finale of Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with Patrol Officer Mike Steven of the Avon and Somerset Constabulary in the U.K. Mike is a strong advocate for male survivors. He is working diligently to increase awareness about male sexual abuse and assault; increase accessibility to services for male survivors, and increase the visibility of the services provided by engaging in a social media campaign aimed at reaching those survivors who have not been able to come forward previously. Listen for the differences in how the US and the UK deliver services and legal protections to survivors. Follow Mike on Twitter @ASPMikeSteven. #ListenBelieveRespect Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram   .

    Earlene talks what it's like to support her son, James, and his battle with the legal system and his own addictions, while coping with her own abuse history. S1E9

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2017 40:01


    Listener discretion is advised.  In this episode, D.J. goes off script a bit to talk with James Reyes' mom, Earlene. James' story of early childhood molestation and subsequent predatory behavior was featured on Episode Eight. Earlene insisted on giving her side of the story, as well as accounts of her experience dealing with various systems which are preventing James from getting the proper care he needs. D.J. offers Earlene the space to dive deep into her own hurt and pain and she recounts what it has been like for her to relive her own battle with sexual abuse as a child; managing her emotions as she fights for her son's rights; and moving toward acceptance of her son's emotional and mental health needs. This episode is truly heartbreaking, yet inspiring.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755 peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram  

    James, survivor of early childhood abuse and sexual offender, shares his story. S1E8

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2017 43:53


    Listener discretion is advised.  In this episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with James Reyes – a 38-year-old from Tennessee. James shares his experience of being abused from 4yrs old to 12 years of age by three different people. James is not only an abuse survivor, he is also a sexual offender. It’s important to talk about James story, because it is one that we generally only hear negatives things about. Sexual predators may also be abuse survivors and their stories need to be told as well. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram   .  

    Ken shares on surviving sexual abuse by his piano teacher and rising above subsequent sexual addiction. S1E7

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2017 55:22


    Listener discretion is advised. In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Ken, a person in long-term recovery from early childhood sexual abuse and sexual addiction. Ken has been a longtime mentor and friend to D.J. He shares his harrowing story of abuse by a trusted adult from his childhood and the subsequent battle with sex addiction that resulted from the early trauma.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram  

    Gino talks surviving incest and reaching out for help via online support groups. S1E6

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2017 43:33


    Listener discretion is advised. D.J. talks with Gino, a 50yr old New Yorker, who was abused by his uncle as a kid. Gino talks about the lasting impact the abuse had on him. He held onto his secret until he was 31 years old and married. Gino used online resources and male survivor communities to move through the pain of his past.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first. Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/43816 Ft: snowflake Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755

    Andre Bisquera, male survivor and advocate, recounts his experience as an incest survivor and the journey he's on standing up for other survivors against a dysfunctional legal system. S1E5

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2017 43:52


    Listener discretion is advised.  In this episode, DJ talks with Andre Bisquera who shares his experience as an incest abuse survivor and the challenges he has faced, as well as the support he provides to those in need. Andre who is working within the legal system to enact change for survivors regarding statute of limitations. Many survivors find that the legal system is unfair and unjust when a survivor decides to pursue legal charges. Andre's story is full of compassion and hope for a new day for survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault.    Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram

    Author Joe Braxton on Still Breathing: How to Regain Your Life After Being Robbed - S1E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2017 44:10


    Listener discretion is advised.  In this episode, D.J. talks with Joe Braxton. Joe is an author and advocate. His new book, Still Breathing: How to Regain Your Life After Being Robbed, chronicles Joe's struggle with realization and acceptance that he is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Joe was groomed by a family friend, someone Joe has known almost his entire life and molested and sexually assaulted him for over 24 years. Joe describes what it has been like for him as he is coming to grips with the reality that the man who molested him, was also a man he fell in love with.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools; reaching out to a friend, seeing your therapist, picking a new time to listen to the show, or even listening with a group of friends. Take care of yourself first.  Music   peaceOut by airtone (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/airtone/43014 Ft: KungFu Sunday by cdk (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/53755   Follow #JourneyON Website Facebook Twitter Newsletter Instagram

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